About this vendor
I know you value the beautiful importance of your wedding ceremony, having all the people you love the most surrounding you as you vow your love for each other. Your personalized ceremony conveys what is important in all relationships, love, kindness, caring, honesty and reminds us all of the value of a deep love and commitment. My highest joy is seeing the love in your eyes for each other as I tell your love story. I will design a moving and inspiring ceremony, leaving you and your guests delighted and gifted with an uplifted elegant experience.
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Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Second Wedding
Religious Affiliations
- Interfaith
- Spiritual
Wedding Activities
- Premarital Counseling
- Wedding
- Ceremony
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Deborah was everything we could have hoped for in a wedding officiant and more. From the very beginning, she took the time to truly get to know us as a couple. She crafted a ceremo...
ny that was deeply personal, heartfelt, and so uniquely us that many guests assumed she was a close family member. That’s how connected and invested she felt in our story.
Her attention to detail was exceptional. She guided us through every step of the process, from thoughtfully documenting our relationship to helping with the marriage license logistics and even checking in afterward. As a beautiful final touch, she gifted us a keepsake certificate and a printed copy of our ceremony script, which we’ll always treasure.
Deborah brought warmth, care, and professionalism to every moment. She didn’t just perform a ceremony, she created an experience we’ll never forget. We’re endlessly grateful and would highly recommend Deborah!
Deborah was perfect for us and we are so happy we chose her to officiate our wedding! She really worked to make our ceremony unique for us. Very professional, even recording our st...
ories during our planning meeting to ensure she was at ease recalling them. We had many of our guests commenting on how heartfelt and well-done our ceremony was and asked where we found such a wonderful officiant. And she chose a gown that complimented our attire and surroudings perfectly. We couldn't have wished for more. An excellent choice!
Deborah, our wedding officiant, was an absolute delight. Her professionalism was top-notch, and her voice was simply captivating. She effortlessly captured the essence of our love,...
making the ceremony feel incredibly natural and heartfelt. Deborah truly made our special day unforgettable.
Deborah was amazing! She was professional and communicated promptly. We planned our wedding in less than 8wks and Deborah found time to sit and meet with us to get to know us perso...
nally to build our vows. Her compassion showed through her work !
Thank you!
Emily & Todd Feneis
If you are looking for a quality officiant who is reliable, friendly, and goes beyond her scope of service to make your special day even better than you could hope for, stop lookin...
g and hire Deborah.. right now! As a wedding planner I always recommend Deborah to my couples. She is professional in what she does. Deborah took her time to know the couple who got married recently. The ceremony was beautiful, romantic, funny and emotional. From vendor to vendor thank you for your hard work and dedication. Always a pleasure working with professional officiant.
Deborah has an amazing talent for writing and personalizing a wedding ceremony to suit the couple and represent the couple to their core. She takes the time to truly get to know th...
e couple and their story. All of our guests complimented how beautiful the ceremony and Deborah's words were.
Leading up to our wedding she was very supportive as well, providing words of wisdom and asking intentional questions. She really caters to the couple's desires for their wedding, whether there are rituals, personal vows, etc.
First of all thank you for the amazing, well planned, and well executed ceremony. Deborah is an artist when it comes to the ceremony. Her attention to detail is what really sealed ...
the deal for us. She's lovely to talk to and really helpful explaining the process. HIGHLY RECOMMEND HER SERVICES. Thank you very much Deborah.
Deborah is wonderful to work with, as I have on several occasions. I’m a photographer and am constantly impressed by her level of service, compassion and collaboration with her cli...
ents; really going the extra mile to make the day a success.
Deborah has a gift of words, and she adds custom graceful elements to the ceremony. Her spiritual essence brings a calming and inspiring vibe to her weddings. Deborah is a delight!
I can't sing enough praises for Deborah. She was extremely professional and experienced in her work. She took the time to go through everything in detail, from wedding vows to the ...
ceremony tips and insights- she knows it all and is happy to pass on her expertise to make sure your day goes flawlessly. We had a small wedding with no rehearsal, but with Deborah’s guidance, it was beautiful and perfect in every way. She took control of the ceremony and made sure everyone was on the same page- from the groom, to the wedding party, to the coordinator. She kept reminding me it was my day and was happy to accommodate every detail of my vision.
