Extraordinary elegance and distinctive style.
AWARD WINNER (8X)
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Located in La Jolla, CA, La Valencia Hotel has been an iconic destination since the year 1926. A perfect getaway spot for a wedding or honeymoon, this hotel has seen foot traffic from some of Hollywood's most elusive elites. With over 90 years of indulgent hosting experience, this iconic tower has drawn in many guests amongst its signature pink walls.
La Valencia Hotel, also known as Pink Lady, is a landmark amongst La Jolla's distinctive Prospect Street. Situated in the village bluffs with panoramic views of the Pacific coastline and beautiful La Jolla Cove, this hotel offers a scenic backdrop. Inside, there are 114 pet-friendly rooms, suites, and villas. With features ranging from cozy boudoirs to a captivating penthouse or exclusive villas, this property is sure to make a lasting impact on guests.
With its premier vantage point and stunning vistas, La Valencia Hotel enjoys the Pacific Ocean in its backyard. Romantic and enticing, this destination is one of California's most sought-after locations. It's perfect for celebrations and social events of all kinds, and guests of events here can enjoy pristine stretches of coastline. Here, wedding hosts can immerse themselves in an environment of classic glamour and coastal charm. Inclusive of elegant and dramatic indoor and outdoor venues, La Valencia Hotel has plenty of celebratory locations to choose from. Vows can be exchanged before sweeping views of the ocean, or within the palm-lined garden. Afterward, receptions can take place in the chic ballroom and adjacent terrace. Embodying timeless grace, La Valencia Hotel can be your dream-come-true destination for the creation of new traditions and adventures.
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- Couples usually spend $45,000
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Indoor Event Space
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4.8
out of 5.0145 reviews
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La Valencia Hotel receives glowing reviews from numerous couples, all praising the exceptional service provided by Bobby, Dani, and the entire team. From personalized planning to flawless execution on the wedding day, the staff's attention to detail and anticipation of needs stood out. Guests were impressed by the stunning venue, delicious food, and seamless coordination. The personalized touch, breathtaking views, and professionalism of the La Valencia team consistently exceeded expectations, making it a highly recommended wedding venue.Review photos
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Brianna M
5.0
4/25/2025
La Valencia was exactly what we were dreaming of when we set out to plan our wedding. Aside from it being an absolute timeless beauty and the quintessential picture perfect Southern California coastal venue, the hotel was absolutely top-tier to work with. A few callouts; BOBBY the catering director was just fabulous. He was personable, warm and kept us laughing, but also was extremely accommodating and helpful from countless questions over our months planning via email, hopping on calls to sort out details and even helping us work with our budget to have our dream day at this destination. The organization and professionalism of the whole staff was phenomenal and when I tell you, this is the best wedding food any of your guests will ever have, I am SERIOUS! Our tasting was one of the most fun experiences and we could not get over how amazing the food was. Our guests agreed and we probably had over 15 people tell us it was the best food they’d ever had at a wedding. While La V was not a cheap or even middle of the road option, we found that for the luxury and class it offered, it was only slightly more expensive than many other hotels in l Jolla and Coronado but the value was supremely more. They truly did all of the heavy lifting and that was worth its weight in gold. We also really appreciated that they handled our final billing about a week after the wedding so we could enjoy the day of days following. Our night before venue had us close out the day of the event, which was very tacky. La V is just class in every sense of the word.
Last call outs; it is a smaller dining room which felt perfect for 110 people (we wanted to room to feel full at less than 150). I don’t think you could comfortably seat much more than that but they do cater to 150. I also REALLY wished the hotel would offer overnight rental of the bridal getting ready suite upon availability. My fiancé and I did not want to stay the night before the wedding and this would’ve been a perfect solution to wake up oceanfront in the bridal suite! Last, the getting ready menus were a little ridiculously priced. For how much we spent to have a wedding there, I was floored to see a carafe of coffee at $125. I think they could be more accommodating when it comes to complimentary tea and coffee when they’re charging $30 for a half sandwich. But then again, this is the wedding industry!
Overall, would give anything to relive the day and cannot more recommend La Valencia making your investment worth the while! Thank you for the lifetime memory!
5.0
4/06/2025
We couldn’t be more excited about the amazing service we got from Dani and Bobby at La Valencia Hotel! From the very beginning, they made sure everything was spot-on, and they kept the planning process smooth and stress-free. Dani and Bobby really took the time to understand our vision and helped turn it into something even better than we imagined.
On the big day, we were blown away by how seamlessly everything came together. We felt totally at ease knowing Dani, Bobby, and the fantastic team at La Valencia had everything under control. Their ability to stay on top of every little detail and anticipate what we needed before we even thought of it was so impressive!
Thanks to Dani and Bobby’s careful planning, our wedding was more beautiful and unforgettable than we could have hoped for. If you're looking for a team who will make your wedding dreams come true while keeping things fun and stress-free, we highly recommend reaching out to Dani and Bobby at La Valencia Hotel. The venue is stunning, and their personal touch made our day even more special.
Thank you, Dani and Bobby, for making our wedding day absolutely perfect!
With love,
Kiana & Zak
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Simon F
5.0
4/04/2025
We couldn't be more thrilled with the services we received from Bobby Fader at La Valencia Hotel! From the very beginning stages, Bobby made sure we were happy with every detail, and helped make the planning process much less stressful. Bobby took the time to understand our vision, and with his expertise, helped turn it into a stunning reality.
