Texas's Sassiest Officiant
$375 starting price
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Stefanie Spivey
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AWARD WINNER (2X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Based out of Arlington, TX, Reverend Stefanie is an ordained officiant that performs wedding ceremonies across the state of Texas. Stefanie has more than 25 years of experience in weddings - truly a passion for her. This personable officiant will help create a ceremony that authentically reflects your unique love story.
Reverend Stefanie has extensive experience with a variety of wedding celebrations. Her ethos is an inclusive one, as she serves couples of all beliefs, traditions, and lifestyles. Stefanie can conduct a truly memorable ceremony that fits your desires for your special day.
Wedding services with Reverend Stefanie can be discussed in a friendly consultation. She strives to fully understand your needs and expectations as a couple and assist you accordingly. Stefanie is available to write a ceremony script, officiate, and travel to your venue. With empathy and a sense of fun, she will happily help you navigate this important chapter of your personal love story.
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Prices & packages
Writing Only
$175 starting price
Writing Only
$175 starting price
Contact for hours
Contact for hours
Consultation with you and your partner
Consultation with you and your partner
Total customization of your ceremony script
Total customization of your ceremony script
Unlimited edits until we get it right
Unlimited edits until we get it right
Full Ceremony
$375 starting price
Full Ceremony
$375 starting price
Contact for hours
Contact for hours
Unlimited edits until we get it right
Unlimited edits until we get it right
Consultation with you and your partner
Consultation with you and your partner
Performance of the ceremony at your venue
Performance of the ceremony at your venue
Total customization of your ceremony script
Total customization of your ceremony script
Completion of government paperwork
Completion of government paperwork
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- Writing Only$175 starting priceWriting Only$175 starting priceContact for hoursContact for hoursConsultation with you and your partnerConsultation with you and your partnerTotal customization of your ceremony scriptTotal customization of your ceremony scriptUnlimited edits until we get it rightUnlimited edits until we get it right
- Full Ceremony$375 starting priceFull Ceremony$375 starting priceContact for hoursContact for hoursUnlimited edits until we get it rightUnlimited edits until we get it rightConsultation with you and your partnerConsultation with you and your partnerPerformance of the ceremony at your venuePerformance of the ceremony at your venueTotal customization of your ceremony scriptTotal customization of your ceremony scriptCompletion of government paperworkCompletion of government paperwork
- Starting prices may not include all fees a vendor may charge.
- Couples usually spend $450
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Civil Union
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Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
Christian
Protestant
Interfaith
Pagan
Secular
Spiritual
Unitarian
Wiccan
Wedding Activities
Wedding
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Awards and Affiliations
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Meet the team
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- Stefanie SpiveyOwnerI'm an ordained officiant serving the Great State of Texas's happiest and most interesting couples. I've been involved in weddings and events for more than 25 years and it is absolutely a passion. If you want it, and it's not felonious, I can probably do it. When not officiating, planning, or writing for my couples (rare!), I'm probably on the couch with my dogs watching movies. MCU anyone? If I've got coffee, I'm unstoppable. Until I have wine. Then I need a nap. In the meantime, I'm here! https://www.honeybook.com/widget/reverend_stefanie_213389/cf_id/6220c50006014a0035aa0262
- Reverend StefanieHead WeirdoI'm an ordained officiant serving the Great State of Texas' happiest and most interesting couples. I promise, I'm a professional. I've been involved in weddings and events for more than 25 years and it is absolutely a passion. I've handled everything from helping fine-tune the vows and ceremony details to organizing the entire event to pulling the groom and his team out of the bar three minutes before showtime to just showing up and reading the script and signing the certificate. If you need someone to be formal and serious, I can do it. No problem. However, if you're looking for fun, for a unique service, for someone to be the "Impressive Clergyman" from The Princess Bride, I'm DEFINITELY your girl. Because this is not my primary occupation, I'm able to be completely flexible with my fees and services.Just talk to me and we'll see how I can help make your day more YOU.
