Kaitlyn Graf
OWNER AND LEAD PLANNER
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AWARD WINNER (1X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Arizona is home to Riding Tandem, a wedding planning company that offers various personalized services to create a memorable event. So much of life is influenced by who we choose to live it out with. We aren't meant to do life or plan a wedding alone—thus the name "riding tandem." You found your person to adventure through life with, and we would love to join you on your wedding planning journey.
The Riding Tandem team will ensure every detail reflects your unique, meaningful, and memorable style. We pride ourselves on connecting you with vendors that match your unique requirements and personality. We firmly hold the importance of meaningful connections, meaning the planner you work with from day one is the planner who will be by your side on your big day! We work as a team on your wedding day to ensure there is someone by your side at all times and that all areas are covered. Lastly, we believe in routine meetings from the day you sign the contract to the day you walk down the aisle to check every planning box efficiently and build a relationship to truly know you and bring your dream wedding vision to life!
Riding Tandem provides a variety of packages to meet your exact planning needs - full wedding planning, partial planning, or day-of coordinating. So please sit back, grab a glass of champagne, put your feet up, and relax while we put together a perfect party to celebrate you and your partner riding tandem together for the rest of your lives!
Riding Tandem is a wedding planner based in Phoenix, AZ.
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Meet the team
Kaitlyn Graf
Owner and Lead Planner
With a keen eye for detail and a passion for creating meaningful connections, I’m not just going to get the job done - I’m here to bring your vision to life. I’ll be your advocate, your voice, and your biggest cheerleader throughout the entire process! I’ll ensure every moment reflects your unique style that is meaningful and memorable. By the time you say, “I do,” I’ll know your family and friends by name, and we’ll have built memories that carry beyond the big day!
Reviews
4.8
out of 5.020 reviews
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Riding Tandem is an organized, creative, detail-oriented wedding planning team that makes planning feel seamless. They provide excellent vendor coordination, beautiful personalized design, and handle unexpected issues smoothly. Clients and vendors praise their professionalism, responsiveness, and supportive approach.Lindsay R
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5.0
4/24/2026
Riding Tandem and Kaitlyn were absolutely incredible from start to finish. I truly can’t say enough good things.
Our wedding was in our backyard, which added an extra layer of ...
complexity—from rentals and layout to transforming the space into something truly special—and Kaitlyn handled every detail flawlessly. Her design background made such a difference. She took my vision and elevated it into something even more beautiful than I could have imagined. It didn’t just look stunning, it felt like us.
Beyond her talent, Kaitlyn is just an amazing person. She was calm, organized, supportive, and genuinely cared every step of the way. Through the process, she became more than just a planner—she became a friend.
I truly could not have brought my dream wedding to life without her and her team. Hiring Riding Tandem was hands down one of the best decisions I made.
Abby H
5.0
4/30/2026
5 stars for Kaitlyn and her team! She really made my magical day come to life. When we first started planning my wedding together, I had no idea where to start or even what my visi...
on was. She really helped guide me and shape my vision and bring everything together in the most beautiful way. My big day was so seamless too. Our parents and guests even recognized it and commented on how smooth it all went. The vendors she recommended were also great. I am forever grateful to Kaitlyn and her team for helping to craft our perfect day and ensure everything moved along without any bumps. I would highly recommend choosing Riding Tandem!
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Taylor W
5.0
4/25/2026
I love this team! I’ve had the privilege of interning with them this season and I truly had the best experience. This team cares for every intentional detail, aiming to create the ...
most special day for each couple. Truly working with Riding Tandem has been a joy! Can’t wait to see what the future brings for this team.
Sophia W
5.0
4/24/2026
I had such a wonderful experience working with Riding Tandem! The team is incredibly supportive, knowledgeable, and genuinely passionate about what they do. It’s a collaborative an...
d positive environment that makes you feel valued while also encouraging growth. I would highly recommend Riding Tandem not only as an amazing place to work, but also as a team of planners who truly go above and beyond for their clients.
Mazie S
5.0
4/24/2026
Riding Tandem is the best! Their team is super kind, trustworthy and very professional! They took care of everything and made the day be seamless! Would recommend them to anyone an...
d everyone!
Lexi G
5.0
4/14/2026
Highly recommend riding tandems for all wedding planner needs. Leading up to the wedding day, Kaitlyn was very responsive and respectful of my budget! Sophia, emily, and Kaitlyn, m...
ade this day so amazing and it went so perfectly!!! <3
Cody M
5.0
4/12/2026
Kaitlyn and her team were truly incredible from start to finish. We booked her for partial planning, but it felt like we had a full-service planner every step of the way. Her commu...
nication was always prompt, clear, and reassuring—which made such a difference during the entire process.
What really stood out was her attention to detail and how she was always one step ahead. She took the time to truly understand my vision, and when I walked into our reception space, I was blown away. The table settings exceeded every expectation I had—I genuinely felt like she knew my design style and exactly what I wanted, even when I couldn’t fully put it into words myself.
