Extraordinary elegance and distinctive style.
Holds ceremonies and receptions
Bobby Fader
DIRECTOR OF CATERING
Typically responds within 24h
AWARD WINNER (6X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Located in La Jolla, CA, La Valencia Hotel has been an iconic destination since the year 1926. A perfect getaway spot for a wedding or honeymoon, this hotel has seen foot traffic from some of Hollywood's most elusive elites. With over 90 years of indulgent hosting experience, this iconic tower has drawn in many guests amongst its signature pink walls.
La Valencia Hotel, also known as Pink Lady, is a landmark amongst La Jolla's distinctive Prospect Street. Situated in the village bluffs with panoramic views of the Pacific coastline and beautiful La Jolla Cove, this hotel offers a scenic backdrop. Inside, there are 114 pet-friendly rooms, suites, and villas. With features ranging from cozy boudoirs to a captivating penthouse or exclusive villas, this property is sure to make a lasting impact on guests.
With its premier vantage point and stunning vistas, La Valencia Hotel enjoys the Pacific Ocean in its backyard. Romantic and enticing, this destination is one of California's most sought-after locations. It's perfect for celebrations and social events of all kinds, and guests of events here can enjoy pristine stretches of coastline. Here, wedding hosts can immerse themselves in an environment of classic glamour and coastal charm. Inclusive of elegant and dramatic indoor and outdoor venues, La Valencia Hotel has plenty of celebratory locations to choose from. Vows can be exchanged before sweeping views of the ocean, or within the palm-lined garden. Afterward, receptions can take place in the chic ballroom and adjacent terrace. Embodying timeless grace, La Valencia Hotel can be your dream-come-true destination for the creation of new traditions and adventures.
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Amenities
Ceremony Area
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
On-Site Accommodations
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Ballroom
Beach
Waterfront
Garden
Historic Venue
Hotel
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks
Destination Weddings
Destination Wedding Packages
Destination Wedding Planning
Food & Catering
Planning
Destination Wedding Planning
Service Staff
Awards and Affiliations
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Meet the team
Bobby Fader
Director of Catering
My name is Bobby Fader, Director of Catering and I am delighted to be part of the La Valencia family for the past 13 years, contributing to the magic of unforgettable moments.
With over three decades of dedicated service in the social and wedding industry, I've had the privilege of playing a small yet meaningful role in creating joyous occasions for our cherished guests. The last decade at La Valencia has been particularly rewarding and I take pride in our collective achievements, reflected in our impressive 105 five-star reviews on theknot.com. This success is a testament to the outstanding support team at the Pink Lady, whose dedication and professionalism have been instrumental in crafting memorable experiences for our clients.
At la Valencia, we believe in making every event extraordinary, and we look forward to exceeding your expectations with our commitment to excellence and passion for creating moments that linger in the heart. Join us at La Valencia where exceptional events come to life.
Reviews
4.9
out of 5.0173 reviews
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La Valencia is an iconic, historic beachfront venue with timeless Mediterranean charm and stunning photo backdrops. Guests praise the attentive, organized staff (notably Bobby and Dani) and seamless communication that made planning effortless. The food, service, and execution were repeatedly called phenomenal, and the venue is highly recommended.Review photos
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Rose B
5.0
5/05/2026
We had the most incredible experience with La Valencia Hotel for our wedding! From the very beginning, we were drawn to the timeless, classic feel of the property, and it delivered...
on that vision in every possible way.
Throughout the entire process, communication was exceptional. We worked with Bobby during booking and Dani for planning and execution, and they were an outstanding team. Everything felt thoughtful, organized, and completely seamless from start to finish.
The venue itself is absolutely stunning, but what truly sets La Valencia apart is the level of service. The entire staff was attentive, polished, and incredibly professional, ensuring the evening flowed effortlessly. Every detail was handled with care, allowing us to be fully present and enjoy each moment.
The food was phenomenal, and our guests are still talking about it. We received so many compliments on the setting, the service, and the overall experience.
Looking back, our wedding felt exactly as we had envisioned, timeless, elegant, and truly perfect. There is not a single thing we would change. We feel so lucky to have celebrated at La Valencia and could not recommend it more highly!
Ciara R
5.0
4/29/2026
Having grown up just a few blocks from this stunning, historic Hotel, it was an absolute dream come true to have our wedding reception here. Bobby Fader, Director of Catering, and ...
his team made everything so easy and enjoyable. The entire day and night was executed perfectly and allowed us to be completely invested in the celebration without having to think or worry about a single thing! I cannot recommend this venue enough!! We went back to celebrate our 1 year anniversary and will continue to revisit for years to come!
