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Absolutely Beautiful, Meaningful and Memorable
Barbara Rose Sherman, Wedding Officiant, is based in Santa Barbara, CA. Your wedding ceremony is the heart of your wedding day. Barbara creates a unique, exquisite, memorable ceremony for you and your guests, eliciting sweet laughter and tears. This personalized ceremony, filled with elegance, heart, and abundant joy, will reflect your love and commitment.
Barbara has won Best of Weddings on The Knot for the past ten years. A UCLA-trained mindfulness instructor, Barbara has taught yoga and meditation for 30 years. She will help you feel calm, present, and radiant on your special day, telling your love story with exuberance and joy.
Barbara Rose Sherman, Wedding Officiant, officiates weddings of many types, including spiritual, civil, religious, non-religious, same-sex, and interfaith. She loves honoring the family traditions of the bride and groom.
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- Civil Union
- Elopement
- Interfaith Ceremony
- Non-Religious Ceremony
- Religious Ceremony
- Second Wedding
Religious Affiliations
- Buddhist
- Christian
- Interfaith
- Jewish
- Spiritual
- Unitarian
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- Wedding
- Ceremony
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Barbara Rose is highly acclaimed as an officiant for weddings, praised for her incredible ability to personalize ceremonies and connect with couples on a deep level. Reviewers commend her mindfulness, warmth, and attention to detail in creating heartfelt and unique ceremonies that touch the souls of guests. Barbara's dedication, cultural inclusivity, and exceptional organization skills have left a lasting impact, making her a top choice for couples seeking a magical and unforgettable wedding experience.Review photos
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Beyond the chairs, flowers, champagne and dance floors, weddings are really about hearts and souls. And it's impossible to imagine someone who is more deeply connected into that spirit than is Barbara Rose. And as the officiant she translated that unspoken language into the most eloquent words for all of Max and Lily's guests. More than just delivering her beautiful thoughts, she also facilitated the magic coming from the bride and groom. Thank you, Barbara Rose, for bringing your special magic to this occasion! <3 <3
- Cornelia, Mother of the Groom
Words don't do Barbara justice. She was absolutely incredible from the moment we contacted her and even after the wedding. We had no idea what we wanted out of our ceremony but we knew it was going to be intimate, unique and special. Barbara took the time to really know us and from there was able to customize something that was perfect for us. She had so many wonderful ideas and was just an absolutely joy to work with overall. She will continue to be part of our lives for years to come!
Barbara Rose made our ceremony absolutely exceptional - we had so many of our guests tell us how heartfelt, warm and unique it was. She stands out as a mindfulness practitioner and a kind soul who dedicates herself to absolutely nailing her ceremonies. She invited us over to her house for lunch and connected with us on Facetime every month leading up to our wedding in order to really *know* us as people. She also made herself available for all things marriage license and logistics.
She's got a perfect 5/5 stars for a reason!! We love you Barbara Rose! Will send photos as soon as we get them!
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I wish there were ten stars I could give Barbara!!! It has been ten years since my daughter got married in Joshua Tree.
Barabra crafted an amazing ceremony that held the couple and all the guests in joy, light, peace and love.
Thank you Barbara for this memorable, magical, uplifting union of two precious individuals.
You are simply The Best!!!
Love from the MOB
Our daughter and her spouse just celebrated their second anniversary. We recall the lovely and meaningful ceremony that Barbara helped them create. She worked so hard to make this a wonderful occasion for them. We are so grateful.
Barbara was an amazing officiant! She was so attentive to helping us plan out every detail of our ceremony, provided beautiful suggestions/ideas, worked with us to revise our ceremony outline as much as needed to get it just how we wanted, and followed up often to make sure we kept up with our tight schedule. She met with us in person to make sure she captured our personalities and wove a beautiful excerpt that she wrote into our ceremony, which really captured our personalities so well. You can tell how much she loves her job when you talk to her and it shows in her effort to make sure that you have the perfect wedding. We are so happy we chose Barbara and would definitely recommend her to any of our friends or family!
My fiancée and I chose to elope. We made a road trip out of it! From the SF Bay Area we went to the court house in Santa Barbara! But when Barbara, a good friend and most competent officiant heard about our newly obtained marriage license she said " I will marry you guys!" Barbara and her assistant were so kind and loving! We were welcomed into a beautiful private setting with Flowers, Champagne, Cake, Rose Pedals, a witness, a photographer and a ring bearer! And all throughout Barbara and her staff maintained the most important feeling I can say: The Sanctity of Marriage! Thank you Barbara and Staff!
Our tying The Knot story is so special! I reached out to Barbara to see if she was open to creating a ceremony for us as we were eloping in Santa Barbara. She agreed, the marriage license, a white dress, something blue, a bouquet, even cake & champagne appeared seamlessly. Then, her calm & soothing way of bringing a spiritual nature with the official “I Do’s” created a beautiful wedding story for us to share & cherish for our lifetime……
My fiance and I are very lucky and blessed to have had Barbara officate our wedding. Barbara curated a very unique personalized ceremony that we and our guests loved. We had an intimate cermony (30 ppl) and Barbara made sure that it was just what we wanted and was creative and sensitive about everyone included.
