Southern Oaks

2401 Highway 378, Gilbert, SC

About This Vendor

Simple. Southern. Charm

Here at Southern Oaks, we strive to make your big day as relaxing as possible. We offer venue rental as well as packages that can include us including your caterer, custom fresh floral, decor, set up/clean up staff, and several meetings with our onsite event planners. We have a la carte items such as champagne walls, vintage sofa's, buffets, tables, whiskey barrels, chandelier rings and so much more. We strive to provide your dream wedding at an affordable price. The house, that is now the face of Southern Oaks, was built in 1820. With its original wooding and design, this house is what makes our venue stand out from others. It includes a Bridal Suite, Groom's Room, a Den Area for parents and grandparents to relax, and a recently added "Ladies Loft" just for hair and makeup. The home is filled with large, elegant chandeliers and stunning furniture. The property has 3 historic barns, a chapel, 2 patio decks and the largest reception area in Lexington County. We recently added an onsite flower shop where couples can choose fresh floral arrangements, vases, bouquets, corsages, etc. The deck includes patio furniture with fire pit, bistro tables, cocktail tables and a bar. Perfect for cocktail hour! The land is full of large pecan and oak trees, along with breathtaking landscape. One of the things that makes Southern Oaks unique is the amount of lawn space we have and it is surrounded completely with evergreen trees. This venue has grown and changed since it opened in 2015, Your guest will be pleasantly surprised at this southern gem nestled between Gilbert and Lexington only minutes from Lake Murray and downtown Lexington. With Southern Oaks, you get the enjoyment of a Southern setting within miles of many popular restaurants, hotels, Lake Home Rentals to accommodate out of town guest. Venue rental is based on the weekday of the event, and packages are optional.

Amenities + Details

Ceremony Area

Covered Outdoors Space

Dressing Room

Handicap Accessible

Indoor Event Space

Outdoor Event Space

Reception Area

Wireless Internet

Liability Insurance

On-Site Accommodations

Business Attributes

Woman-owned Business

Ceremony Types

Commitment Ceremony, Elopement, Non-Religious Ceremony, Religious Ceremony, Second Wedding , Vow Renewal Ceremony

Guest Capacity

Up to 300

Settings

Backyard, Barn, Historic Venue, Industrial & Warehouse, Loft, Religious Setting, Trees

Venue Service Offerings

Bar & Drinks, Bar Rental, Planning, Rentals & Equipment, Service Staff

Awards and Affiliations

Pricing for Southern Oaks

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Southern Oaks Reviews

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Reviewed On 11/22/2019 by Melissa H

I had the time of my life at Southern Oaks for my wedding. Pam and Bre made my life simple and kept my wedding on track. They made the stressful and chaotic wedding planning process simple and stress free. When we first went to see the venue an...

d picked it, I had no clue who I was going to get to do the few services that aren’t part of the wedding package (photos and hair and makeup). Pam had cards for many of the different vendors who had been to SO in the past and who did a great job. They keep you on track with meetings 6 and 1 month before the wedding. Many of my guests afterwards told me that the reception was the most fun they had had at a wedding in a very long time which overjoyed me since I had to plan which decorations and when the dj would do dances and other events who do. SO did the rest, including providing all of the decorations and setting up and taking down everything else. They truely are the best venue in town and made this process and my day the best day of my life. Thank you Southern Oaks!

Reviewed On 2/13/2023 by Taylor P

I cannot say enough to describe how great the southern oaks team is. Pam and Bre take all the stress and hassle out of planning. From start to finish the wedding was perfect and everything we ever dreamed of. I definitely recommend their pa...

ckage options. We had no regrets with choosing Southern Oaks Event Venue for our wedding and reception.

Reviewed On 11/12/2022 by Suzanne C

Getting married on 11/12/2023 and so far, southern oaks has been amazing! Great price and people. Book fast!

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Reviewed On 11/08/2022 by Katelin R

We took a tour of Southern Oaks a few weeks back and we couldn’t have found a more perfect venue. I have always visioned being wedded under a large oak tree on an open lawn and that’s exactly what was offered! Our date is set for November 2, 2...