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Sarah K
5.0
4/13/2026
La Valencia was perfect for our daughter's wedding. The overall vibe was exactly what we were looking for - personal, classy, vintage, and comfortable. The venue was the perfect si...
ze for our 60-person wedding, and so beautiful with the ocean backdrop and landscape. There are lots of amazing spots for photography.
From the moment we toured the venue, to planning details along the way, to the big day, communication was excellent. The hotel suggested vendors for our wedding that made vendor selection easy, and all of them were equally fantastic. The service the entire weekend was outstanding. The bridal suite was a fantastic space for the girls to get ready, made even better by the mimosas and treats the staff brought up. The team also went above and beyond for our family, even using the hotel golf carts to shuttle the grandparents to nearby restaurants so they wouldn't have to walk far.
The food at the wedding was top-notch, with many guests raving about the meal. I was impressed with the number of wait staff who made sure the evening went smoothly. Overall, it was an incredible event, and we highly recommend La Valencia hotel.
Meagan M
5.0
3/18/2026
We absolutely loved having our wedding at La Valencia. It's an iconic part of La Jolla, and it turned out better than we could have ever imagined. Working with Bobby and his team w...
as great. They are responsive and transparent. Would highly recommend this venue to anyone!
madeleine a
5.0
3/11/2026
This hotel was absolutely perfect for our wedding. It has old world charm you just can’t find anywhere and an amazing view. The staff are incredibly attentive, warm, and great to w...
ork with.
Yasmine S
5.0
2/20/2026
We got married at La Valencia and it was a dream come true! The setting overlooking the water, the charming coastal shops and restaurants nearby, and the iconic pink exterior with ...
its 1920s old Hollywood feel are pure magic. Bobby Fader, Dani Hendricks, and the entire team took incredible care of us and made the day seamless and unforgettable. Our guests are still talking about it, and so many said it was the best wedding dinner they have ever had. It feels like a second home to us now, and we cannot recommend it enough!
RICHARD D
5.0
2/06/2026
Bobby Fader and La Valencia hotel way out exceeded our expectations with our wedding. Every one of our guests were very impressed with your facility , staff including the food dri...
nks appetizers etc. We were given top notch service a top-notch facility with top-notch food. Saving the best for last our top-notch coordinators Bobby Fader-Dani.
Taylor C
5.0
12/19/2025
Truly the best experience from start to finish for our wedding. The staff is exceptional and made our day run so smoothly. Communication, professionalism, and the way we were cared...
for during our wedding stay was amazing. Highly highly recommend!!!
Laura G
5.0
12/09/2025
Booking this venue was by far the best decision we made during the wedding process. Not only is the venue so gorgeous you don’t even need that many decorations, Bobby and Dani were...
so amazing and responsive in helping us plan everything for the big day. Then during the actual big day, everything ran incredibly smoothly and Bobby even helped us with little things like printing out our vows and speeches and finding a collar stay last minute for my brother. The venue’s preferred vendor list is impeccable and I trusted them each step of the way. We got married in December and had a complimentary sparkling wine welcome for our guests and an extra 30 minutes to the day. Essentially if you’re thinking even a little bit about looking into La Valencia you should book them now!
Anastasia S
5.0
12/02/2025
La Valencia Hotel was the perfect setting for our wedding on November 22, 2025. The space was beautiful and the staff were fantastic with food, drinks, and service, while being ver...
y respectful and accommodating of our Greek wedding traditions. The dance floor was packed all night and our guests are still talking about how fun it was. The food was delicious, the bar service was great, and we are so grateful we chose this venue.
Olivia I
5.0
11/24/2025
Choosing La Valencia as our wedding venue was truly one of the best decisions we made. From start to finish, the experience was flawless. The property itself is absolutely stunning...
, but what made it unforgettable was the incredible team behind it. Bobby and Dani were an absolute dream to work with — warm, organized, communicative, and genuinely invested in making our day perfect.
Our guests could not stop raving about the gorgeous setting, the exceptional staff, and the unbelievably good food. Every detail was handled with care, and we felt so supported throughout the entire process.
Our wedding day was everything we hoped for and so much more. We’re forever grateful for the memories they helped us create!
Jessica J
5.0
11/17/2025
Bobby and Dani at La Valencia truly made our dream day a reality and absolutely go above and beyond. From our first tour, to the tasting, rehearsal, and wedding day - everything r...
an so smoothly. The team has clear packages, pricing, and communication that made everything straightforward. Their attention to detail and care could be seen with every interaction. The chef and team were easily able to accommodate food allergies for our full reception menu and we loved how customized the day felt to us. If you are looking for a beautiful wedding with delicious food overlooking the cove in La Jolla, this is the place for you!
