About this vendor
The Seclusion is an elegant mountain wedding venue situated on 72 private acres in Lexington, VA. Surrounded by the gorgeous Shenandoah Valley, this venue boasts a serene, chic, and unforgettable location for your special day.
Owners Trish and Brian wanted to build a place half-hidden from the world, nestled among the natural landscape, and The Seclusion definitely fits that description. This luxurious mountain escape offers breathtaking views of the valley and a fairy-tale barn venue. Crystal chandeliers hang above hardwood floors, embraced by oaken shiplap timbers and lit by the glow of a wide stone fireplace. Seating up to 175 seamless integration into the Shenandoah Valley.
This couple goes above and beyond to ensure that your wedding is the event of your dreams. From the ceremony to your cocktail hour and the reception, they can provide the tables, chairs, flatware, and stemware to fully integrate your vision into the venue. A 200-year-old bartop brings your loved ones back in time with their modern-chic take on an old tavern. Meanwhile, the sumptuous Loft and relaxing Quarters provide areas for you and your spouse-to-be to prepare before the big event. Each room is equipped with modern conveniences and comfortable furniture, while everywhere you look, the timeless rolling hills of the valley take your breath away. Outside, guests can stretch their legs, play a game of cornhole and settle into the Adirondack chairs around the firepits. Wheelchair accessible, with parking, setup, and cleanup services provided, Trish and Brian leave no stone unturned. You’ll be able to focus on what matters most on your wedding day and take in this once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Amenities + details
Ceremony Area
Covered Outdoors Space
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
On-Site Accommodations
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Business Attributes
- Woman-owned Business
Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
Settings
- Barn
- Mountain
- Trees
Venue Service Offerings
- Destination Weddings
- Planning
- Rentals & Equipment
- Service Staff
- Transportation
- Shuttle Service
Awards and Affiliations
Reviews
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Our dream wedding came to life thanks to The Seclusion! From the moment we toured The Seclusion, we instantly knew it was where we wanted to get married. The views, building, and g...
rounds are STUNNING!! The house on the property is also stunning, and I wish I could spend every weekend there. I cannot put into words how amazing Brian and Trish were to work with. They truly care about their couples, and go above and beyond to make sure they have the most amazing wedding day. They always answered our questions, and made sure things ran smoothly. We had no stress on wedding weekend because of how amazing they and their staff were. The actual day was the best day of our lives. Everyone is still talking about how beautiful our venue was. I would choose to get married at The Seclusion in every life time. Book the venue!! You will not regret it. We are forever grateful to Brian and Trish and hope we can visit in the future.
This venue is so beautiful! I had my wedding here and I have not stopped getting compliments from the guests! The location is breathtaking and the facility itself is so well design...
ed and taken care of! Brian (the owner) was so helpful and kind throughout the whole process. The Seclusion is 100% worth the money and the drive up the mountain. No one will ever forget this venue!
If you are looking for a chic wedding venue that is located in the mountains for your wedding, then the Seclusion should be on the top of your list. From the moment we toured the S...
eclusion, we fell in love with its breathtaking beauty and the warmth of the owners. The venue and its stunning grounds provided the perfect backdrop for our special day.
What truly set The Seclusion apart was the incredible responsiveness and helpfulness of the owners, Brian and Trish, throughout the entire process. They were always available to answer our questions, provide guidance, and offer solutions. Their level of communication was outstanding, which made planning so much smoother and less stressful.
The team’s professionalism and dedication didn’t just make an impression on us but on our vendors as well. Having a venue that collaborates so well with vendors is such a bonus, and it made a world of difference in how smoothly the day unfolded.
The venue itself was a showstopper. The beauty of the grounds, from the lush landscaping to the charming architecture, left us and our guests in awe. Everywhere you looked was a picture-perfect moment waiting to happen. It truly elevated the entire experience for us and everyone who attended. You know the venue is stunning when your guests are more interested in taking sunset photos than your band! LOL.
