Custom-crafted, Spiritually Grounded Weddings
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Whether you prefer a secular tone or consider yourselves spiritual but not religious, I bring grace, humor and depth to our work together. Every ceremony that I create (with you) is personal, conveying as much of your story as you wish so that your guests experience the magic of your marriage.
When you you choose me, you're choosing not only a warm, supportive officiant, but also an experienced professional who brings sensitivity to her craft. I have a nuanced understanding of of interfaith ceremonies, and of navigating religious differences.
As a strong ally of the LGBTQ community, I'm not a match for couples who wish to refer to marriage as belonging exclusively between a man and a woman. (Also, I don't believe in "giving the bride away"!).
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Erika
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I love my couples, and I love the collaborative process of working with them to make their wedding day a gloriously memorable one.
I've been a Unitarian Universalist minister since 2001, when I officiated at my first wedding. Since then, I've created and officiated at over 300 wedding ceremonies.
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Erika is highly praised as an officiant for weddings, with reviewers highlighting her warmth, kindness, and professionalism. She is commended for personalizing ceremonies, being open and understanding, and providing excellent communication throughout the planning process. Reviewers express gratitude for Erika's public speaking skills, organizational abilities, and ability to create ceremonies that are deeply meaningful and personalized. Many guests also appreciated her engaging and authentic presence during ceremonies, making Erika a top choice for couples seeking a dedicated and caring officiant for their special day.Review photos
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Addison W
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5.0
9/24/2024
Rev. Erika and the beautiful ceremony she lovingly orchestrated for us set the tone of our entire wedding day and reception! My wife and I both agree that hiring her was THE BEST investment we made in our wedding. She patiently and gently guided us through the process of weaving personal details into our ceremony, offering an amazing scaffolding of language and ideas that felt reflective of our story. When we arrived at the rehearsal frantic and overwhelmed, she took control and gave us permission to relax as she wrangled our bridal party into order. She brought experience and order to our wedding, as well as depth, meaning and a sense of calm that made all the difference to us. She even managed to work in a ceremony within the ceremony that involved exchanging bites of my wife’s family heirloom tomato (so special and personal to us!). For the rest of the night and weekend, our guests would not stop talking about how much they loved Erika and our ceremony. Everyone noted the ceremony as their favorite part of the day and we both agree wholeheartedly! We were so fortunate to have the incredible Rev. Erika and her big-hearted initiation into married life! We’ll think of her with love and gratitude every time we think of that day!
response 09/27/2024
Thank you, Addison & Ana! 💞 You two are a ray of light in the world, and it was a joyful ...
privilege to be your officiant. I appreciate your kind words… And my flower crown is still hanging up on my wall! I can’t wait to watch you both flourish in all the years to come.
5.0
4/15/2025
We are incredibly grateful we had the opportunity to partner with Erika on our wedding ceremony. She is a warm, kind, thoughtful person who helped us craft a ceremony that was very meaningful to us. She was also incredibly generous and flexible with her time to accommodate some logistical challenges. We highly recommend including Erika in your special day!
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Jess P
5.0
11/05/2024
Having Erika as the officiant of our wedding was a blessing to us and we are so grateful to have had her marry us. She clearly is the best person I or anyone in my family has had officiate a wedding ceremony.
Erika took time to get to know my husband and I as a couple. This especially came through in the ceremony as she was able to personalize it to us specifically and it made a very deep impact on all of our friends and family. She gave us a wide array of options of what to say and different ways of wording. Because of this we were able to build a ceremony that was very meaningful to us and our families. Erika was also very open and understanding and I know she is to everyone else she officiates.
Erika always is present and connecting with you when you are meeting (whether online or face to face) and was always very clear and concise. She responded to any of our messages or emails promptly and always gave us plenty of heads up. On top of this, she is an excellent public speaker and this made her role in the ceremony that much better.
Erika is a wonderful person and if you are looking for someone to officiate your wedding, she is the best. She was always kind and compassionate and even gave us great tips for getting through the nerves of the moment. Seriously I know it seems like we are gushing, but I truly mean it.
Cora L
5.0
10/27/2024
Erika is absolutely amazing to work with, and we cannot thank her enough for being a part of our day! She officiated our small wedding in Acadia National Park earlier this month, and we absolutely loved working with her. She was always easy to communicate with and crafted a ceremony that felt very us, which was one less thing to stress about that day.
As soon as we confirmed with Erika, she made the process so easy by sending over a packet with lots of options to build the ceremony. She listened to all our questions and was very patient with us as we developed what we wanted the morning to look like. Our families had nothing but great things to say about Erika, including that they could really tell how much Erika cared about us and the ceremony.
Highly recommend her! Thank you Erika!
Amy B
5.0
10/23/2024
Erika was absolutely the best. Her attention to detail and care made us both at ease. Erika's energy was so positive and her enthusiasm really made us excited for our special day. Everything from start to finish was beautiful. The ceremony was full of love and positive energy. Everyone there could feel it. Erika is truly one of a kind and we are so glad we found her. 😘😘
Kayla B
5.0
10/21/2024
When planning our wedding, we wanted a small wedding and a personal, intimate ceremony. We considered asking a friend to officiate and we are so glad we decided to go with Erika instead. She is a true professional, and it showed every step of the way. From her planning calls to get to know us, to detailed check ins ahead of the big day, she was always in communication with us. She knew exactly what suggestions to make, thinking of logistics and things we hadn’t even considered. When we had to postpone our wedding last minute, she was so helpful and willing to make last minute changes to make sure we still had our ceremony. We are so grateful to Erika- the ceremony she wrote for us was so perfectly thoughtful and personal and better than we could have imagined! Thank you Erika!!
