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About this vendor
Friendly, confident and professional Wedding Minister/Officiant serving Non-denominational, Interfaith and Same-sex couples at the location of their choice throughout the NJ, NYC and the Philadelphia areas. Responsive, timely and reliable, I take great care in making your wedding ceremony memorable and stress free. Since I understand how important this event is to each Couple, it is a privilege that I do not take lightly. I sincerely enjoy meeting and mingling with the guests before and after the ceremony...
Feel free to reach out to me to discuss your details... 848-702-3499
Details
Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
Planning
- Se Habla Español
Religious Affiliations
- Christian
- Catholic
- Protestant
- Interfaith
- Spiritual
Wedding Activities
- Wedding
- Ceremony
Awards and Affiliations
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I cannot say enough wonderful things about our officiant for our wedding 2 weeks ago. From the very beginning, he worked with us throughout the entire year to make sure our ceremon...
y felt personal, meaningful, and exactly like us. He was patient, kind, responsive, and truly cared about bringing my vision to life.
On our wedding day, he helped make our ceremony everything I dreamed it would be. It felt beautiful, heartfelt, and so special. He created such a calm and meaningful presence, and we received so many compliments on how lovely the ceremony was.
I am so grateful for all of the time, effort, and care he put into making our day perfect. He truly helped make my dream come true, and I would recommend him to anyone looking for an officiant who is thoughtful, reliable, and genuinely invested in making your wedding ceremony unforgettable. 10/100000 recommend!!!
Reverend Michael Whalen was a fantastic fit for our Jersey Shore wedding. We met with him over a zoom call over a year prior to the wedding when we were at our most stressed and h...
e immediately calmed us down with his knowledge and experience. He made the whole affair extremely east, which is exactly what we needed. Well worth the money, Michael Whalen was a 10 out of 10 and we would recommend him to any of our friends and family.
We cannot say enough great things about Rev. Michael Whalen. From our very first conversation, he was professional, warm, and genuinely invested in getting to know us, not just sho...
wing up and reading a script.
Rev. Whalen created a truly customized ceremony that felt personal, meaningful, and completely “us.” He struck the perfect balance between heartfelt and lighthearted, weaving in just the right amount of humor so our guests were smiling and laughing while still feeling the emotion of the moment. So many people came up to us afterward to say how beautiful the ceremony was and how much they loved him.
He was calm, organized, and a total pro throughout the process, which helped take so much pressure off of us. And one of our favorite little moments, he even smoothly jumped out of the way at just the right time for our first kiss!
If you want a minister who is polished, personable, funny, and truly cares about making your ceremony special, we wholeheartedly recommend Rev. Michael Whalen. We’re so grateful we had him as part of our day.
We cannot say enough great things about Michael! From start to finish, he was extremely organized and always responded promptly to our emails, which made the entire process so easy...
and stress-free. He wrote our entire ceremony and customized it perfectly to reflect our story and what we wanted to say, even providing different options for certain portions so we could truly make it our own.
On top of that, Michael handled all of the marriage license details with the town after the wedding. All we had to do was pick it up when we got back from our honeymoon. That level of care and professionalism meant so much to us. Truly stress free!
We are so glad we chose Michael as our officiant. He was truly one of the best vendors we had on our wedding day, and we would recommend him without hesitation!
Our wedding day couldnt have been any more perfect. Rev Michael Whalen made the ceremony just how we would have pictured it, full of love, but not too serious either. He was amazin...
g throughout the entire planning process as well!
My husband and I had another officiant lined up that backed out at the last minute due to a family emergency. In a panic, I looked up other officiants in the area and I found Rev W...
halen who happened to be available on my wedding date. He happily accepted the job, despite the last minute notice. He made the entire experience very easy for my destination wedding on the Jersey shore. Thank you!
Michael was an absolutely amazing choice to officiate our wedding ceremony. From our very first phone calls while planning, he made everything feel clear, simple, and stress-free, ...
while still being incredibly thoughtful and specific to what we wanted as a couple. He was always available to answer questions and guide us through the process with confidence and care.
On the day of the ceremony, Michael was professional, warm, and so well-spoken. He had a natural way of connecting with our guests and felt completely at home with our crowd, which made the entire ceremony feel intimate and meaningful. We incorporated Catholic undertones along with additional rituals and elements, and he presented everything beautifully and seamlessly.