024 which comes to a surprise for some family and friends since it’s not exactly right around the corner, but the wait does not matter to us. For I am certain that this is where I want our memories to be made.

Reviewed On 10/29/2022 by Aubrey E

I will be getting married here next year, 05/23 and we could not be more excited! Pam has been very attentive and it always ready to answer questions. My future sister in law got married here in 2019 and it was so beautiful and she had such a s...

mooth and perfect day because off all of the staff!

Reviewed On 10/28/2022 by Danielle G

The staff made my wedding day so stress free and the most enjoyable experience!

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Mary-Kate C

This was a wonderful venue to work with. They cover every detail and help your vision become reality on your day. Thank you to Southern Oaks for all you did for me and my husband.

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Kristen L

Best place to get married!

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Amber G

Southern Oaks exceeded our expectations in every way possible! Our entire experience with them was stress free. The owners and staff made sure our entire day was planned out perfectly and everything was taken care of. We had a smooth, problem-f...

ree day and that is all thanks to Pam and her staff. We really felt like a part of the Southern Oaks family. Our day was so special and we will remember it for the rest of our lives thanks to Southern Oaks!

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Crystal T

Such sweet and caring people! Beautiful venue and amazing staff to boot. Love everything about this place.

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Jordan H

The best of the best. Bre and Pam are amazing. Made every such a breeze!

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Blythe F

I will be getting married here next year & I have had nothing but a positive experience so far! The venue is amazing, but the owners, even better! That says A LOT! I highly recommend tying the knot at Southern Oaks!

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Angela H

Absolutely the best!! Simple yet beautiful! Sweetest people too!!

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Lauren G

My wedding day was phenomenal! The process of planning so seamless and my wedding day coordinator (Damien) made the entire day worry free.

Reviewed On 10/27/2022 by Brittany M

Pam and Bre are so easy to work with! I cannot wait to get married here 12/11/22. The venue is beautiful!!!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Jamie W

We have not got married here yet, but so far they have been wonderful with messaging me back and with planning! They are so sweet and work with you to make sure you have the most perfect wedding! Highly recommend this beautiful place to get mar...

ried!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Natalie F

So excited for our wedding coming up in May, 2023! Pam & Bre are great and have made the planning process so easy!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Sarah L

My husband and I got married at Southern Oaks in April of 2022. Other than the groom, Southern Oaks was the smartest choice I made while planning the wedding. Everything was so easy and stress free. Pam and Bre always responded quickly to any q...

uestions. We also used Bre as our photographer, so the whole process was just seamless and smooth! The venue was absolutely gorgeous! Not only the beautiful grounds and the giant white oak, but the flowers and decor were perfect! Everyone kept telling me how surprised they were that I was such a calm bride, but with the Southern Oaks team, I had nothing to stress or worry about! I absolutely loved everything about this venue!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Alex P

Pam and her staff were absolutely incredible! Made our day flawless. Highly recommend!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Candice C

The best venue in Lexington, SC and Columbia! Pam and her staff are fantastic!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Sarah C

I am so excited to be having my wedding here next year! They have been great at communicating with me & I loved the venue from the moment I visited it ❤️

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Amanda M

Southern Oaks made our wedding day the most magical and stress-free day ever! They provided the decorations, food, DJ and photography suggestions, coordinator, and were so helpful every step of the way.

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Andrea M

Southern Oaks was truly a dream come true. If you are looking for a gorgeous, southern style venue that makes the majority of your wedding planning stress free, this place takes 1st place. Pam and Bre were such a huge help assisting me to make ...

sure every detail was taken care of. The catering staff, bartenders went above and beyond to make this day so amazing, our friends are still talking about it! If you are still unsure about a wedding venue, I’d recommend visiting Southern Oaks! You won’t regret it!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Ashlyn B

They have been amazing with the whole process. I can’t wait to have my wedding there! 03.10.23

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Brittney R

I booked Southern Oaks the week after I got engaged and have had the best time working with Bree and Pam! They are both so very helpful and make the planning process super smooth! The venue is absolutely gorgeous with covered ceremony and rec...

eption areas! Cannot wait for my big day!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Ashley S

The most beautiful venue and great packages!!! So excited to get married on 3/11/23! The owners are amazing and the biggest help with everything!! It’s going to be the best day💗

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Amelia P

This wedding venue is the best by far! From the tour to the send off on our wedding day, we had the best service ever! The staff and packages they offer are amazing!

