One star is more than generous.
MEETINGS: Heather prefers email. When we had a face to face she was in a hurry to get out of town for thanksgiving so we were rushed. NOTHING was discussed about the wedding day or how it would play out. I w...as trusting her time line, and i realize now that was foolish and i should have demanded a second meeting. but i trusted this "professional"
REHEARSAL: chaos. Heather suggested the bridesmaids walk into the garden/ ceremony the way SHE thought they should walk in.(which was not what i wanted) but why ask the bride? she didnt expalin to the ushers who they were walking with (family members or guests, and when she was asked to show the ushers how they should escort someone she looked at us like that wasnt her job.
WEDDING DAY: when we got to the venue she had me walk right past the groom to get to the ceremony. we locked eyes but he turned his head because HE knew it was important.
CEREMONY: when i walked down the aisle i noticed MY FAMILY sitting in the LAST AISLES!!!! she forgot to reserve the family section! and, if it was my job, then i wish she would have reminded me because i would have told my friends to move! family that traveled from Texas, Korea, Massachusetts..... WHAT WAS SHE THINKING, or , not thinking!!! again, one of the many things i would have covered if she would have put a little more time into our meeting.
RECEPTION: once the ceremony was over, coordinating pictures was a nightmare. i had nobody to help me, and my photographer was from France so his English wasn't good enough to wrangle the cattle, so to speak. after pictures, i was escorted through the reception, to get back to the brides room. i smiled but was extremely upset that i wasn't taken in a more discreet way.
TEA CEREMONY: my husband is half Korean, so i wore a traditional Korean bridal gown for our tea ceremony. the Korean gown was a gift and custom made....... after we finished Heather actually said that i need to hurry up and change because "people need to eat". side note: we had 2 hours of hors de ourves to prevent having to rush and to keep people fed.
when it came time to announce the bridal party heather chose the worst possible way to do it, so last minute my maid honor changed it. i just found out, and im grateful she did change it.
when we sat down to dinner, i noticed the tables had round table cloths instead of square. Heather was in charge of putting that order in.
my garter wasnt in the brides room when i got there, so when i asked for it at dinner it was the wrong one. to this day, i have no clue whose garter i was wearing. the one i was supposed to wear was the garter i caught at our best friends wedding, i had been saving it for years (heather was given that item at rehearsal)
THE PART I CRIED: end of the wedding, my dad asked me why didnt he get to dance with the bride!? my biggest fear was i'd forget something, and nobody would remind me. i had forgotten one of the most precious parts of a wedding for a bride. if my dj dropped the ball, then heather shouldve walked up to me and said "we can fit it in".
I have been married 1 month, and i still get upset when i think about these things. do yourself a favor, dont take the chance of missing a dance with the father of the bride because your coordinator is bad at what she does.