For my husband and me, dancing is not our thing. At all. In fact, throughout our relationship, my husband has been known to avoid dancing whenever possible. And, for me, dancing has just always been something that doesn’t come naturally.
Yet, oddly enough, the main element of our wedding that my husband and I discussed and whole-heartedly agreed upon well before we even got engaged (we know… that’s kind of weird), is that we wanted to do an impressive choreographed dance for our first dance. Like, something moderately shocking to anyone who knows that we typically do not dance. Then, we got engaged, and reality set in: we were going to have to find someone to seriously work with us to make this dance a reality.
When we were researching dance lessons for our wedding, we knew that we didn’t want our first dance to feel overly-choreographed or too “ballroom-y.” We just wanted something impressive, yet modern.
Enter Alyssa Lee Wilmot and The Movement Factory, who we ultimately hired to choreograph (and teach us!) our first dance. To be honest, on the drive to our first lesson with Alyssa, we were insanely nervous and not remotely looking forward to dance lessons. In fact, my husband had to encourage me not to jump out of the car in Lakewood and run away -- that’s how much I wanted to avoid having to dance for the first time!
However, all our nerves soon disappeared, and we actually became excited to go to our lessons and practice at home! Alyssa is incredible in every way. She is so creative; she knows so much about dance and quality presentation; and she is a genuinely wonderful person to be around and work with. She’s light-hearted and funny, yet serious and professional.
Ultimately, through our 5.5 lessons, Alyssa was able to take two nervous people who had no experience dancing at all, and create a beautifully choreographed “waltz-fusion” dance for us to perform at our wedding reception. The cool thing about working with Alyssa is that it wasn’t a linear process. She would regularly adjust elements of our dance based on our feedback and what she felt was or was not working for us. In that way, our first dance was perfectly crafted and tailored just for us. We couldn’t have asked for a better experience.
In the end, Alyssa created a first dance for us that was everything that we wanted: shocking and impressive. Our guests were floored. And we were so proud. We highly recommend Alyssa and the Movement Factory to absolutely anyone and everyone -- you won’t be disappointed.