Brewster Officiants + Premarital Counseling

Weddings by Design

Thoughtful, Meaningful, Creative Ceremonies

Brewster, MA

$395 starting price

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Cape Cod Massachusetts

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Reverend Lucinda Graham

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AWARD WINNER (11X)

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Weddings By Design is a Wedding Officiating service located in Brewster, MA, managed by Officiant Lucinda Graham. Every ceremony is a unique and beautiful representation of a couple in love who desire to spend the rest of their lives together. Lucinda understands this and works tirelessly to craft a memorable and bespoke experience. Lucinda specializes in nondenominational weddings and interfaith marriages, bringing people together from all backgrounds and beliefs. Couples of all kinds are welcome to solicit Lucinda's services for their big day, owing to her inclusive and friendly demeanor. The ceremony is the most important of the day and couples should be able to relax knowing there is a professional at the helm. Weddings By Design offers tailored wedding services to suit couples' different needs. Lucinda can officiate religious, secular, and non-traditional weddings, as well as vow renewals and elopements. Available on Cape Cod Massachusetts, Lucinda can travel for your big day. Lucinda can also assist couples to write their own vows and design their dream day. My biggest advice right now is to relax and enjoy all the planning and preparation! This should be exciting and fun for all. Cindy

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Ceremony

$395 starting price

Ceremony

$395 starting price

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Ceremony
$395 starting price
Ceremony
$395 starting price
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Fun
Fun
Working with the couples
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Flexibility
Flexibility
Ceremony,
Ceremony,
Contact anytime
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Couples usually spend $450

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Second Wedding

Vow Renewal Ceremony

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Reverend Lucinda Graham

Owner

My name is Cindy Graham, and I am a professional Wedding Officiate working from Bourne to Provincetown on Cape Cod. I can help you with your vows and ceremony, and between us you will have a meaningful and special ceremony. The options are endless!! readings, personal vows, songs, poems all welcome. I work with Traditional as well as LGBTQ couples, and am flexible and looking forward to hearing from you. Lets have a great 2019.Cindy http://www.weddingsbydesign.info 508-896-8121

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137 reviews

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Cindy, a wedding officiant from Weddings by Design, received glowing reviews from multiple couples for her exceptional services. She was commended for her professionalism, warmth, and ability to create personalized and heartfelt ceremonies. Cindy's attentive and supportive approach, along with her guidance throughout the planning process, left couples feeling comfortable and confident on their special day. Her flexibility, attention to detail, and dedication to making each ceremony unique and memorable were highly appreciated, making her a top choice for officiating weddings.

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Theresa F

9/10/2024

Cindy was amazing! She helped guide us every step of the way and delivered a beautiful ceremony. I couldnt have ask for a more perfect officiant!

Kyra L

8/12/2024

Cindy was absolutely fabulous! She is very communicative and helps you decide what the best vows that suite you as a couple. She was able to answer our many questions about filing our marriage license and anything else that came up along the way! She has a warm demeanor and made us feel so comfortable and confident when reciting our vows! Thank you again for everything Cindy!

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Courtney G

6/29/2024

Cindy was wonderful from the start. She helped us create a beautifully written ceremony. She was so engaging and made our ceremony so special and memorable. Highly recommend her!

Courtney G

6/27/2024

Cindy was absolutely wonderful and made my husband and I wedding ceremony so special! She is an incredibly thoughtful person and will make your ceremony special as well! Definitely reach out to her :)

Christine O

6/18/2024

Cindy helped us to write the perfect ceremony for our wedding. She had great advice and was always reachable when we needed her. She was punctual and professional at the ceremony, and made us feel comfortable! We are so glad we chose Cindy to officiate our wedding!

Krista S

6/10/2024

We are so glad we hired Lucinda to be our wedding officiant! She did such an incredible job and delivered a perfect ceremony exactly as we had hoped. Initially we were thinking of having a friend officiate the wedding but decided to go with an experienced professional as I was really nervous about having all eyes on me and standing up in front of all of our guests during the ceremony. Just knowing Lucinda was comfortable & experienced in officiating ceremonies put me at ease. After our ceremony I can't even count how many guests came up to me and my parents to compliment the ceremony & officiant, saying how well done it was. I had a number of guests even ask me "who was that woman? she was incredible!" and a few even asked me "was that your aunt? she knew you two so well!" Lucinda officiated our ceremony with a confident yet casual manner, making all of our guests feel at ease and comfortable. She made the guests laugh, cry, and held their attention throughout. I would highly recommend Lucinda as a wedding officiant!

