Rev. Erika Hewitt

ika honored that completely. She created the exact ceremony we hoped for—one that held the joy, gravity, and love of beginning a marriage. She’s a beautiful writer, and collaborating with her on the ceremony was so meaningful in itself. She also engaged our guests so naturally; they absolutely loved her and kept telling us how special the ceremony felt. We also did premarital sessions with Erika, which helped us learn more about ourselves, our relationship, and the transition into marriage. She truly understood us and reflected insights that felt personal and grounded. She is warm and thoughtful, and she also brings the kind of lightness and humor that makes the whole process feel joyful. On the practical side, Erika is organized, punctual, and very communicative. Her deep experience—and her familiarity with our venue and vendors—was a gift during planning. By the time we got to the rehearsal, we had so many small questions, and she helped us think through every detail with clarity and confidence. We could not imagine a better officiant. Ten out of ten—thank you, Erika!

like she was really trying to get to know us. She personalized the ceremony for us, and did a great job managing our families during the rehearsal. After the ceremony, multiple people complimented us on how intimate and special it felt.

made our wedding day so special! She went over everything with us at the rehearsal dinner, and everyone had fun with it. She told our story at the wedding and made us and our guess laugh. No stress at all, she made it easy and fun to work with. I would highly recommend Erika as an officiant. Thank you for making our day so Special!!

just having a friend or family member marry us, we thought "how different could it be?" Ultimately we decided to go with a professional, and we are SO glad that we did. Erika is a professional through and through, she puts so much thought and wisdom into her ceremonies. The whole planning process was full of collaboration, clear communication, and kindness. She is also one of the kindest and warmest people you will ever meet. Every single person at our wedding commented on how beautiful the ceremony was, so don't consider this one positive review, consider it 90.

expect. Her thoughtful guidance was exactly what we needed as we planned our wedding. She offered several beautiful ideas to personalize our ceremony, and we’re especially grateful for her suggestion to include a ring warming. It made our guests feel truly involved, not just as observers but as participants in our union. Many even asked for her contact information for their own children’s upcoming weddings. Erika’s organization and attention to detail kept us on track throughout the process. Her assignments and timelines ensured she had everything she needed to craft a ceremony that reflected us perfectly. We genuinely believe that no one else could have made our day feel as meaningful and memorable. We’ll miss our interactions with Erika and hope to find future opportunities to support her ministry. She is a gifted officiant and a truly special person. - Robin (Jones) and Frank Ragusa

, and even afterwards! She was an absolute joy to work with. Erika really gets to know who both of you are, makes sure to include all of your preferences and aspirations, and will work with you so that each and every part of the ceremony fits exactly what you’re both looking for. She creates a very unique and special ceremony and goes out of her way to make sure that it’s the wedding that you’ve always dreamed about. Alongside with everything being perfect, Erika just glows with good vibes, happiness and love. We could not have been happier!

l, warm and truly took the time to get to know us both as a couple and individually. She offered expert advice on all aspects of our ceremony which helped our day run so smoothly. The "Our Story" portion of the ceremony was so lovely and allowed our guests to hear about the evolution of our love over time. After the ceremony, everyone remarked how beautiful and personal the ceremony was. We truly could not have asked for a better officiant to lead us into this next chapter of our lives. We will cherish this day forever!

ure to work with. She went above and beyond, kept us on track as the date got closer with stellar communication, met with us and our families at our home to rehearse the ceremony, and coordinated with vendors on the wedding day so everything ran smoothly. Building the ceremony wording seemed like a daunting task, but Erika makes it fun and straightforward. She provided her own sample scripts to serve as a starting point, and we loved that she included many different versions of each part to suit different faiths (or a secular tone) and all types of couples. In the end, she created the most touching ceremony that represented us perfectly, and many guests came up to us during and after the wedding to tell us how beautiful the ceremony was. Having Erika as our officiant made our wedding even more special, and we can’t recommend her highly enough!

day, Erika just radiates a warmth that makes you feel like you’ve known her forever. Throughout our planning sessions, Erika provided so many opportunities for us to personalize our wedding ceremony. While we wanted to maintain some of the traditional elements of a wedding ceremony, she also presented multiple ideas on different elements that could be incorporated to make things a little different too. In our meetings leading up to the wedding, she got to know us both as individuals and as a couple, which resulted in a deeply personalized ceremony that had almost all of our guests in tears at some point. When we arrived to our reception, our guests were raving about how wonderful Erika was! Our guests loved Erika were so moved by the ceremony that she helped us create, and I had numerous guests express how impressed they were with her. Throughout the entire process, Erika has impressed us with her professionalism, humor, authenticity and warmth. It would not have been the same wedding ceremony without her and we are so lucky to have found her and worked with her. We could not recommend her more!

