In the middle of trying to create a registry, I suddenly felt totally overwhelmed - like I couldn't do it.... which is weird, because I was ecstatic to be marrying my now husband, and building a registry is supposed to be fun. But when it come...s down to it, getting all that stuff terrified me! I couldn't figure out what wanting a candlestick or butter dish said about us as a couple, or if I'd ever have any chance of remembering who gave us what.
Then I had a mini-breakdown and went on the hunt for something that where we could pick our own items! We found Simple Registry, and loved what we were able to do with it. The site and app are both quick and easy to use. We created fun stuff that we really wanted.... including 1) creating a backyard oasis with tiki torches, hammock, and firepit, 2) sailing lessons, 3) dance lessons, 4) wine club membership, 5) artwork on our honeymoon, 6) expeditions on our honeymoon cruise, 7) a camera, and on and on. We ended up creating a whole slew of gifts, with price ranges down to $20/25 so that people could contribute to memories for us. People loved our registry!! They connected with the gifts. For example, my aunt contributed toward the firepit saying that her favorite memories with her sons has been around there's and she hopes we can spend time around it together someday....
We still ended up doing a very small 'stuff' registry from Pottery Barn, to satisfy any traditionalists. But, we absolutely loved the freedom we got from the SimpleRegistry approach. I felt like our guests could actually connect to our lives and pick stuff that had meaning to us, and to them. And I can tell you exactly who got us what, because they all shared with us why they were getting that specific item. I think using Simple Registry was one of the best decisions we made in the wedding. Because we stayed true to who we are and what we want, instead of just falling into a 'well everyone else uses this' rut.