Bobby helped us plan hotel stays and group outings for our guests using his local recommendations, guided us through every decision at the venue, and ensured everything ran smoothly on the big day. We also used his wisdom to help find the perfect vendors, including our incredible wedding coordinator. The day of our wedding was as spectacular as we could have hoped for, thanks to Bobby’s careful planning and attention to detail. We felt completely at ease knowing that he and the staff at La Valencia were on top of everything.
We were especially impressed by Bobby’s organizational skills and his ability to anticipate our needs before we even thought of them! Bobby went above and beyond to make sure our wedding was a beautiful, memorable experience for us and all of our guests.
If you're looking for someone who will bring your wedding dreams to life while keeping things stress-free and enjoyable, we wholeheartedly recommend contacting Bobby Fader at La Valencia hotel. The venue is absolutely gorgeous, and Bobby & his team provide a personal touch with their service, which was exactly what we were looking for. Thank you Bobby for making our special day absolutely perfect!
All the best,
Matilde & Simon
Nicole H
5.0
3/26/2025
There is no better venue for a wedding than La Valencia Hotel. Spectacular views, incredible food, and Bobby and Dani worked very hard to customize our big day so it was special and unique. Our wedding day could not have been more perfect. Thank you, La V!
Nicole M
5.0
3/22/2025
Bobby is the best! We had a wonderful wedding at the La Valenica.
Alexander M
5.0
12/19/2024
My wife and I had such an amazing experience here. We were married in May and couldn’t have chosen a better wedding venue. The food was AMAZING, the ballroom and ceremony looked gorgeous, and Bobby and the entire staff took excellent care of us and our guests. There are very few locations in Southern California that offer the views, the service, and the quality rooms and villas that La Valencia offers. Our guests had an exceptional time (PRO TIP: for guests who might not be able to afford to stay at La Valencia, the Grande Colonial is just a block away and offers fantastic value for their stays as well!). Overall, it truly was the perfect day—and we’ll be back to stay at the hotel as often as we can to recreate the memories!
Nelson C
5.0
11/25/2024
We couldn’t be happier with our wedding experience at La Valencia! From the tasting to the big day itself, everything was handled seamlessly and with incredible attention to detail. This meant zero stress for us, allowing us to fully enjoy the day. Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the breathtaking setting, the delicious food, and the stunning decor of the hotel. We highly recommend La Valencia to anyone planning a wedding or special event.
A special thank you to Bobby and Dani, who were an absolute pleasure to work with. Their insights, professionalism, and top-notch communication made the entire process smooth and enjoyable.
Thank you again!
Nelson and Victoria
response 11/27/2024
Hi Victoria and Nelson,
Thank you so much for the wonderful review. Dani and I loved wor...
king with you and we are thrilled that you are thrilled:). Please don't be a stranger. We look forward to seeing you again.
Daniela B
5.0
11/03/2024
My now husband and I cannot thank Bobby & his team at La Valencia enough for our amazing wedding day! From our initial meeting/tour of the hotel with Bobby in May of 2023, we knew it was the absolute perfect place to host our wedding. From the day we booked until days before wedding day, Bobby and his team were organized and kept us on track. They responded to all our questions quickly and made sure we had everything we needed to ensure a perfect event. I felt totally at ease that we were in good hands! When we arrived that Friday before the wedding, Bobby had sent personalized cards to all our family members - it was such a lovely gesture. On wedding day (10/19/24), Bobby checked in with us periodically throughout the day to make sure we were happy with everything. Our guests were blown away with how delicious the food and drinks were, and the guests that stayed at the hotel with us shared how hospitable the La Valencia team was. We also hosted a brunch the morning following the wedding, and Bobby came by to check in one last time. :) We truly were able to enjoy our wedding events because we felt so comfortable and trusting of the La V team.
If you are looking for a stunning hotel venue that truly cares about your experience and about you as a couple, that has great food/drinks, and great service, I highly recommend you booking La Valencia & Bobby's amazing team. We can't thank you enough for making our special day so perfect and we look forward to celebrating many anniversaries at the hotel!
response 11/05/2024
Hi Daniela and Ulysses,
thank you so much for the kind words. It was an honor to host ...
your wonderful celebration and i am thrilled to hear how happy you were. Everyone on my team enjoyed you and your friends and family. I look forward to seeing you again.
addie C
5.0
10/30/2024
Bobby and his team at La Valencia were an absolute pleasure to work with. The day was perfect. Our guests were raving about the views, the food, and their rooms at the hotel. We always had quick responses when planing the wedding which we really appreciated as well. Can’t wait to continue to visit our wedding venue years to come :)
response 10/30/2024
Hi Addie and Geno,
Thank you for the kind words. It was a pleasure to meet and work with ...
you both. Your smiles are amazing:). You will always be welcomed at La Valencia. Thank you for letting us play a small part on such a wonderful day.
Annie F
5.0
10/25/2024
Ah how to put together the words! Bobby and his team at La Valencia are exceptional. They love what they do and are very good at it. We noticed it from the first moment meeting Bobby and felt it through the wedding until we were put in our car by the staff to go home after. They worked with us to make our wedding day as unique as we envisioned, never shutting down ideas but listening to us and when needed finding the option we were excited about if an original idea couldn’t be seen through. Day of the wedding we felt so cared for: we didn’t choose hard alcohol to be served during the reception, but they made sure there were a few ingredients for our favorite drink at the wine/beer bar just in case sense we missed some of the cocktail hour for photos; during the reception, we were checked on intentionally to see if we needed anything or if anything else could be done for us; and our honeymoon suite was laced with some of our cake, a bottle of champagne, and macaroons, with a hand written note of congratulations. We look forward to visiting La Valencia again, to relive the memories and say hi and give our praise to all the staff who made our day the magical day it was.
response 10/26/2024
Hi Annie and Josh,
Thank you so much for the wonderful review. It was a pleasure being ...
creative with you and i am thrilled that we exceeded your expectations.
