I couldn't be more happy with my choice to get married at White Oak. I think this was the most reasonably priced venue I looked at, and your options for food and drinks are vast. Jordan (event manager), Madison (our day of coordinator), and Ms.... Penny (day of service attendant) were all wonderful to work with. Even though we only met Madison the week of, it was like she was there the whole time. And Ms. Penny I met right before ceremony started, she was so sweet and always made sure my cup was full. She will also get drinks and food for your's and your spouse's parents. The weather wasn't great for our day (it was muggy and it rained during the ceremony), but that was okay because I wanted to get married under the covered pavilion outside with the fireplace lit. It was definitely a beautiful backdrop! The ballroom is very beautiful too, and I had a great time on the dance floor with friends and family... so much so that my bustle came undone a couple of times. Not to worry, Madison came to my rescue to redo the bustle. At the end of the night, White Oak gifted us with a John Folse cookbook (he owns the property) and sent us and both of our sets of parents home with leftover food.
The only things I didn't like were that I couldn't arrive until an hour before the wedding, and at that point it felt rushed because I had to get dressed there, take pictures of getting ready, do first look pictures, and by that time it was already time to line up the procession. I wish they would let brides arrive at least 2 hours beforehand so things don't feel as rushed. The second complaint is that the bridal suite was very hot, I don't think the thermostat worked. However, despite these complaints, I would do it here all over again because it was still perfect. Thanks so much to Jordan, Madison, and Penny for making the day perfect.
Edit 11/1/18: I heard from numerous guests that their drinks from the bar did not have a lot of alcohol. However myself, husband and our parents, our drinks were made perfectly (probably because we had a separate attendant making our drinks). I was really disappointed to hear that my guests' drinks were weak since I paid for an open bar, so I am docking one star. Hopefully the bartender is more considerate to future brides.