I personally hope other couples seek Deborah’s wisdom and care, she will truly make the day as special as it should be for a couple. Not only that, but the love and light she brings to the couple and the ceremony will make for an experience you will never forget.
Our guests all agreed it was the most fun and elegant ceremony they’ve been to. We can’t thank you enough, Deborah!
We had the pleasure of having Rev. Deborah Young as our officiant twice! She made our baby blessings extra special by caring about every detail and accommodating our overall visio...
n for the event. We strongly recommend Rev. Young, hands down.
We love Deborah! She made our elopement so special and we would highly recommend her! After our initial phone call with her, we knew we wanted to move forward because of how she re...
ally cared about us and our story and how special she wanted to make our ceremony. My favorite thing she did for us, was to have my husband and I write the reasons why we loved each other and send to her separately. Then, during our ceremony, we got to read what we wrote to each other and it truly was the most special moment and one I will never forget. Deborah is a gem and the best at what she does!
Deborah is very helpful. We really enjoyed having her as our officiant. Deborah made our wedding feel so special. Her voice is very calming and warm. Thank you Deborah! Please cons...
ider having her as your officiant.
If you are looking for the BEST wedding officiant, Deborah is beyond amazing. I had booked my wedding from PA to California and she married us at Paradise Point Resort in San Diego...
. We met with her a few months before the wedding and she is so easy to connect with and made sure the day was perfect.
My husband and I would give her more than 5 stars if it was possible here on the knot website. At the ceremony she was very heartfelt and it felt like she had known us for years as a couple. Every word and emotion from her to us and our guests was perfect. We received multiple compliments from her as our officiant and also have a lovely picture with her to remember. We got married on June 9, 2018 and as the bride, I seriously thank you Deborah for doing an amazing job! I have watched our wedding video many times since with Justin and still end up in tears and laughs of course.
So if you are looking for the best officiant, go with Deborah Young. She will make your wedding day as you imagined: beautiful, unforgettable memories of the best day of your life.
~Del and Justin
Deborah is a wonderful officiant who has an elegant voice and a calm and pleasant demeanor. Leading up to our wedding she worked with my husband and me to ensure our ceremony was t...
ailored to us. She cared about the details, like matching her outfit to our wedding color scheme and having us fill out a ceremony questionnaire so that she could speak knowledgeably about our relationship. The more genuine and thoughtful answers you give, the better Deborah is able to craft a warm, personal, and meaningful ceremony.
We were very pleased with Deborah’s services and think she did a fantastic job. My Dad was especially impressed with what Deborah had to say about love and partnership and even cut his welcome speech short noting that Deborah had already touched upon some of his most important points during the wedding ceremony.
Reverend Deborah Young officiated our marriage vows renewal on our 16.5 wedding anniversary at Sunset Cliffs overlooking the Pacific Ocean. The ceremony was EXCELLENT. This was a t...
otal surprise for my wife and Reverend Young assisted marvelously in helping me make this a spectacular shocking splendid surprise for my sweetie. The care, concern, and creativity Reverend Young put in preparing and performing this experience was nothing less than loving. I emphatically recommend her for any endeavor in which a positive spirit of love, nature, and God is desired to create a pique experience that will endure a lifetime. I am so thankful that I found her on such short notice where there was no shortage of professionalism. Reverend Young was completely considerate of our renewal ceremony and I am confident she would exercise that level on considerate compassion for anyone imploring her services.
Deborah Young is super sweet, knowledgeable, and professional. She did my wedding this past June 2017, and she has wowed my guests with her words on love. Picking the right offic...
iant was one of the most important thing for me, because I wanted someone who can touch the audience with their word of wisdom on marriage. When I read about Deborah on her website, I knew she was the one. She took the time to get to know me and my husband. She was very patient, as I don't know a lot about weddings or how it works. She even took the color of my wedding into consideration just so that she could blend in. Overall, from all the conversation that I've had with her, I felt like we've know each other for years. I highly recommend Deborah Young, and I hope to use her again in the future!
Deborah literally made our wedding a success! My husband and I were looking to have an intimate wedding but were having trouble finding the location to make it special. We found De...
borah online, called the number and it became immediately evident that she was the right pick for us. At the end of the phone call, my husband and I felt completely relieved that we had found Deborah and were confident that our ceremony was going to be amazing. The day of, Deborah performed the ceremony at a level that exceeded our expectation. She found the perfect location and her spirit made the ceremony beautiful. I would recommend her to everyone! She even matched her outfit with my bouquet! The most impressive thing about her was her genuine care - I sincerely felt that she cared about making my husband and I happy- that's priceless.
