About this vendor
Based out of Palm Springs, Ca, and as a member of the LGBTQ+ community, Allen’s Whispered Vows is an accomplished wedding officiating business led by certified celebrant Allen Bencomo. As a member of several clergy and wedding associations, this talented professional has earned a reputation for his compassionate approach to officiating.
Allen’s Whispered Vows presides over marital occasions in Palm Springs and its surrounding areas. Keen to make sure that your "I do" moment represents your wishes, he will be sure to include the traditions that you hold dear. He specializes in secular ceremonies, but with a touch of religious or interfaith celebrations if you wish.
Having been trained in ritual writing, Allen can't wait to help you and your beloved in creating your own heartfelt vows. In addition to weddings, he serves elopements, vow renewals, and marriage license signings. AND offers Transgender Naming Ceremonies FREE of charge. Considering your input to be key, he will work diligently to create a personalized meaningful ceremony that showcases your romantic connection.
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Business Attributes
- Hispanic or Latinx-owned Business
- LGBTQ+-owned Business
Ceremony Types
- Civil Union
- Commitment Ceremony
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
Religious Affiliations
- Secular
- Spiritual
Wedding Activities
- Wedding
- Ceremony
Awards and Affiliations
2023 'Best of Weddings'
Best of Weddings
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We are so happy that we chose Allen to officiate our wedding!
Allen met with us many times throughout our wedding planning process to learn about our love story and to guide us th...
rough getting our marriage license. He was always ahead of schedule, getting us a draft of the ceremony months before our wedding, giving us plenty of time to make edits. He was very open to our feedback, though the first draft of the ceremony was incredible, and we only had to make a few small tweaks. We could tell that he really understood our connection and what makes our relationship special.
Allen crafts all his ceremonies himself, which makes his ceremonies particularly touching and genuine. The ceremony was nothing short of beautiful. It had the right balance of sincere and authentic tones, with some funny and sweet moments thrown in. His delivery was perfect; he was well-spoken, articulate, and just a great public speaker overall. Most people in the audience cried, and we got so many comments afterwards from our friends and family about how special the ceremony was and how much it touched them.
Allen officiated our wedding October 21, 2023. While celebrating our first anniversary and reminiscing on how perfect our day was, we were highlighting how big of a role Allen play...
ed to make that happen. I then realized I never wrote a review and now here I am! Allen was not only professional, but also so warm and crafted our dream ceremony with little effort on our part. I had so much anxiety about the wedding until he sent his first draft and it was near perfect, it felt like the whole day came together. He took the time to get to know my husband and me to make sure everything that was important to us was included. On the day of the wedding, he was so gracious and performed the ceremony so sincerely it moved almost all of our guests to tears. He wasn't just reading words on a page and we have found that to be a really rare quality. I can't express enough how thankful we are to Allen and what an excellent choice he would be for your wedding!
The Officient Allen Bencomo is a professional who was committed to doing his best for my son and his bride. His training and experience helped him to be the best at handling all si...
tuations which reassured the newlyweds. He created a special, emotional and personal ceremony which touched not only the newlyweds but all their guests. We are still hearing wonderful compliments about Allen. We truly recommend Allen Bencomo and Whispered Vows!
Allen was amazing and helped make our wedding day special. He worked with us to create a catered ceremony. I had an indian wedding and Allen took the time to learn my culture and w...
as able to execute all of the different ceremonies with cultural accuracy. He was also able to provide some much needed stability to the whole process because Allen made it so easy to work with him. I think he was the only vendor that came through without any hitch during our wedding. Thanks Allen. Sorry this review came to late. I will forever be thankful.
Allen was a gem! Our guests were raving about our ceremony and the special added touches he added to make our day unforgettable! He had us laughing and crying and calm all at the...
same time! Do yourself a favor and have him be part of your special day!!!!!
I don’t even know where to begin. Allen was everything we ever wanted and more in a wedding officiant. Within the last couple of months before the big day, the relationship we deve...
loped with Allen felt so genuine and organic and just came so naturally. So when it came to our wedding day, the ceremony was so beautiful and memorable, to the point our guests assumed we had known Allen for years. They were just as obsessed with him as we are. He helped calm our nerves and made everything run so smoothly. Not only was he personable but he was very professional from beginning to end. We HIGHLY recommend booking with Allen, we will be recommending him to anyone we come across looking for an officiant. THANK YOU ALLEN, YOURE THE BEST!!!!!!!
Allen did an amazing job officiating our wedding. From the outset he was able to relate to our needs, understand the type of ceremony we were looking for and made some great sugges...
tions on the flow and content of the ceremony. His professionalism and friendly manner made him a joy to interact with throughout the process - even with very compressed timelines. He was polite and engaging with all the guests and dealt with everything we threw at him. I'd highly recommend Allen's Whispered Vows to anyone in the Coachella Valley looking for a professional and experienced officiant.
Allen is a true professional and was so helpful to us throughout the wedding planning process. Both my wife and I are from immigrant families and it was the first time any of us ha...
d gotten married in the United States, so everything was new to us. Allen walked us through the entire process from writing the vows to filing the licenses and made everything smooth and simple. Definitely the go-to officiant if you're tying the knot in SoCal!
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Palm Desert, CA | Palm Springs and surrounding areas
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