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Rev. Gary Deinstadt

5.0
(129)
best-of-weddings

Westchester, Hudson Valley, CT, NYC,

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About This Vendor

It's about joy!

It’s about your joy! It’s about your love! It’s about your new life together! This is your wedding so let's have a personal ceremony that's unique to the two of you! Let's create a special memory reflective of your love for each other as you begin to build a new and wonderful future together!

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Ceremony Types
Elopement, Interfaith Ceremony, Non-Religious Ceremony, Religious Ceremony, Second Wedding , Vow Renewal Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
Christian, Interfaith, Spiritual
Wedding Activities
Wedding, Ceremony
Awards and Affiliations
Hall of Fame2022 Best of Weddings Winner2021 Best of Weddings Winner2020 Best of Weddings Winner2019 Best of Weddings Winner2018 Best of Weddings Winner2017 Best of Weddings Winner2016 Best of Weddings Winner2015 Best of Weddings Winner2014 Best of Weddings Winner2013 Best of Weddings Winner

Rev. Gary Deinstadt Reviews

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Reviewed On 6/01/2019 by Jenna T
My husband and I were married on May 10, 2019 by Rev. Gary, and we could not have imagined our ceremony any differently. Since we were planning our wedding from MA, we were very nervous when we began searching for an officiant (Perhaps me more ...
than my husband). We had searched for months and interviewed a dozen other officiants, however no one else gave us the same sense of comfort and faith that Rev. Gary gave us. We discovered his profile online just 3 months before the wedding. I called Gary and knew right away. Although we did not meet in person until the day of the wedding, Gary made countless efforts to get to know us before hand. Gary was extremely flexible and worked with us to create a ceremony that suited us perfectly as a couple through several emails and phone calls. It had character and was unique to us. On the day of our wedding, Gary's service left us, our family and our friends speechless. His words and blessings were heartfelt and delivered beautifully. Gary truly gave us the wedding of our dreams. I am SO SO happy I did not settle with another officiant and could not be more thankful that we were able to be married by Gary. After the ceremony and in the weeks following our wedding, we had so many of our guests tell us that ours was one of the most beautiful wedding ceremonies that they have ever attended. Gary's kind blessings meant the world to us, as well as our families. It was truly amazing. Reverend Gary blessed us with a wedding ceremony that we will never ever forget. He exceeded all our expectations and I would HIGHLY recommend his services. You will not be disappointed
Reviewed On 7/08/2022 by Brooke M
If I could give 10 stars I would. Working with Gary was an absolute joy from start to finish. It was extremely important to my husband and I that the ceremony be personal to who we are as a couple. We go to A LOT of weddings and we didn't want ...
it to feel like any couple could've been standing up there like a plug and play bride & groom. To say Gary captured us as a couple would be a gigantic understatement. We cannot even count the amount of people who asked us "how long have you known your officiant for???? Are you related???? He was amazing!" after the ceremony. Despite having only talked to Gary a few times on zoom prior to our wedding day, it truly felt like Gary had known us for years. Knowing how important it was to us for the ceremony to be unique to us, he asked us to submit a personal story that was meaningful to our relationship and the way he delivered it would've made you think he was sitting right there when it happened 4 years ago. Gary has an extremely calming demeanor and a great sense of humor--- two invaluable qualities that set our minds at ease leading up to our wedding day and set the tone for a truly incredible ceremony. Just 10 minutes before coming to write this review I got yet another text message from a guest telling me how memorable the ceremony was and asking if she could "steal some of the beautiful components" for her own wedding back in Texas later this year. I had to tell her that the large majority of it came from Gary's own suggestions--- everything from the flow, to the blessings, to the unique love letter & ring box ceremony was suggested and customized by Gary to deliver the ceremony of our dreams. If you want a personal, heartwarming and inspiring ceremony that your guests won't forget--- look no further than Gary! You won't regret it.
Reviewed On 6/05/2022 by John T
Early in our process we had a vision of what we wanted for our ceremony but wasn’t sure if possible and how exactly it would work. Our initial conversation with Gary began with him listening and then walking us thru how he can customize the ...
ceremony to meet our needs. The connection he was able to make during that initial conversation and the time he spent learning about us and understand what we wanted added comfort that we had the right person. On the big day, Gary arrived and was immediately welcoming to everyone and put everyone in a good mood. The ceremony was amazing and even better then we envisioned. So many guests asked us where we found Gary, we strongly recommend!
Reviewed On 1/05/2022 by Danika C
We are so happy that we hired Rev. Gary to be our officiant. My (now) husband and I were very picky when it came to who was going to marry us. We wanted someone that felt genuine and that is the perfect word to describe Gary. During our initial...
call, we really appreciated that he asked us a lot of questions and took the time to really get to know us. We booked him about a year and 9 months before our wedding date and throughout that time, he checked in on us multiple times to see how we were doing and if we had any questions he could answer. The day of the wedding, he officiated our ceremony perfectly. My husband and I are both introverts and were very nervous and he made us feel comfortable. After the ceremony, nearly all of our guests commented on how much they loved him and how beautiful the ceremony was. In fact, my grandma now quotes things he said during our ceremony because she just loved how he phrased things. If you are looking for an officiant, hire Rev. Gary. He is kind, thoughtful, professional, and cares about his couples. Most importantly, he is very genuine as mentioned above, making the whole ceremony much more special.
Reviewed On 12/12/2021 by nicole c
Gary was the best! My husband and I got married in September - we met with him a few months before the big day and exchanged a bunch of emails back and forth. He made planning this part of the wedding so easy. I loved that he came prepped with...
many options for how he could take the day based on our preferences and then peppered in the right amount of personal touches. Super professional, friendly, and warm. The day of he was ready to go and really made the ceremony special. Thank you so much Gary!
Reviewed On 11/07/2021 by Sheri T
My Husband and I absolutely adore Gary. He is so very kind and truly customized everything in our ceremony to suit us so beautifully. We so appreciate his calm peaceful demeanor, how much he put us at ease and his ability to add glimmers of h...
umor to everything he does. Our ceremony could not have been more perfect, or more US. It is so clear that Gary loves what he does and that he loves people. We are so grateful for his thoughtfulness and being a part of our special day!
Reviewed On 10/16/2021 by Tara M
Rev. Deinstadt is a must have on your wedding team! He put together a beautiful ceremony that our guests are still taking about. He took our vision for the ceremony and knocked it out of the park!He is very organized and has the ability and wil...
lingness to perform any kind of ceremony.
Reviewed On 9/20/2021 by Stephanie L
I don't even know where to begin in writing all the great things I want to say about Gary. When we met with Gary a few years ago to potentially be the officiant for our big day, we instantly knew he was the one and did not look any further. He ...
was kind, understanding, and made the whole process as easy as possible. We could tell all along that he really loves what he does. He took the time to get to know us and help us plan the most beautiful ceremony ever. Everyone came up to us after the wedding and told us how wonderful the ceremony was and were shocked to find out that haven't known Gary our entire lives, that's how personable and thoughtful everything was. Definitely choose Gary for your big day, you will not regret it!
Reviewed On 9/02/2021 by Kaitlyn B
My fiancé and I were sooo unsure about where to even begin when searching for an officiant. Luckily, we found Rev. Gary. We knew from the first FaceTime that he was THE ONE. He was so kind, courteous, funny (yet professional), warm and inviting...