Kelsey J
5.0
11/16/2025
Dani and Bobby were excellent to work with. We loved this venue from the moment we saw it and met with Bobby. The hotel’s Mediterranean aesthetic was perfect for our Italian themed...
wedding. The views were incredible, rain or shine, and the indoor outdoor option was great to help keep people cool while dancing. They are also dog friendly and had great recommendations for us for a dog sitter the day of. Having that really helped us enjoy the day knowing our pup was taken care of.
Melissa W
5.0
11/13/2025
Bobby and Dani were great at communicating and answering all of our questions leading up to the wedding. We really enjoyed the food tasting and they even made us our specialty drin...
k. On the day of our wedding, the staff were kind and attentive to our needs. The ceremony was picturesque with La Jolla sunset as our backdrop and the venue was of course beautiful and classic. The food was delicious and was greatly enjoyed by our guests. We are extremely happy that we choose La Valencia Hotel for our wedding, thanks to the awesome team led by Bobby and Dani!
Allison P
5.0
11/06/2025
Bobby and Dani went above and beyond from day 1. They worked with our budget in order to allow us to have the most perfect day we could've imagined and after hearing our vision con...
nected us with the most amazing day-of coordinator to make it everything we could have dreamed of and more. We had multiple people come out of their way to tell us it was the one of, if not the best wedding they had been too with most saying it was due to the staff and uniqueness of the hotel! Cannot say thank you enough to the entire team!
Courtney A
5.0
11/05/2025
Working with Bobby and Dani at La Valencia was simply the best thing we did for our wedding weekend. If you want your wedding to go absolutely perfectly with little involvement on ...
your end, have it at La Valencia. The food was amazing, the decor was amazing, the treatment was amazing, absolutely wonderful of a weekend!
Brittany R
5.0
10/29/2025
My now-husband and I fell in love with La Valencia a few years ago, and from that moment, no other wedding venue we toured even came close. As soon as we stepped onto the property,...
we just knew it was the one. It is STUNNING and all pink. Which just happens to be my favorite color!
From our very first interaction with Bobby Fader, La Valencia’s Director of Catering, we were incredibly impressed. Bobby was the epitome of professionalism—warm, responsive, and so experienced. His assistant Dani was equally wonderful—attentive, knowledgeable, and always one step ahead.
Bobby told us the food would be amazing, and he was absolutely right. Our guests are still talking about how delicious everything was—especially the filet mignon! The vendor referrals for florists, after-party venues, and entertainment were all top-notch, making the planning process so smooth.
On the wedding day itself, we were so well taken care of. Dani seemed to be everywhere at once, making sure every detail was perfect. Bobby even joined us to celebrate, which meant so much since we had built such a great connection with him throughout the planning process. He even helped hold my veil and dress as I walked down the aisle—a moment I’ll never forget!
We are endlessly grateful to the entire La Valencia team for helping us create our dream wedding. Everything was flawless—from the service to the setting—and we couldn’t recommend this venue more highly to anyone looking to host a truly unforgettable event in one of the most beautiful places in California.
Giulia T
5.0
10/23/2025
We are so happy we had our wedding at La Valencia this July. From start to finish, Bobby and Dani were so amazing to work with. They were extremely communicative and responsive, an...
d had our best interest in mind throughout the entire process. The venue itself is iconic and beautiful, but the team that goes above and beyond is what truly made the experience special. The food was amazing, there was great drink service, and Bobby and Dani made sure the wedding day went smoothly. I cannot recommend La Valencia enough, and I am so glad we chose them for our special day.
Lauren M
5.0
10/17/2025
I cannot say enough about La Valencia, Bobby, or Dani. La Valencia, the pink lady, is known to be one of the best most gorgeous hotels in all of San Diego, and for good reason. Not...
only is the property stunning (and I have stayed at my fair share of 5 star hotels around the world), but the service is impeccable too. I hosted my wedding here this month, and every part from the site visit, to the menu tasting, to the room blocks, to the incredible service at the pool (Mike is the absolute best!), was perfect from start to finish. I received nothing but compliments from 90+ guests, and it is a true testament to the hotel, to Bobby, Dani, Mike, and every other single staff member of this hotel. We are already talking about having a yearly vacation here to celebrate our anniversary, and I cannot wait to go back.
Cheyenne B
5.0
10/16/2025
La Valencia was beautiful and exactly what we hoped for. The food was great, the views are amazing, and the communication with the coordinators was excellent. Bobby and Dani were g...
reat to work with and made our day even more special.