alize things to reflect who you are as a couple and as an individual by reviewing your vows separately and privately. She is just as invested if not more than you are in making your ceremony is everything you want it to be. We loved working with Erika and our quarterly check-ins helped keep us on track to completing the ceremony planning in chunks vs doing it all at once. We both walked away with the ceremony as the most memorable part of our wedding day and that is all due to Erika's investment in you. Thank you so much!!

u as a couple to make your ceremony meaningful. We had a beautiful ceremony thanks to her. Our guests loved her too! Plus, she was super helpful during the planning process and was there for us every step of the way. Thank you so much Erika! 🤍

mony for us. We really enjoyed having her as a part of our special day!

y meaningful to us. She was also incredibly generous and flexible with her time to accommodate some logistical challenges. We highly recommend including Erika in your special day!

nd we absolutely loved working with her. She was always easy to communicate with and crafted a ceremony that felt very us, which was one less thing to stress about that day. As soon as we confirmed with Erika, she made the process so easy by sending over a packet with lots of options to build the ceremony. She listened to all our questions and was very patient with us as we developed what we wanted the morning to look like. Our families had nothing but great things to say about Erika, including that they could really tell how much Erika cared about us and the ceremony. Highly recommend her! Thank you Erika!

Everything from start to finish was beautiful. The ceremony was full of love and positive energy. Everyone there could feel it. Erika is truly one of a kind and we are so glad we found her. 😘😘

stead. She is a true professional, and it showed every step of the way. From her planning calls to get to know us, to detailed check ins ahead of the big day, she was always in communication with us. She knew exactly what suggestions to make, thinking of logistics and things we hadn’t even considered. When we had to postpone our wedding last minute, she was so helpful and willing to make last minute changes to make sure we still had our ceremony. We are so grateful to Erika- the ceremony she wrote for us was so perfectly thoughtful and personal and better than we could have imagined! Thank you Erika!!

eeting with her before the wedding as she got to know us better. Erika ran a seamless rehearsal. She helped us structure our ceremony to keep everything running smoothly, which helped ease our nerves. She was also such a calming presence to have next to us at the rehearsal and during the wedding ceremony. She was so kind to our families and friends. She wrote such a beautiful ceremony for us and was an incredibly engaging speaker. We had so many compliments on our ceremony and many people wondered if we had known Erika our whole lives. Our ceremony was unbelievably magical and it's all thanks to Erika. We HIGHLY recommend working with Erika for your wedding or other special event.

s tremendously helpful to work with a seasoned ceremony officiant as Erika was able to answer our many questions. We felt at ease with Erika who honored the vision we had for our ceremony while adding touches of light heartedness and humor. Our wedding guests raved about our ceremony and officiant. Many of our guests commented that Erika spoke enthusiastically but with authenticity. Thank you Erika for making our oh-so-special wedding day even more beautiful!

and worked to understand our vision for the ceremony. Erika has a true gift for crafting a ceremony that feels personal, heartfelt, and completely unique to the couple. Many of our guests told us how beautiful and meaningful the ceremony was, and we wholeheartedly agree! She brought such warmth, sincerity, and a touch of humor to the day, making it a perfect reflection of us as a couple. Erika was also incredibly organized and professional throughout the entire process. She took care of everything, including promptly mailing our marriage license. We highly recommend Erika to anyone looking for an officiant who will create a memorable and personalized ceremony. Thank you, Erika, for being such an important part of our special day!

ou're on a virtual planning call or standing next to each other during your wedding ceremony. Our guests all LOVED her and raved about the ceremony (which says a lot since it was also what was separating them for an open bar & food!) It even left a mark on the kids... a few weeks after the wedding our nieces asked us about how cooking with the salt (from the ceremony) had been going. We were so surprised they had paid enough attention to remember that, but it just highlights how engaging and memorable Erika is. It also wasn't just the wedding day itself that she excelled at, but perhaps just as importantly, the weeks leading up to it as well. We had a whirlwind planning process and reached out to Erika just 3 weeks before our wedding. She graciously accepted the challenge and we never felt anything but support and partnership from her: whether it was editing down our favorite lines about love from rambling Alan Watt's speeches on YouTube, or helping to think through logistical questions that we wouldn't have even known to ask about but were so thankful she brought up. We knew we were in such good hands with Erika as soon as we booked her, but she proved that true over and over again. It's so clear how much she cares and she goes above and beyond (even for couples who have less than ideal timelines but high hopes!). We loved our ceremony and would absolutely recommend her. Thanks again for everything Erika!

