The Architect of your Love Story
Monterey area, Paso Robles, Santa Cruz
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Paul Richards
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Operating out of Salinas, CA, Weddings By Paully is an experienced wedding officiant who is dedicated to spreading love and happiness.
Welcome to Weddings by Paully, where love stories come to life! I'm Paul Richards, also known as Paully, a retired pastor with over 30 years of experience. At Weddings by Paully, I specialize in creating personalized wedding ceremonies that uniquely reflect each couple's love story, ensuring your special day is unforgettable.
Having officiated weddings and provided pre-marital counseling throughout my years in the ministry, Weddings by Paully is a heartfelt venture inspired by my passion for uniting couples. I am certified in Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts pre-marital education, offering valuable guidance to set the foundation for a strong and enduring marriage.
As a seasoned romantic, I bring creativity and warmth to your ceremony, making it a truly magical experience. Congratulations, happy couple! Let Weddings by Paully be the architect of your love story, turning your wedding day into a cherished memory that will last a lifetime.
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- Paul RichardsownerI'm Paul Richards - my friends call me Paully - and I'm a hopeless romantic! I love weddings! At Weddings by Paully, I want to make your special day unique and remembered by you and all who attend. Additionally, recognizing the significance of this pivotal moment in your life, I provide pre-marital counseling to support you on your journey to a lasting and fulfilling marriage.
- Gina P.associate officiantHi - I'm Gina. It is truly a joy to weave words together in a way that invites you, the couple, and the audience into a journey through your unique story and commitment to one another. Guiding you seamlessly through tenderness and laughter, my goal in officiating your ceremony is to support and spotlight your joy on this special day. Congratulations on your new chapter!”
Reviews
5.0
out of 5.039 reviews
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Paully, the officiant for multiple reviewers' weddings, is highly praised for creating personalized, meaningful ceremonies that perfectly capture the essence of each couple’s love story. Reviewers found him to be professional, communicative, and warm, guiding them through the process effortlessly. With attention to detail and a personal touch, Paully created heartfelt ceremonies that left a lasting impression on couples and guests alike, making their special day unforgettable. Highly recommended for anyone seeking an officiant who adds authenticity and wisdom to the ceremony.Review photos
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Jonathan U
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5.0
9/08/2025
Paully was awesome! He made the whole process so smooth and easy. When planning a wedding, there’s always a million things to take care of, and he made this part feel effortless. We especially loved how he kept everything personal and meaningful, incorporating our answers to questions he asked us and little details about us into the ceremony. It felt like ‘us’ not just something generic. We’d absolutely recommend him to anyone looking to get married! Thanks again, Paully!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 09/09/2025
Thanks so much Jonathan and congratulations to you and Taylor - and thanks for letting me ...
be a part of your special day!
Brooks B
5.0
11/24/2025
Well finally after coming down from cloud 9 from the day we said I do, 6 weeks later my wife and I are still talking about our special day. Paully picked the most picturesque back drop for us to speak our forever love. It was so easy and natural, my wife and I couldn’t be happier with how it all transpired. Thank you for making our day stress free, special and memorable for the rest of our lives. Thanks so much Paully!
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Katelyn W
5.0
11/21/2025
I cannot give enough stars, so 5 stars will have to do! Our entire experience with Paul as our officiant was excellent! We had an initial phone call with Paul to talk about the ceremony, our story, and overall how we wanted our big day to feel. Paul not only listened, but made sure to include little details in the ceremony that made it feel special. Thank you, Paul, for being a part of our best day!
Drey C
5.0
11/06/2025
We had a destination elopement and Paully created a script that perfectly matched the Wedding. He is a great professional, and I highly recommend him to anyone looking for an officiant.
Janeza C
5.0
10/29/2025
We had the most amazing elopement in Big Sur this weekend, and Paul made the experience absolutely perfect. He was so communicative and easy to work with leading up to the ceremony, which helped everything go smoothly the day of. The ceremony itself felt so personal and meaningful. Exactly what we envisioned. We couldn’t have asked for a better officiant to be part of such a special moment. Highly recommend!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks so much Janeza - what a location! Congrats to you and Ruben. Thank you so much fo...
r allowing me to be part of your special day!