Please don't be a stranger. You will always be welcomed here.
Bobby
Amanda B
5.0
10/24/2024
We had the absolute best wedding day at La Valencia on 9/21/24!!! I am so glad we chose La Valencia as our wedding venue - it was just perfect!! We knew right away after touring that La Valencia would be the perfect wedding venue for us. The lobby and first impressions are just amazing, and loved that guests could get a drink at the lobby bar before just going downstairs to the ceremony, and then seeing the ocean views with the patio for cocktail hour - we were blown away. Working with Bobby (and Rebecca!) was just the best - they are so kind, friendly, and so fun to work with. Communication was so easy and fast - everything was explained perfectly. The food was incredible - no one was left hungry!!! The staff for our wedding day were also all amazing. Seriously would give a million stars if I could. We loved La Valencia and would choose it again 100% as our wedding venue. We're so excited to be able to celebrate at La Valencia for our future anniversaries! <3
response 10/24/2024
Hi Amanda and Nicholas,
Thank you so much for your kind words. It was an absolute pleasu...
re to host your wedding and reception and am thrilled that you both were so happy. I can't wait to see you for your anniversaries!
Deanna I
5.0
10/09/2024
Got married here last weekend, Bobby is excellent, so professional and ensured everything was perfect. My guests are still talking about how delicious the food was and impressed by the presentation of the meals. La V is a class act when it comes to weddings :)
response 10/10/2024
Hi Deanna and Jeremy,
I am so happy you were thrilled and loved our food. Remember, you...
are now part of our family. Please come back and visit. It was an absolute pleasure hosting your wedding and Reception.
Bobby
Gabrielle Y
5.0
10/08/2024
The La Valencia Hotel was our dream venue! Not only is the venue itself breathtaking, the events team (Bobby & Rebecca) make you feel right at home. From the moment we walked in, during a whole year of planning, till the day after the wedding, we were met with incredible service. The food is delicious, the building is timeless and you can't beat the gorgeous ocean view. This is the best venue in the San Diego area hands down!
response 10/08/2024
thank you! Gabrielle and Chris, it was a pleasure to host your wedding and reception.
Re...
member, you are now part of our family, and you will always be welcomed here.
Bobby
Jacob O
5.0
9/29/2024
Bobby and his team were fantastic throughout the planning process. They were very response and accommodating to all of our requests. Our guests raved about the venue and the professionalism from the staff the entire weekend and our meal was incredible. We would recommend La Valencia to any couple for there wedding.
response 09/29/2024
Hi Jacob and Adreonia,
thank you so much for the kind words. it was a pleasure hosting y...
our wedding and reception. You are always welcomed back with open arms:) congrats again on getting married.
Natalie S
5.0
9/13/2024
We couldn't have imagined a more perfect venue than La Valencia for our wedding. The setting is absolutely stunning and the team went above and beyond to make sure everything ran smoothly during planning and on the big day. Bobby Fader and his team at La V are absolute pros and the best people to work with -- incredibly communicative, professional, and wonderful to work with every step along the way. Our guests were blown away by the beautiful location and are still talking about the delicious food and top-notch service from everyone at the hotel. We are so grateful for their attention to detail and couldn't recommend working with Bobby and Rebecca more highly. Thank you so much for making it such a special experience for us.
response 09/14/2024
awe, thank you so much Rebecca and I truly appreciate the wonderful review and loved worki...
ng with both of you. Please don't be a stranger. we hope to see you again soon.
Julia R
5.0
9/06/2024
La Valencia was everything we could have imagined and more in a wedding venue. Working with Bobby and Rebecca made our experience wedding planning that much easier. They are both very responsive, kind, and always willing to meet your needs. On the day of the wedding, the staff checked in to ensure we have everything we needed plenty of times, always ensured me and my husband had food and drinks, and were on-top of everything from the start. We had so many compliments on the food throughout the evening and weekend. It was spectacular. Thank you, La V!!!
response 09/07/2024
Thank you so much for the kind words. Rebecca and I loved working with you and Nolan. ...
Remember, you are now part of our family and history. Please don't be a stranger.
Bobby
Nancy P
5.0
8/29/2024
La Valencia was the perfect place to hold my daughter's wedding. The service, food and ambiance were excellent! Plus, the getting ready room was perfect for the girls - lots of room and so convenient. If you're searching for a beautiful location with top-notch service look no further than the La Valencia!
response 08/29/2024
Hi Nancy,
Thank you for the lovely review. It was a pleasure meeting and working with yo...
u. I am thrilled you and your daughter were happy with everything. Don't forget to visit. You are family now.
Suzanne M
5.0
8/21/2024
La Valencia was a dream wedding venue. You already know the location and property are absolutely stunning, but to be welcomed, supported and celebrated by the most incredible staff was the cherry on top. Bobby, Rebecca and team are an absolute joy to work with; easy to get in touch with and answered any and all questions throughout the planning process. Everything on the wedding day was executed perfectly, and we never once felt the bustle of regular hotel business happening around us. For weeks after the wedding, our guests were still talking about how incredible the vibe and the food was. Special shout out to the catering director Ian, who took such good care of not just the bride & groom but our guests as well.
