Book Your Wedding with The Southern Mansion


About Us

The Southern Mansion in Cape May, New Jersey, wants to be a part of making your wedding dreams come true. When you want to be surrounded in Victorian splendor as you exchange your vows, the Southern Mansion promises to do just that. Bounteous gardens in full bloom await you for an outdoor ceremony or reception, while exquisite indoor event spaces are also available if you prefer.

The Gardens. The grounds of the Southern Mansion cover 1.5 acres. Lush blossoming gardens are the ideal spot for your ceremony. Garden weddings are a specialty at the Southern Mansion and the staff is happy to guide you to help you find your ceremony location.

The Mansion. The mansion offers grand venue spaces for both ceremonies and receptions. The lofty ceilings, rich woodwork and elegant furnishings provide an exquisite backdrop for your formal event. Plan your dinner in the solarium with views of the gardens and then move to a ballroom for dancing. The interior of the mansion has a full capacity of up to 150 guests.

The Verandahs. Expansive verandah space is in keeping with true southern charm, allowing you to spill out onto the verandas for your cocktail hour or for breathtaking photos. The mansion has 5,000 square feet of space on its verandahs.


What You Should Know

The welcoming atmosphere and attentive events staff at the Southern Mansion make this venue an easy choice for an upcoming wedding. The coordinators are wedding experts and they adeptly guide you through the entire wedding process. Only one wedding occurs in a day at the mansion, further ensuring that you and your event hold center stage.

Event times generally span about five hours and all festivities must conclude by 10:00 p.m. Catering is performed by the on-site chef and culinary team. The chef offers personalized consultation with each couple to help with menu selection. Special dietary restrictions are always accommodated, with special vegetarian and vegan menu selections available. Reception meals include display and butler-passed hors d'oeuvres and a plated meal. The staff cuts and serves your wedding cake.

All events include full table and chair setup with linens and tableware. The staff places table numbers on the tables as well.

The Southern Mansion has bartenders on staff for alcohol beverage service. You simply arrange delivery of the beverages you wish to serve by a liquor distributor and the venue manages storage and service during your reception. Toast service is included with your reception.

Additional vendors are necessary for your wedding cake, flowers, photography and entertainment. The venue provides a list of preferred vendors to help you with this selection process.

On-site parking is available for registered guests. Wedding guests not staying at the mansion find free parking nearby.


Extra Perks

As you plan your wedding, the coordinators at Southern Mansion anticipate a wide array of details and requests, which help make your day unique. Special amenities are also available to add to your package.

  • Request centerpieces for your reception tables
  • Schedule a menu tasting to help you select your reception menu
  • Children's meals are available
  • The venue provides an ordained minister for your ceremony
  • A master suite is available for the bridal party to use on the wedding day
  • Arrange overnight stays in the 24 rooms available at Southern Mansion for out-of-town guests
  • Valet parking service is available

From the Vendor

Cape May's most unique oppulent Mansion weddings!

Elaborate Southern Mansion on 2 acres of award winning gardens in the center of Cape May. Providing couples customized service for your once in a lifetime occasion. We host unique events, that are picturesque with our mahogany verandas, balconies, solarium's, and flying spiral staircases. With large luxurious accommodations, Southern Mansion is Cape May's only AAA four diamond property. Whether you want a traditional summer wedding or you are looking at a winter wedding we can cater to all of your specific needs and desires year-round.

Amenities + Details

  • Bridal Suite

  • On-Site Accommodations

  • Indoor

  • Outdoor - Not Covered

  • Reception Area

  • Wireless Internet

For more details about amenities, please message the Venue.

Price Range

$$$ – Moderate

Venue Capacity



Ballroom, Garden, Historic Venue, Hotel, Mansion + Estate

Wedding Categories

Bar + Drinks, Cakes + Desserts, Destination Wedding Packages, Destination Wedding Planning, Destination Weddings, Food + Catering, Planning, Service Staff


Contact Info

720 Washington Street, Cape May, NJ (609) 884-7171

Perfect Wedding Day!