Emily K

3/19/2024

Cindy was amazing from the moment I sent in the inquiry needing an officiant. My husband and I wanted to do a small intimate elopement and didn’t really know where to start. Cindy walked us through the entire process, and made sure our ceremony was tailored to us and exactly what we wanted. She took the time to incorporate our story into the ceremony and it was really special. Cindy was flexible with our location as it changed a couple times even 1 day before due to weather. Cindy even offered her husband to take a few photos for us, since it was just an elopement and we didn’t have any guests. We were so thankful he was able to capture our moment for us, as otherwise we wouldn’t have had any pictures. I highly reccomend Cindy/weddings by design for your wedding day! Thank you so much for making our day so special!

Courtney T

12/08/2023

I could not have planned this ceremony any better without the help of Cindy of Weddings by Design. She understood our concerns about not knowing what to write or say and she gave us ample amounts of materials to work with. She was so optimistic and kind. She was so patient with us and I am so grateful for her. As New Yorkers coming to Cape Cod for our getaway nuptials, she walked us through the process of obtaining a marriage license through the state of MA. If it weren't for her guidance, we would have missed our opportunity to get one in time for the wedding! She truly makes herself available to any questions you may have and was a stellar officiant.

Kara S

10/30/2023

We couldn't have been happier to have Cindy officiate our wedding! She was there to help with questions or details every step of the way, and she went above and beyond to make sure she got our ceremony exactly how we wanted it! Cindy made sure to check in with us as our wedding grew closer, and was diligent in sharing each detail. We were so honored and happy to have her officiate our wedding ceremony, it was absolutely perfect!

Elizabeth B

10/27/2023

Cindy was excellent and walked us through everything. The ceremony was beautiful.

response 10/27/2023

Thank you so much for the nice review! Have a great weekend, Cindy

Alexandra J

6/27/2023

Cindy was our officiant for our 5.13.23 wedding & she was great! Easy going to work with and was helpful and prompt every step of the way! We definitely recommend her & her services!

Kelly L

12/28/2022

From the moment I reached out, Cindy was amazing. She was so attentive, so wonderful, so personable and literally made our moment perfect. She braved the cold and wind on a quiet beach and never flinched. This is the person you want for your day, trust me.

Alex C

12/02/2022

Cindy was the officiant at our 10/9/2022 wedding and I have nothing but amazing things to say! She was very easy to work with and very communicative over email. Cindy curated an incredibly heartfelt wedding ceremony for my husband and I, and her presentation was impeccable on the day. Although she did not know us beforehand. Cindy made us very comfortable and spoke about us as if we were family. On our wedding day, there were 30mph winds and Cindy pushed through like an absolute champ. I would highly recommend hiring Cindy!

Jacklyn J

11/06/2022

Cindy was the best since the day we contacted her through to our ceremony. She was very thoughtful, genuine, and creative. She truly helped to make our ceremony extra special. Also, she lets you customize your ceremony while giving a guide. If we ever needed an officiant again, I would contact her in a heartbeat. Highly recommend

Scott B

10/13/2022

Cindy helped us pick an excellent ceremony and then tailored it to our specific needs. The ceremony was exactly what we were hoping for and we highly recommend Cindy to anyone looking for a wedding officiant!

Tricia B

10/13/2022

We are so happy we chose Cindy to marry us! She was with us every step of the way to make sure she got to know us, so that she could be able to provide us a personalized and intimate ceremony . We wish she could have stayed and partied with us at the reception. She was great!!!

Hillary R

10/11/2022

Cindy went above and beyond for our wedding. She was always one step ahead of me with questions, thoughtfulness, and being prepared. She had a calm but excited demeanor while performing our ceremony. Thanks Cindy!

Connor R

9/16/2022

Cindy was very responsive to my questions and was with us every step of the way. She offered ceremony samples and helped guide us in making it our own. She was on time for the ceremony, friendly and made us feel at ease!

Alyssa C

9/13/2022

Cindy was amazing! Especially for being able to pull things together and guide me on what works best for a ceremony. We loved it, short sweet and intimate. Absolutely would recommend!

James E

8/30/2022

Cindy was very friendly, helpful and responsive, provided a range of ceremony templates for us to choose from and then helped us tailor one to our specifics, was a great day and all went smoothly.

Courtney M

8/13/2022

Cindy was great! She had many options in terms of different ceremonies, but allowed us to customize them to make it our own. She answered all of our questions along the way, and was great during the day of. We hadn’t done a rehearsal, but everything went smoothly and Cindy knew what to do. We highly recommend her for any cape weddings!

