Beneath the Beams. Beyond the Ordinary.
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CT, MA, NY, RI, NJ
Service area
Holds ceremonies and receptions
AWARD WINNER (15X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Celebrate your wedding in a space that’s both historic and endlessly customizable in the heart of Middletown, CT. The Barns at Wesleyan Hills blends over 150 years of heritage with striking modern touches—creating a truly one-of-a-kind setting for your day.
Once a working dairy barn, this remarkable venue has been reimagined to honor its architectural soul while embracing each couple’s unique vision. Managed by the acclaimed Connecticut Wedding Group, The Barns offers exclusive use of the venue, ensuring your celebration is as seamless as it is unforgettable.
Inside, exposed beams and soaring ceilings frame a dramatic, open space that’s ready to be transformed. Whether you imagine soft voile draping the windows, statement chandeliers glowing above your tables, or a suspended garden installation bringing the outdoors in—every element is yours to design. An upstairs loft provides a beautiful and private setting for quiet moments, a grand reveal, or a group photo overlooking the scene below.
For your ceremony, our grounds offer an equally stunning open-air setting, perfect for those drawn to nature and natural light.
Our culinary team creates each menu with the freshest local ingredients, celebrating seasonal flavors and thoughtful presentation. From plated dinners to interactive food stations and signature cocktails, every bite reflects our commitment to exceptional, farm-to-table dining.
With space for up to 225 guests, climate-controlled comfort year-round, and full event support from our award-winning team, The Barns provides everything you need for a flawless celebration. Experience a venue that honors history while inviting your story to take center stage.
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Amenities + details
Amenities
Ceremony Area
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Ballroom
Barn
Farm & Ranch
Beach
Waterfront
Garden
Historic Venue
Loft
Park
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks
Cakes & Desserts
Destination Weddings
Destination Wedding Planning
Food & Catering
Planning
Destination Wedding Planning
Wedding Design
Rentals & Equipment
Service Staff
Awards and Affiliations
15-Time 'Best of Weddings'
2026.2025.2024.+12 more.
Best of Weddings
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Hall of Fame
Earned by winning 'Best of Weddings' four or more times.
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Meet the team
CT Wedding Group
Wedding Planner
At CT Wedding Group, we are a passionate team dedicated to bringing your wedding vision to life. Our expert planners work tirelessly to ensure every detail is seamlessly executed, while our award-winning culinary team creates unforgettable dining experiences. From start to finish, we're here to turn your wedding dreams into a reality!
Reviews
5.0
out of 5.0401 reviews
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The Barns at Wesleyan Hills is a stunning, well‑maintained venue with gorgeous grounds and a romantic indoor space. The team is highly responsive, organized, and collaborative, making planning customizable and stress‑free. Day‑of coordination runs flawlessly and guests consistently rave about the exceptional food and service. Highly recommended.Review photos
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Lauren A
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5.0
8/14/2025
We could not have chosen a more perfect venue than The Barns! From the moment we booked, the team was absolutely incredible in helping us plan every detail. They are so thorough, t...
houghtful, and kind, which made the entire planning process feel easy. On our wedding day, our coordinators Sean and Dmitri were nothing short of amazing. They went above and beyond to ensure everything ran seamlessly and made us feel completely taken care of. Their attentiveness and genuine kindness meant the world to us, and we truly felt like they cared about every detail of our day.
Thank you to the entire Barns team, for making our wedding day everything that we dreamed of. We will forever be grateful for the memories they helped create!
Nicole W
5.0
7/01/2026
From the moment we committed to The Barns at Wesleyan Hills to the day of our wedding the entire staff made the process so easy. They were there 24/7 for questions, concerns, last ...
minute meetings and everything in between. They made our day perfect! I couldn’t imagine getting married anywhere else!
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Sean M
5.0
6/15/2026
The staff at the Barns were tremendously helpful. Although we met with various different people throughout the planning process, everyone was always up-to-date on the most recent ...
developments. The stress of planning was significantly reduced due to the organization and attention to detail of the staff. Our day-of coordinator, Eddie, was fantastic. He was absolutely on the ball - had an answer for every question, took care of logistics smoothly, and took all the stress out of the wedding day. My wife and I were able to be truly present and not worry about any minor details day-of, which was a true gift. Would highly recommend the Barns to anyone!
Tricia Z
5.0
6/03/2026
My review is too long to fit in 1 so there will be a continuation post because The Barns was THAT GOOD!
If we had to choose where to get married six more times, we would choose Th...
e Barns at Wesleyan Hills every single time. From our first visit to the planning process and finally our wedding day, every step of the journey was absolutely incredible.
When I first reached out on a Friday evening, I wasn’t expecting a response until the following week. To my surprise, I heard back almost immediately and had a tour scheduled for that Sunday morning. My now-wife and I had a very specific vision for our wedding venue, and the second we walked into The Barns, we looked at each other and smiled. We knew. Samantha was an amazing tour guide and, although she didn’t need to be, gave a fantastic presentation of everything the venue had to offer.
