5 out of 5 stars and 120 reviews
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(120)Best of Weddings (9x).All locations in New Jersey, New York City & Phila areas
About this vendor
Friendly, confident and professional Wedding Minister/Officiant serving Non-denominational, Interfaith and Same-sex couples at the location of their choice throughout the NJ, NYC and the Philadelphia areas. Responsive, timely and reliable, I take great care in making your wedding ceremony memorable and stress free. Since I understand how important this event is to each Couple, it is a privilege that I do not take lightly. I sincerely enjoy meeting and mingling with the guests before and after the ceremony...
Feel free to reach out to me to discuss your details... 848-702-3499
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Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
Planning
- Se Habla Español
Religious Affiliations
- Christian
- Catholic
- Protestant
- Interfaith
- Spiritual
Wedding Activities
- Wedding
- Ceremony
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My husband and I had the best experience with Rev. Michael Whalen. He actually conducted three ceremonies for us, including one special for my grandmother as she wasn't able to make it to our official wedding day. That required a good amount of travel for him, but he did it anyway and I am so grateful to have had that opportunity to be married in front of her. Everything with Rev. Whalen was seamless. He always took the time to explain things to us and make sure we were aligned with the ceremony. We highly recommend using Rev. Whalen for your big day!
We are very fortunate to have had Reverend Whalen officiate our wedding. He is professional, friendly, and a pleasure to work with. He took the time to learn about my wife's and my relationship, and he arranged a beautiful ceremony incorporating all those details. He also answered all our questions about obtaining our marriage license and certificate. I cannot recommend him highly enough. Thank you, Reverend Whalen!
Michael was our officiant for our wedding in September 2024 and was wonderful! He was easy to work with and walked us through what would go on during the ceremony which helped ease our anxieties! When we also needed to make some changes, Michael was extremely helpful. If my husband and I could give him 10 stars we would! Thank you so much Michael!
Rev. Michael Whalen was the perfect choice to officiate our wedding! He was extremely professional, receptive to our feedback and changes we wanted made to the ceremony, and had an overall great attitude that made our ceremony feel special with some humor sprinkled within. We would recommend him to any and all couples!!
Rev Michael Whalen was absolutely amazing for our wedding on 12/6/24! He took the time to get to know our story and our family, incorporated our Christian faith and had amazing suggestions and additions with so many personal touches to our ceremony. He delivered everything expected and more for our wedding day. Highly recommend!
Rev. Michael Whalen was absolutely amazing. We had an unfortunate last minute hiccup with our previously booked officiant & Rev. Michael Whalen swept in & saved the day.
He spoke with grace and professionalism and was detailed with his words. He captivated the room with his voice & made our day run seamlessly!
We can’t recommend him enough!
Thank you reverend! -Bailey & Nick
Our experience with Reverend Michael was a 12/10.
His professionalism is off the charts and the way he was able to portray my husband and Is relationship felt as though we knew him for years.
He was also gracious enough to stay and do a blessing before dinner which was extremely important to my family. The amount of guests who came up to us during and after our wedding praising his ceremony are to many to count. We had such a beautiful ceremony thanks to Reverend Michael
Rev. Michael was an absolute pleasure to work with! He works with you to nail down your ceremony so everything runs so smoothly. He is such a nice man and incorporates details of your love story into your ceremony. Booking with him was one of the best wedding decisions we made! He is very experienced and handles the submitting of your marriage license to the town!
Expertise with Interfaith Ceremonies
We and our guests were so impressed with Rev. Michael’s creativity and expertise in weaving together two faiths into a beautiful and inclusive ceremony.
We came to Rev. Michael with the challenge of creating a non-traditional ceremony for our two faiths. He guided us throughout the process with his knowledge and brilliant suggestions on how to bring in both wedding tradition faiths to tell a beautiful story of who we are as a couple.
Rev. Michael brought laughter and tears while our families all felt united as on
We could not have picked a better officiant. Rev. Whelan is friendly and professional. He is also flexible when working with different requests and changes. Our family and friends enjoyed his presence and the beauty of our wedding ceremony. The ceremony script made the day very special and personal to us. We were very blessed to have had him as part of our wedding and very grateful for his services.
Rev. Whalen was such an honor to work with! He was professional, prompt, responsive, and extremely willing to work with the different requests we had made in regards to our multi faith ceremony. We highly recommend working with him and are very thankful for his role in our special day.
We hired Rev. Michael Whalen for our wedding in April & he was excellent from the start! From the very first intro meeting, we knew he would be a great fit for our wedding. He was super organized, perfectly prepared and added such a nice touch to our ceremony. He was also super flexible the day of when we decided to take a piece out of the ceremony. Our guests loved how personalable he was and we are still getting compliments on our ceremony! We highly recommend Rev. Whalen for your occasion!!
