I want to start off and say that our wedding went very well, and our guests had a great time! That was the most important part to us. The venue was gorgeous, especially during the ...summer time, and the staff were very helpful. With the help of the staff members, we were able to get set up and torn down with ease. Much thanks to Paul and his wife, as well as Mrs Kim!!
Now, the only reason we did not leave a complete five stars was because of an altercation our planner, our band, and our family had with the owner of this venue. We had no prior interaction with the gentleman before this, so we may have just caught him on an off day. But basically what happened was this:
The cave was very wet from condensation due to extremely high humidity over the course of several weeks. This was totally okay, but it forced our band to have to move closer to the mouth of the cave in order to keep their equipment dry. They weren’t set up with their backs to the mouth of the cave facing inwards, but rather they had their backs against one side of the cave and they were facing the other side.
Well, apparently this was the first time a band had done this, which took the owner by surprise. He ended up questioning my planner and the band, which disrupted some of the getting ready portion of the day. But this wasn’t the biggest issue. The biggest issue was when I (the bride) was trying to do a “first look” with my dad, the owner had come up to my parents on a golf cart to complain about the band’s positioning.
Now, I totally get it if you want things a certain way. But band positioning was not in the contract, nor was it something that could be helped. We worked it out the best way we could. But he continued to go on about it with me standing there waiting for our first look, even after my mother told him what we were trying to do. It finally took my maid of honor saying something for him to excuse himself and move along.
Anyways, like I mentioned earlier, the venue is beautiful, and the staff were very nice and very helpful to us during our wedding. But what the owner did and when he did it really threw us off. However, we may have just caught him on a bad day, which I get. Regardless, we still had a good time!