If you’re looking for a venue that combines stunning aesthetics, a wonderful team, and an overall seamless experience, the Seclusion is the one. We are so grateful for their care, expertise, and the memories they helped us create!
As a wedding vendor myself, I knew when it was my turn The Seclusion was the perfect place for our mountain loving personalities! They have an amazing bridal and groom’s suite on p...
roperty, a cabin you can rent to stay on site, and rentals aren’t really necessary here as the basics were included. The fire pits were so pretty for our crisp fall wedding day! The owners Trish and Brian are the nicest people I have come across as venue owners in Virginia and DC, too. Southern hospitality, and such kind people. The went above and beyond to answer any question we had or make any accommodations we needed. The venue assistant/operations guy on site for our wedding is also one of the most hospitable human beings on planet earth, he is so fun and even when mopping a spilled drink on the dance floor he joined in on the fun for a moment (just shows how fun and friendly the atmosphere is amongst staff). I highly recommend from the perspective of not only a wedding vendor but also a bride, The Seclusion is easily a perfect choice for a wedding day and worth every penny.
Our wedding at this venue was an absolute dream! The breathtaking mountain landscape views made for the most spectacular backdrop, and both the interior and exterior were decorated...
with such elegance and timeless beauty, yet with just the right amount of moodiness. The ceremony space, overlooking the rolling mountains, was nothing short of magical. At the time of our wedding, the ceremony space had the most beautiful white hydrangeas blooming. The groom's suite was perfect for the guys to relax and enjoy themselves, while the bridal suite had plenty of space for my entire bridal party and offered the perfect setting for stunning bridal portraits. The grand hall for our reception was simply gorgeous, filled with significant accents that added a touch of sophistication to the entire night.
Additionally, the entire venue staff at the venue is so kind and helpful. Though they mainly stay behind the scenes, they make it seem as though everything just magically gets done.
The real heart of this venue, though, is Brian and Trish, the sweetest owners you could ask for. They’ve built this wonderful space and truly care about sharing it with others. Their warmth and hospitality made us feel so special, and they were involved every step of the way to ensure our day was everything we dreamed of. We’re so thankful for them and this incredible venue!
Our Wedding at the Seclusion was amazing! The venue is stunning and you can't beat the ceremony views. Majority of our guests traveled down to Lexington, and they couldn't stop rav...
ing at how beautiful everything was.
Brian, Trish, and their team are so wonderful. Brian was always responsive, easy to work, and so kind throughout the entire wedding process. We cannot recommend this venue space enough!
The Seclusion is a breathtaking wedding venue. They truly have thought of every little thing that makes a wedding dreamy and beautiful. My guests loved the views, the shaded patio,...
the bar, the details, the fire pits (and s’mores). There is something for every guest to enjoy during the wedding celebration. I loved my wedding and getting married in such a scenic and well designed space. A wedding photographers dream! The owners are also the sweetest people and I’m so glad to have met them. Highly highly recommend!!!
I recently got married at The Seclusion and I couldn’t have asked for a dreamier venue. The Seclusion was exactly what I was looking for when searching for a venue and Brian (the o...
wner) and his wife are the sweetest people ever. If you are searching for gorgeous mountain views with an even more gorgeous venue, look no more. The Seclusion is the best of the best!
They were amazing to work with and an absolutely perfect venue. We had some nasty weather on our wedding day but the inside area was stunning and we didn’t even mind having to move...
inside! Nothing but rave reviews from us!
Our wedding at the Seclusion was perfect. It was truly the best day of our lives. Our guests had a wonderful time and constantly comment on how beautiful the venue was. We also had...
a wonderful experience working with all of the staff at the seclusion on our wedding day. Can't recommend enough!
My husband and I got married at The Seclusion in June and truly could not have imagined getting married anywhere else. We looked at over ten venues before we found The Seclusion an...
d immediately knew it was the one when we stepped foot on the property. Trish and Brian have created a venue that has it all and is nothing short of amazing. Two months later and our guests are still talking about how breath taking The Seclusion is. Trish and Brian are personable, responsive, and made the process feel like more then just a transaction. They care about the property and the couples choosing to get married there!
