I met my husband in a goth club in Detroit. We thought it'd be a breeze to find someone to blend our favorite music with all the standard wedding stuff. Not the case. We asked everyone we knew and this was the ONLY guy who could do that. And to... be honest, I'm glad we picked him. Any of our club DJ friends wouldn't have known first thing about setting up lights, timing the intro, cake cutting, etc. He was thoughtful in selecting Halloween appropriate music (Black Magic Woman, Crow soundtrack, etc) that my family and non-goth friends were happy to dance to, and mixed it exceptionally with our favorites. We hadn't originally planned to spend so much, but it would have likely been a disaster if we'd had a friend do it.