My wife and I went to the Oread on our wedding day after our courthouse ceremony (we had to cancel our main ceremony due to immigration issues), hoping to celebrate at the bar on t...he roof with our small bridal party. My wife is 30 years old and an immigrant, and they refused to serve her. Even in her wedding gown on the spot, they would not serve her any alcoholic beverages, despite her having a legal foreign ID with her birth date. Having just immigrated and married, there is no possibility for a US ID until the immigration process is completed, which should be well known. Every establishment and liquor store we have attended over the past 5 years in Kansas has accepted her form of ID as legal, and we have never had any problems with it, so we did not bring her passport along, because we have never been asked. It seems they were being stingy for its own sake, and unflinchingly turned away the new bride. We were very shocked at first and speechless, since we don't exactly look like teenagers. We had traveled all around town and successfully purchased drinks all night in other establishments, and had left the Oread as our last destination, due to its beautiful location and rooftop, which was a complete mistake and soured an otherwise perfect day due to their conduct.
In addition, after they refused to serve her, we still went up to the open roof just to quietly hang out as a group and drink the drinks everyone else was allowed to purchase (despite my wife being older than everyone there). After maybe 10-20 minutes, they sent someone up to tell us that we should leave, despite them not closing for another hour. They did not ask the other group on the roof to leave. We were very quiet and not causing a disturbance at all, and were not rude to them (though we admitted we were upset), and we were paying customers, so I do not understand their motivations in asking us to leave the establishment. Do not expect the Oread to go out of their way for you , and under no circumstances should you attend this place on a special day, like your wedding day - they do not care about you, and were absolutely un-sympathetic to us.
Their behaviour was entirely unacceptable and unwelcoming to us on our special day, and we will not be returning unless we receive an apology, which is highly unlikely. I advise all others to avoid this establishment, especially if you are an immigrant.