In describing how wonderful it was to have Rev. Gary officiate our wedding I would have to start by stating that my wife and I were originally going to have my dad officiate our wedding being that he was a former Roman Catholic priest and was p...retty much the manifestation of all my values, existential thoughts, and ideas about our place in the universe.
Unfortunately, my father passed away 4 months before our wedding. This was clearly devastating and even the thought of having someone else stand in his shoes to conduct our wedding ceremony was nearly beyond comprehension. Who could replace my father, which I would be a fool to even attempt to describe his importance to myself as well as everyone he’d encounter.
Eventually, we had to face the task of finding an officiant and it couldn’t just be anybody. Early on in our search we came upon Rev. Gary’s profile. From what we read it seemed that his approach to spirituality was congruent with ours and that of my dad’s. We wanted a structured, but customizable ceremony in which we could incorporate personable and sentimental aspects of our lives, as well as honor my dad.
When we finally met Rev. Gary we instantly had an overwhelming sense of comfort and knew that if there was anyone that could stand in my dad’s place it was him. It was as if my dad hand picked him from heaven. It was enjoyable working with Rev. Gary in laying everything out for our ceremony. Understanding the sensitivity of the circumstances, he helped us incorporate the teachings of my father into the ceremony. In the end it was our ceremony, lead with the grace and personal touch of Rev. Gary, and in the light of my father’s love.
From the beginning we wanted to make our ceremony special, but we didn’t anticipate the overwhelming feed back we received from all of our guests on how moving and touching our ceremony was and how impressed they were with Rev. Gary. My mom, who was naturally apprehensive about the whole thing, was as happy as she could be, telling me how proud she was and that my dad would have been of how we conducted the ceremony. We will always look back with affection on how wonderful Rev. Gary made our wedding day. With that, we cannot thank Rev. Gary enough and are happy to have him in our lives!