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Tom & Heather were by far the calmest presence throughout our wedding planning process and on our wedding day. Tom was so organized and helpful in guiding us through timelines and details that we didn't even think about! His style is so genuine and he made sure to capture our raw authentic moments, which led to beautiful pictures & videos we'll cherish forever.
When we were thinking about photography for our wedding, we were looking for someone who would capture the day beautifully, but also put as at ease. We have seven extended families who we needed to photograph in different iterations, so it was important to us to find someone who could navigate complex interpersonal dynamics.
Without a doubt, Tom Schelling was our favorite hire in our wedding planning process (after our amazing wedding planner, Rita Ellis, who suggested him to us)! He is professional, unbelievably talented, warm and nurturing, and extremely thoughtful. Throughout the planning process, he sent one incredibly sweet and creative gesture after the next, from all of the components to have a cozy movie night at home, to handing us an envelope of polaroids that he had secretly taken the night of our wedding.
The photos he took during our weekend completely capture the feelings of love, joy and togetherness that were ever-present during our weekend, and his sunset photos during our cocktail hour are some of the best wedding photos I have ever seen. I cannot recommend Tom highly enough - I will be recommending him to every friend I have who is getting married. Tom is the best in the business, and he deserves the world!
We had the pleasure of working with Tom for a little over 2 years now and could not be more grateful. Tom shot our church ceremony in NYC & our reception a year later. He is so dedicated to his work and his creative eye is truly remarkable. From our initial consultation to the final delivery and communication, Tom always exceeds professionalism, creativity, and incredibly easy to work with. Tom and his team captured not only the big moments but also the intimate, candid ones that truly reflected the joy and emotions of our special day. We only received a sneak peek of our shots thus far from the reception, but I know Tom's work and couldn't wait to shoutout a review. So excited to see the finals and beyond grateful for being recommended such an amazing photographer. Attached are a few pics of our intimate ceremony he did for us last year including our sneak peak of the reception. Completely nailed the vision and I cannot wait to see our finals from the celebrations! Thank you Tom for always putting your clients first. WE WILL MISS WORKING WITH YOU!!!
Tom was an absolute dream to work with!! We first saw his work hanging in the office during one of our visits to our venue and asked if we could have the info for the photographer. We hadn’t really shopped around yet for a photographer but after doing a video chat with Tom, we knew we didn’t need to. He is so easy going! During our first consultation, I mentioned that I had always wanted to do a photoshoot in Paris and later that night Tom emailed us saying he’d be in Europe for his own honeymoon and would love to meet up in Paris to do our engagement shoot. It was such a fun and special experience for us that we will cherish forever! On our wedding day, Tom fit in seamlessly with our friends and family and made everyone feel so comfortable. From the day we booked him, we never had a doubt that our photographs would be beautiful and he somehow exceeded our expectations. He is truly an artist! Not only is he extremely talented in his profession, he made our experience feel so personal, as if we were his only clients. He takes the time to get to know you and caters to you as a couple. It was invaluable to us to have complete confidence in such an important vendor. 5 stars is not enough!!
Tom was such an amazing person to work with for our wedding photos. From the preliminary inquiry through to receiving our album his communication with his clients is unmatched. Every step of the way is super personal and very thorough.
We hired both him and Heather for photo and video and their energy on our wedding day was so refreshing to deal with. The day went seamlessly and photos did not feel like a chore at all. It was a very authentic experience. Our photos came out incredible it was so hard to pick which ones we wanted to put in our album.
Tom is incredibly thoughtful and his unique touches made for some priceless memories between my husband and I throughout the process. I can’t recommend him enough to capture your day!
If we had to describe Tom in one word it would be phenomenal. Tom is an exceptional photographer who has a remarkable ability to capture some of the most magical moments in our lives. He goes above and beyond the role of a wedding photographer, providing unwavering support from the beginning to the end of the process. Not only did Tom shoot our wedding, but he also captured our engagement photos and even my sister's wedding ( almost 6 years ago)!
To be honest, just thinking about the way Tom and Heather captured our wedding brings tears to our eyes. It may sound cheesy, but the experience with Tom was truly life-changing. From the moment we met him, he brought a sense of calm and comfort that made us feel at ease. He took the time to understand our vision and made sure to capture every detail that was important to us.
During the wedding day, Tom's precision and talent were out of this world. He knew exactly how to let us stay in the moment, soaking up every ounce of our love. He also knew how to position us when necessary and use lighting to create the most breathtaking images. He has an incredible eye for capturing emotions and candid moments that truly tell the story of the day. Looking through our wedding photos, we are transported back to that special day, reliving all the joy and love we felt.
Not only is Tom a talented photographer, but he is also a pleasure to work with. He is professional, approachable, and always willing to go the extra mile to make sure his clients are happy. He made us feel comfortable in front of the camera and effortlessly directed us to create beautiful shots.
We can't recommend Tom enough. He is not just a wedding photographer; he is a storyteller who has the ability to freeze time and create memories that will last a lifetime. If you want someone who will capture the essence of your special day and exceed your expectations, Tom is the photographer for you.
We were ready to give Tom a 5 star review even before we received the photos! The incredible photos that perfectly captured the moment were the cherry on top. It absolutely poured at our wedding and Tom was integral in making us feel at ease and natural in front of a camera (we don't ever get photos taken). The photos took our breath away. Our friends said they were the best wedding photos they'd ever seen. They really showed how much fun we had and how in love we are. Tom was the best vendor we booked for our wedding and we would recommend him to everyone.
Tom was such a pleasure to work with. He is extremely talented, kind and was able to exceed all our expectation as our wedding photographer. From the moment we first met for our engagement photos we knew we made the right choice by hiring him. He gives great direction but is never pushy and made us feel extremely comfortable (even though my husband and I are not normally comfortable in front of the camera). Tom goes above and beyond and was always available to talk and put all our concerns at ease. He made sure we had the perfect photography list and schedule for our wedding day. After receiving our wedding photos we were in awe. They were everything we could have asked for and more. He truly captured the magic of the day and we are so grateful we will have these photos to remember our special day. We are so happy we got to work with Tom and we would highly recommend him! He truly is the dream wedding photographer!
One of the best decisions I made on my wedding day (aside from marrying my husband, of course) was getting to work with Tom Schelling Photography.