Reviewed On 10/26/2022 by Catherine K

After attending a wedding here a few years ago - I couldn’t believe this wasn’t my first spot to think of when it was our turn to look for venues! The staff is so kind & the value is excellent!

Reviewed On 10/18/2022 by Kathy B

My wedding was in July 2022, and we opted for the full wedding planner package with Erika. Erika was very friendly, accessible, and had excellent communication throughout the entire process. I can’t begin to cover everything that she did. One o...

f the best benefits of working with Erika was that she was able to connect us with really great vendors and found us a fantastic officiant (Kevin Holland), hair & makeup team (Wedded Kiss), and photographer team (Reg & Kala Photograph). This saved us a lot of time and effort, and everyone she suggested was really fantastic to work with. Erika was very hands on, and I especially appreciated her help setting up all of the decorations the day before the wedding. I have a very demanding job, so while I was at work, Erika picked out the napkins and linens, designed the invitations, entered all of the guest information into the wedding website, and much more. I am really happy with how the wedding turned out. Erika definitely knows what she’s doing and knows how to make your wedding vision come to life! The entire staff was very professional and helped the whole planning process and wedding day to run smoothly.

Reviewed On 4/09/2022 by Rachel L

Southern Oaks is perfect. From the moment we stepped foot on the property we knew it was where we had to get married. Not only is the property beautiful from the chapel, to the oak trees, the exposed beams in the reception hall, the long wooden...

tables, and the lighting but its the team that really makes it. Having Pam and Bre and Damien assist throughout and take care of all the little details like the color of the napkins, the florals, chairs, etc. takes away so much stress from you and your partner while planning. Our wedding day was perfect and we couldn't imagine it anywhere else but at Southern Oaks. If you are looking for a magical place with a team that is by you every step of the way, look no further - you have found it.

Reviewed On 1/10/2022 by Nicole S

They were amazing! Loved the venue and the space that it offered!

Reviewed On 12/31/2021 by Carol E

Staff was very professional and accommodating.

Reviewed On 12/31/2021 by Tonni L

The staff at Southern Oaks were absolutely phenomenal. Bre and Damien were guiding us every step of the way before the wedding and the day of. They made sure every little detail was taken care of and made our day as stress free as possible. Our...

guests are still complimenting the venue and how gorgeous everything was. 10/10 recommend.

Reviewed On 12/31/2021 by Kelsey B

Southern Oaks coordinated and hosted my dream wedding. My husband and I had the best wedding day, everything was smooth and effortless for us. The venue is extremely clean and the decorations they provided were classic and beautiful. Bre helpe...

d us throughout the entire process and she is so organized. She communicates well and is very professional. We put our trust and her and from the beginning and she did not disappoint. The rest of the staff were also very professional and considerate. Our guests were very impressed as were we! I would recommend this venue to anyone!!

Reviewed On 12/31/2021 by Mary Ashley R

Can’t say enough amazing things about this venue!! Pam and Bré are fantastic and made the entire experience special and exactly what we wanted

Reviewed On 12/31/2021 by Emily S

A great facility!! The decorations and set-up were absolutely beautiful! The staff was also very friendly and polite! Highly recommend!

Reviewed On 9/25/2021 by Kaliska S

We stumbled upon Southern Oaks by chance while we were looking at another wedding venue, and it turned out to be the best thing to happen to us while planning our wedding! Pam and Bre have extensive knowledge of wedding planning as well as grea...

t connections for other vendors that won't break the bank. During our first planning meeting, I was pretty underprepared but Pam was able to help me create a vision after I showed her a handful of pictures of ideas that I had saved. The other person who really helped make our wedding day the absolute best was the Day of Coordinator/Wedding Director. He made everything run so smoothly and didn't hesitate to continually ask us what we needed in order to relax and enjoy ourselves. Our friends and family can't stop talking about how much of a great time they had at our wedding!