I found The Seclusion while scrolling through social media and immediately placed it at the top of our list of venues to visit. Brian was great from our very first visit, and I kne...
w that The Seclusion would be the venue to beat. Brian and Trish allowed us to come for a secondary visit when my husband got back from deployment and he loved the privacy and exclusivity of the venue. We were so lucky to get a date in 2022 like we had been hoping for. The venue was as beautiful on our wedding day (despite a hurricane) as it was the first time we saw it. They were also super flexible with us coming back a few days later to take some extra portraits in the sun.
This venue is absolutely stunning and if you haven't booked a venue yet, you should book The Seclusion now before they get filled up for the next 5 years.
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I could rave about The Seclusion, the owners, and the people that keep it running, all day! The venue itself is breathtaking. Every detail was thought out so well and you cannot be...
at the views. Pictures just don't do this place justice. I, also, have to say this venue is so much more than just a venue. The owners and everyone that is there make it feel like home. They are all such welcoming and genuine people and we are so grateful that we found them. I could not recommend this place more.
Words simply cannot express my love for this wedding venue. It has always been a dream to get married here and it was absolutely surreal to have that dream come true. It was everyt...
hing I had ever dreamed about and so so SO much more. First, the grounds are absolutely spectacular. You simply cannot imagine a more perfectly romantic and breathtaking wedding venue. From the gorgeous mountain views to the incredibly designed and decorated Grand Hall, every inch of the property is perfect. Secondly, the staff were absolutely amazing. Everyone is incredibly kind and helpful, extremely supportive and professional on the big day and throughout every moment leading up to it. The owners Brian and Trish are truly incredible, easily two of the most amazingly thoughtful and down to Earth people on the planet. Last but not least, everyone had an amazing time. The guests raved about the space for its stunning views, romantic and quiet atmosphere for the ceremony and cocktail hour, and vast space for people to mingle and dance during the reception! I could go on about the space and the people who make this place so special, but their reputation and number of happy couples speaks volumes! If you choose The Seclusion for your big day you will not be disappointed.
Just had our wedding at The Seclusion this past Saturday, May 21st, and it was the most magical wedding we could’ve ever dreamt of. When we first visited the venue in November 2020...
, we fell in love immediately and knew this was going to be where we’d celebrate our marriage along with our closest family and friends. Trish and Brian were a dream to work with and so accommodating to my now husband and I. Our guests have not stopped raving about how amazing the venue and wedding went and we are so grateful to have been able to hold our most important day at The Seclusion!
Just booked my June 2023 wedding here. We chose the Seclusion because of the beautiful venue, stunning views, and amazing staff! We are so excited!
My wedding day has been something i’ve dreamed of forever. I’ve been planning it since I was a little girl and couldn’t wait till I could finally put all my big plans and thoughts ...
together. I moved to Virginia in 2020 and found a place called The Seclusion; The picture perfect wedding venue of my dreams. I met my fiancé shortly after moving here and on our first date I told him “I had to get married at this place called the seclusion.” Little did I know it was just a hop skip and jump around the corner from him!
Here we are a little over a year later and we have officially booked our wedding at the seclusion for 2023. Brian was nothing but kind, generous and personable during our search. We are extremely excited to be able to share this beautiful place with our friends and family on one of the best days of our lives.
We looked at many venues online. When we found this one, nothing else compared. We couldn’t stop thinking about having our wedding in a place as beautiful as this. We knew even bef...
ore we arrived that this was the one, but once we arrived and saw the true beauty of what Brian and Trish have created it was a definite yes. Brian went above and beyond with our initial conversations to coordinate everything. You can tell that they really care about each couple’s experience at their gorgeous venue. We cannot wait for our special day!!