I remember searching for wedding photographers online and feeling exhausted as they all seemed to blend together. When I saw Tom's websites, I immediately perked up – I loved how his photos truly captured who these couples were, whether in small intimate moments or pictures which captured their sense of humor. I was so excited when Tom said he was available to shoot our wedding!
Not only is Tom Schelling an incredible photographer, but he has a truly calming energy. In the lead-up to our wedding, we had numerous conversations where he helped with everything from advice on how to find small moments amidst the hecticness, to helping us plan a schedule for the day itself, to working alongside our other vendors to make sure we had enough time for all photos before the wedding started without ever feeling rushed. Tom was always available to answer all of my last-minute questions, and it truly was a joy to have those initial planning meetings with him.
On the day of our wedding, Tom and his incredible wife Heather arrived early, and from the beginning thought of so many photo ideas beyond what we had planned before. Tom and Heather have such a beautiful eye for detail. I LOVE our photos. They made our family and friends truly relaxed, cracked jokes, and added to the overall happiness of the day. Our pictures truly capture our wedding and our family and our friends in moments big and small throughout the day. Tom would snatch us away throughout the night to sneak off and take photos which took full advantage of the environment. One photo comes to mind: my husband and I on the rooftop of our venue in downtown New York with the pink sun setting behind us.
That shot– and a hundred more which felt off-the-cuff– were planned beforehand. I feel so fortunate because those ended up being some of my favorite of the night.
I would encourage you 100% to work with Tom Schelling Photography. We are so glad that we did!
I don’t know where to start with him. Having a wedding while also being in the events industry for work made choosing Tom as our photographer an easy yes. It was easily the best decision we made for vendors. He is someone I will confidently send our clients to for the rest of time.
I first searched through every bridal group looking for a photographer that “made photos look like they were the day on pause, as if they could move in an instance” that meant clear, clean, and real to me! I didn’t want over edits even though I do love everyone’s unique stylistic choices. As far as his craft goes, he does just that! Everything felt so organic and real with him. The photos capture all the happy,
And all the special that the day brought.
We had been married over a year already on our wedding day, so we feared that it wouldn’t feel as special. But Tom helped us to ease that fear!
Honestly, I’m in awe of him. He made everything so special. From the very first meeting, everything he did was intentional and thoughtful. He surprised us, romanticized our wedding and wedding planning experience. He fit seamlessly in the day with us, which was so important to us from the very beginning. I don’t want to ruin all the little surprises that he tucks into your experience with him, but just know that you can absolutely trust him. He will enhance that day and your experience. He is an expert and is 100% worth every dollar spent to have him there. He will feel like a friend attending, while also bringing his expertise with him. My husband and I don’t love being in front of the camera, but we never felt like we were with Tom. The pictures made us both laugh hysterically and cry hysterically.
Okay now the sad part… our doggy was at our wedding, but she was sick with congestive heart failure. She had the best day, and it actually was her last really good day. Tom captured her in her prime. By the time the pictures arrived, we had lost her. She was our best pal. The pictures Tom took are our favorite. They healed our broken hearts a little bit. Just trust him. He was the BEST pick.
Tom is excellent! He was our wedding day photographer and went above and beyond to ensure that the day was captured beautifully. He took the time to meet with us over Zoom multiple times to go over our vision, his approach to capturing the day, and the day-of timeline. Each time we met with Tom, we felt like he understood what was important to us and we were excited to have an experienced photographer on our team. Tom genuinely wants to capture the love and energy between you as a couple and ensured that the flow of our wedding day aligned with this mission so that we wouldn’t feel burnt out with forced smiles, taking photos all day. He made taking photos fun! My husband and I were even able to spend time enjoying the sunset and running through the fields at our venue, while Tom captured this pure emotion and joy without us even realizing it. The photos came out BEAUTIFULLY. I feel so fortunate to have found Tom to capture such stunning photos that will last us a lifetime. We struggled to choose a select number of photos for our album because there were so many that we loved. If you are considering hiring Tom for your wedding, please do not hesitate to reach out to him! It will be one of the best decisions you make on your wedding day.
We have no shortage of amazing things to say about Tom. From the moment we saw his photos online and on Instagram, he immediately stood out to us. You can feel the emotion and passion in his photos. When we reached for more information after coming across his work, he asked to schedule time to get to know us. We did, and Tom spent an entire hour with us on Zoom (without any commitment to hire him) and invited us to ask him questions and he asked some of us too – how we met, what we loved about each other, what will be most important to us on our wedding day. Tom also stressed that he wanted to make sure that we liked each other’s vibes because we would be spending A LOT of time together on the day of our wedding. For anyone booking a photographer for their wedding, you do spend a lot of time with your photographer, so – Tom was right – it is SO crucial that you like your photographer, and they like you. I can tell you that we didn’t just like Tom… we loved him! By the end of the journey leading up to our wedding, he and Heather felt like old friends.
Now for two people who (1) have never had professional photos taken of them, (2) didn’t want to do hours and hours of ‘posing’ and (3) wanted to maximize time with each other and friends and family – I promise you that Tom and Heather make that all possible. They are a calming presence, yet also so quick and efficient. They give helpful direction, but don’t make you feel awkward. They are your biggest cheerleaders and supporters – making you feel beautiful/handsome and most importantly comfortable! After a short session of more traditional portraits (at our request) and family and friend photos, Tom and Heather worked their magic – they allowed us to enjoy every moment of our wedding day and captured the most amazing photos and video (more often than not without us noticing). Tom thought of everything! He was so prepared, despite never stepping foot at our venue, and captured the day perfectly.
From the lead-up, to the day of, and then all the way past the wedding (delivering the most amazing photos and beautiful wedding album) Tom was there for us. It was amazing getting to know Tom in the lead-up during our phone and Zoom calls as well as during our engagement session (which was really helpful) – even if you don’t think of yourselves as ‘engagement photos’ people, you NEED to do it! The photos came out great, and it was a really cool opportunity for us to get comfortable in front of a professional camera and with Tom. Engagement sessions also help develop that trust – if you’re unsure or insecure about something, you learn that Tom 1000% has your back. It allowed us to just have fun the day of our wedding and not stress about how we look or how the photos will come out. It also really helped the day of our wedding feel fun and light, and it was really cool to see Tom and Heather in their element – they got along so well with us, with our wedding party and our family – and the pictures came out SO beautiful!
