About this vendor
Jessica (Jess) Kuipers is the founder of Onyx and Redwood, a high-end planning and design firm specializing in creative, edgy designs based in Santa Barbara and serving the Central California coastline. Her planning and design approach is to connect and uncover her clients’ stories, personalities and style and to guide, plan and design a wedding day that is uniquely their own.
While her design process is creative and her approach is free-spirited, Jessica’s type-A, fast-talking, straight-forward communication style and 18 years experience in the weddings and events industry gives her clients that peace of mind that the day will run smoothly and that the logistics will be completely taken care of.
Collaboration and deep relationships within her partner network of creative talent (aka, her industry family) give Jessica and her clients that ability to create a completely curated design and experience. She also owns an exclusive line of Heath Ceramic dinnerware rentals, available for her clients as well as her partner network in and around Santa Barbara.
While Santa Barbara and the Central Coast are home to most of her destination events, passports come into play too. Jess has traveled to some of the most incredible places on the planet, from Costa Rica to Rome, Florence and Holland. (See her recent Venice Italy Elopements.) When she’s not traveling the world, she’s inspiring others to travel to California’s Central Coast with custom Santa Barbara getaway itineraries.
In her free time, Jess is out connecting with her industry friends, sipping spritzes, reading up on the latest plant medicines, acquiring a new crystal for the house, or spending time with family, especially her husband, PJ, two kids, Ava and Pieter, and their German Shorthaired Pointer, Live.
Jessica has been featured in the press, including Martha Stewart Weddings, Brides, Green Wedding Shoes, Destination I Do, California Wedding Day among many others.
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Business Attributes
- Woman-owned Business
Destination Weddings
- Destination Wedding Packages
- Destination Wedding Planning
Planning
- Destination Wedding Planning
- Full Service Wedding Planning
Wedding Activities
- Rehearsals & Parties
- Rehearsal Dinner
- Welcome Party
- Wedding
- Rehearsal Dinner
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We couldn't be more thankful for Jess & her team. From start to finish, she made the entire planning process so smooth, fun, and personal. Her planning software kept us organized a...
nd on track and she took the time to really get to know us, making sure every detail of the day reflected our personalities. From the thoughtful little touches to the overall creative vision, she truly knows how to deliver an amazing guest (and couple) experience. On the day of our wedding, she was on top of everything so we didn't have to think or worry about a thing. Beyond her organization and talent, what stood out most was how deeply she cared about us, our families and our day. We're endlessly grateful for her and couldn't recommend her more!
My husband and I were deeply disappointed by the communication and service with Jessica that we could no longer move forward with her.
We reached out to her in March 2020 to have...
her coordinate our wedding and had put down a deposit. Due to the pandemic we immediately had to shift plans and we asked her, the venue and our DJ if they could shift to a 5 year credit which they all agreed to.
Anticipating our 5 year, we reached out to her December 7th 2023 to let her know our intentions of planning our 5 year in 2025. We were able to confirm our venue and our DJ at this time so we felt we should reach out to her as well. With no response, I reached out a week and a half later to check in. She said she was available but had increased her prices. We reached back out same day and didn't hear back a week and a half later and checked in. She had an auto-response that she would be out of office until January 9th. Weird since she never followed up with us beforehand.
We reached back out on the 9th and she responded saying she got the dates wrong and thought it was 2024 and if she was available in 2025 she would be there but otherwise it would be her staff to take over. "If I do not book a wedding on that date, then I would continue as your day-of coordinator." Basically saying if another wedding of higher value doesn't come up she would serve us. This left a bad taste in our mouths.
We responded back the next day, no response. A week later, no response and an auto-message. 2 weeks later and no response until the 26th even though she was actively posting on social media and going out to cocktails on her stories. Her response was that since our event was over a year out, she was spending more time on other large-scale event clients. She then explained that her socials were run by her husband and 14 year old daughter. The only reason I feel that she finally responded was because we told her that if we didn't have some type of response and resolution by 6pm that day that we would share our experience, which she still didn't respond to until 10pm. Her last response was "I'm really sorry you feel that way. I would hope our previous working relationship would have shown my attention to detail and demand for great service for my clients. You unfortunately caught me at a very busy time during, and just after, the holidays." We had no previous working relationship, and if she was referring to our earlier emails that still didn't show her work ethic. Also if she's charging more, wouldn't she have a higher attention to detail now?
