I had a horrible experience with Love & Lupines. I really wanted to love them; they were a preferred vendor & I’d seen so many beautiful posts of their work at our venue. I also had a great experience with my initial contact, so I felt comfortable moving forward with over a year before our date without inquiring with any other florists.
Fast forward to 5 months before our wedding, I reached out to realign and share updates since the initial proposal. My contact had since left the company, so I had a new point of contact. She was helpful and responsive overall, but I never quite felt understood or heard. We certainly had some back and forth over the months, which was natural as we worked to finalize the quote. It’s helpful to note that I am a very Type A bride and very much in the details (likely even more than the 'average' bride). Even so, my vendors made me feel heard and comfortable each step of the way, but this vendor truly made me feel like a huge burden at each step. The tipping point was when I asked about the details of the taxes not adding up (I had entered costs into a spreadsheet so I could easily play around with the options to finalize, and I noticed that my tax didn’t match theirs). It was simply a question for understanding, not about the ~$60 difference in the final cost, but that morning, Meghon, the owner jumped in and attacked me for asking such a question. To this day, I still don’t understand why she felt the need to belittle her customer for simply asking a question. This was one of my only interactions with her directly and it left a horrible taste in my mouth + was never fully resolved. I decided to be the bigger person in my response and apologize, but I never heard back from Meghon and my main contact continued on as if it never happened.
The week of the wedding, I finalized the delivery details for what goes where on the wedding day and added an extra boutonnière to the order. The morning of the wedding, the boutonnieres were delivered incorrectly and were 2 short. My planner tried to help coordinate but then told me that I was incorrect on the final count (she had the 2021 original contract, not the 2022 version that had since been revised) so I had to pull up the final proposal the morning of my wedding to prove that we were missing two boutonnieres. This, combined with the past trauma from this florist, set me over the edge and I sobbed the morning of my wedding (after my makeup was done) over these stupid flowers. To this day, this is one of my biggest regrets from my wedding day, and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone. To top it off, the details of our wedding decor and reception space were left out, even thought they had been outlined with my contact many times—we paid extra for florals on our Welcome sign yet it was greenery only, there were no bud vases on the cocktail tables, and when I did the initial walkthrough of our reception space, I couldn’t help but notice the garland was incorrect (10 ft garland ordered for the 12 ft table and 8 ft garland was used). I’m sure no one else noticed, but because I was so in the details, I did and it made my heart sink each time. The flowers did turn out lovely, and for that, I’m grateful (also why I’m giving 2 stars instead of 1).
My best guess is that they had too many weddings on my July Saturday day (4) and simply couldn’t or didn’t care to keep up with the details because I was a ‘smaller’ wedding to them (spending ~$6.5k, which was still a lot for us).