. We were chatting with him as if we had known him forever...he made us feel so comfortable. Rev. Gary took the time to get to know us and truly cared to get all of the details of our relationship. He cared about our values and beliefs and incorporated those into the BEAUTIFUL ceremony he put together for us. He also walked us through the whole paperwork process of getting married (the license: filing it, receiving it, BRINGING IT the day you get married!). His ceremony was so personal, touching and beautiful. It truly reflected the personalities of my (now) husband and I. Thank you so much Rev. Gary for everything! I would recommend him to anybody. (and I have!!)
Reviewed On 8/23/2021 by Ryan B
Gary was an excellent officiant for our wedding. He was very organized and was helpful throughout the planning process. On the wedding day, he was fully prepared and officiated a beautiful ceremony. My wife and I would highly recommend Gary f...
or anyone getting married in the Tri-State area!
Reviewed On 8/20/2021 by Christina B
We are so happy to have chosen Gary as our officiant! Gary was very thorough and responsive from the start. He took the time to meet with my now husband and I to get to know us and hear about our wedding vision. Gary provided us with a booklet ...
of information that included samples of our ceremony, readings, vows, blessings etc. It was extremely helpful and we were able to customize it to our liking. Gary answered questions and made suggestions during the process, which made everything very seamless. On our wedding day, Gary delivered a beautiful and heart-felt ceremony. Many of our guests and family members have commented in the days since our wedding how impressed they were with Reverend Gary. We highly recommend!!! :)
Reviewed On 8/16/2021 by Kaitlyn P
Gary was the perfect choice for our wedding ceremony! He was very attentive and helpful through the whole process. He was willing to let us design the ceremony exactly the way we wanted it and guided us in areas we needed help with. We highly r...
ecommend Rev. Gary for your wedding ceremony.
Reviewed On 7/25/2021 by MARTINA B
Gary performed an absolutely beautiful wedding ceremony for us. He was wonderful to work with in the planning process and very patient. We can't recommend Gary highly enough.
Reviewed On 7/19/2021 by Lily Y
Gary had the pleasure of officiating two weddings for us! Our small ceremony with just family in 2020 and our celebration in 2021. Gary was so kind from the beginning. When we met him he has a very calming nature to him, he is funny and took th...
e time to get to know our story as well as telling us about himself. He's extremely personable and great to work with. He really made our ceremony perfect, everything was natural, he read the room, he read us as a couple. All of our guests raved about how great Gary was and we really could not be more grateful. Thank you so much for EVERYTHING, Gary! Would highly recommend, he will not let you down :)
Reviewed On 7/13/2021 by S H
Gary made the ceremony totally customizable and we didn't need to even rehearse because he coordinated everything the day of with our wedding party. There weren't any awkward pauses or someone forgetting to do something, we literally sailed thr...
ough the ceremony and had zero stress about remembering anything we had to do. He made it personal and kept it professional, clearly his years of experience help to make every ceremony free of hiccups.
Reviewed On 7/12/2021 by Samantha G
Rev Gary was amazing!! He made our ceremony very special! He added humor, love and blessings. He is great to work with! Before the day of, he makes time to get to know you as a couple. I loved how he gave us options of how we wanted our ceremo...
ny to go. He is able to do all different types of Ceremonies which allows couples to be creative. Guests We’re complementing what a great job he did. I highly recommend him!
Reviewed On 6/16/2021 by Luana K
I hired Rev. Gary with a month prior to my wedding and i was very happy once we spoke on the phone to get to know each other, from that time my husband and i felt the connection and we happily hired Gary. He did help us a lot with the ceremon...
y and made very good suggestions! All my guests loved the ceremony! I was incredibly emotional during the ceremony but also confident and feeling safe and surrounded of love and faith and it was the best day of my life for sure! Thank you very much Rev Gary.
Reviewed On 6/14/2021 by Diane G
Gary was absolutely amazing from start to finish!! So kind and guided my fiancé and I through the entire process. He made our ceremony everything we hoped it would be his calm demeanor really eased my nerves about being in front of so many peop...
le. I am so glad we chose Gary to officiate our wedding!!
Reviewed On 6/05/2021 by Jose B
Rev. Gary was awesome.From months before the wedding he explained every step and detail and offered different ceremonies to choose from.Having us well prepared for our special day Gary made us feel at ease with no worries and on our special d...
ay everything went so smooth the readings were uplifting and his smile so humble.We are blessed to have found Gary to perform our ceremony and glad that he is part of our memories that will last a lifetime.
Reviewed On 6/01/2021 by Marina S
Rev. Gary officiated at our wedding ceremony on 5/22/21. He took the tine to get to know us and helped us in putting together a personalized and meaningful ceremony. Our friends and family were very impressed with the ceremony as were we and we...
were glad to have had Rev Gary as our officiant. It went smoothly and was exactly what we wanted and he made us feel comfortable. I would highly recommend him .
Reviewed On 10/14/2020 by Tara S
We hired Gary for our mini ceremony on the water this past weekend. He was very accommodating and dedicated to making sure that our ceremony went perfectly. We started with a phone call and then he wanted to meet us to get to know us before the...
big day. He is friendly, has a sense of humor, and is very kind. The ceremony went great as well. I would highly recommend Gary as an officiant for your wedding.
Reviewed On 6/30/2020 by Ashley A
Gary is absolutely WONDERFUL! We used Gary for our 6/20/2020 wedding which because of the pandemic became a backyard wedding. Gary was SO adjustable to all of the changes that we made the ceremony. He gives a million ceremony options and guides...
you through the entire process. I absolutely love how he conducted our ceremony. Perfect level of humor mixed in with romance. I HIGHLY recommend Gary for your wedding!!!
Reviewed On 6/28/2020 by Randy Z
We were married Thursday, June 25, 2020. After cancelling 3 weddings because of COVID-19 we decided at the last minute to get married at my mother-in-law’s house – just us, my mother-in-law and my sisters-in-law. But now we had to find an off...
iciant. Reverend Gary Deinstadt was ready and willing. Never mind that we are Jewish! It didn’t matter. “Reverend Gary” was as able as he was willing. It was a beautiful ceremony and one that we will not forget. Reverend Gary taught us that we are united in far more than what we think separates us. You would have thought we were members of his congregation – that is how quickly he was able to get to know us and create a ceremony that worked for us. I even got to break the glass!
Reviewed On 4/18/2020 by Mike H
Gary was tremendous. He took time to get to know us and tailored a ceremony just for us. He was also quite flexible in making our ceremony happen in the midst of the pandemic (of course with proper social distancing). We highly recommend him...
!!
Reviewed On 1/11/2020 by Bianca C
We had the honor of having Gary Officiate our wedding in August of 2019. Gary made the process so easy and personable and goes above and beyond to make this piece of the wedding planning the easiest and to makes sure your day is all about you a...
nd your spouse! We told Gary what type of ceremony we wanted and built it to our needs/wants. Our guest and families could not stop talking about how great our ceremony was and how it fit us as a couple! Gary strives to make sure the day fits the two of you! :) from providing all the information to getting your marriage license and easy quick response to questions or information we were so thankful! Gary came to see me in my bridal suit moments before the wedding just to say hello...I felt so at ease and like I’ve known him forever. Gary is wonderful!
Reviewed On 1/07/2020 by Vadim G
Gary was a much-needed steady hand during our wedding planning. He helped us personalize our ceremony and was a charismatic, warm, welcoming and funny presence throughout. Our ceremony was well-received and he had a lot to do with that.
Reviewed On 11/10/2019 by Erin G
Reverend Gary made our wedding ceremony exactly what we wanted. He made it so personal and incorporated everything we wanted. Whenever we contacted him, he would respond, answering all questions we had. We would definitely recommend him.
