Aster Weddings & Events

Heather is the new owner of Aster (now Aster Estates) and I cannot speak highly enough of her. I did not worry about a thing on the day of my wedding. Moving up to the wedding, she helped us consider every detail, even things we would not have even thought of (will the caterer bring water? How to fold napkins?). She said up and moved all the little details. She even overnighted our bridal bouquet to the city after we left it there. Also very lgbtq friendly.

My husband and I got married at Aster this past August of 2023. The ownership of the property changed a few months before our wedding which scared us but it ended up being a seamless transition. Heather & John were so accommodating and receptive to our ideas. They worked hard to make sure things went exactly as we envisioned. Even when the weather forecast was predicting thunderstorms (and a tornado watch the morning of!), they reassured us that everything would work out fine and it did. The property itself is gorgeous and provided the perfect backdrop to our fun, summery wedding. We were originally worried that it might feel a bit cramped but the platform deck with the sailcloth tent is beautiful and spacious enough that we were able to fit 125 guests and an 8-piece band with ease. We also had guests playing lawn games and hanging out in the cocktail area all night. I can't say enough about the new ownership, they really went above and beyond to make our day great. Our guests are still talking about how beautiful the property is and what an amazing wedding we had there. 10/10 recommend!

I LOVED this venue so much! It's beautiful and a blank slate to let your creativity run wild. We had a Harry Potter theme, and it was so easy to keep decor minimal and elegant because the space itself is just so beautiful. Definitely recommend a fall wedding here, the leaves falling on the tent and in the ceremony area gave it all such a nice touch. The owners were very friendly and helpful when needed. They also helped with set up and tear down. Wish I could relive my wedding over and over!

If I could rate higher I would! Aster is an absolutely beautiful spot to get married and pictures doesn’t do it justice especially seeing it at night is extra special. Shannon made sure our day ran as smooth as possible and it was absolutely perfect! The vendors they recommended were amazing and made it perfect! A perfect spot if you’re looking for an affordable outdoors/rustic setting.

Aster is the perfect venue for an intimate wedding. If you’re looking for a location that has a cozy/wooded feel, or you want a highly professional and accommodating team, you will find everything and more with Shannon and her team at Aster. From the start, communication with Shannon was open and easy. She helped us plan a run down of the day and eased nerves when we felt like we had no idea what we were doing. Our day of coordination went so seamlessly that I still question how everything came together so perfectly! Planning and paying for a wedding can be extremely stressful but Aster’s venue is very affordable and truly one of a kind in its cozy feels and kind staff. My husband and I couldn’t have been happier with our day and know that we found a real gem when it came to this spot. Thank you for everything Shannon and Aster team—we couldn’t recommend you more!

I cannot say enough amazing things about Shannon and the team at Aster! From the beginning they are so helpful and fill you with excitement for your big day. The venue is reasonable and absolutely stunning. The atmosphere is so comfortable and will provide your guests with a gorgeous outdoor experience. Shannon was available to answer any and all questions I had. She helped me talk through ideas and provided suggestions for vendors and any challenges we had. She made the day of go so smoothly. Thank you all so much!!

We had the PERFECT wedding at Aster Wedding and Events. The venue is stunning, from the lovely ceremony area to the beautiful tent and very clean bathrooms. All our guests still love to remind us just how fun and beautiful everything was. The Communication was very easy and they always made sure to answer my questions and even offererd to give me a call whenever I had more. I truly believe this was the perfect wedding for us and others to come. You will not be disappointed with Aster. You will have your Dream wedding here.

We truly could not have picked a more perfect place to get married. This venue is so beautiful! Shannon is super nice and so helpful. We decided to have her as our day of coordinator as well and we didn't have to worry about a thing! Our guests kept talking about how amazing this place was and that if they were to get married in the future or renew vows they would want to do it here! There's plenty of venues in the finger lakes area but this one is really special.

