The Historic Abbey

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Holds ceremonies and receptions

5.0

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Amazing venue and amazing staff! We just had our wedding reception on 11/11/17 at the Abbey. I worked primarily with Kristie and Kelly. They were excellent and very accommodating. The Venue is beautiful and we had so many compliments from our wedding guests. The food and the service are top notch. I would highly recommend this venue!

Dianna F.

5.0

We had our wedding ceremony and reception here on 6/10/17. I can not say enough good things about The Abbey! It is definitely a hidden gem! At first I wasn't sure about it from the pictures on the website, but we fell in love with it when we visited the first time. It's so unique and we loved the historical feel to it- it's a beautiful and different venue, which is exactly what we wanted! Our guests LOVED it too, and so many of them came up and were asking how we found the place and commenting on how great of a venue it was. Kelly Rossi was so great with answering all my emails over the 1+ year after we had booked it, and Kristi Bryant was also very friendly and helpful! We also loved how all the staff (floor manager, servers, bartenders, etc) were so professional and did an amazing job with treating us and our guests so well throughout the whole wedding and reception. They also did a great job with my milk allergy, which I was very worried about! I am extremely allergic to milk or anything dairy, but they did an amazing job with putting together an allergen safe menu for me, watching cross contamination, etc. We loved everything about The Abbey and can't say enough about it! It was also surprisingly reasonable in price and definitely seemed much more expensive than it actually was. The food was delicious (we got so many compliants from our guests too), and the bar package was great as well! Both of which were very reasonable in price. Our guests (and us!) are still talking about The Abbey and how great our wedding was- Our wedding day would not have been the same at a different venue. Thank you for making our wedding day perfect!

Jillian C.

5.0

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After 45 years we are completely renovating The Historic Abbey and reopening this August for weddings and events! We still have some of the most sought after 2026 dates available! Celebrate your wedding surrounded by historic architecture, romantic ambiance, and the refined beauty of the newly renovated Historic Abbey on Fifth. Located in the heart of San Diego, The Abbey offers a distinctive setting for indoor ceremonies, candlelit receptions, dinner, dancing, and unforgettable celebrations. The Abbey provides a seamless wedding experience in one elegant location. Couples have access to the Entry Lobby, Grand Hall, Grand Hall Balcony, Grand Wedding Preparation Suite, Second Wedding Preparation Suite, and setup and breakdown of tables and chairs. Indoor ceremony service is also available and includes ceremony coordination, rehearsal, and full setup and breakdown. The venue’s all-inclusive wedding packages offer flexible options for different celebration styles. Packages include thoughtful hospitality and event essentials such as artisanal cheese and charcuterie, buffet, family style, and plated meal service, non-alcoholic beverages, bar service options, coffee, water and tea service, linens, cleaning and bussing, and day-of venue management and coordination. Upgraded package options may include appetizers, dessert displays, Chiavari chairs, champagne and cider toast, centerpieces, photo booth service, accent lighting, and premium linens. Designed for weddings of up to 300 guests, The Abbey features a nationally registered historic building, stunning architecture, newly remodeled and professionally designed spaces, a Grand event hall, and wedding preparation suites. Its central location near Balboa Park, downtown San Diego, and the San Diego Airport makes it a convenient and memorable choice for both local and traveling guests. Whether you are envisioning a classic wedding celebration or a grand, elevated reception, The Historic Abbey on Fifth offers a timeless San Diego backdrop with experienced support from inquiry through event day. Inquire today to schedule a private tour and explore available wedding dates.

Asian-owned and LGBTQ+-owned Business

Speaks English

Small team (2-10 members)

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Ceremony Area

Handicap Accessible

Indoor Event Space

Liability Insurance

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Civil Union

Commitment Ceremony

Elopement

Interfaith Ceremony

Non-Religious Ceremony

Religious Ceremony

Second Wedding

Vow Renewal Ceremony

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Ballroom

Historic Venue

Loft

Religious Setting

Church

Restaurant

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Bar & Drinks

Cakes & Desserts

Destination Weddings

Destination Wedding Packages

Food & Catering

Planning

Rentals & Equipment

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2009 'Best of Weddings'

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Dianna F

11/15/2017

Amazing venue and amazing staff! We just had our wedding reception on 11/11/17 at the Abbey. I worked primarily with Kristie and Kelly. They were excellent and very accommodating....