If you’re looking for someone to trust with timeless memories, choose Tom. I promise you won’t regret it. He and Heather will make you feel like the best versions of yourselves – and you will look and feel amazing through it all!
Can't say enough good things about our experience with Tom and our beautiful wedding photos! Not only do our photos capture the day but Tom is a true artist, and his photos are unique, airy, and exactly what we were looking for.
Beyond being an incredible artist and photographer, he genuinely cares about each couple he works with. My husband and I are very uncomfortable in front of the camera so finding a photographer was hard for us. From the initial phone call on, Tom put us at ease. He understood what we were looking for and did an incredible job capturing our wedding day. He was also able to seamlessly fit into our day and navigate family members, etc.
After the wedding we also worked with Tom to create a wedding album and his eye for laying this out and easy to work with nature persisted. We have so many incredible photos that we will treasure! Thank you Tom for such a great experience!!
We read through some of the other reviews here and nothing has been exaggerated. Tom really is that good! If you are lucky enough that he is available on your wedding date, book him.
We couldn’t have asked for a better experience. It was a joy working with Tom. When we were initially looking for a photographer, it was overwhelming because essentially we were about to give some stranger a lot of money and put a ton of trust in them. Tom straight up neutralized our anxiety in that regard. Right away we were struck by his approachability and the fact that he put ZERO pressure on us. From our very first video chat, he was remarkably patient, supportive and empathetic, and he remained that way through the day of our wedding. And on that day in particular, we didn’t anticipate needing a person like that but man are we glad we had Tom to help level our heads from all the craziness. His calm and reassuring attitude was an oasis. It was such a relief to be able to have complete trust in him that day.
If you’re considering Tom to be your photographer, know that in addition to all of the above, his communication with us and his responsiveness to our questions/concerns was exceptional. We were happily surprised by the amount of times he was the one who took initiative and reached out to us. Throughout every stage of the process, his guidance and organizational skills kept us sane. There were so many small details we didn’t even consider and we’re thankful he did. He’s one of the most meticulous and thorough people we’ve ever met, but in such a natural, easygoing and comforting way.
Oh and we didn’t even talk about the jaw-droppingly beautiful and organic photos he creates. But Tom’s work speaks for itself. It’s what prompted us to reach out to him in the first place. We will forever be in awe of our wedding album. It’s too difficult to put into words how happy we are with it.
From the moment we met Tom and Heather we felt a sense of calm and complete trust that they would be able to capture exactly what we wanted. Tom's skill and efficiency mixed with his fun and light-hearted personality made us forget how nervous we were at our initial engagement shoot.
He is truly professional and extremely knowledgeable about both photography and weddings! He provided suggestions for the day-of itinerary on how to maximize the flow of photos (there are a lot!) and makes sure breaks are built in for the bridge and groom so they can also relax and enjoy their moment.
He works hard to incorporate the natural beauty of the venue and to maximize natural light. He even had an app on his phone so he knew what direction the sun would be facing every hour to maximize our sunset photos after the ceremony.
He was incredibly responsive, organized, & supportive throughout the whole planning process and his turnaround time on receiving the final photographs was incredible (4-5 weeks, with teasers available within 1-3 days after the wedding).
Tom and Heather truly exceeded our expectations, and we are so grateful for being part of our wedding. By the end of the night they both felt like friends we had known for years and we were sad to say goodbye!
Tom and Heather made my wedding day!
My biggest challenge when looking for a wedding photographer was finding someone that truly understood the photos I was looking for and someone that I trusted to capture my day. As soon as I spoke with Tom I knew he was the one and trusted him completely.
From the very beginning, Tom was so calming and supportive. He had a special touch that other photographers that I talked to did not. He sent a package with his favorite movie, prints from our engagement shoot, popcorn and so many other personalized goodies.
Throughout planning he would check in to help plan the day and offer his guidance with the schedule. On the wedding day itself, Tom and his wife Heather were the duo that even my guests are still talking about! They were so dynamic, fun, blended in so well and truly captured the most amazing photos - I am beyond happy. Tom has such a creative eye and his photos are like no other. I wanted candid yet classic pictures and he absolutely brought that vision to life.
Tom and Heather were so kind, happy and genuinely fun to work with. It was like we knew them forever. Their photos are so incredible because THEY are behind the lens.
I am forever grateful for my photos and video from my wedding day. They turned out better than I could have ever imagined. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
We could not have asked for a better experience with the booking, planning and day of our wedding! It was honestly perfect and we are sad to see it end as we really got to know Tom & Heather throughout the process and love their approach and most importantly their company!
After we reached out to Tom, we received a voice memo, and from just hearing the message we knew he was going to be our photographer. During our first video meeting we felt so comfortable and at ease and booked right away. Aside from Tom being professional and extremely knowledgeable, his work just speaks for itself. He brought such a great personality and charisma to everything and communicated with us very well throughout.
We felt at ease during the entire process, loved both he and Heather’s personalities, and felt like they really spent the time getting to know us as a couple.
We live in Ireland and were planning a wedding in upstate New York. Having Tom & Heather guide us through the process eliminated any stress with planning abroad. Thank you Tom and Heather, you truly made our experience perfect!!!
If we had to do our wedding 1,000 times over, we would choose Tom as our photographer every time. Not only was he a calm and reassuring presence leading up to the big day, but he and his wife, Heather, made it their priority to ensure that we maintained that sense of calm and control throughout our entire wedding day and night. What could have ended up being a chaotic situation solely based on the large size of our families and bridal party, ended up being a positive, happy, and surprisingly EASY experience due to the support and guidance that Tom and Heather provided to us. Having just had their own wedding less than one week prior to ours, there was never once a feeling that this team was unhappy to be back at work. They were gracious, friendly, and accommodating to us and our guests from beginning to end. We will forever be grateful to them for playing a part in what will go down as one of the BEST days of our lives. Thank you, Tom & Heather!
