We hosted our daughter’s wedding welcome party at The Manor House at Pleasant Beach Village, and unfortunately our experience was significantly diminished by both a major service f...ailure during the event and, even more disappointing, the way management handled our concerns afterward.
For an event of approximately 120 guests, our agreement included two full bars. However, one of the bars was never opened. As a result, there was only one functioning bar for the entire event, and the lines became extremely long. This was not a minor inconvenience. Guests spent a significant amount of time waiting for drinks, and I later learned that my husband—the father of the bride—did not have a single drink during the entire evening because he did not want to spend the celebration standing in the bar line.
This was our daughter’s wedding weekend. It was a once-in-a-lifetime event, and there is no opportunity to go back and redo it.
To the venue’s credit, they acknowledged that the second bar should have been open and removed the charge associated with that bar from our invoice. However, refunding a service that was never provided does not undo the impact the failure had on the event itself.
What ultimately changed my impression of the venue, however, was how management handled a subsequent billing issue.
Our final payment was late, and a 5% late fee of approximately $685 was assessed. I want to be very clear: I acknowledged that I had not carefully reviewed the contract and had not been aware of the late-fee provision. I was not arguing that the contract did not contain a late fee.
What made the $685 fee even more troubling was learning that it had been calculated before crediting the substantial amount we had already paid toward the event, rather than on the remaining unpaid balance. Because the contract states that the 5% fee applies to the “amount due,” I questioned that calculation as well.
Separately, I explained that my husband had developed serious and unexpected health problems immediately following the wedding and that our family had been overwhelmed dealing with medical appointments and his diagnosis. I asked whether, given the circumstances, our prior payments, the substantial amount we had spent on the event, and the venue’s acknowledged service failure, they would consider waiving the fee as a one-time courtesy.
They refused.
I then asked that the request be reviewed by management. Management again refused and characterized maintaining the initial 5% fee rather than allowing it to increase later as providing us with “grace.”
That response was extraordinarily disappointing.
I fully understand that businesses have contracts and payment policies. But there is also a difference between having the contractual right to impose a charge and choosing whether to exercise discretion when a customer explains an extraordinary family circumstance—particularly when that same business failed to provide a material service it had contracted to provide during an irreplaceable wedding event.
We ultimately paid the invoice in full.
What has stayed with me most is not the money. It is the lack of any meaningful flexibility or willingness to exercise discretion once a problem arose. After spending a substantial amount with this venue for one of the most important weekends in our family’s life, I expected a very different level of customer care.
Prospective clients should know that our experience during the event did not match what we contracted for and, when we later asked management for reasonable consideration under extremely difficult personal circumstances, none was extended.
For us, that has profoundly changed how we view The Manor House and Pleasant Beach Village.