The Venue is beautiful and we had so many compliments from our wedding guests. The food and the service are top notch. I would highly recommend this venue!

Jillian C

7/03/2017

We had our wedding ceremony and reception here on 6/10/17. I can not say enough good things about The Abbey! It is definitely a hidden gem! At first I wasn't sure about it from the...

pictures on the website, but we fell in love with it when we visited the first time. It's so unique and we loved the historical feel to it- it's a beautiful and different venue, which is exactly what we wanted! Our guests LOVED it too, and so many of them came up and were asking how we found the place and commenting on how great of a venue it was. Kelly Rossi was so great with answering all my emails over the 1+ year after we had booked it, and Kristi Bryant was also very friendly and helpful! We also loved how all the staff (floor manager, servers, bartenders, etc) were so professional and did an amazing job with treating us and our guests so well throughout the whole wedding and reception. They also did a great job with my milk allergy, which I was very worried about! I am extremely allergic to milk or anything dairy, but they did an amazing job with putting together an allergen safe menu for me, watching cross contamination, etc. We loved everything about The Abbey and can't say enough about it! It was also surprisingly reasonable in price and definitely seemed much more expensive than it actually was. The food was delicious (we got so many compliants from our guests too), and the bar package was great as well! Both of which were very reasonable in price. Our guests (and us!) are still talking about The Abbey and how great our wedding was- Our wedding day would not have been the same at a different venue. Thank you for making our wedding day perfect!

Response from The Historic Abbey on 07/13/2017

Aww, this is so sweet! Thank you and congratulations "Mrs. N"!!! Kelly and I absolutely l...

oved working with you. So happy for the compliments on the food, and that we made it stress free for you. Thank you for trusting us with your wedding day! Kristie

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Amanda H

8/21/2014

We had a destination wedding in San Diego, and The Abbey on Fifth could not have been better. Being able to do both the ceremony and the reception in the same location is a huge p...

lus considering everyone was coming from out of town. The service was impeccable, and Kristie and the staff were able to walk me through everything even though I was miles away. Since Kristie focuses on all the wedding activities she was able to help me create my ideas telling me what worked and what didn’t work for previous brides. Since so much is included in the package at The Abbey there was just a few tasks for me to complete, and Kristie was able to help me complete these things prior to the wedding even from miles away. The food, wow, definitely did not taste like traditional wedding food. Each dish tasted so delicious that my husband and I actually stopped to eat it was that good. Everyone was very impressed with how classy and upscale the event was. I highly recommend The Abbey on Fifth if you are looking for a venue in the San Diego area.

Jane M

3/04/2014

The Abbey was everything we wanted in a wedding venue -- romantic, historic, beautiful, elegant, outstanding food and service. They worked with us from the very beginning to the ve...

ry last detail. They do their own catering and all the food is prepared on-site. We chose the plated service of the duet of salmon and filet mignon. My fiancé was skeptical about how they could pull off a good steak for that many people but he was the first one raving about it! We especially liked that they took care of all the coordination details as we both work full time and didn't use a wedding planner. We don't live our lives to impress others but all of the guests and our families were taken aback at the elegant atmosphere, fabulous food and outstanding service from A to Z.

Katie B

5/10/2010

It was an old church so I felt like it had a lot of character.;It needs decor, we spent a lot on flowers, a backdrop for some ugly areas and nice lighting. Also, there is no parki...

ng and our photographer had to drive around for a while to get a parking space. I am sure they would have reserved one had I asked but I didn't. I provided transportation for my guests so it wasn't too big of a problem.

Victoria s

9/03/2008

Delicious food and wonderful service

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