Barbara doesn't just "marry" her couples...She got to know us and our story and it showed in her creation and delivery of the ceremony.
We had a family emergency 2 days before our wedding and Barbara was able to make a beautiful modification to honor family that couldn't make it.
She made our ceremony loving, calm and mindful. Barbara was exactly what we were looking for!
When planning our wedding, we wanted someone who could seamlessly blend our diverse cultures - Indian and Italian-Filipino. Barbara Sherman exceeded all our expectations in this regard. From the moment we met her, we knew we were in good hands.
Barbara invited us over for lunch, which was a delightful personal touch. It was during this lunch that she took the time to understand our backgrounds, our stories, and our vision for the wedding. Her ability to listen and incorporate elements from both our cultures into the ceremony was nothing short of remarkable.
The ceremony itself was a beautiful reflection of our combined heritage. Barbara personalized every aspect, ensuring that both cultures were represented equally and respectfully. Her eloquence and warmth made the ceremony incredibly special and memorable for us and our families.
Communication and coordination are key in wedding planning, and Barbara excelled in these areas. She was always available, responding promptly and thoughtfully to our queries. Her organizational skills made the entire process smooth and stress-free.
We cannot recommend Barbara Sherman enough for her exceptional wedding services. She made our special day even more extraordinary with her dedication, cultural sensitivity, and impeccable coordination.
Thank you, Barbara, for making our wedding a beautiful celebration of love and cultural unity.
In articulating our gratitude for Barbara’s role as our wedding officiant, words scarcely capture the depth of our appreciation. From our first encounter, Barbara embodied a bespoke approach, weaving a valance of personalization and meticulous attention that distinguished her profoundly. The level of structure she brought to the process helped to ensure we never missed a beat before and during our harmonious day. Ensuring we had someone open to our beliefs, feelings, and hearts was essential - Barbara confidently checked all these boxes for us. For us, when we were planning our big day, having someone real and authentic was vital; looking into Barbara's eyes we knew instantly!
Barbara’s endeavor to understand our bond as a couple was a journey into the heart of our unique love narrative. Her inquiries, profound yet gentle, unearthed the essence of our shared path, crafting a ceremony that resonated with the intimate and profound chapters of our journey. Her genuine engagement in our story manifested a ceremony that was not only deeply personal but also imbued with the compassion of our shared love.
A striking attribute of Barbara’s conduct was her harmonious blend of mindfulness and presence throughout our interactions. She conducted the ceremony with a poise that was both grounding and uplifting, enveloping everyone present in an ambiance of love and profound connection. Her adeptness in fostering an environment brimming with love and togetherness was nothing short of remarkable.
The prayer she eloquently delivered as part of our ceremony was a manifestation of divine love, articulated with deftness and spiritual resonance. This moment transcended the ordinary, touching the souls of all in attendance, and leaving an indelible mark on our hearts. It was a vivid testament to Barbara’s capacity to connect with the human spirit on a deeply emotional level.
What astounded us further was Barbara’s unwavering dedication and her propensity to exceed expectations. Confronted with an unforeseen oversight of ours - the forgotten vows! - Barbara, with her hallmark professionalism, had already prepared. Such thoughtful foresight and preparation exemplify Barbara’s extraordinary commitment to her vocation.
Barbara’s presence at our wedding was an unanticipated blessing. Her radiating warmth, heartfelt sincerity, and palpable love for her craft rendered our ceremony an unforgettable tapestry of love and memory. Barbara’s involvement in our special day was pivotal, and we wholeheartedly endorse her for anyone in search of a wedding officiant who embodies the essence of love and dedication. Our hearts overflow with gratitude, Barbara, for orchestrating a day of unparalleled perfection.
We cannot express enough how grateful we are to have had Barbara as our wedding officiant.
Thank you again and again, Barbara, for making our day perfect without question. Day we will never forget, and remember always.
Marvin and April Carter
Barbara was an absolutely perfect choice for our ceremony. She went above and beyond to make it more personal and memorable. Her beautiful energy was a welcome addition to the day. We would highly recommend her to anyone !
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We got married in the first week of October 2023 on the beach in Santa Barbara - The Hiltons :)
From our initial interaction with Barbara, it was clear that we had found someone extraordinary. Her warmth and genuine enthusiasm for our story stood out, making us feel instantly connected. Even with limited preparation time, Barbara dedicated herself wholeheartedly to understanding us as a couple and what we were looking for on our special day. She introduced elements and details into our ceremony that we hadn’t even thought of, showcasing her experience and deep commitment to making us feel special.