Reviewed On 8/22/2019 by Tara W
Reverend Gary Deinstadt was a pleasure to work with. He is down to earth and easy to talk to. Not knowing what we wanted to do for our ceremony, he had a booklet full of ideas to help us get started. He is very flexible in doing whatever you wa...
nt for your ceremony. He’ll check in every once in awhile to see how we’re doing and to remind us to get our marriage license. He definitely goes above and beyond and we greatly appreciated it. We were a little nervous about the ceremony not being personable but Reverend Gary did an amazing job! We got so many compliments from our guests about him. We highly recommend getting Reverend Gary for weddings!
Reviewed On 7/23/2019 by Christina D
My husband and I were married 1 month ago today. We had a quick engagement and took no time to pick a reception venue in which we would also have our ceremony. After booking the Crabtree’s Kittle House our next big decision was to chose an offi...
ciant. We came across Rev. Gary Deinstadt on The Knot in which he came highly recommended. From the moment I contacted Gary through email the exchanges and promptness were exceptional. He took the time to meet with my husband and I and instantly put us at ease with his calming energy and great sense of humor. He very thoroughly went through the types of ceremony’s he’s done while at the same time listening to our needs and getting to know us. The next day we emailed him to book him on our wedding day! Fast forward to around 6 weeks prior to the big day Gary aided us as we started to finalize our ceremony. He provided suggestions and input which helped us in choosing the perfect ceremony for us. On the big day (6/22/19) Gary showed up prompt with a big smile which automatically put our nerves at ease. The ceremony itself was absolutely beautiful and the words were spoken so eloquently about marriage and our new life ahead of us as husband and wife. After the ceremony was over everyone of our guests quickly were to compliment how beautiful the ceremony was. My husband and I cannot say enough kind words about Rev. Gary Deinstadt. He played a major role on making our wedding day as special as it was!
Reviewed On 7/22/2019 by Jennifer D
Rev. Gary was simply amazing. From the moment we met him we instantly felt a connection. I could tell he was the type of minister that loves what he does and marries couples out of the goodness of his heart. He took the time to go over the pack...
ages he offers and helped us customize our own ceremony to be a reflection of who we truly are as a couple. The day of the ceremony he was a delight to work with. He made us feel extremely comfortable during the ceremony when we were a bit nervous. Overall, booking with Rev. Gary was definitely one of the best decisions we made that day and I highly recommend him!!
Reviewed On 7/18/2019 by Katy D
It was important to my (now) husband and I to find an officiant who would provide us with a ceremony that was somewhat religious, personal to us, and spoke to the core fundamentals of marriage. Reverend Gary gave us exactly that ceremony! He wo...
rked with us to revise the ceremony back and forth and make suggestions for the order of things. Everything we wanted our ceremony to be - it was; everything we wanted it to stand for - it did. So many of our guests let us know how touched they were by his words and how they just wanted to keep listening to what he had to say. And my favorite - many people told us they never get emotional at weddings, but they did at ours! To know that our guests felt what we felt in those moments is truly special. We highly recommend Reverend Gary!
Reviewed On 6/01/2019 by Iconix G
We had the pleasure of having Reverend Gary officiate our recent May nuptials. I feel extremely lucky to have found him and cannot praise him enough. He is beyond kind, genuine and well spoken. He delivered an absolutely beautiful sermon that w...
as heartfelt but also had the right balance of humor. He is personable, warm, friendly and I cannot recommend him enough! He is in touch throughout the process. He really encourages input so that your sermon is personal and one of a kind. Truly a class act! We are so happy we found Rev. Gary and that he was a part of our forever memory.
Reviewed On 5/17/2019 by Stephanie S
Where do i begin? Rev. Gary Deinstadt was amazing in every aspect of the word. He performed an amazing ceremony for us on May 4th 2019. Everything he said was spoken truly from the heart and he personalized everything to be exactly what we want...
ed. Me and my husband come from different religious backgrounds (catholic/Jewish) and i was so nervous about what we could speak about and what we couldnt, but Rev. Gary really helped ease my mind and everything he said was tasteful and beautiful. Through the whole crazy planning process Rev. Gary was so calm and reassuring that he made it so easy for us. Standing up there that day was scary and we were so nervous knowing so many eyes were on us, but Rev. Gary brought us back down to earth and back to eachother which made it comfortable, not so tense and funny. I would pick Rev. Gary over and over again!!!!!!!!
Reviewed On 3/26/2019 by Devin K
Choosing an officiant was one of the most difficult tasks my husband and I had when planning our wedding. We were hesitant to work with someone we did not know but after our first conversation with Gary, we knew we were in good hands. Gary took...
the time to explain his process and allow us to get to know him (and him to get to know us) to make sure we were a good fit. He was so helpful during the process and made sure we had a ceremony we loved while adding in some surprises. Gary did a wonderful job the day of our ceremony. He helped keep things calm and organized and delivered a beautiful ceremony. So many guests asked us how we knew Gary because the ceremony fit us so well. Gary took care of our marriage license quickly and was wonderful to work with. I would highly recommend Gary!
Reviewed On 11/27/2018 by Nicole C
Rev. Gary made our wedding special. We wanted an intimate wedding that wasn’t cookie-cutter, and he offered suggestions and helped us make a service that felt like “us.” He has a wonderful sense of humor, and is such a warm and caring person w...
hich really comes through in his words and actions. Everyone said how intimate and heart-felt the ceremony was. It was because of Rev. Gary.
Reviewed On 11/25/2018 by Alison S
My husband and I were back and forth on who we wanted to our officiate our wedding. We both felt this was one of the most important vendor selections in the whole process. We were so indecisive that with 3 months to go until the wedding we stil...
l hadn’t chosen anyone. I was searching vendors one night and came across Gary’s website. We had an intro call and then meet him in person. We immediately get comfortable with Gary even though we barely knew him. His personality was exactly what we were looking for. And his approach to creating the ceremony was great. It was easy to work with him over email to finalize everything. At the wedding friends and family all told us how wonderful the officiant was. I couldn’t agree more! He made the ceremony very special for us. I’m so glad we chose someone with his experience and demeanor. It was a special night thanks to Gary!
Reviewed On 11/19/2018 by Lorena F
Rev. Gary Deinstadt was without a doubt one of the best choices for my wedding. From the start he was very responsive, attentive and a joy to work with. He cares about tailoring your ceremony to fit your vision while remaining authentic. I cann...
ot say enough good things about him. From the early stages of planning, till after your wedding Rev. Gary will be a guide, support, and friend that you will truly adore!
Reviewed On 10/30/2018 by Liz S
We could not have been more thrilled to work with Reverend Gary and the amazing job he did on our wedding day. We both were raised Catholic but do not currently practice; we knew we didn't want a religious ceremony, but we wanted some familiar ...
aspects of our Christian faith and upbringing. We also opted not to have a friend or family member officiate as we wanted someone with experience and who we felt like we could trust to be in charge (and not stress out!). I did a lot of research to find a minister I felt was authentic and genuine, without being stuffy or boring. Enter: Gary! To start, he walked us step-by-step through the planning process, offering insightful guidance when requested. The day of, Gary could not have done a more incredible job. He made everyone involved in the ceremony feel informed and prepared, and guided everything seamlessly. All of our guests couldn't get over how special they thought our ceremony was, and so many were moved to heartfelt tears. He expertly wove together all the parts and pieces, and truly made our ceremony feel uniquely "us." For so many weddings we've attended, we've felt like the ceremony was just a stuffy obligation to get through before the party; ours was the most beautiful symbol of our love and relationship. Thank you, Gary, for all that you did to make our wedding so special!