Megan M

5/29/2022

Cindy was amazing. I didn’t want a traditional ceremony and wanted to keep it short and she helped and made it perfect!!!! She helps you but also let’s it be yours!! She was in communication with us from the moment I first contacted her to the wedding day!!! Definitely recommend wedding by designs!

Meagan T

5/05/2022

Very professional and on top of everything. Performed the ceremony beautifully!

response 05/05/2022

Hi Chris and Meagan, Thanks so much for the kind review. Have a great weekend! Cindy Http...

://www.weddingsbydesign.info 508-896-8121 Text 508-737-4027 Brwstr@verizon.net

Nicole A

11/01/2021

Cindy was amazing to work with! She spoke with me over the phone quickly after I messaged her on the knot and was great from the beginning. She was very kind, friendly, and professional. She kept in touch with us via email often until the day of the wedding, and answered any questions or concerns we had. She knew exactly what my husband and I were looking for, our ceremony was perfect!

Tabitha M

9/13/2021

Cindy was an AMAZING officiant. She was very helpful in navigating the process of rescheduling our 2020 wedding to 2021 and making sure our ceremony was everything we had hoped for!! During the day of the wedding she just did a fantastic job! The whole thing was made easier by being able to pick and choose parts of our ceremony from her samples.

Elizabeth R

9/08/2021

Cindy was a wonderful officiant ! She came highly recommended from Oceans Edge Resort and I can see why . Cindy made every effort to get to know Stephen and I through phone calls, emails and meeting in person . She tailored our ceremony so it was just right for us . It was a beautiful and well planned ceremony ! We were extremely happy with our day.

response 09/08/2021

Thanks Elizabeth, you were so kind. Cindy

Evelyn M

8/30/2021

Cindy was an excellent officiant for us. We had only spoken to her via phone and email before the wedding day, but in that time she was able to help us craft the perfect ceremony for us. Day of she was very accommodating when one of our other vendors was late. I would absolutely recommend her to other Cape brides.

Holly L

8/25/2021

Cindy went above and beyond to make our wedding ceremony personal and meaningful. Even with having to postpone our wedding due to Covid, Cindy was there for us every step of the way. She was always quick to reply to our questions and offered very helpful advice. On the day of our wedding, Cindy was a calming presence and our ceremony was absolutely perfect thanks to her! We highly recommend working with her and are so grateful for her help and expertise.

Michaela S

8/19/2021

Cindy was great to work with! She was with us through all of the stages, and our ceremony was beautiful.

Sally M

8/18/2021

Cindy was truly a joy to work with on our 30 year vow renewal. From the first call she knew I needed her support and expertise to make the day special. Thanks to her 'starter' templates we were able to customize our vows to reflect 30 years of love and laughter. Many thanks!

Tammy C

8/10/2021

Cindy was very professional and great to work with. She worked with us to set up a perfect ceremony and made the night go seamless. We would recommend her to anyone wanting to get married.

Camilla L

8/01/2021

Cindy was attentive, responsible and all around great! She offered help every step of the way.

Christine M

4/04/2021

We are so happy that we chose Cindy to officiate our wedding! She worked with us to make sure that our ceremony was exactly as we wanted it. I highly recommend Weddings by Design to anyone looking for an exceptional level of professionalism and care from a wedding officiant. Thank you so much!

response 04/04/2021

Thanks so much Luke and Christine!

Charlie & Lynne K

8/13/2020

Cindy happily agreed to do our covid-era micro-wedding on rather short notice. She sprang into action, interviewing us almost immediately to get a sense of who we were as a couple, and then sent a bunch of potential material for the service and vows. We picked and chose elements we liked, and introduced some of our own, then Cindy put it all together into a coherent whole. She was very responsive and made it all come together in plenty of time. On the day of the wedding, she was on time and ready to go. The service went beautifully and Cindy was an integral part. We were happy to have her there and appreciated her professionalism and friendliness.

response 08/13/2020

That was one of the nicest reviews I have gotten! Thanks again so much! Cindy

Brian L

7/27/2020

Cindy was fantastic to work with! We customized our entire ceremony and she delivered it perfectly. She was extremely helpful in the beginning by providing sample ceremonies for us to draw ideas from, and was so helpful as our wedding plans changed with the ongoing pandemic. Cindy is a true professional and we would recommend her to anyone!

response 07/27/2020

Thank you, thank you, thank you, it really means a lot to me!!! May you be on your honeymo...

on forever!! Cindy

Chris & Erin C

6/29/2020

Cindy was a pleasure to work with, from the initial meeting to discuss our plans and collaborating to create a ceremony that was perfect for us, to adapting to more than a few major changes. Thanks to her help, we were able to have a simple, beautiful Cape wedding outdoors with family by our side.