We couldn't have asked for anything better than Aster Weddings and Events for our wedding venue. The owners, Shannon and Jess along with their husbands, have built the dream outdoor wedding venue. The venue is surrounded by beautiful greenery, trees, flowers, and even planters with luscious hops. The grounds are treated for insects, so bugs in August were really not a concern or problem for us. Given all of the greenery and nature, we needed very little decorations or flowers from our florist because the venue itself is just so naturally beautiful and well maintained. The owners have literally thought of everything, from having ceremony seating, reception seating and tables (so you don't have to rent them), to a beautiful bar, classy and clean bathrooms, and even a S'mores bar and firepit (available for an additional fee). The process of planning our wedding with Aster was seamless and honestly enjoyable. Shannon, our wedding coordinator, made everything so easy, fun and beautiful for us. Their sense of style is clearly portrayed through photos on their website and my wife and I definitely felt comfortable letting Shannon style and put final touches on everything (and we couldn't have done it better ourselves, it was honestly breathtaking). Our guests raved about the location, and we really enjoyed having the ceremony and reception places so close and complementing of each other. Our photographers enjoyed the landscaping and were able to capture some really amazing photos. We were able to get photos during sunset in a private area within the venue, and once the sun went down the string lighting throughout the bar area and in the tent made our night an absolute dream. I cannot say enough about Shannon and the team at Aster. They made everything seem so flawless, which helped us to really enjoy our wedding day with very little worry of the what ifs because we knew Shannon was behind the scenes taking care of everything. She worked with the vendors to coordinate the night, so that we really weren't bothered much and could enjoy the entire night. Prior to the wedding Shannon was in contact and met with us for timeline information, and specifics for our decorations, vendors, etc. If you're on the fence about Aster, it is a MUST see venue. When we visited, we immediately knew that their elegant style was what we were looking for, and we wouldn't have done it any other way. We are forever thankful for Shannon and that we chose Aster!

Without hesitation I say that this is the spot! Aster is a dream - a lush green space with a big whimsical tent & lights that make the whole place sparkle. The venue is beautiful and requires little (if any!) additional decor to make it shine. I heard only praise from my guests about the layout, amenities, and design. If you book here, I highly recommend working with Shannon as your day-of coordinator. She goes above and beyond to make planning streamlined, setup easy, and all day-of worries & requests dialed in. Our event was made phenomenal by Shannon's thoughtful attention to detail, and we're so glad we added on this service.

What an amazing venue. The most beautiful place for a wedding! Jess and Steven went above and beyond for us!! We were truly lucky to have Jess and Steven there on our wedding day. Jess was also our day of coordinator and she answered any and all questions I had. She decorated the venue for us, and I’m so glad she did, she made everything magical! We can’t recommend Aster enough! They will do everything to make sure your day is perfect and your happy!

I want to start by saying the venue is beautiful it is everything I imagined and wanted it to be! I was admittedly nervous about having to set up and tear down on the same day, but it all worked out well! We had lots of help from our family and wedding party which made it a breeze. I am only giving 4 stars however for some things that I found unprofessional. While the guys were setting up the husband was assisting them, Shannon however was showing the venue to a couple. Personally I feel like her attention should have been on us. The thing that irritated me the most was after the last guest had gotten their plate of food, she went up and helped herself to 2 HEAPING plates of food, leaving very small amounts of some items left. Now I had to give my caterer a guest count and I paid for that food for my GUESTS. If she had asked me if she could have had some I would have said yes, but the fact that she felt entitled to it and took well beyond a portion really bothered me.

This venue was amazing! Jess and Steven were so helpful, flexible, and generous with their time. It rained the whole day and all of our guests remained dry and it was so beautiful under the tent. I would recommend them to anyone!

We could not be more happy with our choice to have Aster host our wedding. From the very beginning of the process Shannon was incredible. She always took the time to answer our questions and we just knew that we could trust her to bring our vision for our wedding to life. She offered her guidance whenever we needed it. She is so professional and kind, responsive and creative. Her cool, calm, and collected demeanor is the exact energy you want to be surrounded by on your wedding day as wedding jitters are definitely a thing! She made us feel as ease from start to finish. Aster itself is a BEAUTIFUL venue. Our wedding was only about 40 people and the space was perfect for an intimate gathering. It would also be awesome for bigger weddings - being versatile like that is just one of the many appealing things of the venue. We loved how Aster offered fun add-ons like a s'mores bonfire (huge hit at our wedding!), and connected you with awesome vendors throughout the area. If you are looking to get married in Skaneateles, look no further than Aster!!

