This will be long, but necessary.
My fiancé & I had booked with Tara back in Jan. of 2021. Prior to the formal contract, we had met with her in late Dec. via FaceTime to discuss ideas about our wedding day. During our FaceTime, we discussed th...e *idea* of 10/02/21 as our date - we just knew we wanted an Oct. wedding. As my fiancé and I did our research, with 2021 being so booked, we opted out of that date & informed Tara; she told us she would mark it as available, & we were okay with that. Between Jan. 8th - 11th, we asked if Tara was available for a few dates in Oct., listing 4 different dates. Tara informed us on Jan. 11th that she was available on 10/01/21 & we moved on to putting a deposit down & signing a contract.
We emailed consistently from Jan.-June.
On 4/26, she posted on her Instagram story, asking for all of her couples to send her a text for a “brain refresher.” I texted her to remind her that she’d be photographing our wedding on 10/01/21.
There was no concern over the date between Jan.-May.
On 6/29, I sent her an email her, asking if she would be alone or if she'd be bringing an assistant, to help me account vendor meals. She responded saying that she had double-booked our date, & the other client had booked before us, so she will no longer be photographing our wedding & that she'd refund our deposit & help us look for another photographer. This is 3 months before our wedding. To say I was devastated is an understatement.
At most, I am deeply confused, frustrated, & hurt. I have had constant correspondence with Tara via email/text since Jan. - all of which have included our date. If the other client had booked before us, you’d think they would also be in constant contact with Tara to share updates, re: the same date. How was there no notice of this on her end for 6 months?
See, there is no doubt in my mind about Tara being a talented photographer. I won’t argue that at all. Her work and photos are beautiful, and they caught our eye for a reason. But at the end of the day, talent can only get you so far. At some point you need to reflect on how you’re also conducting business. I know it can’t be easy to keep track- but I think as a business owner it’s important to admit when you need help.
Aside from that, I was expecting, at the very least, some sort of personal reference for photographers. We all know Tara has a huge following on social media. She ended up posting on her Instagram story asking for available photographers for our wedding day. She shared that it was for an “amazing queer couple getting married in the mountains." We’re not getting married in the mountains - at best, it felt extremely disingenuous. She sent me emails with the names of photographers who had responded to her story. Nothing personal. I think that’s what is the most unprofessional of all of this. I grew up with a photographer mother, it’s not like I don’t know the business. You always have a backup. You don’t know if you’ll get sick or an emergency will come up. But not realizing you're double booked for 6 months? This is being completely unprofessional, unprepared, & frankly, dishonorable.
I would absolutely not recommend Tara for any photography needs, especially your wedding.
If you don’t mind risking it all with your wedding day & don’t want something guaranteed, maybe this is for you. But if you’re like me & would like to know for a fact the most important day of your life is documented & handled professionally, look elsewhere.