We stayed at the main house during our wedding weekend which was very beautiful. The view was breathtaking from our room on the top floor (#101) & the decor was charming. The room ...was clean & spacious. The only complaint we had was the clawfoot tub. Although adorable, we felt as if we were enclosed in a tomb. We had to stand sideways to avoid getting the shower curtain stuck to us. It felt disgusting to think that it had stuck to so many other people before us. The breakfast served was basic, nothing to write home about. At our rehearsal, my husband asked Phil Lusty (co-owner) about using the outdoor extension cord Patty (employee) had promised us for our ceremony music. Phil appeared intoxicated and was rude to my husband, acting put out while stating they didn't have one. My sister’s boyfriend had to return to Portsmouth that evening to retrieve an extension cord. During set up of our wedding, I noticed that my flowers were not on tall white columns that Patty had also promised me via email (we had seen these columns at a wedding in progress when we visited). When we inquired about them, the person behind the counter had no idea what we were talking about, and said there was no such thing, that “people bring their own" if they want them. My wedding flowers had to remain on the ground as there was nothing to put them on. Had I known that they weren't available, I would've accepted the florist's offer to rent them. Before the wedding, we paid for all non-alcoholic drinks for our guests to enjoy. As soon as the bar opened, the bartender started charging our guest for these drinks. We know this because my step-children approached us asking for money as they were told to pay. We immediately told the bartender that this was previously arranged & paid for. We know some of our guests ended up paying which was embarrassing for us. Once seated inside the restaurant, no one came to serve us drinks for 15 minutes. We had to ask the waiter to serve us. Because no one was coming, some of our guests went to the bar where Phil & 2 of his employees were seated. They wouldn't look at my guests nor acknowledge them until my brother asked if he could buy a drink, to which Phil laughed. I later found out that we were supposed to go to the bar to get drinks, but we were never informed of this by Patty. So, while my guests ended up going to the bar to get their drinks (as they unknowingly did what was expected) they were not attended to until several minutes passed & had to ask for service. After the wedding, we asked our waiters if we could order and bring drinks to our room, to which they said yes. When my sister & her boyfriend went to the bar to get us drinks for our room, they was treated rudely by the bartender & said our tab was closed. When we checked out the morning after our wedding, & paid a large sum of money for the weekend, we weren't thanked once for choosing the Dockside for our special day nor for the sum we paid. The man who checked us out and took our money was Eric Lusty, Phil’s brother and co-owner. If we were treated kindly & with even a small amount of appreciation by the owners, we would've walked away feeling as if our day was almost perfect. We could've brushed off some of the things that went wrong. Instead we felt these people really don’t care about their patrons at all. All they appear to care about is the money coming in. And as long as they have the land and view, they can continue to be arrogant and rude towards customers.