Reviewed on 10/11/2014 alexandra c

I celebrated my wedding at The Southern Mansion in September 2014 in Cape May, NJ and the day was truly perfect. I started my planning with an excellent wedding coordinator who ended up leaving the venue a few months prior to my big day. Any reservations I had about loosing my... Read More planner before the wedding were out the window the minute I met Kira Moyer, the current wedding coordinator. She was so kind and attentive, I was made to feel extremely comfortable with the switch right away. She truly made the day seamless and worked as hard as she could to make myself, my family, and all the guests happy. The service was exceptional from start to finish, and all the staff worked together to provide my guests with all they needed. What I especially love about this venue is the food! Each course came out piping hot, was beautiful, and tasted DELICIOUS. This goes for food during cocktail hour, as well. The space at the Southern Mansion is beautiful. I was blessed with perfect weather, so the ceremony and cocktail hour where outdoors. Rain the day prior had made the ground a bit wet in the area the ceremony was set up, but Kira swept in with a really cool vintage rug to put down so I didn't get any muddiness on my dress or shoes! The effect was actually quite nice and I was oblivious to the behind the scenes tweaks to keep things running smoothly and on time. When my husband decided that it was time to start the dance party (before coffee service began in the dining area) no one batted an eye, and my guests were ushered down stairs with coffee and desert waiting for them in no time. I had 140 guests, which seemed like a perfect fit. The ballroom area is really lovely, my only advice would be that it may be a little snug for a party much larger than that. I could go on and on about how wonderful the day was! I would highly recommend this venue. Great atmosphere, great food, and it's such a unique set up with the beautiful wrap around porch and gorgeous grounds outside. I didn't realize how important working with the coordinator would be prior to the wedding, but I know now that I couldn't have planned such a great day without Kira. I'd like to thank everyone at Southern Mansion for an amazing day and tell brides to be to that this is a place you MUST check out in the Cape May area!

Reviewed on 9/04/2017 Andrea D

Thanks to the wonderful staff at the Southern Mansion, I had the wedding I've always dreamed of. The venue itself is gorgeous and the food was impressive. From the moment we met Kira, she went above and beyond for us. The emails we sent received prompt responses and nothing was... Read More too much trouble. The day of the wedding Kira and Ken worked like crazy so that everything went flawlessly and my husband and I could enjoy our wedding without any worries. I hope to return here with my husband in the near future for vacation to relive the wonderful memories here.

Reviewed on 7/27/2017 Robert F

Every bride and groom's dream come true! What a fairy tale wedding venue! We both are still blown away by the dedication and amazing attention to details of every single employee at The Southern Mansion. Before my husband and I settled on the Southern Mansion we looked at many... Read More venues in Cape May. The Southern Mansion was the most private, accommodating and it was the best priced! Our 40 guests fit perfectly and comfortably. All our guests (included children) were blown away by the beauty and opulence of The Southern Mansion. It truly takes your breath away- from the gardens surrounding the grounds to the lavish interior. This venue definitely has character and is certainly unforgettable for guests and the wedding party alike! The food was beyond amazing- guests raved and were full! The appetizers and food displays were also quite amazing-- everything was high quality and delicious. No other venue in Cape May offers such luxury and that true 'wow' factor for guests. Kira, the wedding coordinator, at The Southern Mansion is truly God send. She was the calm in the storm and always knew the answer to all of my crazy questions. She never stopped planning and ensuring our big day was fabulous! Every step of the way, Kira was there. Kira is sweet and makes everyone instantly feel comfortable and welcome. We will never forget what Kira did to make our day amazing, she is truly a gem! The Southern Mansion also has an awesome officiant named Kenneth. He was so easy going and really embodied our relationship in his wonderful sermon. We still talk about how wonderful our wedding day was. Most people have regrets or wish they did things differently--- In all honesty my husband and I are so blessed to have had the MOST perfect wedding day ever. From Kira's amazing attention to details and ability to get things done without any prompt OR the amazing views and beauty of the Mansions gardens and lavish interiors, how can you go wrong? YOU CAN'T! The Southern Mansion was a fairy tale venue. I was never the kind of bride who imagined exactly what my wedding day would look like, but I can tell you this; The Southern Mansion made all my wedding dreams come true AND MORE. Thank you to all the hard working and dedicated staff members, Kenneth & Kira for making our dreams come true. Everything was truly amazing.

