I wish I could say BSF was fabulous but it unfortunately wasn’t. There were multiple things wrong with my TWO events held there.
I was a 2020 covid bride- when things needed to ch...ange, Dorothy was accommodating to help me find a new date (from a cancelation) to have a very small and intimate ceremony and dinner. The inn on the other hand was not & outed me lots of money for cancelling…like it was my choice.
So we will start with that day’s BIGGEST mishap (there was more than one)— our best man asked for a drink PRIOR to the ceremony & Dustin allowed it to happen, never once asking myself or my husband. He then proceeded to let them bring it into the ceremony space and guests had drinks sitting on the floor during the ceremony. This is suppose to be a high class establishment, Dustin allowed it to be trashy. I was appalled. I was about to walk down the aisle and I am fuming over this, not something I should have gone through.
Fast forward a year to my one year anniversary celebration. Unfortunately, covid put a change in plans for that as well and I was stuck having it in a tent off the back of the barn. I showed up about a week before my event to look at the tent with Dorothy, that day- it was nearly empty, but a couple tables pushed to the side for me to get the picture. Fine, I accepted the fact that once again I wasn’t getting what I wanted and I am paying an outrageous amount to use a tent. I ask to bring items the morning of and a time, the time is okay’d by Dorothy. Well, show up and there is Dustin and says he will “be right down to the tent” and for us to head down. We do and THIRTY minutes later, he comes down on the golf cart. No tables are set up, there is a HUGE ugly black stage (that wasn’t there the week prior when I okay’d the tent), and Dustin is short and snotty with us, looks hungover & acting like he rather be anywhere else as we are trying to set up right behind him doing the table settings because again, nothing was done. He’s pulling table cloths out of bags, so they have giant creases down them. We get everything set up and it’s a little windy so he said he would be down prior to the even to check on things and set up the place cards. While my parents get there 30 mins prior to the event and of course, Dustin hasn’t done anything he promised and one of my frames from my memory table is now shattered on the ground. Great. We are told to have our guests walk down and around to the back of the barn, well that path is COVERED in horse manure. It was so embarrassing and frustrating- I was told when we booked how they clean everything up, even inside the horse pens, yeah right- what a lie. So it starts off frustrating, just like the year before, but I decide to let myself have a good time because I deserved it. Dinner was fine- but they passed it out ridiculously. They started with table 1 (their numbering system not mine) instead of thinking, I bet we should do the parents and close relative tables first that are closed to the guests of honor (again, this was all run by Dustin). The night goes on, everyone is having a good time and we know the ordinance states we need to be done by 10pm, no problem. But I am not exaggerating when I say Dustin had his team start clearing tables AND moving them before 9pm. They shoved things into boxes & ruined over half my painted vases that my dad spent so much time on. If Dustin doesn’t run the special events portion of BSF into the ground, I will be shocked.