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Roche Harbor Resort is a scenic waterfront wedding venue located in Friday Harbor, WA. This historic Pacific Northwest venue is nestled along the sparkling blue marina of San Juan Island and is just a few hours from downtown Seattle. The quaint yet elegant resort offers first-class amenities and full-service packages that allow you to celebrate your momentous day in style. You are invited to visit and fall in love with the San Juans, from which the dazzling Cascade and Olympic Mountains are visible year-round.
Roche Harbor Resort hosts one wedding a day, and you have your choice of the Sunken Garden or indoor historic Chapel. The Sunken Garden is a quaint flowering garden with neutral blooms and green foliage, nestled between the historic Hotel de Haro Hotel and bustling Marina. The historic Our Lady of Good Voyage Chapel is non-denominational and more than a century old and provides a covered option in case of inclement weather. This chapel is still used for services and can host 80 guests. The beautiful outdoor Courtyard is the perfect backdrop to greet your guests with a glass of champagne and colorful tray-passed appetizers for your cocktail hour. Enjoy the space throughout your event by the historic wood-burning outdoor fireplace. For your reception, up to 250 people can gather in the Pavilion for dinner and dancing. This pavilion features a cozy, wood-burning indoor fireplace, retractable glass doors, wood floors, and a custom-made bar. You can also throw a large outdoor party on the Seaside Lawn, where the island’s spectacular sunsets will paint the backdrop to the festivities. Available in July or August only, for 250+ guests.
Comprehensive packages from Roche Harbor Resort are designed to ensure a seamless and stress-free wedding experience. These come with timeline & layout planning assistance, menu selection, set up and breakdown of venue spaces, and all staffing (wait staff, bartenders, chefs, and managers). A provided courtesy 2-night room block will give your guests the option to stay at the resort, and you won't be charged attrition for unused accommodations. Extensive, updated yearly menus that reflect the best flavors of the Salish Sea and the Pacific Northwest. These can include San Juan Island shellfish, locally-raised lamb, and local farm delicacies - your guests will be raving about the food!
140+ years in business
Speaks English
18 team members
Amenities + details
Amenities
Ceremony Area
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
On-Site Accommodations
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Beach
Waterfront
Garden
Historic Venue
Hotel
Park
Religious Setting
Church
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks
Destination Weddings
Destination Wedding Planning
Food & Catering
Planning
Destination Wedding Planning
Rentals & Equipment
Service Staff
Awards and Affiliations
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Reviews
4.9
out of 5.0169 reviews
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The Roche Harbor Resort is highly recommended for weddings, with exceptional service and a stunning venue that exudes charm. The team, including individuals like Stina, Ashley, and the event crew, is commended for going above and beyond and ensuring a seamless experience from planning to execution. Guests praise the delicious food, picturesque grounds, and impeccable attention to detail. The resort offers a magical setting and top-notch amenities, making it a dream location for a memorable wedding celebration.Review photos
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Kevin M
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5.0
11/05/2025
Where do I even begin?! Our experience with Roche was a dream from start to finish. We stumbled across them at the Seattle Wedding Show, and immediately knew this was the perfect v...
enue for us - not only did they check all the boxes for what we were looking for, but the team instantly made a great impression on us. Technically, Roche's season ends on October 31st, but they made it clear they had no problem whatsoever doing a November 1st wedding for us.
We set up a tour of the venue within the next week (with a comped stay in their nicest suite - a very nice gesture that had us sold before the tour even started) and from there, everything was perfect. The location is beyond gorgeous. The ferry ride sets the stage, and then by the time you get to the entryway arch at the resort, you can feel that you're walking into a truly magical place. The grounds are immaculately manicured and maintained, the trees and nature were picture-perfect for our Fall wedding, and the view of the marina and water can't be beat.
The staff here deserves the biggest of shout-outs. Every single person you meet acts like they truly care about you and your experience at the resort. I had questions about the rehearsal dinner and the head chef, Bill Shaw, personally reached out to talk to me about them. That's a good indicator of the type of effort every single person puts in to make every stay and interaction at Roche the best that it can be. From the front desk, with their tireless fulfillment of our million golf cart ride requests (thank you Remy, Mitch, and the rest of the crew!!) to the servers, bartenders, and everyone else, you will never find a more dedicated and phenomenal team of people.
Of course, I have to specifically talk about how great Ashley and Stina were through the whole process. I am a big planner, with countless questions to ask, and they took my 100+ emails over the course of these last 8 months in stride. There simply are not enough positive words to say about them. If you book a wedding with Roche Harbor, they will be your point people, and you will feel confident you're in the best hands possible.
If you care about your guests' experience coming to your wedding, then here's another thing RH does very well. We got a ton of compliments about every facet of the weekend. Guests liked that they got called a week before arriving, to check in about their travel details (such as having a ferry ride booked), and their upcoming stay. We also got lots of compliments about the beauty of the spot, the food, the drinks, and how nice the houses on site are.
I'm running out of characters now, but the food absolutely has to be mentioned. I've been here 4 times now and the food has always been amazing. It exceeded even my expectations during my wedding weekend though. We did a Halloween rehearsal event for all the guests at Madrona and the "Time of Our Lives" dinner package was a huge hit. At least 10 people specifically mentioned how good the grilled cheese slider was. The reception dinner was even more well received. The Beecher's Mac and Cheese hash was described by multiple people as being the best thing they've ever eaten, and the prime rib carving station was amazing too.
I could have 3500 words, not characters, for this review and it wouldn't be close to enough to say all I want to say. If you've read this far and you're still on the fence, let me leave you with this: this place is a dream and you will not regret booking your wedding here!!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 11/05/2025
Aww, thank you both so much for this! Your note truly meant the world to us and we may hav...
e teared up a bit reading it 😊. It was such a joy to help bring your wedding day to life. Thank you for trusting us with your special day; you were an absolute pleasure to work with and we’ll miss our email threads!
