We had a December wedding here and it was fantastic. As a Fredericksburg native who is now living elsewhere, I had only ever seen the Inn from the less-than-inspiring Princess Ann...e side. When looking at venues all around Virginia with my now-husband, we finally went inside the Inn and Mill and both fell instantly in love with the possibilities for the spaces.
Inn: It was wonderful to have many of our guests able to stay right on site. Most of our guests, and my now-husband's entire family, are from out-of-state, so this allowed everyone to feel local for the weekend. The parlor served as an easy gathering-point at all times of day.
Reception: The Mill is often described as a "blank slate," and it definitely provides all sorts of opportunities to decorate as you like; that said, the owners have also introduced many thoughtful design details that feel elegant and fun, without limiting your decoration options. It was so convenient that tables. chairs, and linens were handled as part of the rental. We chose to rent chiviari chairs, but were able to do that as part of our venue contract -- as details mount in wedding planning, this was so good.
Courtyard: For cocktail hour between ceremony and reception, we had guests go to the courtyard, which we'd tented. It worked very well for 150 guests and provided a great on-site cocktail hour location.
Chapel: You definitely need to have a vision for decorating the chapel, as it is only recently opened and still needs the details that make the Mill so great. That said, with some dedicated friends the morning of, it was a beautiful space for our ceremony.
Wakefield Room: We used the Wakefield Room as a a getting-ready room for the ladies, as the location for a kids reception during the reception, and for a Sunday brunch the next day. It was a great space for all three, versatile, comfortable, and elegant.
Day of Coordinator: Sarah was amazing. She was professional and detail-oriented and, at the same time, calming, kind, and just the right amount of funny. Especially after talking with other brides about their nightmare day-of coordinator experiences at other venues, I cannot say enough good things about Sarah.
Cons: The only con, truly, was that there was confusion around the welcome bags my mother had prepared for guests. Many of the guests staying at the Inn did not receive theirs, even after I double-checked names/room numbers the day before the wedding. Things happen, and they have assured me, they've figured out a better system for the future.