Her vendor recommendations were spot on, and she created such a detailed, organized itinerary for the day that every person involved knew exactly where to be and when. It made the entire day feel seamless and stress-free.
When unexpected challenges came up, Kaitlyn handled everything flawlessly. When the rain started, she was already prepared and transitioned us to the indoor reception space so smoothly that it didn’t take away from the day at all. And when our venue dropped the ball on lighting, she went above and beyond to contact the right people and make sure it was handled.
Kaitlyn is professional, proactive, creative, and truly cares about her couples. We could not have asked for a better planner and would recommend her to anyone in a heartbeat. She made our day everything we dreamed of and more. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Nader E
1.0
4/12/2026
We hired Kaitlyn and Riding Tandem in May 2025 for our March 2026 wedding for full-service planning and experienced major issues:
Suspect and Unethical Behavior:
Does not actuall...
y leverage Aisle Planner as advertised. Kaitlyn and Riding Tandem do not actually help you keep track of any information on that website.
Does not actually meet with you as many times as contracted. We were contracted for 20 planning meetings. While we really needed more, there were several months with minimal planning meetings with her.
A suspect “overdue” payment notice arrived without any prior reminders. We later found out the actual contractual due date for that payment was 10 days after what the overdue notice stated.
Requested the delivery of an additional bar during the wedding without approval or consent from the couple. Kaitlyn did not inform the couple during the wedding, or after the wedding, of the extra bar she requested or the additional charges the vendor added onto the invoice from her unilateral decision. Instead, she told the vendor to withhold the deposit due back to the couple as payment for the additional bar. We found this out on our own 3 weeks after our wedding. This was a flagrant violation of planner-couple trust and an unethical and unprofessional behavior.
Kaitlyn acquired the business in November 2024 and did not disclose this proactively. This is important as the glowing reviews for the business is for the prior owners and predate her ownership.
Inadequate Problem-Solving Skills:
When couple asked her to have the venue cool down the reception ballroom so guests can enjoy dancing, she immediately stated the request was not possible as the “person in charge of the thermostat” had departed the premises.
Failed to accommodate surprise speech father-of-the-bride had prepared and told planner about a day before. It wasn’t until the bride’s uncle mentioned to the bride that her dad had a surprise speech prepared that we found out. Even then, Kaitlyn acted surprised and oblivious to the request, and bride had to force her into executing it.
Insufficient Proactivity:
Rarely provided details until asked – bride, who did not want to be this involved, had to provide list of all outstanding items 2 months out from the wedding and continuously follow up with planner to ensure execution
Did not create the rehearsal agenda or the wedding day timeline – bride had to make both from scratch, 2 weeks out from the wedding
Lack of Attention to Detail:
Room lighting set up incorrectly for the reception. Videos were found that showed lighting was correct during room prep, and was altered to the wrong settings afterwards for some reason.
Failure to order the correct number of chairs for ceremony and flatware and chargers for reception table settings, even though she told bride and groom the number was updated
Failure to use the venue’s design program for ceremony, cocktail and reception set up. This led to scaling issues which resulted in last-minute modified set up on wedding day
Failure to Follow and Track Deadlines:
Claimed to know deadlines on call but could not actually state when menu choices were due to the venue before a 5% late charge was applied from a luxury venue, even though the deadline was at the end of that week
Did not hire a vendor for signs until groom asked about that in January; this caused a lot of frantic stress and urgency to get everything done in a very short time.
Response from Riding Tandem on 05/06/2026
We take all client feedback seriously and strive to deliver a high level of service for ev...
ery couple we work with.
Several statements in this review are not accurate and misrepresent both the contractual scope and the events as they occurred.
Specifically, references to unauthorized financial decisions and unethical conduct are incorrect. When a vendor equipment issue occurred and an additional bar was brought in to resolve a setup issue and ensure the guest experience was not impacted, the vendor later issued an invoice for that service without prior approval. I disputed the charge directly with the vendor at the time and ultimately took responsibility for the cost to ensure timely resolution. The client was not charged for this service.
Additionally, the review reflects an inaccurate understanding of payment timing. All payment terms are clearly outlined in the signed contract and corresponding invoice, which state that final payment is due one month prior to the wedding date. A past-due reminder was issued on February 15th for a March 7th wedding date, in accordance with those agreed-upon terms. Any automated reminders or notices are system-generated based on the contract schedule.
Throughout the planning process, all services—including scheduled meetings, planning support, vendor coordination, and timeline development—were fulfilled in alignment with the contracted scope. In addition to client-facing meetings, our team conducted numerous coordination calls and design meetings directly with vendors on the client’s behalf. The total number of meetings referenced in the contract reflects overall planning time and coordination, not solely client-facing meetings. The final scheduled client meeting was ultimately canceled by the client.
