We had a magical winter wedding at the Madison Hotel on 12/22/23. We had our ceremony and reception in the gorgeous conservatory. We absolutely loved the uniqueness of this room wi...th its beautiful décor. This venue had always been a dream wedding location since driving by it as a teenager and admiring it from afar. We continue to receive compliments of how incredible and lovely everything was. The conservatory room is truly like stepping into a real life fairytale. It was clean and all of the transitioning from room to room the entire night went very smoothly. We were also so happy we were able to utilize the Victorian suite instead of the original plan for the cocktail hour to be underneath the conservatory. It is worth mentioning that the conservatory room itself is small and intimate. We had exactly 100 adult guests and felt we couldn’t have comfortably fit many more.
Although the day was fabulous, we did come across a couple of things that did not meet our expectations or were overall disappointing. We would like to also add that when we wrote a detailed email to the coordinating staff we had been working with to share our constructive feedback after our event, they NEVER RESPONDED!! Very frustrating and unprofessional.
To be specific, we had a few issues with the staff at the front desk being rude when communicating information to us and our guests during the last couple of months. Jon at the front desk is awesome and always happy to help. We were told we would hear from our assigned maître d’, once we were 10 days from the wedding, however, it was only 5 days before the wedding when we finally heard from our maître d’ Charles. In our opinion, this was not enough time to finalize the many details we had hoped to go over with him and, if you are a planner or are adding many personal touches, trust me you will also need more than just 5 days. Although we felt we were extremely diligent in relaying the vision of what we wanted for that day, there was still confusion about where the entry table was set up, the timing of the champagne before the ceremony, and the arrangement we wanted for our guest tables. When dinner orders were taken, our children (ages 10 and 12) were not offered a kids menu like we were promised they would be so they did not have dinner since we were not aware this was happening. Other than that, the food was excellent, but the passed hors d’oeuvres were limited. As the hosts of this event, we barely saw any pass us by and staff did not go out of their way to bring them to us.
During the rehearsal, and again on the wedding day, we had family and friends come to us reporting that Charles seemed to have a grumpy demeanor. Although he was always very nice and accommodating to us personally, the feedback that we got was that Charles was presenting as annoyed and impatient when we were not around.
It is important to point out that the mirrors supplied in the suites where the bridal party got ready were completely insufficient. They were thin, oval shaped, and small. They resembled antiques and some of us were joking that we couldn’t even fit our entire bodies into the view of the mirrors because they were so small. We included a picture of one of these mirrors so you can see for yourselves. We had to buy larger mirrors the night before and transfer them to the room, along with having our hair and makeup team bring their own mirrors. Being that the hotel holds several weddings a year, we would have hoped for more adequate mirrors since they are an integral part of the getting ready process.
Finally, within a few hours after the wedding, a family member realized they forgot an important item in their hotel room and we also forgot a personalized wedding hanger in the bridal suite room that had our last name on it. We were both unsuccessful in getting an answer from the hotel about the lost items after calling several times. We finally physically went to the hotel and they had the hanger all along, stating that they forgot to call us back. Being that this was a personalized hanger that was left in our assigned suite, we’re not sure why the room wasn’t checked at the end of the night, or even in the following days, to ensure we had everything out of there. We’re not understanding how this slipped through the cracks, but are grateful we were at least able to get it back.
Our best advice overall would be to visit the hotel a lot, ask all the questions you can think of, ensure your vendors are familiar with the venue, and be prepared that, despite trying to provide constructive feedback to the hotel afterwards, you may never get a response. Despite some of the negatives of our experience, we continue to advocate that the Madison Hotel is a fantastic location for a special event with a conservatory that is unmatchable! In our opinion, you will not find a more spectacular venue in NJ, but also be aware that the more meticulous you are about communicating all the details ahead of time, the better off you will be. Best wishes to you all!