It is ironic that the “best day of your life” is usually preceded by months and months of stress, worry, headaches and way too many decisions. To be honest, that is why I did not jump right into wedding planning following my engagement. I fea...red dreading such a precious chapter of my life.
All of that changed when I crossed paths with Simcha. She made what seemed like an overwhelming task extremely manageable. During my nine months of planning, I was never stressed or worried, nor did I have to deal with any dilemmas. Even better, she made it fun. Yes, my fiancé and I actually enjoyed planning our special day. I couldn’t believe it, and I certainly treasured every moment.
One of the many things that sets Simcha apart is that from the beginning, she dedicated so much time getting to know us as a couple. She was on a sincere mission to understand what made us unique, what made us different from other couples, so that our wedding day truly reflected us. Despite a busy schedule and a family, she would make time just to meet us and hang out. This allowed us to form a great friendship and develop a lot of trust in each other. In addition, she was able to get a good understanding of our budget, so money conversations were never awkward or difficult. I am not sure how she was able to do it, but we truly felt like our wedding was the only thing she had going on at the time. When in reality, she had a lot of weddings. She is just that genuine and that good!
Simcha always had the perfect suggestions for the flow of our wedding day. One of my favorites was after my husband and I were introduced at the reception, we went right into our first dance. After that, we invited everyone to join us on the dance floor for a few songs before dinner. What a hit that was! It made everyone feel comfortable about dancing, so they were right back on the dance floor after dinner and speeches. That was important to us, especially my husband. He loves to dance. We never would have thought of this, but our wedding planner “listened” to the fact that we really wanted everyone to enjoy our band and dance. I cannot tell you how many people have told me how neat and different it was that we did this.
To this day, I am so impressed with the strong relationships Simcha has with numerous vendors, from venues to bakeries to photographers and florists. She knows an impressive number of people in the wedding industry. It was obvious they all have the utmost respect for our wedding planner, which made the process much easier for us.
If I heard it once, I heard it a million times……“What would we do without our wedding planner?” Not only did she lovingly guide us through every step of the wedding planning process, she is the reason my entire family, especially my husband and I, was able to enjoy every minute of our wedding day. No one worried. No one stressed. With a big smile on her face, our wedding planner took care of everything.
My wedding was magical. It was everything I wanted it to be and more. As I look back on all of it, the first thing I say is, “What would I have done without our wedding planner?” Simcha is the best, and lucky for me, she is now a special friend. I cannot thank her enough for making this precious chapter of my life so incredibly wonderful.
Claire Kellett