We are BEYOND grateful that we were able to book Tom to capture our long awaited wedding celebration!! Tom was recommended to us through our original wedding photographer (we had to postpone our wedding 2x because of covid which meant finding new vendors who had our new date available). I knew that we could trust anyone our original photographer recommended but Tom truly exceeded our expectations from the moment we met him. He was incredibly responsive, organized, & supportive throughout the whole planning process. He really went above & beyond to get to know us before capturing our special day – which we think is so important! We were legally married on our original date in 2020 so when it came time to finally throwing our wedding celebration we wanted a much less formal party & wanted our photos to reflect that. Tom completely understood the vibes we were looking for– laidback, candid, easy & most importantly FUN. We didn’t do many things traditionally at our wedding, his non-judgmental attitude & go-with-the-flow/laidback energy made us feel SO comfortable. Tom followed our lead throughout the day – he captured every moment organically & perfectly. His photos are beautiful, bright, crisp & natural! After the wedding he provides you with a beautifully curated & well-organized digital gallery. He also makes the album drafting process a breeze. We were not only blown away by the quality of Tom’s work but by how easy & convenient he makes the whole post-wedding photo process (i.e. ordering albums). From start to finish, working with Tom is an absolute pleasure!! He is a true professional, a gem of human & an insanely talented photographer (honestly a 10/10 on all levels). We highly recommend booking with Tom – it will be the easiest & best decision you make during the wedding planning process!
Words can't fully describe how grateful we are to have had Tom photograph our wedding. I first met Tom years ago as a bridesmaid and his personal touches to the bridesmaids throughout that wedding had always stayed with me, his kindness, compassion and good nature is unlike any other. When it came time for our wedding, it was an easy decision to get in touch with Tom. He is with you from day one, sending tips, helpful reminders and always available to put you at ease (even while he was planning his own wedding!). My now husband and I could not be happier that Tom was our photographer because we not only feel that we have the most gorgeous photos, but also that we have gained a friend. Tom and Heather made every detail in our wedding perfect for us and we are so thankful to them both. Our hope for our wedding was to surround ourselves with kindhearted people who could put us at ease and help us to enjoy the day, Tom and Heather did exactly that. Tom's eye for the shot and detail is nothing short of exceptional. We absolutely love our photos and we loved spending time with Tom and Heather!
Hiring Tom Schelling Photography was one of the best decisions my husband and I made while planning our wedding! There’s something to be said about an extremely organized, creative, multi-talented, interpersonal photographer! Not only were our photos absolutely timeless and stunning, but Tom helped us with organization, logistics, timelines, photo locations, positive weather affirmations, calming our anxieties, and so much more. Heather, Tom’s amazing fiancé and fellow talented counterpart, helps tremendously and the day of always made me feel special and made sure the details were on point.
Tom Schelling was our photographer for our intimate Covid wedding in Central Park in 2020 and again at our big wedding in Montauk in 2021, two of the most special days in our lives.. two days and a million moments in time that were captured so beautifully and that will last forever thanks to Tom Schelling Photography. Thank you Tom and Heather for such a fun, easy, and exciting process and for your gorgeous work!
Tom is the absolute best - he made everything seamless for us. I interviewed tons of different photographers and none of them made me feel comfortable like Tom did. He wanted to know us, how we met, know our story. He genuinely cared. For us that was so important, after all you are with them all day!
He really took the absolute best photos and the turn around time was insanely quick so we could relive the evening! Hire Tom and Heather and you will not regret it!!!!!!!!!
I reached out to Tom as a former bridesmaid and guest of other weddings he's photographed, so I've seen him at work and already knew how much my friends raved about him. It was pure luck that he was available after we changed our wedding day - we moved it up a year and weren't sure if our top vendors would still be available. Thankfully, Tom's schedule was open and from start to finish he was incredible. Our wedding was moved because my dad got sick and we changed our plans to make sure he was with us - every question I had in regards to how my dad would be photographed (being in chemo and not wanting him to appear too sickly in photos), and adjusting to the whole tone/mood of the day given our family's situation, Tom graciously answered and accommodated for us. His presence throughout the day was calm, collective, helpful, and encouraging. He was able to go with the flow given our group was a little nuts, and I never worried if he was missing something. The results - ARE UNREAL. I think I look at my wedding photos every day. He captured me and my husband so perfectly. The pictures on the beach of just me and my husband are absolutely amazing. I can't get over how easy it was to just be ourselves and trust that the photographer would get us and translate that in the photos so amazingly. I'm truly blown away by the pictures. This is what you get to keep, and pass down for generations, and it's something you want done right. So hire Tom - he gets to know you and your future spouse, he's so understanding, so skilled and creative, and just a great person to have with you all day!
TL;DR – He's your wedding photographer. No one puts in the amount of effort and care he does for you as a couple. The end product (physical wedding album) is perfect.
Our biggest hurdle in looking for a wedding photographer was finding someone who we could trust to get the photos we wanted. We were looking for someone passionate and confident in their wedding photography skills. It’s important that we didn’t have to think about the photography at all and just let it happen, obviously because of everything else on our minds leading up to and the day of the wedding.
It made us think hard about who to choose as our wedding photographer. During the initially planning of what we wanted, we decided photography was the most important. We wanted to be able to remember the wedding day for years to come. We would say that in order of importance (to us) of vendors, photography was above flowers, venue, officiant, food, etc. We truly had to find someone right for the role.
Tom Schelling was able to ease our minds in regards to finding the right person. The amount of time and effort he puts into his work and the couples he works with is beyond what you would expect. Honestly, in the best way possible, throughout the entire wedding planning process it felt like Tom was a part of the wedding. We felt like Tom knew us well enough that he became an extension of ourselves on the day of the wedding, in which I mean that if the bride and groom were able to photograph themselves exactly how they wanted during their wedding, that’s Tom. He’s amazingly invisible when he’s doing his work, and he instructed us with the amount of confidence I expect from someone with decades in the profession.
If you’re on the fence about Tom Schelling and another photographer, I think it’s important to know that Tom cares about his couples. He does not template-match or do the same work between couples. I don’t understand how he does what he does, but his work and dedication to photographing one of the most important days of our lives is unsurpassable.
One of the most important specific things Tom did, that I don’t think other photographers do, is that he chose the best photos for our physical album after the wedding. Of course we went over them with him twice to be sure they’re what we wanted, I couldn’t be more thankful that he did the initial work. I know another couple that’s still looking through photos from their wedding in October (it’s February), and their just dreading the process. Thank you so much Tom!