Our only hesitation was that we live on Long Island and about 98% of our guests were traveling from there as well. We worried about asking everyone to make the trip. But we quickly realized this was our dream venue, and it was our wedding day—we were allowed to be a little selfish. Booking The Barns was one of the best decisions we made.
Beyond the barn itself, the entire property is absolutely stunning. The grounds are meticulously maintained and offer beautiful scenery in every direction. From the rolling hills, gorgeous Willow tree, the bridge leading over the pond to the charming rustic details throughout the property, every corner felt like the perfect backdrop. Our wedding photos turned out breathtaking, and so much of that is thanks to the natural beauty of the venue. Looking back at our pictures, we’re constantly reminded of just how special and picturesque The Barns at Wesleyan Hills truly is.
Next came the planning process. Everyone says wedding planning is the most stressful part, but the team at The Barns helped eliminate so much of that stress. We had regular Zoom check-ins to make sure everything was on track and to answer any questions we had. Beyond that, there was always a number we could text with questions, comments, or concerns, and someone would respond promptly.
One thing we especially loved throughout the planning process was how customizable everything was. From the menu to the décor, the team truly wanted our wedding to reflect us as a couple. We never felt limited to a preset package or forced into decisions that didn’t fit our vision. Instead, they worked with us to personalize every detail and helped bring our ideas to life in ways we never could have imagined.
My wife and I aren’t particularly creative when it comes to design, so we assumed we’d choose basic white linens and call it a day. Thankfully, Allie had other plans. After several conversations, she created a vision board for us that completely transformed our perspective. She introduced us to ideas we never would have considered—different-colored linens for high-top and low-top tables, varying textures, gold flatware, colored napkins, and so many thoughtful details. While we may have overlooked those elements, she certainly didn’t. Seeing everything come to life on our wedding day exactly as she envisioned was absolutely stunning.
And then there was the food…
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Jordyn W
5.0
5/30/2026
This was the perfect venue in every way as we are so thankful we chose the barns for our special day. From the moment we signed until the day after the wedding they were supportive...
and communicated at every step. The barns truly thinks of everything that can make the day better and less stressful - from helping with set up to packing up our car at the end of the night. The staff were so attentive and made sure we enjoyed our day. Every staff member was helpful, caring, knowledgeable, and SO fun to work with. The venue is beautiful and we were lucky enough to have an outdoor wedding in April and got to enjoy the beautiful scenery of the willow trees. This venue was worth every penny. I would recommend this venue to everyone!
Clare C
5.0
5/24/2026
We had our wedding at the Barns this past April - we aren’t exaggerating when we say the entire day/night couldn’t have been more perfect. Their team is AMAZING. Nothing was missed...
, everything was communicated perfectly throughout the entire wedding planning process and my husband and I did not worry about a single thing the day of. I wish I could get married there all over again!!
Anna B
5.0
4/06/2026
We recently got married at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills, and I cannot say enough good things about the experience. From day one, the team helped me plan every single step of the way...
, making what could have been a stressful process feel seamless and fun. The venue itself is absolutely beautiful and provided the perfect backdrop for our day.
The staff members were all incredibly kind and professional, ensuring every detail was handled with care. And the food? Simply incredible—our guests are still talking about it! If you’re looking for a stunning venue with a team that truly cares about your vision, this is it.
Amanda M
5.0
3/27/2026
I cannot rave about this venue enough. Words cannot do justice to how magical my experience here was. Sean (my day of coordinator) was 10/10 absolutely amazing and helped me with e...
verything I needed. They were so amazing about timely reminders, answering questions within hours of me sending a message, and helping organize everything to a tee. I am so grateful for every single staff member and highly recommend anyone getting married to look at this venue.
Griffin A
5.0
3/22/2026
The Barns was far and away an outstanding venue for our wedding. From the initial sales tour all the way thru to the big day, every member of the team we interacted with treated us...
with the utmost level of care and attention to detail. Weddings are their bread and butter, but at no point did we feel like "just another wedding." Every step of the planning process was handled at our own pace, with no question too big or too small for them to answer along the way. For our wedding day itself, every staff member present did an absolutely exceptional job. From the minute we walked into the suite in the morning, our coordinator was on their A-game and kept the entire staff functioning smoothly throughout the event. The food, bar service, table service, decor, music, and the venue as a whole were all complimented wildly by all guests. If you want your guests leaving your wedding GENUINELY saying "wow, that was one of if not THE best wedding I've ever been to," The Barns is absolutely the way to go. We cannot recommend them enough!