Rachel P
5.0
10/14/2024
Reverend Erika was a joy to work with and we feel so lucky she was the officiant at our wedding. She was organized and thoughtful throughout the entire planning process. We loved meeting with her before the wedding as she got to know us better. Erika ran a seamless rehearsal. She helped us structure our ceremony to keep everything running smoothly, which helped ease our nerves. She was also such a calming presence to have next to us at the rehearsal and during the wedding ceremony. She was so kind to our families and friends. She wrote such a beautiful ceremony for us and was an incredibly engaging speaker. We had so many compliments on our ceremony and many people wondered if we had known Erika our whole lives. Our ceremony was unbelievably magical and it's all thanks to Erika. We HIGHLY recommend working with Erika for your wedding or other special event.
Bridget H
5.0
9/14/2024
Erika was an absolute joy to work with throughout our wedding ceremony planning process!
Erika offered us support, guidance and (when asked) useful suggestions/feedback :)
It was tremendously helpful to work with a seasoned ceremony officiant as Erika was able to answer our many questions.
We felt at ease with Erika who honored the vision we had for our ceremony while adding touches of light heartedness and humor.
Our wedding guests raved about our ceremony and officiant. Many of our guests commented that Erika spoke enthusiastically but with authenticity.
Thank you Erika for making our oh-so-special wedding day even more beautiful!
response 09/27/2024
Thank you so much, Bridget! I’m so glad that you and T. (and your guests) enjoyed the cere...
mony. I wish you all happiness and I thank you again.
Anna R
5.0
8/10/2024
We had the absolute pleasure of having Erika as our officiant for our wedding, and we couldn't be happier with our experience. From our first meeting, she made us feel comfortable and worked to understand our vision for the ceremony. Erika has a true gift for crafting a ceremony that feels personal, heartfelt, and completely unique to the couple.
Many of our guests told us how beautiful and meaningful the ceremony was, and we wholeheartedly agree! She brought such warmth, sincerity, and a touch of humor to the day, making it a perfect reflection of us as a couple.
Erika was also incredibly organized and professional throughout the entire process. She took care of everything, including promptly mailing our marriage license.
We highly recommend Erika to anyone looking for an officiant who will create a memorable and personalized ceremony. Thank you, Erika, for being such an important part of our special day!
Katelyn L
5.0
7/29/2024
We're so grateful we had Erika as our officiant and can't say enough good things about her! She is gracious, kind, warm, and has the best energy that fully envelops you - whether you're on a virtual planning call or standing next to each other during your wedding ceremony.
Our guests all LOVED her and raved about the ceremony (which says a lot since it was also what was separating them for an open bar & food!) It even left a mark on the kids... a few weeks after the wedding our nieces asked us about how cooking with the salt (from the ceremony) had been going. We were so surprised they had paid enough attention to remember that, but it just highlights how engaging and memorable Erika is.
It also wasn't just the wedding day itself that she excelled at, but perhaps just as importantly, the weeks leading up to it as well. We had a whirlwind planning process and reached out to Erika just 3 weeks before our wedding. She graciously accepted the challenge and we never felt anything but support and partnership from her: whether it was editing down our favorite lines about love from rambling Alan Watt's speeches on YouTube, or helping to think through logistical questions that we wouldn't have even known to ask about but were so thankful she brought up.
We knew we were in such good hands with Erika as soon as we booked her, but she proved that true over and over again. It's so clear how much she cares and she goes above and beyond (even for couples who have less than ideal timelines but high hopes!). We loved our ceremony and would absolutely recommend her.
Thanks again for everything Erika!
Kyle M
5.0
7/22/2024
Rev. Erika officiated our wedding this July and she was absolutely fantastic!!!!
She was such a joy to work with on an officiant level and on a personal level. My husband Rob and I met Erika about 3 months ago via a zoom call and we instantly connected. We found Rev. Erika on The Knot because we were looking for an experienced officiant that was used to working with LGBTQ+ couples and we could not have found a better person. She worked very closely with us for those 3 months to ensure our ceremony was as perfect as it could be. We didn't know what to expect, as this is both our only time getting married, but she made the process fun and had us involved in the entire planning out of the ceremony.
She had some really fun ideas for our ceremony. We wanted to pay homage to our loved ones who have passed, and to those who have made gay marriage legal for us.
Rev. Erika helped us plan a ring warming part of our ceremony where our wedding bands were passed around the guests and each guest was allowed to hold the rings and put their best wishes, prayers, and intentions into the wedding bands. This was so special. Now my husband and I constantly fist bump our rings together because it feels like our rings have super powers :).
We also worked with Erika to plan a hand fasting portion of the ceremony where she told our love story through questions each of us answered to her in secret laying cords over our hands as she told the story and she literally "tied the knot" around our hands into the shape of an infinity sign which we plan to frame in a shadow box for our future home.
Just to brag on her a little bit more, Rob and I both feel like our wedding ceremony was the best one we have ever attended - which is great because it was our own. We are not the only ones who felt this way. Over the course of our reception night almost every single one of our guests told us our Rev. Erika was the best wedding officiant they have ever heard give a ceremony. We feel so lucky to have met her and to be able to now call her our friend.
We can not recommend her enough. If you are an LGBTQ+ person or an ally she is the best person you could ever work with to plan out your ceremony. She takes her time to provide you with a ceremony this is so special and uniquely "'you". Her words were extremely powerful as if they were the words of the divine themself. Not a dry eye in the room afterwards. But all happy tears. :)
Thank you again Erika for everything you did for us. It meant the world.
<3 Kyle + Rob
Jessica W
5.0
5/23/2024
Rev. Erika is simply fantastic as an officiant! Throughout the ceremony planning process, she guided us with patience, walking us through all the options and choices to craft a ceremony that suited our needs as a couple. On the day my husband and I eloped, Erika surpassed all expectations. Her voice resonated with love, positive energy, and happiness, helping my husband and I be present and grounding us to each other. She also made our family members, who could not attend, feel included in our special day.