Cassidy L
5.0
8/12/2024
La Valencia is everything you could imagine + more for your dream wedding venue/destination! Its charming pink exterior does not even begin to encapsulate what a gem of a historic venue it is within. From initial inquiry to check-out on our way to our Honeymoon, LV made wedding planning an absolute breeze. Words will never give the amount of credit due to Bobby, Rebecca, + their phenomenal team (concierge, bell men, front desk, etc.) but I will sure try my best! Bobby's fun + personable spirit takes away any stresses one may initially have when starting the planning process as a bride. So much so we looked forward to traveling to every meeting just so we could chat with him!! His expertise shines through every recommendation and answer. He is THE person you would want to trust with the most important day of your life! Rebecca is so thorough in tastings + quick with any answers to questions! She is always eager to help! Once we arrived for wedding weekend, hotel staff made load-in seamless and always helped with any transport. From what was just a pink hotel I wanted to grab a quick picture of in 2020, became the place we said "I Do" and created memories that will last a lifetime. I am a lead wedding planner in Scottsdale, AZ and I cannot recommend LV enough for your wedding destination! It's truly an experience and I cannot wait to come back so very soon! (The running joke is we need a one year vow renewal just so we can experience all over again)!
All our love,
The Loves!
response 08/13/2024
thank you so much. Rebecca and i loved working with you both. You will always be welco...
med at La Valenca.
Christian M
5.0
8/05/2024
The La Valencia was the perfect place to get married. There's the obvious benefits of the location, views, and weather. Beyond that, the staff, including the front desk, bellmen, catering, and housekeeping, are all incredible as well. Bobby and Rebecca did an amazing job making sure everything was taken care of. They coordinated seamlessly with our outside vendors, had everything set up exactly the way we wanted, and helped make sure our minds were at ease in all aspects. We cannot recommend this venue and team enough.
response 08/13/2024
thank you so much for the wonderful review. Don't be a stranger. please come and visit ...
you are now part of our family.
Natalie G
5.0
8/05/2024
Bobby and Rebecca were amazing venue coordinators at La Valencia. They were on top of everything and answered all questions that came up throughout the planning process. I would highly recommend this venue to anyone getting married in the near future! We had an amazing time.
Nisha P
5.0
7/15/2024
Thank you so much for making our wedding day so perfect! We loved working with Bobby, Rebecca and the entire La Valencia team to bring our dream to life. We appreciate your help in creating unforgettable moments that will last a lifetime. The venue was absolutely stunning, the service leading up to and the day of the event was impeccable and the food was incredible. It made for a perfect experience for us and our guests. We highly recommend the venue and the La Valencia team for any special occasion.
response 08/13/2024
thank you so much. We loved working with you. please don't be a stranger. We hope to ...
see you again.
Elissa I
5.0
7/08/2024
We had the best experience from the La Valencia team. They were professional throughout the entire experience. On the actual wedding day they were so attentive and genuinely cared about our big day. They are truly spectacular, and the venue is even more spectacular. It is such a beautiful hotel. The food was also amazing, our guests raved about the cocktail hour appetizers and delicious entrees.
response 08/13/2024
Thank you Elissa, It was a pleasure hosting your celebration. We loved working with bo...
th of you. Remember you are now part of our history and family.
Leticia F
5.0
7/06/2024
We had the most unforgettable wedding celebration at La Valencia Hotel. The staff were professional and friendly, ensuring clear communication and delivering impeccable, high-quality service. The food was exceptional, and the ocean view setting added a breathtaking backdrop to our special day.
Th Veranda, terrace, main dining area, and dance floor were all beautifully arranged. Special thanks for Bobby Fader, Director of Catering, whose professionalism, impeccable taste, and sense of humor made everything perfect. His staff were attentive and friendly, contributing to the smooth and joyful experience for both of us and our guests. The Valencia teamed up with our amazing wedding planner, making of our wedding celebration a truly memorable event. Bravo!
High;y recommended for any special occasion.
Andy M
5.0
7/04/2024
My daughter had her wedding and reception at La Valencia this past Saturday. It was awesome. I am so glad we picked this beautiful venue. The outdoor area was nicely landscaped and of course the ocean view can't be beat. The food, drinks, and service during post ceremony cocktail hour and during the reception was also perfect. Special thanks to Bobby and Ian who made sure the day went smoothly (in addition to planer). They especially made my daughter feel special and cared for.
Emma F
5.0
7/01/2024
We cannot begin to describe how grateful we are for La Valencia Hotel. We hosted our wedding ceremony and reception there on Friday and the beautiful location and attentive, courteous staff were the talk of the party! Bobby, Rebecca, and all of the La Valencia staff made sure our hopes and dreams for the day were taken care of in the most stress-free way for my husband and I as well as our guests. Any and all requests were granted. We will be back to beautiful La Jolla and will most definitely be stopping by La Valencia as they made us feel like a part of their hotel family. Book them for your wedding. I promise it’s worth it.
Gary F
5.0
6/30/2024
La Valencia is truly a stunning location, we could not imagine a more perfect spot to get married in. From the moment we walked through the door and spoke to Bobby (our go to person at the venue) we knew that it was the place for us. Everything from the beautiful entry to the stunning view of the ocean was immaculate. And lucky for us it wasn’t just the venue that was great, the food was absolutely incredible as well. The kitchen team made every piece of meat and fish to perfection, a good portion of our wedding guests said the filet was one of, if not the best steak they had ever had in their lives. We could not recommend La Valencia and the entire staff more highly to anyone looking to have a beautiful and perfect wedding, Bobby and Rebecca do a tremendous job.