Our day became a blend of elegance and personal touch, largely due to Barbara's meticulous planning and heartfelt suggestions. Every moment, every word, felt like it was chosen just for us, creating an atmosphere that was both intimate and memorable. Barbara went beyond the role of a celebrant, becoming a vital part of our loving journey. She's an invaluable partner in creating lifelong unbelievable memories. We thank her immensely for making us feel so special and grateful for making our day truly unforgettable.
Response from the Vendor on 10/17/2023
You are a magnificent couple with a magnificent love! Your Sana Barbara sunset beach wedding was absolute perfection. Your tenderness and deep devotion were complimented by the magical pink and blue sky. I am blessed to have been a part of yo...
ur wedding day! Love, Barbara
Barbara was an amazing officiant. She really took the time to get to know my husband and I to create a ceremony that honored our families and our values. We had a simple ceremony in nature on the summer solstice, and I cannot imagine a better way to celebrate our love. Thank you, Barbara!
Response from the Vendor on 09/06/2023
Thank you for this lovely reveiw. Your garden wedding was perfection! Wishing you a lifetime of joy, Barbara
Barbara is amazing. Heartfelt and genuine, deeply committed to creating a perfect ceremony. We began working with her in March and got married in July. Starting with a Zoom call, we were charmed by her warmth and enthusiasm. She invested a lot of time to get to know us and guided us through working out lots of details. We were eloping and she had thoughtful suggestions for ways to include family contributions. She was incredibly responsive, proactive and understanding and accommodating as we collaborated together. The result was a magical, elegant and intimate experience that will be with us for ever.
Response from the Vendor on 08/07/2023
My heart is touched by this beautiufl expression of appreciation. It was an honor to be a part of your wedding creation and exquisite ceremony day. I cherish these wonderful memories. I wish you, dear M &M, a lifetime of happiness!
We got married in May & Barbara was fantastic. She put so much time & effort into making sure our ceremony was perfect. Barbara went above & beyond in getting to know my husband and I by meeting us for breakfast. She is quick to respond, I knew if I ever needed anything or had any questions I could reach out to her without hesitation. Barbara made us both feel comfortable & calm during our ceremony. We are so thankful we found her
Response from the Vendor on 08/07/2023
You are the most harmonious couple ever! Thank you for this lovely review. I deeply enjoyed being part of your big day. You created a magical setting for your family and friends. You wedding vows were very tender. I wish you all the best....
We had the pleasure of having Barbara as our officiant in our wedding in Santa Barbara in March. We found Barbara through Yelp and immediately wanted to contact her as her reviews were beyond amazing. Luckily we were able to have Barbara officant our wedding and she was so thoughtful and meaningful throughout the whole process leading up to our wedding. Barbara opened her home to us and even invited us over to have breakfast and just to talk and get to know one another. We were so lucky with all
of our vendors but Barbara just felt like a friend that we have known for so long. Barbara, thank you for being so kind, thoughtful, and available for us throughout the entire time. We are so lucky to have shared our day with her but more importantly lucky to call her a friend. ✨🫶🏽 Please do not hesitate on having her on your special day, she is amazing!
Response from the Vendor on 05/11/2023
It was a privilege to be the one to tell your love story. Your beach wedding ceremony was filled with joy, beauty, and creativity, May a BIG LOVE surround you both on all your life adventures.
Barbara is a gem. There are not enough words to express how grateful we are of her. From day 1, Barbara was dedicated to making our wedding ceremony perfect. She is positive, loving, kind, and thoughtful. She is also very organized, communicative and shares so many amazing ceremony and wedding ideas with us. She was also so embracing of my hispanic culture wedding traditions and took it upon herself to learn all about the Lasso ceremony. Barbara is also an excellent storyteller and many of our guests were emotional during the ceremony, and the guests also loved the meditation we incorporated.
Barbara is a kind soul with a loving heart and we look to her for guidance beyond our wedding. My grandmother passed away suddenly the day prior to my wedding and Barbara was there for me in so many ways. With Barbara by our side, we got through a very tough time much easier.
We could not have chosen a more perfect person to share our journey with. Barbara is now a close friend of ours and we look forward to having her in our lives for years to come."
Response from the Vendor on 05/11/2023
It was a great joy to be a part of your fabulous wedding day at the Rosewood! Your deep devotion, beautiful hearts, and exuberance inspire me. I wish you all the best in the years to come. With love, Barbara
Barbara gave us the best ceremony! We discussed with her early on about the style of ceremony we wanted: lighthearted, loving, elements of humor, and had to include a few religious aspects from both my husband's and my background (they're different). Barbara took this and learned about us, and our ceremony really felt like a strong representation of our life. Our guests couldn't stop asking me "who is Barbara?! where did you find her?!" and my family loved her. It was a fabulous, meaningful, and comfortable ceremony that we are so thrilled to have included at our wedding.
Thank you, Barbara!
Barbara is truly the best officiant you can find and we cannot recommend her enough! She puts so much energy, detail and love into each and every ceremony she creates. Helping couples create their dream ceremony is her passion and it shows.