In addition to making the ceremony special, she guided us through the paperwork process and even went as far as driving all the way back to the clerk's office (it was very far) to hand it in in person.
We wholeheartedly recommend Rev. Erika Hewitt to officiate your wedding. Having her lead our ceremony is a memory we will forever cherish, thanks to the unforgettable moments she created. We are immensely grateful to have had Erika unite us in marriage!
response 06/06/2024
Thank you, Jessica! I appreciate your kind words, and I'm wishing you & Rob ALL the love a...
nd many adventures together!
Matthew G
5.0
2/25/2024
We eloped with Erika as our officiant and I couldn't say enough good things about her. She is a true professional who was focused on us and our journey. She was flexible when needed and advocated for both me and my wife. She met with us several times leading up to our ceremony to help us form our experience which was thoughtful and helpful. I highly recommend Erika for your wedding. She was perfect.
Katie G
5.0
1/27/2024
Rev. Erika is a fantastic and amazing officiant! She is very kind, caring, professional, timely, organized, and gives you a sense of confidence, where you don’t have to worry or stress. She helped guide us through the ceremony planning process by walking us through all the options and choices to help make the perfect, personalized ceremony for us.
On the day of our wedding Erika truly delivered! There is so much love, positive energy, and happiness in her voice that everyone was so moved and engaged during the entire ceremony. She really made all those there feel so included in our special day. We had so many guests remark on what an amazing job Erika did as our officiant and how our ceremony was their favorite part. Guests even asked how long we had known Erika, because it seemed like she knew us so well we must have known her for years. This is a testament to how hard she worked, and the amount of time she put in before the wedding, meeting with us, and learning about our relationship and our story.
Without a doubt, we would highly recommend Rev Erika Hewitt to be your officiant and be a part of your wedding day! Having Erika perform our ceremony will be something we will always cherish and provide memories that will last a lifetime. We are so grateful we were able to have Erika marry us!
Elizabeth L
5.0
11/22/2023
From the very first meeting it was abundantly clear to us that Erika was exactly who we wanted to officiate our ceremony. Immediately there was a sense of joy and ease as she began to ask us questions about ourselves, about our story, and if we had any thoughts about what we wanted the ceremony to look like and feel like. At the end of the first meeting she laid out the roadmap of what our time together would look like as well as expectations she had for us and the work we would be accomplishing with her guidance. This kind of clear, compassionate, and open communication is one of the many amazing qualities Erika brings to the couples she works with as they prepare for the big day. Throughout the process Erika kept the lines of communication clear and flowing. Each step of the way she made sure that every decision from the vows right down to making sure the individual words used reflected us. Working in this way made it so our ceremony really felt special and like something we were looking forward to rather than a hurdle to get over before the rest of the evening could unfold.
When it came closer to game day, the rehearsal couldn’t have gone any better. Push any worries about chaotic gatherings where it’s super stressful and you leave needing to lie down somewhere quiet. Our rehearsal was genuinely the most organized and calm one I (the bride) have ever been to. This is 100% because of how Erika clearly communicated her expectations for everyone in attendance right at the very beginning so we all knew our roles and what was needed from us in the moment. Honestly, the rehearsal was full of joy and laughter rather than stressful and overwhelming.
Day of the wedding it was raining so we had to use a secondary location for the ceremony. All of the work we did with Erika leading up to this point made it so we didn’t really even have to think about the ceremony, how it would go, or if everyone knew their roles. Erika made sure we had point people for our rings and our handfasting ribbons who she checked in with before the ceremony. We ended up having some technical issues with the microphone and speakers we provided but you wouldn’t have known that by the way Erika navigated through that unexpected challenge. As soon as the ceremony started and Erika began with the welcome and calling to hold space we immediately felt all of the work we had done with Erika come to bountiful fruition and the ceremony was beyond what we could have dreamed. We loved that she took the time to get to know us as individuals as well as a couple to craft two sections during the ceremony telling the story of our engagement as well as our story as a partnership. This was an element that literally every single one of our guests said made them feel like they had been included in our story in such a beautiful and meaningful way. It felt even more important as this was the first time a lot of our most important people were meeting one another so by including these elements Erika, with skill and grace, immediately made everyone feel like they had access to our dynamic in a meaningful way. The pacing of the ceremony was so intentional, allowing for moments of reflection as well as community joy all facilitated by Erika.
We utterly adore her and hold her very closely to our hearts. We cannot recommend Erika highly enough, here is a person who radiates joy, love, and a centering energy that will without fail make your ceremony one that reflects you as a couple.
anonymous u
5.0
10/29/2023
Rev Erika was amazing! She incorporated our stories together and a ceremony memorable that we are being told it was one of the best ceremonies people have been to.
Leah M
5.0
10/24/2023
Erika was an absolutely wonderful officiant! Our friends and family raved about the ceremony. Some even thought Erika knew us personally based on how well she spoke about us. Erika was incredibly helpful and friendly throughout the planning process as well. She was easy to work with and made crafting the ceremony stress-free.
Kaley S
5.0
10/23/2023
We had such a wonderful experience with Rev. Erika Hewitt officiating our wedding! She worked so closely with us to craft the perfect ceremony that felt personal, thoughtful, and sentimental. She does a great job working with couples and figuring out what is important for them to include in their ceremonies and I couldn't have asked for a better guiding hand. If you are looking for someone to officiate for you you absolutely will not be disappointed if you choose Erika. She helped us feel so at ease up at the alter and I couldn't have asked for a better day. She also did a great job rolling with the punches of our 3 year old ring bearer and 4 year old flower girl :) I would absolutely recommend her services!
Josh E
5.0
10/11/2023
Wow! A++
We had Erika officiate our elopement wedding ceremony, write our personalized wedding script, and help coordinate the day of. She was truly a joy to work with. Erika provides an extremely professional yet humanized and personalized experience. We live out of state and Erika made sure to have regular video and email check-ins on our schedule to ensure we were comfortable with the ceremony plan. The wedding script was very collaborative, with Erika giving choices for sections and allowing us to choose and edit as needed. On the day of, Erika performed the service beautifully, and even included some thoughtful surprises. I'd highly recommend Erika!