I met Erika about 3 months ago via a zoom call and we instantly connected. We found Rev. Erika on The Knot because we were looking for an experienced officiant that was used to working with LGBTQ+ couples and we could not have found a better person. She worked very closely with us for those 3 months to ensure our ceremony was as perfect as it could be. We didn't know what to expect, as this is both our only time getting married, but she made the process fun and had us involved in the entire planning out of the ceremony. She had some really fun ideas for our ceremony. We wanted to pay homage to our loved ones who have passed, and to those who have made gay marriage legal for us. Rev. Erika helped us plan a ring warming part of our ceremony where our wedding bands were passed around the guests and each guest was allowed to hold the rings and put their best wishes, prayers, and intentions into the wedding bands. This was so special. Now my husband and I constantly fist bump our rings together because it feels like our rings have super powers :). We also worked with Erika to plan a hand fasting portion of the ceremony where she told our love story through questions each of us answered to her in secret laying cords over our hands as she told the story and she literally "tied the knot" around our hands into the shape of an infinity sign which we plan to frame in a shadow box for our future home. Just to brag on her a little bit more, Rob and I both feel like our wedding ceremony was the best one we have ever attended - which is great because it was our own. We are not the only ones who felt this way. Over the course of our reception night almost every single one of our guests told us our Rev. Erika was the best wedding officiant they have ever heard give a ceremony. We feel so lucky to have met her and to be able to now call her our friend. We can not recommend her enough. If you are an LGBTQ+ person or an ally she is the best person you could ever work with to plan out your ceremony. She takes her time to provide you with a ceremony this is so special and uniquely "'you". Her words were extremely powerful as if they were the words of the divine themself. Not a dry eye in the room afterwards. But all happy tears. :) Thank you again Erika for everything you did for us. It meant the world. <3 Kyle + Rob

emony that suited our needs as a couple. On the day my husband and I eloped, Erika surpassed all expectations. Her voice resonated with love, positive energy, and happiness, helping my husband and I be present and grounding us to each other. She also made our family members, who could not attend, feel included in our special day. In addition to making the ceremony special, she guided us through the paperwork process and even went as far as driving all the way back to the clerk's office (it was very far) to hand it in in person. We wholeheartedly recommend Rev. Erika Hewitt to officiate your wedding. Having her lead our ceremony is a memory we will forever cherish, thanks to the unforgettable moments she created. We are immensely grateful to have had Erika unite us in marriage!

d and advocated for both me and my wife. She met with us several times leading up to our ceremony to help us form our experience which was thoughtful and helpful. I highly recommend Erika for your wedding. She was perfect.

ress. She helped guide us through the ceremony planning process by walking us through all the options and choices to help make the perfect, personalized ceremony for us. On the day of our wedding Erika truly delivered! There is so much love, positive energy, and happiness in her voice that everyone was so moved and engaged during the entire ceremony. She really made all those there feel so included in our special day. We had so many guests remark on what an amazing job Erika did as our officiant and how our ceremony was their favorite part. Guests even asked how long we had known Erika, because it seemed like she knew us so well we must have known her for years. This is a testament to how hard she worked, and the amount of time she put in before the wedding, meeting with us, and learning about our relationship and our story. Without a doubt, we would highly recommend Rev Erika Hewitt to be your officiant and be a part of your wedding day! Having Erika perform our ceremony will be something we will always cherish and provide memories that will last a lifetime. We are so grateful we were able to have Erika marry us!