Kendall O
5.0
6/21/2024
I can’t say enough good things about our entire experience with our wedding process at La Valencia. Bobby & Rebecca were absolutely wonderful to work with throughout the entire planning process. They were quick to respond to our questions and always made time for us to stop by the hotel if we needed to get eyes on something for the planning process. When it came to the actual wedding day, it was an absolute dream! Bobby & his team made sure every detail was taken care of, and we truly felt like everything was under control so that we could enjoy getting ready and spending time with family/friends. Ian took incredible care of me and my husband during the reception and was readily available at all times for any requests or questions that we had. The entire staff at La V was so professional and incredible throughout the entire day, and made us feel so special! The service at the cocktail hour, dinner and the reception was amazing, and our guests complimented the food countless times!
We also did a mini-moon at La Valencia right after the wedding, and it was such a relaxing few days! We spent most afternoons relaxing at the pool, and Mike did an excellent job making sure we were well taken care of at all times. We’re still over the moon about our entire experience, which has made us fall in love with the hotel! We can’t wait to come back for many, many more visits.
Rai A
5.0
6/16/2024
Our wedding at La Valencia was a beautiful and unforgettable experience. From the moment we first stepped into the property, we knew it was the perfect place to celebrate our love, and our wedding more than exceeded our expectations. Our guests raved about the breathtaking venue, the delicious food, and the impeccable service provided by the entire staff. Everyone was truly so welcoming and kind. It was a joy working with Bobby & Rebecca from the Events team, and they made everything so smooth and seamless throughout the planning process to our Big Day. Choosing La Valencia was the best decision we made!
Devin M
5.0
4/17/2024
We had the most spectacular wedding at La Valencia. Besides the venue being absolutely breathtaking, Bobby and Rebecca were exceptionally helpful and always available to answer questions. We were very impressed with the quality of food - it was some of the best food we had ever tasted! The entire staff at the hotel was incredibly kind and welcoming, and we truly feel like family. We will be back every year for our anniversary.
response 04/17/2024
thank you so much. We look forward to you coming back. You don't have to wait for you...
r anniversary:)
Becky S
5.0
4/16/2024
The Pink Lady is a dream wedding venue combining Southern California vibes with European architecture and hospitality. The staff is wonderful and the food and cocktails are exceptional. Bobby, the catering director is a gem and you will leave feeling like old friends.
response 04/17/2024
thank you for the kind words. It was a pleasure meeting everyone and hosting such a wond...
erful celebration.
Bobby
Brittany D
5.0
4/08/2024
Everything with La Valencia is perfect. The customer service leading up to the wedding for our guests was flawless. Bobby goes above and beyond to help each of his couples throughout the process. You do need a wedding coordinator to have your wedding here, and honestly, it makes the whole day run like clockwork. Our guests gave numerous compliments to us on how well the day flowed and how the team at La V was incredible! 10/10 would get married here again!
Aspen W
5.0
4/01/2024
We had an incredible experience getting married at the La Valencia. The hotel itself is absolutely beautiful and has a ton of charm, but the staff/wedding coordinator (Bobby), are truly who make the venue go above and beyond expectations.
They made sure my husband and I had everything we needed leading up to the event and on the day of the event. They were constantly checking in to make sure we were happy with everything or if we needed anything, and were quick to problem solve issues that would come up (for example it rained during our ceremony, so cocktail hour had to be quickly flipped to a covered space) and they were phenomenal the entire time.
The rooms for our guests were beautiful.
I cannot tell you how many compliments we received on our AMAZING dinner and cocktail hour meal choices.
Overall, I would have changed nothing for our wedding. I have zero regrets, and would recommend this hotel to anyone looking to stay in the area or have their wedding here.
Photos captured by Pauline Conway Photography.
Kirsten V
5.0
3/23/2024
We had such an incredible wedding at the La Valencia! We can't recommend this venue enough. Working with Bobby and Rebecca was wonderful and they both made the process smooth and seamless. They were always quick to respond to my emails and calls and gave detailed answers about the questions I was asking.
Not only are the views and the setting gorgeous, our guests raved about the food and the hospitality of all of the staff members. We're already planning our anniversary trip back! I'd recommend the La Valencia to any couple planning their big day without hesitation - you won't regret it!
Amanda E
5.0
2/09/2024
Bobby and Rebecca and the whole team at La Valencia went out of their way to ensure our wedding day was flawless with every last detail accounted for. Leading up to the event they would check in often to offer help and provide updates. The day of Rebecca was there to ensure all our needs were met and desires exceeded. When we thought it might rain they already had a backup plan created for us, when we thought the venue might be under construction they went ahead and adjusted everything they could to ensure we would not be effected (the construction ended up not happening yet they still were prepared to accommodate us however they could). This team worked together to bring all our wedding dreams to life. I cannot recommend this venue highly enough. Not to mention the venue is GORGEOUS, a literal dream. Would love to host any feature events here
Jenna F
5.0
1/09/2024
Choosing La Valencia as our wedding venue was one of the best decisions we made for our special day. The convenience they provided by including tables, chairs, linens, food, drinks, and more made the entire process seamless and stress-free.
A significant highlight of our experience at La Valencia was working with Bobby, their exceptional director. Bobby's positive attitude and prompt responses to all our questions made the planning journey less about stress and more enjoyable. He was incredibly accommodating, even when faced with last-minute requests and changes to our package. His dedication and flexibility truly stood out and contributed to the smooth execution of our wedding day.