Her ceremonies are completely tailored to who you are as a couple and she is an incredible story teller. We received SO many compliments on the ceremony from guests as she did such a wonderful job portraying who we are, our love story and setting the tone for the rest of the night.
In addition to the beautiful ceremonies she creates, she is also just a wonderful person. She took the time to really get to know us and is so kind and thoughtful. She made the entire process easy, fun, and meaningful.
Barbara was a wonderful celebrant. My daughter and her fiancée live in London and Barbara liaised regularly on Facetime with them from California where the wedding would be held. She spent a long time talking to them and got to know them well and was supportive throughout. She helped them write the most beautiful vows, which brought tears to the eyes. They were delighted, we were thrilled. We could not have been happier!
We are so happy that we chose Barbara to officiate our wedding! Following our initial conversation, we knew immediately that we had selected the perfect officiant! Her calm demeanor & positive energy was exactly what we were hoping to find. Barbara was warm, genuine, thoughtful, caring, professional, and most importantly, passionate about composing a heartfelt and personalized ceremony that captured our love story. All along the way, Barbara was in constant communication with us - offering assistance & guidance, suggesting readings, blessings & sample vows and providing valuable resources that allowed us to fine-tune the ceremony exactly to our liking. Weeks before our wedding, we had some unexpected family health issues and Barbara was nothing but supportive, loving and kind. We are beyond grateful to have found Barbara & would recommend her to anyone looking for a truly meaningful & personalized wedding ceremony. We cannot thank you enough & will cherish our wedding ceremony forever! ~ Taryn & Brad
Barbara was an absolute delight to work with and is a wonderful officiant! She helped us develop a meaningful ceremony that integrated parts of both of our cultures, which made our wedding day so very special and memorable for our guests. She gave us helpful suggestions and resources, and made the entire process a joy! Barbara is incredibly knowledgeable, thoughtful, and kind hearted!
Barbara was an incredible celebrant for our wedding. She took great care in getting to know us long before our wedding to ensure she understood the background to our relationship. This was clearly evident in the thoughtful ceremony that she organised for our wedding, which really reflected who we are as a couple.
Barbara was very responsive to any queries we had and was open in suggesting different ideas so we could create the perfect ceremony together.
We were touched by Barbara's warmth and kindness throughout the whole experience. We really enjoyed working with her and would highly recommend her to any couple looking for a celebrant for their special day.
This was the most thoughtful and personal wedding ceremony I’ve ever been to. Barbara wove together stories about the bride and groom and highlighted their characters in a way that made me reflect, laugh, and enjoy every moment of my wonderful niece’s wedding to her equally wonderful husband.
I could write a novel about Barbara. She is SO sweet and and has so much compassion. I feel like my husband and I truly found a new friend. She speaks from the heart and makes you feel like you have know her for years. She even invited my husband and I for breakfast when we were in town visiting our venue. I kid you not, there was not a dry eye at our ceremony. Even the photographer was crying because Barbara just has a way with words that draw you in. I can’t wait to see her again in the future. If you’re looking for an officiant that truly wants to get to know you and your significant other, Barbara is your person!!
Response from the Vendor on 03/29/2022
Thank you for this lovely heart opening review. You and Philip exemplify connection, dedication, and the BIG LOVE. I hope to see you again in Santa Barbara!
Barbara is a gem. We have so much gratitude for having her work on this “baby” of ours, and so many of our guests have commented to us that the ceremony was just beautiful—largely due to her wonderful orchestrating, professionalism, and genuine LOVE for love! She is thoughtful, supportive, truly kind, and has an extremely calm demeanor, which was so appreciated during the more stressful moments of wedding planning. She listened to our vision for the ceremony, worked with us to customize it and make it a reflection of us as a couple, and provided unique ideas to add to it. She coordinated with our wedding planner and pianist to make sure everything would work out. The ceremony went off without a hitch. Thank you, Barbara, for embracing our families and us whole-heartedly. You are truly an amazing woman. We can’t thank you enough!
Though most people frequently look most forward to the fun times at their wedding reception , I had a so many great memories planning and living through a very thoughtful , customized and beautiful ceremony, thanks to Barbara
She takes time to really get to know you and your partner and your relationship. Working with her was one of greatest privileges of my wedding planning process and I gained and mentor and great friend in the process
If you are getting married in Santa Barbara, do yourself a favor and call her !!
Response from the Vendor on 01/31/2022
Your kind sincere words touch my heart. I am so grateful for the experience of collaborating on your ceremony.
Barbara is an incredible officiant. She took the time to really get to know us. She learned our story, and what our values are, and she used her knowledge of us to help us create an incredibly personal and beautiful ceremony that truly resonated with us and felt very authentic to who we are as a couple and as people. She is everything you could ever want in an officiant.