Helen R
5.0
10/15/2025
Perfect venue if you want the most scenic, exquisite, and fun wedding! Service and food was exceptional. Bobby and Dani made sure every detail was perfect. They made all 90 of o...
ur guests feel special while delivering a dream wedding to our bride and groom.
Hannah B
5.0
10/10/2025
We had our October 2025 wedding at La Valencia and it was the best day of our lives. As an out of town couple, it felt like a risk picking a venue and putting our full trust into t...
he team. Picking La Valencia as our venue was the best decision we made! Bobby and Dani were amazing to work with- they listened to us and made sure our dream day became a reality. They were always available for questions and we could not have had our wedding without them! The entire La Valencia staff was extremely professional, kind, and accommodating which made a lasting impression on us and our guests. The food was unreal- from the passed appetizers to the main course- and was easily the best food we've had at a a wedding (biased, I know). The location was stunning and the pictures turned out amazing. There is not one complaint we have from our wedding. If you are thinking of having your wedding at La Valencia- do it! We wish we could relive it over and over again.
Sarah T
5.0
10/06/2025
WOW. La Valencia, Bobby, and Dani brought all of our dreams to life on our wedding day this August. The venue itself is unbeatable in its charm and beauty, and it was the perfect s...
pace for our 80-person wedding, cocktail hour, and reception. The team at La Valencia thought of everything and they guided us kindly and thoroughly through every step of the way. Bobby and Dani are kind, open, and welcoming, and their dedication and passion to their job is clear in everything they do. They brought a wonderful feel good energy to our wedding that, combined with their attention to detail and dedicated planning, put us at ease and amplified our joy on the big day. It really felt like they took care of everything and that our wedding was truly the perfect day. Additionally, the food absolutely wowed us and our guests are still talking about how delicious everything was. We wouldn’t change a thing and we can’t wait to visit La V over the years and return to the best day of our lives.
Teresa P
5.0
9/24/2025
I cannot say enough fabulous things about the La Valencia. As soon as we walked in for our tour we knew it was perfect, and the customer service matches the hype of the ven...
ue. Bobby and Dani in particular were so efficient and easy to work with. The food and drinks were delicious. The views are unmatched. Leading up to the wedding they were very supportive and attentive and that carried through the day of as well! If you are contemplating booking La Valencia for your event, or even for just a stay, you will not be disappointed!
Allexys O
5.0
8/09/2025
We received so many compliments from our guests saying this was the most beautiful wedding they have ever attended.
Bobby and Dani are an amazing team who helped make our day per...
fect. The entire month leading up to the wedding they were so kind and gracious about our various requests. They were attentive, caring, and welcoming when we arrived to the venue. Without them, the day would have not felt the same.
The hotel, La Valencia, speaks for itself. I decided to buy minimal flowers/candles and no added decoration because the space is beautiful on its own. The garden was manicured with bright florals and easily fit our 85 guests. I will say anything over 100 guests would feel crowded on the garden, but I’m sure they have a system to make it work.
All of the food was delicious and beautifully prepared. We chose the plated filet and jidori chicken. Again, we received so many compliments from guests saying this was beyond their expectations for wedding food. For Hors d'Oeuvres we selected chicken&waffles, bluefin crab salad, and eggplant bruschetta- all of it 10/10.
All of the staff at La Valencia made us feel at home after the wedding as well. At the pool, the servers Mike and Imogen called me by my new last name and made sure my husband and I felt special for our whole stay.
We live in Colorado, but will be back to La Valencia for future anniversary parties, birthdays, and quick getaways on an annual basis.
Thank Bobby, Dani, and everyone at La Valencia! Your work means the world to us.
Sincerely,
Allexys and Colton Anderson
(& my mom, Antoinette! )
Rada F
5.0
7/25/2025
We had the most special and fun wedding at my DREAM venue La Valencia. We are so thankful for all of Bobby/Dani/La V’s team’s help in hosting our dream wedding with all our friends...
/family at the most iconic hotel and stunning location. We loved everything, as did all of our friends and family. Many of our guests told us it was the MOST fun wedding they had been to, with great food/drinks and iconic view that can't be beat. La V went above and beyond to help make our big day -and beginning of our future as husband and wife- so very special. La V/Bobby and Dani’s unwavering commitment to detail, high-end hands-on execution, seamless communication and flexibility, and passion for couples part of La V's history of love and marriage made our wedding day everything I dreamed it would be and more: beautiful, iconic and unforgettable.
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 07/25/2025
Thank you, Rada and BJ. We loved working with you and hope to see you soon!
