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The Ruins at Sassafras Museum

Luxury Historic Estate
Holds ceremonies and receptions
5.0
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The Ruins at Sassafras is not just a breathtakingly beautiful wedding venue, it is an experience shaped by a truly extraordinary team. My husband and I celebrated our entire wedding weekend here, including our Welcome Party at The Ruins, Ceremony at Deere Pond, Cocktail Hour on the Moroccan Terrace and Bar, Reception in the Chair Factory, and Afterparty back on the Moroccan Terrace. Our immediate family also stayed on site at the Stonehouse and Caretakers Cottage, which made the weekend feel intimate, immersive, and unforgettable. Carol and her team pour their heart and soul into every celebration. From the moment we began planning, it was clear how deeply invested they are in making your day perfect. The stunning landscaping, thoughtful flow of each space, and impeccable guest experience reflected their vision and attention to detail at every turn. Dee, the bar manager, ran an exceptional operation: no lines, seamless service, and truly delicious specialty cocktails that guests are still talking about. Overflowing with history and curated with such intention, The Ruins is unlike any place we’ve ever encountered. With sweeping views of the Berkshires and a setting that feels both magical and deeply personal, we feel incredibly lucky to have celebrated such a meaningful weekend here. We cannot recommend The Ruins at Sassafras highly enough.
Kelly S.
5.0
The Ruins at Sassafras is an absolutely stunning wedding venue. It’s feels both dramatic and intimate—beautiful stonework, mountain views, and a space that you can truly make your own. Our vision was elegant, natural, traditional, and European-countryside-esque, honoring both of our heritages while staying stateside, and this venue allowed us to bring that to life. A quick note for future couples: the venue is in an isolated location, which is perfect if you want your wedding to feel secluded and intimate—even with 185 guests, ours did. We had everyone stay in the nearby town of Lenox in the Berkshires (a beautiful but $$$ area), and it worked wonderfully. Because the Ruins is essentially a breathtaking estate and blank canvas, you do need to plan for full rentals (chairs, linens, tableware, glassware, catering, etc.). It is a big planning process—but Carol and her team are incredibly responsive, hands-on, and genuinely invested in your wedding’s success. Moreover, they don't really limit what vendors you choose (most venues dictate who you go with). It’s a family-run business, and you feel that - Carol even personally drove one of our guests back to the hotel when she wasn’t feeling well. For us, one of the biggest selling points was the ability to stay onsite in the beautifully renovated Stone House and Cottage House. Eighteen members of our wedding party stayed with us, which eased logistics, reduced stress, and gave us so much more time together over the weekend. We absolutely loved having our wedding at The Ruins at Sassafras Museum.
Rebecca L.
5.0
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