Enjoy newlywed life, and we look forward to welcoming you back to Roche Harbor again soon 🤍
Matthew W
5.0
12/09/2025
Roche Harbor Resort and their team of excellent folks made our wedding day an absolute blast, and simplified our lives so much during the process. The venue was amazing, the food w...
as wonderful, and the staff was awesome. With the help of their crew it was the best day possible
Any questions?
Brenda A
5.0
12/08/2025
Roche Harbor Resort was the best decision we made in our wedding process! The venue is stunning, it is like a little oasis just for your wedding weekend. But the best part was the ...
team at Roche Harbor. From the moment we booked a tour they were so sweet and helpful. They accommodated all of our needs and really made the communication between our vendors and the venue so seamless. We could not have asked for better food and service the day of our wedding. The whole team was AMAZING. We could not imagine getting married anywhere else. Thank you to Stina, Ashley, Reina, and the whole team.
Kristie B
5.0
12/08/2025
The Roche Harbor event/wedding team was amazing to work with! They supported all our unique wishes and needs of our guests throughout the ceremony and reception. With a broad age...
range of guests requiring varying menu options, the team at Roche Harbor allowed us to truly just enjoy the day.
Hannah K
5.0
10/24/2025
Roche Harbor was the perfect choice for our wedding. The team at Roche Harbor does an excellent job at running events and they have experience with every scenario you might encount...
er in wedding planning and can handle it all. Whenever we had a question during the planning process, Stina, Ashley, and team always had the answer and responded quickly. On our wedding day we had to change to our rain plan with short notice and the team jumped into action and made sure our guests had a good experience. Reina and the event crew did an excellent job making sure the reception moved according to the timeline and our guests were so happy with the food and drinks. Roche Harbor Resort is such a special place to visit and the events team is just the gem on top. We are so grateful to have been able to have our wedding at Roche!
(Photos by Hannah Faye Photography)
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 11/05/2025
Aww thank you so much!! We're so hap[y for you both, and grateful you chose Roche Harbor f...
or your beautiful celebration and hope the island will always feel like a special place to return to. Congratulations again!
Fabienne P
5.0
10/23/2025
My daughter got married at Roche Harbor Resort on October 5th 2025. The service we received was outstanding. From the moment we arrived we were treated like royalty. The staff, the...
chefs, the wedding coordinators, the golf cart drivers to only name a few were so professional, helpful and friendly. The food was second to none and exactly what we were hoping for. The accommodations were amazing from the villas, condominiums to the hotel rooms. Add to this the spectacular views and grounds and you have an idyllic wedding which we certainly did have.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 11/05/2025
Thank you! We’re so happy to hear your daughter’s wedding weekend was everything you hoped...
for, and it means so much that you felt welcomed and well cared for. Wishing the happy couple a lifetime of love — and we hope to see you back at Roche Harbor again soon!
ludmila a
5.0
10/22/2025
Our experience with Roche Harbor Wedding was beyond perfect. They really can take care of everything and the outcome will be your dream wedding.
They are professional, and at th...
e same time very warm people that you get to really make a connection during the time your planning and especially on the day before and during your wedding day.
100% recommended , they are top. If you really want to have the most amazing wedding and specially to enjoy it, Roche Harbor is the place to do it. The staff takes care of every little detail, food is incredible, and they have very professional vendors that you can work with without bringing anyone that is not from San Juan Island.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/23/2025
Thank you so much for your kind words! We loved celebrating with you and are so glad your ...
wedding weekend was everything you dreamed of. The personal touches that reflected both your roots made the celebration so special, and your dance party was epic! Wishing you both all the happiness and we hope to see you again soon! 🤍
Natalie D
5.0
10/13/2025
I got married at Roche Harbor Resort on June 20, 2025! It was truly the best day of our lives, and I couldn't recommend it more!! The entire planning process with the events team a...
t Roche was so seamless. As someone without a planner, they helped me through the entire planning process and definitely helped me stay organized. The team provided me with a super helpful list of local vendors (who are all so talented and amazing) which helped me save lots of time on researching vendors! When our wedding weekend arrived, we were so impressed by how friendly everyone who works at Roche Harbor is. All of the staff made us and our guests feel so welcome on our wedding weekend! We had our rehearsal dinner and welcome party on shipwreck beach and it was so much fun! The food and drinks were amazing, and we welcomed all of our guests for drinks after the rehearsal dinner at sunset. It was the perfect venue for a welcome party, with heaters for when the sun went down, a bonfire, games, and of course the stunning view of the harbor. Our wedding day also went without a hitch thanks to the Roche events team. They kept us on time, well fed, and our drinks were always full :) There were so many little details on our wedding day that were so thought out by the Roche Harbor team that made the day truly so seamless and special. The food and drinks were also so well done, we were extremely impressed! I wish I could relive our wedding day over and over, it was so special, and couldn't have happened without the team at Roche!!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/23/2025
Thank you so much for your kind words! We loved planning and celebrating with you, and are...
so glad everything came together just as you envisioned. It was such a joy to welcome your friends and family, especially knowing many traveled from far away. Wishing you both all the happiness! 🤍
Emma E
5.0
7/03/2025
The venue, food, service, amenities and pretty much everything at Roche Harbor are top notch! Could not be more happy with our wedding last weekend. It was an easy choice of venue ...
for us because they pretty much have everything you need already there, and the food is incredible. Great location for a family gathering. The San Juan Islands are just stunning!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 07/04/2025
Thank you!! We’re so happy to hear how much you loved your wedding, it was so lovely plann...
ing with you, and it was a joy to host you and your families - hope to see you at the resort again soon!