Elise T

6/25/2020

Lucinda Graham (Cindy) was great to work with! She met with us early in the planning process, provided us with ample ideas for writing our ceremony, and was flexible based on the changes that we made. Through the COVID-19 challenge, she stayed in regular communication and supported us in moving forward with our social-distanced ceremony. In terms of logistics, our wedding was on a public beach and Cindy's voice translated excellently - all of our guests were able to clearly hear the entirety of our ceremony. Overall we highly recommend her!

Diana M

4/22/2020

We found Weddings by Design online because we wanted to get married on Cape Cod and wanted an officiant who would help us tailor our service to our preferences. Cindy had many suggestions and sent us several examples to choose from, combine and modify. She was flexible in terms of location, date and time. She spoke beautifully with warmth as well as professionalism. She was the perfect officiant for us and we'd recommend her highly.

Danielle B

11/14/2019

Cindy was absolutely wonderful! We are so glad that we chose her as the officiant for our ceremony! She was so lovely and easy to work with. She had great ideas for the ceremony and we were able to work with her to create exactly what we wanted. Her words were so heartfelt and not only did we love her, but I had numerous guests tell us how great they thought she was! We highly recommend working with Cindy!!

Christa P

10/22/2019

Cindy is fantastic! She made our ceremony so special. She was always prompt with her replies. She met with us multiple times to help us to curate the perfect day. She is such a bright and positive person and she truly kept us at ease during stressful moments. We can't recommend her enough! Thank you Cindy!!

Kiersten G

10/07/2019

Cindy is a wonderful officiant for weddings. When you first meet with her she'll explain her role and will give you some examples of past wedding ceremonies and examples of parts of the such as readings and unity ceremonies. You can plan your ceremony with her via email. I ended up wanting to write my own ceremony and get input from Cindy on its length and flow. She did a great job working with us on the ceremony and officiating the day of. Highly recommend!

Alexandra T

9/30/2019

Cindy was lovely and professional and made us both feel comfortable about the whole process. We wanted a ceremony that was short but meaningful, and she helped us achieve exactly what we had envisioned. She was very easy to work with, and I recommend her highly.

Ashley S

9/27/2019

Cindy was fantastic!!! She was very professional and easy to get in contact with the entire time. She explained things to me that I didn't know of or understood and ran me through the entire process. She was also very prompt with paperwork too! We were originally going to have a friend marry us but he mixed up the dates and was away on vacation on our wedding weekend and I'm so glad I found Cindy to perform the ceremony. I was told by so many guests after the wedding that she knocked it out of the park! I would definitely recommend her - a 5-star rating!

Emma H

9/15/2019

Cindy was fantastic to work with. Upon meeting, she provided us with several ceremony options and allowed us to use them to customize our ceremony exactly how we wanted it. Additionally, she was willing to provide feedback once we created our ceremony script. She was very professional to work with, yet also made us feel very comfortable every step of the way. On the day of, she worked hand in hand with our venue and DJ to make sure that the ceremony went smoothly and we had nothing to worry about. We highly recommend Cindy!

Katie P

9/07/2019

We're so glad we found Cindy to perform our ceremony. My (now) husband and I wanted to get married on a beach with only the two of us present. We picked Cindy because she has so much experience officiating all kinds of weddings. We knew that she wouldn't push us to do anything traditional we didn't want to do, and we knew she would take our event just as seriously as any larger wedding. We felt so comfortable the moment we met with her. She sent us many ceremony examples that really helped us design the event. Everything went according to plan on the big day. Cindy did a wonderful reading of the ceremony and made us feel so comfortable. We're very happy she officiated our wedding and we highly recommend her.

Brittney G

8/30/2019

Cindy was amazing!!! Since the first time we chatted via email to our wedding ceremony she was nothing but helpful! She listened to all our special details and even added in a personal story about us as a couple which was important to us. She gave us numerous options for vows and let us click and paste and add whatever we wanted to make it ours! She was so attentive to detail and making the day about us and giving us what we wanted! I highly recommend Cindy!

