The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows

San Diego, CA

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Book Your Wedding with The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows


About Us

Couples looking for a vintage wedding venue that's exciting, but still provides a level of intimacy, should look no further than The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows in San Diego, California. The Southern California hotel has a rich history; built in grand colonial style in 1946, it's played the host to many famous guests.

When a couple chooses The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows for their wedding, they have the choice of four sites on the magnificent hotel's 15,000 square feet. The hotel can accommodate 100 to 300 guests, depending on the site.

Mississippi Ballroom . The hotel's famous Mississippi Ballroom may look familiar; scenes from Tom Cruise's Top Gun were filmed in the ballroom. As the largest site on the property, the ballroom has a maximum capacity of 300 round tables with a dance floor.

The Conservatory . Located adjacent to the Weissmuller Pool and Veranda, the Conservatory features high ceilings, natural lighting and a garden-like atmosphere. The intimate location can accommodate 100 round tables, 180 standing reception guests and 150 seats for the ceremony.

West Courtyard . A cozy site for a small wedding or cocktail reception, the West Courtyard is the only location on the hotel's property that provides a private, outdoor wedding space. The Tiffany blue walls of the courtyard provide a brilliant framework for video and photo opportunities that couples will cherish forever.

Louisiana Ballroom . For couples with a smaller guest list, that still want a dance floor, the Louisiana Ballroom is the ideal choice for a ceremony with 100 or fewer guests. Couples that choose this ballroom have the option of using the East Courtyard for a cocktail reception.


What You Should Know

The Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Bungalows want to take away as much of the stress that comes with planning a wedding. The hotel can assist couples in arranging all their wedding needs. Additional services may include, but aren't limited to, coat check, floral arrangements, photography, decorations, entertainment, all catering and beverage services.

All packages include floor-length, white underlay table linens with the choice of two colored overlay linens for the reception along with matching, colored napkins. For couples holding the ceremony at the hotel, there are gold Chiavari chairs with ivory pads. The hotel also provides a one-hour ceremony rehearsal.


Extra Perks

At the Lafayette Hotel, Swim Club & Club Bungalows, the wedding team wants to ensure couples have everything they need to make their wedding day memorable. The hotel offers many perks to go along with its wedding packages:

  • A water station, infused with fresh citrus
  • The famed Weissmuller Olympic Pool named after the original Tarzan, actor and Olympic Medal winner Johnny Weissmuller
  • Poolside food and beverage service
  • Complimentary champagne toast
  • Stay in the bridal suite on the wedding night
  • Discounted room rates for all guests
  • The Red Fox Steak House & Piano Bar

From the Vendor

Timeless memories happen in a timeless venue.

The historic Lafayette Hotel is a far cry from ordinary. With captivating charm and a touch of glam, not only is this 1946 landmark an affordable San Diego wedding venue, but it's also that one-of-a-kind site that balances retro allure with modern convenience. Thanks for the memories.

Amenities + Details

  • Handicap Accessible

  • On-Site Accommodations

  • Indoor

  • Reception Area

For more details about amenities, please message the Venue.

Price Range

$$ – Affordable

Venue Capacity



Ballroom, Historic Venue, Hotel

Wedding Categories

Bar + Drinks, Food + Catering, Planning, Rentals + Equipment


Contact Info

2223 El Cajon Boulevard, San Diego, CA (619) 780-0361

Reviewed on 4/27/2016 Sharon F

We had an amazing experience for our wedding at the Lafayette! Our wedding had the perfect backdrop, which made for an amazing experience and great pictures. Our guests were all very impressed with the venue and the customer service in every department. Taylor was very... Read More responsive, helpful and great to work with through the whole process. The food was also amazing! The groom is a chef so this was very important to us. Chef Ryan went above and beyond to make our experience special. They exceeded our expectations in every way.

Reviewed on 11/12/2017 Sophia D

After multiple weekends of touring wedding reception venues we came across the Lafayette Hotel and we fell in LOVE! This hotel has so much charm, class, and extremely professional employees. Planning a wedding is super stressful; even for us laid back San Diegans. The great... Read More thing about the Lafayette is that it's inclusive. The wedding packages come with catering, drinks, service staff, up lighting, photo booth, room blocks, an AWESOME day of coordinator, pretty much everything you need to make a wedding happen. All of our guest were absolutely in love with everything about this hotel. If you are getting married in San Diego I highly recommend touring this hotel. If you choose this venue you will have the pleasure of working with Sunny, the day of wedding coordinator, and you'll be in great hands.

Reviewed on 10/12/2017 Laura S

I recently coordinated a wedding at The Lafayette and it was absolutely wonderful! The first time I did a walkthrough I fell in love with the space. They have a lot of great event spaces, very unique and eclectic. The staff was wonderful to work with throughout the process and... Read More day of everyone was attentive and friendly. From our main point of contact to the servers and maintenance staff - everyone was ready to lend a helping hand and make the wedding run smooth throughout the entire day. I will absolutely be recommending The Lafayette to my clients and I look forward to working many more weddings and events there again in the future! Thank you to Taylor and Ashley and the entire Lafayette team!!! :)

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Reviewed on 4/18/2014 Nicole H

The Lafayette was the first and only place we visited when trying to find a venue. We loved that it was in the neighborhood where we live, and it was a great venue to have everything in one. We did our ceremony and reception there, and it was the hotel where guests stayed.... Read More Having everything together really made the process easy. The coordinator Julia was great to work with-- her calm presence throughout the planning process helped make it all easy. The food was excellent, and the whole night was amazing.


Reviewed on 10/16/2012 Rae F

The wedding coordinator was AMAZING. She thought of everything and was willing to work with all of my special requests. On the night before the wedding when I realized the room they put me in did not have a full length mirror, she went out to IKEA and bought one for the room... Read More and had it installed the next morning so I could get ready.