SPARK Ceremonies

I’m Kiki, the officiant behind SPARK Ceremonies, and I create wedding ceremonies for couples who don’t want religion, don’t want boring, and don’t want something that feels like a Mad Libs script where names are simply slotted in. SPARK isn’t just a name — it’s how I approach ceremony. It stands for Secular, Proud Ally, Animal-Inclusive, Rebel (non-traditional), and Kindred Storytelling. At its core, that means room for the beings who matter most to you — whether your family has two legs, four legs, no legs, or wings — and a ceremony that tells your story with warmth, humor, and intention. I work with non-traditional couples in Vancouver and Portland, as well as across Southwest Washington and Northwest Oregon, who want a ceremony that actually sounds like them — irreverent when it should be, meaningful where it matters, and grounded in real storytelling instead of filler fluff. I welcome and affirm couples of all genders, sexual orientations, identities, bodies, family structures, and backgrounds. My work is rooted in respect, consent, and intentional language — so you never have to translate yourself, defend your choices, or wonder if you belong here. Every ceremony I create is secular, custom-written, and built around your relationship — not traditions you never asked for. If including your dog is non-negotiable, great. If you want something a little witchy, symbolic, or quietly rebellious, also great. My job is to help you create a ceremony that feels intentional, personal, and unmistakably yours. I’m not for everyone — and that’s a feature, not a flaw. I’m here for couples who take marrying their best friend seriously, and who see the ceremony as more than just twenty minutes to get through before the music starts and the drinks are poured. If this has you nodding along, we’re likely a great match. I’d love to hear what kind of ceremony you’re imagining!