All vendor rental orders were confirmed and coordinated based on the final guest count, with contracts updated accordingly to ensure accurate execution. No contractual deadlines were missed, and no additional fees were charged to the client.
Wedding planning requires real-time collaboration with multiple vendors and venue partners to ensure seamless execution. Regarding venue-related elements such as lighting, the venue management team acknowledged responsibility for these settings and followed up directly after the event to apologize for the discrepancy. These elements are managed directly by the venue team and fall within their operational control.
We remain committed to professionalism, transparency, and consistency in delivering a high-level planning experience to every couple we serve.
Rachel F
5.0
3/18/2026
Kaitlyn and the Riding Tandem team were nothing short of exceptional. Our wedding day felt like a breeze which is a testament to the work she put in leading up to the day. We booke...
d Kaitlyn about a year before our wedding date and every month we met to hone in on details, timelines, and general best practices to get ready for the day. As we approached the 2 month mark, we met more frequently and she helped with all of the communications across every vendor. By the time our day approached we felt huge relief that all we needed to do was simply show up and getting married. Could not recommend Kaitlyn and the Riding Tandem team enough!
Hannah B
5.0
12/02/2025
Kaitlyn and the Riding Tandem team were nothing but professionals from the very start. Finding a wedding planner (especially coming from out of state) can be daunting but they made...
it so easy for us. The team is extremely knowledgeable and was there every step of the way to help design and execute our perfect day. One of the biggest questions I was asked leading up to our big day was "are you nervous/stressed?" and the answer was always a confident "no". I knew that I just had to show up and our plan and vision we created over the last year was going to come to life perfectly and it did. They put together the most beautiful wedding! They know how to work efficiently and make revisions on the fly if needed and just overall should be your top pick for a wedding planning service in the greater Phoenix, AZ area!
chelsey
5.0
11/13/2025
We had the pleasure of working with Kaitlyn from Riding Tandem as a beverage vendor for one of her weddings, and she was an absolute joy to collaborate with. Her communication was ...
clear, quick, and incredibly professional from start to finish. Kaitlyn made every detail easy, stayed organized, and created such a smooth experience for us as vendors. We knew the schedule, the expectations, and all the details. It was such a seamless experience! I have no idea how she kept track of every detail so effortlessly- but she did!
Beyond her professionalism, she’s just lovely! Kaitlyn is warm, kind, and genuinely invested in making the day perfect for everyone involved. We would happily work with her again anytime. We cannot recommend Kaitlyn and Riding Tandem enough!
Sarah R
5.0
11/13/2025
Emily and her team were AMAZING!! There’s nothing better than working with kind, present, sweet, and efficient people and that was the exact experience I got. I wish I could work e...
very wedding with them! They made the day seamless and highly recommend!
Cate P
5.0
11/12/2025
Riding Tandem makes life easier as a vendor. They are on top of their time lines and fine details for their clients and vendors. The team has a great attitude and vibe about them t...
oo. Always willing to go the extra mile.
Nathan C
5.0
11/06/2025
Riding Tandem is absolutely incredible! They do amazing work, are extremely professional and just make it happen. Besides those things they are even better people which makes worki...
ng with them a such incredible experience!
Shellby K
5.0
10/25/2025
We really appreciate everything you and your team did to help make things run smoothly and handle all the bumps along the way. Your professionalism and advocacy for us did not go u...
nnoticed and we just want to make sure you all know how appreciated you are and that we couldn’t have done it without you! We will definitely recommend you to any future Mr & Mrs we know. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!
Jade
5.0
4/30/2025
Kaitlyn is nothing short of AMAZING!!! She is so organized and exactly what you want in a wedding planner. She is so kind and incredibly understanding. Anyone would be lucky to hav...
e her as their planner!
Sophie
5.0
4/29/2025
Kaitlyn is absolutely wonderful. She is so kind and will help you with anything you need. She offers multiple packages and you will go into your wedding feeling so good and happy. ...
She is there for you and is very helpful. You won’t find better than Riding Tandem!
Claire d
5.0
2/15/2025
Kaitlyn and her team at Riding Tandem are amazing! I was an intern with the team and saw firsthand how they account for every detail to ensure your wedding day goes as smoothly as ...
possible. They are true experts!
Brooke H
5.0
2/14/2025
I worked alongside Kaitlyn as a Riding Tandem Intern and she is truly one of the best! She has mastered the balance of kindness and professionalism and she always puts her clients ...
first. I truly appreciated the mentoring she provided and I can happily recommend her services to any couple I come across. Thanks Kaitlyn!
Grace H
5.0
2/13/2025
The entire team at Riding Tandem is detail-oriented, thoughtful, and passionate. They are all ready and able to make your wedding dreams come true!! If you are looking for a weddin...
g planning team that does it all and never misses a beat, hire them!
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