Kristen A
5.0
1/28/2026
I cannot say enough good things about The Barns at Wesleyan Hills and the wedding planning team there. From the very first meeting we had to look at the space, we felt like we were...
treated as family, and that our day would not only be special to us, but special to them as well. It was the one and only location we toured and made the choice on the spot to book with them because of how wonderful everyone we spoke to was, how beautiful the space was, and how all inclusive their services are. As someone who gets overwhelmed with a lot of tiny details and moving parts, the wedding planning team at The Barns was a dream come true. They handled EVERYTHING so I didn’t have to worry about it. They are knowledgeable, open, kind, and went above and beyond to make sure I had peace of mind. Every time I had a question, the response came back quickly and explained in a way that was easy to understand. By the time the big day was there, I was truly so at ease because the planning process had felt so calm and relaxed. We were able to just show up and enjoy our day, and know that we were in excellent hands. The space is so incredibly beautiful, and the food is OUTSTANDING. All of our guests raved about how our wedding had been the best one they had ever been to and it is not lost on us that it is all thanks to The Barns staff. Every single one of them routinely went above and beyond to ensure that our day went smoothly and was everything we could ever want. I especially have to shout out our day of event manager, Dimitri. He was amazing and so much fun to work with. He took the time to understand all the things we wanted for our big day and made sure they all happened. We also appreciated that he ensured that we had quiet time to ourselves in such a whirlwind of a day, because those became the moments that stuck out the most. He stayed late to make sure everything had gotten put into vehicles to be taken home at the end of the night and truly was the driving force that made our day so spectacular. We could never thank him enough.
Jared C
4.0
12/18/2025
Overall the execution of our wedding day was astounding. Many of our guests mentioned it was the best wedding they ever attended, people are still talking about the food a month la...
ter, and everyone loved the rustic charm of the barns– truly mine and my fiancé’s taste. We personally had Sean as our event coordinator for the day, and my wedding party, family and attendees all recognized how on top of his game he was. He made our day a breeze. I didn’t have to think about anything. We truly lived in the moment, and because of him, our day was magical. We also love that the venue offered a military discount of a milk&cookies station for our day, and were truly grateful to book at a venue that supports military. The entire day was prompt, enjoyable, and organized. The food was great, service was top notch, guests mentioned they loved how everyone at each table was fed simultaneously. Truly impressive waitstaff. The execution of our decor was exactly our vision, again thanks to Sean for your attention to detail.
A few things that did steer us from a full 5 stars–
A confetti cannon was offered to us in our wedding package, we had penciled it in to our day of schedule when reviewing fine details and unfortunately it was never set off. We really wanted the photos with the confetti like we saw online. With how busy the day was we didn’t have a chance to configure a “plan b” route as to how it would be incorporated so we missed out on that.
- The documents towards the final date were not big enough to write in everything we needed and were truly difficult to read/maneuver. Simpler “user friendly” verbiage for guests who are not in the industry should be considered, and larger text boxes would be helpful. We essentially had to redo them morning of because we couldn’t fit all the info.
-Not really the venues fault, but the bakery we utilized did not reflect the cake we wanted. We had shown pictures of the cake at our tasting and when I saw our cake I was honestly embarrassed. They emailed us the day before our wedding to ask what we wanted but hadn’t checked our email as it was obviously a busy day, traveling, rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, etc., so our cake was ugly. Due to contract we had to utilize this bakery.
-The venue does not provide any lighting for reception. The additional $1500 for string lights to be provided, that are not removed ever, seems a bit outrageous. Why that isn’t factored in to the overall cost rather than listed as an “add on” just put a sour taste in our mouths. I find it very silly to not offer lighting of any kind, especially for something that never comes off the ceiling. Add on lights, totally understandable. But overhead lighting, just factor it in? We were gifted additional lighting day of which was a plus.
-Receiving an email 2 weeks before wedding day about potential cancellation felt a bit harsh. The last 6 months of communicating felt more transactional than heartfelt. I can’t imagine what people with “cold feet” or potential pre-marital issues feel when they read an email mentioning potential cancellation.
Overall, our wedding was beautiful, the staff is more than kind, the bar service is timely, efficient, and overall a beautiful look.
The Mac and cheese bar was a hit– everyone’s FAV part. The food is what sealed our deal. We love the Barns, we loved our day, and still are on cloud nine.
Thank you everyone at the Barns for making our day unforgettable.
Madison F
5.0
12/12/2025
The Barns at Wesleyan Hills was a wonderful venue for our wedding. From the very first interaction, the staff was incredibly responsive and helpful, making the planning process eas...
y. On the day of, everything ran smoothly, and the space itself was beautifully maintained and set up exactly as we had envisioned. The food was delicious, and our guests raved about the quality and value, especially the food, and all of the staff.!! Sean was amazing. Bar and service was incredible. Wouldn’t change a thing. We're so glad we chose The Barns at Wesleyan Hills - it was the perfect backdrop for our special day.
Katie O
5.0
12/08/2025
Don't even think twice about booking this venue! From the gorgeous venue itself to the planning team, the food, and the waitstaff, this venue is a dream.
Ally J
5.0
11/28/2025
This venue was everything we were looking for and more. The inside ceremony space was so romantic, the food was incredible and weeks later guests are still commenting on how delici...
ous the food was! The whole planning team helped ease our stress all leading up to the day and kept us totally on track. Our day of coordinator Lexi could not have been more welcoming and accommodating to every little thing ensuring our day was just what we wanted.