As a wedding venue, La Valencia is nothing short of stunning. The ocean-view ceremony was a breathtaking backdrop, making it well worth the journey for our out-of-town guests. The inclusion of getting ready suites, and a honeymoon suite (features not offered by many venues), added an extra layer of convenience and to our experience.
I truly wish I could relive the entire day because of the magical atmosphere created by this venue. To anyone considering La Valencia for their wedding, I wholeheartedly recommend it for the exceptional service and breathtaking views. Thank you, La Valencia, for making our wedding day a dream come true!
Torrey L
5.0
12/12/2023
Wow - absolutely STUNNING place to have a wedding and 5 star support from the event staff. Bobby and Rebecca were absolutely amazing to work with, very responsive and just all around rock stars. They were incredible partners to us, and very flexible as plans with weddings will inevitably evolve. The food was absolutely amazing, I was blown away. Guests kept coming up to us the day of and after (some even weeks after!!) telling us how good the food was. The Valencia team is absolutely the best, and I cannot imagine having our wedding without this incredible group of people who made it happen!
Hannah R
5.0
12/09/2023
Everything about La Valencia is amazing. Our wedding day was truly special. The hotel, location, views, and ambiance are fantastic, but the best part is that Bobby, Rebecca, Ian and the whole staff are friendly, helpful, and easy to work with. Already looking forward to celebrating our anniversaries back at this gorgeous venue. Thank you La V!
Alice N
5.0
11/29/2023
Bobby Fader and his team absolutely delivered a dream wedding for our daughter. They were very accommodating with incredible attention to detail. The food and service were first rate. We are so happy we chose La Valencia in La Jolla, CA.
Paola M
4.0
11/21/2023
La Valencia is a beautiful venue with outstanding food for the reception. Our guests were blown away by how delicious the food was and how gorgeous and unique the venue is.
However, I wouldn't say it was smooth sailing. Bobby was incredibly difficult to work with, excessively bossy, and the source of much stress.
Our day-of main POC through La Valencia, Rebecca, was no where to be found the day-of, and I actually didn't meet her until after the first dance, when she came to tell me she was leaving. We had a fruit fly infestation, clogged sink, and the electric in the bridal suite did not work, and she was unresponsive.
IF your wedding is going to be 100 people or less, I would absolutely recommend La Valencia. However, the space is not suited for larger parties. We had 120 and it was tight.
If you're considering La Valencia keep these things in mind:
-their default tables & chairs are very ugly and dated, you will need to rent your own which can be expensive.
-their service charges add considerably to the cost
-think about layout for your guest totals and consider how you will use the available space, given the awkward columns and lower ceilings in the ballroom.
Overall, i'm happy I had my wedding at La Valencia because the photos are beautiful and the memories my guests walked away with are of a lovely meal. However, I think if I did it again, I would choose a venue with better in-house options for chairs, tables, and a better service team.
response 11/21/2023
Hi Paola, I am thrilled that overall, you are happy with the wedding and the guests enjoye...
d themselves and the food. I am so sorry that you found us difficult to work with. Obviously, that is not our goal. We only want the best for our couples, and we are sincerely disappointed that you were not 100% thrilled with what we offered. We do wish you all the best in your future together as a married couple.
Cat L
5.0
10/29/2023
Where to even start with La Valencia! Every interaction we had, from the day we toured it as a potential wedding venue to the morning after our wedding, the customer service was incredible (shout out to Bobby!). I couldn’t have dreamed of a more perfect place to get married. It is such a romantic location with the most gorgeous views. If you want a smooth, stress free wedding experience, La Valencia is the place to do it. They are true professionals and make your day feel so special and important - every single detail is thought of. It was the best day of our lives and I look forward to celebrating many anniversaries at La Valencia in our future!
Brienne E
5.0
10/18/2023
We just hosted our wedding at La Valencia this past weekend and it is truly the BEST venue to host your wedding in San Diego. Hands down. Not only is the venue and scenery beyond beautiful, you are in the hands of Bobby Fader who truly is one of a kind. He helped connect us to the best vendors in town to make our wedding dreams come to life. Guests are still commenting on how delicious the food was, the level of service and over experience. If you want a classy, not cookie cutter, intimate, beyond beautiful venue with ocean views, look no further! We had such a magical wedding weekend because of La V and will now have the most beautiful place to go to celebrate all our anniversaries!! We cannot believe how lucky we were to host our wedding here.
Angelica C
5.0
9/02/2023
We had our wedding in July 2023 at La Valencia with a group of about a 100. The pink hotel itself is a selling point with its romantic feel, beautiful atmosphere, and a gorgeous backdrop. However, their staff and catering were even more phenomenal. Bobby Fader, the catering director, was attentive and communicative. The staff were able to accommodate our needs for a tea ceremony in the morning of the wedding, providing hot water for our tea and letting us set up in the bridal suite early. Lastly, the food that the hotel catering offers is delicious. All the compliments after the wedding were predominantly on how tasty the dishes were from the lobster bisque to the vegetarian eats to the steak. We’d recommend this location for those who want an idyllic backdrop to their wedding and top-notch catering.
Jackie S
5.0
8/30/2023
I CANNOT say enough amazing things about La Valencia. As soon as we toured the space with Bobby, we were certain this was the perfect place for us to get married. It is a stunning space that has been well maintained over the years and has a historic charm without feeling at all dated. Bobby and Isabella were amazing to work with. All of our guests commented not only on how beautiful the hotel was but also how amazing the food was! I know wedding food can get a bad rep but La Valencia does it right! It was also really helpful to be able to have access to the getting ready spaces all day (not all venues we toured offered this). We also wanted to extend our time an extra hour to do a silent disco and Bobby was very helpful in making that happen for us - it turned out to be such a hit! Thanks again to all the amazing people at La Valencia for making our day so perfect!