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Reverend Stefanie is highly praised by multiple couples for her personalized and heartwarming ceremony scripts, excellent communication skills, and genuine care for their special day. Her sense of humor, attention to detail, and ability to calm nerves were highlighted in the reviews. Stefanie's professionalism, flexibility, and support throughout the planning process and on the wedding day have left couples feeling grateful and appreciative. Guests also loved her energy, humor, and the personalized touch she brought to each ceremony, making her a highly recommended officiant choice for weddings in the Dallas area.Review photos
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Hayes S
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5.0
11/10/2024
Stefanie was absolutely incredible! She helped us feel comfortable during our ceremony, had handkerchieves at the ready for us, and made sure to have all the little details we asked for. She even went above and beyond and put references to a show that is special to us that we could pick up on, but anyone who hadn’t seen it would be none the wiser. So much love and care went into our ceremony and it made it an incredible moment for us. Would highly recommend.
response 11/12/2024
I am forever grateful that I got to be there for you two. With what we were doing with you...
r ceremony, my heart was absolutely full. Thank you again.
XOXO
Max R
5.0
4/13/2025
Reverend Stefanie was wonderful to work with. She did a great job getting to know us and ended up writing a ceremony script that was perfect for our wedding. She included us in all steps of the planning process and was always prompt if we had a question to ask or if we wanted to make any changes. Stefanie has a great sense of humor and she brought it to our wedding. We are both very pleased that we chose Reverend Stefanie to officiate our ceremony and would highly recommend her to other couples in the Dallas area.
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Megan M
5.0
2/03/2025
We absolutely loved her service and compassion for her work. She kept me (the bride) as calm as possible before the event and even gave me an amazing pep talk to really help my nerves. Her personally written script and help with my vows led to an amazing ceremony. We couldn't have asked for a more fun loving and joyous officiant to make our big day official!
response 02/03/2025
Megan, you were already on top of it, I just came in and sassed you until you giggled. Tha...
nk you both so much for including me. It was wonderful!
XOXO
Stefanie
Ronni S
5.0
12/19/2024
My wedding day was my dream, and everything I could have wanted and a huge part of that was Reverend Stephanie! She personalized our ceremony to everything and anything we wanted it to be. It was so loving and funny. But my most favorite thing about her was how supported I felt through out the entire process even during the ceremony. She was the most perfect fit and brought such a bright light to the whole day and I’m will be forever grateful for her being apart of our big day! Stephanie you are the best and I want to be your friend for ever lol
response 12/20/2024
OMG! I had such a blast with you and Hayden!! Give me a Halloween wedding with a steampunk...
vibe and I am a happy, happy girl!! Thank you again for including me.
XO
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AJ C
5.0
12/10/2024
Extremely friendly and funny - seriously what a great sense of humor! Absolutely professional with excellent communication. Took the time to get to know what we envisioned and brought our dream ceremony to life.
response 12/17/2024
Thank you both again! It was my pleasure.
XO
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Kylee S
5.0
11/21/2024
Stefanie was fantastic! She created our ceremony and it was perfection! She has an amazing attention to detail, and crafts exactly what youre looking for! We wouldnt have had our wedding without her!
response 11/25/2024
Kylee, you were wonderful to work with and I had a blast with you two!
XO
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Hayly P
5.0
11/12/2024
There are literally no words for how GREAT she is! I can tell you she really makes your ceremony exactly what you want no matter how many times she has to rework wording to get exactly what you want, she does it. She was amazing, hands down the best choice!
response 11/12/2024
OMG! LOOK HOW GORGEOUS YOU TWO ARE!!
I cannot thank you enough, Hayly. You two were a joy...
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XOXO
Christina B
5.0
11/11/2024
LOVE LOVE LOVE! Can not recommend Stefanie enough.
response 11/12/2024
This means the world to me, love! Thank you!!
