My husband and I loved taking lessons at Arthur Murray Dance Studio! Our teacher Alex was always so sweet and helpful! She choreographed the sweetest dance that was easy to execute but looked very fluid and made us look like pros! Putting these facts aside, if you might not think that you need lessons or a choreographed dance for your first dance, here is why you are wrong: The wedding planning process is really stressful, my husband and I would sometimes be arguing about a different wedding planning problem on our way to a dance lesson and looking each other in the eyes and dancing together was exactly what we needed to shake those stressful moments off! It was very grounding and helped us grow closer and rely on on another! This is something that carried over to our wedding day as well! At your wedding you will be surprised that you don't get as many moments as you would like to get one on one time with your beloved, to look them in the eyes and just smile and laugh. Because we had so much practice with Alex, we weren't thinking about the steps at all but just enjoying that moment together. I feel that if we had not taken lessons or had a choreographed dance then we would have just felt award the whole time and wanted it to be over as soon as possible, with everyone's eyes on us while we slow dance in circles not doing anything special. I don't think I even would have let my husband dip me is Alex hadn't showed us how to properly do a dip! Anyway, I could go on and on, I highly recommend this experience. It is something you will take with you forever and you could perform your special wedding dance for your kids someday. I know we will!