Our 9/18/2021 wedding was a literal dream come true—and that was largely in part because of this magical venue. First of all, fully obsessed with Jess & Steve. The best part of this venue is what a blank canvas it is—we brought 5 huge bins of decor to make all of my moody, vintage boho dreams come true. We hung framed photos all over the bordering fence and Jess went above & beyond in measured THE SPACES IN BETWEEN THE SLATS for me so we could ensure the frames could be hung. Like what! That's just one example of how great they are. Not to mention the intimate, romantic, beautiful space they've curated & poured so much love into. Something truly charmed about this place! Can't recommend it enough.

We had our dream wedding at Aster a few weeks ago - the venue is absolutely stunning (rain or shine) and working with the owners (I worked mostly with Jess & Steven) was a great experience. Aster is like a blank canvas, so our style really got to shine through with our decor/rentals/other vendors - honestly, we didn't need much in terms of decor given how lovely the tent/bar/surrounding landscaping already is. Jess and Steven were so helpful in the months leading up to our wedding - they are experts who know exactly how to make details come together and seemed to go above and beyond to make sure our day was very special. Communication was great, they were flexible when we had some last minute hiccups, and had many great recommendations for other vendors/how to use the space. Can't recommend Aster enough!

Aster can be found tucked away in the hillside of Skaneateles. It is a quaint and unique venue with so much to offer. The versatility of the space allowed us to be a creative as we wanted with table set up, decor and outside vendor placement. Aster does a great job of providing a vendor list on their website. This allowed me to choose vendors that knew the space and had already previously worked with Aster staffing. Jessica and Steven, who are part owner and operators of Aster, were hands down the best part of the Aster experience. Jessica was very responsive to any questions or concerns I had as my big day approached. Steven worked tirelessly the day of my wedding to ensure set up was perfect and everything ran smoothly through the night. When it came to feedback we received from our friends and family so many people were amazed at what Aster had to offer and a couple of our friends decided to look into Aster for their future weddings. I would highly recommend Aster to anyone looking to have a stress free, unique and perfect wedding day. I loved my experience and honestly don’t have a single negative thing to say.

My husband and I decided to renew our vows in the company of our family and friends and the Aster was the perfect place. I was able to plan and bring in my own venders while Shannon was able to provide me all the information I needed in a super timely fashion. The space is outdoors yet, very romantic and beautiful. We received so many compliments on how the venue was unlike any other and beautifully manicured. I would highly recommend this space to anyone looking for an outdoor venue.

Aster was absolutely incredible for our July wedding. My husband and I couldn't have been more thrilled with how it all came together! The tent and outdoor area is such a beautiful canvas to make your own. Highly recommend working with Shannon as a day of coordinator- she made the day perfect and stress-free.

You literally could not ask for a more gorgeous backdrop to celebrate love. The greenery and BIG tent makes for very picturesque event. Not to mention the built in fans to help keep everyone cool while dancing the night away! Jess was so responsive to all of our emails and was so receptive to our vision. We had to reschedule due to the pandemic and they were incredibly flexible. Our friends and family all loved the venue and throughout the night kept telling us how they would love to have their wedding here as well! Cannot recommend this venue more!