I do not even know where to begin. The Seclusion is the most beautiful venue I have ever been to. When my daughter was looking for venues she actually had tears in her eyes when sh...
e visited The Seclusion. We knew at that moment this was the venue for the wedding of her dreams. The owners, Brian and Trish have not left one stone unturned. From the GORGEOUS reception hall, to the bridal suite and grooms quarters this venue has it all. Not to mention the most breathtaking panoramic views for your ceremony. During the planning process, Brian and Trish were so easy to work with and so accommodating which made this venue all the more desirable. I can promise you this, if you book your wedding or event here you will be 100% satisfied!!! Thank you Brian and Trish!!
I’ll be honest we didn’t pick this as our venue because we were getting married in this area from hours out of town and all of our guests were traveling. BUT Trish and Brain were b...
oth SOOO fantastic and this VENUE is BEAUTIFUL their hospitality is amazing and they made us feel right at home. It’s name holds true to the location but hands down beautiful venue with tons of amazing details! I would 100% recommend them to anyone! They have some beautiful plans to add on to something already beautiful! The pictures don’t do it justice go check it out!!
It is so hard to find the perfect words to describe The Seclusion. For starters, everything about the venue and the location is breathtaking; from the interior designs to the mount...
ain views. The owners go out of their way to make every bride's dream wedding come true. The Bridal Loft and the men's Quarters are perfect locations for getting ready. All of our local and out of town guests were amazed and complimentary of the beauty of The Seclusion. If you are looking for simply the best wedding venue around, The Seclusion is your place to be.
The Seclusion is stunning venue with no detail missed. The moment you round the drive and come upon the venue you have the sense of being in Hallmark movie. ...
The beautiful grand entrance opens to a welcoming foyer that leads into the grand ballroom and a veranda with stunning views. We were lucky enough to work at this special place for our nieces wedding and it will forever be dear in our hearts.
Trish and Brian are wonderful, gracious hosts who are genuinely interested and invested in the success of your day.
If you are considering this as a possible venue for your event.... look no further, The Seclusion has everything you need for a luxury event with many in-house options to customize your special day.
The Daniel's have built an exceptional gathering place in a sublime setting . Bravo to them! Heidi Inabinet On A Limb
My husband I got married at The Seclusion on November 14, 2020 - the views, the venue, the owners, everything about this extremely special place was beyond my wildest dreams for a ...
wedding. I got engaged in July 2019 and knew The Seclusion would be the place we'd get married.
The owners of The Seclusion, Trish & Daniel, are the nicest people you will ever meet. Not only did they take facetime calls from my husband and I to explore the grounds - since we live in Brooklyn, New York - they answered every question we had and offered great advice for possible vendors to use.
Once we booked the venue for our wedding day (November 14, 2020) we scheduled our engagement pictures for November 2019 - this would be our first time visiting the venue in person. We were BLOWN AWAY once we got to the venue - it was absolutely breathtaking - the views, the details of the venue, and meeting Trish & Daniel in person were great. They allowed us to get ready in the bridal suite for engagement pictures and we were able to freely use the grounds. Walking through the venue you saw details that were so personal to Daniel & Trish, which made it very special. Everything was created with such intention and thought that you really felt the hard work and love that went into making this venue.
Getting married during a pandemic was definitely not ideal, but Trish & Daniel kept us up to date on all guidelines VA and Rockbridge County put in place as well as the measures they are taking to make their guests feel safe and happy.
Even during the pandemic Trish & Daniel continued bettering their venue. After each wedding or event they took feedback and made immediate changes - an example of this being the amazing sound system that was used for outdoor ceremonies and the flagstone walkway (aisle) - which were added bonuses we did not have when signing the contract. Because we had large floral arrangements - The Seclusion allowed us the time needed to set these things up as well as being super inviting and receptive to all vendors we picked. The day of the wedding all we kept hearing was 'how did you find this place?' 'This is the most amazing venue i've ever been to.' Our guests were finally able to experience the Seclusion.