Reviewed on 2/20/2017 Rachel B

When my new husband and I started our search for the perfect wedding venue it was a struggle to find something that would accommodate our vision. It was the second marriage for both of us and we wanted the location to reflect our maturity, have some elegance and beauty to it and... Read More still be able to throw a true celebration! The Southern Mansion has always been one of his favorite locations in Cape May and ultimately became the location for our recent destination wedding. I could not be more pleased to provide a rave review of the Southern Mansion, the accommodations, the food, the services and support of our lovely Kira throughout the entire wedding planning process! Throughout the year of planning our questions were always welcomed by Kira, our nerves were always calmed and ultimately the day of ran like absolute clockwork. As the full inhabitants of the mansion that weekend it truly began to feel like our home with family and friends "visiting". The space for the ceremony was magical. The solarium for the dinner was elegant. And the party space was absolutely perfect for a full rockin party!!!! The staff was helpful and friendly. The food was delicious. And this space will forever hold a special place in our heart until we return home for a visit. Thank you so much to Kira and the rest of the staff for making this special weekend so memorable and amazing!!! Love, Bill & Rachel

Reviewed on 10/26/2016 Caitlin D

Out of all the Cape May wedding venues, the Southern Mansion is absolutely the BEST! It does NOT get the amount of recognition it deserves, and I'm hoping to change that!! From the moment I walked in the door, all I could say was "WOW!" The beautiful decor and architecture alone... Read More is enough to make you want to get married there. That is only the beginning. Kira, the wedding coordinator, is possibly the most helpful, understanding, PATIENT people I have ever met. My mother is a bit of a perfectionist, and can we a lot to handle, but boy did she meet all of our expectations! From the first consultation to the day of the wedding, Kira is readily available to answer any question, big or small. We had our ceremony and reception here. The ceremony and cocktail hour took place outside in the garden area; the dinner was in the Solarium wing, and dinner and dancing was in the South Wing Ballroom. Every area of the wedding was beautiful!! And not to mention the FOOD!! (insert heart eyes emoji here). From our tasting to the wedding, I couldn't wait to have our hour d'vours and dinner!! They have a giant menu to choose from, and so many different options; they are also super flexible and work with anyone with dietary needs to change their dish for them. (We had vegans and vegetarian guests, and they provided them with excellent meals!) Kira runs a well oiled machine, and kept our wedding right on schedule. We didn't miss a beat, and everything was timed perfectly. I really can't say enough about The Southern Mansion. It truly is a gem within the heart of Cape May, and is not one to be missed. I really hope that more people get a chance to experience the place that gave us the wedding of our dreams, and was, as many exclaimed the day after "The best wedding we've ever been to."

Reviewed on 8/24/2016 Leah B

We were married here in July 2016. We were so pleased with all aspects: the overall venue, rooms for our guests, the planning process, communications, and the whole wedding weekend. Kira was so easy to work with and very professional throughout the entire planning process.... Read More We wanted a short engagement and were able to get everything done in a short five months in large part due to Kira and the entire staff at Southern Mansion. We could not have been more pleased with how everything turned out.

Reviewed on 5/12/2016 Allison L

The Southern Mansion was amazing! From the planning to the day after, Kira was so helpful and attentive. She listened to my every silly question and request with a lot of patients. We had our ceremony in the main front room. It was beautiful and super intimate. We had about 50... Read More guests and being married in that room made it feel like we were so close to dearest friends and family. After that we enjoyed cocktail hour in the solarium and proceeded downstairs to the ball room for dinner and dancing. Everything went off without a hitch! Many of our guests stayed over and loved the rooms. They also raved about the food. We stayed in the master suite both the night before and the night of our wedding... we already booked it for our anniversary! The entire staff was super helpful and very nice. For a quaint, intimate wedding the Southern Mansion can not be beat!