This venue is a true gem in the Skaneateles area. If you are looking for a beautiful outdoor venue with built-in tent, this is the spot for you. Aster has a rustic and artistic feel. It is spacious so that guests can roam, but also feels incredibly intimate and special. It’s a beautiful canvas on which you can add your own creative vision. For us, it was a gorgeous backdrop for our vintage garden wedding. We added the day of coordinator two months before our wedding. Shannon was wonderful to work with. She oversaw the setup, the cleanup, and every detail of the event so that my husband and I were free to enjoy the day. She executed our vision to a tee and promptly responded to all of our questions and concerns in the weeks leading up to the wedding. If you are in a position to add this service, I highly recommend it. For us, it was worth every penny. Shannon kept her finger on the pulse of the weather for us all day and made the call to move the ceremony under the tent due to weather. It worked out beautifully! Aster is super rain friendly. If it rains, it doesn’t really matter because the tent is as lovely at the grounds. I loved everything about working with Aster. Shannon and Jess were communicative and helpful throughout the process. They kept us updated about COVID-related changes and were great about answering many questions during our two site visits. Parking is tight, and with 100 people, we were able to coordinate guest carpooling, but this is definitely something to plan for. From start to finish, Aster was the perfect venue for our wedding!

The team at Aster was incredibly helpful throughout our wedding process over nearly 2.5 years, particularly when it came to navigating the pandemic. They were incredibly flexible in allowing us to reschedule our date by a year and kept us up-to-date on the quickly changing regulations and requirements in NY. Aster is also very easy to work with on setup and day-of setup/parking coordination and helped our wedding go off without any issues. They're also really flexible with allowing a number of different setups (we had a lounge, a bar area & yard game setup) The venue itself is beautiful and well maintained, and the large tent really kept things cool when the temperatures rose and the string lighting has an awesome effect at dusk. We had a great experience and highly recommend having your wedding at Aster!

Aster did an amazing job at hosting our wedding!! The venue was exactly what we were looking for and we couldn't have been any happier with our day. Thanks guys!!!

Aster is so BEAUTIFUL! We had our wedding there 9/26/20. Both the ceremony and reception. The premises are so well taken care of and it’s the PERFECT size. It’s all outdoors and so magical. We got so many compliments on the venue and even had people tell us they wanted to get married there as well. Shannon was a joy to work with! Very responsive and accommodating. She even let us stay an extra 30 minutes after our hour rehearsal to set up decor and things for the wedding the next day. Which was EXTREMELY helpful since we did not have a planner or coordinator and did everything ourselves. I HIGHLY recommend this venue. It was everything we wanted and more.

I believe we were Aster's first wedding of the year because of COVID and I'm so happy we stuck with it! Shannon and Steve were so helpful throughout the whole process of having a wedding during COVID, even with some confusing last minute changes. I've had my heart set on Aster from the first time I discovered them, long before even getting engaged and it was truly a dream come true to have our wedding here. The simplicity of the venue is perfect and so well done!

We could not have been happier with our experience at Aster. In our search for our venue, we both love nature and wanted our wedding to reflect that- Aster captures that perfectly. Surrounded by beautiful trees, wildflowers and open spaces with pretty string lights- and can’t forget to mention a little area for a fire pit. Our wedding happened to fall on a day filled with torrential downpours, but somehow before our ceremony the skies cleared up and at the very last minute Shannon and her husband offered to move all of the ceremony equipment outside. With the help of them and our family and friends, we were able to have the ceremony outside with the beautiful wooded backdrop. We cannot say enough about how thankful we are for Aster for making our special day so amazing- wish we could do it all over again!

My husband Andy and I got married at Aster on Sept 1st, 2019 and we’re so glad we chose them as our venue! We had to plan our wedding from NH and only got to see Aster once in November so we put a lot of faith & confidence in our choice. Jessica, her husband Steven and her sister Shannon were incredibly helpful, answered all of our questions leading up to our wedding and put us at ease. By time the wedding rolled around, Jess and Steven were quick to communicate, on top of everything and no detail was missed. I couldn’t believe how well the day went (weather, late arrivals, nerves etc) and a lot of that had to do with Jess and Steven steering the ship along with our wedding coordinator. Aster itself is stunning, from the grounds to the beautiful deck to the wildflowers to the string lights...everything is so well thought out. We can’t thank Jess & Steven enough for helping to make our day so wonderful! Wish we could do it again!! If you’re in the Skaneateles/Finger Lakes/Central NY region you really cannot go wrong with Aster.