Bobby
Olivia F
5.0
7/17/2025
La Valencia is a beautiful venue, and the staff is so helpful and easy to work with! I would recommend this venue to anyone who is looking for a naturally beautiful place to get ma...
rried and who wants to reduce stress from their wedding planning. Bobby and Dani were just a joy to work with! Cannot recommend them enough!
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 07/25/2025
Thank you Olvia and David,
It was wonderful meeting you both and working with you. Pl...
ease don't be a stranger.
Bobby
Anna S
5.0
5/15/2025
Bobby and Dani were incredible to work with! Having our wedding at La Valencia was a dream that they brought to life. They were responsive and happy to accommodate all our special ...
requests. The space is just stunning, the set up was perfect and the ballroom and ocean views made for a beautiful day and gorgeous photos. The food was also incredible, we got so many guest compliments on how great the appetizers and dinner were! The team on the wedding day was professional and kind and made us and our guests feel so special. We couldn't be happier with our decision to get married at La Valencia!
Brianna M
5.0
4/25/2025
La Valencia was exactly what we were dreaming of when we set out to plan our wedding. Aside from it being an absolute timeless beauty and the quintessential picture perfect Souther...
n California coastal venue, the hotel was absolutely top-tier to work with. A few callouts; BOBBY the catering director was just fabulous. He was personable, warm and kept us laughing, but also was extremely accommodating and helpful from countless questions over our months planning via email, hopping on calls to sort out details and even helping us work with our budget to have our dream day at this destination. The organization and professionalism of the whole staff was phenomenal and when I tell you, this is the best wedding food any of your guests will ever have, I am SERIOUS! Our tasting was one of the most fun experiences and we could not get over how amazing the food was. Our guests agreed and we probably had over 15 people tell us it was the best food they’d ever had at a wedding. While La V was not a cheap or even middle of the road option, we found that for the luxury and class it offered, it was only slightly more expensive than many other hotels in l Jolla and Coronado but the value was supremely more. They truly did all of the heavy lifting and that was worth its weight in gold. We also really appreciated that they handled our final billing about a week after the wedding so we could enjoy the day of days following. Our night before venue had us close out the day of the event, which was very tacky. La V is just class in every sense of the word.
Last call outs; it is a smaller dining room which felt perfect for 110 people (we wanted to room to feel full at less than 150). I don’t think you could comfortably seat much more than that but they do cater to 150. I also REALLY wished the hotel would offer overnight rental of the bridal getting ready suite upon availability. My fiancé and I did not want to stay the night before the wedding and this would’ve been a perfect solution to wake up oceanfront in the bridal suite! Last, the getting ready menus were a little ridiculously priced. For how much we spent to have a wedding there, I was floored to see a carafe of coffee at $125. I think they could be more accommodating when it comes to complimentary tea and coffee when they’re charging $30 for a half sandwich. But then again, this is the wedding industry!
Overall, would give anything to relive the day and cannot more recommend La Valencia making your investment worth the while! Thank you for the lifetime memory!
Kiana
5.0
4/06/2025
We couldn’t be more excited about the amazing service we got from Dani and Bobby at La Valencia Hotel! From the very beginning, they made sure everything was spot-on, and they kept...
the planning process smooth and stress-free. Dani and Bobby really took the time to understand our vision and helped turn it into something even better than we imagined.
On the big day, we were blown away by how seamlessly everything came together. We felt totally at ease knowing Dani, Bobby, and the fantastic team at La Valencia had everything under control. Their ability to stay on top of every little detail and anticipate what we needed before we even thought of it was so impressive!
Thanks to Dani and Bobby’s careful planning, our wedding was more beautiful and unforgettable than we could have hoped for. If you're looking for a team who will make your wedding dreams come true while keeping things fun and stress-free, we highly recommend reaching out to Dani and Bobby at La Valencia Hotel. The venue is stunning, and their personal touch made our day even more special.
Thank you, Dani and Bobby, for making our wedding day absolutely perfect!
With love,
Kiana & Zak
Simon F
5.0
4/04/2025
We couldn't be more thrilled with the services we received from Bobby Fader at La Valencia Hotel! From the very beginning stages, Bobby made sure we were happy with every detail, a...
nd helped make the planning process much less stressful. Bobby took the time to understand our vision, and with his expertise, helped turn it into a stunning reality.
Bobby helped us plan hotel stays and group outings for our guests using his local recommendations, guided us through every decision at the venue, and ensured everything ran smoothly on the big day. We also used his wisdom to help find the perfect vendors, including our incredible wedding coordinator. The day of our wedding was as spectacular as we could have hoped for, thanks to Bobby’s careful planning and attention to detail. We felt completely at ease knowing that he and the staff at La Valencia were on top of everything.