I can appreciate being busy, but I would never leave my client hanging and put out an auto-responder message without finishing up a conversation with a client. I would at least send a quick personal email saying, I had got theirs and would respond back as soon as possible. Every luxury planner and vendor we reached out to got back to us within 72 hours, which I find odd she could not manage as we had to wait 16 days+ for responses.
We really wanted to work with someone who was excited to work with us on our special day but it seemed that from the time we booked her until we reached back out for our anniversary event, that our event did not seem aligned with her luxury business values since her contact form is looking at booking events that are $100K plus.
She never apologized other than 'I'm sorry you feel that way'. She didn't even refund our deposit even if it was partial. It was a nightmare trying to get answers from her. She might market herself as luxury, but her service and standard are far from it in our experience. There are far better planners out there and we recommend looking elsewhere.
Jess is truly the best of the best, top tier wedding planner. I didn't realize what full-service planning meant until Jess literally made everything exceptionally easy, fun and mem...
orable. Jess goes the extra mile with literally every detail for the wedding, I don't know how she does it!! I was so bad at the correspondence and easily got overwhelmed by all the tasks at hand, but Jess was right there the whole time, and if I was behind on a task, she would text/call me and then take care of the corresponding with the vendor. This was massive for me, because as a bride planning a wedding all while working full time and planning a move across the country, I relied on Jess for so much and she always had my back and made all the planning x10000 easier than I expected!
Jess is one of those magical people who you just want on your team because she get sh*t done, has fun, and thinks of details you would've never thought of. We got married at my husband's house and had to install literally everything from a outdoor kitchen, bathrooms, electric, sound, and transform a tennis court into a tented venue. This was a massive undertaking, and one that most could not be trusted with...but Jess stayed with us the entire week leading up to the wedding to make sure every layer to the event set up was perfectly crafted. The house was so beautiful and the transformation was unlike anything I've ever seen. The way Jess is able to so effortlessly collaborate with and manage the dozens of vendors working at the house was CEO vibes. She is so calm, but energetic, direct, but empathetic, creative, but strategic. Jess brings it all to the table, and the table is freaking beautiful!! I know everyone involved in the wedding would say the same :) Which also, Jess has the most insanely talented, vetted, fun list of vendors to work with- everyone she recommended was 10/10.
I had mentioned in the passing that it would be fun to incorporate our friend's favorite shots at the wedding, but it seemed challenging because it was a shot of tequila, with clementines and a splash of cinnamon. I had forgotten about it till at the wedding, Jess came on the dance floor serving a platter full of tequila shots, and clementines dusted in cinnamon and was passing them out to all our friends. This was such a highlight because all our friends just flocked to Jess on the dance floor, and it perfectly encapsulated her attention to detail, hard work, and crazy fun loving spirit.
Jess we love you so much!! Working with you has been such a joy, and no one could've made this day more fun and perfect, THANK YOU for going above and beyond with everything!!!! <3 Lexi + Jensen
Jess and the team at Onyx and Redwood are INCREDIBLE. We hired Jess for a full production and she blew us away! She took my vision for our wedding day and blew it out of the water!...
Her creativity is unmatched and she ended up knowing me better than I knew myself. We had a surprise thunderstorm during our wedding and not even that could dampen the fun we had! I would recommend Jess to anyone who wants to push the traditional norms of weddings and wants to truly be themselves on their wedding day without judgement!
I honestly can’t say enough about how wonderful Jess and the team at Onyx & Redwood are. We hired Jess for the full service planning and design of our wedding and welcome party. ...
She went above and beyond our expectations in every way!
She has an outstanding sense of design and her attention to detail is kind of mind blowing. She has a lot of experience working with local vendors and knew just the right combination of people/companies to put together to bring our vision to life. She is great at organizing and coordinating all the moving parts that make up planning a wedding. She's also so much fun to work with, I looked forward to each and every meeting we had whether it was over the phone or in person.
I can truly say that our whole wedding weekend was absolutely flawless thanks to Jess and her team. I don’t know too many brides who can say that and to me that is invaluable!
Jess is the absolute best of the best. We wanted our wedding to be unique, fun, and stress free and that's exactly what Jess gave us. Jess was on top of every detail at all times a...
nd it allowed me to be able to relax and enjoy my wedding without a single worry. She designed everything to perfection and incorporated a lot of details that were very personal to my husband and me, which made the whole experience extra special.