to ask us questions about ourselves, about our story, and if we had any thoughts about what we wanted the ceremony to look like and feel like. At the end of the first meeting she laid out the roadmap of what our time together would look like as well as expectations she had for us and the work we would be accomplishing with her guidance. This kind of clear, compassionate, and open communication is one of the many amazing qualities Erika brings to the couples she works with as they prepare for the big day. Throughout the process Erika kept the lines of communication clear and flowing. Each step of the way she made sure that every decision from the vows right down to making sure the individual words used reflected us. Working in this way made it so our ceremony really felt special and like something we were looking forward to rather than a hurdle to get over before the rest of the evening could unfold. When it came closer to game day, the rehearsal couldn’t have gone any better. Push any worries about chaotic gatherings where it’s super stressful and you leave needing to lie down somewhere quiet. Our rehearsal was genuinely the most organized and calm one I (the bride) have ever been to. This is 100% because of how Erika clearly communicated her expectations for everyone in attendance right at the very beginning so we all knew our roles and what was needed from us in the moment. Honestly, the rehearsal was full of joy and laughter rather than stressful and overwhelming. Day of the wedding it was raining so we had to use a secondary location for the ceremony. All of the work we did with Erika leading up to this point made it so we didn’t really even have to think about the ceremony, how it would go, or if everyone knew their roles. Erika made sure we had point people for our rings and our handfasting ribbons who she checked in with before the ceremony. We ended up having some technical issues with the microphone and speakers we provided but you wouldn’t have known that by the way Erika navigated through that unexpected challenge. As soon as the ceremony started and Erika began with the welcome and calling to hold space we immediately felt all of the work we had done with Erika come to bountiful fruition and the ceremony was beyond what we could have dreamed. We loved that she took the time to get to know us as individuals as well as a couple to craft two sections during the ceremony telling the story of our engagement as well as our story as a partnership. This was an element that literally every single one of our guests said made them feel like they had been included in our story in such a beautiful and meaningful way. It felt even more important as this was the first time a lot of our most important people were meeting one another so by including these elements Erika, with skill and grace, immediately made everyone feel like they had access to our dynamic in a meaningful way. The pacing of the ceremony was so intentional, allowing for moments of reflection as well as community joy all facilitated by Erika. We utterly adore her and hold her very closely to our hearts. We cannot recommend Erika highly enough, here is a person who radiates joy, love, and a centering energy that will without fail make your ceremony one that reflects you as a couple.

was incredibly helpful and friendly throughout the planning process as well. She was easy to work with and made crafting the ceremony stress-free.

entimental. She does a great job working with couples and figuring out what is important for them to include in their ceremonies and I couldn't have asked for a better guiding hand. If you are looking for someone to officiate for you you absolutely will not be disappointed if you choose Erika. She helped us feel so at ease up at the alter and I couldn't have asked for a better day. She also did a great job rolling with the punches of our 3 year old ring bearer and 4 year old flower girl :) I would absolutely recommend her services!

ides an extremely professional yet humanized and personalized experience. We live out of state and Erika made sure to have regular video and email check-ins on our schedule to ensure we were comfortable with the ceremony plan. The wedding script was very collaborative, with Erika giving choices for sections and allowing us to choose and edit as needed. On the day of, Erika performed the service beautifully, and even included some thoughtful surprises. I'd highly recommend Erika!

assertive when necessary to make sure that the process keeps moving forward efficiently. Erika made our wedding ceremony a powerfully emotional and unforgettable experience. She has an amazing gift of drawing everyone into the moment and making the ceremony relevant and meaningful for everyone present. So many people after the ceremony shared with us how touched they were by Erika’s ability to connect with them. We are so grateful for Erika and know that she will continue to inspire others like us in the future.

ceremony. She is professional, kind, coordinated, enthusiastic, reassuring, and a true light. She without a doubt took our wedding ceremony to the next level and she did so with ease. Here is a sample of what some of our guests had to say: Erika is “amazing”, “engaging”, “enthusiastic”, “very smooth and organized”, “I was very, very very impressed”, “Erika was such a great choice”, “so organized”, “I want to hire her myself!”, “She is even more than an officiant”. You will not regret hiring Erika, and you should do so promptly and with confidence that she will provide expert guidance to craft a ceremony even more special than you could possibly imagine.

crafted a ceremony that had the familiarity of a friend but the delivery of a professional. Erika met with us multiple times leading up to the big day to get to know us, which enabled her to create a truly personal and inclusive ceremony. She provided wording options for different parts of the program, and even drafted specific lines to fit us perfectly. We decided to include a salt ceremony, which Erika introduced to us, and we felt it was a special part of the day! Erika ran the rehearsal, performed a beautiful ceremony, and ensured the marriage license was properly signed and submitted. She was instrumental to us enjoying the day without worrying about the details!

ka exuded a warmth that instantly made us feel comfortable and at ease (we knew she was the one right away!). She proved to be not just a talented officiant but a true ally in crafting a ceremony that was uniquely "us." One of the first things that impressed us about Erika was her deep respect for our personal choices regarding our wedding. She took the time to understand what was important to us, and she graciously and thoughtfully incorporated those elements into the ceremony, while gracefully and tactfully respecting our desire to keep other elements private. Her ability to strike this balance was truly commendable and allowed us to fully embrace the significance of the day. Throughout the entire planning process, Erika was an absolute dream to work with. Her communication was impeccable, and she made every effort to make the planning process as easy and stress-free as possible. Whether it was promptly responding to our emails or answering our questions with patience and clarity, Erika's professionalism and genuine care for our special day shone through.When the wedding day finally arrived, Erika's presence brought a sense of joy and tranquility to the entire event. Her ability to engage the guests during the ceremony was remarkable, and she expertly weaved together the threads of our love story, making the ceremony feel intimate and personal. It was as if she had been a dear friend we had known for years, rather than someone we had only recently met. Erika's words during the ceremony were nothing short of magical. She struck a perfect balance between adding her unique touch and staying true to the essence of who we are as a couple. The ceremony felt deeply meaningful, special, and warm, leaving us and our guests with cherished memories that will last a lifetime. In summary, Erika is an exceptional wedding officiant who brings her heart and soul into her work. She not only made our day unforgettable but also helped us create a ceremony that felt grounded in love and authenticity. If you're looking for an officiant who will go above and beyond to make your wedding day extraordinary, we wholeheartedly recommend Erika. Thank you, Erika, for being a part of our love story and making our day truly magical!