XOXO
Candice C
5.0
10/17/2024
Stefanie was incredible!!! she was funny, down to earth, relatable and really brought our vision for our vision for our ceremony to life. She even revised me and my wifes vows for us. I can/t say enough good things. There is NO BETTER officiant then her!!! simply the best.
response 10/17/2024
Sweet girl, your entire TEAM was amazing. I don't often get to work with incredible venue ...
managers/coordinators, photographers AND DJs. You chose well. Also - you and Michelle were amazing. Thank you again.
XO
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Nikki T
5.0
10/17/2024
Stefanie did an AMAZING job! She truly listened to what we wanted for our ceremony and did such an awesome job fixing issues the day of after we forgot the items for our unity ceremony! Not to mention, she was very accommodating when we had to elope a YEAR before our wedding, we met her at a park, and she did the legal mumbo jumbo and signed our license for us! Can not recommend her enough!!
response 10/17/2024
Darling, you two, AND your friends and family, were wonderful to work with.
Thank you ag...
ain.
XO
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Michael F
5.0
5/27/2024
Stefanie was so incredible to work with! My wife and I just got married on 4/6. Stefanie was so helpful throughout the planning process. She made it very easy to communicate thoughts back and forth. She was very open to our opinions and went above and beyond to make sure it was exactly what we wanted. The execution wedding day was flawless. We had many guests tell us they thought the ceremony was really great, specifically because of Stefanie! We would highly recommend her for anyone in need of an officiant!
response 05/28/2024
[doing a silly little happy dance]
You two were amazing and so was EVERYONE I got to inte...
ract with on the day.
Thank you again, darlings!
XO
Marna M
5.0
5/23/2024
I can not tell you how special and amazing Stefanie is. From the moment I read her bio, I knew she was the one. We met her over Zoom, and it felt like we were best friends just catching up. My husband's grandfather passed away three days before our wedding, and when we reached out to Stefanie to tell her, she knew exactly what to do. She adjusted her script to include Grandpa so he could still be a part of it and was so supportive and understanding that our day was now so bittersweet. She told us she also did funeral services if we needed her, but the family had already made arrangements with someone else for the service. She was a bright shining light during our wedding ceremony. She brought so many laughs and also made everyone cry, in the best way, of course. I couldn't have been more grateful. But then, 2 months after the wedding, my husband's brother passed away in a tragic accident. When his wife asked for help with arrangements, we immediately reached out to Stefanie. The kindest soul on Earth, she changed her plans for the entire weekend so that she could be available for us. Stefanie, words can not express how grateful we are that you exist and the help and hope you've given us. We got married a year ago, and I am so sorry it has taken us this long to spread the word about what an absolute angel you are. If you are looking for the perfect person for your wedding, you have found her. Thank you so much, Stefanie. Love, Marna & Brandon <3
response 05/28/2024
Marna - I don't even have words. You two were incredible. Even with everything going on, y...
ou were calm and collected. I was so proud of both of you. The changes you needed were simple to make, even if a little sad, and I was MORE than happy to be there for you two. Thank you again for having me.
PS - good lord. Those pics. However, the one with me smack-talking Brandon while waiting for you might be a new favorite. :)
DeAmber P
5.0
3/16/2024
Reverend Stefanie was absolutely great! She was helpful, easygoing, and just plan incredible. She is professional and very thorough with her work. Highly, highly, recommend!
Rachel S
5.0
12/08/2023
Stefanie was amazing. Our ceremony could not have gone any more smooth. We got to customize to an extent and I loved that feature!!
Katie B
5.0
11/07/2023
Pick Stefanie! She was a joy to work with. Our guests loved her energy. She was easy going and fun. Really matched our vibe.
Jessica B
5.0
10/23/2023
Stefanie did an amazing job of writing our script, communicating, and calming our nerves the day of. We had so many guests asking if we knew her personally after the ceremony and all we had to say was “No, she is just genuinely involved with her clients!” We really felt like she was an old friend throughout the entire process. My husband and I could not recommend her enough!
Tyssa W
5.0
9/25/2023
Revvie Stefie was INCREDIBLE!!!! I absolutely didn't want a stiff, boring, cookie cutter ceremony for our elopement and she DELIVERED! She had a very thorough questionnaire, a great meeting, and the process for tweaking all the parts of the ceremony was so easy and perfect.