Just do it….don’t even hesitate, just book Tom as your wedding photographer right now. Tom was the wedding photographer in my cousin’s wedding and I didn’t even look for any other options when it was time for my wedding because you can’t top perfection. Tom is exceptionally organized, but real- he understands how crazy of a time wedding planning is, and he is with you along the way (his organization helped me stay organized)! Having Tom and Heather there on our wedding day was like hanging out with old friends….but old friends who could miraculously get a 2 year old to smile in a large family photo. Beyond being comfortable and kind, the photos and album are beyond stunning- every single guest (from multiple countries) made some sort of comment about how great our photographer was and how incredible the pictures turned out! Do it! Thank you Tom!!!
We hired Tom because he’s an artist. It shows in every frame he captures. There are a lot of choices for a wedding photographer, especially in the NYC area, but if you want someone who brings artistry and still can wrangle all your family members for a photo, Tom is your guy. Tom just puts everyone in his orbit at ease. If you’re on the fence about choosing Tom, don’t be. He checks every box.
We were a Covid wedding, and had to move our date twice throughout 2020 and 2021. Each time Tom was totally understanding and made sure he was available to us. He stayed in touch throughout all the waiting at a regular cadence and made sure we had everything planned out well in advance when it came time to get down to details. In addition to being completely on top of it, Tom adds a personal touch every step of the way. Whether it’s a thoughtful gift or a quick video to connect with details Tom brings his authentic self.
When it finally came time to have the wedding, we can’t say enough about how professional Tom was. He captured everything from details, to our first look, the ceremony, and of course those amazing reception candids that really capture the atmosphere. Tom has a deft ability to switch between formal photography to almost a journalistic quality for candids. He is charming, a fantastic photographer, and we can’t recommend him enough. Tom is the best.
Tom was the best decision we made for our wedding day! Not only are his pictures absolutely amazing, and his customer service unmatched, he truly became a friend throughout an incredibly stressful process. Tom is there with you every step of the way, from helping you pick other vendors to giving you advice to how to stand or look for each picture, there is nothing the man can’t do! He is available for any question you want to ask, even if it has nothing to do with your photography! We had to move our wedding multiple times and each time Tom was the first person we went to and he was immediately there to FaceTime with us or give us a video message to help us through whatever we needed. Tom has a way of putting a personal touch on everything he does that truly makes you feel unique and special. As I said earlier it never felt like we were working with a photographer but rather a friend we had known for years. Finally, his pictures are the best! He gets to know you before the event and learns who you are and what you like. Hiring anyone besides Tom for your next event is a mistake!
We honestly could not have picked a more perfect person to photograph our wedding! When looking for a photographer we wanted someone who would be able to capture us without looking staged or forced. Tom made that happen! From the “lifestyle shoot” pictures to the day of the wedding he made us feel comfortable and at ease the entire time. He was always available to answer any and all of our questions. Not only is he the KINDEST person on the planet but also beyond thoughtful. He would constantly check in to see how my planning was going and to provide me with any information that he thought was helpful. Tom, we can’t thank you enough!
If you haven’t booked him already- DO IT!
Tom was one of the first vendors we hired and we are beyond thankful we booked him! There are so many reasons why Tom is by far the most amazing photographer. Here are a few:
1. He is organized, punctual and true to his word. One of the most reliable vendors I have worked with. He always answered my emails quickly and made time for a call if needed.
2. He is creative and can make any vision come to a reality.
3. He is down right passionate about what he does. It not only shows in the moment, but in the final product. His fiance Heather is also just a pleasure to work with on the day-of; she is bubbly, helpful, and a kind person.
4. Tom is thoughtful and one of the nicest people I have met in a long time. I will not give too much away, but Tom includes a number of surprises in your wedding planning journey along the way and they really made the process fun and exciting.
5. His photos are magical. They made me feel how I felt in that moment on my wedding day and for that I am forever grateful.
6. He is flexible and makes everyone in the family feel included.
7. Tom gets along with anyone. He worked really well with our videographer and our other vendors which made the day go very smooth.
8. Finally, one of my favorite things about Tom is he makes the process personalized towards you. He really gets to know who you are as a couple and that shines through in his photos. And he writes hand-written notes which I feel is a lost art these days!
Bottom line - hire Tom ASAP! I know you will agree that he is your best wedding vendor you hire.
Tom is just the absolute best! It's hard to put into words how wonderful he was, but we will try our best. From the first introduction call we knew Tom was the photographer we were choosing for our wedding. Photography was one of the most important elements in our planning process, and Tom checked off every box we had. We also loved the engagement photoshoot he did for us, it was the perfect depiction of what our wedding day would be like, and the pictures came out amazing! Leading up to the wedding Tom checked in to help organize all of our details and timelines, posing as both a photographer AND wedding coordinator. He put a lot of our concerns at ease, which obviously is not something a photographer even needs to do! On our wedding day, we were truly grateful to have Tom with us throughout. He is highly empathetic, creative, thoughtful, uplifting, etc...! Someone who you genuinely enjoy having around on one of the most important days of your life. His special and thoughtful touches throughout the process were also the best (hand painting our favorite engagement picture, sending us a pre-wedding date night care package, sending my husband teaser video clip of our wedding pictures for him to surprise me with, etc..). We can't thank you enough, Tom! You are the best! :)
Let me start by saying I am an event planner, and I have worked with many, many photographers in my time. I believe Tom blows them all out of the water. Not only is the quality of his work incredible & a great value, he is one of the most attentive, un-dramatic, and warm people I have met in the event industry. He is there to answer all of your questions and help prepare you for your wedding day. During a crazy busy 2021 season, he was so communicative when other vendors took weeks to respond. Having received my wedding photos only a few days ago, please take my word when I say that my husband and I are honored to have been photographed by Tom. Our photos are beyond dreamy. Heather is an absolute gem if you're lucky enough to meet her as well; she's an onsite rockstar. If you're on the fence about booking Tom, please know that beyond magical photographs, you would be working with someone who sincerely wants to make wedding planning easier for you and I can't express emphatically enough the value in that.
I could write an entire page on how wonderful Tom is and how highly my husband and I recommend him. Tom was such a pleasure to work with, starting from the day of inquiry, all the way through to after our wedding to discuss photo albums. He is so passionate about photography and weddings that not only does he produce beautiful photos, but he offers so many helpful tips throughout the planning process that really helped make both our engagement photo shoot and our wedding day that much better. He gives such great direction while shooting that our friends and family cannot stop raving about him too. And then there are the photos.. I chose Tom based on a combination of his energy but also the finish he puts on his photos. The photos are bright and clear with crisp colors that they really capture the day and emotions without any cheesy studio or over-brightened finish. Tom is the real deal and you will not be disappointed like so many other people can be if you book him!