Jimmy K
5.0
11/03/2024
Our wedding at Roche Harbor was nothing short of magical. Cannot say enough great things about the entire events team at Roche! They made the whole process so simple, and were righ...
t by our side every step of the way. Heading into planning our wedding, I was anxious about the process becoming “all consuming” but I never once experienced that with the team at Roche. They were always responsive and helpful and offered so much guidance to my partner and I. Our guests were also blown away by their time at Roche Harbor. The event staff was so kind and provided the best customer service I’ve seen in a long time. It’s been a few months since our wedding and all our guests keep telling us how good the food was, how nice the staff was, and how beautiful Roche Harbor is. Cannot recommend a Roche Harbor wedding enough!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 11/03/2024
Thank you for your kind words, we loved working with you both!! And, thank you for sending...
the pics, they are so so lovely - and Kuma running down the aisle after you... a million heart eyes!!
Cassandra S
5.0
10/21/2024
I HIGHLY Roche Harbor Resort for your wedding! Not only is it just an absolutely stunning setting, but the Event Planning Team at Roche Harbor is absolutely amazing! They all know ...
what they're doing and they do it SO well! From the very beginning, the team was very helpful, organized, responsive, flexible and a pleasure to work with. On the big day, the team blew me away - they went above and beyond to make our wedding so special - from the setup, to the support with ceremony, to the incredible food and service, everything was more than I could have dreamed of! Highly, highly recommend a wedding here - the team is incredible and you won't be disappointed!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/26/2024
Thank you so much for your kind words!! We’re thrilled to hear you enjoyed your wedding pl...
anning experience with us (you were sooo organized and on top of everything!!), and knowing that we exceeded your expectations truly makes our day. Your recommendation means the world to us! :) Congratulations again, and thank you for letting us be a part of your beautiful celebration!
Sarah P
5.0
10/04/2024
The location and resort speak for itself. It is stunning. We cannot express our gratitude enough for the Roche Harbor Weddings and Events team-Ashley, Stina, Cilena, and Laura.
The...
se women are amazing and really go above and beyond to make your day (in our case -weekend) an incredible experience. It was the little touches provided that made the greatest impact. Our guests said that it was the best food at a wedding they ever had, and several said it was the best wedding they ever experienced. The follow up from start to finish and after our wedding was met with urgency and care. The team works with empathy and seem to truly love what they do. Thank you Roche!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/11/2024
Thank you, Sarah!! We’re over the moon to hear that your wedding weekend was such a memora...
ble experience for you and your guests. It’s especially wonderful to know that the little touches and the food made such an impact. We're truly grateful for your kind words; we’re passionate about what we do, and your appreciation means the world to us (we don’t always get to hear how we’re doing, so thank you for your feedback!). We’re honored to have been a part of your special day, and we wish you all the best in your future together! Xoxo, Ashley, Stina, Cilena, and Laura
Miranda A
5.0
9/26/2024
Oh my goodness, I have only but nice things to say about this venue, location, and staff. If I had one word to describe our time with Roche Harbor, I would say blissful.
They real...
ly help with your vision and I never felt anxious when working with them (and we all know how wedding planning goes). Every time I had a moment where I felt like I could've panicked, Roche's staff stepped up to the plate multiple times. They really want you to feel at ease and they damn sure do a good job of it. They even make sure you eat when you're running around trying to greet all your guests!
We had a pop-up tattoo artist cancel day of, last minute. Within an hour, Roche had a plan and connections. We were able to still have our wedding pop-up tattoo event with two traveling tattoo artists' that used to work at Roche, it all came together so perfectly! If you’re looking for tattoo artists who are not only skilled but also a blast to be around, look no further than Shay and Sean. They saved the day for us, and we can’t recommend them highly enough!
The golf carts they have on site were a nice touch as well! Made sticking to the timeline/schedule so much easier.
You will not regret booking here, it was the most magical weekend we could ask for. All thanks to Stina and the rest of their team.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/11/2024
Thank you so much for your review! We're thrilled to hear that your wedding at Roche Harbo...
r was everything you dreamed of. It was our pleasure to help bring your vision to life and step in when challenges arose, like the last-minute pop-up tattoo situation - we're so happy Shay and Sean could save the day - they're the best!!
Hearing that you felt at ease, well-fed, and on schedule makes us smile. Stina and the entire team are so grateful for your kind words, and we can't wait to welcome you back in the future. Wishing you both all the best! xoxo
Berney L
5.0
8/30/2024
You will not regret getting married at Roche Harbor Resort. First and foremost, I want to say we are a lesbian couple and throughout our search for an LGBT+ friendly venue, we felt...
very strongly that Roche was the perfect venue for us after just one conversation with the planning team.
My wife and I were married on 7/19/24, which we planned ourselves without a wedding planner, during a 1 year planning window. For every detail and decision, the Roche Harbor planning team was there for us, answering our many calls and emails. Our wedding was around 60 people and ran very smoothly. The weather in July was beautiful- not a cloud in the sky. The backdrop of the hotel, docks, gardens, and chapel all made for beautiful photos.
We chose to get married in Roche's beautiful historic chapel instead of the garden and were not disappointed- walking out of the church when the doors opened revealed a beautiful backdrop of the harbor and many docked boats.
Our cocktail hour was so fun on the patio, with plenty of seating and tables as well as the lit fireplace. The bar staff met us with two flutes of champagne when we arrived after signing our marriage license. The appetizers were delicious and everyone loved the ones we selected off Roche's different tiered menu options.