The bridal suite was so incredibly beautiful and cozy for a day of getting ready. Because of all of the windows it was perfect lighting for makeup & hair artists we had hired for the day of. The groomsmen quarters were wonderful for the guys - they had a fire pit, cornhole, guitar, & tv to watch all the college football & golf they wanted. What was probably the best part for us, because of the pandemic, was the incredible outdoor space our guests were able to use to remain properly socially distant while still enjoying the ambiance of the wedding. The outdoor fire pits were a huge hit - we even had s'mores that added to the experience. My husband was adamant about having a cigar & bourbon bar - guests were able to stay warm by the fire, sip bourbon, and enjoy a cigar with the beautiful nighttime sounds of a mountaintop. The Seclusion is a magical place that will not only have you in awe but also make it an unforgettable event for your guests.
We were one of the first to book with The Seclusion - before the venue was even finished... and we are so glad we trusted them! Trish and Brian and the rest of their team were ama...
zing from day one. Their vision and execution have been phenomenal. The venue and their service was perfect for our big day.
We searched Lexington VA venues on theknot.com and found The Seclusion. After speaking with the owners and other friends who have been to the venue, we were beyond sold! The venue ...
offers a secluded "destination" feel in a small town area. The included rentals and amenities are unparalleled to other venues we have searched for along the entire east coast. Lastly, the views are unbelievable.
Absolutely stunning views and beautiful venue! We are so grateful to have had our ever-changing / ever-modified wedding at The Seclusion! The owners, Trish and Brian, were so acc...
ommodating, so generous with their time and truly went the extra mile to assist us on our day. We couldn’t have asked for more, or a more beautiful setting. The Seclusion is truly amazing and what a blessing to hold a wedding here. We will forever remember the double rainbow and those gorgeous views from the mountaintop!
My fiancé and I recently toured this venue and words cannot express how much love we have for this spot. Not only were we welcomed with breathtaking views, but the immediate love w...
e were welcomed with from Brian + Trish made us feel like we were right at home. From the accommodations to the stunning detail of every inch of this building, we didn't want to waste another minute not calling this venue ours. We had other tours lined up and we knew that absolutely nothing could top how full our hearts were just from this visit....and so we booked it! And I cannot wait to make our dream a reality!
This venue is absolutely incredible. We first visited almost a year before our wedding when the venue was still being built. At the time, it wasn't much more than a structure, but ...
Trish and Brian (the owners) walked us through where everything would be and how it would look. Everything turned out exactly as they explained. The venue is everything that we had hoped it would be and more. I cannot tell you how many people told us how amazing they thought the venue was and how many people went on describing all of their favorite details. Aside from the beauty of the venue, not enough can be said about the breathtaking view of House Mountain. The views make for an incredible backdrop if you decide to have your ceremony at the venue (highly recommended!). On top of all of that, we cannot say enough about how incredible Trish and Brian are. They are fun, thoughtful, and incredible to work with. They helped make the entire process painless from start to finish. We cannot recommend the Seclusion enough. Truly a perfect place to be married.
My Daughter was married at the seclusion about 2 weeks ago. I cannot count how many phone calls I have received from our guests who were absolutely floored by the beauty of this ve...
nue! We booked this spot when it was being built. To say that we were impressed with the final result is such an understatement. The area is just beautiful and the design and presentation of the venue takes it to another level altogether. The drive up the mountain is just the first gorgeous surprise. The owners have built and decorated incredible accommodations for the groomsmen. Not a single detail has been overlooked. Everything the groomsmen would need to prepare for the day is at their fingertips. The furnishings alone; leather sofas, genuine cowhide rugs, are simply gorgeous.
As beautiful as the groomsmen's cottage is, it pales in comparison to the bridal loft. Picture an elegant off-white beautifully furnished area where no detail has been spared. There is a spa like shower, built in beauty bar for hair and makeup professionals, elegant furnishings and a breathtaking overlook into the reception venue below. We sipped mimosas and listened to beautiful music on the Bose stereo system. The loft has ample windows with a breathtaking view of the mountains. It is stunning!