Jim A
5.0
10/01/2023
From our first video phone call to our final “I do’s” Erika made our entire wedding experience truly amazing. She is filled with kindness, compassion and empathy, but she is also assertive when necessary to make sure that the process keeps moving forward efficiently. Erika made our wedding ceremony a powerfully emotional and unforgettable experience. She has an amazing gift of drawing everyone into the moment and making the ceremony relevant and meaningful for everyone present. So many people after the ceremony shared with us how touched they were by Erika’s ability to connect with them. We are so grateful for Erika and know that she will continue to inspire others like us in the future.
Kathleen O
5.0
9/11/2023
Where do I even begin with our experience with Erika? We knew right from our first virtual call that Erika was going to bring energy, authenticity, and peace of mind to our wedding ceremony. She is professional, kind, coordinated, enthusiastic, reassuring, and a true light. She without a doubt took our wedding ceremony to the next level and she did so with ease. Here is a sample of what some of our guests had to say: Erika is “amazing”, “engaging”, “enthusiastic”, “very smooth and organized”, “I was very, very very impressed”, “Erika was such a great choice”, “so organized”, “I want to hire her myself!”, “She is even more than an officiant”. You will not regret hiring Erika, and you should do so promptly and with confidence that she will provide expert guidance to craft a ceremony even more special than you could possibly imagine.
Kathleen S
5.0
8/21/2023
Ah where to begin! Erika was such a joy to work with! She eased many of our anxieties and walked us through the whole wedding ceremony process. She was always prompt in answering our many emails. She took the time out of her busy life to meet with us through numerous zoom calls. During these calls she took the time to truly get to know us in order create a ceremony that was curated for us. Our friends and family loved her and how personal, enjoyable, and beautiful she made our ceremony. At rehearsal she did not rush through any of the details. She took the time to thoroughly go through each aspect in order for us to feel fully prepared for the big day! She also was able to manage our very large (and very rowdy) wedding party, which was no easy feat!
We absolutely can not recommend Erika enough! She made the whole process easy, enjoyable and way way less daunting! By the end of our meetings with Erika, it did not feel like a stranger was marrying us, instead it felt like a close friend. Our ceremony was our favorite part of the wedding (as it should be!) and that truly is thanks to Erika.
Haley F
5.0
8/13/2023
Rev. Erika Hewitt was amazing! Our guests are still commenting on how wonderful the ceremony was. We had debated having a friend officiate but are so glad we worked with Erika! She crafted a ceremony that had the familiarity of a friend but the delivery of a professional. Erika met with us multiple times leading up to the big day to get to know us, which enabled her to create a truly personal and inclusive ceremony. She provided wording options for different parts of the program, and even drafted specific lines to fit us perfectly. We decided to include a salt ceremony, which Erika introduced to us, and we felt it was a special part of the day! Erika ran the rehearsal, performed a beautiful ceremony, and ensured the marriage license was properly signed and submitted. She was instrumental to us enjoying the day without worrying about the details!
Hannah Z
5.0
7/29/2023
We were incredibly fortunate to have Erika as the officiant for our wedding ceremony on 07/23/2023 at the enchanting Village By The Sea. From the very beginning on a Zoom call, Erika exuded a warmth that instantly made us feel comfortable and at ease (we knew she was the one right away!). She proved to be not just a talented officiant but a true ally in crafting a ceremony that was uniquely "us." One of the first things that impressed us about Erika was her deep respect for our personal choices regarding our wedding. She took the time to understand what was important to us, and she graciously and thoughtfully incorporated those elements into the ceremony, while gracefully and tactfully respecting our desire to keep other elements private. Her ability to strike this balance was truly commendable and allowed us to fully embrace the significance of the day.
Throughout the entire planning process, Erika was an absolute dream to work with. Her communication was impeccable, and she made every effort to make the planning process as easy and stress-free as possible. Whether it was promptly responding to our emails or answering our questions with patience and clarity, Erika's professionalism and genuine care for our special day shone through.When the wedding day finally arrived, Erika's presence brought a sense of joy and tranquility to the entire event. Her ability to engage the guests during the ceremony was remarkable, and she expertly weaved together the threads of our love story, making the ceremony feel intimate and personal. It was as if she had been a dear friend we had known for years, rather than someone we had only recently met. Erika's words during the ceremony were nothing short of magical. She struck a perfect balance between adding her unique touch and staying true to the essence of who we are as a couple. The ceremony felt deeply meaningful, special, and warm, leaving us and our guests with cherished memories that will last a lifetime. In summary, Erika is an exceptional wedding officiant who brings her heart and soul into her work. She not only made our day unforgettable but also helped us create a ceremony that felt grounded in love and authenticity. If you're looking for an officiant who will go above and beyond to make your wedding day extraordinary, we wholeheartedly recommend Erika. Thank you, Erika, for being a part of our love story and making our day truly magical!
Emily D
5.0
6/24/2023
Erika came highly recommended to us by our ceremony venue in Portland, ME so we immediately reached out to her. She was very responsive and after meeting her, we knew she would be perfect to work with! Over the course of the year, Erika scheduled regular check-ins to keep us on track. Her approach made planning the ceremony easy and stress-free and she really took the time to get to know us as we met virtually. She thought of so many details that never would have crossed our minds. All of the planning led up to a beautiful weekend! She was a joy to work with during our rehearsal - taking the time to get to know our families. And, on the day of she was such a calming presence. She texted us that morning to let us know she would be there and to check-in & when we arrived to the church she eased our nerves. The ceremony was personalized, intimate, and inclusive - Erika found ways to make all of our guests feel included in the ceremony. We highly recommend Erika!
