We didn't want to stress over all the wedding details. So, instead of risking offending any of our friends or family by even having a small wedding, we decided to just have us, and my kids (my son was best man, and my daughter was MOH). We us...ed a cell phone to stream it to all of our friends and family real time on ustream. It worked great!
We did it on the spur of the moment (decided... "hey, why not just do it tomorrow, and get it done?"), and so we did. Rose cleared her schedule for us, and even had suggestions on how to find a venue. We ended up calling up the Rohnert Park recreation department, and discovered we didn't need a permit... just go and do it!
The funniest part is, we did it at a duck pond, and all the ducks came out of the pond, and sat behind the cell phone that was streaming everything... like our own audience! It was hilarious. But I digress...
Rose was great, and I'd highly recommend her to anyone wanting a beautiful ceremony.