We were especially impressed by Bobby’s organizational skills and his ability to anticipate our needs before we even thought of them! Bobby went above and beyond to make sure our wedding was a beautiful, memorable experience for us and all of our guests.
If you're looking for someone who will bring your wedding dreams to life while keeping things stress-free and enjoyable, we wholeheartedly recommend contacting Bobby Fader at La Valencia hotel. The venue is absolutely gorgeous, and Bobby & his team provide a personal touch with their service, which was exactly what we were looking for. Thank you Bobby for making our special day absolutely perfect!
All the best,
Matilde & Simon
Nicole H
5.0
3/26/2025
There is no better venue for a wedding than La Valencia Hotel. Spectacular views, incredible food, and Bobby and Dani worked very hard to customize our big day so it was special an...
d unique. Our wedding day could not have been more perfect. Thank you, La V!
Nicole M
5.0
3/22/2025
Bobby is the best! We had a wonderful wedding at the La Valenica.
Alexander M
5.0
12/19/2024
My wife and I had such an amazing experience here. We were married in May and couldn’t have chosen a better wedding venue. The food was AMAZING, the ballroom and ceremony looked go...
rgeous, and Bobby and the entire staff took excellent care of us and our guests. There are very few locations in Southern California that offer the views, the service, and the quality rooms and villas that La Valencia offers. Our guests had an exceptional time (PRO TIP: for guests who might not be able to afford to stay at La Valencia, the Grande Colonial is just a block away and offers fantastic value for their stays as well!). Overall, it truly was the perfect day—and we’ll be back to stay at the hotel as often as we can to recreate the memories!
Nelson C
5.0
11/25/2024
We couldn’t be happier with our wedding experience at La Valencia! From the tasting to the big day itself, everything was handled seamlessly and with incredible attention to detail...
. This meant zero stress for us, allowing us to fully enjoy the day. Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the breathtaking setting, the delicious food, and the stunning decor of the hotel. We highly recommend La Valencia to anyone planning a wedding or special event.
A special thank you to Bobby and Dani, who were an absolute pleasure to work with. Their insights, professionalism, and top-notch communication made the entire process smooth and enjoyable.
Thank you again!
Nelson and Victoria
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 11/27/2024
Hi Victoria and Nelson,
Thank you so much for the wonderful review. Dani and I loved wor...
king with you and we are thrilled that you are thrilled:). Please don't be a stranger. We look forward to seeing you again.
Daniela B
5.0
11/03/2024
My now husband and I cannot thank Bobby & his team at La Valencia enough for our amazing wedding day! From our initial meeting/tour of the hotel with Bobby in May of 2023, we knew ...
it was the absolute perfect place to host our wedding. From the day we booked until days before wedding day, Bobby and his team were organized and kept us on track. They responded to all our questions quickly and made sure we had everything we needed to ensure a perfect event. I felt totally at ease that we were in good hands! When we arrived that Friday before the wedding, Bobby had sent personalized cards to all our family members - it was such a lovely gesture. On wedding day (10/19/24), Bobby checked in with us periodically throughout the day to make sure we were happy with everything. Our guests were blown away with how delicious the food and drinks were, and the guests that stayed at the hotel with us shared how hospitable the La Valencia team was. We also hosted a brunch the morning following the wedding, and Bobby came by to check in one last time. :) We truly were able to enjoy our wedding events because we felt so comfortable and trusting of the La V team.
If you are looking for a stunning hotel venue that truly cares about your experience and about you as a couple, that has great food/drinks, and great service, I highly recommend you booking La Valencia & Bobby's amazing team. We can't thank you enough for making our special day so perfect and we look forward to celebrating many anniversaries at the hotel!
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 11/05/2024
Hi Daniela and Ulysses,
thank you so much for the kind words. It was an honor to host ...
your wonderful celebration and i am thrilled to hear how happy you were. Everyone on my team enjoyed you and your friends and family. I look forward to seeing you again.
addie C
5.0
10/30/2024
Bobby and his team at La Valencia were an absolute pleasure to work with. The day was perfect. Our guests were raving about the views, the food, and their rooms at the hotel. We al...
ways had quick responses when planing the wedding which we really appreciated as well. Can’t wait to continue to visit our wedding venue years to come :)
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 10/30/2024
Hi Addie and Geno,
Thank you for the kind words. It was a pleasure to meet and work with ...
you both. Your smiles are amazing:). You will always be welcomed at La Valencia. Thank you for letting us play a small part on such a wonderful day.