From our initial search for vendors, we knew that photography and videography was something that we both highly valued. We wanted photos that captured us as a couple and Tom Schelling did exactly that. It was such a pleasure to work with Tom and Heather throughout our planning process, they truly felt more like our friends than our photographers. Tom even helped us with creating a timeline for our wedding day and was very flexible when we had to postpone our wedding due to Covid, just some of the things he does that we felt were going above and beyond our expectations. Not only did he make us feel comfortable through consistent communication and each interaction, but our photos are also completely natural and resemble us. Tom has such a unique eye for photography and our photos turned out better than we could have ever imagined, we couldn't wait to share them with our family! Thank you so much Tom for authentically capturing our day, a day that we can now cherish for a lifetime.
Tom Schelling is class, personified. Our experience with working with Tom and his fiancé Heather the day of our wedding was seamless and perfect! He is super creative, relaxed and flexible, as well as efficient and organized.. essentially he checks every single box you could ever want in your wedding photographer! My husband and I arrived separately to a predetermined location in Central Park by Tom for a genuine first look, followed by a breathtaking shoot at nearby locations in the park, and finally our ceremony at Dene Summerhouse. The entire experience leading up to our actual ceremony not only eased our own anxieties, but we had so much fun! He took the “pressure and work” off of us through his ability to gently and creatively guide us through our photos and make us laugh along the way.
Tom is a visionary, and has an eye for originality, class, and romance. His photography embodies iconic NYC as well. Tom was extremely helpful in planning the timeline of our special day, in choosing the photo and ceremony locations, and in organizing the shot list for family photos. In conclusion, do not hesitate to choose Tom Schelling as your NYC Wedding Photographer or for your special event, it will be the best decision you have made! Thank you, Tom!
If you choose to hire Tom as your photographer you aren’t getting just photos, you are getting an experience! From the day we contacted him he was responsive, flexible, responsible, professional and an absolute joy to work with. He took the time to get know my now husband and I and tailored our day to ensure the unavoidable nuances didn’t deter our special day. Boutonnières sent to the venue instead of the hotel? -Not a problem, he took gorgeous shots from afar at our shoot location and portraits of our lovely groomsmen at the venue. Veil flew off while walking down the isle? -Tom’s already captured a great picture of that veil on before the laughter ensued.
Here are just some of the ways you’re getting more than just a photographer if you go with Tom on your special day:
• Location advice? He has it. He helped us navigate the options in choosing a perfect location for our first look, and couple/wedding party/family portraits. Need that perfect shot? He’ll stop NYC traffic and even ran down the beach with you in slow motion to capture that perfect moment.
• Wedding day timeline looking rough? He provided a simple to use web page and talked us through all the tips and tricks to maximizing our time. We had every beautiful moment captured, time to dance, time to eat, and time to ourselves to soak it all in. It doesn’t get better than that!
• Need to communicate in a simple seamless manner? Tom will send you video messages, he will FaceTime you, and we even got a cool app we can whip out at anytime to show our friends our amazing pictures. He even sent us an amazing book to flip through on our own time. He has all his bases covered when it comes to communicating effectively! His insta is pretty dope two!
• Need some great vibes sent your way? Tom is generally speaking a really cool dude who brought a sense of calm, direction and fun on our special day. I won’t spoil anything for you, but the surprises we received along the way had us feeling the love. Who doesn’t love a random reason to smile!
• Have absolutely no idea what you’re doing but would love to look great in photos? The direction he provided our bridal party and myself on the wedding day on how to strike a pose and where to stand and look was all the direction we needed. Tom’s ability to capture seemingly candid shots that look great are indicative of his talents as a photographer. He has vision and knows how to frame a shot and work with his equipment to render what I can only describe as artwork.
All in all, investing in your memories are as important as investing in the experience. With Tom, you’ll get a flawless execution of both. The amount if time, work, and sheer talent is well worth it. We’ve found a photographer for life.
We are so grateful that we found Tom Schelling to capture our vineyard wedding! From our first meeting to his last shot he was a true professional, warm and sometimes funny. When we were looking for a photographer we wanted someone who shoots with a light and airy style. We spent so much time sifting through photographers until we found Tom. After our first meeting I was sure he would be perfect. He pays attention to details, and not just the big picture, the small ones too. He is a true artist in that sense and as very hands on bride, this gave me a sense of calm and trust in him. We worked with so many vendors for our wedding but Tom was the one who stands out by small gestures like gifting us with photos to take home on our wedding day. His professionalism shines through out the entire wedding planning experience but the best part was we received all of our photos within 2-3 weeks after our wedding! I can go on and on with compliments for Tom, and why you should use him but truthfully just look at his work....We LOVE EVERY SINGLE PHOTO he sent us, and these will be memories we cherish for a lifetime!
I have booked Tom for my engagement party, my engagement photo session, and now finally my wedding and I am so incredibly happy with everything about him and his work from start to finish! When I was looking for a wedding photographer, I was still in graduate school and so it was so important to me that all the wedding vendors were super responsive by email/phone because I only had a small amount of time each day that I could dedicate to wedding planning. Tom was so professional in every single encounter and answered my emails quickly and answered every single question I had in detail. When we had an appointment at 7 PM, he called me at 7 PM on the dot! It was so refreshing and this made the whole process so much easier. He is so detail oriented and walked us through each step of the way in the weeks leading up to our wedding. On the day of the wedding, he was on time and got every single group shot, picture of my dog, or silly shot that I wanted. My brother used to work with Tom at Apple and so he recommended Tom to me and I only have wonderful things to say about Tom. I would HIGHLY recommend him to anyone who is getting married. We just received our full wedding gallery today and the photos are absolutely breathtaking! Not only is his work incredible but he was just so easy and fun to be around during pictures. He made the day way more relaxing and was so patient with all our college friends who were messing around during the bridal party photos. He took beautiful pictures of my boxer puppy Sunny who wouldn’t sit still and kept jumping around but Tom was so patient, which meant so much to me. Looking back on planning the wedding, it really was so important to have a photographer who was responsive and answered all my questions because it is so crazy to coordinate everyone and everything. If vendors don’t answer, then that holds everything up. I do not have a single regret with booking Tom Schelling Photography. Tom made everything so special and perfect for our wedding day and I’m so happy!