Reviewed on 4/11/2016 Susan H

We were married on Saturday, 03/26/16 at The Southern Mansion. The venue is not your normal, cookie-cutter, catering hall, typical wedding venue. It’s unique in every way. We looked at several venues from Long Island to South Jersey endlessly searching for a venue that fit us... Read More and our smaller guest count. Once we parked our car in the Mansion’s front lot we knew we found our venue. The outside grounds are full of color from the landscaping to the building itself. The vibrant charm doesn’t end once you enter the Mansion, it only intensifies. The colorful nature of the building perfectly fit our colorful personalities. When we first sat down with Kira Moyer, the event coordinator at the Southern Mansion, we were questioning that we could pull everything off. After seeing so many venues that were similar in how they handled everything from the food to the alcohol to the rooms, the Mansion seemed the opposite. In the end all of these nerves turned out to be nothing as everything came together seamlessly. Just know that when you begin planning your Mansion wedding you will have a few additional responsibilities, but also know that it’s worth it. The venue gives you the opportunity to continue building on this by letting you, the couple, be very selective with items like alcohol, cake, DJ and décor. We had the opportunity to hand select every detail for our wedding and ensure it truly reflected us. Throughout the planning process (which spanned 13 months or so), Kira was always available to answer every question or concern we had. No question was too minor. Even as the date approached and we bugged her more frequently she made time for us. Once the day arrived Kira was always visible, always available. From the moment we arrived on-site she took amazing care of us and made sure we always had everything we needed. She walked us through the building and made sure she knew where every piece of décor was going. After the walk through she helped us conduct a brief rehearsal of the ceremony. The day of the wedding flew by. The mansion staff, including Kira did an excellent job of making sure our guests were checked in and guided to the appropriate locations. We were free to take our photos and focus on our wedding day knowing the Mansion staff had everything under control. Once the ceremony was over and cocktail hour began is when the staff really went to the next level. These people worked extremely hard to make sure everyone was being served, helped, assisted and having fun throughout the event. The servers, bartenders, front desk staff and Kira were all fantastic. Everyone seemed to have an amazing time and the wedding, over a year in the making, went off without an issue. Our guests, who flew or drove many hours, all had nothing but rave reviews for the Mansion. Once they arrived they understood why this venue was so special and why we chose it. They made our guests and us feel at home. The building, it’s staff, and the day itself were all perfect and the Southern Mansion’s crew had a huge part in that. Thank you to everyone who helped us along the way and on the day itself!

Reviewed on 3/16/2016

My wedding was on 1/16/16, my wedding was absolutely magically !!! Kira and her staff did everything with such dedication and professionalism, I had no stress on my wedding day and believe me things happened that could of stressed me out but the staff was on it ! And took care... Read More of it for me , i had a specific image for how my wedding would come out (as we ALLL do when planning) and it all came thru 100% how I imagined thanks to the southern mansion, the rooms are gorgeous and well taken care of the ambiance is Victorian but in such a comforting inviting way , I absolutely love this place and would recommend anyone to get married here , it is such a beautiful venue I can't say enough

Reviewed on 10/06/2015

I cannot even begin to describe how perfect my wedding was at the Southern Mansion. The beauty of the building speaks for itself, but really it is the staff you work with that make the day go off without a hitch. When I walked in to tour the Southern Mansion for the first... Read More time in the summer of 2014 I absolutely fell in love with the place. It was the perfect spot for a slightly unconventional bride like myself. The previous wedding coordinator, Andrea, showed us around and gave us all of the information we needed to make our decision. I went home and looked up reviews and every single review talked about Andrea and how wonderful she was to work with. Right before we signed our contract we learned that Andrea was leaving and she was training Kira to take her place. I was a bit nervous that this transition was happening right as I was beginning to plan my wedding. Well...I had absolutely NOTHING to be nervous about. Kira was incredible. You really have no idea when you first start how many details go in to planning a wedding. I feel like I spoke with Kira constantly over the last year and she handled herself with such professionalism each time. Every single email was answered super fast and every single request was granted. I had really great vendors at my wedding, but nothing would have come together without Kira. Not only is Kira clearly great at her job, she is such a sweet and awesome person and without her my wedding day would not be what it was. I could never thank her enough.