Annie F
5.0
10/25/2024
Ah how to put together the words! Bobby and his team at La Valencia are exceptional. They love what they do and are very good at it. We noticed it from the first moment meeting Bob...
by and felt it through the wedding until we were put in our car by the staff to go home after. They worked with us to make our wedding day as unique as we envisioned, never shutting down ideas but listening to us and when needed finding the option we were excited about if an original idea couldn’t be seen through. Day of the wedding we felt so cared for: we didn’t choose hard alcohol to be served during the reception, but they made sure there were a few ingredients for our favorite drink at the wine/beer bar just in case sense we missed some of the cocktail hour for photos; during the reception, we were checked on intentionally to see if we needed anything or if anything else could be done for us; and our honeymoon suite was laced with some of our cake, a bottle of champagne, and macaroons, with a hand written note of congratulations. We look forward to visiting La Valencia again, to relive the memories and say hi and give our praise to all the staff who made our day the magical day it was.
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 10/26/2024
Hi Annie and Josh,
Thank you so much for the wonderful review. It was a pleasure being ...
creative with you and i am thrilled that we exceeded your expectations.
Please don't be a stranger. You will always be welcomed here.
Bobby
Amanda B
5.0
10/24/2024
We had the absolute best wedding day at La Valencia on 9/21/24!!! I am so glad we chose La Valencia as our wedding venue - it was just perfect!! We knew right away after touring th...
at La Valencia would be the perfect wedding venue for us. The lobby and first impressions are just amazing, and loved that guests could get a drink at the lobby bar before just going downstairs to the ceremony, and then seeing the ocean views with the patio for cocktail hour - we were blown away. Working with Bobby (and Rebecca!) was just the best - they are so kind, friendly, and so fun to work with. Communication was so easy and fast - everything was explained perfectly. The food was incredible - no one was left hungry!!! The staff for our wedding day were also all amazing. Seriously would give a million stars if I could. We loved La Valencia and would choose it again 100% as our wedding venue. We're so excited to be able to celebrate at La Valencia for our future anniversaries! <3
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 10/24/2024
Hi Amanda and Nicholas,
Thank you so much for your kind words. It was an absolute pleasu...
re to host your wedding and reception and am thrilled that you both were so happy. I can't wait to see you for your anniversaries!
Deanna I
5.0
10/09/2024
Got married here last weekend, Bobby is excellent, so professional and ensured everything was perfect. My guests are still talking about how delicious the food was and impressed by...
the presentation of the meals. La V is a class act when it comes to weddings :)
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 10/10/2024
Hi Deanna and Jeremy,
I am so happy you were thrilled and loved our food. Remember, you...
are now part of our family. Please come back and visit. It was an absolute pleasure hosting your wedding and Reception.
Bobby
Gabrielle Y
5.0
10/08/2024
The La Valencia Hotel was our dream venue! Not only is the venue itself breathtaking, the events team (Bobby & Rebecca) make you feel right at home. From the moment we walked in, d...
uring a whole year of planning, till the day after the wedding, we were met with incredible service. The food is delicious, the building is timeless and you can't beat the gorgeous ocean view. This is the best venue in the San Diego area hands down!
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 10/08/2024
thank you! Gabrielle and Chris, it was a pleasure to host your wedding and reception.
Re...
member, you are now part of our family, and you will always be welcomed here.
Bobby
Jacob O
5.0
9/29/2024
Bobby and his team were fantastic throughout the planning process. They were very response and accommodating to all of our requests. Our guests raved about the venue and the profes...
sionalism from the staff the entire weekend and our meal was incredible. We would recommend La Valencia to any couple for there wedding.
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 09/29/2024
Hi Jacob and Adreonia,
thank you so much for the kind words. it was a pleasure hosting y...
our wedding and reception. You are always welcomed back with open arms:) congrats again on getting married.
Natalie S
5.0
9/13/2024
We couldn't have imagined a more perfect venue than La Valencia for our wedding. The setting is absolutely stunning and the team went above and beyond to make sure everything ran s...
moothly during planning and on the big day. Bobby Fader and his team at La V are absolute pros and the best people to work with -- incredibly communicative, professional, and wonderful to work with every step along the way. Our guests were blown away by the beautiful location and are still talking about the delicious food and top-notch service from everyone at the hotel. We are so grateful for their attention to detail and couldn't recommend working with Bobby and Rebecca more highly. Thank you so much for making it such a special experience for us.
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 09/14/2024
awe, thank you so much Rebecca and I truly appreciate the wonderful review and loved worki...
ng with both of you. Please don't be a stranger. we hope to see you again soon.