I cannot recommend this venue enough! It is a beautiful setting with a relaxed vibe that was perfect for our day. The venue itself is decoration enough! Everything is even more beautiful in person. The owners are amazingly helpful and very invested in helping in anyway possible. I planned the wedding from Arizona and they were so helpful with the issues that arise from distance! They helped not only with the venue but vendors and everything. They were around throughout the night to check in and make sure everything was running smoothly. We rented all the heaters (which ended up being smart as it was chilly but they made it perfect under the tent) and the owner was constantly checking them and making sure they were working right. If you want your wedding to be set in a beautiful location and have helpful people constantly making sure your day is everything you want this is the venue for you!

I knew I wanted Aster as our venue even before getting engaged! Shannon, Jess and Steve were wonderful with communication and ensuring we had everything we needed leading up to our wedding. Aster is an incredibly beautiful venue, I love the feel of it. We had our cocktail hour and reception at Aster, everything went smoothly. Jess and Steve were on site the entire evening to help with coordinating vendors and be sure the bathrooms were stocked. I wish we could get married all over again to relive that day! Thank you for making our day memorable! All of our guests said it was one of the best weddings they've been to--part of this we owe to Aster and their staff! Just incredible!

Where do I even begin? My husband and I were married at Aster Weddings in July, and the entire Aster team made sure we had the most romantic and stress-free wedding possible. Planning a wedding from across the country is stressful but they took care of everything, coordinating our vendors for us and all of the day's intricacies. Our ceremony was gorgeous against the wooded background, and we had many guests tell us it was the most unique, hidden gem of a venue they had ever been to. Then, during dinner the rainclouds rolled in, and a microburst touched down less than a mile away! Jess and Steve jumped to the rescue and kept our guests dry and the lights on, despite the entire town being out of power! They truly saved the day and went above and beyond what is expected of a venue. We are so lucky to have worked with them, and would do it all again in a heartbeat. Book them while you can!!

Aster's is a beautiful and simplistic hideaway. The Aster team has included every detail into creating their venue. From the luxury sail tent to the fire pit. We planned our wedding from California. We did not see the site until five days before our wedding. Jessie, Steve and Shannon worked with us long distance. It was a very easy experience. Our families kept asking "How did you find this place?" The best outdoor venue in the Syracuse/Upstate New York area.

Better than I could have imagined! That is what comes to mind every time I think of Aster and look at pictures from the wedding. Carolyn and I visited with Shannon Memorial Day weekend 2018, when the grounds were freshly cleared to begin their visionary venue construction. While I am not a creative person, Carolyn knew instantly that Aster was the spot for her. She believed in the vision and concepts that Shannon and Jess were planning. Fast forward to the second week of Sept. 2018 - Carolyn and I were in town with two friends and managed to stop by Aster to see how things had progressed, knowing they had just started hosting weddings. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was the one blown away and couldn't stop looking around in awe of what Aster had turned into. "This place turned out better than I could have imagined" came out of my mouth numerous times after that visit. The deck, the tent, the benches, the fire pit, the bathrooms, the walkway, the owners, everything is first class and accommodating at Aster. Jump to this past weekend we were once again, peppering Shannon and Jess with questions and last minute tasks (can we bring our families by early, can we do photos early, what if the weather is bad, will the heaters heat the tent enough, and on and on). They were simply amazing - their patience (or maybe it was tolerance of us, hahaha) and focus on ensuring we had a day to remember was out of this world. From cleaning the deck after the vendors set up, helping guests park, checking on us from time to time, supplying the best s'more materials and handling clean up, there was no amount of service and care they weren't willing to provide to ensure we were happy and as stress free as possible! I agree with Nichole M in a previous post - this place is going to blow up quickly, so book your event with them today and enjoy the beautiful setting and ambiance Aster offers in the wonderful Upstate NY/Finger Lakes area. Thank you for everything you did for us Shannon & Jess and your husbands and family, it was a pleasure having our big day at Aster during your inaugural year! Best of luck to Aster in the bright future I know you will have.