Thank you Deborah for making 20/04/2017 very exceptional for us. Exceptional, because you handled this international ceremony in outstanding and spiritual way. With love, passion...
and professionalism . Thank you with all my heart.
Deborah does an amazing job. From the first meeting to the wedding day, she is all about making your day perfect. She takes her roll in your wedding very seriously. As predicted...
, she was a big hit with my Mom! Not that we needed her follow up email after the wedding to validate that we made the perfect choice for our Officiant, but it certainly was the icing on the cake regarding her professionalism. Thank you again for making an unbelievably special event that much more special. We could not appreciate her spirituality, professionalism and love for what she does even more. Thank you, thank you, thank you...
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Dunn
Deborah was one of our best finds this entire wedding process. We knew we didn't want a religious ceremony but we still wanted to make sure that the event was special and importan...
t. When we first contacted Deborah, she scheduled a meeting with us to see if we were a good fit. We ended up staying for over three hours, chatting, laughing and sharing our story. We hadn't even booked her at this point and the fact that she took that kind of time out of her schedule to be with us sealed the deal completely.
She is very strict about getting her questionnaire filled out in a timely fashion and than GOODNESS. The ceremony is so important and having a deadline really forced us to sit down and provide thoughtful answers. I'm so glad I didn't leave this to the last minute as the weeks leading up to the wedding were fairly hectic. The questions are thorough and she really allows you to customize your ceremony to exactly what you want as well as gives the opportunity for you to provide enough information for her to craft sentimental and personalized parts as well.
The ceremony itself was amazing it was everything I had hoped and more. Our guests kept asking how we knew her and were blown away when we said that we just met her when we hired her! Everything was all about my husband and I- she made us all laugh and cry it was such a special moment we will always remember.
Thank you Deborah!!
Beautifully Creative and Well Meshed
We loved working with Reverend Deborah in creating a special ceremony for our wedding day. The process started out with a casual meeting and q...
uestionnaires that prompted us to talk about our relationship, our love, bond, and how we wanted to share our love story to our family and friends on the day of the wedding. She gave us the idea of a wedding ceremony box filled with memorabilia and letters to each other on our wedding day and letters we are supposed to open at various times in our marriage. I felt really comfortable working with Deborah, she was always professional, and she worked diligently on her creativity for the ceremony. She had a lot of tips and recommendations that I found very helpful to make the ceremony beautiful. She can easily be reached by phone, email, or in person. It's coming up 1 year for our wedding anniversary. I still daydream about how beautiful the ceremony was and how our guest gave us feedback some of their favorite moments of us during the ceremony.
We had a great wedding and the ceremony by Deborah Young was more then one would hope for. We loved her and so did our guests, since the ceremony many of our guests have commented...
on how beautiful the service and personable the words were. As if she knew us inside and out and that is because Deborah took the time to make a great impression! People were smiling, laughing and crying.
If you want a caring, compassionate and spiritual officiant for your wedding - choose Deborah Young! We live in Pittsburgh and decided on San Diego for a destination wedding. Alt...
hough we had visited our venue, we had never met Deborah in person until the day before the wedding. From the first phone call (over an hour) we felt as if we were speaking with an old friend. Deborah made us feel soo comfortable and was incredibly thorough with her questionnaire - which of course helped her formulate the perfect ceremony. She was always available to us via phone, email or video conference. On our special day, she made all of our guests feel welcome and comfortable and was graceful and natural in her delivery. Although we are not particularly religious ourselves, we both had a Christian upbringing and she was able to infuse just the right amount of spirituality, blessings and prayer. I can't imagine a better person to have helped us through this sometimes stressful and anxiety-ridden planning process. Thank you Deborah for making our wedding complete with memories we will always hold in our heart!
Book Reverend Deborah Young if you want the best wedding ceremony anyone has ever heard or experienced. Deborah made it clear from the first moment that every couple is unique and ...
she made our ceremony match us as a couple. One of her first questions is how we pictured our wedding day. We are a couple that loves to laugh and said we wanted a wedding mullet, business in the front party in the back.
