Your wedding ceremony shouldn't feel like a transaction, a generic script, or a rigid lecture. It is the very threshold of your marriage—a moment that deserves to be warm, deeply personal, and entirely yours.
I’m Todd Rodarmel, an ordained minister and wedding officiant based in Nashville. I specialize in working with modern, values-driven couples who want a ceremony that feels elevated, authentic, and professionally guided.
Many of the couples who hire me are working with Nashville's top wedding planners to design a flawless day. They aren't looking for a highly traditional or overly religious service, yet they deeply appreciate the presence, authority, and warmth of a legitimate pastor to guide them through their vows. My approach is non-judgmental, collaborative, and entirely focused on honoring your unique story and shared values.
Because a beautiful wedding day is only the beginning, I also specialize in structured, modern premarital counseling. Think of it as a meaningful investment in your future—a space to build practical tools for communication, intimacy, and partnership long after the wedding gallery is delivered.
To ensure that I can collaborate closely with your planning team and give your ceremony the meticulous attention it deserves, I accept a limited number of commissions each season.
I partner with you and your creative team to ensure the moment you say "I do" is seamless, stress-free, and deeply memorable. Whether you choose to have me at the rehearsal or not, I work with your planner to ensure everything is well prepared and simple to execute.
Intentional Premarital Counseling: A modern, practical series of private preparation sessions focused on building a resilient, lifelong marriage.
Creative Partner Synergy: Direct, professional coordination with your planner, venue, and DJ/musicians to ensure perfect sound, timing, and flow.
Vow Coaching: Private guidance to help you articulate your promises beautifully and confidently.
Ceremony Styles accommodated:
- Values-Centered & Non-Religious
- Faith-Informed & Spiritual
- Interfaith & Single-Religion
- Traditional & Contemporary
Todd Rodarmel has been happily married since 1988 and he wants you to be too. Todd was a pastor in California for more than 25 years. He now lives in Nashville and loves helping couples get and stay happily married. His wife Traci runs an all inclusive elopement venue at their home in Pegram, Tennessee known as Weddings in the Hollow.