A gorgeous wedding venue

Reviewed on 9/04/2015 Christina R

My husband and I fell in love with the Southern mansion the first time we visited. It has a charm and uniqueness that no other vendor had. We did not want to have a "cookie-cutter" style wedding. It met all of our expectations and made for some gorgeous photographs. The staff... Read More was very accommodating and Kira, the coordinator, went above and beyond in making sure everything was to our liking. We had a Friday evening wedding in August. It was hot (as expected) but was actually not too bad. Our ceremony and cocktail hour were outside in the garden and dinner and reception took place downstairs in the ballroom. I wanted to have dinner in the solarium which is a long hallway with floor length windows looking out into the garden, but I had too many guests to fit. The ballroom worked well though and I was not disappointed. My husband and I stayed the weekend as did several if my family members. Overall, it was a wonderful day and I'm very happy we chose to have our wedding there!

Reviewed on 8/17/2015 Elizabeth S

My husband and I just had our wedding at The Southern Mansion on August 9th and we can honestly say it was the best day of our lives! Kira made planning so easy and enjoyable! All of our guests absolutely loved the mansion and are still raving about the delicious food! The... Read More eclectic and beautiful decor made it a wonderful venue! We can't wait to stay at The Southern Mansion again in the future! I would most definitely recommend The Southern Mansion to any bride and groom looking for a unique but elegant wedding venue!

Reviewed on 7/20/2015 Amy R

I would highly recommend the Southern Mansion to any bride looking to get married at a unique and sophisticated venue in Cape May. It not your "cookie cutter venue" and thats just what I wanted. The ceremony took place on the lawn and guests moved to the cocktail hour which was... Read More on the lawn as well. We ate dinner in the sunroom that looked over the garden and went downstairs to the ballroom to dance. It was nice to move from location to location not having that feeling of being stuck in the same room all night. The food was excellent, Filet Mignon and Crab Cakes were to die for as well as the appetizers served at cocktail hour. The service was great, hardworking, they had positive attitudes, they were professional and were very attentive to our guests. Kira- the wedding coordinator was amazing, could not say enough positive things about her- she was very organized, motivated, receptive and easy to work with. Throughout the day of the wedding she kept an eye on me- checking in and asking little detail questions (not in an annoying way). The Southern Mansion's prices were very reasonable (much lower than other venues in the area) and worth every penny. I was nervous about the other guests staying at the venue (since its so small) on the day of my wedding but they were respectable and unseen. We felt like we were the only ones at the Southern Mansion- which is another positive. I literally have nothing but good things to say about this venue. Everyone cannot stop talking about how wonderful the venue, food and service was. It was executed perfectly. When looking for venue for your wedding I would consider checking this place out!

Reviewed on 6/01/2015 michelle d

Not only is The Southern Mansion a beautiful and intimate venue for a wedding ceremony and reception, but the staff is excellent and friendly as well. I had the pleasure of working with Kira, Denise, and Ken very closely over the past year throughout the planning process for our... Read More wedding that was just held on May 29th. We felt so comfortable asking any questions or for suggestions on literally every single aspect of our big day. There were times I called Kira literally freaking out about something I forgot, and she always helped me to feel calm and to figure out all the details going into our important day. Even on the day of our wedding I forgot to ask someone to hold my train and veil and the girls had already lined up for the ceremony, Kira immediately calmed me down and offered to do it for me.. without any hesitation (and she did). Kira was also outside with me, digging through the garbage (on my wedding day), to find my headpiece that went missing!!! I will never forget that... <3 The entire event went without a single hiccup. The food that was prepared by the chef was fantastic and enjoyed by all of our guests. The service during the rehearsal, ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, and reception was phenomenal!!! We would recommend The Southern Mansion to anyone thinking about a wedding in Cape May!! Our day was literally PERFECT!!!

Wedding of my Dreams!