perfect to work with! Over the course of the year, Erika scheduled regular check-ins to keep us on track. Her approach made planning the ceremony easy and stress-free and she really took the time to get to know us as we met virtually. She thought of so many details that never would have crossed our minds. All of the planning led up to a beautiful weekend! She was a joy to work with during our rehearsal - taking the time to get to know our families. And, on the day of she was such a calming presence. She texted us that morning to let us know she would be there and to check-in & when we arrived to the church she eased our nerves. The ceremony was personalized, intimate, and inclusive - Erika found ways to make all of our guests feel included in the ceremony. We highly recommend Erika!

needed it. She wears many hats from counselor, friend to adviser. We had several zoom calls with Erika leading up to the wedding and each time we got off the phone we felt a sense of calm - that she’s got everything under control and she would be there if we needed her. Erika knocked it out of the park at our rehearsal and on our big day. Our families loved her and she fit right in as if we had all known each other for a long time. Erika did a phenomenal job with our ceremony. We loved how she shared our story in a warm, funny and entertaining way. We really felt like she “got” us and nailed the spiritual (non religious) vibe that we wanted. After our ceremony was over we looked at each other and both blurted out “Erika was amazing!” Erika even followed up after our wedding and held our hand through the marriage license process. We are so grateful that Erika was our officient and feel in our hearts that no one could have done a better job.

hose Erika. Writing a wedding ceremony is a daunting task, but with her guidance it felt natural and easy. She helped us create a ceremony that felt customized and true to us, listening to our input at every stage. We loved her process of starting with multiple options for each step of the ceremony and then tailoring them until they felt right. She was also excellent on the day of. She was kind but firm with our parents and made sure that our wishes were carried out. Her gentle guidance throughout the ceremony allowed us to be fully relaxed and present as we didn’t have to worry about what to say or do next. We cannot recommend Erika highly enough. If you hire Erika you can be assured that your ceremony is in good hands.

family. When we first "met" Erika over a zoom call and picturing our ceremony together, we were feeling all the feels. She instantly made what we have always envisioned; a reality. Over the next few months, Erika was there to help guide us every step of the way; not only selecting the wording for our ceremony but also a resource in helping us plan logistics for the day. Since we were out of state it was so helpful to hear Erika's suggestions on ceremony spots, things to plan for, etc. When we officially met Erika in person the day of our wedding and seeing her friendly face greet us when we arrived, it felt as if we have known her for years. When I think back at our wedding, we are so thankful it was truly all about us and our family and couldn't have been happier. Our family and even photographer was gushing over the ceremony and how perfect it was.

ry moment feel personal and on the day of- was just plain fantastic!! Her "homework" was fun to fill out and relive some of our early dating days- even more fun to hear her tell our story to all of our loved ones on our wedding day. We received compliments on the ceremony all day long and people raved about Erika. We couldn't be happier! Highly recommend if you want a ceremony that is personalized, unique and will keep all of your guests (and yourself!) engaged in the ceremony.

efully. She was instrumental in making our ceremony be all that we wanted! We actually had several of our guests ask how we "found" her. From our first Zoom meeting to when she exited after the ceremony letting us know she would be filing the marriage license, she was professional, caring and a pleasure to work with. Honestly of all the wedding decisions that have to be made, I think this is the best one we made!

y father was going to be the officiant, but after he suddenly passed we had to find someone else. It was a difficult situation, and Erika was so compassionate and kind in the midst of it. We could not be happier with our choice for Erika as our officiant! Not only did she take time to get to know us from out of state, she made our guests feel welcome and like an integral part of the ceremony. I had so many friends and family tell me it was the best ceremony they had ever attended and they didn't want it to end. Thank you so much Erika! There aren't enough words to express our true gratitude. Erika is the real deal and you would be lucky to have her as your officiant, just as we were!

Erika helped create that with her organization and oration. Highly recommend!