Amy H
5.0
10/23/2025
Our interaction with Paully was wonderful from beginning to end! We started with pre-marital counseling and thoroughly enjoyed the process. It was something we both looked forward to each week, leading up to our wedding. Our wedding ceremony was beautiful and that is thanks to Paully! He did a magnificent job of showcasing our story, highlighting our love, incorporating a meaningful reading and he did it all with class and sophistication. Paully was always prompt, kind, and brought just the right amount of humor to our interactions, too. We’re so happy with our choice! Highly recommend him for your wedding!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks so much Amy - it was a wonderful gift to be a part of your wedding. It was so much...
fun getting to know you and Paul. Congrats again!
LUKE D
5.0
10/20/2025
Paully made our experience absolutely incredible. His words of wisdom and sincerity were beyond expectations. Communication was easy and simple. Would highly recommend Paully for ceremonies. So personable.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks so much Luke for letting me be part of your awesome day. Congrats to you and Aliso...
n. It was fun hearing all of our connections. And what a beautiful location!
JonPaul M
5.0
10/07/2025
Paul was with us from beginning to end. He took time to get to know both of us and made our day so special. We couldn't have asked for a better ceremony
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks so much JonPaul - it was a beautiful and intimate ceremony. Congrats to you and Jai...
me. Thank you so much for allowing me to be part of your special day! Still need to come by and have that glass of wine!
Bobby S
5.0
10/04/2025
After talking to a few other officiants we finally connected with Paully and couldnt've have been happier. Paully made us feel at home and we are so appreciative that he was able to officiate our weeding. Where other officiants felt over the top, Paully's words and tone felt right. He is extremely responsive and made our ceremoney feel very personal and warm. I can't tahnk him enough for his efforts and I highly recommend you choose Paully for our wedding!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks so much Bobby - it was a wonderful day. Congrats to you and Becky. Thank you so mu...
ch for allowing me to be part of your special day!
Jordan A
5.0
9/30/2025
Paul was amazing when we were looking for someone for our wedding. He created such a special ceremony for my husband and I and curated it specifically to us. He asked us questions and needed our answers separately and used our answers in our ceremony. I had so many people tell me how special our ceremony was and how beautiful it was. Thank you Paul!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks, Jordan, for the review and for letting me be a part of your special day. Great ti...
me and beautiful location! Congrats to you and Caleb!
Jason M
5.0
9/16/2025
Paul was perfect and made us feel super super super comfortable and at ease throughout the entire process. From the discussions, zoom calls, and everything in between leading up to the ceremony, we felt confident that the special date would be perfect. We were right; it was. Paul made it personalized and included some humor in it as well. Many of our guests even made the comment afterwards, “your officiant was great!” We agree, he was! Thank you for everything and thanks for making the special day special!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks, Jason, for the review and for letting me be a part of your special day. It was a ...
lovely, intimate ceremony. Congrats to you and Gina!
Chris N
5.0
9/07/2025
Paul was great during the entire process. He created a very nice customized ceremony for us. He was very nice and helpful, we highly recommend Paul.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 09/09/2025
Thanks so much Chris and congrats again to you and Danielle!
Grace H
5.0
7/27/2025
We are so grateful to have had Paul as our officiant! He made our ceremony feel incredibly personal, heartfelt, and true to who we are as a couple. From the very beginning, he took the time to get to know us and thoughtfully customized the entire sermon to reflect our story, values, and what we wanted the ceremony to feel like. We couldn’t have imagined a better person to guide us into marriage. Highly recommend!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks Grace - you and Sean are the best! Wish I could've stayed for the party! Congratu...
lations!
Deanna P
5.0
6/23/2025
He listened to exactly what my husband and I were looking for in an officiant and he executed flawlessly!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 11/04/2025
Thanks Deanna - it was a pleasure working with you and Bradley. Congratulations and thank...
s for letting me be a part of it!
Tiffany B
5.0
6/21/2025
We couldn't have asked for a better officiant than Paul for our wedding. He was absolutely amazing—warm, friendly, and incredibly thoughtful in every way. From the very start, he made the ceremony feel personal and genuine, taking the time to get to know us and our story. His ability to personalize the ceremony and incorporate some of our personality into it and honor our beliefs as well is beyond compare.