Reviewed on 10/31/2014 Johanna V

I could write a small novel on how fantastic this venue is. Not only the venue but also the coordinator Kira! She was a pleasure to work with, and even when a small glitch or bump came in the road she was quick and responsive. The venue is perfect for anyone who wants a charming... Read More slightly off beat wedding. My husband and myself are not the typical couple who wanted to get married in the diamond room with cookie cutter style and decorations. The Southern Mansion is vast and beautiful with Victorian charm beautiful gardens and wonderful food selections. It is literally impossible to walk on these grounds and not ohhh and ahhh. Our day went off perfectly! Everyone including the staff were warm and gracious to all of our guests! We cannot wait to come back visit on our one year anniversary. Thank you so much for the wonderful memories forever etched into my heart!

Stunning venue with great staff

Reviewed on 8/29/2014 Michelle S

We had our wedding rehearsal dinner at the Southern Mansion and it was lovely. Andreea, the on-site coordinator, could not have been nicer throughout the whole process. She went above and beyond for us, made excellent suggestions and helped make our vision a reality. The... Read More event was wonderful. Everyone remarked at how beautiful the mansion was when they arrived. The food was excellent - it exceeded our expectations! And the entire staff was professional and gracious. At the end of the evening, many of our guests sat on the rocking chairs on the porch just relaxing, enjoying each other's company as well as the beautiful and peaceful atmosphere unique to the Southern Mansion. We highly recommend this venue and cannot wait to visit again and again! It's an absolutely stunning place.

Perfect Jersey Shore Venue

Reviewed on 7/24/2014 Elysa M

Words can't describe how perfect our wedding was and it's largely due to our venue of choice. From the beginning it was easy to work and plan with Andreea, their ONSITE PLANNER! The place was gorgeous and needed little effort on the day of to make it photo ready. The staff... Read More were miraculous in that you barely knew they were there except when you needed them. I've been to weddings where food was clearly an afterthought, but this was absolutely not the case here. Everything was elegant and delicious! Andreea could not have been more sweet and made sure we and our guests were well cared for and the day ran seamlessly. It would honestly take a novel to say all the good things I have to say about TSM and their staff, but I'll end with the rooms. The bridal suite was STUNNING. Hand-carved antique four post bed (and soo comfortable), our own porch, immaculate bathroom, I can go on and on. All of our guests complimented us on the choice, but I could only take credit for having chosen the best venue in NJ. Having looked at all options this was, BY FAR, the best place to get married and if not for all the stress that goes along with event planning, I would do it again in a heartbeat. Thanks to TSM and especially Andreea!

Memorable/Perfect Wedding Day

Reviewed on 6/18/2014 Taylor R

Our day was incredibly flawless and stunning thanks to Andreea (Wedding Coordinator) and all of The Southern Mansion's staffs' hard work the day of our wedding. Even the days leading up to the wedding were relaxing and lovely, at the mansion, with their stunning rooms and... Read More relaxing atmosphere (and terrific breakfast too!) Throughout the year and a half it took planning our day with Andreea, she continuously worked with us in a timely and flexible manner that always met our requests and needs. Not only did she help to coordinate our day and make sure it ran smoothly and comfortably during the ceremony, she also was hands-on throughout the entire evening with the rest of the cocktail hour and reception staff. All of the cocktail hour and reception staff were EXTREMELY kind and professional and certainly added to making our day feel magical. The food was outstanding at both our cocktail hour and reception. Guests continue to tell us how delicious all of the hor d'oeuvres and food displays were, and are still commenting on how the filet mignon and flounder with crab imperial was the best they've ever had. Guests certainly did not leave hungry from our wedding! All were satisfied and so impressed with our venue. We could not have asked for a more beautiful, memorable day. Our guests are still raving about how amazing The Southern Mansion and our wedding was!

My Perfect Wedding at the Southern Mansion

Reviewed on 6/09/2014 kristen j

I had my wedding at the Southern Mansion this May & could not have dreamt up a more perfect wedding. I live in North Jersey, so we relied heavily on Andreea our wedding coordinator to make sure everything went smoothly. She was beyond helpful and amazing. Very professional.... Read More We were also thrilled with all of the vendors she had recommended to us. The location is breathtaking and so romantic it is impossible not to get caught up in the surroundings. Our wedding went off without a hitch and was a day we will never forget. We have no regrets with having our special day with the Southern Mansion and are sad at how fast the weekend passed by. Our guests cannot stop talking about how great everything was, weeks later. Andreea was extremely responsisive and I don't think we could have planned our wedding three hours away from home without her. She was on top of everything that morning which meant we could all relax and concentrate on getting ready stress free. Wish we could do it all again.