Barbara went above and beyond to create a very personal and beautiful ceremony. She took the time to get to know us as individuals and as a couple. Barbara worked with us to craft our perfect ceremony. She has wonderful energy and we enjoyed the time spent with her leading up to our wedding. Barbara also
helped to guide us through the legal proceedings and answered all of the questions we had. Her attention to detail helped everything go as smoothly as possible on the big day. We couldn't have asked for a better officiant!
We are so grateful we found Barbara Rose Sherman to officiate our wedding. I found her doing an internet search and it was honestly one of the best things that could have happened to make our day so incredibly beautiful and full of meaning. From the get go Barbara was extremely responsive and exceptionally thoughtful and attentive. She was so kind and made so many efforts to connect with us throughout the entire process leading up to our big day. We were in such loving and capable hands and it made our vow writing and ceremony so very special. She provided us with so many useful resources and checked in on us along the entire way. My now husband is Jewish and while we did not have a full Jewish wedding, Barbara was amazing at incorporating some beautiful Jewish cultural traditional and prayers into our ceremony. It was so perfect. Both of our families were absolutely delighted with her as were all of our guests. I had so many people remark to me how wonderful she is and how much they totally loved her style. She made it all seem so effortless, but I know it wasn't. Barbara is spiritual and graceful but also really effervescent and full of positivity. She possesses the perfect amount of lightness and humor. We just adore her! We are beyond thankful she was part of our day and we honestly cannot recommend her highly enough. Our ceremony was so deeply meaningful and special and we will cherish it forever. Barbara made all of us feel so comfortable and offered sage wisdom and support whenever we needed it.
~ Alyssa Shapiro (over the moon newlywed)
We are so thankful we had Barbara as our officiant. It could not have been more perfect. She was absolutely wonderful throughout the whole process. The ceremony had an energy that I cannot put into words…. calm, spiritual, genuine, and full of love which was our exact vision for how we wanted it to be. We are so grateful to her for bringing that to life. Our friends and family could not stop talking about how touching and thoughtful the ceremony was. We highly recommend Barbara!
Response from the Vendor on 01/08/2022
It was a great joy to be a part of your incredible wedding! You are special couple and I loved collaborating with you.
Barbara Rose Sherman officiated at my daughter’s Santa Barbara wedding 10/2/2021. She met with my daughter and her fiancé several times before the wedding, even inviting them to her home for dinner on one occasion. She took the time to get to know them well, took their preferences to heart, and used the knowledge to fashion a beautiful, meaningful, very unique and personal ceremony. The guests loved it as much as the couple, and they received many compliments. I highly recommend working with Barbara to fashion a ceremony that will take into account the couple’s personalities, cultural backgrounds, and vision. She is kind, thoughtful, and a calming presence in the midst of the wedding planning whirlwind. She’s simply the best.
Response from the Vendor on 01/05/2022
Thank you for this lovely reveiw. It truly uplifted and warmed my heart. ~Barbara
Barbara was great from the get go. She took the time to get to know us, and incorporated our personal story into our ceremony. I’d highly recommend her for your wedding, elopement, and vow renewal. She was first class and first rate.
Response from the Vendor on 09/25/2021
It was a great honor to tell your love story. Your gorgeous Bride, your fabulous Santa Ynez setting and your beautiful connection--perfection!
Having Barbara as officiant at my daughter's wedding in July 2021 was a blessing! The ceremony Barbara had performed was very warm, welcoming and meaningful, not only to the bride and groom but also to their parents, family and friends.
The script of the ceremony was so well prepared that bringing the true loving bond of bride and groom alive. The blessings offered touched the hearts of everyone witnessing the ceremony (in person or virtually). I would highly recommend consulting her if you or your loved ones need an officiant.
~ a mother's view.
Barbara was super communicative leading up to the wedding day. She made sure we had everything needed for a successful wedding ceremony, and was so kind and helpful to the wedding party and guests as well. Highly recommended!
I found Barbara on The Knot and chose her based off of her reviews - I am so grateful that I chose her. She is every bit as helpful, warm and kind as the reviews suggest. From day one she felt like a friend, offering assistance, reading suggestions, ceremony help, and more. Her passion for her job is evident in all of the time she took to get to know us and all that she did to help us create a ceremony that was lovely and beautiful- she really did go above and beyond for us. We are so appreciative to have met Barbara and that we chose her to be a part of our special day.
Barbara is a gift. Words can't describe just how incredible it was to have Barbara officiate our wedding. She brings so much heart, talent, and purpose to her role as an officiant. Every step of the process was a beautiful experience for us--Barbara spent time getting to know us as a couple, she suggested poetry and writings and cultural traditions we could incorporate that reflected our relationship and backgrounds, and she wrote a most touching, heartfelt ceremony. On the wedding day itself, she brought such beautiful energy and presence to the ceremony--every single one of our guests, in-person and virtual, remarked how beautiful and touching the experience was. Barbara went above and beyond in every way imaginable. She is an inspiration and I'm so grateful for her loving support and wisdom every step of the way. We will cherish our wedding ceremony forever!