Reviewed On 10/29/2018 by Megan R
We are so happy to have chosen Gary as our officiant! We got his name through a friend who had him at their wedding which was wonderful and the second we met him immediately loved him. His energy is the definition of happy, he makes you feel so...
comfortable with the whole process walking you through each step. He gives you so many options for whatever kind of ceremony you want and meeting with him is so easy! He’s very flexible with when and where to meet, on time for everything, will respond back to any questions you have quickly and he’s super helpful. We felt like even though we met him once before our wedding we’ve known him our whole life! All of our guests loved him and I’m so happy we chose him.
Reviewed On 10/26/2018 by Kyrsti T
Gary was AMAZING. I wish I could give more than 5 stars. From meeting him the first time to the wedding day he constantly checked in and was super helpful in helping us determine the wording for our ceremony. We got some many people asking who ...
the officiant was after the wedding because everyone loved him. He was exactly who we pictured marrying us and were so so happy with his services. Highly recommend!
Reviewed On 10/16/2018 by Anne A
We're so thrilled we chose Rev. Gary to marry us. He was able to incorporate all of our ideas and master a semi-religious wedding with some aspects of a Jewish ceremony. Gary was very responsive whenever we reached out with a question or conc...
ern. He was warm, kind and funny; his delivery was genuine and heartfelt. I would highly recommend using Gary as your officiant!
Reviewed On 10/09/2018 by Kathryn V
Gary was simply AMAZING! He was so easy to work with, he was flexible, kind, helpful, and so wonderful. He has everything so well organized that picking Gary to be your officiant will be the easiest part of your wedding! After our ceremony, eve...
ryone kept coming up to me and my husband to rave about how fantastic Gary was. He injected just the right amount of humor into our ceremony to help shake some of the nerves and emotions, and we cannot thank him enough. We absolutely, without a doubt recommend that everyone work with Gary for their big day. He will make the process so easy, and certainly be a highlight of your wedding ceremony!
Reviewed On 10/08/2018 by Monique S
I can’t say enough about Reverend Gary! After a short meeting with him, my husband and I were very confident that we were making a great choice for a wedding officiant. He is very warm and kind, and cares greatly about you as a couple and wants...
to make your ceremony exactly what you want it to be. Our ceremony was beautiful and we received many compliments from guests on how much they enjoyed it and listening to Reverend Gary speak. We truly recommend him to anyone, you won’t regret your decision!
Reviewed On 10/06/2018 by Ellery S
Rev. Gary was wonderful! So helpful and made the whole process so easy. Thank you! I would recommend him to anyone!
Reviewed On 10/02/2018 by Michael S
Rev. Deinstadt made our ceremony and wedding day very special. He is a pleasure to work with. Would highly recommend.
Reviewed On 9/17/2018 by Katherine A
Our wedding on 9/14/18 was nothing short of amazing. Immediately after our ceremony ended, all the guests came up to me asking “where did you get your officiant?!” Many even asked if he was also a stand up comedian- and I said no but he is an E...
mmy award winner :) From the first phone call with Gary to meeting him before the wedding to our wedding day, we feel so comfortable with him. He tailored our ceremony to us and made it so special. He included personal things about us and had our guests laughing one minute and crying the next! He responded to emails very quickly and was there whenever we had any questions. I am so happy that we chose Gary to be a part of our day, and even happier that he chose us!
Reviewed On 9/11/2018 by Jenna D
Thank you to Rev. Gary for being an absolute pleasure to work with! He was very attentive to our vision and made us feel very comfortable.
Reviewed On 9/04/2018 by Gina P
Reverend Gary Deinstadt did an amazing job officiating our wedding ceremony, and he was an absolute pleasure to work with throughout our entire planning process as well. He was so kind, professional, extremely responsive, and really took the t...
ime to get to know us, including our story as a couple, and built our ceremony to be exactly what we hoped for. We received so many compliments on how beautiful and personal our ceremony was, thanks to Reverend Gary. We would highly recommend working with Reverend Gary to officiate your wedding ceremony or any other important ceremony or service in your life ..you won’t be disappointed!!
Reviewed On 6/01/2018 by Casey S
Rev. Gary was amazing! From the first time we sat down with him, we could tell how passionate he was about what he did. He listened to our thoughts and took the time to get to truly get to know us and our story. Arranging a ceremony proved to b...
e one of the most difficult parts of wedding planning, but Gary made it that much easier. He was always available to answer any questions and relieve any stress we had regarding the wedding. Gary was very supportive of our ideas and was able to offer advice based on his vast knowledge and experience. He understood and respected our personal backgrounds and was able to plan a ceremony tailored to both of us. He made it intimate and special for my husband and I while keeping it enjoyable, and occasionally humorous, for our guests. After the ceremony, practically all of our guests approached us to ask and compliment us about our amazing officiant. Our ceremony was even better than we could have imagined. We are so thankful to Gary for all of his help and guidance throughout this process. We will always look back on this day with no regrets. Sincerely, Casey and Billy Fichthorn​
Reviewed On 10/14/2017 by Jessica A
Reverend Gary was an absolute pleasure to work with. From the first time we met, at the local diner, to discuss our ideas and plans for our ceremony, he made us feel so important. We felt very comfortable discussing everything with him and he a...
sked great questions when getting to know us that reminded me of why we chose to get married to each other. The variety of options he provides for the style and type of ceremony were extremely helpful and the best was we were able to really personalize it. He was extremely helpful throughout the process and punctual when responding to emails. We left for our honeymoon 2 days after the wedding and our marriage license was here by the time we were back home. Reverend Gary, you are a special and wonderful person. Thank you for being a part of our special day!
Reviewed On 10/11/2017 by Kyle J
We chose to have Gary officiate our wedding after meeting with him for about an hour or so. He spent some time asking us questions and getting to know us, and at the end of the meeting we were sure that we had the right person. We knew that we ...
wanted a non-religious ceremony, and he had plenty of pre-written ones that met our needs well. We were able to customize our ceremony via email, and the process couldn’t have been smoother. He was accommodating to our preferences and had many great ideas and suggestions along the way. The actual ceremony he gave was perfect. Our friends and family were so impressed and were surprised to find out that we hadn’t actually known him all our lives. He also made the process of completing our marriage license a breeze. We highly recommend Reverend Deinstadt.
Reviewed On 10/11/2017 by Caitlin W
Reverend Gary was such a pleasure to work with! He was warm and welcoming, got to know us, and genuinely seemed happy to be part of our day. He made sure we were on track with everything leading up to the wedding, and also followed up with us ...
on the marriage license afterwards. He made the ceremony feel like us which is everything we could have hoped for. He has so many readings and prayers to choose from which was great, and he was open to all of our ideas as well. I highly recommend Rev. Gary!
Reviewed On 10/11/2017 by Susan R
Reverend Gary was absolutely perfect as the officiant for our wedding on 9/29/17. He is truly a sweet, gentle and wonderful human being. I knew very little about the whole ceremony process when we got engaged, but Reverend Gary guided us throug...
h so many different options. He showed us everything from a Traditional Religious Ceremony to a Contemporary Semi-Religious Ceremony (yes, that's the name of it, and yes, that's the one we chose!). He took detailed notes and really took time to get to know us - I knew right away that we would be booking him. We worked with him to add in pieces that fit our relationship perfectly, including a ring warming ceremony where everyone in the audience passed along our ring box to give a personal wish. This happened during the ceremony, which I thought was a nice way to keep guests "occupied" during the vows! Throughout the period leading up to the wedding, we spoke with Reverend Gary over email and the phone. He was so kind and helpful with every single detail. I actually learned so much about the process of "getting married" from him - he guided us through all the steps of obtaining a marriage license and other important tips. Once it came time for the ceremony, Reverend Gary surpassed our expectations. He added in a few personal words at the end, and had the whole audience sniffling. Everything that he said was moving and beautiful, and he even added a few well-placed laughs. He was one of the main reasons that the mood of our wedding started off beautifully and positively. We could not be happier to recommend him to anyone getting married in the NY or CT areas. You will not be disappointed!!!