I always thought that an officiant would just say "What kind of ceremony do you want?" and then you just get whatever they give you on the wedding day.
Stefanie was SO thorough about including details, inside jokes, advice, and wisdom in our ceremony and she gave us full ownership of tweaking/changing each and every section.
She was SO good with my new stepdaughters and even though we had a section for them in the ceremony, the girls decided to write their own vows and surprise us with them. Stefanie took the time to go through the ceremony with the oldest to find the perfect spot for the girls to read them to us, and she made them feel so involved.
Stefanie was absolutely a ray of sunshine on our day and we wish we could've spent more time with her!
response 09/25/2023
Not me crying while the girls read those vows. I was TOTALLY calm and composed!
Tyssa, y...
ou and Neil and the girls were just ... amazing. Clients like you are what makes what I do so fulfilling. Lovelovelove all four of you! Thank you again for trusting me with your day.
XOXO
Stefanie
Tyssa W
5.0
9/25/2023
Revvie Stefie was INCREDIBLE!!!! I absolutely didn't want a stiff, boring, cookie cutter ceremony for our elopement and she DELIVERED! She had a very thorough questionnaire, a great meeting, and the process for tweaking all the parts of the ceremony was so easy and perfect.
I always thought that an officiant would just say "What kind of ceremony do you want?" and then you just get whatever they give you on the wedding day.
Stefanie was SO thorough about including details, inside jokes, advice, and wisdom in our ceremony and she gave us full ownership of tweaking/changing each and every section.
She was SO good with my new stepdaughters and even though we had a section for them in the ceremony, the girls decided to write their own vows and surprise us with them. Stefanie took the time to go through the ceremony with the oldest to find the perfect spot for the girls to read them to us, and she made them feel so involved.
Stefanie was absolutely a ray of sunshine on our day and we wish we could've spent more time with her!
Amy D
5.0
8/13/2023
Reverend Stefanie was the perfect person to officiate our wedding. She instantly made us feel comfortable upon our first conversation and she helped everything feel so natural. At our ceremony, we had several friends as if she was family. That is how good she was. We love Reverend Stefanie! ❤️
Lauren B
5.0
6/23/2023
When planning our wedding, hiring Stefanie was the best choice we made. She made sure our ceremony went flawlessly. She had a plan and she guided us through the chaos. She made our guests laugh, she made them cry, and she remained cool and collected the entire time. 11/10
response 06/27/2023
Lauren. You and Cary made the job SO easy! Thank you SO, so much for including me on your ...
big day.
XO
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Stephen F
5.0
6/03/2023
Stefanie was so amazing and everything we could have wanted in an officiant. She was the perfect mix of funny, goofy, and heartfelt and was happy to make any adjustments so that we got exactly what we wanted. On the day of the wedding she was there for both of us and very supportive. We will always have such great memories from our wedding and Stefani was a big part of what made the day of so special!
response 06/27/2023
Stephen! I am so glad you and Madison were pleased. Your entire wedding was an absolute jo...
y and I am so grateful you included me. Thank you again.
XO
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Madison L
5.0
4/09/2023
I cannot recommend Stefanie enough. She is exactly what we wanted and hoped for in an officiant. From the first time we spoke we felt like family with Stefanie, she wrote the funniest but also most beautiful and genuine ceremony that had everyone in tears of joy. Multiple guests said when they get married they would love to have her apart of their day. Words cannot describe how great she really is so you should just book her for yourself and see, you won’t regret it. 🤍🤍🤍
response 04/10/2023
MADISON. GIRL.
You and Jake AND your families AAANND your puppers were amazing!!
Your cer...
emony was lovely and I am so glad I got to be a part of your big day.
Thank you again!
XO
Stefanie
Melissa D
5.0
2/08/2023
Reverend Stefanie was the best to work with! From our first meeting to the wedding, I have absolutely nothing negative to say! She wrote the perfect ceremony for us based on our lives and what we wanted. She helped us with our vows, and made sure everything came up perfect!