Julia R
5.0
9/06/2024
La Valencia was everything we could have imagined and more in a wedding venue. Working with Bobby and Rebecca made our experience wedding planning that much easier. They are both v...
ery responsive, kind, and always willing to meet your needs. On the day of the wedding, the staff checked in to ensure we have everything we needed plenty of times, always ensured me and my husband had food and drinks, and were on-top of everything from the start. We had so many compliments on the food throughout the evening and weekend. It was spectacular. Thank you, La V!!!
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 09/07/2024
Thank you so much for the kind words. Rebecca and I loved working with you and Nolan. ...
Remember, you are now part of our family and history. Please don't be a stranger.
Bobby
Nancy P
5.0
8/29/2024
La Valencia was the perfect place to hold my daughter's wedding. The service, food and ambiance were excellent! Plus, the getting ready room was perfect for the girls - lots of r...
oom and so convenient. If you're searching for a beautiful location with top-notch service look no further than the La Valencia!
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 08/29/2024
Hi Nancy,
Thank you for the lovely review. It was a pleasure meeting and working with yo...
u. I am thrilled you and your daughter were happy with everything. Don't forget to visit. You are family now.
Suzanne M
5.0
8/21/2024
La Valencia was a dream wedding venue. You already know the location and property are absolutely stunning, but to be welcomed, supported and celebrated by the most incredible staff...
was the cherry on top. Bobby, Rebecca and team are an absolute joy to work with; easy to get in touch with and answered any and all questions throughout the planning process. Everything on the wedding day was executed perfectly, and we never once felt the bustle of regular hotel business happening around us. For weeks after the wedding, our guests were still talking about how incredible the vibe and the food was. Special shout out to the catering director Ian, who took such good care of not just the bride & groom but our guests as well.
Cassidy L
5.0
8/12/2024
La Valencia is everything you could imagine + more for your dream wedding venue/destination! Its charming pink exterior does not even begin to encapsulate what a gem of a historic ...
venue it is within. From initial inquiry to check-out on our way to our Honeymoon, LV made wedding planning an absolute breeze. Words will never give the amount of credit due to Bobby, Rebecca, + their phenomenal team (concierge, bell men, front desk, etc.) but I will sure try my best! Bobby's fun + personable spirit takes away any stresses one may initially have when starting the planning process as a bride. So much so we looked forward to traveling to every meeting just so we could chat with him!! His expertise shines through every recommendation and answer. He is THE person you would want to trust with the most important day of your life! Rebecca is so thorough in tastings + quick with any answers to questions! She is always eager to help! Once we arrived for wedding weekend, hotel staff made load-in seamless and always helped with any transport. From what was just a pink hotel I wanted to grab a quick picture of in 2020, became the place we said "I Do" and created memories that will last a lifetime. I am a lead wedding planner in Scottsdale, AZ and I cannot recommend LV enough for your wedding destination! It's truly an experience and I cannot wait to come back so very soon! (The running joke is we need a one year vow renewal just so we can experience all over again)!
All our love,
The Loves!
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 08/13/2024
thank you so much. Rebecca and i loved working with you both. You will always be welco...
med at La Valenca.
Christian M
5.0
8/05/2024
The La Valencia was the perfect place to get married. There's the obvious benefits of the location, views, and weather. Beyond that, the staff, including the front desk, bellmen, c...
atering, and housekeeping, are all incredible as well. Bobby and Rebecca did an amazing job making sure everything was taken care of. They coordinated seamlessly with our outside vendors, had everything set up exactly the way we wanted, and helped make sure our minds were at ease in all aspects. We cannot recommend this venue and team enough.
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 08/13/2024
thank you so much for the wonderful review. Don't be a stranger. please come and visit ...
you are now part of our family.
Natalie G
5.0
8/05/2024
Bobby and Rebecca were amazing venue coordinators at La Valencia. They were on top of everything and answered all questions that came up throughout the planning process. I would hi...
ghly recommend this venue to anyone getting married in the near future! We had an amazing time.
Nisha P
5.0
7/15/2024
Thank you so much for making our wedding day so perfect! We loved working with Bobby, Rebecca and the entire La Valencia team to bring our dream to life. We appreciate your help in...
creating unforgettable moments that will last a lifetime. The venue was absolutely stunning, the service leading up to and the day of the event was impeccable and the food was incredible. It made for a perfect experience for us and our guests. We highly recommend the venue and the La Valencia team for any special occasion.
Response from La Valencia Hotel on 08/13/2024
thank you so much. We loved working with you. please don't be a stranger. We hope to ...
see you again.
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