Dinner ran very smoothly thanks to the catering team, and the bar staff made sure we had our cocktail of choice waiting for us at our dinner table. We opted for a buffet and were not disappointed- the food was was delicious and our guests agreed. The tables were set up beautifully as requested. It was a beautiful and perfect day from start to finish. We were able to have the wedding of our dreams without a day-of coordinator thanks to the Roche Harbor team.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/11/2024
Thank you so much for your beautiful review! We're thrilled to hear that Roche Harbor felt...
like the perfect fit for your wedding and that our team could support you every step of the way. It was truly a pleasure to work with you both and to help make your day as smooth and special as possible, from the historic chapel ceremony to your fun cocktail hour on the patio. You and your guests we're so much fun!!
We're so happy that everything—from the food to the bar service—was just as you imagined, and that you were able to enjoy your special day. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness, and we can't wait to welcome you back for anniversary stays!! Your pictures... are STUNNING!! :) xoxo Roche Harbor Events Team
Tess W
5.0
8/22/2024
Having our wedding at Roche Harbor was really a dream come true. All of our guests absolutely raved about the venue, the service and especially the food! I am so thankful to the Ro...
che team for making our day so special!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/11/2024
Thank you so much for your wonderful review! We're thrilled to hear that your wedding was ...
a dream come true and that your guests loved the venue, service, and food. It was our pleasure to make your day special, and we’re so grateful to have been a part of it. Wishing you all the happiness in the world!
Jeremy B
5.0
8/18/2024
Absolutely immaculate. Little needs to be said about the grandness of being married at Roche Harbor. Memories of a lifetime.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/11/2024
Thank you so much for your kind words! We’re honored to have been a part of your special d...
ay, and knowing it created memories of a lifetime means the world to us. Wishing you all the best, and we hope to welcome you back to the resort soon!
Emily N
5.0
7/12/2024
The experience with Roche Harbor Resort for our wedding was amazing from start to finish! The entire team were great communicators and made the process easy using aisle planner to ...
help keep us on track with all of the elements of a wedding. Our guests had the best time and raves about how amazing the resort, food, and service was! A beautiful place to get married with a great team to help make the day a reality! Thank you!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/11/2024
Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your beautiful photos!! We're honore...
d to be a part of your special day and look forward to hosting you on future anniversary stays!! -Roche Harbor Events Team
Kenzie B
5.0
6/28/2024
Our wedding at Roche Harbor on June 25th, 2024 was nothing short of perfect. From the day we decided to get married at Roche to the end of our wedding day, the Roche Harbor team wa...
s there for us. Throughout planning, the day of set up, the communication and clarity on costs / coordination, to the service throughout our wedding day, they were incredibly professional and present. We felt so special and cared for. Roche Harbor is a little slice of heaven on earth and every detail, from the lit fireplaces in the courtyard & pavilion, to them announcing us as newly weds during the traditional colors ceremony. We cannot give this team enough praise. All we can say if we walked away from our wedding saying that was the most incredible day of our lives and we credit it to the amazing Roche Harbor Team. Can we do it all over again?
Trent S
5.0
6/28/2024
Roche Harbor Resort was hands down the best choice of venue for our Wedding! Our guests are still raving that it was the best wedding they had ever attended and the staff was dilig...
ent, caring, and catered to every single need. It was simply enchanting; we cannot wait to return to celebrate our anniversary! Thank you 🙏🏻
Kari L
5.0
6/08/2024
Wow! Everywhere you look in Roche Harbor is absolutely stunning and each space that Roche curates for their events, from the Rose Garden for the ceremony, to the Courtyard for coc...
ktails, to the Pavilion for the reception, made for the perfect wedding venue. Planning was a breeze since Roche takes care of or provides many of the variables you need to handle at over venues (ex: catering, bar, and most of the rentals). It was also really useful to see so many photo examples of how other Roche weddings have been setup to help us determine what we wanted to do for ours. Also, the entire staff from planning through execution were timely, professional, helpful, and very attentive to our event. The food at our reception was delicious (many guests still mention how good the passed appetizers were especially) and we couldn’t have asked for more. We definitely recommend having your wedding/reception at Roche Harbor!
Lindsay D
5.0
10/06/2023
Roche is probably the best place in the WORLD to get married. There is room for so many people to stay on the property, it's stunning, so many activities to do, and the best planni...
ng team at Roche. We had a 170 person wedding, and they hosted us for a welcome dinner at Lime Kiln, a rehearsal dinner and welcome party at Shipwreck Beach, the most stunning wedding at the Sunken Garden, Cocktail hour at the Courtyard, Reception in the Pavilion, and Farewell Brunch at McMillians. It was the best weekend of our lives, all our guests raved about how much they loved it (guests from 20+ states and countries traveled in), and said it felt like a vacation for them- which was our goal. I've been to 30+ weddings in my life, and I am so proud and honored to have had it at Roche. It is a special place, but the staff there makes it even better. BIG hugs to you all!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/09/2023
Thank you Lindsay for your kind words, we're soooo happy for you and Matt!! Wishing you bo...
th a lifetime of happiness and hope to see you soon!
Morgan F
5.0
9/29/2023
Roche Harbor and their team were so amazing to work with, they made us feel like family and we couldn’t imagine having our wedding anywhere else. They were always responsive, they ...
helped us with anything we needed and worked well on the fly when we had to change plans due to weather. We would recommend Roche Harbor to anyone!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/09/2023
Thank you for your kind words, Morgan!! We are beyond happy for you and Monica, and look f...
orward to seeing you again soon, and watching the puppies grow up :)
Christina W
5.0
9/22/2023
Thank you Roche Harbor for our AMAZING wedding weekend! It was truly so magical and prefect! Every staff member that was involved...from accommodations to transportation to cuisine...