We truly could not be happier with his service. His presence, friendliness, and genuine support made our ceremony unforgettable, and we are so grateful to have had him be part of such an important day in our lives
Rev. Michael Whalen was a pleasure to work with from start to finish. His warm and professional tone was consistent from the first call through the ceremony itself. He worked colla...
boratively with us to create the perfect ceremony and allowed us to choose readings, ceremony style, and include personal details as well. Highly recommend!
There aren't enough things we can say about Reverend Michael. He created the most magical, personalized approach to our ceremony and people continue to remind us how incredible it ...
was. he is an absolute pleasure to work with leading up to the event, and day of does not disappoint! I would choose him to capture our ceremony in every lifetime! you won't regret it!
We cannot thank Rev. Michael enough. He was so helpful in making sure our ceremony suited us perfectly, he also helped with the marriage certificate and everything that needed to b...
e done prior. He was so professional and a pleasure to have as part of our big day. What a beautiful ceremony that we will remember forever.
Michael was amazing. He was very professional and responsive since the first time we connected. He had a lot of great suggestions for the ceremony and made it very easy for us. Man...
y people came up to us saying how beautiful the ceremony was, and his delivery, structure, and added details really helped make the ceremony special. He also helped with the marriage license process and made it really easy for us.
We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! From start to finish, Rev. Michael was incredibly professional, quick to respond, and always happy to answer our ques...
tions. He really listened to what we wanted for our ceremony and made sure it reflected us perfectly. The pace and flow of the ceremony were spot on — it felt natural, heartfelt, and meaningful. Truly everything you could want in a wedding officiant!
Rev. Michael is a true professional. We got married at The Park Loft in Oceanport and the ceremony was just perfect. He took the time to get to know us, our story, and made sure...
every detail was covered. 10/10!
We got married at Clark’s Landing Yacht Club in August 2025 and had our ceremony onsite. We knew we wanted everything at the venue, but didn’t know where to start when it came to a...
n officiant. We ended up speaking to a few officiants, and then found Reverend Whalen. Not only were his reviews excellent, but from our first conversation on FaceTime, we were very impressed with Reverend Whalen’s professionalism, attention to detail, focus, guidance, and expertise. All of that made our decision very easy! From the very start, Reverend Whalen was extremely knowledgeable, helpful, and very quick to respond whenever we had questions. His ceremony structure is perfect and customizable to how you want it to flow. We incorporated everything we wanted to, including memorials and a rose ceremony for our moms. He helped us figure out the kind of ceremony we wanted to and what we even wanted to be included because at first we weren’t sure, but Reverend Whalen’s guidance proved to be perfect to help us build our ceremony. At the wedding itself, he smoothly took care of everything and did a wonderful job with the ceremony itself. And he has a calming voice too so that helped take away some nerves when we stood up there in front of of everyone! But all in all we would 10/10 recommend working with Reverend Whalen - he helped make our day perfect and helped us craft the perfect ceremony for us.
Rev. Micheal was great to work with! He was personable, professional, and so easy to communicate with! He made our wedding ceremony one we won't forget- he truly made is so special...
for us. We highly recommend him!
We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect officiant for our wedding. From the very beginning, Rev. Michael Whalen was warm, organized, and attentive, making sure every detail of th...
e ceremony reflected us as a couple. He guided us through the process with ease, offered thoughtful suggestions, and really took the time to get to know our story.
On our wedding day, the ceremony was everything we hoped for—personal, meaningful, and beautifully delivered. So many of our guests commented on how heartfelt and unique it felt. [Officiant’s Name] has a true gift for creating an atmosphere that is both joyful and deeply moving.
We are so grateful to have had him play such an important role in our day and would recommend them wholeheartedly to any couple looking for someone who brings sincerity, professionalism, and warmth to their ceremony.
Rev. Michael was friendly and enthusiastic from our first call with him a year before our wedding. He got to know us so he could make the ceremony meaningful and unique to our jour...
ney together as a couple! Highly recommend choosing him for your special day.
I can’t recommend Rev. Whalen enough! He did an amazing job and was so incredible throughout the whole process. He really took the time to get to know both myself and my husband wh...
ich was reflected in his words during our ceremony. He told us what to expect leading up to our wedding day, how to go about getting our marriage license, and checked in along the way. Every raved about how great of a job he did at our ceremony and we couldn’t agree more!