The Reverend chuckled and then went with it to provide a ceremony that women cried over and had guys saying they loved every minute of it. Deborah wrote some beautiful words for us and incorporated things about us she had just picked up from conversation. Deborah speaks so eloquently, puts on a wedding event people will talk about long after and make you the center of attention. She also adds a special touch to make the ceremony yours; for us, it was laughter and Jack and Coke. . .I'll let Deborah explain.
It was truly unforgettable! Reverend Deborah Young drafted our ceremony just for us with so many wonderful personal details. We have received several compliments since as well from...
our friends and family. It was so beautiful and a memory we will always treasure.
Deborah was the best! She looked great, she sounded great, but most importantly she focused on Adam and I and ensuring that we felt comfortable. She had us take a moment and look a...
round at our guests and the venue to take it all in and relax. This really helped me feel comfortable in front of all our guests. Her ceremony was peaceful, romantic, and funny at times! We were definitely all laughing at times! I appreciate how light hearted she was, and would acknowledge environmental noises instead of awkwardly continuing through. For example, when a plane flew over and she made a positive comment about it, or when our dog was groaning she gave him a little caption which was so cute. We absolutely loved her and would highly recommend her! She was extremely organized and helped us get our ceremony finalized and vows ("love writings") written months before the wedding, which was huge! It was tough to do at the time, but it was smart of her to get it done early because it would have been a lot harder to write the love writings the month of the wedding when everything gets crazy! I absolutely loved her!
Reverend Deborah Young and I (a harpist) had the opportunity to work together very recently. Her ceremony was beautifully done -- elegant, heartfelt, warm, and gracious. She offere...
d wonderful emotional support to the bride who began to cry and had difficulty speaking her vows. Reverend Young paused the ceremony, stated "you need a hug", and suggested that the couple take a moment to embrace each other. I have played for ceremonies for over 20 years, and I have never seen an officiant who was so attuned to what a couple needed. She gave them the priceless opportunity to relax, take a breath, and to turn and look at their family and friends who were there to support them on their special day! She clearly loves what she does, and you can feel her devotion to making the ceremony special, personal, and unforgettable for both the bride and groom and their guests. I recommend her most highly!
There were also moments of wit that had all guests smiling and laughing. She put such thought into it and we felt it was truly unique to us. Guests came up afterward to say it was...
such a special ceremony so thank you Deborah!
An added bonus for me was coming home before the ceremony having had my make up done and my eyes looked totally overdone! I did not know the makeup artist had used waterproof makeup and I had no time to scrape it all off. I called Deborah to ask if she knew of some tone down tricks and she saved my day with some helpful hints.
I have had the pleasure of knowing her for years. She never fails to impress and make each occasion one to remember. I highly recommend Deborah.
Deborah's ceremony was incredible! It was so well done, nicely personalized, and delivered with such grace: It surpassed all my expectations. I can't tell you the number of guests ...
who have told me they thought this was one of the most memorable wedding ceremonies they have ever witnessed. I agree wholeheartedly! Deborah made our evening special and one that will always be cherished. I hope other couples are fortunate to have their wedding done by Deborah.
We love Deborah Young. Deborah had the honor of marrying my husband and I, but she also recently performed a funeral service for my mother-in-law. She really listens to your needs ...
and wants, and she provides her expertise and guidance in making the service/ceremony everything YOU envision. She's professional, friendly, understanding, and a very eloquent speaker. At my mother-in-law's funeral service, everyone spoke of how beautiful the service was and how Deborah really moved them. We also invited her to the repass after the service, and she gathered the grandchildren to have a moment, giving them something heartfelt to remember their grandmother. It was VERY special, very unique, very uplifting for the little ones, and something they will never forget for the rest of their lives. I am so grateful to have had her be a part of two important days in our lives. Thank you, Deborah!!!!
My wife and I celebrated our 10th anniversary by renewing our vows. From the first time I talked with Deborah on the phone, I knew that we had made the best choice. Deborah guided ...
us through step by step and created the perfect ceremony! It was tailored to us as a couple and really brought our family and friends into the ceremony. It truly was a wonderful experience and we'll fondly remember that day forever. Thank you Deborah!
Reverend Deborah Young brought a wonderful sense of professionalism, spirituality and fun to my daughter's La Jolla wedding. It was very evident that she spent a good deal of time ...
getting to know Dominique and Michael and tailoring the ceremony to their personality and what they considered important. The celebration never felt rushed and we were all the beneficiaries of Deborah's warmth and beautiful energy. I will always be grateful for her being a part of this day and making it so wonderfully memorable to our friends and family. Thank you Deborah!