Elissa V
5.0
11/22/2025
From start to finish the barns was the best to work with. They helped with everything big or small along the way and were responsive almost immediately with any questions I had. Th...
e day of the wedding was perfect, Mary was our coordinator and I could not thank her enough for everything. Every single one of our guests raved about the food and service. You definitely get what you pay for with CTWG and I would choose them over and over again. I hope they know how special and absolutely perfect they made our day. Thank you guys!!!!
Jane K
5.0
11/12/2025
The team at The Barns is the most exceptional I have ever witnessed. Having a past in customer service myself, I can understand how much it takes to keep a well-oiled machine runni...
ng, and they truly have it down to a 'T'! Mary and Eddie made sure that my family and I were totally comfortable with everything that was happening, from showing up at the bridal suite the morning of to setting up all the decor and where it was supposed to go, all the way to coordinating how our large wedding party was to line up leading into the ceremony. All these finer details were completely and wholly taken care of so my husband, family, and I could all enjoy and be present for this incredible and special day. You would be totally amiss not to book The Barns for your big day -- aside from the INCREDIBLE staff, the barn itself is rustic modern beauty paired with timeless elegance that never goes out of style.
Dianna T
5.0
11/02/2025
Our experience with The Barns at Wesleyan Hills was absolutely outstanding. From the beginning, the entire wedding team went above and beyond to make our day seamless and stress-fr...
ee. Their professionalism, attention to detail, and genuine care made all the difference throughout the planning process and on the big day itself.
The food was exceptional—beautifully presented, full of flavor, and something our guests are still talking about. Everyone was attentive and kind, ensuring everything ran smoothly and that we could fully enjoy each moment.
We’re so grateful to the entire team at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills for creating such a memorable and flawless wedding experience. We truly couldn’t have imagined a better place to celebrate our day.
Sam L
5.0
10/30/2025
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The Best Day of Our Lives at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills!
We had our wedding at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills on September 27th, 2025, and it was hands down the best day ...
of our lives. From the moment we arrived to the moment we left, we were so well taken care of—saying everything was perfect is truly an understatement.
Our day-of coordinator, Sean, was absolutely incredible. He was thoughtful, attentive, and seemed to know exactly what we needed before we even did. His calm and caring presence made the day flow seamlessly, and we couldn’t have imagined doing it without him.
The entire staff was beyond kind, professional, and genuinely invested in making our day special. The food was unbelievable, the atmosphere was an absolute dream, and every detail came together perfectly. The Barns team supported us every step of the way during the planning process, always finding time to answer questions and accommodate our needs.
We are endlessly grateful to The Barns for helping us create a day that we will cherish in our hearts forever. If you’re considering this venue—don’t hesitate. It’s pure magic.
Jennifer C
5.0
10/24/2025
Everyone at the Barns who were included in our planning process and big day were nothing short of amazing. The time, attention to detail, communication, and professionalism was eve...
rything we could have asked for. The day was incredibly smooth, our coordinator was phenomenal, the food was amazing, and the day in general couldn’t have been more perfect. I truly did not stress because of how amazing their planning was.
Michelle F
5.0
10/22/2025
Couldn’t have asked for a more magical day. Our experience with the Barns was 10/10 from beginning to end. They helped us every step of the way. We received endless compliments on ...
food and experience from wedding guests. Would recommend the Barns over and over. Thank you for making our day absolutely perfect 🩷
Carolina R
5.0
9/29/2025
We celebrated our wedding here this past August and it was truly an amazing experience! We planned our wedding in just 6 months and could not have done it without the team at CT We...
dding Group! Their staff was energetic, attentive and always quick to respond to our questions. The venue itself is stunning and the food was delicious! We are so grateful to the whole team for turning our dream wedding into reality.
Alexandra H
5.0
9/28/2025
We felt so well taken care of by the team at The Barns. Their communication was great, the planning was fantastic and the venue looked even better than we could have imagined. The ...
food was incredible and all of our guests have said the same. The staff truly pays attention to every little detail and made us feel like family. We are so happy we chose The Barns and highly recommend this venue!
Bri M
5.0
9/09/2025
This venue was my dream venue but what made it even better was they are amazing to work with. All the staff wants you to have an amazing wedding day and they work with you every st...
ep of the way. The team took everything my now husband and I wanted and turned it into a reality. I did not have to worry about a single thing the day of the wedding we told them what we wanted and they made it all come to life. Shannon, our day of coordinator and Eddie, the catering manager make sure my husband and I had anything and everything we needed from the second we stepped on the property the morning of the wedding. We are forever grateful for them, making our wedding day as magical as we wanted it to be.
Mel L
5.0
7/30/2025
My son and daughter in law just got married here on July 10th. Everything was smooth as can be. The coordinators Mary and Eddie were amazing from start to finish they covered eve...
ry little detail with ease. The serving staff was equally amazing and our guests raved about the food, especially the appetizer selection!!! The venue was decorated with the most beautiful flowers with the perfect balance of elegance and simplicity. We did the ceremony inside due to weather it turned out great it was very quaint and the back drop was gorgeous.
The dressing area for the wedding party was also perfect.