Michael was an absolute pleasure to work with! He listened and did exactly what my husband and I were looking for. He spoke well, he was easy to work with and made our ceremony the icing on the cake! We can’t thank him enough for being a special part in our wedding day!!!
It was such a pleasure working with Rev Michael Whalen! He provided us with so many options of what could be done and said at our ceremony which helped us create our own personal ceremony that we were looking for. Our ceremony was so smooth and he brought such a warm, welcoming presence. We are forever grateful to him for making our special moment so unforgettable!
Working with Rev. Whalen was a wonderful experience. He took the time to know our love story. He gave us several readings to choose from for our ceremony and took care of all the paper work. The day of our wedding my brother asked me how long I knew Rev. Whalen and I said not long at all. He spoke of our journey to become husband and wife as if he knew us right from the beginning. He was amazing!!!
Mike made the whole process so easy!! We got married at The English Manor on 10/8/2023 and the whole process leading up to, the work needed day-of, and processing paperwork afterward was a breeze with Mike. He knew exactly what we were looking for when we couldn’t quite voice it ourselves, was full of suggestions when we were looking for readings outside the norm, and he made us feel very calm during the actual ceremony. We didn’t need him to attend the rehearsal and he was still flawless! My family is hard to please and they were complimenting Mike all around. I would recommend him over and over again.
Working with Rev Whalen was a wonderful experience! He helped us create a beautiful ceremony that represented us as a couple perfectly and provided so many wonderful options when we were unsure of how we wanted to word something. On the day of the wedding, the ceremony was beautiful and he truly helped make our day unforgettable!
Rev Michael Whalen is the officiant that you want for your ceremony!! We initially found him on the knot, and he was recommended by our venue as well. During our initial conversation with him we felt extremely comfortable with him and that he understood what we wanted in our ceremony. He was great at communicating ahead of time. He sent drafts of the ceremony, suggested readings, etc. When we had questions or wanted to make changes to the ceremony, our comments were well received and he made the changes that we wanted. One of the best things, we had a unity ceremony, taking tequila shots together. He came up with a wonderful speech on how love and marriage are like a fine tequila. It was perfect and the guests loved it. Throughout the entire process Michael was everything we hoped for and more. He arrived early before the ceremony, had the marriage license filled out and signed by witnesses. The ceremony itself was exactly what we wanted, he was an excellent speaker and flowed through the ceremony, did the selected readings, our tequila shot unity ceremony. It went off perfectly. If he is available for your date, he is your guy, no doubts, no questions. 10/10 would recommend.
Brian and Killeen
Est 9/10/2023
Rev. Mike Whalen was one of several officiants recommended by our venue. We spoke to 3 other officiants but immediately knew we wanted Rev. Mike as soon as we had our initial call with him. He was so personable and down to earth and took the time to get to know us as a couple and our story. Within a couple of days, he sent us a draft of his proposed ceremony, offered suggestions and encouraged us to make any changes that would make the ceremony more reflective of us. He was so kind as to even say a few words and sentences in Spanish and Arabic so that all our guests felt like a part of the ceremony. When we met Rev. Mike in person on our wedding day, he gave us a hug and even asked to meet our parents to offer his genuine congratulations. All our guests were really complimentary of the ceremony. We are forever grateful to Rev. Mike for making our day so special.
On 10/26/23, Rev. Michael Whalen married me and my husband, and we are so glad he did! Searching for the right Officiant was something that I took pretty seriously, as this was going to be the person speaking in front of our families and closest friends, and who would be marrying us of course. =) We spoke to about 10 officiants before finding Rev. Michael. He has a confident presence, speaks very clearly, and articulate, and made our ceremony feel warm and welcoming for all present. The readings, our vows, and flow of everything went so smoothly. I am so happy that Rev. Michael performed our ceremony and I recommend him for your special day as well! Thank you, again Rev! Wendy & Brian.
Michael is a great public speaker! He helped us in every step of our wedding from sending us drafts of the ceremony, to applying for our marriage license, to even mailing it out! He made the process so easy for us!
Rev Michael Whalen was amazing! He was very flexible with what we wanted out of the ceremony but also provided great suggestions on what to include most of which we included in our ceremony. I liked that he used our calls to draft a story about us that he used in the intro of our ceremony. He was very responsive if we had questions. He also executed a great ceremony, on the short side but meaningful. Lots of guest complimented our ceremony and also that Michael Whalen had a great voice! We are so happy we chose to work with him for our wedding!