Guests still rave about her to us! Everyone was in love with her and the ceremony!
I would recommend Stefanie in a heartbeat to anyone looking for someone who will truly celebrate a personalized wedding ceremony!
response 04/10/2023
MELISSA! You and Jose were an absolute delight - and so were your guests!! I had an absolu...
tely wonderful time working with you both!
XO
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Jennifer T
5.0
2/01/2023
I honestly have no words, but will try my best. My husband and I fell in love with Stefanie from our first consultation. She was funny, quick-witted, and focused on bringing us out of our shells to get to know us. She wrote and delivered the most amazing ceremony speech. With her added personal touches, you would have thought we've known Stefanie for years and years. She made our ceremony so memorable, and we are so grateful to her and would recommend her for ANY and every event that needs officiating.
response 02/01/2023
Jennifer, I knew * I * wanted to work with you and Shane immediately! Clients like you mak...
e my life just lovely! Thank you so much for including me. Send all my love to your entire, wonderful family!
XO
Stefanie
Christine M
5.0
1/26/2023
We love Stefanie! As soon as we finished our consultation meeting we knew she was the one. I was an anxious bride, particularly being in front of all of the guests. The first thing she did when she arrived was make sure I was supported, as well as when I reached the top of the altar. EVERYONE commented on how amazing she was! Love her to pieces!
response 01/28/2023
[insert happy crying here]
girl, you two (AND YOUR GUESTS!!) were an absolute dream. I am ...
SO grateful I got to be a part of your day. Also - you walked down that aisle like a champ! Just like I knew you would!!
XOXO
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Ana D
5.0
1/07/2023
Stefanie was so AMAZING!!!! She listened to what we wanted and added input in certain aspects I wasn’t sure about. I requested a nondenominational romantic ceremony and she hit the mark. It had my family in tears from how amazing it was. She even found a way to include my dogs into the ceremony!!! During the reception everyone came up to us and said how much they loved her Stefanie’s energy. I am so happy I found her because she made my wedding so much more special!!!
response 01/07/2023
Ana! You and Charles (AND DUKE AND NOVA!!) were wonderful. Thank you again for having me ...
along for the ride!!
XO
Stefanie
Hayley Y
5.0
1/04/2023
Stefanie was so fun and easy to work with! Everyone raved about our ceremony and all the special touches we included. Reverend Stefanie also helped me surprise my now husband during the ceremony which was really cute too! She was also very professional, and followed a timeline for developing the ceremony script so that we were able to approve it and have it ready weeks before the big day! She also was very thoughtful and organized with the ceremony materials and included a little packet of our things. I would recommend her for any couple - well, only if you're fun! :)
response 01/07/2023
Hayley - thank you so, so much. It was an absolute delight working with you two!
XO
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Alexis P
5.0
12/25/2022
If you are on the fence about hiring stefanie let make the decision for you—lock her down! From our first conversation we were hooked! It is very important to Stefanie that there is chemistry between the couple she is marrying and herself! She genuinely wants to know your story, how she can make your ceremony special and she certainly delivers. She is super sweet, very funny and 150% there for you! I had a lot of anxieties about my wedding day coming together and she was always there to offer advice, a kind word and just general support. If I had the chance to go back in time and redo aspects of my wedding I would hire Stefanie again without a question! She is completely worth looking into and I would recommend her to any couple! Thank you again Stefanie for making our wedding so incredibly special! 💜
response 12/26/2022
Alexis - thank you!! I adore you and Demetric. Your wedding was just lovely and I am so gr...
ateful I got to be there.
Jaclyn L
5.0
12/07/2022
I absolutely adore Stefanie!! From the first email response that I got from her, I knew she was the one to officiate our wedding. Then right after our zoom call, we definitely were ready to get married right then and there! With each little detail that we wanted in our ceremony, Stefanie made our day even more special. She brought her humor and wit and we were really appreciative of that because it definitely helped with all the nerves. I would wholeheartedly choose Stefanie over and over again!!
response 12/26/2022
Jaclyn - thank you (and Austin!) so much for including me. I had a wonderful time!