Reviewed On 9/17/2021 by Kenya F

Amazing all around!! I could not ask for a more amazing experience and time at Southern Oak. From the first time visiting the venue until the moment of sharing my Wedding hands down an awesome experience. Great staff, Bre, and awesome day of co...

ordinator.

Reviewed On 9/01/2021 by Autumn D

This place is absolutely AMAZING! You can definitely tell that Bre & Pam put their heart, souls, and mind into every little detail! The staff was excellent, food was great, and decoration were phenomenal!! Couldn’t have been more impressed!!

Reviewed On 9/01/2021 by brittney m

i was recently a guest at the venue for a wedding, and must i say what a pleasant time i had. The venue is absolutely beautiful, and the employees were nothing but helpful and welcoming!

Reviewed On 8/30/2021 by Bethany S

Pam and Bre made our wedding absolutely wonderful. I showed them all of my ideas for very bohemian wedding with dried flowers and greenery and they made it look absolutely amazing! We had so much fun and anything we needed, we just had to ask. ...

Such a wonderful venue, wonderful staff to make for an amazing wedding day!

Reviewed On 8/28/2021 by Rebecca D

So grateful for Pam and all the staff at Southern Oaks. Pam was able to work with us while we planned our wedding during COVID. She was so accommodating and flexible with so much. I appreciate everything that she did to make our wedding the bes...

t I could ever imagine or dream of. You won’t regret booking Southern Oaks for one of the most special days of your life.

Reviewed On 8/27/2021 by Keili S

I got married here in August, and the venue exceeded my expectations! They took care of so much and made the process of planning a wedding so easy! The florals, decorations, the planning, the venue, and more.. everything turned out beautiful an...

d exactly like I had in mind and on my Pinterest board!

Reviewed On 7/28/2020 by Tori D

We are SO glad we chose Southern Oaks for our wedding? Even before the pandemic hit, Pam really helped us out a lot and was so informative and helpful during the whole process of getting the vendors, making sure we did things on time, was very ...

responsive to questions, etc. When the pandemic hit, even though she and Bre were dealing with their own troubles, Pam really made it as easy for us as she possibly could to move our wedding. She handled a lot of behind-the-scenes things while we were going an emotionally rough time, and for that we will be forever grateful! We were able to have our ceremony and reception a little later and anticipated, but it was still as beautiful and amazing as I’m sure it would have been on our original date. It was such a blessing to have Pam and her team be there for us and make our wedding so beautiful. The venue is absolutely gorgeous and they do such a great job decorating not to mention helping us clean up after and right before our exit, having a bag ready with food and cake that we could take home. Getting married here was so amazing and we will never forget it!

Reviewed On 7/09/2020 by Stephanie S

Pam and Bre definitely put their heart into this venue!! It’s never easy to find a venue that includes everything to make wedding planning as stress free as possible!! They plan everything from decor to food to who you want as a DJ so it makes ...

things flow very smoothly! We thoroughly enjoyed our July 4th wedding and everything was perfect!! Damien was a phenomenal day of coordinator and I couldn’t have asked for anything more on our special day!

Reviewed On 6/14/2020 by Kensly H

I cannot imagine my wedding taking place anywhere besides Southern Oaks! I opted to do the package with them which included catering, bar tending staff, chairs for both ceremony and reception, so much beautiful decor, and so so so much more. F...

or this reason, and so many other reasons, my wedding planning process and wedding day were so stress free and relaxing. Being a very hands on person, it was AMAZING to sit back and relax and trust that every detail was being tended to. Pam and Bre- you guys are amazing and I cannot thank you enough! Your expertise made my wedding what it was without a doubt! Damien, thank you for coordinating our wedding day! It all ran so smoothly and we felt taken care of all day long! All of the time, effort, and genuine care the entire team at Southern Oaks puts in for each bride from start to finish, including me, is another reason I highly recommend this venue. Thank you Pam, Bre, Damien, and the rest of the team at Southern Oaks. There isn’t anyone else we would’ve trusted with our wedding 😊

Reviewed On 6/10/2020 by Kelsey L

I got married at Southern Oaks March 30th 2018. Mrs. Pam and her staff are AMAZING! She made the entire day picture perfect and had so many recommendations for vendors. Since then I’ve had three friends also get married here and their weddings ...

were perfect too! I recommend them to everyone!