Tom was our wedding photographer this past summer and what a fantastic choice we made! Tom's attention to detail, professionalism, and expertise in capturing the most important day of our lives went above and beyond our expectations!
Initially, it was tough to select a photographer but when we came across some of Tom's work on Instagram/Facebook/his website, we were impressed with how he captured the most candid of moments. From the moment we first met him, he put our worries at ease by explaining the process, responding almost instantaneously whenever we had questions via email, and ensuring that he would be with us every step of the way. Out of all of our vendors, Tom was by far the most organized, responsive, and had an uncanny ability to direct others to ensure we were able to enjoy each other on our wedding day.
I'd like to say Tom's work truly speaks for itself once you see the images he captures and the way he lays out the draft album for you! If you're on the fence about booking him, please meet him in person, and I promise that you will not be disappointed!
First things first, Tom is a true professional. Tom captured our engagement and our wedding in a manner that exceeded our expectations. Simply stated, Tom is an OUTSTANDING photographer. The results were stunning. He has a unique vision which, he is able to execute with minimal fuss. In addition, Tom is punctual, practical, accommodating, and truly understanding of how the wedding process unfolds. Not withstanding his extraordinary talent as a photographer, Tom is a genuinely nice guy. He is super enthusiastic and fun to work with. He made everyone feel comfortable and relaxed. As a result, he was able to capture genuine and unposed moments of love and joy. We now consider him a friend and highly recommend him for any wedding or event . Tom is the best. Special shout out to Heather, too.
We hired Tom to be the videographer for our wedding. Start to finish he was exceptional. The definition of professionalism, he made us feel so comfortable in front of the camera. He is kind, genuine, efficient, and a master at what he does. Our wedding video trailer exceeded our expectations, as did Tom! He was able to capture the emotion of the day in its entirety in four minutes worth of video. We would highly recommend Tom and his work!
Tom was such a pleasure to work with. We didn't feel rushed or stressed by him. He was so calm, funny, and go-with-the-flow that it really helped us to relax. He was receptive to what we wanted, and got amazing candid shots of us, family, and guests. I highly recommend using him for your wedding!!
Working with Tom was great! He arrived early to scout the venue and then took the time to ask us how we wanted to preserve our wedding. After a few minutes, he went right to work and capturing the most genuine moments leading up to our ceremony. Receiving our photos was quick and easy and way more than we expected. We highly recommend Tom!
Tom was absolutely amazing. From our first conversation to the last shot he made me feel comfortable and confident. He explains everything your doing and why he does it. You truly get to understand his process. The morning of the wedding it was raining and I was scared to ruin my massive dress so at the last minute I wanted to change the location of the shoot. Tom was very understanding and helped to figure out an alternative. He definitely help calm my nerves and took the stress away from that situation. His photo are absolutely gorgeous. I can't stop looking at all of them. we wanted our engagement shoot in Montauk and Tom didn't even hesitate when we asked. We did the engagement shoot at sunrise and it was absolutely stunning. I will forever cherish them. I can't recommend him enough.
I'm not the best when it comes to writing so I'll try my best. Tom is AMAZING and FANTASTIC. He not only is incredibly helpful, but he also makes himself available for questions and guidance along the way. He listened to every word I said and took any bit of stress out of the photography situation. I was able to turn my brain off the day of my wedding and he took care of it all. The pictures, the only long lasting evidence of the day, are perfect. Tom is the absolute best and you’d be wrong to go with any other photographer.
Tom is the best photographer we have had the pleasure of working with. He was professional but relatable in every step of the process. He sent us questionnaires which pin pointed exactly what we wanted and he nailed everything on the day of the wedding. He is a genius when it comes to photography but also very easy going and funny. We couldn’t have asked for a better photographer for our big day. We tell everyone we know about Tom and look forward to working with him again. Also his prices were the most fair out of the other photographers we spoke to. Thanks Tom :) -Kat and Wafa
What can I say! Tom is like family at this point! We met him when he worked in my sisters wedding, and although I wasn’t even engaged to be married at the time, I knew that whenever my day came, Tom would be our guy NO MATTER WHAT! He is beyond experiences he is a true artist! His vision is like no other. Very professional and so personable! No matter how uncomfortable you feel in front of the camera Tom has a way of making you feel like you’re a natural and it SHOWS in his work! My cousin has used him for her engagement as well! Every wedding plannng has it’s monkey wrenches! And Tom’s organized nature almost makes you feel as if he’s a fortune teller! He is extremely kind and tender heaerted and treats the family and the court warmly! You’d be missing out if you didn’t choose him for your photo experience! Thank you Tom for working with me and my family once again!
Tom is absolutely AMAZING! He made every step of the way so easy! He is not only a super talented photographer, but he is kind, friendly and makes everyone feel comfortable! I think it is so important to have a good connection with the person who is photographing one of the most important days of your life. Tom's attention to detail and all around knowledge made me feel so much better the day of my wedding, and the months leading up to it. He is a ball of energy, and that makes the photo sessions so much more enjoyable. He is also very organized and knows how to ask questions and get all the information he needs without making you feel overwhelmed (which is so appreciated because planning a wedding is stressful and overwhelming enough). There aren't enough good things I could say about him!
I would recommend Tom to anyone looking for a professional photographer! I cant wait to have another excuse to work with him again!
Working with Tom was the best decision we made while wedding planning. As someone who feels incredibly awkward when having their picture taken, I was dreading wedding photos and finding a photographer and just hoped I wouldn’t look too uncomfortable. After meeting with Tom for the first time he instantly put my mind at ease. I initially chose him because all the people looked very natural and comfortable in his photos. And it’s no wonder because he was so easy to work with and made the whole process very fun.
Tom is incredibly organized and my husband and I are incredibly unorganized so having Tom as hour photographer made life so much easier. There was never an issue with contacting him. He was always quick to reply to any of our questions or concerns. He checked in regularly to make sure everything was going according to plan and took away so much of the stress of planning a wedding.