Paul was not only professional, but also kind, courteous, and easy to work with. He helped create a ceremony that felt truly “us,” and we’ll always be grateful for the role he played in such a special moment. Highly recommend him to anyone looking for a meaningful and memorable officiant for their wedding ceremony!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 06/21/2025
Thanks so much Tiffany - it was a treat getting to know you two - congrats!
Olivia S
5.0
5/19/2025
As a wedding planner, I’ve worked with many officiants, and I can confidently say this one stands out. Professional, warm, and incredibly well-spoken, they set the perfect tone for the ceremony—personal, heartfelt, and memorable. They were also organized, punctual, and easy to communicate with throughout the planning process, which made my job so much smoother. I highly recommend them to any couple looking for a meaningful and seamless ceremony experience.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 05/19/2025
Thanks so much Olivia - you're the best!
Peter W
5.0
5/13/2025
We’re so grateful to have had Paul as our officiant. From the start, he took the time to truly get to know us and understand what we envisioned for our ceremony. The result was a beautifully written, heartfelt ceremony that felt incredibly personal and meaningful. His thoughtful approach and genuine presence made our day feel even more special. We couldn’t have asked for anyone better to guide us through our ceremony. We would highly recommend him over and over again.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 05/13/2025
Thanks so much Peter and Lauren for allowing me to be a special part of your day. The wea...
ther, location and couple were all perfect! Congrats!
Tracey G
5.0
5/05/2025
Met with Paul prior to the ceremony and had such a warm caring feeling from him. He took the time to listen and capture the details of how we wanted our special day to go. On our day he arrived early, dressed perfect for the occasion. by the time the ceremony was done we felt like we had known Paul for a long time by the way he captured what we wanted and the kind loving words he wrote for our ceremony. We highly recommend Weddings by Paully.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 05/05/2025
Thanks so much Tracey for allowing me to be a part of your wonderful day and thanks for th...
e great review as well. It was a pleasure meeting you and Troy. Congratulations!!
Leena S
5.0
5/01/2025
Paul was amazing! He was a great communicator, gave a fantastic speech, and was flexible with our schedule/location! Thank you for being part of our elopement, Paul!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 05/01/2025
Thanks so much Leena for letting me be a part of your very special day. It was great meet...
ing you and Brandon! Congratulations!!
Dominc G
5.0
4/24/2025
Paul did a fantastic job with our wedding. We added our own flare to the ceremony and he was very flexible and accommodating about what we wanted to put in.
We originally wanted to do a candle lighting ceremony, however the venue where we held the ceremony did not allow open flames. We ended up opting for a hand fasting ceremony. Although he had never performed one before, and we live pretty far away, he came the day before for our rehearsal and we practiced it so we could get it just right.
Weeks before the wedding, he sent us a short questionnaire to get to know us better and personalize our ceremony. We loved it and our guests loved it. Paul Richards helped to make our special day very memorable and we wouldn’t have gone with anyone else!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 04/24/2025
Thanks so much Tiffany and Dominic for allowing me to be a part of your special day. It w...
as truly a joy to see all the family and kids up there participating in the ceremony. Congratulations!!
Grace H
5.0
4/23/2025
We had an amazing experience working with Paul for our pre-marital counseling! He guided us through the SYMBIS assessment and took the time to walk us through our results over five thoughtful and insightful sessions. From the start, he made us feel completely comfortable—he’s a great listener, incredibly open, and never judgmental. His advice was both practical and meaningful, helping us gain a deeper understanding of each other and setting a strong foundation for our marriage. We truly appreciate his guidance and would highly recommend him to any couple looking for a supportive and knowledgeable officiant!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 04/23/2025
Thanks so much Grace - it was my pleasure getting to know you and Sean! It's no small thi...
ng trusting me with your stories, being vulnerable and honest. You two are an inspiration! Looking forward to the wedding!
Irene
5.0
4/02/2025
Although we had to unexpectedly change our plans for my daughter Aliyah's event due to medical reasons, Weddings by Paully didn't just adapt, he wholeheartedly embraced the challenge with grace, compassion, and creativity. I reached out to Paully to help us create a Sweet 16 ceremony for my daughter that honored her multicultural background and personal journey. He went above and beyond to understand the emotional and cultural significance behind every detail.
He took on the challenge, did his research, he is always going above and beyond to deliver nothing short of extraordinary, I have used his service in the past and he always delivers not only a beautiful ceremony, but deeply personal, meaningful, and unforgettable experience.