Reviewed On 6/09/2020 by Amanda H

I got married there 12/14/19. I enjoyed my experience before and after my wedding. Pam and Bre were very helpful. A lot was done and included in the package I got. I fully recommend this place to future brides!

Reviewed On 6/09/2020 by Mary M

I will be using Southern Oaks for all of my future events! My wedding was absolutely perfect. Pam and her staff were so easy and fun to work with. The entire process was a dream.

Reviewed On 6/09/2020 by Lacie W

I didn't have to worry about a single thing leading up to or on the day of my wedding. The staff are so accommodating and communicative, and never make you feel like you're asking for too much on your special day. The ease of having the option ...

to include every aspect into one price was great. Highly recommend Pam and her amazing staff!

Reviewed On 6/08/2020 by Tristany H

My sister’s wedding was this past Saturday, 6/6/2020. I have to give a huge shoutout to Southern Oaks & their staff. Pam was extremely helpful throughout the process, especially when an issue with the hotel the bride & groom were staying at cau...

sed hiccups. Bre was amazing getting the decor set up just the way the bride wanted and making sure the details were exactly right. I have to give the biggest shout out & thanks to Damien who was the day of director. He went above and beyond to make sure everyone was happy, taken care of, and having the best time. He ensured the whole event ran smoothly and everyone knew their part in the day. Anytime we needed anything, or had any questions, he was there to answer & assist. Southern Oaks is so lucky to have such a great & motivated individual on their staff. Highly recommend!

Reviewed On 1/03/2020 by Lacie C

Pam and her staff went above and beyond to make sure our wedding day was perfect. My husband and I put our full trust in Pam and her vision for every part of the wedding, and she did not disappoint. She took care of every vendor, floral arrange...

ment, and decor piece —exceeding our expectations ten-fold! We can honestly say we wouldn’t change a thing about our day because it was absolutely perfect. Thank you to Pam and her staff for making for making our wedding such a beautiful memory we will cherish for years to come!

Reviewed On 12/07/2019 by Allison R

I’m getting married on July 18, 2020, and Pam has been awesome to work with! I don’t live in the area, and she offered to give us a FaceTime tour! She’s super informative and helpful! The venue is gorgeous, and I can’t wait for my wedding!

Reviewed On 11/21/2019 by Harley R

I love the owner Pam. She stays on top of everything and I trust her 100% that she will do an amazing job for our wedding!! I can’t wait!!

Reviewed On 11/12/2019 by Jenna S

Southern Oaks is hands down the best place to have your wedding. Pam made this so simple from the day we chose our venue. She helps bring your vision to life and goes above and beyond to make sure is truly is the most memorable day. The venue i...

s STUNNING. I have had so many compliments about how beautiful our wedding day was. Pam and her husband are constantly adding on to the venue - you won’t be disappointed. Her staff is equally as helpful and kind. Her daughter Bre was our photographer and made our engagement, bridals, and wedding day photos the easiest, most pain free pictures ever - they are all gorgeous and we had so much fun with her! Southern Oaks is definitely the place to check out for your wedding. I couldn’t have imagined our wedding being anywhere else. Thank you, Pam for making our wedding day everything I dreamed and more!

Contact Info for Southern Oaks

2401 Highway 378, Gilbert, SC

Meet the Team

Pamela & Bre Reeder

Owner

Pam & Bre Reeder are the mother/daughter duo behind the scenes of Southern Oaks. Together they have planned and decorated each wedding since the very beginning in 2015. With Pam's diligence and Bre's creativity, they strive to make each and every wedding unique, and as perfect as possible. After all the planning and meeting, their couples are more than just "clients", they become friends. Their hope is that all of our couples leave here with a smile on their face and memories that will last a life time, and can sincerely say, "I had the wedding of my dreams".

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