Reviewed On 10/08/2017 by Jenn S
Rev Gary is one of a kind. From our first meeting you can tell how much your wedding means to him. He takes notes and asks questions about your relationship to really get to know you. I sent Rev Gary a deposit check the next day after meeting h...
im. He is so organized and was so communicative through the entire process making sure the ceremony was exactly what we wanted. He is willing to perfect and personalize every single line of your ceremony until you are completely satisfied with it. The day of the wedding he could not have spoken more eloquently, or be more heartfelt in his delivery. Not only did we love it, but got multiple compliments from our guests about how nice and professional Rev Gary was. We also received our marriage certificate within a week because he was so efficient! I highly recommend him for your day, you won't be disappointed!
Reviewed On 10/01/2017 by Elissa K
We are so thankful that we decided to have Reverend Gary officiate our wedding! When trying to decide on what kind of ceremony we wanted to have we were struggling to find the right mix of religious/traditional but personal and unique. Gary hel...
ped us achieve just the right combination and was extremely kind and patient throughout the entire process. We were able to personalize the ceremony as much as we wanted and received so many compliments on what a beautiful ceremony it turned out to be and what a wonderful job Gary did! Many people asked us where we found him and said it felt like he knew us for years because the ceremony truly felt unique to us! If you are looking for a reverend who will go above and beyond to ensure that your ceremony is absolutely perfect and unique to you, look no further Gary is it!
Reviewed On 9/12/2017 by Amanda V
If there were more stars to rate Rev. Gary we would mark all of them. From the moment we meet Rev. Gary at Starbucks it was an instance connection.He truly loves what he does and put a lot of care into it. Rev. Gary made the planning process e...
njoyable and he was there for you every step of the way. The ceremony was amazing, beautiful and so touching. You felt as if you knew Rev. Gary forever and he knew you. He incorporates family and special friends. People are still talking about our ceremony. It was incredible. John & Amanda
Reviewed On 8/22/2017 by Elizabeth L
Rev. Gary was a pleasure to work with throughout the whole process. It is clear that he really enjoys his work and cares about the couples he is marrying. He was very helpful in selecting our readings, etc. and provided excellent suggestions a...
nd information about the ceremony, the marriage license, etc. During the ceremony he did an amazing job and kept things meaningful but light-hearted. I would highly recommend Gary to anyone.
Reviewed On 7/23/2017 by Lisa L
When my husband and I first met Gary we knew he was the minister we wanted to go with. We felt so comfortable with Gary. He spend a lot of time learning about our story and understanding us as individuals and as a couple. During our ceremony, i...
t was clear he was able to take the information we provided and used it to deliver this wonderful story. It was as if he knew us for years. Friends and family were all impressed by the short but sweet ceremony. We are so grateful for all of Gary’s guidance. As a bride, it was comforting to know he was taking care of the ceremony and I could trust it was going to go smoothly. We highly recommend Gray for your special day!
Reviewed On 6/20/2017 by Haley U
My now husband and I first met with Rev. Gary at a convenient half way point between all of us, and within the first 5 minutes we knew he would be the one to marry us. We had such a warm and pleasant conversation and he asked deep questions to ...
really try to learn more about us. We booked him right away and he sent us samples of the different types of ceremony options. We knew we wanted an outdoor ceremony, but my husband is Catholic and he really wanted a religious ceremony. I on the other hand wanted something very personal and emotional. We found the perfect blend in one of Rev. Gary's ceremony options. Communication with him leading up to the wedding was easy and he always answered promptly (sometimes he even gave me reminders I had forgotten about). Our wedding day and ceremony was the most perfect, and euphoric experience of my life. Rev. Gary touched every one of our guests with his words. We have received so many compliments about him. Many of our guests said it was the best and most touching ceremony they have ever witnessed. I want to keep in touch with him even now that the wedding is over because he had such an impact on my husband and I and our family. Thank you Rev. Gary!
Reviewed On 6/16/2017 by Charly W
Rev. Gary was truly wonderful both on the day of our wedding, and during the months leading up to it as we worked together to find just the right readings and blessings to achieve the feeling we were hoping to create during our ceremony. We cho...
se to blend traditional and modern and during our first meeting, Rev. Gary was kind of enough to suggest a Wine Box ceremony which we ended up using and loved. I cannot wait to open the letters my husband and I wrote to one another on our 5th Anniversary! Rev. Gary then stayed with us throughout cocktail hour and into the beginning of the reception so that he could lead us in a short Blessing before the meals were served, complete with a champagne toast. Family and friends have spoken so highly of him since our big day, and we couldn't be happier. He was kind, patient, reassuring and very responsive. If you are looking to create a truly unique ceremony, Rev. Gary will help you achieve all that you are hoping to. He also took care of mailing in our witnessed marriage license so that the certificate would arrive while we were away on our Honeymoon. After planning a wedding, it was one less thing we had to worry about, and I appreciated it. His advice is well mannered and he is very thoughtful when making suggestions for how might piece together all of your ideas so that it looks effortless to your guests. We are thrilled we chose him! You will be very happy you reached out to him. Best of luck!! And, thank you Rev. Gary!!!
Reviewed On 6/14/2017 by Jordan A
Gary was so amazing for our wedding this past weekend. He spoke as though he had known us forever, making sure that our ceremony was about what we loved and felt was the most important to us. He tailored everything to our specifications, and ha...
d so many options to make it personalized to us. He was a pleasure to work with, and all of our guests loved the emotion felt during our ceremony.
Reviewed On 6/14/2017 by Vivi K
ev. Gary officiated our non-religious wedding ceremony, and he did an outstanding job! My Fiance was a bit anxious waiting for me at the aisle, and Rev. Gary put him at ease by doing some non-wedding related small talk. He greatly appreciated t...
hat. We drafted our own ceremony script, however, Rev. Gary provided valuable feedback. He also took our ceremony script, and incorporated some of his ideas, and delivered it flawlessly! The ceremony felt very sincere, emotional and funny as we wanted. He also brings a lot of gravitas to the event, which I feel is very important as to us the ceremony is what makes a wedding a wedding. Our guests were very touched also, and could relate to things Rev. Gary said. He does truly engage the audience, and make the ceremony very relevant and sincere for the couple and the guests. He made our wedding very special! I would strongly recommend him to another couple.
Reviewed On 6/04/2017 by Alex B
We couldn't have asked for a better officiant for our Manhattan wedding. Rev. Gary is immensely caring, kind, and eloquent. The whole process from planning to ceremony was extremely well organized and worry-free thanks to Rev. Gary. When cho...
osing someone to do something as personal and important as a wedding ceremony, there is a large element of trust required. Rev. Gary seemed like someone who had known and cared for us all of our lives. He was there for us on our special day. His care and support remain with us beyond the I do's. We are grateful that Rev. Gary led our ceremony. -- Alex & Kevin
Reviewed On 12/21/2016 by Peter T
We could not have been happier that we chose Rev. Gary to officiate our Oct. 2016 wedding ceremony at Tappan Hill Mansion. From our initial meeting with Gary, he took the time to get to know us individually and as a couple, and was able to full...
y discern the kind of ceremony we envisioned. Gary was clearly very experienced in working with couples to tailor the ceremony to personal tastes. As our wedding approached Gary checked in regularly and offered helpful suggestions when we were unsure on the flow and substance of the ceremony. Our ceremony could not have gone better, Gary spoke such heartfelt words in the ceremony that our friends and family thought we had known him for years. We would highly recommend Rev. Gary.