We held our wedding at Aster on 9/14/2018. I’ve been taking forever to write this review because I simply can’t find the words to express how much love my husband and I have for this place and the family who created it. For the full story of how we came to book Aster before it was built, plus all the ways we love them since, please read ahead. But in case you are skimming reviews and don’t have time for my long story, let me just start by saying this: this venue is going to blow up. If you are looking for a beautiful outdoor venue with all of the amenities you can think of, and endless potential for whatever your vision may be, book Aster as soon as possible. You will not regret it, I promise. Aster is the perfect blend of rustic, modern and timeless. It’s gorgeous and comfortable and the owners are endlessly kind and accommodating. I only wish we could go back and do it all over again. My husband and I were engaged for almost 8 years before finally following through with planning our wedding. I had started the process a handful of times over the years, but I was never able to find a venue locally that felt like it fit us and was affordable. And then, after all those years, I stumbled upon Aster on Instagram. Back then, Aster was merely a vision and some blueprints. I had a good feeling about it, though. I loved Shannon’s inspirations and the idea of this lovely family working together to build something so special, literally from the ground up. I’m not a risk-taker normally, but after meeting with Shannon, John and I were excited to roll the dice and hope for the best. I cannot not express how happy we are that we took that chance. Our wedding was everything we were hoping for and more. The woodsy setting of this venue is enchanting, while the deck and high-peak pole tent will keep your guests comfortable whether it’s hot and sunny, chilly or raining. The bathrooms are modern and gorgeous. The lights strung throughout the trees and beneath the tent create perfect ambiance after sunset. The deck and bathrooms are accessible for people with mobility issues. Every detail of this place has been carefully thought out and perfectly executed, and it’s only going to keep getting better over time. All of our guests and vendors commented on how amazing and unique our venue was. Shannon and her family are kind, professional, responsive and always willing to help and offer guidance, which I really appreciated. They made my family feel at home and went above and beyond to make our dream day a reality. I would book them again in a heartbeat. We really can’t say enough how grateful we are to Aster. I have a feeling this venue is going to book up quickly, so get in while you can!

This was the most beautiful setting for my nephew’s wedding! All the details were just perfect! Shannon and Jess treated us like family. 🍾🥂

Classy, Stylish and Elegant! Oh My! Astor venue was truly built with love from the ground up. The perfect place to create a night you will never forget!

First time we saw Aster we knew it was the one for us. The options it has to offer are beautiful as well as the atmosphere surrounding. The Beautiful grass/trees and workmanship of the Amenities are absolutely stunning. Shannon and Jess are amazing people to work with and made the choice that much easier for us. Very well accommodating to make it the exact way we’d like to celebrate our special day. We cannot wait!

This was the most beautiful setting for my daughter's wedding. The nature, the open air, all the amenities made it so versatile to enjoy the food, the gelato bar, the photo booth, the beer and wine bar, the great band and dancing under the huge tent with all the beautiful lights. Couldn't have asked for more and the pictures are to die for! Loved it all!

We looked at many other venues in the area and Aster is by far the best! Just a perfect wedding atmosphere and the amazing layout offers so many possibilities to make it the perfect wedding! The owners are very passionate and genuine when it comes to helping make everything all that one can hope for.. We wouldn’t change this venue for anything, it truly is perfect!

This venue is absolutely gorgeous ! Our daughters' wedding was truly beautiful and unique. Shannon made all her wedding dreams come true. She is wonderful! Every guest raved about this venue. I just can't find the words to express how grateful we are for this experience. Book now because this place is AMAZING!

Shannon and Jess have great vision and drive and have done an amazing job creating Aster Weddings and Events. They are easy to work with and understand what goes into making a wedding extra special. This venue is special and different, offering beautiful scenery and the ability to fully customize your special day!

Shannon & Jess are the sweetest ever! Both are so creative and imaginative when it comes to their space! I am so excited to see the finished product when their venue is completed because all of their inspiration looks so promising! With their creativity I know this venue will be amazing and unlike any other in our area. My favorite thing about them is their willingness to be custom to what their couple are looking for. Many venues nowadays are exclusive to certain vendors / options, but here you have the ability to be different! BUT the best thing is, they are phenomenal to work with. Their communication is exceptional and very accommodating to their peers. I cannot wait to film here and work with them more!