Also Tom is super thoughtful. He really went out of his way to get to know us, he remembered our birthdays, he even sent a date night gift package to us after we first booked him.
Tom is just amazing. As a human, a a photographer, as an artist. Just generally all around amazing.
If you’re on the fence about booking Tom just know that he can make anyone look beautiful even if you find yourself to be terribly awkward and not photogenic. Not only will you and your significant other look great, but everyone in your wedding party will be stunning in his photographs as well. I highly recommend checking out his Instagram to see his work. And watching his Instagram stories which are usually pretty amusing.
Book Tom. It’ll be the best decision you make while wedding planning.
Less than 2 months before our wedding, our original photographer called me and told me she was unfortunately no longer able to photograph our wedding, as planned. In a panic, I contacted my wedding coordinator and explained what had happened. He told us not to worry, and he recommended a few photographers to us.
Reaching out to Tom, I was nervous because of the given situation, but Tom was immediately able to put my mind at ease regarding our dilemma. From our first conversation with Tom until now, even after our wedding, Tom has been beyond amazing! Tom has always been so quick to respond to emails and answer all questions. Tom also surprised us with little extras along the way – we were blows away by his thoughtfulness. On our wedding day, Tom went above and beyond our expectations to give us photos that will last forever. Our pictures are absolutely STUNNING! We love them all (seriously, there isn’t one bad photo in the bunch, which makes it tough to design the album... but it’s a problem you definitely want to have!). Tom is so incredibly talented that these few words of thanks do not give justice to his incredible artistic ability. Our photos look like they belong in a magazine: they are truly to die for!
If you are on the fence about booking Tom, trust me – do it!! You will not be disappointed. Tom puts his whole heart and soul into his work, and for that, we are truly grateful. We highly recommend Tom and will be using him again in the future. Tom – Thank you! Thank you again!
My wife and I used Tom for our wedding photography and I have to say he was an absolute pleasure to work with. His skill and efficiency went above & beyond and for that we are truly grateful. He made it a point to follow up with us as frequently as possible as we approached the wedding to make sure he had every bit of necessary information for our big day. Tom is extremely mindful of all of his surroundings. He’s very patient and considerate. But most of all, he remembers to accommodate every single detail while shooting. By detail, I mean even remembering to bring along a squeaky toy for our Siberian Husky, Ryder so his ADD wouldn’t get the better of him and it worked! The photos came out AMAZING!!!
You’re the best, Tom!
We definitely recommend Tom for all of your wedding photography needs!
Kudos!
-Joe & Nicole.
Tom was incredible from start to finish. As soon as we hired him he was constantly in touch with us, kept us up to date and that didn't stop the day of. During our wedding even our friends said he was like a ninja, barely seen but got incredible photos. Even after the big day he continued to make sure we were as happy as possible. Highly recommend
Not only were our photos amazing and beautiful but Tom worked around our crazy schedule and really listened to what we were looking for. He's super fun to work with and makes it very easy for people who aren't very good at posing for photos (me) to take some great photos that look natural and gorgeous!
I don't know where to start with this review. Do I start with the beautiful pictures he took? The professional attitude he had when dealing with my overbearing family? Or with the friendly and caring attitude he had towards making sure he captured the best photos possible!? Honestly, from the time we signed the contract until the wedding Tom was FANTASTIC! I would not only recommend him to everyone I know, but if I am ever in need of a photographer again he will be my first call. Thank you for the best experience I have ever had with photos.
Beauty is truly in the eyes of the beholder and through Tom’s eyes he was able to capture our love. Not only Is he a professional but he is personable. He was able to capture each moment in a way that together tell a very accurate story of our special day. It was so easy and effortless working with him and the experience with him was worth every penny!
Tom Schelling Photography is simply the best. I would recommend Tom to any couple looking for a great wedding photographer. We cannot thank Tom enough for being so professional, easy going, fun, and talented. My husband and I LOVE our wedding photos! We are simply thrilled. The photos came back so quickly and are just gorgeous. Everyone has been totally amazed by them. The photos are really whimsical and have a dream-like quality to them. Just what I wanted. I have had a few bad experiences as a bridesmaid with friends' wedding photographers being super pushy and bossing the wedding party around, so it was really important to my husband and I that we hire a photographer who fit in well with our wedding party and would make everyone feel comfortable in front of the camera. It is no easy task! But after meeting with Tom we knew he was just perfect. Honestly, he felt like a friend. He even traveled out to Manhattan to meet us for our first consultation. Tom really goes above and beyond for his clients. He's not forceful or bossy or constantly in your face with the camera. He lets you do your own thing and will capture very real and natural moments, without overly posing shots. We got married in a church and even our priest said he didn't notice Tom was there during the mass. That's truly how good he is. He's a real professional. I can't say enough about how much we love our wedding photos and thoroughly enjoyed Tom's company during our wedding day and planning process. Planning a wedding is stressful and Tom totally put us at ease throughout the months leading up to the wedding. Book Tom Schelling Photography and you will be one happy bride!
Tom was very attentive and professional. His poses were perfect for our wedding and the quality of the photographs were excellent. He always managed to get the right picture at the right time and this has to do with his knowledge. His post processing of the photos captured the wedding perfectly. Everyone was put at ease with his mannerisms. I highly recommend Tom Schelling Photography for any event.
Tom knows what he's doing and is great to work with!
Tom didn't have much time to prepare to shoot our wedding because we planned it in six days, we contacted him four days before and fortunately he was available, we didn't discuss the details until the day before, he had very little time if not hours to prepare, in spite of it, he did an amazing job, we haven't seen all of our pictures yet but what we saw excedded our expectations. The day of our wedding it was raining and we were concerned that our pictures wouldn't be as good, however Tom used it in our favor. We are very happy with his work and his personality. He made posing for him a fun and entertaining experience! My husband and I strongly recommend his services!
Tom is AMAZING! Don't look any further. Tom Is an amazing wedding photographer and did any amazing job for us. Tom brought so much organization and clarity on the months before and the day of our wedding! He is a combination of wedding planner and wedding photographer. He made sure we had everything prepared and managed our expectations! He was fabulous and I wouldn't have changed one thing he did for us!
So lucky that Tom was referred to me from a friend. Could not have asked for a more attentive and professional photographer. His work speaks for itself. Forever I’ll cherish these amazing moments that we’re perfectly captured by Tom!
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