I would recommend this venue 100%
Rachel C
5.0
7/23/2025
The PERFECT wedding venue! Delicious food/drink (get the chicken pot pie app, it’s to die for), so easy to work with and gorgeous backdrop. My husband and I got married at the Barn...
s at the end of April. They make our vision come to life and helped make the day stress-free. Special shout-out to Sean for being the best day of coordinator :)
Madison T
5.0
7/07/2025
Thank you all so so much for making our day absolutely perfect and better than we could have imagined! You all truly were amazing to work with and we had a perfect day because of a...
ll of you! You all made my vision come to life so beautifully and I couldn't have loved it more! Sean was absolutely wonderful and made our day run so smoothly and was there every second we needed him. He was amazing!
Aaron H
5.0
6/25/2025
The venue was absolutely amazing to work with! All of the employees were polite and pleasant to work with! Highly recommend this venue!
Samantha G
5.0
6/19/2025
We couldn’t have asked for a better wedding venue! The team went above and beyond to bring our vision to life— everything looked absolutely beautiful. The food was incredible, and ...
our guests are still talking about it! The staff were so attentive and made sure we were taken care of the entire day. When the weather changed, they handled moving the ceremony inside so efficiently that it felt seamless. We so grateful for their professionalism and care. Highly recommend!
Hannah G
5.0
6/04/2025
Wonderful team of people to help plan our perfect day
Emma A
5.0
4/25/2025
The staff at the Barns were amazing. They helped with every step of the way. The food was delicious, the drinks were phenomenal. The venue is so beautiful. I’ve wanted to get marri...
ed here for as long as I’ve known about them and my dreams came true. It was the most special day. You will not regret booking with them!
Hunter R
5.0
4/21/2025
Very organized and detailed. Pre-wedding, meetings keep you on track, they answer your question in a timely fashion. On our wedding day things were smooth, on time and organized, S...
ean, our day of coordinator, was absolutely incredible. Food was excellent, our guests are still talking about it. Nothing but good things to say. I highly recommend this venue and the CT Wedding Group.
Kayla O
5.0
4/08/2025
Our wedding day was truly the best day of our lives, and we couldn't have asked for a better venue to celebrate such a special occasion. If we could go back and do it all over agai...
n, we would pick this place in a heartbeat!
The staff went above and beyond to make everything perfect. Mary and Eddie were absolutely fantastic: both were incredibly accommodating, attentive, and made us feel so supported. Their professionalism and kindness made the entire experience stress-free.
From start to finish, we felt like we were in great hands. We recommend this venue to anyone looking for a flawless wedding experience. 10/10: absolutely perfect!
Gennie C
5.0
4/01/2025
There was no moment of our wedding experience we would've changed with our venue, The Barns at Wesleyan Hills!! The food was fantastic, they were BEYOND accommodating, worked patie...
ntly with us every step of the way - it couldn't have been easier, or more pleasant!!! Their entire staff from the second we toured the venue, to the moment the evening was complete was absolutely fabulous (shout out to Mary, Eddie & Hailee!!)
It's been 2 months since our wedding celebration, and we are STILL getting rave reviews & compliments about the entire experience!! Have your wedding HERE!!! You will not be sorry!!! 1000 out of 10!!!
Chris
5.0
3/26/2025
I cannot possibly recommend CT Wedding Group enough! Last week my daughter was married at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills in Middletown and my husband and I are still receiving texts ...
and phone calls about how fabulous the wedding was. Glowing comments about the ceremony, the décor, the cocktail hour, the entertainment, the staff and especially the food. The entire staff was outstanding and Mary, the Event Manager, thought of everything down to the tiniest detail to ensure sure my daughter’s wedding dream came true. Eddie, the Banquet Captain, ran everything perfectly. Since our guests continue to rave about it, I would like to also recognize Jeff, the Event Chef, for providing such amazing & delicious food choices. CT Wedding Group exceeded our every expectation!
Casey
5.0
3/24/2025
The only thing that exceeds CT Wedding Groups reputation is their execution. Our day was flawless. Our coordinator Mary is simply one of one. There is no one better. She was on top...
of everything we needed before we knew we needed it. It was no surprise to us how impeccably she did her job after working with her right hand, Eddie. They were an absolute dream team that left us wanting for nothing. Coming into our wedding day we had a very specific vision. CT Wedding Group took our vision and turned it from a reality to a living dream. There are 0 critiques, there are 0 regrets, they delivered in a way that still has our loved ones reaching out to rave about their experience. It all seemed too good to be true, but it was better. The food. The food. The food. The food. The food. The food. More than anything else we are getting non stop compliments about the food. Their culinary team was just out of this world. Our event chef Jeff delivered on a level that you can’t even find at some 5 star restaurants. This was not wedding food. This was bliss. On top of all of this was the service. Just the perfect finish. The servers and bartenders took care of our guests like their own family. This experience was unlike anything we could have imagined. CT Wedding Group is astounding. We simply cannot recommend them enough.