Reviewed On 12/13/2016 by Bettina G
Gary officiated me and my husband's wedding and he did a great job. He was a pleasure to work with. He was funny, personable, and made sure to explain everything to us in a way that made it so stress-free and easy. From the initial meeting wher...
e we got to know one another to prepping along the way to day-of... Gary made our day truly special. The service was perfect -- not too long, not too short and exactly what we would have hoped for. We highly recommend him!
Reviewed On 11/10/2016 by Jen R
It was an honor it was to have Gary officiate our wedding. From day one he made us feel comfortable, and really brought what the wedding was all about to the forefront of our minds. He was able to help us so much in creating and visualizing our...
own personal ceremony, and having his guidance throughout the process was something we'll be forever grateful for.
Reviewed On 10/21/2016 by Cassandra C
Rev. Gary worked with us to create a personal and meaningful ceremony. He took the time to meet with us and ask important questions about our relationship and marriage goals. His genuine interest in the importance of our relationship and the ti...
me he spent with us allowed for him to have a personal connection to our ceremony and connection with us as a couple. He made himself available to us along the planning process and had great insight and suggestions when finalizing the ceremony and writing our own vows. On the day of, he spoke with true love in his heart and his words were touching, soothing and meaningful. He added such personal touches that meant a lot to us and he sprinkled humor into the ceremony which made us both smile and enjoy every moment. My husband and I look forward to having him in our lives as a Reverend and as a friend as our marriage grows.
Reviewed On 10/13/2016 by Cynthia S
From our initial meeting with Rev Gary, we knew he was the one to marry us in just a few minutes of speaking with him. He had so many wonderful suggestions, keeping in mind that we wanted to stay on the Traditional side with our ceremony. Rev. ...
Gary in his own special way asked us questions to get to know more about us and when he did that, my husband and I actually learned more about each other! He was so interested in how we met and what our hopes for the future were for each other. He is so very kind, helpful and has such an amazingly soothing demeanor that won us over immediately. When it came time for us to write our vows to each other, my husband and I didn't know where to start. Rev. Gary advised us to "write from the heart" and also provided us with a helpful template, allowing us to build upon that. When our vows were completed, we sent them to Rev. Gary to review and he provided us with such positive and feedback! Rev. Gary was so incredibly experienced in assisting us with the planning and the details of the ceremony. He was always available to guide us, night or day. The end result was nothing short of perfect and spectacular. So many of our family, friends and guests had given us tremendous compliments about Rev. Gary and the way he officiated our ceremony. The waterfront banquet hall where we had our ceremony was very impressed with him and look forward to having him back officiating future ceremonies. He has followed every detail even post-wedding such as assisting us with the filing and receipt of our marriage license. In cl0sing, if we could suggest to any bride or groom looking for a wonderful officiant that will make your day that much more beautiful, your search starts and stops with Rev. Gary. God Bless Him!! All our love, admiration and appreciation, Cynthia & Scott L.
Reviewed On 10/03/2016 by Kassondra G
Gary brought beauty and professionalism to our ceremony to make it a memorable event. Forget the basics like easy to connect with and quick to respond to inquiries, Gary is so determined to make your ceremony perfect that he goes beyond these ...
beginning steps and helps you craft your day just the way you want it. His experience means he has answers to all the weird questions you have, and his wisdom (on both wedding etiquette and love) is a relief when you're actively planning for the big day. We highly recommend meeting Gary and learning more about the ceremony you can create together; I know we are glad we did.
Reviewed On 9/18/2016 by Nevena J
Rev. Gary did a wonderful job officiating our wedding. Upon meeting him we could tell he is such a genuine and kind person. During the ceremony planning process he provided guidance and genuine feedback to help make our ceremony even more spe...
cial. The day of he was extremely well spoken and exceeded all of our expectations. He truly was phenomenal throughout the process and we highly recommend him!
Reviewed On 9/14/2016 by Milena B
We couldn’t have asked for a better official! Rev. Gary was really easy to work with, extremely organized and knowledgeable. He helped us plan every detail of our beautiful ceremony and when it came to live, every word resonated with our guests...
. Even months later, people still tell us that it was the best ceremony they’ve seen. Our choice was a "semi-religious ceremony" because we felt that it was more personal and close to the heart than the traditional catholic ceremony. Rev. Gary helped us pick readings that were close to our philosophy on life and marriage. Ironically, one of the readings consisted of 7 sections — the number of our bridesmaids/groomsmen, so each bridesmaid read a line. A few of the groomsman read "love is kind". At the end, this was a ceremony that almost everyone in the wedding party helped bring to life.
Reviewed On 9/07/2016 by Heather H
We are so thrilled to write this recommendation for Reverend Gary! From the moment we met Gary, he made us feel comfortable and at ease with the process. We were very happy with his communication and organization leading up to the wedding day. ...
On the day of our wedding, his calm and confident presence was greatly appreciated in the moments before the ceremony. We will always treasure the memories of our ceremony, and this is largely due to Gary's heartfelt words and professionalism. Many of our guests and family members have commented in the days since our wedding how impressed they were with Reverend Gary and our entire ceremony. We are so thankful we found him!
Reviewed On 6/22/2016 by Sara B
Gary officiated the most beautiful ceremony for us at our venue in front of 215 guests. After only meeting with him once before the wedding, he spoke about us as if he knew us for years, everyone couldn't stop talking about how amazing of a cer...
emony we had, they all mentioned it was as if Gary knew us for years. Gary answered all the questions and concerns we had leading up to the wedding (via phone calls), and put our minds at ease when it came to organizing the ceremony. I highly recommend Gary to anyone looking for an officiant for any type of ceremony.
Reviewed On 6/14/2016 by Diana S
Gary was a pleasure to work with. He was communicative and helpful from the moment we met him in a NYC coffeeshop. His friendly and calm demeanor and professionalism were just a few of the key qualities in Gary that stuck with us. Gary was help...
ful in providing several different ceremonies we could work with to tailor our own. He was open to ideas, provided solutions and organized until the the big day. Gary arrived promptly - his calming demeanor was so refreshing and assuring. I remember when he walked into the venue and I was in a bit of a panic. Just seeing him made me feel more relaxed. Our guests are still talking to this day about how wonderful Gary's delivery and words were from the ceremony. We can't speak more highly about Gary as an officiant, he truly made our day the best ever. Gary was also on top of the wedding license logistics. He created a timeline and reminded us of when we needed things done. We received our marriage license just under 2 weeks after our wedding day. Choosing Gary was one of the best decisions we made and we're so thankful for his work and service to us.
Reviewed On 5/23/2016 by Kelsea M
Gary is a true professional and an absolute pleasure to work with. From the moment we connected with him we knew he really loves the work he does and cares about the couples he works with. Our ceremony was perfect thanks to his suggestions and ...
openness to ours. Together we created a moment that my husband and I will cherish forever. If I could relive our wedding day (and I wish I could!) I would work with Gary again and again. Ten stars!