Emilie H
5.0
11/17/2022
I wouldn’t want to have gotten married by anyone else, she thought of everything and made us feel so loved. We wish we could get married 1000x just to spend time with her honestly! Stefani is the best!!!
response 11/17/2022
Emilie! You and Nick were wonderful!
I am so glad to have been included in your day!
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Stefanie
Caitlin H
5.0
11/07/2022
Stefanie is the sweetest and most caring person ever! She wrote an incredible personalized speech for the ceremony and delivered it with style! You will NOT regret using her as an officiant. Thank you again, Stefanie!
response 11/07/2022
You and Miguel were just delightful to work with, and I am so grateful I got to be include...
d in your day!
XOXO
Jenny Z
5.0
10/30/2022
Stefanie is absolutely wonderful! My husband and I wanted to find someone who could make us feel comfortable on our wedding day. Stefanie is incredibly energetic and funny, but she can adjust to whichever mood you want for your ceremony. She’s very quick to respond and is always so kind to check up on us. Many of my guests have told us that they really enjoyed our ceremony because her presence helped keep order and energy in the space. I highly recommend her because she can really make you feel grounded and very comfortable on your wedding day!
response 11/07/2022
Jenny! Oh my goodness! You and your families were just amazing. Thank you again for choosi...
ng me. I truly enjoyed working with you!
XOXO
Devyn M
5.0
10/30/2022
Reverend Stefanie is amazing!!! She is incredibly sweet, kind, and truly cares about you having an amazing experience on your wedding day. We knew after our first meeting with her we wanted her to marry us. She makes the ceremony reading completely custom to you and sends you a draft before it’s finalized. She does an incredible job and we absolutely loved the ceremony reading she wrote for us. It was the perfect mix of what we wanted, and we will cherish it forever.
response 10/30/2022
Devyn, you and Grant were SO wonderful to work with! It makes my job so much easier when I...
have couples like you!
XOXO
Lacy S
5.0
10/22/2022
Reverend Stefanie is so sweet, kind, caring and personable! She worked with us the whole step of the way in planning a very personal and spiritual ceremony. She really cares about helping you have the perfect wedding ceremony catered to your liking.
response 10/29/2022
Oh, Lacy - you and Victoria were just wonderful to work with.
Thank you again for includi...
ng me on your day!!
XOXO
Stefanie
kadeejah w
5.0
10/02/2022
Stefanie was amazing! She was very quick to respond, very personable, and offered her help with every aspect of the ceremony. I cannot express this enough, book her!
response 10/03/2022
Kadeejah - you, Alex and your ENTIRE group were just amazing. I was immediately scooped up...
into the goings-on and had an absolute blast! Thank you again for including me.
XO
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Kylie B
5.0
9/28/2022
Our day was amazing because of Reverend Stefanie!! I was so relaxed knowing she had us and she brought the perfect sense of humor we wanted and I just can’t imagine having anyone else apart of our day. If one thing in our wedding went amazing it was our decision in having Reverend Stefanie apart of it. Do yourself a favor and GET HER ASAP!!! You will NOT BE DISAPPOINTED AT ALL!! Every single person in my wedding asked us how we found her and how they wanted someone like her. I love you so much Stefanie for being apart of my day and making me feel so comfortable up there!! You are truly amazing person!!! 🥰🥰 - Love the Kirk’s (09-25-22)
response 09/28/2022
Kylie. Sister. I think you've got that backward. I just showed up with my usual sass and y...
ou tried to kill me at the altar!! I haven't laughed so much or enjoyed myself quite like that in years! You and Justin were just amazing and Olivia is my new BFF. Please tell her I said hi and that I still love her boots.
Love you all!
XOXO
Stefanie
Amber D
5.0
8/11/2022
We could not have asked for a better officiant for our wedding! We completed Reverend Stefanie’s questionnaire and were so impressed when she wrote her draft and we didn’t have to or want to change a thing! She was truly a blessing on our big day and we absolutely LOVED her! 10/10 recommend!
response 08/11/2022
Amber. Seriously.