Barbara did a wonderful job for my daughters wedding. She was on time. Her personality is kind and happy. The ceremony she did for the wedding was beautiful, loving and thoughtful. So happy my daughter picked Barbara to do the ceremony.
I am the Mother of the Groom. Barbara Sherman coordinated a magnificent ceremony for my son and daughter in law. She took care of every detail and officiated a beautiful and very personal ceremony for all involved. Many thanks for such a special day.
Hiring Barbara as our officiant was by far one of the best decisions we made for our wedding. Upon our first meeting, Barbara was warm and caring. She took her time to get to know me and my now husband to be sure to tell our love story in the most delicate and perfect way. Barbara went out of her way to meet with us when we visited Santa Barbara to look at the ceremony location and always offered her support in Santa Barbara as we are from out of town. We received so many compliments from friends and family about her job well done. We feel so grateful to have connected with Barbara for such an important part of our life.
Barbara, thank you so much for such a thoughtful and touching ceremony. You made it very special for us! 🌟 Your attention to details is impeccable !
Barbara was phenomenal! She went above and beyond our expectations. We eloped but still wanted a ceremony that was meaningful and memorable and Barbara provided all that at more. She had so many wonderful suggestions and guided us along the way. I highly recommend, the most gracious, thoughtful and considerate person.
I've been blessed to know Barbara for a number of years. When my love and I decided that we wanted to celebrate our union in the presence of family and friends, we immediately knew who we wanted as our officiant. Barbara is a truly fabulous individual - she took our unique stories and blended them into a perfect ceremony. Thank you again, Barbara, you are amazing.
Barbara was amazing and made our experience very memorable during these unprecedented times! It was a pleasure having her as our officiant for our small wedding that we had to reschedule during the Covid pandemic. She will also be a part of our big day/ ceremony in June 2021!!!
Barbara is thoughtful, generous, and creative. She took my daughter and son-in-law's hopes and dreams and distilled them into beautiful sentiments and inspiring words. Her sweet soul calmed all as we scrambled for a dry and quiet beach spot between the surf and the cliffs. I would highly recommend her for your wedding ceremony, and more.
Barbara is such a beautiful human being..inside and out! I found her on The Knot for my now postponed August wedding, and she was still there for our small beach ceremony with our parents and kids. She made it so special, and I cannot wait for June for our big wedding!
We had to cancel our original wedding plans due to Covid and we found Barbara last minute, two weeks before our elopement in Santa Barbara. She was very flexible (we had not even confirmed an exact time or location until the evening before). She was very quick to respond, warm, and provided great advice and guidance.
Most importantly, she truly got to know us as individuals and a couple, and that was beautifully reflected in our ceremony. It was absolutely perfect. We received many compliments after from our virtual family and friends that were tuning in! Her words and overall presence were absolutely perfect for our intimate elopement and the most memorable moment of our lives. I could never thank her enough for completing our day in the most organic way.
Barbara was wonderful! She was a pleasure to have as our officiant. She helped walk us through the process & supported us the whole way through. Barbara wrote a beautiful, personalized sermon for us, which resulted in a magical ceremony.
I had the most beautiful & enjoyable time watching my dear friend & her wonderful groom get married by Barbara. Right after hugging the bride & groom, I went right over to tell Barbara how special, warm & intimate she made the ceremony. We have become great friends ever sent, I feel so blessed to have her in my life. ❤️❤️🎉
Response from the Vendor on 09/30/2019
Thank your your kindness. Their wedding was so incredible, spiritual and sweet.
The ceremony Barbara created was more than what I expected and engaging for our attendees. We appreciated that Barbara even took the time to translate parts of the wedding in Spanish and worked with our friend who helped in translating in Spanish at the ceremony. Thank you so much for all your hard work!
We thought we could create a ceremony at the courthouse ourselves, but when were overwhelmed, we were glad we found Barbara! We were fortunate that she was available. From the moment we began planning with her until the end, she was available to us, helpful, and kind. She created a ceremony that embodies both of us. My goal was for simple elegance...and to make people cry and they did! Overall, it was magical, beautiful, and TRULY beyond what we had hoped for! We love her so much that we hope to keep in contact with her for years to come if that in and of itself says anything!
Response from the Vendor on 09/29/2019
Thank you for your kindness. I loved getting to know you as individuals and as an INCREDIBLE couple!
We give Barbara our absolute highest recommendation -- 5 stars, 110%, 11 on a scale of 10! She is warm, calm, authentic, comforting, and absolutely passionate about helping couples through their wedding planning and ceremony. She spend abundant time getting to know us individually and as a couple, understanding our vision for our ceremony, providing examples of sections to ponder, and putting together all of our ideas into the perfect ceremony plan. On our big day, she set the tone for our guests, delivered the content beautifully, and let my wife and I enjoy the experience. We began with a wonderful meditation moment, which Barbara led, that allowed everyone to relax and become present to take in the beauty of the setting and the ceremony. Barbara was warm and professional, at times both serious and humorous in her delivery. She wove in heartwarming tributes to our families, and incorporated some light traditions from each of our religious and cultural backgrounds. Many of our guests mentioned that our ceremony was the favorite they had attended in a long time, or ever. Thank you Barbara, for your sincerity and passion, and for making our wedding as memorable as we could have hoped for.