Rev. Whalen was the best! We wanted something very short, sweet and simple and that's exactly what we got. We had an intro meeting with him and he was able to craft exactly what we...
wanted. Would recommend him to anyone in the area!
My husband and I are so happy we chose Rev. Whalen as our officiant. After our first phone call, we both knew he was the perfect person to officiate and celebrate our wedding. From...
the beginning he was funny, organized and personable. He truly took the time to get to know us as a couple and our love story. He planned the ceremony to include all of the elements we wanted and gave suggestions of different things I had not even thought to include or heard of. Our guests could not believe that he had not known us for longer, and had such nice things to say about the entire ceremony itself. Watching the ceremony back now, it is clear that we made the perfect choice in having Rev. Whalen as our officiant!
I'm so glad we chose to book Rev. Whalen as our officiant. When I originally came across his profile and reviews, longing with meeting him, I just knew he was our guy. He was so ki...
nd, funny, well structured, organized, very personal, completely well pre-planned, prepared, and his overall personality was just so awesome that he made this entire experience rather joyful. I had zero worries about him performing his tasks & he takes the time to really get to know who you are as a couple, as well as your love story. My guests also had a lot of nice things to say about him too on behalf of his energy, how well he spoke, and how overall down to earth, yet professional he was (and they're right) You can undoubtably see he loves his job and simply great at it. Rev. Whalen, thank you for helping make our wedding day truly the best and memorable. Especially in the heat, you were more than wonderful. If you're reading this review -this is your sign to book him!
Reverend Whalen was the perfect officiant for us and we are so grateful to him. He was incredibly professional, helpful and really took the time to learn about us and our story. He...
walked us through the ceremony and took into account what we wanted in our ceremony. He helped us understand the marriage license process and filing. We could not recommend him more.
Michael was organized, thoughtful, and professional throughout our entire experience. I would definitely recommend him to anyone getting married in the NJ area!
Rev. Whalen was amazing from the start. We decided to go with him after our first conversation. The ceremony he wrote for us was absolutely what we wanted, as well as the suggeste...
d readings. On our wedding day, he was prompt and did an amazing job marrying us. I couldn't have asked for a better officiant.
My husband and I had the best experience with Rev. Michael Whalen. He actually conducted three ceremonies for us, including one special for my grandmother as she wasn't able to mak...
e it to our official wedding day. That required a good amount of travel for him, but he did it anyway and I am so grateful to have had that opportunity to be married in front of her. Everything with Rev. Whalen was seamless. He always took the time to explain things to us and make sure we were aligned with the ceremony. We highly recommend using Rev. Whalen for your big day!
We are very fortunate to have had Reverend Whalen officiate our wedding. He is professional, friendly, and a pleasure to work with. He took the time to learn about my wife's and my...
relationship, and he arranged a beautiful ceremony incorporating all those details. He also answered all our questions about obtaining our marriage license and certificate. I cannot recommend him highly enough. Thank you, Reverend Whalen!
Michael was our officiant for our wedding in September 2024 and was wonderful! He was easy to work with and walked us through what would go on during the ceremony which helped ease...
our anxieties! When we also needed to make some changes, Michael was extremely helpful. If my husband and I could give him 10 stars we would! Thank you so much Michael!
Rev. Michael Whalen was the perfect choice to officiate our wedding! He was extremely professional, receptive to our feedback and changes we wanted made to the ceremony, and had an...
overall great attitude that made our ceremony feel special with some humor sprinkled within. We would recommend him to any and all couples!!
Rev Michael Whalen was absolutely amazing for our wedding on 12/6/24! He took the time to get to know our story and our family, incorporated our Christian faith and had amazing sug...
gestions and additions with so many personal touches to our ceremony. He delivered everything expected and more for our wedding day. Highly recommend!
Rev. Michael Whalen was absolutely amazing. We had an unfortunate last minute hiccup with our previously booked officiant & Rev. Michael Whalen swept in & saved the day.
He spoke...
with grace and professionalism and was detailed with his words. He captivated the room with his voice & made our day run seamlessly!
We can’t recommend him enough!