Rev. Whalen is the absolute perfect choice for your special day! He listened to our story and helped craft the perfect ceremony for us. We hoped to incorporate both faiths (I, Catholic, and my husband, Muslim) and he executed it to perfection, I can't begin to describe how many people complimented us on our ceremony and how it was just the right length, with personal and classic wedding touches. I would recommend Rev. Whalen any day!
We had our ceremony outside at our venue, so I searched high and low for an officiant with great reviews and good personality! Rev. Michael replied INSTANTLY and I had a phone call with him right away to discuss him officiating our wedding. We booked him that day and had a FaceTime meeting with him to talk about every detail and what we wanted for our ceremony! He was so easy to work with and sent over a draft very quickly. He was open to any of my edits to make it match perfectly to us and our story. On the day, he had an amazing presence and is so well spoken. He is very friendly, has a great personality, and I received many compliments on our ceremony!! Plus, so thankful that he took care of and helped with the marriage license/certificate! Would highly recommend!
My husband and I were in awe by how Rev. Whalen beautifully and flawlessly performed our christian ceremony. He was truly a professional and I am so so happy that I got the chance to work with him. He communicated the script and made all edits as discussed and was so easy to talk to and answered all of our questions. He was very understanding, kind and flexible. He was punctual and very organized. The ceremony was truly so beautiful and special and I am so happy that Rev. Whalen was able to work with us. Highly recommend booking him for your wedding- you will not be dissapointed!
Rev. Michael D. Whalen was referred to me by my sister in law. She was so happy with him that I knew he was perfect for my wedding. Michael had a wonderful personality, extremely kind and had a great sense of humor! My husband and I really appreciated how organized and responsive he was. Any questions I had were answered so quick via email or phone call. It was so nice to see how much Michael prioritized our day and made us feel so special! The ceremony was beautiful. It was a perfect day! Thank you Michael!
Most wonderful wedding officiant. He was so kind and humble and accommodating. Right from the first meeting we knew we wanted him to marry us. He was supportive and provided many types of wedding ceremony options. Provided a great voice to our ceremony. We wouldn’t have went with anyone else! Highly recommend!
We found Michael on the Knot and he was perfect for what we were searching for. Michael is well spoken and professional. We got to incorporate some religious readings and prayer, some special moments like how my husband and I met, a rose ceremony for our moms. I definitely recommend Michael if you’re looking for a nondenominational officiant!
From our first call with him Rev. Michael was interested in learning about us as a couple. Our story and what makes us a unique couple. He made us feel comfortable with him and putting our special day in his hands. He sent us a draft of our ceremony with several options for readings and vows as guidance for us. Asking questions about what we would like to have for our ceremony. If you are looking for an officiant I cannot recommend Rev. Michael Whalen enough.
Melissa & Charlie
Rev Michael Whalen was the perfect addition to our wedding. We saw him officiate our friends wedding and knew we had to reach out to him for our wedding. He was very professional and responsive to all our questions. Our ceremony was short and sweet which was exactly what we wanted. He had many layout options for us to choose from for our ceremony and made whatever adjustments we had asked of him.
Rev Michael Whalen was leaving for a vacation the morning after our wedding super early in the morning, and not for one second did I get nervous he wasn't going to show or provide all the necessary documents we needed.
I would highly recommend him to officiate the most special day in one's life!
Reverend Michael Whalen was one of the best decisions we made for our wedding. After reading all the positive reviews, we were excited to meet with him during our intro call. Just from that call, we knew we had to have Rev. Michael officiate our wedding. He is very professional, has a great personality, and makes you feel at ease during the entire process. He is also incredibly responsive which I really appreciated, especially in the days leading up to the wedding. Friends and family couldn’t stop talking about how beautiful and organized the ceremony was ... and how fantastic Rev. Michael was. Our friends who are getting married this month reached out to ask for his contact info and Rev. Michael is officiating their wedding! Thank you Rev. Michael!!
I cannot recommend Rev Michael enough! My husband and I were so nervous about hiring the right officiant but, he made it so easy! We are both so impressed with how well spoken, personable and overall kindness. Two months later, and we still get compliments about how well our ceremony was!
Based on great reviews we decided on Rev. Michael to officiate our recent September ’22 wedding in Long Branch, and we are so happy that we did. Our ceremony was perfect, very much so because of Rev. Michael. The initial interview with Michael was very informative and detailed so that he can get to know you and have a clear understanding of what you’re looking for. Within a short period of time Michael returned the first draft of the script which we were very happy with and had very little changes to make. Michael is a great speaker and even added in some humor into the ceremony which is always a nice touch. It was a pleasure working with Rev. Michael and we would highly recommend him as your wedding officiant!!