Response from the Vendor on 01/10/2022
Thank you for this beautiful heartfelt reveiw. You and Michael are a fabulous couple!
Barbara truly has a gift. She helped us create the most beautiful ceremony that was so personal and heartfelt. Her warmth put us at ease right from the start and she guided us through the entire process. Our ceremony was so full of love and many family members immediately complemented Barbara for guiding the ceremony and making each moment special. In addition to all of this, she helped walk us through the marriage license logistics as well and helped us with every detail. I cannot say enough about Barbara and would recommend her to anyone for their special day.
Response from the Vendor on 07/23/2019
You are an incredible couple! I am inspired by your connection and devotion. It was delightful to be part of your big day. Warmly, Barbara
Among the first things my husband and I expressed to one another the day after our beautiful wedding was our total joy in having chosen Barbara to officiate our wedding. She was nothing short of perfection from start to finish. She made what can otherwise be a daunting process meaningful, tailored, participatory, and so, so enjoyable. Barbara's working with us on developing and effecting a unique ceremony made all the difference. She was and is amazing!
My husband and I are honored to have had Barbara officiate our wedding. She is truly a delight - a warm, caring and beautiful soul. What makes Barbara so special is that she took the time to get to know both of us so she could tell our story. She incorporated our love of nature and the outdoors, our feelings for each other, my love of dancing and Cherokee heritage into our ceremony, making it truly personal, unique and beautiful. We not only found a fantastic officiant in Barbara, we found a wonderful friend. We are so grateful and happy. Thank you so much, Barbara!
Response from the Vendor on 05/28/2019
It was a great joy to officiate at your wedding! Every element was superb! The Fess Parker Vineyard awakened beauty and expansion and your personal vows touched hearts. Wishing you both a lifetime of incredible adventures and love. ~Barbara
Barbara was so warm, caring, and engaging. She genuinely cared about making our wedding special. She did an amazing job and I can not thank her enough.
Response from the Vendor on 05/20/2019
Dear Wayne,
Your wedding was magical and memorable. It was a great joy to be part of your celebration!
~Barbara
Barbara Rose Sherman is truly amazing. Her gift of holding space, creating ritual, and honoring our special love story, was all evident when she officiated our wedding in March. Barbara is sincere and truly cares about making your wedding ceremony as special as possible. She took the time to really get to know us.
Our guests raved about her, everyone felt the love. The poetry, the honoring of tradition, the blessings, and story telling by Barbara made our wedding ceremony one of a kind and one that people still talk about.
Thank you dearest Barbara.
Response from the Vendor on 05/20/2019
Dear Krista,
I was deeply moved by the depth of your love, devotion and connection. Your ceremony was perfect--like your endless love with Wayne.
~Barbara
Cannot recommend Barbara enough! We had so many guests tell us how beautiful our ceremony was and how great of a job she did. More importantly Barbara was always a ray of light when she was working with us. Calm, understanding and enthusiastic. She acted as if we were her only wedding she had to focus on. We truly felt that she wanted us to be happy and have the most memorable day possible. She knows how to speak to love and make a ceremony personal to you. I was routinely impressed with her suggestions and advice. Meeting with Barbara was enough for us to know our officiant search was over.
Response from the Vendor on 05/10/2019
Dear Britney,
Thank you for this stunning review! The deep love, connection, and joy that you and Aviv share inspire me. I am so happy that I was part of your gorgeous wedding day celebration.
Wishing you a lifetime of happiness,
Barbara
Having Barbara as our officiant on our wedding day was a true pleasure. She really cares about the couples she works with and considers it an honor to work with them. Her love for her work shines. She made our ceremony wonderful. She sets a wonderful tone.
We were in contact with Barbara for many months leading up to the day, and we loved every bit of it. She is very experienced, responsive, friendly, caring, and detail oriented. She thinks about the little things such as how you want to be introduced, how you should stand during the ceremony, lighting for photos, family dynamics, what paperwork to have ready, etc., etc. If you haven't thought of it yet, chances are she will. :-)
Barbara is also great fun! We had several phone and video chats with her, in addition to an in-person meeting, and we laughed and had a great time! She brought us peace of mind that she would take good care of us on the day of. She asked lots of questions and corresponded with us about our relationship and used what she learned to write a very meaningful and beautiful ceremony. We loved, loved, loved our unique ceremony and so did our guests and family.
Barbara is also very generous and helpful, willing to advise on questions you may have, or to lend a helping hand on the wedding day. For this, we were very grateful. If you are looking for an experienced, calming, caring, fun, flexibile officiant who listens and really cares about you and gets to know you, Barbara is your person!