Reviewed On 1/08/2016 by Renee H
Great Wedding Officiant This was probably the hardest thing to pick for my husband and I. As I am catholic but didn't want to get married in a church and wanted an outdoor fall wedding. Seeing as it is impossible to get a priest to marry you...
outside the church, we started searching for another alternative. We found Rev. Gary through the knot and took a chance, one that we couldn't have been happier with. We met up with him for a meet and greet and he was great. We felt like we were able to get the right balance of religion in our ceremony and still making it about us. It turned out perfect. Rev. Gary made sure to make us feel relaxed through the process, as well as, being very responsive. Our ceremony was beautiful and have received so many compliments!
Reviewed On 11/01/2015 by Danielle K
It was such a pleasure working with Reverend Gary. From the time we first met with him, we knew that we wanted him to marry us because of his calm demeanor and laid back attitude. He gave us a pretty large document with a bunch of options for t...
he ceremony (religious, somewhat religious, not at all religious, etc..) and had a variety of suggestions for vows and readings. This was really helpful and we were able to put together a ceremony that fit who we are by pulling bits and pieces from all of the content he provided. On the day of the wedding, my husband and I were really nervous and anxious, and Gary was able to put us at ease at the beginning of the ceremony. He told us we could take deep breaths, as he could see that we weren’t breathing! After the ceremony, several people came up to us and let us know that they thought he was great, and that he did a great job of relaxing us and lightening the mood. I highly recommend Gary to anyone who is looking for a laid back person to marry them!
Reviewed On 10/31/2015 by ching w
We were lucky to have Reverend. Gary as our officiant for our wedding at Mohonk Mountain House! At our first meeting we decided on him. He took the time to know our story and made our ceremony very special! We felt very comfortable communicatin...
g with him. He went through every detail before our big day and arrived early that day. He even calmed my husband and groomsman down when they were nervously waiting for me. Our guest enjoyed the whole ceremony very much too! We definately will recommend Gary to our friends!
Reviewed On 10/15/2015 by Mary O
Gary was absolutely fantastic. He worked with us to create a ceremony that 100% us, and emailed us to keep us on top of things like obtaining or marriage license. On the day of our wedding he was funny and touching at the same time. We highly r...
ecommend!!!
Reviewed On 10/14/2015 by Melinda
Rev. Gary was such a blessing! He was really wonderful - we clicked with him right away - just after a few minutes of meeting over coffee. I didn't have to contemplate whether Rev. Gary would be our officiant - I just knew it right from the s...
tart. He was so calming, and meshed with our personalities wonderfully. He guided us through the whole process and helped us customize our ceremony to our liking. He stayed for the cocktail hour and gave such a thoughtful blessing before our dinner. Our guests all mentioned what a great job Rev. Gary did - it was truly a perfect day!
Reviewed On 10/09/2015 by a member
In describing how wonderful it was to have Rev. Gary officiate our wedding I would have to start by stating that my wife and I were originally going to have my dad officiate our wedding being that he was a former Roman Catholic priest and was p...
retty much the manifestation of all my values, existential thoughts, and ideas about our place in the universe. Unfortunately, my father passed away 4 months before our wedding. This was clearly devastating and even the thought of having someone else stand in his shoes to conduct our wedding ceremony was nearly beyond comprehension. Who could replace my father, which I would be a fool to even attempt to describe his importance to myself as well as everyone he’d encounter. Eventually, we had to face the task of finding an officiant and it couldn’t just be anybody. Early on in our search we came upon Rev. Gary’s profile. From what we read it seemed that his approach to spirituality was congruent with ours and that of my dad’s. We wanted a structured, but customizable ceremony in which we could incorporate personable and sentimental aspects of our lives, as well as honor my dad. When we finally met Rev. Gary we instantly had an overwhelming sense of comfort and knew that if there was anyone that could stand in my dad’s place it was him. It was as if my dad hand picked him from heaven. It was enjoyable working with Rev. Gary in laying everything out for our ceremony. Understanding the sensitivity of the circumstances, he helped us incorporate the teachings of my father into the ceremony. In the end it was our ceremony, lead with the grace and personal touch of Rev. Gary, and in the light of my father’s love. From the beginning we wanted to make our ceremony special, but we didn’t anticipate the overwhelming feed back we received from all of our guests on how moving and touching our ceremony was and how impressed they were with Rev. Gary. My mom, who was naturally apprehensive about the whole thing, was as happy as she could be, telling me how proud she was and that my dad would have been of how we conducted the ceremony. We will always look back with affection on how wonderful Rev. Gary made our wedding day. With that, we cannot thank Rev. Gary enough and are happy to have him in our lives!
Reviewed On 10/07/2015 by Chris C
Rev. Gary did such an incredible job on our wedding day. He was very helpful throughout the whole process of creating the ceremony and was extremely flexible when we completely changed out venue. He kept us both very calm throughout the ceremon...
y and really tried to get to know us as a couple, which he incorporated on his own. It really added a nice personal touch. He also made our initial meeting with him very relaxed and we felt like we had known him for years after only a few minutes. Our guests all mentioned what a great job he did and how special the ceremony was. I cannot thank Rev Gary enough and would highly recommend him. He really made our special day even more incredible than we imagined it could be
Reviewed On 9/08/2015 by Amanda B
After just a quick meet-and-greet over coffee, my husband and I knew that Reverend Gary would be the perfect officiant for our wedding. He provided us an easy-to-read packet full of different vows, rituals and readings, and invited us to help c...
ustomize the ceremony so that it was perfectly suited to us. Just as his previous reviews had promised, his sweet nature and kind words made for an unforgettable ceremony. All of our guests commented on how wonderful our officiant was, and thought we had known him for years. I cannot say enough wonderful things about Reverend Gary!
Reviewed On 9/08/2015 by Jenna D
Rev. Gary was absolutely wonderful!! He was definitely the perfect fit for us. He helped us to find a happy median between traditional and unique as well as serious but light and funny. Sounds impossible, but not with Gary! He guided us through...
the whole process. He customized our ceremony to fit our personalities, he called the week before to go over everything and make sure he had everything right, he showed up and hour before to make sure things were as they should be and meet with the bridal party to explain the process. He also mailed our license in for us. We never had any questions or concerns. Gary always made us feel at ease. We received so many compliments about how great our ceremony, specifically Gary was from pretty much everyone at the wedding! Hands down, the BEST decision for officiant! Thanks Gary!
Reviewed On 8/17/2015 by Laura S
I cannot truly put into words how amazing Gary made our wedding ceremony! Gary took the time to explain the different types of ceremonies he offered, as well get to know us. He would e-mail me and keep in touch and be a source of calm and advic...
e. We were given the most perfect, personalized ceremony that brought us both to tears. Our guests kept saying how beautiful our ceremony was! Thank you Gary for being a part of a day we will never forget!
Reviewed On 7/30/2015 by Danielle D
We had the pleasure of working with Rev. Gary Deinstadt. From the first meeting till the BIG day, he truly makes sure that your entire ceremony is exactly how you dreamed it to be. I cannot even begin to express how professional and personable ...
Rev. Gary Deinstadt was! I have had so many attendants of our wedding pull us aside and say how awesome he did and how amazing he was! If you are looking for an Officiant look no further!