The guests had the time of their lives! The inside is beautifully decorated with chandeliers, long elegant tables, leather sofas for conversation areas tucked into alcoves and a fireplace that is just stunning. The decor extends outside and has gorgeous furniture across an expansive porch with views of the mountains. There are stone fire pits and outside seating where our guests relaxed, roasted marshmallows, smoked cigars, etc. This is place is one that has to be seen to be appreciated. I can only say that no detail was overlooked in designing the space.
I met the owners on multiple occasions and they were both kind and incredibly helpful in working with us to bring everything together. After working with them, it was clear they were very talented and skilled in making this venue a reality. Their laid back manner made us feel so at ease throughout the entire process.
My guests were so impressed by the venue that I actually introduced the owners at the reception.
This is a 5 star venue! We looked at over 30 venues and none can begin to compare to this one. Absolutely stunning! When looking for a wedding venue or other event, don't miss this one! The Seclusion is as good as it gets!
My husband and I got married at The Seclusion and we truly do not know where to begin in writing this review. This venue is a DREAM. I cannot say enough positive things about the v...
enue and its owners. The attention to detail was incredible. Everywhere you looked you were blown away, whether it be the reception hall, the ceremony site, the bridal loft, grooms quarters.....everything was BEAUTIFUL. The venue is so beautiful that we didn't have to spend money on decorations, it's already perfect. I truly wish every couple could get married here.
Trish and Brian are also the most humble and caring owners. When we first saw the venue it was under construction. Throughout the construction process they kept us in the loop as to what work was being done and kept our minds at ease that the venue would be perfect by the time our wedding day arrived, and it most certainly was. I also have to add that they are beyond generous. We were on a tight budget and to save money we were going to use disposable plates. The owners ended up buying plates that we were able to use!! This action simply blew us away.
You will not regret having your wedding here and it is worth every penny!
My fiancé and I just booked The Seclusion for our March 2020 wedding! We toured the barn in March and were absolutely blown away. We came back in April with my parents and sealed t...
he deal. The chic barn, breathtaking views, and gracious owners made our decision easy. I mean it when I say, I don't think there is a more beautiful venue out there.
Trish has been a joy to work with! You can tell she poured her heart into the venue. Every detail has so much thought behind it (from the chandeliers, to the bar, to the mirrors, to the gorgeous bridal loft).
Not only does she care about the venue, she also cares about the couples using it! I love that she’s interested in the details of every single wedding. Trish went above and beyond when we asked for recommendations for caterers, hotels, wedding planners, florists, etc. She has made our initial wedding planning seamless and fun. We CANNOT wait for our special day and to follow the success of this new venue in the coming months!
We will be getting married here in September 2020. The venue is absolutely breathtaking. You can't escape the mountains here and the venue is rightfully named. It's the perfect spo...
t for a joyful celebration such as a wedding and we can't wait for our family and friends to see it as well. The bridal loft overlooks the grand hall, there are multiple seating areas for guests to mingle (as we all know, weddings bring people together that may not have seen each other in a long time!), and even large fire pits outside! Both owners are also so, so helpful and accommodating. They are building this venue for their daughter to be married at, which is so sweet on its own and we are very happy that they decided to do so!
We are thrilled to be having our special day here! Trish and Brian were so gracious and helpful when we went to tour the venue. It is going to be a perfect day at the perfect venue...
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We cannot say enough great things about The Seclusion. Trish truly cares about her clients and wants to make sure they have the perfect wedding day! She thought about every detail ...
when designing the place. The mountain view is STUNNING! Trish and Brian are absolutely wonderful to work with throughout the entire wedding planning process. We can’t wait to get married there in September 2019!
My fiance and I toured (and booked!) this venue for our April 2020 wedding. Trish and Brian have put a lot of thought, detail, and love into building such an incredible venue spac...
e! They are great to work with and value the opinion of their future clients. Once construction is complete, it will be stunning, especially with the best view of the mountains surrounding the venue. We can't wait to get married at The Seclusion!
Contact
375 Seclusion Ln, Lexington, VA