Bev Pundsack
Planning a wedding all the way from Australia was challenging but it was people like Deborah that made it that much easier and enjoyable.
Her attention to detail was noted right f...
rom the planning stages through to the big day.
With doing most of the planning via email (some skype) it was imperative that every detail was thought about. Her forms used to put together our ceremony were so thorough and screamed experience were very much a great tool to have.
From our first face to face meeting (only 2 days before the wedding) to the day of I was so at ease knowing that I had cleary made the right choice in hiring the services of Deborah. And she delivered as expected on the day.
We had many comments and compliments after the ceremony on how enjoyable it was.
She kept the flow going, gave us plenty of moment to take everything in so it didn't feel rushed, was patient and understanding at us having our 17month old running around which made everyone laugh and smile. Her attention to detail even went as far as making sure she was dressed not only in the right colors but the right shade of color too.
I could not recommend this experience professional and lovely lady enough.
Thank you Deborah, it was a pleasure x
We highly recommend Deborah Young. She is everything you’d want in a wedding officiant.
As our officiant, we found Rev. Young to be experienced, knowledgeable and extremely prof...
essional in all aspects of preparing the ceremony and performing it. With the very short amount of time we gave her until our wedding, she helped us create a ceremony that was dignified, but casual and warm at the same time.
Rev. Young is the perfect combination of practical knowledge and flexibility. She will give you suggestions to make your ceremony personal and unique, but lets you choose what you wish to include or leave out. She is extremely easygoing and accommodating, and she will gently guide you through all steps of the process.
We’re so glad that we found Rev. Young. We cannot praise her enough, and we truly appreciate how she made our ceremony so special. It was just perfect.
I'm a wedding musician and DJ and I've have had the pleasure of working with Deborah several times now at ceremonies all over San Diego. It's a really magical thing when you have ...
just the right combination of elements in a ceremony - of course our San Diego weather, our amazing venues, the right music, etc., but what ties it all together is the officant. Deborah has that magical balance between being light-hearted and making everyone at ease and comfortable, while also highlighting in a beautiful manner the seriousness, importance, and beauty of what the bride and groom are choosing to do when they say 'I do".
Deborah is kind, personable, well-spoken, quick witted, and more importantly, she really cares about the couple, as well as about their loved ones who have come to share in that moment. I highly recommend her!
Deborah was absolutely wonderful! She really works to help couples get exactly the ceremony they are looking for.On our wedding day she made all of us feel relaxed and delivered th...
e best ceremony ever! So many of my guests commented on how great the ceremony and Deborah were. Our ceremony was everything we wanted and more!! I would recommend Deborah to anyone!!!
Deborah was incredible! She took the time to get to know my fiance and me and we could truly feel how much she wanted to share and give us the ceremony of our dreams. She is very...
warm and has a very soothing way about her. In leading up to the "Big Day" she shared many wedding and martial tips with us and spent much time preparing and personalizing all of our ceremony elements.
Many guests shared with us that it was the most heartfelt and loving ceremony that they had ever attended. There was not a dry eye amongst the guests - and of course my fiance and I shared many happy tears as well. Something I really appreciated was that Deborah prompted my fiance and I to share a hug before the vows took place as we were just oozing with love and it was really comforting to be able to just reach out and give a hug as you naturally would do with the one you love. ;) She also really encouraged us through the ceremony to soak in everything around us from the smiling faces, to the ocean breeze, to the sounds of birds. I can transport myself back there right now and it brings happy tears to my eyes.
If you are looking for a ceremony that is filled with love and overall a joyous celebration then Deborah is the way to go!
PS - Congratulations to YOU, because if you are reading this you must be engaged and planning your special day and bright future with your fiance. :)
Debrorah did a good job at describing our love and help us with our vows. I have a little girl from a previous relationship so we did a childrens ceremony. We said our vows to her ...
to introduce us as a family. when we did this there was not dry eye in the house! It was sweet and genuine. Deborah really got to know us and how we felt for eachother. She knew how to capture the moments during our ceremony. Her words decribed exactly our relationship.
We heard from many family members and friends that this was the best wedding ceremony that they ever have been to. She did an excellent job and would recommend her.
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