Paully is truly a gift. He is an amazing person to work with: a thoughtful listener, incredibly kind, and deeply respectful of each individual's story. He was consistently responsive, dependable, and professional throughout the entire process, offering superb quality of service with unmatched flexibility. Every interaction with him reflected his genuine care and dedication.
And here's something special, Paully has a hidden, God-given talent, he sings like an angel.
When I learned about his voice, I asked if he would sing at the event, and he graciously said yes. His performances ALWAYS add a magical and emotional touch that moves everyone in attendance.
If you're looking for someone who brings not just professionalism and excellence, but true heart and soul to your special day, Weddings by Paully is it. We are beyond grateful and will absolutely work with him again and again in the future.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 04/03/2025
Ah...you are too kind Irene - thank you for those kind words! I'm sure we'll work togethe...
r again in the future.
Dalilah
5.0
3/18/2025
Paul was incredibly communicative, which made planning our special day a breeze and truly enjoyable. If you're considering an intimate or larger ceremony in the Big Sur or Monterey area, we wholeheartedly recommend Weddings by Paully—10 out of 10!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 03/20/2025
Thanks so much Dalilah - what a beautiful setting and a beautiful family!
Allie C
5.0
10/18/2024
Paul was absolutely amazing! He stayed in touch throughout the whole process and answered any questions that we had. We got so many compliments on how amazing he did. We highly recommend.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/18/2024
Thanks so much Allie - it was a great evening - congrats!
Adriana F
5.0
10/15/2024
Paul is incredible! We're so grateful we had Paul officiate our wedding. He was easy to work with, communicative, and thoughtful. We had meetings leading up to the wedding, where he got to know our love story and we worked on the ceremony script together. We appreciated his personal touch to his well-written script. He executed the ceremony perfectly and made it unforgettable. I highly recommend working with Paul if you're looking for an officiant. Thank you so much for being a part of our wedding and making it so heartfelt and special!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Adriana - it was a perfect day!! Congrats to you and Curtiss!
Brian J
5.0
10/06/2024
When we were selecting an Officiant for our elopement, we wanted someone who would really put care into the ceremony and make it feel special. We had our location, had our outfits, had all the details set... but then what would the ceremony be? What words should be said to make this the most magical day for us and ground its meaning. That was exactly what Paul brought us. The words he crafted and selected to unite us were perfect for the moment, meaningful and tender. We were married within the majestic redwoods in Big Sur, and he wove all these grandiose surroundings into the ceremony with beautiful metaphors and a wonderful service. We would suggest Paul to anyone looking for the right touch in a perfect wedding.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Brian - congrats to you and Kara!
Kelly T
5.0
10/02/2024
We are incredibly grateful to have had Paully as our wedding officiant! His pre-marital counseling program was a wonderful opportunity for us to focus on our relationship before the big day. Paully guided us through meaningful discussions, helping us discover new things about each other while reinforcing our existing bond. His reassuring presence and passion for successful marriages truly made a difference.
Just before the ceremony, Paully greeted us with warm hugs, setting a joyful tone for the entire event. Many of our family members approached us afterward, sharing how much they loved the ceremony (as did we!). We also asked Paully to bless us with a short prayer, which meant so much to us, and he kept it comfortable for our families of all backgrounds/faiths.
To top it all off, Paully and his wife joined us for cocktail hour and the reception dinner, making the celebration even more special. We wholeheartedly recommend him to any couple looking for a warm, professional, and passionate officiant. Thank you, Paully, for making our wedding day truly unforgettable!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Congrats Kelly and Ari - it was my pleasure getting to know you both. Thanks for letting ...
me be part of your big day!
Hans v
5.0
9/12/2024
Paully was incredible — we reached out to him on a Saturday morning and he married us that afternoon(!) My financée and I had discussed eloping before she went back to school and had already picked up a marriage license and rings. We were taking a weekend getaway to Monterey (for Chinese Valentine’s Day) and realized we may be able to get married while we were there. After exchanging a few messages, Mr. Richards made himself available on short-notice, and his wife served as witness and filmed the impromptu ceremony for us. While we were on the road from SF to Monterey, Paully found a location and wrote a script. In a matter of hours, we’d managed to put together a perfect ceremony at Lover’s Point. It would not have been possible without Mr. & Mrs. Richards’ willingness to pull something together for us at a moment’s notice. They were kind, attentive, and truly seemed to care about making our day special. I have no hesitation recommending him for your own wedding 😊
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks so much Hans - my pleasure!