, provided not only Don and I incredible service but our guests as well! Roche Harbor is truly the best venue to say "I do"!
We chose to do our rehearsal /welcome dinner at Shipwreck Beach. It was a wonderful setting for our BBQ dinner and drinks. A beautiful view of the harbor as the sun set!
This venue is perfect for an outdoor wedding. We had the ceremony in the sunken garden and from there it is a very short walk to the courtyard where cocktail hour took place. Our guests were served appetizers and beverages as they mingled with one another. The reception followed a few steps up into the pavilion. Upon entering, there was not a detail missed! This space was truly over the top with elegance and class!
Our guests could not stop talking about how delicious the food was, how incredible the staff was and what a sensational venue it was! We truly wish we could do it all over again just to experience the amazing event that the Roche Harbor wedding team produces!
KaSandra L
5.0
9/14/2023
I have wanted to get married at Roche Harbor since I was a little girl, and I am so glad I did.
The location in and of itself is absolutely magical. We had the best time.
From ou...
r first viewing appointment, Laura was wonderful. She gave us tons of ideas and useful information and we felt absolutely zero pressure from her to book a date.
After booking, the entire events team was very helpful and on the ball, which I appreciated. They took the time to answer every little annoying bride question thoroughly and happily. They also always responded in a timely manner, which is so helpful for an overwhelmed bride. They also offered recommendations for other vendors which was super helpful. The entire planning process with them from the event spaces, to the room block, to the food and beverage service was very smooth and simple.
Because they handle so much, I opted not to hire a wedding planner. At times it was a challenge for me, but it is totally doable if you are a hands on bride or have family and friends that are helpful.
By the time my wedding came around, the events staff member I had been working with went on maternity leave, I do feel that a few small details were missed due to this, but nothing catastrophic. I have been through the maternity leave process myself, so I know how challenging it can be to get everything ready before you leave, and it’s really nothing that made for a bad experience.
The team was super helpful the day before the wedding with our rehearsal and final planning meeting and left me feeling completely at ease going into the following day - which is saying a lot because I am a stress ball.
The ceremony and cocktail hour ran perfectly smooth (again with no planner or day of coordinator). The servers made a point to bring my husband and I drinks and plates of appetizers, obviously knowing that it can be difficult for the bride and groom to find a second to eat and drink - this was a really nice touch.
We opted for a plated salad and buffet style dinner. The food was amazing and all of the feedback we have received from our guests was great. As we know, our guests’ opinions of the food can make or break how we feel about our wedding.
The bar manager was also great and super accommodating. We had a few odd requests and he rolled with them, with a smile on his face, when others in his position would have been annoyed.
I also have to give a shout-out to the culinary team members who helped us store our cake. We had some random questions that were totally not even in their realm of expertise and they were happy to answer them and help us figure things out.
A few small details to consider - Washington State is pretty strict with their food and liquor laws for event venues and Roche Harbor operates very much “by the book” (as they should). Due to this, you can be a little limited in some things (for example, no beer boys in lieu of flower girls, and no leftovers, which is a bummer because the food is delicious). There is also a mandatory 25% gratuity, which is a little high, and maybe it’s just the part of me that doesn’t like being told how to feel about something that reacted to this lol, but at the end of the day, the service was amazing, the events team was amazing, and I couldn’t imagine having my wedding anywhere else. Just like every other bride, it was my best day ever and totally worth every penny.
Genevieve S
5.0
7/29/2023
Our wedding weekend at Roche Harbor was absolutely incredible. The team, the staff, and all folks involved were incredibly thoughtful and detail-oriented. Our guests were blown awa...
y by the beauty of the resort and how amazing the wedding weekend was executed. We are over the moon with joy! Thank you, Roche Team for the best experience EVER!
Julia C
5.0
7/18/2023
We are just over the moon with how amazing the wedding, rehearsal dinner, and overall experience with Roche was. We could not be happier and are so grateful to Stina and her whole ...
team. Nothing went wrong, everyone was so incredible to work with, and very communicative. Roche is incredibly special and we knew this would be a dream wedding, but it was much much more. Words can't describe how magical it was. All our guests said it was the most beautiful wedding and most delicious wedding food they have ever had. We agree! The dungeness crab mac is fantastic- my uncle started clapping when the buffet curtains opened he was so excited! And our guests were all so happy that a conga line started at 7pm in broad daylight! Having our guests all staying in the same location was incredible. It is so special to go grab a cup of coffee on the docs in the morning and run into all your loved ones and catch up/laugh about the shenanigans the night before. We could not recommend Roche Harbor more and we thank them from the bottom of our hearts.
Ariana K
5.0
6/09/2023
The venue for the wedding was absolutely stunning. The food was fabulous, and the staff was incredibly friendly and helpful. We opted for the Beach BBQ Rehearsal dinner and the G...
arden wedding with indoor dinner reception. I could not have hoped for more perfect events!
Jennifer W
5.0
5/26/2023
What an amazing venue and great staff! I couldn't recommend Roche Harbor more. We have been going to the resort for years and it is a very special place for our family. The wedding...
and reception were fantastic! Lots of great compliments on the food and service. I highly recommend a late May wedding. The entire garden is in full bloom and it isn't too hot! Thank you for everything!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 05/29/2023
Thank you Jennifer for your kind words!! We couldn't be happier for M & J, and enjoyed all...
the planning with you and Mrs. I :) We hope to see you and your family at the resort for future vacations!
Shannon B
5.0
12/06/2022
Amazing. I could not have asked for a better wedding. They are team are veterans and know exactly what you need and how to make your wishes happen. The venue is amazing, the food i...
s spectacular, and the planning team helps you remain as stress free as a bride can be. They help you with venders and make sure every detail is looked after.