Thank you reverend! -Bailey & Nick
Our experience with Reverend Michael was a 12/10.
His professionalism is off the charts and the way he was able to portray my husband and Is relationship felt as though we knew him...
for years.
He was also gracious enough to stay and do a blessing before dinner which was extremely important to my family. The amount of guests who came up to us during and after our wedding praising his ceremony are to many to count. We had such a beautiful ceremony thanks to Reverend Michael
Rev. Michael was an absolute pleasure to work with! He works with you to nail down your ceremony so everything runs so smoothly. He is such a nice man and incorporates details of y...
our love story into your ceremony. Booking with him was one of the best wedding decisions we made! He is very experienced and handles the submitting of your marriage license to the town!
Expertise with Interfaith Ceremonies
We and our guests were so impressed with Rev. Michael’s creativity and expertise in weaving together two faiths into a beautiful and inclusive...
ceremony.
We came to Rev. Michael with the challenge of creating a non-traditional ceremony for our two faiths. He guided us throughout the process with his knowledge and brilliant suggestions on how to bring in both wedding tradition faiths to tell a beautiful story of who we are as a couple.
Rev. Michael brought laughter and tears while our families all felt united as on
We could not have picked a better officiant. Rev. Whelan is friendly and professional. He is also flexible when working with different requests and changes. Our family and friends ...
enjoyed his presence and the beauty of our wedding ceremony. The ceremony script made the day very special and personal to us. We were very blessed to have had him as part of our wedding and very grateful for his services.
Rev. Whalen was such an honor to work with! He was professional, prompt, responsive, and extremely willing to work with the different requests we had made in regards to our multi f...
aith ceremony. We highly recommend working with him and are very thankful for his role in our special day.
We hired Rev. Michael Whalen for our wedding in April & he was excellent from the start! From the very first intro meeting, we knew he would be a great fit for our wedding. He was ...
super organized, perfectly prepared and added such a nice touch to our ceremony. He was also super flexible the day of when we decided to take a piece out of the ceremony. Our guests loved how personalable he was and we are still getting compliments on our ceremony! We highly recommend Rev. Whalen for your occasion!!
Michael was an absolute pleasure to work with! He listened and did exactly what my husband and I were looking for. He spoke well, he was easy to work with and made our ceremony the...
icing on the cake! We can’t thank him enough for being a special part in our wedding day!!!
It was such a pleasure working with Rev Michael Whalen! He provided us with so many options of what could be done and said at our ceremony which helped us create our own personal c...
eremony that we were looking for. Our ceremony was so smooth and he brought such a warm, welcoming presence. We are forever grateful to him for making our special moment so unforgettable!
Working with Rev. Whalen was a wonderful experience. He took the time to know our love story. He gave us several readings to choose from for our ceremony and took care of all th...
e paper work. The day of our wedding my brother asked me how long I knew Rev. Whalen and I said not long at all. He spoke of our journey to become husband and wife as if he knew us right from the beginning. He was amazing!!!
Mike made the whole process so easy!! We got married at The English Manor on 10/8/2023 and the whole process leading up to, the work needed day-of, and processing paperwork afterwa...
rd was a breeze with Mike. He knew exactly what we were looking for when we couldn’t quite voice it ourselves, was full of suggestions when we were looking for readings outside the norm, and he made us feel very calm during the actual ceremony. We didn’t need him to attend the rehearsal and he was still flawless! My family is hard to please and they were complimenting Mike all around. I would recommend him over and over again.
Working with Rev Whalen was a wonderful experience! He helped us create a beautiful ceremony that represented us as a couple perfectly and provided so many wonderful options when w...
e were unsure of how we wanted to word something. On the day of the wedding, the ceremony was beautiful and he truly helped make our day unforgettable!
Rev Michael Whalen is the officiant that you want for your ceremony!! We initially found him on the knot, and he was recommended by our venue as well. During our initial conversati...
on with him we felt extremely comfortable with him and that he understood what we wanted in our ceremony. He was great at communicating ahead of time. He sent drafts of the ceremony, suggested readings, etc. When we had questions or wanted to make changes to the ceremony, our comments were well received and he made the changes that we wanted. One of the best things, we had a unity ceremony, taking tequila shots together. He came up with a wonderful speech on how love and marriage are like a fine tequila. It was perfect and the guests loved it. Throughout the entire process Michael was everything we hoped for and more. He arrived early before the ceremony, had the marriage license filled out and signed by witnesses. The ceremony itself was exactly what we wanted, he was an excellent speaker and flowed through the ceremony, did the selected readings, our tequila shot unity ceremony. It went off perfectly. If he is available for your date, he is your guy, no doubts, no questions. 10/10 would recommend.