Carissa
5.0
3/20/2025
My husband and I got married in November at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills and it was nothing short of perfection! The day was amazing and all the staff were so great to work with. Ca...
sey was our day of coordinator and she was awesome to work with- she made sure everything ran seamlessly, I didn’t stress over anything, and we had everything we could need. The food and drinks were delicious- all the guests raved about the food! CT wedding group does a great job assisting with wedding planning in the time leading up to your wedding, and ensuring your wedding day runs seamlessly. We were very impressed and wish we could relive our wedding day over and over!
Response from The Barns At Wesleyan Hills on 05/18/2025
Carissa & David!! Thank you so much for your kind words!! It truly was the best time getti...
ng to celebrate you both with your family and friends! I'm so glad you had such a great time and I LOVE that you got to come back for your brother's wedding just a few weeks ago! Wishing you both all the best! Casey & your CWG Family!
Alison M
5.0
3/03/2025
I am a very type A person and everything I could have possibly wanted for my wedding day came true because of the amazing team at the Barns! We had the most relaxing, fun filled we...
dding and so much help during the planning process. The venue was beautiful and all the guest could not stop saying how amazing the food was. I highly recommend having your wedding at this venue!
Jessica V
5.0
3/02/2025
Every step of the way this team took such good care of us as a couple and guided us in the direction of the BEST people to work with.
We had the pleasure of planning a majority of...
the wedding with Allie - who let me tell you, is INCREDIBLE. She is the absolute sweetest and has such an eye for detail (while always keeping budget in mind), she made the whole planning experience so easy and fun!
As for day of - we could not have been more taken care. Mary was our day of coordinator and took care of EVERYTHING. She always was checking in with me, calming me down, offering food or drinks to keep me comfortable - it felt like another friend there to make sure nothing went wrong. Not to mention - she bustled my dress for me!!! Eddy was a HUGE part of our day when it came to food - he made sure we ate everything and even delivered food directly to us at times!! Our day would not have been the same without them there.
As for the entire wedding experience - it was an absolute dream, everything about it was perfect. The food was out of this world incredible & they were able to accommodate to my Celiac and almost everything was made gluten free (and allergy friendly for certain guests). The bartenders were kind enough to learn guests names and drinks and treated everyone like family.
We truly had the wedding of our dreams at The Barns - could not have had a better experience from start to finish.
Meaghan H
5.0
2/21/2025
I can’t say enough amazing things about the Barns! First of all, a big shout out to Mary and Melissa who helped make our day so magical. Everything was perfect from our decor to th...
e food. Our guests raved about the food, and the drinks were also top notch. The space itself is beautiful and was perfect for our winter wedding. The cocktail area is spacious which was a plus for us.
Our wedding was the most magical and memorable night of our lives and I’m so glad we picked the Barns and the CT Wedding Group! Everything was perfect and I can’t think of anything that went wrong!
Stephanie F
5.0
1/29/2025
I will never stop singing the praises of the team at The Barns. My husband and I truly had the best night of our lives. They made the planning process easy and not stressful at all...
. The day of the wedding we didn’t have to worry about a single thing except having the best night ever. They took care of us so well, we felt like guests of honors rather than the hosts which is an ideal feeling on your wedding day! The food was absolutely unbelievable, I was told by multiple guests that it was the best wedding food they have ever had. They also sent us home with meals after we didn’t eat too much because we were so happy and excited we didn’t have an appetite. I would get married here over and over again. Recommend them to everyone I know!
Amber E
5.0
1/27/2025
When CT Wedding Group tells you it will be the best day ever, believe them! Their attention to detail from the beginning is impeccable. All of their staff is attentive, kind, and w...
illing to help in any way that they can. Sean Sullivan was our day of coordinator, and he was PERFECT! From our pre-wedding meeting, to the rehearsal, and finally the ACTUAL wedding he was there for everything we needed. He felt like my best friend I have never met before. If you're looking for a venue that fits the rustic/barn vibes, INCREDIBLE food, and service this is the place for you.
They let me do so many DIY things and truly let me bring my wedding vision to light. Our wedding was in the winter, and this still had an amazing outdoor space for us to utilize for pictures and for the party! Thank you CT Wedding Group and The Barns at Wesleyan Hills, this was a day we will NEVER forget.
Kendall T
5.0
1/08/2025
We recently got married at The Barns and could not say enough positive things about this experience. From day one of touring the property all the way through our wedding day, the t...
eam at The Barns was outstanding. They made the entire planning process seamless, helping us pick out vendors that matched our vision, getting us in contact with those vendors and ensuring we stuck to an appropriate timeline. They had constant check ins to make sure we were staying on track and were incredibly responsive to any and all questions we had along the day.
When it came to the wedding day itself, we could not have been more thrilled. Everyone at our wedding agreed it was the best food they had ever had. From appetizers to entrees and drinks, the culinary team at The Barns exceeds all expectations. Our day of coordinators, Mary and Casey, were the greatest additions to our day. They were so incredibly helpful and attentive to all of our needs and had our backs every step of the way, squashing any problems as they arose. They were so much fun, so kind and made the day so much better with their positive attitude.
The venue itself was absolutely beautiful and the ability to customize the space ensures you will be able to create your vision in this space.
If you're looking for a wedding space in Connecticut, we could not recommend The Barns and CT Wedding group enough.