Reviewed On 7/15/2015 by Aline M
Rev. Gary was the perfect choice for our wedding ceremony. He was very flexible when preparing a ceremony for a religious person like me, but considering my non religious husband. He made sure we loved everything he prepared for the ceremony be...
fore hand. Not to mention he is such a kind person, just all a reverend should be. One of the highlights of Rev. Gary at my ceremony was dealing with good humor when my brother-in-law, who was supposed to do a reading, backed out during the ceremony. Gary just turned the situation into a light joke, which was actually a nice touch and people loved. Of course that should not be the main reason for you to choose the right reverend, but it is great to know he will be able to deal with situations that could be very awkward. I could go on and on about how wonderful my ceremony was because of Rev. Gary, but I'll keep it short by saying I recommend him one hundred percent. Thank you Gary for being there for us at the rehearsal and for making our ceremony so perfect!
Reviewed On 7/08/2015 by Knottie57330412
From our first meeting, we knew that we had made a great choice in Reverend Gary. He is personable and made us feel relaxed and at ease. He was genuinely interested in getting to know us and asked pertinent questions to personalize our wedding....
Reverend Gary succeeded in helping us to create a ceremony that honored both of us, and we are truly grateful to him. Thank you Reverend Gary for your kindness, and for being a part of one of the most amazing day of our lives.
Reviewed On 7/04/2015 by Lisa L
Rev. Gary was so easy to work with and made our wedding ceremony beautiful! He is very responsive and works directly with you to customize your day and make sure it is what you want it to be. I definitely recommend Rev. Gary for an officiant!!
Reviewed On 7/01/2015 by Donna M
I recently got married in April 2015. My husband and I chose Gary to perform our ceremony. Gary did such an amazing job. He even made our guest laugh a few times. I highly recommend Gary as he made us feel very comfortable and was very easy to ...
deal with. He was warm and loving and everyone told us what an great job he did. Thank you Reverend for making our day so special.
Reviewed On 5/28/2015 by Knottie32184387
My husband and I were recently married by Gary on May 17th 2015. We met Gary a few months prior to discuss the process of creating a ceremony with him and knew he was going to a great job. He is thorough, easy going and a real professional. ...
My 88 year old Grandmother approached him after to tell him how much she loved the ceremony. We are grateful we chose to work with Gary for our special day. He made some beautiful suggestions to customize our ceremony to our liking and we highly recommend him.
Reviewed On 2/01/2015 by Knottie81561329
My experience with Rev. Gary was truly amazing. I would highly recommend him to any couple looking for a perfect ceremony. My husband (thats even weird to type lol) and I met Gary about three weeks prior to our wedding and knew immediately we w...
anted to share our day with him. During the three weeks prior our wedding we had more to do then we anticipated, between hotel bags, favors, last minute errands and picking our vows we were overwhelmed. Gary took it upon himself to send us emails with numerous sample vows/ceremonies/readings etc and picked one that he thought was perfect for us based on our meeting. Gary was always a step ahead and beyond helpful. We received so many compliments after our ceremony that everyone thought we had known Rev. Gary for years. Everyone was so impressed that it was an actual ceremony and not a 'quick 1, 2 you're married' type of ceremony. It was detailed with what was personal to us; we had a reading and a poem read by our loved ones, blessing of the hands by Rev. Gary, it wasn't rushed and it was intimate. I will remember it forever. Thank you, Rev. Gary!
Reviewed On 12/16/2014 by Jessica M
We had such a great experience with Reverend Gary! He took the time to create a ceremony tailored to us and our situation and it was better than we could have ever imagined. After the ceremony many guests were commenting on how wonderful and ...
special the ceremony was. Upon speaking with him, we knew what to expect and he walked us through everything. Many thanks to Reverend Gary for getting to know us and taking the time to make it memorable. He’s a special man with a warm heart. We will think of him fondly and it truly feels as though we have a friend and counselor for life!
Reviewed On 11/03/2014 by Arielle S
My wife and I were a little nervous to try and find an officiant for our wedding, but we read amazing reviews of Rev. Gary and decided to give him a call. We met with him in person and immediately felt at ease. He really took the time to get to...
know us both as individuals and as a couple. We knew he would be a great fit when he asked us to describe what we each love about the other. He presented us with a packet with several options for making the ceremony the way we wanted. Throughout the course of our wedding planning, Gary was easily reachable and responded to our many questions. He made us feel comfortable in planning the most important part of our wedding. On the day of, he conducted a beautiful, warm, and loving ceremony. So many of our guests came up to us to compliment how beautiful and heartfelt a ceremony we had. Many thought we had known Gary for years and my wife and I are so thankful to have chosen him to be a big part of our special day.
Reviewed On 10/27/2014 by Knottie60833822
After being referred to many Officiants to preform our ceremony we selected Rev. Gary Deinstadt and we were just thrilled!! Once we met Gary in person (prior to selecting him) we just knew Gary was the one for us. He was extremely profession...
al, knows his business & preformed a WONDERFUL ceremony for my now husband & I. He made the whole process very easy for us & was there the whole way along to assist us with anything we needed as we were not up to speed on exactly how a ceremony should be preformed and what was needed on our part. Our guests are still complimenting us on Gary & we would refer him to any couple looking for a wonderful Officiant to preform their wedding ceremony!! We wish you the good luck that we had & congrats. Robin, Bride, October 2014
Reviewed On 10/10/2014 by Sarah M
My husband and I got married on June 6th 2014 at The Surf Club On The Sound in New Rochelle, NY and Reverend Gary could not have been a better fit for our ceremony! We met in person before the wedding to get a few things in order and for him to...
give us the download on what would happen on our special day. Gary was very professional and made the whole process easy for us. He gave us many options for how we could customize our ceremony to fit our religious and personal preferences. My favorite was when we first met and he asked my husband and I what we loved about each other. Right then and there I knew Rev. Gary was the best person for our ceremony because he truly was there for all the right reasons. I'd definitely recommend Rev. Gary to anyone that is looking to get married in the NY area.
Reviewed On 10/07/2014 by Knottie87418628
Gary was so amazing! From the moment we met him for the first time to discuss the ceremony up until the big day, he was incredibly attentive, thorough, helpful, and accommodating of any and all questions that my wife and I had. And during the c...
eremony itself, he did such an exceptional job! He read everything with complete clarity and even put in a few personal words that really warmed our hearts as well as our guests. No matter what kind of ceremony or customs you wish to honor on your special day, you can bet with confidence that Gary can shape and customize your ceremony however you need to. I personally would recommend working with this man to anybody; a true pleasure! Thank You so much, Gary :)
Reviewed On 10/03/2014 by Christina C
The moment we met Rev. Gary we knew he was the officiant we wanted to marry us. Rev. Gary was so personable and made us feel so comfortable. He was very responsive and allowed us to customize our ceremony and welcomed all of our thoughts. He di...
d an amazing job the day of our wedding. Many of our guests came up to us after the ceremony to tell us that it was the best ceremony they have ever seen! Rev. Gary is wonderful and you will not be disappointed if you chose him as your officiant!
Reviewed On 9/22/2014 by Sheena F
We chose Gary as our officiant and couldn't have been happier! Neither my husband and I belong to any church nor are we " overly" religious. Gary was totally understanding of our needs and what we were looking for. We had so many compliments ab...
out how pleasant our ceremony was. We really loved his style and how he mixed modern elements with classical element into our ceremony. He was very responsive and maintained great communication with me throughout the process
Reviewed On 8/21/2014 by Knottie26098118
We found Reverend Gary after searching online--we were a bit apprehensive about hiring someone we didn't know, but his reviews are (deservedly) stellar so we took a chance. He is extremely professional and put us at ease right from the beginnin...
g with his warmth and friendliness. He helped us through countless drafts of our ceremony text and had wonderful suggestions. Our ceremony was my favorite part of our wedding day, and having Reverend Gary there was one of our best vendor decisions! We would recommend him in a heartbeat!

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