Julia F

8/22/2019

Cindy was an amazing JP! She provided us with different ceremony scripts and was very accommodating when it came to making changes. She incorporated different styles we wanted to add during the ceremony including a reading about the elements of the Earth. She was also always on time and very responsive to all emails and phone calls. I would give her ten stars if I could! She really took a lot of stress off of me when it came time for the rehearsal. She took control and made sure everything ran smoothly. Also it poured right as I walked down the aisle and it did not phase Cindy at all! She is excellent Julia

Deona B

8/20/2019

We started planning our Surprise Wedding towards the end of July, for our wedding date of August 17th. Cindy answered my emails in a very timely manor and called to initiate a meeting. We told our guests we were having an engagement party but it turned into a wedding. Cindy was on board to help us with the surprise and it went off without a hitch. Our guests were surprised and Cindy was so nice and fit right in with our family. A few people asked me who’s family member she was because she blended with us so well! She had us look over vows ahead of time and said she could help with any part of the vows if we needed it. Very professional and I would definitely recommend her!

Felishia A

8/04/2019

She was a very kind and supportive and welcoming JOP we were hoping to get someone to marry us that would feel like we could be ourselves and comfortable as we were already so nervous so to get someone so sweet with such an amazing character was awesome I would recommend her to anyone planning to get married!

response 08/04/2019

Thank you so much for the nice review. I will try and get some pictures off to you. Cindy

Pam/ Charlie C

7/24/2019

Lucinda was very sweet, professional, punctual . We were very pleased with her part in our wedding! She was wonderful. She made both of us feel comfortable, my husband is a sentimental person and was having a hard time saying his vows. She was very patient with him and it was the hottest day of the year!

Michele B

7/10/2019

Cindy was great! Very flexible and responsive. She communicated in a timely manner. She shared several scripts of vows that we were able to adapt. I highly recommend her.

Rachel L

5/29/2019

Cindy was excellent! Great customized ceremony for us, and she stood out in the rain with us like a champ. She was great to work with, and we'll always remember her.

Alex A

10/19/2018

I am not an easy person to get in contact with as I work 50+ hours a week, but Cindy didnt let that ruin anything! We had wanted a beach wedding with just a few friends, and it was more than I could have ever wanted. She is flexible, incredibly professional, superbly kind, and very understanding and helpful for the novice bride or groom. I highly recommend using her!

Michelle K

10/13/2018

Cindy worked with us to create a personalized ceremony. Guests have commented on how the ceremony was very us. I recommend working with Cindy for your wedding officiant.

response 10/15/2018

thank you Michelle for the kind words!!

Erin P

9/29/2018

Cindy was a wonderful officiant - she listened to our feedback and helped us create a ceremony that was truly us! She battled the wind at West Dennis Beach and kept our ceremony moving despite the crazy gusts. She was responsive and kind, and kept us laughing with a wonderful sense of humor. Cindy was kind enough to attend our rehearsal at the last minute (despite our initial decline) when I was feeling a little stressed. I am confident Cindy will make any ceremony memorable and unique - thank you!!!

Shelby-Lynn R

9/11/2018

Cindy was a wonderful officiant. She was professional, timely, and wonderful to work with. Cindy was very helpful when it came to putting together our ceremony and making it our own. I always received an email response within 24 hours (usually a lot less time) and had the ability to call her with any questions. We received great feedback as well from our family and friends who attended our wedding. All were impressed with the ceremony Cindy helped us to create. We highly recommend her!

Charles L

9/06/2018

In one word - Incredible ! Cindy made the process a breeze, this was a surprise for my Wife, we are together 32 years on September 4th, we travel to Chatham every year now for over a decade and we were going to be on the Cape on this date and I wanted to surprise her with a vow renewal and thankfully I was lucky enough to find Weddings by Design, Cindy was just outstanding in every way, from helping me through selecting dates to the renewal vows and setting up the surprise, she was in constant contact through the whole process and without her help it definitely would not have gone so easily, if you are looking for the most helpful, professional, pleasant person to guide you through and perform your wedding or renewal, look no further Weddings by Design is the place, they only have 5 stars to rate but Cindy is a 10 out of 10

Peter A

9/05/2018

Cindy was awesome!!! I would recommended her highly.

Angela W

8/16/2018

Cindy was incredible to work with. We got married in Brewster, MA which is far from our home is Wisconsin! Cindy was responsive through the process and answered all of our questions. She helped us put together our dream wedding ceremony. We will forever cherish her role in our big day!

Carrie K

8/06/2018

Cindy was quick to respond to me concerning our destination wedding in the Cape all the way from Texas. Our ceremony went off without a hitch. My husband mentioned how well he liked her officiating and we are both very pleased. She did a great job!

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