For the modern and non traditional bride to be 💍
Southern California, Seattle Area
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Jess Engstrom
FOUNDER, THE MODERN BRIDE GUIDE
At The Modern Bride Guide, we’re dedicated to helping you plan a wedding that’s not only true to your vision, but also authentic to you as a couple—creating a celebration that feels uniquely yours and one you’ll cherish forever.
What We Offer
As a full-service wedding planner based in the Greater Seattle area, but also serving all of Southern California, we offer so much more than traditional wedding planning. The Modern Bride Guide was built to be a resource for the modern, non-traditional bride at every stage of the planning process and at every price point.
Wedding Planning Services:
✔️ Full-Service Wedding Planning
✔️ Partial Wedding Planning
✔️ Month-of Wedding Coordination
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We also offer a suite of services to elevate your wedding day experience:
✔️ Wedding Design Consultation
Already have the planning logistic covered, but struggling to bring your wedding vision to life? Book a Wedding Design Consultation with The Modern Bride Guide, and I’ll help you transform your inspiration into a cohesive, stunning aesthetic. Together, we’ll create your perfect color palette, mood board, and design vibe—all tailored to your venue and unique wedding style.
✔️ Wedding Day Content Creation
Capture your wedding day in real-time with curated content that brings your vision to life. We document behind-the-scenes moments, special interactions, and all the emotions that make your big day unforgettable.
✔️ Bridal Styling
Struggling to source and coordinate all of your bridal era looks and wedding weekend looks? Need assistance pulling together outfits for yourself, your partner, your wedding party, the Mother of the Bride, Mother of the Groom, or other MVPs of your special weekend? You’ve come to the right place—this is exactly what I specialize in!
Why Work With Me?
Wedding planning should be exciting, not overwhelming. My approach is modern, stylish, and stress-free—I take care of the details so you can enjoy every moment. With an eye for design, an obsession with logistics, and an unwavering commitment to my couples, I create weddings that are as seamless as they are stunning.
I’m all about curating experiences that feel intentional, personal, and true to who you are. Whether you envision an intimate coastal soirée or a grand, luxury destination wedding, I make sure every element feels cohesive, elevated, and uniquely you.
Let’s Make Your Dream Wedding a Reality!
Ready to create the wedding of your dreams? Let’s chat! Whether you need full-service planning or just a little guidance along the way, The Modern Bride Guide has something for every bride.
💌 Inquire today to start planning your perfect day!
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Jess Engstrom
Founder, The Modern Bride Guide
Hi, I’m Jess, founder of The Modern Bride Guide -I'm so glad you're here :)
While planning my own dream destination wedding in Cabo, I discovered my true passion for all things wedding. I quickly realized I wanted to help other brides navigate their own planning journeys, ensuring they created the wedding day they’ve always envisioned.
After hearing from so many friends about their wedding regrets, I knew I wanted to offer a service that would help brides avoid those same feelings. My own wedding day went off without a hitch, and I want every bride I work with to feel the same joy and confidence, leaving their big day with zero wedding regrets—only incredible memories to last a lifetime.
At The Modern Bride Guide, we're dedicated to helping you plan a wedding that’s not only true to your vision, but also authentic to you as a couple—creating a celebration that feels uniquely yours and one that you’ll cherish forever.
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Julia B
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5.0
10/13/2024
We thought we could handle all the wedding planning ourselves to save on our tight budget, but after a year of endless research, sleepless nights, and constant stress, we hit a serious breaking point. Nothing was going right, and we were completely overwhelmed by the never-ending to-do list, and our wedding day rapidly approaching.
I had been following The Modern Bride Guide on TikTok for a while, living enviously through the drool-worthy wedding Jess planned for herself. What really got me, though, was how much she enjoyed the whole process—she made it sound like the highlight of her life, lol, while for me, it had been the most miserable experience ever. I even thought about unfollowing her because watching her make wedding planning look fun just made me more frustrated that I couldn’t enjoy it like she did. But honestly, her content was so helpful that I powered through the jealousy because I needed all the tips I could get!
And I’m so glad I did! The day I was hitting my wedding planning breaking point, I saw she posted a TikTok announcing how excited she was that The Modern Bride Guide was officially going to start offering wedding planning service to other brides. It felt like fate. I immediately reached out to her, and I was blown away—not just by how kind she is—but also by how quickly she responded. She set up a video call for my fiancé and me the very next day.
Both of us went into the call not knowing what to expect, especially my fiancé, who laughed out loud when I told him I found Jess through TikTok! But by the end of the call, we were beyond impressed. Jess came fully prepared with insightful questions we hadn’t even thought of, and by the end of the hour, we had very clear, attainable action steps with deadlines to keep everything on track and help minimize the overwhelming feeling that inevitably comes with planning a wedding. Her attention to detail and genuine care for her clients was evident right from the start. My fiancé and I even joked afterward that we’d accomplished more in that one hour with Jess than we had in the entire year of trying to plan on our own!
Our wedding day is still ahead of us, but I can’t express enough how grateful and impressed we are with everything Jess has helped us achieve in such a short time. I’m seriously kicking myself for not reaching out sooner—it would have saved us so much stress and frustration!
response 10/13/2024
I'm crying 😭😭😭 This is so sweet. Thank you so much for your kind words. It's been so fu...
n helping you plan your big day. So excited it's coming up so soon! It's going to be incredible!!
Hailey N
5.0
2/25/2025
Working with Jess at The Modern Bride Guide was an absolute game-changer. She was the second wedding planner we worked with after our first planner didn’t work out, and the difference was night and day—in the best way possible. From the start, she immediately understood our vision and went above and beyond to bring our dream wedding to life. Her expertise, attention to detail, and unwavering support throughout the entire planning process made everything seamless. I would highly recommend her to any bride looking for a full-service or partial planner who truly delivers.
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peyton l
5.0
11/09/2024
My husband I felt we needed some guidance on the overall design inspiration and decor for our wedding day, so we ended up pulling the trigger and scheduling a design consultation through The Modern Bride Guide, and I’m so grateful we did. This was one of the better decisions we made during our wedding planning process. The owner of the company is very knowledgeable and enjoyable to work with, and was quick to respond and answer all of our questions regarding the different package selections. She scheduled an hour long design consultation with us shortly after submitting an inquiry, and then turned around a beautiful custom designed play book for our wedding weekend, that we were able to take and iterate off of for our wedding weekend. She even went so far as to include details on where some of the decor pieces could be rented or purchased, so that we knew exactly how to execute the wedding vison on our own ourselves. I was pretty impressed with our experience working with her, and the price point is shocking very reasonable for the value my husband and I felt like we took away.
I would definitely recommend this service to any couple who is struggling on the wedding vison and design style. We are not the least bit design oriented, so this was increadibly helpful for us feeling confident about our wedding design going into our big day. Thank you, Jess!!
Sammy B
5.0
10/14/2024
“Jess brought our dream wedding to life! My now husband and I knew we wanted a fun, stress-free wedding that felt like an elegant party in a beautiful SoCal venue but the planning process was so overwhelming… that is until we met Jess! She was so communicative and always came with solutions that felt unique to our vision. If you are looking for a resourceful wedding planner who will guide you through every aspect and make sure you have a stress free day, then you are in the right place!
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