Alexis S
5.0
6/04/2023
Erika takes tremendous pride in her work as an Officient and it truly shows. Throughout the entire wedding process Erika guided us and even gave us a gentle nudge at times when we needed it. She wears many hats from counselor, friend to adviser. We had several zoom calls with Erika leading up to the wedding and each time we got off the phone we felt a sense of calm - that she’s got everything under control and she would be there if we needed her. Erika knocked it out of the park at our rehearsal and on our big day. Our families loved her and she fit right in as if we had all known each other for a long time. Erika did a phenomenal job with our ceremony. We loved how she shared our story in a warm, funny and entertaining way. We really felt like she “got” us and nailed the spiritual (non religious) vibe that we wanted. After our ceremony was over we looked at each other and both blurted out “Erika was amazing!” Erika even followed up after our wedding and held our hand through the marriage license process. We are so grateful that Erika was our officient and feel in our hearts that no one could have done a better job.
response 06/08/2023
Thank you, sweet Alexis! I'm so grateful that you & Mike found me. I loved working with yo...
u and am sending you "happy forever" wishes!
Maeghan P
5.0
12/31/2022
Working with Erika was an absolute joy from start to finish. Since we were planning a tiny wedding we debated whether to hire a professional officiant, and we are so glad that we chose Erika. Writing a wedding ceremony is a daunting task, but with her guidance it felt natural and easy. She helped us create a ceremony that felt customized and true to us, listening to our input at every stage. We loved her process of starting with multiple options for each step of the ceremony and then tailoring them until they felt right. She was also excellent on the day of. She was kind but firm with our parents and made sure that our wishes were carried out. Her gentle guidance throughout the ceremony allowed us to be fully relaxed and present as we didn’t have to worry about what to say or do next. We cannot recommend Erika highly enough. If you hire Erika you can be assured that your ceremony is in good hands.
Jess S
5.0
11/18/2022
When we decided to have an intimate wedding ceremony in Acadia National Park, it was so important for us to have an officiant who captured not only who we are as a couple, but as a family. When we first "met" Erika over a zoom call and picturing our ceremony together, we were feeling all the feels. She instantly made what we have always envisioned; a reality. Over the next few months, Erika was there to help guide us every step of the way; not only selecting the wording for our ceremony but also a resource in helping us plan logistics for the day. Since we were out of state it was so helpful to hear Erika's suggestions on ceremony spots, things to plan for, etc. When we officially met Erika in person the day of our wedding and seeing her friendly face greet us when we arrived, it felt as if we have known her for years. When I think back at our wedding, we are so thankful it was truly all about us and our family and couldn't have been happier. Our family and even photographer was gushing over the ceremony and how perfect it was.
Elizabeth A
5.0
11/16/2022
Erika was the absolute best addition to our wedding day. From the moment we met her, she guided us through the ins and outs of our ceremony, provided thoughtful options to make every moment feel personal and on the day of- was just plain fantastic!! Her "homework" was fun to fill out and relive some of our early dating days- even more fun to hear her tell our story to all of our loved ones on our wedding day. We received compliments on the ceremony all day long and people raved about Erika. We couldn't be happier! Highly recommend if you want a ceremony that is personalized, unique and will keep all of your guests (and yourself!) engaged in the ceremony.
Debbie B
5.0
10/18/2022
Rev. Erika Hewitt was everything we hoped for our officiant to be! We wanted our ceremony to heartfelt, special to us the couple being married, but also special to our guests, hopefully. She was instrumental in making our ceremony be all that we wanted! We actually had several of our guests ask how we "found" her. From our first Zoom meeting to when she exited after the ceremony letting us know she would be filing the marriage license, she was professional, caring and a pleasure to work with. Honestly of all the wedding decisions that have to be made, I think this is the best one we made!
Julia D
5.0
10/16/2022
Honestly, Erika was the best part of our wedding! I figured the reception would be my favorite part, but the ceremony was better than anything I could have imagined or hoped for! My father was going to be the officiant, but after he suddenly passed we had to find someone else. It was a difficult situation, and Erika was so compassionate and kind in the midst of it. We could not be happier with our choice for Erika as our officiant! Not only did she take time to get to know us from out of state, she made our guests feel welcome and like an integral part of the ceremony. I had so many friends and family tell me it was the best ceremony they had ever attended and they didn't want it to end. Thank you so much Erika! There aren't enough words to express our true gratitude. Erika is the real deal and you would be lucky to have her as your officiant, just as we were!
Maggie O
5.0
9/18/2022
My wife and I had a great experience working with Erika. She made us feel comfortable and in good hands on our wedding day. All of our guests thought the ceremony was beautiful and Erika helped create that with her organization and oration. Highly recommend!
Lucas J
5.0
7/18/2022
Hire Erika. She did an incredible job preparing us for our day and helped us deliver the exact ceremony we wanted.
Amanda T
5.0
7/05/2022
If you need an officiant look no further! Just book her!!
Our wedding day was perfect and a big reason as to why was because of Erika! She not only officiated our ceremony, but supported us and even helped us find some vendors for florists, bakeries, and more. Since she is very well experienced and knowledgeable about weddings in Maine she is a big asset to anyone's wedding. She takes her time to get to know you as a couple and the love you share. Erika cultivated a beautiful, personal, and friendly ceremony for us and our guests (our guests cannot stop talking about how amazing Erika was). I can't tell you how much she meant to both of us! This is a beautiful memory we will have for a lifetime. It truly could not have been any more perfect.
Ana C
5.0
5/30/2022
Erika was amazing to work with and our ceremony was everything we wanted. Erika worked with us through the whole process. She provided several options for our ceremony including multiple optional sections. Before working with Erika, the ceremony was just something that we needed to do to get to the reception. However, once we started working with Erika, we really looked forward to the ceremony itself. We were much more mindful in the way we approached planning the ceremony.