Mark A
5.0
8/27/2024
We couldn't be happier with our experience working with Paully as our wedding officiant. From the very beginning, Paully was incredibly professional and guided us through every step of the process, making everything feel easy and stress-free. He took the time to get to know us and truly captured the essence of our love story, crafting a beautiful and heartfelt ceremony that felt uniquely ours. His attention to detail and warm presence made our wedding day even more special. We are so grateful for the role Paully played in our celebration and would highly recommend him to anyone looking for a wonderful officiant. Thank you, Paully, for making our day unforgettable!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks so much Mark - congrats to you and Laura!
Heather B
5.0
6/25/2024
A handful of my friends have chosen Paully to be their wedding officiant, and he has always done an incredible job. He adds so many personal touches to the ceremony, speaks with authenticity and wisdom, and truly cares about each couple. He and his wife have their own beautiful love story, and I feel like the joy in his ceremonies stems from his own happiness. I highly recommend Weddings by Paully!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Heather!
Veronica M
5.0
6/23/2024
My fiance (now husband) and I decided to elope. We are from PA and decided for out epic location to be out in Monterey, CA. Neither of us had ever been there and we had very little knowledge about the area or things to do, other than we knew the scenery was breathtaking. I found Paul on the Knot and it was a blessing in disguise. He offered reasonable prices for our short and small private ceremony. You could tell he still put an incredible amount of effort, thought, and love into our ceremony. We met shortly on Facetime and from that one meeting, he captured our love story perfectly. He also provided us plenty of recommendations on what to do in the area which eased my anxiety about coming to an area I knew little about. Even though we were running behind on the day of the ceremony Paul was kind enough to wait for us to arrive at our location and did not pressure us. I cannot describe how amazing his short sermon was. It was all truly beautiful thanks to Paul.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Veronica - congrats to you and Bryce. It was a spectacular day!
Desi B
5.0
5/26/2024
We weren’t able to use Paully as our officiant, but he was very informative and courteous! If we had the option to use this gentleman, he would be our FIRST choice!
Rebecca V
5.0
3/06/2024
My husband and I were incredibly blessed by Paul the day of our wedding! He did a fantastic job making sure our ceremony was unique, meaningful, and in line with our previously discussed desires!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Becca!
Adam R
5.0
3/06/2024
Paully is so great! He married my wife and me about 7 years ago and we still keep in touch today!
He wrote the most memorable and personal wedding script for us. The words Paul used, along with the ones we said to each other, are so meaningful to us that this past year I framed and gifted them in a big picture frame to my wife.
Thank you Paully!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Adam!
Christin S
5.0
3/04/2024
It was so special having Paul as our officiant. He was wonderful to work with as we planned and crafted the ceremony together. His care and dedication to creating a beautiful and special moment for us and our guests was evident throughout the entire process. I would wholeheartedly recommend Paul!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Christin!
Holly M
5.0
3/01/2024
Paul puts so much time and effort into personalizing an absolutely beautiful wedding ceremony. The time he spent with each of my girls and their fiancés was above and beyond. I cannot recommended his highly enough!
Mother of the brides
Holly Mann
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Holly!
Alissa C
5.0
3/01/2024
If you’re getting married on the Central Coast, I highly recommend Paully! I was in the wedding party of a wedding he officiated and it was easily one of the most thoughtful and beautiful ceremonies I’ve attended. Paul took the time to get to know the couple and their story, and crafted a unique and perfect ceremony.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Lis!
Sue H
5.0
3/01/2024
I attended a wedding that was officiated by Weddings By Paully. It was a beautiful outdoor wedding. The relaxed and romantic setting for the ceremony was further enhanced by the sweet message and vibe produced by WBP. We all experienced the seriousness of the vows, mixed with warmth and humor provided by WBP. 10 out of 10 recommend!!
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Sue!
Aimee A
5.0
3/01/2024
I was in a wedding party officiated by weddings by Paully. It was the most personalized and meaningful ceremony I have ever been a part of. If you want something truly unique and catered to you Paully is your guy.
Response from Weddings By Paully on 10/16/2024
Thanks Aim!
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