Beautiful Wedding Venue!!

Reviewed on 6/05/2014 Kelly J

My husband and I just had our wedding at the gorgeous Southern Mansion this past March. The venue alone was completely perfect and Andreea and the Southern Mansion staff were beyond amazing. Always taking my numerous amount of calls and emails, and making sure that anything we... Read More needed was possible. I wouldn't have changed a thing. Except for the rain!! :)

My Romantic Cape May Wedding

Reviewed on 10/08/2013 Lynette P

The Southern Mansion is the destination for a beautiful, romantic in Cape May. Welcome to a historic site that offers charm, uniqueness, beauty and many other features. Andreea is the wedding planner to have. Pay the extra for her services. The grounds are ideal for an... Read More outdoor ceremony with gorgeous placement for cocktail hour to follow. The ballroom is perfect for an intimate reception. The color scheme is beautiful. The rooms are spacious and well-appointed. Breakfast is fabulous. The dinner was to die for. I recommend the crab cakes and filet mignon. The lamb chops were wonderful for the cocktail hour. Not a guest at my recent September wedding could do anything but rave about my wedding.

Our day was perfect at the Southern Mansion

Reviewed on 9/23/2013 Heather S

From the minute my fiance and I set foot into the Southern Mansion, we knew it was our wedding venue. The exterior and gardens are natural and lovely, and the interior rooms (think luxurious parlor, beautiful open sun porches, antique furniture and beautiful decor everywhere)... Read More are absolutely stunning. The venue is old-world charm with all the modern amenities you want. Our coordinator at the Mansion, Andreea, was great from start to finish. She helped us coordinate all the little details, and she's obviously very experienced because she made great recommendations on the best way to do things for our day. She followed through on everything we asked, and even on the day of the wedding was constantly silently behind the scenes, making sure everything got done. We couldn't be more grateful for her help! The ceremony we had was absolutely lovely and the most unique part (if you choose to do an outdoor ceremony) is your grand entrance down the spiral staircase at the back of the garden. It makes for some incredible photographs as well. Overall, we just couldn't be happier with how our day went. I highly recommend checking out the Southern Mansion. We're already hoping to spend some anniversaries in some of their beautiful guest rooms in the future!

A Perfect Day

Reviewed on 5/14/2013 Kelsey K

The Southern Mansion is a beautiful venue, and our day went absolutely seamlessly. We could not have asked for a better venue.

my fabulous wedding!!

Reviewed on 12/04/2012 mary ann c

I had both my ceremony and reception at The Southern Mansion located in Cape May NJ on 11/17/12 and it was everything I could wish for. The employees at The Mansion are so kind and friendly we all felt at home. Me and my (now) husband and some family members check in on Friday... Read More before the wedding which was held on saturday afternoon and really were able to enjoy The Mansion. Andreea the wedding corrdinator is very good at what she does very cheerful and made my wedding wonderful!! I would highly recommend looking into The Mansion you will not be disappointed!!

Beautiful Bed & Breakfast for a Wedding!

Reviewed on 11/28/2012 Kimberly D

We were so taken aback by the beauty of the Southern Mansion and put at ease after speaking in detail with the wedding coordinator, Andreea, we booked and then went on the tour. Our year long planning process went so smooth. Andreea and all the staff members; front desk,... Read More waiters, bartenders, hospitality members--everyone... were wonderful and we had a more than perfect wedding day 2 weeks after Hurricane Sandy!


Meet The Manager

Kira Moyer

I am the events manager at the Southern Mansion Bed and Breakfast and have been for four years. I enjoy the planning process for each wedding because every couple is unique. I like to take the time to get to know each couple that walks through the door whether they book here or not. Our priority is hospitality and when they do book here the most important aspect to me is to see couples dreams fulfilled on their wedding day. I want people to walk away and say "that was the best wedding I have ever been to!"