Caroline G
5.0
1/02/2025
We had such an amazing experience with the Barns, and we would recommend them to anyone! Everyone on the team was incredible and professional, and they helped us turn our vision in...
to a reality! It was so nice to have our day of coordinator, Nicole! She was a life saver, and made the day completely stress free. They really helped bring all of our vendors together too, so everything flowed perfectly. The Barns was very accommodating, responsive, and has a great preferred vendors list and timeline that made planning (almost) stress-free! Thank you thank you!!
Marisa F
5.0
12/11/2024
The CT Wedding Group was amazing to work with through our wedding planning and on the day of. They made sure we stayed on course with our planning and were there for every question...
we had. All their staff is so kind and helpful. They made us feel comfortable and supported through everything. The day of our wedding was planned perfectly and our coordinator took care of every single thing. She is amazing! We were able to focus on enjoying ourselves and being in the moment. The Barns is beautiful and we are so happy to have had our wedding there!
Response from The Barns At Wesleyan Hills on 01/02/2025
Marisa & Ajay! Thank you for your amazing review! We’re so glad you felt supported through...
out the planning process and could fully enjoy your special day. It was an honor to host your wedding at The Barns, and we’re thrilled it was everything you hoped for. Congratulations again! Casey & The CWG Team
Cassandra M
5.0
12/03/2024
Our wedding at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills was November 2 2024 & it was THE BEST DAY OF OUR LIVES! When searching for venues- I never pictured having my wedding at a barn but I dec...
ided to book a tour at The Barns just because. We had only looked at one other venue prior to meeting with Jessica at The Barns & after her thorough tour & amazing explanation of what they have to offer - I was sold! I cancelled all of my appointments to look at other venues & I booked with The Barns on the spot!
I wanted a venue that was going to work alongside me to plan our special day & the CT wedding group gives you just that! We never felt like we were alone in planning our wedding, the staff has all of the tools you need to help you in the planning process & can keep you on track! They give you a ton of options for décor, food, & extra add ons to help customize your day! Even though you are in a barn you can make it feel like so many different things!
My husband & I are definitely foodies & having a venue that could provide the best of the best was very important to us! All of our guests RAVED about the food - it seriously was some of the best food I’ve ever had! If anyone at your wedding has dietary restrictions they are more than willing to accommodate whatever you need!
We added an apple cider & donuts station for our pre-ceremony snack! We added on the mac & cheese bar & the tacos & tequila station to our cocktail hour as well! We did the short ribs, Atlantic salmon & the Lyman chicken for our entrees & all 3 of them were a hit! For dessert we picked the venetian hour. Italian cookies & pastries FILLED the middle barn - I have never seen so much dessert at once in my life! There was a gelato, cannoli, & espresso station. There was even a staff member hand filling cannolis on the dance floor! It was totally awesome! To end the night - we had the chocolate chip cookies as our favors! The cookies were so warm & gooey and served with ice cold milk cartons!
The staff at The Barns is really what makes this venue so incredibly special above the rest! Every single interaction I had with a planner was such a helpful & calming experience. They always made me feel at ease & that everything was under control! I would constantly be asked by friends & family if I was stressed at all planning my wedding & my genuine answer was always NO! I trusted everyone at The Barns with my whole heart & they really pulled through for us - our day was so incredibly special, fun & STRESS FREE! Throughout the process we had the pleasure of working with Jessica, Amanda, Allie, Mary-Beth, Casey, & Cate– they were all the absolute sweetest & so helpful in making sure we were set up to have the best day ever. Our day of coordinator was Nicole & WOW!! Nicole seriously made our day go off without a hitch!! She helped keep everyone organized & everything running smoothly!! She seriously rocked & I am so grateful that she was able to be part of our day - we are forever grateful for everything she did for us!
All in all - we had the best wedding we could have ever asked for! I knew by booking with The Barns that it was going to be great but they seriously exceeded all of our expectations!!! If you are thinking about booking with The Barns or any of the other venues that are part of the CT Wedding Group - JUST DO IT!! YOU WILL NOT REGRET IT!! THANK YOU AGAIN TO EVERYONE WHO HELPED MAKE OUR DAY MAGICAL!
Ninoshka G
5.0
12/02/2024
Finding it hard to find the right words for the team at The Barns as there are so many reasons I loved using this venue and team. My fiancé and I were so grateful at how easy it w...
as to communicate with the team throughout the planning process. They were always open to providing insight, feedback, guidance, and support throughout our planning process. They also did not stop us from making sure our wedding was what we wanted (even when we made 5ft and 6ft welcome signs LOL). On the day of they handled everything and had thought of literally all the details. Our guests could not stop taking about our wedding venue, decor, drinks, and food. I can’t say enough good things about this venue, the coordinators/captains, bartenders, and all the people in the kitchen!
If you are looking into The Barns I say go for it! You will not regret it.