My only small negative is they turn up the lights and clear the tables during the last song of the night, at 11 on the dot. So be aware you are not getting any late party at the venue going. :) Though if you have people rent HighTide/LowTide there is a great roof top there to keep the (more quite) party going. Also tell your guest to book their rooms early because trust me, they sell out.
I cannot recommend it enough, Roche Harbor is the spot to get married. It is beyond special and the team make it that way.
My Amazing Vender Recomindations:
Flowers: Camas Designs
Hair: Island Roots
Dessert: Cakes by Felicitations
Photo/Video: Sound Originals*
DJ: Joshua Field*
Lights: Slavus Wedding Lights
Make-up: Ferah Uri
*not on island
Steve S
5.0
10/25/2022
We had our wedding at Roche Harbor at the end of September 2022, and it was absolutely amazing. We first discovered Roche Harbor when we ourselves were guests at a wedding, and a f...
ew years later, we decided to come back and get married there. We couldn't have asked for anything more. The team over there at Roche, from their events planning team, hotel staff, marina staff, people behind the scenes, and everyone in between were absolutely wonderful. They made sure we had the perfect day, were helpful, cheerful, on point, and always available. We'd highly recommend to anyone thinking of getting married there to give them a call and get it in the books.! I honestly don't think there's anything we'd change, and we're very thankful for everything they did for us! They have our highest recommendation, and we hope to celebrate many anniversaries for years to come up there at the resort! Thank you to the Roche Harbor team for everything you all did to make our special day everything that it was! Cheers!
-S&S-
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/25/2022
Thank you both so much for your kind words!! I must say, kinda miss all of our emails back...
and forth, but we're so so happy for you both, and know we will see you for future anniversary stays :) Congratulations again!! -Ashley
Austin A
5.0
10/21/2022
Roche Harbor is an idyllic setting for a wedding. We got married there on 10/1/2022 and it was truly PERFECT!! The weather was beautiful, 75 and sunny. The entire resort is so stun...
ning and it provides a ton of locations for amazing wedding photos. Our vision was for an elegant wedding in a gorgeous setting that eventually turns into a dance party with all our favorite people. Roche Harbor delivered on that vision! The staff was incredible! We did not have a wedding planner. We put everything together on our own and with the help of Stina and all of the Roche Harbor event staff. They answered all of our questions leading up to our wedding day and were very responsive. The day of coordination with the on site event staff was incredible!! Our day of coordinator made sure we were taken care of all day long. I honestly can't say enough how remarkable Roche Harbor is!! It was a special place to us before our wedding and now it forever will be. We will absolutely be returning for future anniversaries. I highly recommend choosing Roche Harbor for your wedding!!!!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/25/2022
Thank you!!! We had a blast planning your wedding weekend with you both, and congratulatio...
ns again!! Looking forward to seeing you soon! -Ashley
Julia S
5.0
8/24/2022
Getting married at Roche Harbor was a dream come true! We already loved Roche and getting married there was beyond special. The venue, grounds and overall atmosphere are stunning.....
. especially at sunset! The planning staff: Stina, Laura and Ashley were great to work with. They were super responsive, organized and kind in fielding our million-and-one questions during the planning process. The food and service are beyond five-star!! Our guests are still talking about how delicious the appetizers and dinner were (we did the four course plated dinner with a duet of prime rib and salmon- highly recommend). We also did a rehearsal dinner at Shipwreck Beach and the BBQ buffet was a hit! The bar and serving staff were super friendly both nights. They took care to check in with myself and the groom to make sure we had what we needed, which was unexpected and delightful. Another huge bonus to our weekend was Roche's golf cart fleet and staff. We had some elderly guests and a bridesmaid with a broken leg. Being able to count on the transport was a game-changer for those guests who needed help navigating the grounds and also really fun for me and my bridesmaids on the day of the ceremony! Roche is an all around top-notch venue. We had a blast and would recommend getting married there to anyone who wants to get married in the beautiful San Juan Islands.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/25/2022
Thank you so much for your kind words! We had a blast planning with you both, and hope to ...
see you for future anniversary stays! ( I hope your bridesmaid is feeling better too!) Congratulations again!! -Ashley
Abby S
5.0
8/14/2022
The team at Roche Harbor is unmatched - Stina, Laura and Ashley made our wedding a breeze to plan, a truly incredible feat for the logistics and details that it entails. Everything...
was thought of and planned to a T, so my husband and I were able to feel like guests at our own wedding. They communicated quickly and met every single question with patience and kindness, and partnered seamlessly with all of our vendors for a smooth experience overall.
Roche is a stunning, classically Pacific Northwest venue that we were proud to host our wedding guests at, and the team took it above and beyond with professionalism. They're the best in the biz :)
*A helpful tip we learned: Roche is a small resort and a wedding room block will fill up quickly, so be aware of that and have backup options to provide your guests with so everyone can be accommodated for.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/25/2022
Aww!! Thank you for your kind words!! We loved working with you both, and your wedding wee...
kend was one for the books - we're still obsessed with your wedding photos, and love all the personalized touches that made your wedding such an amazing and fun party!! Congratulations again! -Ashley
Madeleine P
5.0
7/26/2022
Roche Harbor is the most incredible place to have a wedding! We got married on July 17, 2022. The venue itself is undeniably gorgeous, but the team of people working to make your w...
hole weekend special is what really made our experience wonderful. Stina, Ashley, Laura, and all the other wonderful people worked so hard with us all year to answer questions, make arrangements for things, and ensure that our day was the most relaxed and beautiful it could be. The rehearsal and the rehearsal dinner were absolutely gorgeous and the ceremony and reception were out of a movie. I, my groom, and our families and wedding party barely had to lift a finger all weekend, the RH team handles everything for you! This venue is so special and if you are able to get married here, DO IT! We wish we could relive this whole weekend over and over again!!!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/25/2022
Thank you!!! We wish we could relive your wedding weekend all over again too! So perfect, ...
your family and guests were amazing, and it was a dream planning with you both - thank you so much for choosing RH, and look forward to seeing you next summer! Congratulations!!! -Ashley
Andre G
5.0
5/08/2022
A smooth and professional operation with an amazing staff and location. Everyone here is a dedicated employee who cares about guest experience and making sure things run smoothly....