Erika was so great the day of the wedding. She spoke with the flower girls prior to the ceremony and made them feel more at ease. The ceremony itself was absolutely beautiful. I love the way that Erika designed the ceremony to incorporate spots where we could take in the experience. I felt so in the moment and will never forget it. We got so many compliments from our guests (both religious and non-religious). Many of our guests even said they wished their ceremonies were more like ours.
Working with Erika was one of the best decisions we made for our wedding!
Katrina L
5.0
5/30/2022
Erika was an incredible addition to our wedding day! We had a few FaceTime calls to get to know each other prior to the wedding and discuss our goals for our wedding ceremony. She provided an outline of different ceremony options and we were able to completely customize what was said during the ceremony. She provided valuable insight and suggestions during this process to make sure religious and non-religious family members would find meaning in our ceremony. She really put us and our families at ease during our rehearsal and completely eliminated any stress about the ceremony— she is a true professional! During the ceremony she shared our story like she had known us for years and it was beautiful. She was a true highlight of our wedding, many guests told us that she was the best officiant they had ever seen. She submitted our marriage license to the city hall and we returned home from our honeymoon to find our official copies without a hitch. We cannot say enough good things about Erika, we are just so happy we found her! HIGHLY RECOMMEND HER!
Matt W
5.0
12/28/2021
Perfect ceremony! Erika was an ideal officiant for our elopement: considerate, gentle and patient. She helped us to articulate exactly what we wanted in our ceremony and why. She asked amazing questions and listened with care. Her attention to detail and respect for the moment is absolutely wonderful. She’s not only a perfect officiant - she is also a kind, funny and easy-going person who is fun to be around and who cares to make your day special. She’s a true gem with a gentle heart. Highest recommendation.
Joey M
5.0
12/16/2021
Erika is amazing! She made us feel so comfortable throughout the whole process. We talked multiple times customizing our ceremony for our beliefs and how we envisioned it. Every step was a joy. She explained things honestly and thoroughly and was open to answer all of our questions. Erika is very professional and very kind. We recommend her to everyone! Thank you, Erika, for making our ceremony absolutely perfect. You were wonderful!
Alison L
5.0
12/08/2021
Erika is an incredible officiant. From our first call to the most perfect ceremony, we couldn't be more thrilled. She took time over a few facetime calls to get to know us, and during our intimate ceremony, it felt like we had known her for years. She also was incredibly communicative and experienced, guiding us through the ins and outs of the ceremony that we hadn't thought of and putting us at ease.
It was important to us that our ceremony and vows were reflective of our beliefs, and she helped guide us to something that felt truly special and sacred. Looking back, we think choosing Erika was the most important choice we made when planning our wedding. Erika genuinely shared the joy of our friends and family, and we couldn't imagine a better experience- thank you! Alison and Jim
Mary Kate L
5.0
10/19/2021
Erika was wonderful to work with and we feel so lucky to have had her as our officiant. We were both a little overwhelmed with where to begin planning our wedding ceremony, but as soon as we connected with Erika those concerns went away. Erika was by our side every step of the way! Throughout the course of many months, Erika patiently listened to our stories and helped us craft a ceremony that was beautiful, loving and so special to us! We feel so fortunate to have had her calming energy guiding us on our wedding day!
Jenna C
5.0
10/16/2021
We were so excited to be able to work with Erika for our ceremony! We had first connected with her two years ago when we were planning a large dream wedding in Portland. When we had to change our plans to a small elopement with a postponed larger ceremony, we reached back out to Erika and were thrilled that she was still available! Erika was so great at helping us navigate how to put a wedding together that fit us, and acknowledged the fact that we were already married, while still making this moment special and meaningful. She was willing to meet with us multiple times and asked all the right questions to make sure the ceremony reflected our values. She was also great about last minute changes and was totally open to our non-traditional wedding party. We received so many compliments from our guests (who came from a large variety of backgrounds) on how personal and beautiful the ceremony was. We can’t recommend Erika enough!
Louis K
5.0
10/16/2021
Erika was a true gem to work with. From the beginning she made it clear she was focused on us and our happiness with her service. She gave us gentle nudges when we were overwhelmed to get us back on track, and worked with us to craft a ceremony that truly reflected our values and wishes. She had plenty of excellent suggestions that we loved, was very respectful and easy when we wanted to go diffirent directions than what was presented to us, and listened to us with enthusasium when we had ideas of our own. On the day of she delivered a beautiful ceremony that our guests loved as much as we did. Everyone told us how wonderful and moving it was and how fantastic Erika was. We had people coming up to us and gushing about her for the rest of the day. We would highly reccomend Erika to anyone, especially if you want to craft something special of your own, or want something "non-traditional" as we did.
Asa B
5.0
10/12/2021
From start to finish, Erika helped us create a beautiful ceremony that truly spoke to who we are. We got so many wonderful comments after our wedding about how beautiful our wedding ceremony was or that it was the most touching, heartfelt ceremony they’ve attended. It truly was perfect and I felt all the love around us! If you want the same cookie cutter ceremony that everyone does time after time, Erika is not the one for you. But if you want a romantically crafted, personalized ceremony that is true to you as a couple, she’s your officiant 110%!!
Katie C
5.0
10/10/2021
Erika was incredible to work with! Passionate, enthusiastic, personable, easy-going, yet always on top of everything. We had a handful of FaceTime chats with her planning for the ceremony and rehearsal. When we met in person for the first time on the day of the rehearsal, it was as if we knew her for years! You get a truly connected and unique experience constructing your ceremony when you have Erika. She has fantastic templates to start with, but was awesome working with us to fabricate our own custom takes on the ceremony. Every meeting we had with her was positive and relaxing - that vibe carries over into the rehearsal and ceremony. She is extremely organized and detail-oriented. We cannot say enough great things about her. If you want a truly special, unique wedding ceremony, hire Erika! Of all the things we allocated for our budget, we both agree hiring Erika was by far the best decision we made!
