We had our ceremony (outside) and reception (inside) and Nathanael Greene Lodge and it was absolutely amazing.
First let me talk about the staff, which was the most impressive to ...me - Cindy Tabler (the lodge manager) was the person 'in charge' of coordinating our event and she was great to work with. About a month out from the wedding we got together and went over the whole day and all the little details, so by the time we were done I felt completely comfortable about the whole day. We emailed back and forth several times between then and the wedding day about lingering questions and she was always very prompt in her responses. The day of the wedding, she was there the whole time and kept stressing that if there was anything she could do for us, just to let her know. She took care of all the decorating and coordinating with my vendors, and it turned out incredible. She was even the one who went thru the buffet line with me and held my plate and everything, and made sure we had dessert, and got us drinks... she was amazing, I never worried about a thing because I knew she'd take care of it. The rest of the staff working that night were all very nice and if they saw us made sure to ask if we needed anything.
Now, the caterer - Nathanael Greene uses the Brown Dog Cafe as their caterer (they are an upscale restaurant up off Pfeiffer Rd). The food was so so good, everyone I've had a chance to talk to after the wedding has commented on how great the food was. When we went for our tasting a few months beforehand, I don't think we tasted anything we didn't like, so you can't go wrong.
A couple comments on the lodge itself - we had our ceremony outside, they have a little area specifically set up for it, and it was so beautiful. There in the middle of the westside, you really feel like you're a lot farther away from it all, it was great. We decorated with a bunch of home-grown flowers - hanging baskets off the gondola, some potted plants, etc - and it was absolutely gorgeous. Then the ballroom inside the lodge was amazing as well. We had 130 guests, and we thought everyone fit in perfectly. I think if you get up to the 175+ range, it'll start to get really cozy (I think they'll allow you up to 220, that would be really really tight!).
One of the things I especially loved about this place (compared to other places that I've experienced through friends' weddings) is that it seemed very relaxed. If we wanted to make last minute changes, no problem. We could bring up all of our decorations and stuff any time in the week leading up to the wedding, and I could stop in any time I wanted if I just wanted to see what something looked like in the ballroom. They told us it was no big deal if we wanted to come back the day or two following the wedding to get all of our decorations and stuff, so we didn't have to worry about it the night of the wedding. (Obviously they do require you to take all your gifts and stuff that night). It really was all about what is most convenient for us, which was fantastic.
All in all, I can't think of one negative thing about my experience with Nathanael Greene Lodge. I would choose them again as my wedding vendor in a heartbeat!!