Amanda E
5.0
7/30/2023
Wow! We still can’t believe how great everything was at our wedding 😊 We feel so lucky to have been able to share our day with our closest family, friends and fur babies at such an incredible venue.
After our virtual meeting and tour with Bobby, we immediately decided La Valencia was the place for us. We wanted a venue with Spanish architecture, ocean view, great food and drinks, a welcoming environment for our two small dogs and a professional service team. La Valencia checked all these boxes and more! As a bonus, you really don’t need to spend much on décor because the venue is so beautiful!
We live north of the border and were on a tight timeline, so we booked the venue based off our virtual tour and meeting. When we finally met Bobby at La Valencia in person a month before the wedding, we were even more excited for our day!
Bobby made sure all was in order leading up to the wedding. Isabella took care of all the things we needed during the day. Ian, our banquet captain, was on top of everything at the cocktail hour and reception.
The signature drinks and hors d'oeuvres were sooooo good and the dinner was incredible. The chef could not have done better. Everything from portion size to flavour was spot on. Guests have requested the cocktail recipes and mentioned it was the best steak they have ever had!
From our first meeting with Booby over Zoom to our departure the day after the wedding, the level of service we received was beyond anything we could have imagined. We really can’t thank the team at La Valencia enough for making our day incredibly beautiful and special.
TLDR: Have your wedding at La Valencia, it will be amazing!
Alex R
5.0
7/26/2023
From the tour and first meeting with Bobby, I knew this is where we would get married. Bobby and Isabella were so fantastic to work with, answering any questions I had over the 1.5 years of planning our wedding! Most importantly, the wedding day was incredible. Not to mention, they have the BEST food you will probably ever have at any wedding - SO many guests talked about how incredible the food was, even a month later! The whole staff was fantastic. Special shoutout to Ian, our banquet captain, who made sure my husband and I had anything we needed when it came to food or drinks during the reception. We loved the La Valencia and can't wait to be able to celebrate our anniversary at a beautiful place every year!
Andrea J
5.0
7/20/2023
As happens with large groups of people, our guest numbers changed a few times. Bobby and his team accommodated us fun the most friendly manner. We were able to make the BEST wedding-dinner memory here. We recommend La Valencia Hotel to everyone. The views and staff were equally amazing. We are so pleased with our experience and can’t speak highly enough of this establishment. Thank you, guys, for making our wedding day perfect.
Nicole I
5.0
7/12/2023
La Valencia was a dream come true!
Our wedding planner scheduled our initial tour with Bobby. Bobby was awesome giving us a thorough tour and answering all our questions. Once we decided on La Valencia for our wedding we worked mainly with Isabella on all the details. Isabella was also awesome! The service we received during the planning process was everything we expected and more! Prompt and professional responses to all emails and questions. Our experience at the food tastings was exceptional! Best meal we’d ever had and we couldn’t believe the wedding food could be that delicious. And it was!!
We checked in to the hotel a couple days before the wedding and received the red carpet treatment from the moment we arrived. Valet guys were so friendly and helpful. Front desk crew was also wonderfully accommodating and helpful! Room service was prompt and attentive! Bartenders in the lobby were friendly, fast and made delicious cocktails!
On wedding day, Bobby was constantly checking in with the bridal suite and the groom’s room to make sure we were happy and had everything we needed. Dinner service was just as exceptional as everything else!
The service at La Valencia truly exceeded all expectations from top to bottom… they really think of everything!! Bobby and Isabella are the dream team!!! Made us feel so special!!
If you’ve never been to La Valencia, the pictures do not lie. If anything, they don’t do justice to its beauty. It’s not just a hotel or a wedding venue. It’s a feeling, it’s a vibe, it’s an experience, and it will always be such a special place in our hearts!
Kristin R
5.0
7/05/2023
Our wedding at La Valencia was perfect! Bobby and the staff were amazing during the planning process and on the day of. They were quick to answer all of our questions and gave honest opinions, which was super helpful.
All of our guests raved about the food! We went with the beef short rib and sea bass. People were saying it was the best wedding food ever!
Michelle P
5.0
7/03/2023
We had the most incredible wedding at La Valencia Hotel with help of our planner Kaleb Norman James. I’d highly recommend throwing in a silent disco to close out your night. The food was also incredible and Bobby Fader made the whole experience fabulous!!
steve S
5.0
6/27/2023
Hotel was nothing short of great. Overall service at La Valencia was unforgettable and we had no issues and nothing to worry about on the big day - thanks all!
Ryan J
5.0
6/22/2023
La Valencia Hotel was our dream wedding venue and the staff went above and beyond to make our day extra special (as well as the days leading up to the ceremony)! Bobby Fader held our hand every step of the way! His experience, knowledge, and hospitality guided us and made sure our perfect day was perfect! As a bride, there was not one thing I was nervous about because the setup for the day was seamless! It was absolutely beautiful and the food was amazing! Isabella was also extremely helpful with recommendations for food, stay, and special requests. Highly highly recommend and the venue/staff did not disappoint!
Cynthia J
5.0
6/02/2023
Our wedding at La Valencia Hotel was more than we wished for, from the friendly staff, prompt response from the hotel wedding coordinator and attention to detail did not go unnoticed. The food was excellent and of the best quality. For the price we truly got everything, from the ceremony space, cocktail, and reception room; all was included for a nominal fee. The bridal suite was so spacious and had everything a bride could need and then some. I can continue raving about La Valencia, but I'll stop now.
