As soon as I was the roof top lounge I had to get married here. My fiance was in Iraq so I was doing all the leg work for the wedding and he was checking the perspective places ou...t online. When I told him about this place he researched it and told me that there were other bad reviews, but I went ahead and booked it anyway because it was exactly what my dream beach wedding looked like. That was the biggest mistake I ever made, and unfortunately for me, I'll have to live with the bad memories of that day for the rest of my life.
First of all, we booked our wedding in the winter for our summer wedding. I was told that because the menu changes seasonally I would not be able to sample the food until closer to our date. It's totally scary booking a wedding, putting thousands of dollars down for a deposit, and never even trying the food. When we did attempt to make an appointment for a food sampling, we were told that they only do them on Monday and Thursday between the hours of 11 and 3. (Or something of that nature. Bottom line, during the day, during the week.) First of all, I work full time, as do most other people. That is completely inconvenient. Secondly, We don't live anywhere near New Jersey. I had to take off work and make a special trip to New Jersey to try to the food. The food we tried at the sampling was very good. It wasn't anything that we were interested in having at our wedding however, because they chose to serve us the options that cost additional money. We also were not permitted to sample any of the hor d'orves...which in my opinion are the most important part since that's what most people fill up on. On the day of our wedding, the petit entrees were half the size of the samples we saw at our tasting.
The general manager, Neil, is a complete a**hole. On the day of our wedding we showed up early to have pictures taken. Not only were there people sunbathing on the deck 2 hours before my wedding was supposed to begin, but we were asked to leave because we weren't permitted to be there yet. As guests began showing up, the waitstaff began serving drinks. No problem there...until we were told that we would have to cut our reception 1/2 hour short because the waitstaff began serving drinks before the designated time. Neil was insistent on this up until my parents threatened to sue for breach of contract. Yes, at my wedding my parents were in a verbal altercation with the manager of our venue and had to threaten to sue the company. Neil also stalked around our reception the entire evening glaring at everyone.
We had 2 flower girls in our wedding, ages 3 and 4. An open bar came with our package which was great for our friends and family. At one point, my husband's daughter, our 4 year old flower girl, asked for a coke. My husband went to the bar to get it for her. He order a coke. He was given a rum and coke. He was not drinking rum and cokes, so there is no chance that they could have just thought he was ordering a drink for himself. If she had not complained that her coke didn't taste right, she could have ingested an entire rum and coke, which could have potentially been at the very least dangerous if not lethal. Our guests were physically pushed out at 1 minute past our allotted time.