I would recommend her to anyone and everyone.
My husband and I hired Jessica as a full-service wedding planner. We clicked immediately upon meeting and we immediately felt confident that Jessica was the planner for us!
She is...
clearly so experienced at what she does. She was organized, communicative, and is one AMAZING designer. She understood exactly what style we like and made our day truly represent us. It was so beautiful. Her attention to detail sets her apart from the rest! She thought of so many cute little ideas that enhanced the overall vibe of our wedding.
Not only is Jessica an incredible designer, but she also as so supportive to us throughout the process. Weddings seem to come with a lot of drama and Jessica was always there to listen and give advice.
You will not be disappointed hiring Jessica! She is the best!
Jessica was a wonderful help leading up to the big day as well as day of. She relieved a lot of the stress of the details and is knows the ins and outs of weddings like nobody's bu...
siness! Who knew there were so many decisions to make!? Couldn't have done it without her, my husband I are very grateful.
Quite simply, Jessica and her team surpassed our expectations. We chose Bijoux"s "Event Design and Coordination" package because our daughter's wedding and reception venue was uni...
que and had some special challenges. This was the first wedding we have hosted so we had many questions and concerns. It was wonderful to be able to e-mail, text, or call Jessica for advice along the way. I have happy memories of visiting vendors with Jessica and my daughter and then having lunch together. Not only does Jessica have amazing vision, she is FUN!
The wedding day was magical. Jessica and her team (Natalie was great!), handled every detail from dealing with a bee sting, bustling the brides wedding dress, to making sure all the guests were happy and having a good time. As a result, my husband and I totally enjoyed the evening. At one point, I told Jessica,"You were right about Everything!". Jessica even came to the brunch the next day, along with her husband and her two darling children.
A wedding can be stressful or it can be one of the most meaningful and memorable days of your life--a time when old friendships are revisited and new relationships are made. Thanks to Jessica, ours was perfect in every way. If we are lucky enough to have another wedding in our family, Jessica will be the first person we call!
I've honestly never written a negative review, as I generally try to give people/businesses the benefit of the doubt, however in this case I feel the need to warn other brides out ...
there so they don't make the same mistake I did in hiring Bijoux Events.
I don't even know where to start on what a disaster my experience with Bijoux Events. We had had multiple guest and vendor complaints about how rude and aggressive Jessica was. I had to awkwardly apologize on Jessica's behalf to three of the vendors during different parts of the wedding planning process & was genuinely concerned that some of the vendors were going to drop out because of how condescending she was when she spoke to them! I don't know if she doesn't do well under stress or what, but it was honestly plain embarrassing to have SO many guests tell us how rude she was at different points of our weekend weekend.
Beyond personality issues, Jessica and her team totally belly flopped on the day of the wedding ceremony. Long story short, Jessica seemed to go missing during our ceremony and didn't coordinate ANY of it. My cousin literally ended up coordinating the whole ceremony ad-hoc, because Jessica was nowhere to be seen! My cousin had to lead the groom's procession into the ceremony, had to organize the order that people walked down the aisle...everything! It was honestly bizarre and hard to believe that she just straight up didn't do one of her primary jobs for the weekend!
I could go on and on about what a disaster our experience in working with Jessica was. I've been to a large number of weddings, and I've never once seen a wedding planner be rude to guests or completely bail on their responsibilities for the ceremony! At the end of the day there are so many wedding planners in southern California. Save yourself the stress and money and go with someone else who will carry though their responsibilities with reliability, honesty, kindness and professionalism!
LOVED Jessica!!! She was our "month of coordinator" for our Sept 2015 wedding and she was awesome!!! She was super personable, has a great sense of humor and was very responsive, a...
nd very honest and upfront about things which I appreciated. She was incredibly professional and organized. When it came to connecting and meeting at different points in the process, she was very flexible with my schedule (as I was coming from NYC) and overall goes out of her way to try to be of service. Even our family and friends (and wedding party) made comments about how great (and cool) she was doing rehearsals and on the big day. I am so happy to have had her support throughout and I don't know what I would've done without her. I think I need to throw a party in SB again one day just so I can hang with her again!! Seriously, would highly recommend!!! She is the best of the best!
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