We had proper communication and organizational meetings and left feeling in good hands. On the day of our rehearsal and wedding, everything went smoothly and any issues or concerns we had were directly ironed out. We cannot recommend the team here enough; the fact it looks like heaven on earth doesn't hurt either.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 10/25/2022
Thank you so much for the kind words!! We couldn't have asked for a more sweet couple (and...
family!) to start our wedding season off with :) Congratulations again, and hope to see you the next time you're in the Northwest! -Ashley
Tiffany K
5.0
2/15/2022
Roche Harbor was everything and more in anything I could want in a venue and service. They were fully booked with weddings yet made us feel that we were special and important the e...
ntire weekend. My husband and I even became fast friends with the reception staff as they were so endearing, kind, and helpful with all management of family and friends coming in for the weekend. Outside of how we were treated and cared for, the venue is absolutely STUNNING. You could go with no decorations and it would be just as jaw dropping. The food catered was exquisite and six months later my guests still bring it up. If I could give Roche Harbor Resort 10 stars I absolutely would. They hold a special place in my heart for making such a special day come to fruition.
Ellie K
5.0
2/15/2022
Roche Harbor was a great venue. They took care of all of the food and timeline details and allowed us to DIY the rest. The island has plenty of vendors for flowers, cake, etc. or...
you can do things yourselves, which was nice to have that option. The venue is beautiful and perfect for an outdoor wedding.
Brittany C
5.0
2/14/2022
The Roche Harbor events team was a dream to work with! They always responded to every email and phone call within a timely manner. They were very helpful if I had any questions abo...
ut timeline planning, meals, setting up, etc. I really appreciated how the venue has almost everything included in your package for you (rehearsal dinner, rehearsal, food/beverages, tables/linens, set up/tear down). The Roche Harbor team really covers most of your bases but I would still recommend hiring a day of coordinator to work with you and the Roche Harbor team so that you don’t need to worry about a single thing on your wedding day. Our wedding was simply blissful and I would love to plan it and do it all over again - I know that Roche Harbor played a huge role in my wonderful experience and couldn’t recommend them enough. If you have any questions regarding hiring other vendors (hair, makeup, DJ, etc.) they will give you a great advice and recommendations.
Hallie S
5.0
2/14/2022
I have been visiting Roche Harbor since I was a young girl and always imagined myself getting married here. When I finally met my husband and we booked Roche Harbor for our wedding...
we were over the moon. Needless to say, the team at Roche was so incredible to work with and ensured that our wedding day was everything that we wanted and more. Despite all the challenges that we faced while planning a wedding during the pandemic, our wedding went off without a hitch and we were so happy and grateful that we had decided to go with Roche Harbor!
Olivia B
5.0
2/13/2022
Everything about this venue was fantastic! We still have people telling us they remember how great the food (and location!) was.
McKenna B
5.0
2/12/2022
We got married at Roche Harbor Resort just last year and it was hands-down the venue of our dreams! The entire Wedding & Events team were extremely responsive, flexible and kind pe...
ople to partner with over the last year! Whenever we had a question or idea to run by them, the Roche team was just a phone call or email away. They manage multiple weddings per week during the summer, but you would never notice because they made each couple feel special and were genuinely excited for our big day.
Cari K
5.0
8/17/2021
The only word to describe our July 29, 2021 wedding at Roche is PERFECT. Truly. Our small gathering of 35 friends and family members was absolutely the best. The Roche planning tea...
m was professional and organized- I didn’t ever worry about a single thing. The food was magnificent and the support in selecting excellent vendors for our photos, floral, minister, hair and makeup was spot on. We truly had the most magical stay and can’t wait to come visit next July. ❤️
Darci C
5.0
10/21/2020
In summary - I would rate Roche Harbor 5+ stars due to the breathtaking location, unbelievably accommodating and responsive wedding planning team, and their response to COVID-19 le...
ading to the postponement of our wedding.
In detail - we were supposed to be married at Roche Harbor in June 2019. As soon as the pandemic hit, the wedding planning team at Roche started reaching out. They kept us informed of state guidelines and they answered our (many) questions throughout the spring. Eventually - the team at Roche told us it would be in our best interest to postpone, and confirmed that we would not need to worry about deposits, and that they would handle moving previously-booked accommodations within the resort to a new wedding date. They gave us the available dates, allowed us to choose what worked best for our Summer 2021 schedules, and we were set. That easy!
I have to think to myself - how many venues would do this?! They were advising us to postpone because they genuinely wanted us to have the best wedding and celebration possible, and knew that social distancing guidelines may have gotten in the way. They didn't know that events were going to be shut down entirely. They put the client ahead of the business and they made my fiancé and I feel valued.
Throughout the wedding planning process, previous to the pandemic, the team was also incredible. If we had an idea for the wedding - they were there to support it and let us know how they could assist in making it a reality. Their job is essentially to make wedding dreams come true - and they do a very good job at that.
The experience you will get at Roche Harbor is like none other, whether you are planning or attending a wedding, or just visiting for a weekend getaway. It is a charming, happy place. The people are genuine and kind, the food is world class (McMillans is our very favorite restaurant), the service is like none other, and the people - both the folks who work there and those visiting, are just plain happy to be there.