Barbara made our day extremely special and played such an important role in our wedding. Her ceremony was thoughtful and filled with love. I would highly recommend Barbara to anyone looking for an officiant that truly cares. Our guests couldn’t stop raving!
Barb was amazing when she officiated our wedding and is truly a dear friend now afterwards. What a pleasant experience she made it - so helpful throughout the process which can be, at times, a lot!
Our ceremony was beautiful and she provided so man great ideas for us. Selecting readings and poems was a big part for us and she helped out amazingly!
All of our guests couldn’t stop talking about how amazing the ceremony was and she was such a hit!
Thanks barb!!!
Response from the Vendor on 10/15/2018
Everything about your wedding was perfect--the deep devotion you share, the gorgeous meaningful vows you recited, the venue, the music,, and the warmth of your families and friends. It was an honor to be part of this incredible day!
I’m so happy that Barbara officiated our wedding. She captured our relationship after speaking with us a few times. She is warm, very thoughtful and great to work with.
Response from the Vendor on 10/14/2018
Thank you for posting your review. Getting to know you as a couple and helping you create your ceremony was a great joy!
Sending you and your beautiful family abundant kindness,
Barbara
Barbara is amazing, heatfelt, warm, and full of love. She made our wedding day so special, respecting both my wife’s and my cultures equally. She continues to stay in touch with us, even after two years! We feel so lucky to have Barbara in our lives. We highly recommend Barbara as an officiant for your wedding day too! MāLō (thank you in Tongan!)
Response from the Vendor on 10/06/2018
Thank you for your kindness and lovely review. Getting to know you as individuals and as a couple brought me abundant joy!
Barbara is phenomenal! We can't say enough about the presence, depth and devotion she brought to our ceremony. She went above and beyond. We are bonded forever. Anyone would be blessed to have her be part of their special day.
Barbara officiated our daughter's wedding and we loved her. Barbara was very loving and caring and really took time to get to know our daughter and son-in-law during their engagement. It was the most beautiful ceremony! We highly recommend Barbara!
Having the right officiant for our wedding was so important to me! I am spiritual but not religious and appreciate writings from a variety of spiritual/religious teachers. We could not have found a more perfect officiant than Barbara! She really "got" what we wanted in our unique ceremony. She set a warm, loving and joyous tone and carried it all the way through.
Barbara Rose Sherman is nothing less than fantastic! As an officiant of our wedding she helped us craft a ceremony that reflected the spiritual and loving approach we so wanted. As a fellow human being, we felt a deep and abiding connection to someone whose love of life shines through everything she does. I cannot offer a stronger recommendation. Thank you Barbara!
When it came time to look for an officiant, my husband and I explored the option of having a close friend or family member marry us because we wanted the ceremony to be performed by someone who knew us and our story.
We eventually decided that the only people who could do that were already in our wedding. So we decided to turn to The Knot, and that’s were we came across Barbara. We had looked at several profiles but as soon as we read Barbara’s, we were instantly drawn to her and just knew she was the person we wanted to marry us.
I am not sure how we could be so drawn to a stranger, but we felt a connection.
When we reached out to Barbara, she was very warm and gracious right away. We spoke on the phone and she asked about our lives and our relationship and we talked as if we were already friends.
Our wedding was about a year away and she took the time to really get to know us both. We met in Santa Barbara for lunch, we spoke over the phone several times, emailed and texted over the course of the year. She always reached out to ask how were, how the planning was going and even asked if we needed any help!
I’m not exactly sure what the role of an officiant is, but she definitely exceeded our expectations! Barbara was truly invested and felt like family.
Our ceremony and all the things she said were so beautiful. Barbara exuded love, compassion and connected to us, our family and friends with such an open heart. We love her spirit and ease to connect to make us feel happy, calm and truly cared for.
Barbara became the family member we wanted to perform our ceremony. We made a friend for life.
With Love & Gratitude,
Nhat and Cassa Tran
I am not a decisive bride.
I was having a destination wedding in Santa Barbara and Barbara came highly recommended from her reviews alone. Upon first communication, she was the most helpful officiant I could have ever imagined. She was always willing to help, not just with ceremony details. But ANY wedding details. Offering to look at venues, go to tastings, recommend restaurants for my rehearsal dinner, find items for my gift bags. Anything I needed, she was willing to do. Barbara took the time to get to know us, not just as a couple, but as individuals as well, and as a result the ceremony was perfect. We will always remember the kind words she said, and how comfortable she made us feel throughout the entire process. We can’t thank her enough.
Barbara went above and beyond to take the time to get to know us, make our ceremony personalized, and special to us. Her ideas and experience really helped us to shape what we were looking for in regards to the ceremony. She was able to guide us through the process step by step which was extremely helpful. She was always available to help us in any aspect of our wedding, and was so flexible and accommodating with us up to the day of! She made us feel at ease that everything would go smoothly and it did! We are so grateful to have had Barbara as part of our special day.