Brian and Killeen
Est 9/10/2023
Rev. Mike Whalen was one of several officiants recommended by our venue. We spoke to 3 other officiants but immediately knew we wanted Rev. Mike as soon as we had our initial call ...
with him. He was so personable and down to earth and took the time to get to know us as a couple and our story. Within a couple of days, he sent us a draft of his proposed ceremony, offered suggestions and encouraged us to make any changes that would make the ceremony more reflective of us. He was so kind as to even say a few words and sentences in Spanish and Arabic so that all our guests felt like a part of the ceremony. When we met Rev. Mike in person on our wedding day, he gave us a hug and even asked to meet our parents to offer his genuine congratulations. All our guests were really complimentary of the ceremony. We are forever grateful to Rev. Mike for making our day so special.
On 10/26/23, Rev. Michael Whalen married me and my husband, and we are so glad he did! Searching for the right Officiant was something that I took pretty seriously, as this was goi...
ng to be the person speaking in front of our families and closest friends, and who would be marrying us of course. =) We spoke to about 10 officiants before finding Rev. Michael. He has a confident presence, speaks very clearly, and articulate, and made our ceremony feel warm and welcoming for all present. The readings, our vows, and flow of everything went so smoothly. I am so happy that Rev. Michael performed our ceremony and I recommend him for your special day as well! Thank you, again Rev! Wendy & Brian.
Michael is a great public speaker! He helped us in every step of our wedding from sending us drafts of the ceremony, to applying for our marriage license, to even mailing it out! H...
e made the process so easy for us!
Rev Michael Whalen was amazing! He was very flexible with what we wanted out of the ceremony but also provided great suggestions on what to include most of which we included in our...
ceremony. I liked that he used our calls to draft a story about us that he used in the intro of our ceremony. He was very responsive if we had questions. He also executed a great ceremony, on the short side but meaningful. Lots of guest complimented our ceremony and also that Michael Whalen had a great voice! We are so happy we chose to work with him for our wedding!
Rev. Whalen is the absolute perfect choice for your special day! He listened to our story and helped craft the perfect ceremony for us. We hoped to incorporate both faiths (I, Cath...
olic, and my husband, Muslim) and he executed it to perfection, I can't begin to describe how many people complimented us on our ceremony and how it was just the right length, with personal and classic wedding touches. I would recommend Rev. Whalen any day!
We had our ceremony outside at our venue, so I searched high and low for an officiant with great reviews and good personality! Rev. Michael replied INSTANTLY and I had a phone call...
with him right away to discuss him officiating our wedding. We booked him that day and had a FaceTime meeting with him to talk about every detail and what we wanted for our ceremony! He was so easy to work with and sent over a draft very quickly. He was open to any of my edits to make it match perfectly to us and our story. On the day, he had an amazing presence and is so well spoken. He is very friendly, has a great personality, and I received many compliments on our ceremony!! Plus, so thankful that he took care of and helped with the marriage license/certificate! Would highly recommend!
My husband and I were in awe by how Rev. Whalen beautifully and flawlessly performed our christian ceremony. He was truly a professional and I am so so happy that I got the chance ...
to work with him. He communicated the script and made all edits as discussed and was so easy to talk to and answered all of our questions. He was very understanding, kind and flexible. He was punctual and very organized. The ceremony was truly so beautiful and special and I am so happy that Rev. Whalen was able to work with us. Highly recommend booking him for your wedding- you will not be dissapointed!
Rev. Michael D. Whalen was referred to me by my sister in law. She was so happy with him that I knew he was perfect for my wedding. Michael had a wonderful personality, extremely ...
kind and had a great sense of humor! My husband and I really appreciated how organized and responsive he was. Any questions I had were answered so quick via email or phone call. It was so nice to see how much Michael prioritized our day and made us feel so special! The ceremony was beautiful. It was a perfect day! Thank you Michael!
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