We will now be married in June 2021. The team has stayed in contact with us and we always stop by to say hi when we visit San Juan Island. They connected us with all of our other vendors (photographer, officiant, rentals, cake, hair & makeup, etc.), who are also incredible and were unbelievably accommodating through the pandemic.
We feel deeply grateful to Roche for their understanding and grace through the year 2020. We cannot wait to be married there in 2021 and will continue to visit for the rest of our lives.
Byron P
5.0
9/18/2020
We were frequent visitors of Roche Harbor and always thought of it as a great getaway destination. During one such visit, accompanied by our daughter and her boyfriend / future hus...
band, we overheard them remark, “If we ever get married, we should do it here. This is such an awesome place!”
We never dreamed it would be possible. But, the day came when we started looking at wedding venues. Everything else paled. Roche Harbor Resort was permanently etched in our minds. On a whim, we contacted Roach Harbor Weddings and they immediately sent a link to their wedding presentation site. There was even an open date on the calendar.
Accommodating is an understatement. We set up an appointment to tour the facility with Jessica and invited our daughter and now fiancé to visit with us. Clearly Jessica loves her job and she gave us a great overview of the facility and how weddings worked at Roche Harbor.
Over the course of the next couple months, we worked with Ashley and several other team members finalizing the wedding plans. In addition to the dreams of our daughter and her fiancé, and the fabulous customer service, a primary decision making consideration for us was the turnkey nature of Roche Harbor Weddings. It was one stop shopping for the venue, the accommodations and a venue coordinator. Beyond that, we only had to arrange for our own photographer, cake maker and floral arranger and officiant. It was easier having a destination wedding than it would have been having it in a more local venue where we would have had to arrange for nearly everything. Plus the team was fun to work with.
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 09/18/2020
Hi Byron,
Thank you so much for your kind words!! We loved working with you all and enjoy...
ed celebrating the union between Courtney & Kevan - it was so beautiful!!!
We are honored you and your family chose Roche Harbor to host their big day, and are so happy you all come back for future vacations!! -Roche Harbor Events Team
Hallie R
5.0
9/10/2020
The Events Team at Roche Harbor is top notch! We have had such a great experience with them from the beginning. We ended up postponing our 2020 wedding due to COVID-19 but Roche Ha...
rbor was so flexible and supportive throughout the whole process. What could have been a terrible situation ended up being so easy and smooth thanks to their team. While we haven't hosted our wedding yet, we have no doubt that Roche will exceed our expectations in 2021!
Response from Roche Harbor Resort on 09/18/2020
Hi Hallie,
Thank you so much for the kind words!! We are so excited to be a part of your ...
wedding day! Thank you for your flexibility in changing your date; we consider you part of the Roche Harbor Family, and truly want you to have the wedding of your dreams. We hope to build a lifetime relationship with you both – and hope you bring your families back for vacations and future celebrations too!! We are sooo looking forward to 2021!! -Roche Harbor Events Team
Jessie D
5.0
1/07/2020
A winter wedding in Washington is possible!! Additional perk for most (if not all) of your guest accommodations is getting free upgrades to due the “slower season”. Sweet and intim...
ate little white chapel is the perfect ceremony set up and very close to the reception area. Beautiful and useable outdoor courtyard with huge fireplace to keep toasty warm. Rainy weather? No problem! There’s a covered patio and another huge and toasty stone fireplace inside. Not to mention the most delicious food that will have your guests raving and wanting more.
As with any wedding we had a few snags but nothing Stina and Laura couldn’t handle or smooth over, including hoping in as bar tender and waitstaff themselves. Throughout the planning process they were able to guide us to wonderful vendors and make sure all our needs were met and questions answered. Dream team!
Ronnie S
5.0
12/30/2019
Try a winter wedding! We just had our wedding yesterday and couldn’t be more happy with our decision. It was incredibly intimate, the staff wasn’t overwhelmed with guests so we fel...
t like we were a priority, and the weather was nearly perfect! Laura and Stina were absolutely fantastic coordinators and helped guide us through every stage of the wedding. The resort was very specific before we hired them that they would work with third party coordinators if chosen, but we felt as though we didn’t need one (it wouldn’t have been worth the cost considering what Laura and Stina provided).
The food... oh the food. It was some of the best food we’ve ever had. Every single guest was (is) raving about how good the menu was. We are so grateful for the chefs and their staff.
The fireplaces were lit and kept everyone nice and warm. They also made for some beautiful photos (go check out Stefan & Audrey.. they were amazing). The venue also had lit propane heaters outside for those who wanted to sit outside.
The price for a winter wedding could NOT be beat. The venue fees are incredibly low and the off season pricing around the Island made this wedding perfect. We could not be more happy.
Amy B
5.0
11/04/2019
Recently, my best friend was married at Roche Harbor and from beginning to end - EVERYTHING went PERFECTLY! The staff was super attentive to the guests and helped fulfill any reque...
st that was thrown their way. The rentals were immaculate and stocked with all of the essentials, the venue had any amenity needed and the setting was so picturesque! As a guest I couldn't have asked for a better weeding weekend!
Melissa R
5.0
11/01/2019
The day was absolutely perfect from the ceremony, to dinner to reception. All of our guests told us it was one of the best weddings they have ever been to. Highly recommend this ve...
nue.
Desirae L
5.0
11/01/2019
Everything went beautifully and we felt taken care of. It felt like rain or shine, everyone there would do everything they could to make the day perfect for us. The facilities and ...
staff gave us numerous options for how we wanted our special day and accommodated all our wishes. It was a wonderful and memorable day.
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