My job is made super easy when I have clients like you and Ellie. You'r...
e also clients that remind me why I love what I get to do! XOXO
Jamye W
5.0
7/14/2022
Stefanie has amazing energy. She is super creative, responsive and collaborative. We wanted a non-religious yet somewhat "spiritual" ceremony with personal vows and a handfasting portion. We added some quotes from our favorite writers, and she captured everything splendidly with a relaxed, easygoing vibe. Helped us feel comfortable throughout the whole process, even working with us independently on our vows. So much fun to work with and adds a personal touch.
response 07/14/2022
JAYME! You and Chris were just lovely to work with, and your wedding was simply gorgeous! ...
Thank you SO much for including me! XOXO
Kristen M
5.0
7/05/2022
Reverend Stefanie was perfect! She got to know us and completely tailored the ceremony to suit our personalities.
response 07/05/2022
Kristen - you two were amazing and I adore you both. XO
Chelsea R
5.0
6/29/2022
Stefanie is the best! If you are looking for someone who is fun to work with and that can make you laugh, she is perfect! She was even able to include our kids in the vows like we wanted and it made our day that much more special!
response 07/05/2022
Chelsea - you two were amazing to work with and I ADORE your family. I am SO glad you incl...
uded me! XO
Jessica D
5.0
4/30/2022
Stefanie is AMAZING! We had an odd situation and she was MORE than willing to help us out. We’re dual military and I came down on orders to leave months before our actual wedding. I sent her a message, moved our ceremony to an elopement, at a random park, months earlier than planned, and she was ALL IN. She drove over an hour, to meet us halfway, for a 15minute ceremony and there never wasn’t a smile on her face. Although I was panicking about all of the changes, Stefanie made this experience, carefree, organized, and wonderful all the way around! I cannot wait until December where she will be able to marry us a second time in front of our family and friends.
response 07/05/2022
I LOVE YOU TWO SO STINKING MUCH! XO
Jen E
5.0
3/07/2022
Stef was exactly what we wanted for our wedding! We couldn't have chosen a better officiant. She was kind and funny and made us feel comfortable immediately. She was great at communicating with us, from the initial inquiry, through our consultation over cocktails, right up until our wedding day. We never once had a doubt that she was the right choice for us. She wrote the perfect ceremony for Laurie and I. It felt unbelievably personal, with a touch of humor and faith...exactly what we wanted. We can't say enough great things about Rev Stef!
response 03/07/2022
OMG.
Jen - you and Laurie were an absolute dream to work for, and I'm completely smitten w...
ith you both. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for letting me be there for you.
XOXO
Deja M
5.0
12/31/2021
From our first Zoom meeting, Stefanie had this energy and excitement that no one else could match. She was genuinely excited to write our ceremony dripping with pop culture references. Each email showed her growing excitement for our big day. When that day came she was everything and more- kind, genuine, funny, and paid special attention to me (bride) to keep me from breaking down at any given moment. She performed the ceremony flawlessly and received nothing but praise from our guests. You only get married once and you want it to be memorable. Stefanie did just that. Everyone needs Stefanie for their officiant.
Damien M
5.0
12/31/2021
Stefanie was amazing from the beginning and all the way through the ceremony. She was incredibly on top of every aspect, especially genuinely happy to be there. Our ceremony was full of pop culture references and humor. She did every part spot on and did the ceremony without skipping a beat. There is no one better. She will help you make a very personalized ceremony to fit your wedding.
Aubrie H
5.0
12/31/2021
Loved her OMG. I didn't get the pleasure of meeting her in person prior to the ceremony, but even as I was getting ready I had some of my bridesmaids tell me how much they already love her after she arrived to the venue.
As I stood at the ceremony site all I could think of was "omg she is so cute I love her!!" then I had to quickly remember I am in the middle of getting married! lol
She made the whole process smooth and lighthearted just as we wanted. So happy with Reverend Stefanie!
response 12/31/2021
Aubrie, you were amazing and I adore you. Thank you so much for sharing your big day with ...
me!