Rev. Michael is truly a class act! I highly recommend him!
My husband and I chose Rev. Michael because he truly took the time to get to know us even before he knew we would hire him for our wedding. Since my husband and I are not religious and didn’t have a long time relationship with a priest or pastor, it was important to find someone who could tell our story. We interviewed several people and Rev. Michael just felt right. It didn’t hurt that he was a golfer as we are avid golfers. And our intuition was right! As soon as we hired him it was just days when we received our first draft of our ceremony. And what an amazing 1st draft! It was so good that it became our final draft! He is an amazing writer and really took the time to create a beautiful ceremony for us to include various readings to choose from, vow samples and the idea of a beautiful rose tribute to my mom which was a classy touch. Through the whole process Rev. Michael was there guiding us and any questions I had he got back to me in less than 24 hours and most times within hours. Rev. Michael is a true class act! I highly recommend him!
Rev. Michael Whalen is a true gentleman and class act! From our first meeting, we absolutely felt confident in our decision to be married by this amazing man!! He worked with us to customize the entire ceremony, incorporating our love story, personalities and family traditions. He took extra time to coordinate adding details and performed a Greek crowning ceremony which meant the world to us. And did I mention he is witty?? He added the perfect touches of humor which put a smile on everyone’s face.
He arrived early to make sure everything was ready and spent a few moments with me. He is extremely patient and truly made me feel comfortable as the perfect minister to marry us! My husband and I highly recommend Reverend Michael Whalen to anyone who needs an officiant!
Rev Michael Whalen was a dream to work with! We had asked for very specific things and reached out multiple times with requests and questions and he was always extremely responsive and helpful. There were specific things we wanted to include in our ceremony and he took everything we said me made the ceremony perfect. The entire way he was professional and one of our favorite vendors to work with! Can't recommend enough!
Rev. Michael Whalen was an absolute joy to work with from start to finish. From setting up a call to get to know us better, to finalizing the program, he was so kind, organized, and professional. He did an amazing job on site and we couldn’t be happier we chose him as our officiant!
Rev. Michael Whalen was very professional and patient with all of our requests. We wanted to personalize and make the ceremony unique to the both of us and our cultures. Our ceremony was a bit more unique as we incorporated a lasso ceremony and some Spanish lines. His experience and guidance really shined through on our wedding day.
Thank you Rev Mike for helping to make our day so special. We really appreciated how detail oriented you were and how easy it was to have our questions answered so quickly and thoughtfully.
Having Rev. Michael Whalen as an officiant helped us to calm our nerves leading up to the big day by walking us through the process. So many of our guests complimented on how wonderful our ceremony was.
Rev. Michael Whalen was absolutely amazing to work with. He really took the time to get to know my husband and I. Everyone at the wedding was raving about how well spoken and genuine he was throughout the ceremony. 10/10. Definitely recommend him!
Rev. Whalen was a pleasure to work with- personable, professional, and fantastic with communication. Prior to our wedding day he answered all of our questions promptly, and really guided us through the paperwork process. He took the time to get to know us, and made the ceremony light hearted, personalized, and enjoyable for us and our guests. I would highly recommend Rev. Whalen to any future brides and grooms!
Rev Whalen played a huge role in making our wedding day feel special. He was responsive throughout the whole process and customized our ceremony to be exactly how we wanted it to be. Our family members and friends kept telling us how great Rev Whalen was, with the perfect balance of anecdotes, humor, and religious passages we requested. Overall would highly recommend booking him!
Rev Mike was amazing to work with! Not only was he always available to chat but he made multiple edits to our ceremony without hesitation. He added in personal stories, had our guests engaged & laughing the whole time too! We had asked for our ceremony to be roughly around 20 minutes, more modern with a religious touch to it and Rev Mike delivered just that! He was on time and so easy to work with. 10 out of 10!! Thank you Rev Mike for being apart of our day!!
Rev. Michael Whalen was great! From start to finish, he was SO helpful in our wedding planning process. He answered every question we had regarding applying for a marriage license and made the process easy. He sent us multiple ceremony outlines before we decided on the final draft and worked with us on making the ceremony exactly what we wanted. Thank you so much for making our day so memorable and run so smooth.
Rev. Michael Whalen is amazing. He was extremely professional, easy to communicate with leading up to the big day, and officiated a beautiful ceremony! HIGHLY RECOMMEND!
Rev Michael was professional and very easy to deal with during this crazy time we had to reschedule our wedding and he was very accommodating to all our needs and very attentive to our concerns.