Stephanie Z
5.0
11/23/2024
We couldn’t have asked for a better wedding venue! Nicole and Lexi were absolutely incredible—professional, attentive, and so kind throughout the entire process. Our guests couldn’...
t stop raving about the venue and how delicious the food was. Many commented that it wasn’t just “wedding food” but restaurant-quality or better! The space was stunning, the service was flawless, and the entire experience exceeded our expectations. We’re already hoping someone we know gets married here so we can come back and enjoy it all over again. Highly recommend!
Emily A
5.0
11/23/2024
I have nothing but glowing praise for the Planning Team and all who put effort into making our wedding day perfect. Our Day of Coordinator, Casey, was outstanding with regards to e...
very single tiny detail - she asked my favorite drink and kept one in my hand; she gently steered my well-meaning Aunt and her camera away so that our professional photographer could do his job (lol); she kept a tray of appetizers separate for us so we didn't miss out on a single scrumptious option at our cocktail hour. The entire Planning Team was very helpful with calls, texts, and check-ins and I LOVED being able to text ANY HOUR OF THE DAY if I came up with a tiny question that I perseverated on. The food was outstanding and many guests stated it was hands down, the BEST wedding they've ever been to. My dad made this comment also and he said he's been to many weddings in his 70 years!
Particular things that stood out were the venue and staff accommodating our immunocompromised guests by serving their meal outside at a separate table, and without this adaptation these two dear friends did not feel safe attending our nuptials. Because CTWG went above and beyond for them they were able to share our special day with us. I also asked them specifically to pack all of our florals into my car because I wanted to donate them to the nursing home where I work, and this was surprisingly effortless on my part; every single centerpiece, bouquet, and accent was neatly boxed up as requested. My patients adored being able to enjoy the flowers, especially those who don't always get visitors or family members dropping by; it made a HUGE difference to me that this could be done at my request.
We had enough food to go when we drove up to the Berkshires for our "mini moon" that we ate leftovers for a week (!!!!) and mourned when they were finally gone. Darren, my husband and I, are now in cahoots to befriend as many couples getting ready to marry at this venue as possible so that we can get invited back for more food LOL.
The cost reflected the premium, white glove service that was provided from sun up to sun down and beyond, if we had to do it again we would be happy to. Worth every single penny. The best day of my life. Thank you, CTWG! (And congrats again to one of the members of the planning team, Amanda, who had a beautiful son during our tenure planning together! Many happy returns!) xo, Emily & Darren
Response from The Barns At Wesleyan Hills on 12/02/2024
Emily & Darren! Wow—thank you so much for your incredible words! It means the world to us ...
that your day was everything you dreamed of and more. I'm so glad that we could help make it so special, from the tiny details to meaningful touches like accommodating your guests and packing up florals for donation. Hearing how much joy your wedding brought—to your guests, your loved ones, and even your patients—is truly heartwarming. We’re beyond honored to have been part of your best day ever. Thank you again for trusting us, and congratulations on your beautiful new chapter! Casey & CWG
Melissa F
5.0
11/19/2024
Where do we begin!? From the moment we toured The Barns at Wesleyan Hills my husband and I immediately were in love. We knew if we stayed local we wanted a barn wedding. What caugh...
t our eye first, was the gorgeous grounds outside with the willow trees. Another great part of the venue was the HUGE cocktail room. It was spacious and beautiful. The bridal suite was attached which made it easier throughout the night for us and the bridal party to use. Throughout the entire process, CT Wedding Group kept in touch about details, deadlines, questions, concerns, and more through text messages and email. This simplified the planning process and alleviated stress. They were on top of EVERYTHING from the beginning to the end. It helped us not miss a step which made our wedding the most magical day of our lives! Everyone RAVED about the food. It was one of the highlights of the night. We want to give a special shoutout to our day of coordinator, Casey. She was more than AMAZING! She took our vision and brought it to life. She was by our side throughout the day making sure we had a smooth, fun, and memorable time. 10/10 would recommend CT Wedding Group if you want to feel taken care of and have the most amazing wedding you ever dreamed of!
Response from The Barns At Wesleyan Hills on 12/02/2024
Melissa & Chris!! Thank you so much for your kind words! We’re thrilled to hear how much y...
ou loved The Barns and that your wedding was everything you dreamed of and more. It’s wonderful knowing the venue, food, and our planning process made your day stress-free and magical. I am so happy I could bring your vision to life and ensure everything ran smoothly! Congratulations again, and thank you for letting us be part of your special day. Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness! Casey & CWG
Jenna G
5.0
11/03/2024
The most amazing and well organized venue we could have hoped for! They supported us through the entire planning process and were always an email or text away if we had any questio...
ns. The day could not have gone more smoothly because of our incredible day of coordinator Casey. The food was fantastic and our guests still can’t stop talking about everything they ate. If we could do it all again, I would get married here in a heartbeat.
Response from The Barns At Wesleyan Hills on 11/13/2024
Jenna & Colby!! Thank you SO much for your incredibly kind words! We are beyond grateful t...
o have been a part of your amazing journey and to help bring your special day to life! We’re still buzzing with excitement and can’t wait to see all the beautiful moments captured in your photos. You two are the sweetest, and we feel so lucky to have shared this unforgettable experience with you! Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness! Cheers, Casey & CWG
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