XOXO
S
Emily M
5.0
11/03/2021
We absolutely loved Stefanie! She was so perfect for us and tailored our ceremony to just they way we wanted it. She was funny, professional, and kept the ceremony classy, fun, and silly just how we wanted! Would definitely recommend!
response 11/04/2021
Emily, you had an absolutely wonderful approach to creating everything. I was just there t...
o fill in the blanks! Sending all my love to Mrowmers, Oliver, and of course, Daniel.
XOXO
Sara M
5.0
11/02/2021
There isn’t enough space to list all the things we loved about Stefanie and working with her! She was incredibly communicative, easy going, supportive, and cared so much about creating a space where we could be very authentic with each other. Not only is she hilarious and the absolute sweetest, but you can tell that building rapport and genuinely getting to know her couples is so important to her. By the time our elopement rolled around, it truly felt like she was one of our friends marrying us. I’d get married again if it meant Stef got to officiate!
response 11/02/2021
Sara, my sweetest girl - I cannot believe how absolutely wonderful your ceremony was. Hand...
s down my favorite elopement to date. Love you both oodles!! XOXO
Taylor W
5.0
10/12/2021
Stefanie was beyond what we could have hoped for for our wedding! She got to know us before our wedding so she could create the most perfect ceremony for us. She was incredibly responsive in all of our communications and in the time leading up to the big day. By the wedding day, I was so comfortable and calm with Stefanie that it felt like one of our best friends was marrying us. She handled all of the challenges flawlessly and truly put me at ease throughout the whole thing. When I reached the end of the aisle for our ceremony, she smiled and winked at me, reminded me to breathe, and I knew everything was going to be perfect. Both my husband and I cried tears of joy during our ceremony and it was amazing. I would recommend Stefanie to absolutely everyone, she was such a joy to work with. Our ceremony was fantastic and memorable, and it was all thanks to Stefanie!
response 10/13/2021
TAYLOR! I love you so! You and Justin were absolutely incredible to work with. Everything ...
about your ceremony was just wonderful. Especially you two!
XOXO
Heidi M
5.0
6/15/2021
Stefanie went above and beyond in creating the perfect ceremony for our big day. She worked her butt off making changes constantly and the final thing was just incredible and what we wanted. She is patient and wonderful and even drove three hours just to do the job. We can't thank her enough! Book her now!
response 06/15/2021
Heidi, you and Brooks were an absolute pleasure to work for, and your wedding was just bea...
utiful. Absolutely worth the drive time!!
XOXO
Lacy H
5.0
6/14/2021
Hands down the BEST of the BEST!! We could not have asked for a better person to marry us!! Not only is stefanie unbelievable sweet she is such a people person! Everyone absolutely loved her at our wedding! She gets to know you before your wedding so know instead of it feeling like a complete stranger marrying you it’s like one of your friends! I will recommend her a 10000x’s!! If she’s not marrying you are you even actually getting married 🤷🏼♀️Our wedding won’t be what it was without her💕
response 06/15/2021
Thanks, Lacy! You and Justin were entirely too much fun to work with!
XOXO
Alaina S
5.0
5/03/2021
Really understood the couple and clearly spent time to make her officiant speech unique to them! Joked, kept the mood light, and focused on the bride and groom only. Lovely human overall.
Riley C
5.0
4/29/2021
Stefanie was super great in getting our wedding license signed. She offered to give us personalized touches in a sermon and even presented us with a small gift. I would 100% recommend using her (and would use her again if I ever needed to). You couldn't find a more thoughtful person for this position in your special day!
response 04/30/2021
Awww, thanks, Riley. Kitchen table ceremonies are one of my favorites!
XOXO
Christie B
5.0
4/29/2021
Amazing to work with and a lot of fun to have as a part of your big day. Recommend her to anyone I know thinking about a wedding.
response 05/02/2021
Thanks, Christie! Your support has been amazing! XOXO
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