If you're considering hiring Melissa, you'll want to read this. Forgive me for this is long, and I had to edit a lot to fit the character limit (my review on WeddingWire includes all details).
1. Working with Melissa was extremely stressful, and she really proved that she wasn't "devoted to us" at any step of the process.
2. She presented a budget that didn't include her own services; she made us feel cheap for trying to stretch our limited budget.
3. Her attitude throughout the entire year we worked with her was condescending and patronizing - she made us feel stupid for not knowing certain things about planning a wedding, and made us feel bad for wanting to stretch our limited budget.
4. She sometimes took weeks to respond, only answered the last question of many, and never apologized for late replies.
5. She cancelled, rescheduled, and even no-showed several of our Zoom meetings.
6. She provided few options for venues and made us feel pressured to choose one right away.
7. Setup was not even near finished by the time we arrived at our venue, 30 minutes before the ceremony was to begin.
8. Guests weren't being directed where to go, and walked into the inside space where all vendors were still unpacking and setting up. This was embarrassing. I asked Melissa to direct guests to the ceremony space and she did, but this isn't something we should have had to consider at all.
9. She was hard to find all day, and her attitude was quite rude to whomever talked with her.
10. We had a welcome mirror that was heavy and only waist-height. I told her that we want the mirror to be placed higher up - she reassured us that she'd put it on a bench and it would be fine. When we arrived on the day of, it was propped on the ground and tied to a pole. When I asked what happened, she nonchalantly mentioned "oh, it wasn't going to stay on the bench." She really didn't care.
11. Most guests told us later that they never knew the cake was available. We don't know what happened to it after the event and we never got to try any besides our small piece at the cake cutting.
12. When the event ended, I was baffled by how rude she was to my parents and our guests, ordering people to tear things down and clean up. She told our friend/officiant, who was a special guest to us and did us a huge favor officiating our wedding, to begin loading boxes into cars. It was extremely embarrassing for us that he was ordered around like this after all he did for us.
13. We didn't know what happened to all the leftover food. In the end it was a miscommunication error on her part, and she never apologized or acknowledged that she never asked us directly what we wanted done with it, and didn't seem to care that we were upset about not being able to enjoy the food we paid so much for.
14. We received zero follow-up communication from Melissa, honestly solidifying for us that she really did not care about us or our wedding, and may have been salty about not receiving a tip (I could not, in good conscience, tip her for the service she provided, and we did tip well the vendors who provided good service).
For what it's worth, her assistant Ellen who was there on the day of was very helpful, thoughtful, and caring - we only knew her for a few hours but wished she had been our planner instead.
Overwhelmingly, the most stressful aspect of our wedding planning was working with Melissa, and I could not recommend her to anybody.