About this vendor
Every relationship is unique and every couple is special; I will help you plan a ceremony that reflects who you are as a couple, is sensitive to your wishes and honors the unique aspects of every situation. After an initial phone conversation to introduce ourselves to each other and to learn about each other’s style and approach, we will plan a meeting, in person or virtually, to explore your vision for your ceremony, to begin identifying customs and rituals you want to include, adapt or leave behind. I officiate at Jewish, Interfaith, Bi-racial and LGBTQ weddings and I have experience combining religions and other heritages and working with other clergy. Once you decide to work with me, I am available to you via phone, text, email, facetime and meeting in person so we can continue to get to know each other. Your wedding ceremony will be the beautiful, fun, poignant, meaningful and personal moment you want it to be.
Details
Business Attributes
- Woman-owned Business
Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
- Second Wedding
- Vow Renewal Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
- Interfaith
- Jewish
- Reform
- Secular
- Spiritual
Wedding Activities
- Wedding
- Ceremony
Awards and Affiliations
2021 'Best of Weddings'
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Stacy was an incredible partner to us as we planned an interfaith wedding. I am Jewish and my husband is not. While we wanted a Jewish wedding and rites, we also wanted our wedding...
to be inclusive to non Jewish guests and family to understand the elements in our ceremony. Stacy helped us find a biblical wedding reading that was not patriarchal. She also helped us incorporate a Mexican wedding tradition to honor the bride’s heritage (the lazo) and gave us great advice in constructing our vows. Most important to us, Stacy gave us flexibility in the ketubah to honor our siblings and craft our ketubah from our own hearts. Stacy was highly communicative and met with us several times. Our ceremony was deeply personal to us and still honored Jewish tradition lovingly and spiritually. We couldn’t have been happier to have Stacy with us on our day and our guests were all enthralled with her poise, level of detail, and expediency.
We could not have chosen a more perfect Rabbi to officiate our wedding in March. Rabbi Stacy met with us multiple times before our ceremony to get to know us. She made sure we were...
comfortable with the process and was very flexible with the format of the ceremony. The questions she has us answer about each other were thought-provoking and she did an amazing job of weaving them into her remarks. She put us at ease the day of our wedding and was welcoming with our guests. We cannot recommend her enough.
-Marni and Dustin
Rabbi Stacy was a huge hit at our wedding in October 2021. We are not particularly religious, but wanted to have a very basic Jewish ceremony. We hoped for a rabbi who felt perso...
nal and interested in us as a couple, but not overly religious. Rabbi Stacy fit the bill! She met with us twice in person (outside), and also had multiple phone calls with us to discuss and personalize the ceremony. She was flexible, funny, reliable, and a pleasure to work with. The actual ceremony was perfect - the right mix of poignant, personal, humorous, and traditional. We spent most of the cocktail hour just after the ceremony listening to guest rave about the beautiful ceremony. We'd highly recommend Rabbi Stacy! (also, she is a strong awesome yoga teacher!)
Rabbi Stacy officiated our wedding in October 2021. Although we met during the Covid-19 pandemic, Rabbi Stacy was very engaging and personable, she took the time to get to know us ...
over facetimes and zooms throughout the year leading up to our wedding. She helped us create a personalized and meaningful ceremony that included everything that was important to us as a couple. We can’t recommend her enough!
Rabbi Stacy officiated our wedding in May 2019. She was warm, friendly, easy to get to know, and listened to what we wanted our ceremony to include. Rabbi Stacy got to know us thr...
ough in person meetings and a questionnaire. The ceremony she wrote was exactly what we were looking for - personal, not too long, and with just the right amount of tradition. We couldn't have been happier with Rabbi Stacy!
Rabbi Stacy officiated my wedding, and I HIGHLY recommend her to others. We did not know Rabbi Stacy personally at the start, but she took the time to get to know my (now) husband ...
and I and our families and understood what was most important to us for our ceremony. She was patient and answered our questions any time we asked. She also checked in as needed (like reminding us to get our Ketubah!!).
Our ceremony was so beautiful and so meaningful to us. Months later, people continue to comment on how beautiful our Rabbi's speech at our ceremony was. I can't recommend her enough!
Rabbi Stacy is thoughtful, warm and caring. She officiated our wedding and our daughter's Bat Mitzvah; she personalized services that were both inspiring and meaningful and helped...
create wonderful memories for our family. Thank you, Rabbi Stacy!!!!
We feel so lucky to have found someone like Rabbi Stacy to officiate our wedding. Neither my husband or I grew up in a temple so the first thing we though of when we got engaged is...
" how are we going to find a rabbi to marry us?". From the beginning, Stacy was so patient with us, explaining everything we needed to know about a Jewish wedding. She answered every single question we had almost immediately after emailing her. Rabbi Stacy's ceremony was beautiful and so meaningful to us. I would recommend her to anyone!
Rabbi Stacy did our four kids’ Bar and Bat Mitzvahs and was absolutely amazing. Posting on the knot —- I’m hoping she’ll do their weddings one day! Rabbi Stacy is so special, ta...
lented, and really listens to what her clients are looking for. She made our experience so memorable and meaningful.
Rabbi Stacy performed Bar & Bat Mitzvah services for my son & daughter. She totally understands kids learning at different paces and adapted her services accordingly. She is kind, ...
patient and incredibly professional. I highly recommend Rabbi Stacy for any ceremony, she's awesome!
Rabbi Stacy was the officiant for our wedding, and she did a beautiful job! She co-officiated our interfaith LGBT wedding, which was a task we were very careful in picking our offi...
ciants for. She crafted the most beautiful and personal ceremony we could have asked for, and was extremely interested in what we wanted to include and in learning about who we are as a couple. She made the ceremony everything we could have ever wanted!
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Brooklyn, NY | NYC, Northern NJ, Westchester, CT
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