Laura T
5.0
5/14/2023
Everyone who works at this hotel is fantastic!!
My now husband and I already had our wedding planned. We were in La Jolla finalizing plans when my husband saw the La Valencia golf cart. We went in just to look and met the concierge Mark. He sold us! We then spoke to Bobby about availability. Bobby was lovely! We canceled our other venue and went to La Valencia. Best decision! Bobby was so attentive the day of also. We stayed in one of the suites for our honeymoon and the room was lovely! EVERYONE from the event manager to valet was great! The valet were SO kind and accommodating. 5 STARS!
Caitlin M
5.0
4/26/2023
The La Valencia Hotel is my favorite in San Diego and their team is top notch! Bobby and Isabella were extremely professional and super fun at the same time. They made the planning such a breeze. We loved doing the tasting with them and the food was outstanding - seriously! They have a broad menu that will definitely work for people of all different types of budgets and had a very reasonable minimum for the buyout of the ballroom. Finally, the service through cocktail hour and dinner was outstanding. We paid a little more for wine to be served throughout dinner and it was so worth it! Overall, it was a perfect day at the beautiful La Valencia Hotel!
Iliana V
5.0
4/23/2023
Words can't describe the exceptional service we received from our La Valencia wedding dream team, Bobby and Isabella. From the moment we met Bobby via Facetime, he made us feel at ease and comfortable to ask questions. Planning a wedding from Miami to San Diego was not easy and any time I needed to speak to someone from the team, they were responsive and attentive the whole way through. Bobby and Isabella's attention to detail was remarkable, from planning to rehearsal to lovely notes and gifts in our honeymoon suite, we were spoiled the entire weekend. On our wedding day, the staff was very accommodating and professional, and the hotel was pet friendly which was great for our little Oliver who was part of the wedding. The location itself is out of a movie, the minute you walk in you are greeted by beautiful Spanish architecture amidst the backdrop of the Pacific Ocean, there is nothing like it and our guests were blown away by the views and food, which by the way was delicious! La Valencia made our wedding about us, they made sure we were taken care of and they were flexible with our cultural requirements. Our pictures came out incredible and we were even personally escorted by Bobby to the cliffs for the most breathtaking sunset shots by the water. Bobby and Isabella welcomed us with open arms, and it was so easy to trust them, they truly were so happy for my husband and I, you could feel their excitement for our wedding day. You will not regret having your wedding at La Valencia, it was an absolute DREAM.
Janelle P
5.0
1/04/2023
Our wedding at La Valencia was an absolute dream! From the moment we met with Bobby on our initial tour, we were sold. Bobby is charismatic, funny and attentive to all the details. We cannot express our appreciation for him and the entire staff for making us feel so special. Our guests are still raving about the stunning location and amazing food. I cant thank you enough ... it was such a beautiful and seamless day!
response 01/27/2023
thank you so much for the wonderful review. Please don't be a stranger. You are always...
welcomed at La V
Diana H
5.0
12/02/2022
We had our wedding weekend at La Valencia and it could not be more perfect! Views were stunning, staff was amazing! The hotel was very accommodating. Shout out to Bobby who ensured our food was delicious and everything was in tip-top shape! And of course our wedding planner Amy at First Comes Love! She made the wedding from start to finish- flawless! It was truly a dream! Thank you!
Maggie J
5.0
11/30/2022
La Valencia was a dream venue. Not only is it absolutely gorgeous (ocean backdrop, perfect location, gorgeous ballroom, etc., etc.), but the team at La V is just as special. We worked with Bobby and Isabella and they were both tremendous. From the various tours, calls, walkthroughs, and tastings, we started to feel less like clients and more like family.
Bobby was onsite and available on our wedding day. He was so kind, encouraging, and attentive. He even shuttled us down to the beach for photos in the adorable pink La Valencia golf cart.
I cannot recommend this venue enough. It is STUNNING and the team at La V will ensure your wedding dreams are exceeded.
response 11/30/2022
Thank you Maggie,
It was great fun meeting you and your family. We are so happy that yo...
u were happy. We were honored to be able to play a small part on such a wonderful occasion. Please don't be a stranger. You are now part of our history and family.
Bobby
Erin M
5.0
11/23/2022
I cannot speak highly enough of La Valencia - they completely made our wedding weekend! From the moment we met Bobby and toured the beautiful property (the views!) we were sold. Bobby was so responsive and helpful throughout the entire wedding planning process as well. Both my husband and I are in residency and relied heavily on Bobby's expertise and recommendations for most of our vendors - we ended up loving everyone. On the actual wedding day, my bridesmaids and I were treated so well and I didn't have to worry about any of the details because they have it down to a science at the hotel. All of our guests raved about the food and the service on the wedding day - from the champagne when guests walked in until the end of the night. We ended up having brunch the day following the wedding on the Med patio which went off without a hitch and was equally as delicious. We're a month or so out from our wedding and people are still sending us notes about how much they loved the wedding. Overall, we could not be happier with our decision to get married at La Valencia and would recommend it to anyone looking for a beautiful, iconic venue with exceptional views, food and most importantly service! We will be back to celebrate our anniversary I'm sure.
response 11/30/2022
Thank you so much for such a wonderful review. It was a pleasure meeting you and your fa...
mily. Please don't be strangers. You are now part of our history and Family
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