Eliza S
5.0
9/15/2021
We are so grateful to have found Erika! From the first meeting on FaceTime, sharing our story, and coordinating all of the details in between, Erika was incredible to work with. She was organized, a great communicator, friendly and supportive throughout the entire process. She took the time to get to know us, our families and bridal party, and it truly showed. Every detail of the ceremony was exactly what we hoped for and more. So many of our guests shared compliments with us about how well she told our story, and her engaging, warm and friendly delivery. The entire ceremony was impeccably planned and came together so much better than we could have ever imagined. We are so happy with the special memories we have of our ceremony and would 100% recommend Erika for other couples who are lucky enough to work with her.
Mackenzie D
5.0
9/09/2021
After an internet search, we came across Erika. We had a zoom chat for our initial conversation and knew right away she was perfect for us – she was personable, friendly, upbeat, and informative. She made the whole process stress-free and easy leading up to our ceremony. She tailored our ceremony to exactly who we wanted it and we could not have been happier. She also did an amazing job at keeping us and the crowd loose with her humor and was also serious and professional at the right moments. We are so grateful for choosing such a wonderful officiant and highly recommend Erika for anyone!
Kaleigh K
5.0
8/24/2021
Do you want to have a ceremony that people remember and enjoy? Of course you do. Erika is the person you’ll want to hire. Erika helped us every step of the way. She made everything easy on our end. Together we formulated a ceremony that was tasteful and personal, incorporating all of the things that make us unique as a couple, while also incorporating subtle spiritual elements that our family members sincerely appreciated. It was touching and meaningful, and so US.
I also want to say that Erika takes the rehearsal very seriously, and I can’t tell you how important that was. There are so many little tasks and considerations that go into a ceremony. She knows them well and makes sure your bridal party does, too. That way on wedding day, everyone is well prepared and the day is a breeze! We can’t thank her enough for her attention to detail, organization, and skill. She is the real deal!
Lizzie H
5.0
8/17/2021
Erika is incredible! Erika has been a pleasure to work with from initial consultation to the execution of a perfect ceremony. Friends and family raved about how personal and heartfelt the ceremony was. We loved the feeling of community Erika immediately brought to the space. One of our favorite elements was how she told the story of our relationship based on questions we’d answered and our conversations with her. She really took the time to get to know us as a couple and that came across as she told our story. It set the tone for the rest of the wedding and was a beautiful start to our marriage. We would wholeheartedly recommend Erika to any couple looking for a special, welcoming experience.
Max M
5.0
8/09/2021
As we started planning our Acadia elopement, and before we had arranged an officiant, it seemed like every vendor we spoke to asked, "will it be Erika?" We thought we'd better meet her, and as soon as we did, we realized what all the fuss was about. Erika, we quickly learned, cared about getting to know us so that even our small civil ceremony would be special. Totally open and available in the weeks and months before the wedding, she touched our hearts and made us laugh pretty much every time we talked, and then guided us and our families through a beautiful, personal, heartfelt ceremony that we will forever treasure--because of each other of course, and also because of Erika.
Ali S
5.0
7/23/2021
Erika is amazing!! My husband and I have nothing but great things to say about our experience working with Erika. From day one, Erika was understanding, supportive, and willing to roll up her sleeves and work alongside us to plan our perfect ceremony. She met with us over countless Zoom calls and was instrumental in helping us plan our micro-wedding. On the day of the ceremony, she was a calm but strong and supportive presence that our families needed. The best thing about working with Erika is that she took the time to listen to us and crafted a personalized version of our love story to share with our family on the day of our wedding. We fully trusted Erika to develop this story from the answers we provided and we are SO GLAD we did-- my husband and I were able to be surprised by each other's answers and listening to them for the first time with our families on our wedding day made it an authentic and very special moment. If you are considering hiring Erika, DO IT! The value she will add to your entire wedding experience is incalculable!!
Kaylyn S
5.0
7/01/2021
Wow! We were so lucky to have found Erika to officiate our intimate beach wedding. There was so much that Erika brought to the table that I would have never imagined would be part of the gig!
Our pre-marriage counseling was genuinely life changing and I would highly recommend this service to anyone ready to book with Erika. From our experience, these sessions really helped Erika understand us as individuals and as a couple and really helped contribute to our big day's overall success.
We didn't know anything about how weddings work, but as it turns out, we didn't need to. Erika was there to hold our hands through the whole process. She was ready with endless suggestions, advice, edits, support, and solutions for many of our nuanced situations and questions. Erika's ability to foresee issues or concerns and how to fix them was also a real life saver! No stone was left unturned and we could not have asked for a better outcome.
Laura P
5.0
6/30/2021
My review is just one voice in a choir of positive reviews, so the bottom line is: Rev. Erika Hewitt is a SOLID 10/10. My husband and I hired Erika to officiate our microceremony at Acadia National Park. We are from Tennessee, so we really dug through the Internet to find someone who fit what we were looking for. We combed through pages of reviews and vetted several officiants to find our right fit. We inquired about Erika's services and had an initial meeting about what she was able to offer us. Immediately, we knew Erika was the officiant for us. Our initial meeting felt like we were talking to a family friend we had known for years. Throughout the next few months, Erika worked with us to craft the perfect ceremony for us. We were able to sort through different templates of text that we best liked for our ceremony. That helped make our ceremony unique and personal. We were able to ues the spiritual language we preferred most - Erika was great at leading conversations with to better understand our spiritual comfort level. Over time, we had a few Zoom meetings that led us to wedding week. We held a rehearsal the day before the wedding, which initially we were not interested in having when we hired Erika. I thought "ohh, we're having a microceremony...that's not necessary." Erika strongly suggested it and after working through logistics of the ceremony, we decided to have one and it was 100% necessary. On the day of the ceremony, we felt well prepared for what we needed to say, how our guests would stand around us, and how the ceremony would flow. Erika made us feel like our tiny ceremony was incredibly special and unique to us. Our guests were such an important part of our day and she made them feel important, too! I know everyone values different things about their wedding day, so I will end by saying that if your ceremony is one of the most important things to you, you should absolutely work with Erika for your wedding day.