Rev. Michael did such a wonderful job officiating our wedding! He was vey professional and worked with us to make our ceremony as personable as possible. He was always in communication and answered any questions we had. I highly recommend Rev. Michael!
Rev Michael Whalen was an amazing choice! He's super helpful and helped plan our vows with great ease. This process is so stressful as you plan what to say in front of your friends and family but he made this absolutely stress free. I would recommend him 1000 times. Plus he has a really great speaking voice.
When I was first looked into officiants during my wedding planning process, I interviewed 3 officiants before I contacted Rev. Whalen. Upon having our first meeting, I knew I wanted Rev. Whalen to officiate my wedding. He was a great communicator from day one. He would get back to me within hours, if not minutes. I changed my ceremony plan on him about 4 times before our wedding day and he didn't seem to mind once. On the day of our wedding, he was on time and explained the ceremony process to me. He even asked for clarification on how to pronounce some names so that he did not mess them up during the ceremony. Rev. Whalen made the ceremony quick and enjoyable. After the wedding, we received a call from the township that our marriage certificate was never received. I immediately reached out to Rev. Whalen and he called the township immediately and they confirmed there was an error on their end and they did in fact receive it. Rev. Whalen made the whole process a breeze and stress free. I would choose him all over again!
Rev. Whalen did an amazing job officiating our wedding! He was very easy to work with and incorporated everything we wanted in our ceremony. He is very professional and we are so happy he officiated our wedding! During our outdoor ceremony it started to rain a little bit and he stayed very calm and sped up the ceremony a little bit more (in a flawless way that was not obvious!) I can only say good things about our whole experience working with Rev. Whalen!
Mike was everything we were looking for to perform our wedding Ceremony. He helped make our day so special! He was able to work with both of our religious backgrounds and create a perfect ceremony that represented us perfectly. He summarized our love story and made it feel personal, genuine, light hearted, and our guests loved it. He also worked with us on getting our marriage license and made that process super easy as well by walking us through each step and making sure we were on track to be ready for our day. Mike is someone who is very easy going and laid back and overall amazing to work with. We can’t recommend him enough. Thank you again Mike!
My husband and I feel extremely fortunate that we had the opportunity to hire Reverend Michael Whalen to officiate our Jersey Shore beach wedding ceremony this September. He was kind, thoughtful, and caring throughout the entire process. From our initial meeting, he showed genuine interest in getting to know us, in order to create a one of a kind ceremony for our special day. He found the truest words that represented our love, relationship, and families (even our three beloved pups!) perfectly. Would recommend Reverend Whalen wholeheartedly and we are forever grateful for the memories he helped us create!
We had to change our officiant due to the pandemic and changing our date… I’m glad we got to have Michael Whalen! Prior to the wedding, we spoke on the phone he asked questions about our relationship and sent us the text and we edited what we needed to. He was great during the ceremony and he moved out of the picture for the kiss as bride and groom without being asked! Lol definitely recommend. Very kind and professional
When searching for an officiant we were unsure about what we wanted. Reverend Whalen was highly recommended to us and we could not be more satisfied! From the first zoom call till the day of our wedding, we always felt as ease and he really listened to our requests. He answered every question we had and walked us through the marriage license process and even contacted us a few days before the wedding to make us feel comfortable.
At the ceremony he was well-spoken, humorous and personal. Our friends and family are still talking about the ceremony and how smooth and inviting it was. I would highly recommend Rev. Michael Whalen! You will not be disappointed!
Thank you so much for being a part of our special day! Cyrus and I cannot thank you enough for the beautiful ceremony you led this past week. We got SO many compliments on the ceremony and everyone felt the love! You were absolutely amazing to work with!
Reverend Whalen is excellent. From the moment we met him he sat down with us and took the time to get to know us and from that incorporated a personal story about us into the ceremony which made it so much more meaningful and special. Thank you Reverend Whalen from the bottom of our hearts!!! Michelle & Jason Williams 9/26/2021 ❤
Reverend Michael did a fabulous job marrying us! We were so happy to work with him. He was easy to get in touch with and answered any questions we had! He was very professional too!
Rev Michael Whalen was an excellent officiant! Our customized ceremony was absolutely beautiful and everything we wanted. We highly recommend him and his services.
Rev. Michael Whalen did a beautiful job for our wedding. During our initial meeting he took the time to get to know me and my husband. Throughout the process he was very responsive with e-mails and was so flexible when we had to postpone due to COVID. Highly recommend!
Rev Whalen was an absolute pleasure to have at our wedding. Our ceremony couldn’t have been more perfect. He really took the time to make our day special and included everything we asked. I couldn’t be more pleased. He was so kind and genuine. I wouldn’t have changed a thing !
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