Maura K
5.0
6/07/2021
Erika was amazing. She worked incredibly closely with my husband and I to create a beautiful unique ceremony the really catered to the personalities of us. She was such a joy to work with from day one and we could not imagine having anyone else officiate our day.
Ryan K
5.0
11/22/2020
We were incredibly lucky to have Erika as our elopement officiant in Acadia National Park, September 2020. Erika was amazing to work with through our FaceTime planning sessions and brought so much excitement, sincerity, and positivity to our small elopement ceremony. She is incredibly respectful and strives to match the tone and message of the ceremony desired, as well she supports inclusivity. Book Erika!
-Devin and Ryan
Anneka B
5.0
10/06/2020
Erika is absolutely fantastic. Brian and I found her online, we had an initial video chat with her and we knew immediately that we wanted her to be our officiant. She has such great energy, great ideas, and is just so personable. We video chatted with Erika many times to talk about what was important to us & to start crafting the ceremony. We landed on a script that felt so special, and right for us. Through the COVID-19 pandemic, Erika was flexible in all of our date and location changed. She officiated our intimate wedding ceremony in front of our parents & siblings and it was just perfect, better than we ever could have anticipated. I would recommend Erika to anybody in a heart beat, we felt lucky to have found her.
Kelly G
5.0
9/24/2020
We used Erika for our premarital counseling. I HIGHLY recommend pre-marital counseling and I HIGHLY recommend doing it with Erika. We did 3 sessions which included the "prepare/enrich" questionnaire and a "family of origin" assessment, and the last session blended on themes from both. She was knowledgeable, professional, easy to work with and guided the conversations perfectly. This gave us such strong footing to start our marriage and is easily the best money spent out of any of our "Wedding budget" items.
Merrill F
5.0
9/09/2020
We adored Erika. From the beginning, she made sure that our small family ceremony was truly about us. We were in Maryland, so we had several Facetime calls where she really made an effort to get to know us as a couple and what our vision was. She worked with us to craft the ceremony that we wanted, and went above and beyond to learn the stories behind everything (my great grandmothers engagement ring, the Velveteen Rabbit reading we chose, our family members' names and relation to each other). Everything was wonderful. Especially during COVID, and when it rained until 15 minutes before the ceremony, Erika worked with us to make sure that it was everything we wanted. Couldn't recommend more highly!
Kayla K
5.0
9/05/2020
Erika is a lovely human being, and it's tough to find the words for how much her support meant to us through the wedding planning process. From our first Zoom call, my fiance and I knew we wanted to be married by her - she was so easy to talk and emits genuine compassion. We signed with Erika pre-covid, and she was flexible, communicative, and understanding as our plans changed to a much more intimate wedding than we initially anticipated. As for the ceremony itself, it was the most joyful moment of our lives and there wasn't a dry eye present (even our vendors told us they shed a tear!) She was intentional and collaborative in crafting a ceremony that was deeply meaningful to my fiancé and I, our families, and those who couldn't be with us. If you are seeking an officiant who is warm, believes in your partnership, and takes the time and effort to create a truly personal ceremony, reach out to Erika. She is a rare person and we feel beyond lucky to have met her in this process.
Jennifer M
5.0
8/10/2020
I could not have better things to say about this woman. As one says, weddings cause a lot of stress for everyone involved, but nothing more so than what we weathered this year planning and rearranging our planning due to COVID19. A wedding in a pandemic could very well have meant that we were stressed to the max with no one to turn to, but Erika was there every step of the way. She’s the most flexible, easy going person to work with as we did all of our meetings over video due to risk. But that just goes to show how fantastic she is, that we never for a moment felt that we weren’t connected to her. She puts you as a couple at ease because she is able to not only make sure your own desires are of primary importance during planning, but is amazing at navigating family dynamics that can sometimes put undue stress on a couple. She was there every time I needed to vent about how hard the process was, and she was always supportive, attentive and prompt with all of the information she gave us. She truly made our entire wedding and ceremony so peaceful because she cares so much about the story behind who you are and how you became a couple. Also she offers other services such as marital counseling that gave me and my partner a chance to connect on a deeper level and have the right headspace to enter into marriage. If you are looking for someone who is vibrant, who has seemingly limitless energy for questions, and who will make everyone tear up over how beautiful the ceremony is, Erika is the officiant for you. We are entering our first year of marriage with full hearts because of how perfect she made our day. Through a tense rehearsal and planning and re-planning, she was positive and gave me as a bride the energy boost I needed to remember what was truly important. Love. Love is all you need. Thank you Erika!! We hope to have many more years of friendship with you 🥰
sara f
5.0
7/28/2020
We cannot say enough amazing things about Erika. From the very first meeting, Erika was professional, organized, and thorough. It was clear that her number one priority was making sure we had exactly the wedding ceremony that we wanted. Her expertise shone through as she guided us through the planning process; she provided us with multiple drafts of the ceremony, she thoroughly explained the marriage license process, and gave us helpful suggestions for ways to incorporate everything we wanted for the wedding day. Erika seamlessly wove our personal love story into the ceremony, as well as included aspects of both Christianity and Judaism to honor both of our upbringings. Every part of the process felt personal and comfortable. When COVID-19 hit and all of our plans had to change swiftly, Erika was with us every step of the way. She was flexible as we scrambled to solidify a brand new wedding plan, and it was such a comfort knowing that our officiant was dedicated to making our wedding day special, regardless of a pandemic! If you are looking for a wonderful wedding officiant, we recommend Erika with absolutely no hesitation!!
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