Historic Country Inn & Elegant Timber Frame Barn
Holds ceremonies and receptions
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The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse with its lush grounds is situated on a hill overlooking the Lamprey River and tree lined farmland on a quiet country road. We offer you and from 100 to 150 guests the rustic elegance of our newly renovated cider mill and attached timber frame barn, our beautiful grounds with options for outdoor ceremonies, and the inn's epic veranda, deck and gazebos. Our Inn has 10 rooms available to accommodate you and your guests before, during and after your special event! Our onsite chef uses local farm fresh produce, meats and seafood when available. We are the perfect place to gather, relax and celebrate life's events! Get in touch for more information and to schedule a time to visit.
Woman-owned Business
9+ years in business
Speaks English
Medium team (11-20 members)
Amenities + details
Amenities
Ceremony Area
Covered Outdoors Space
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
On-Site Accommodations
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Barn
Garden
Historic Venue
Trees
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks
Cakes & Desserts
Other Desserts
Destination Weddings
Food & Catering
Service Staff
Awards and Affiliations
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Reviews
5.0
out of 5.084 reviews
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The Thompson Inn is consistently praised for hosting magical and truly special weddings. The venue's stunning beauty and impeccable service stand out, with multiple reviews highlighting the exceptional staff members like Lauren, Erin, and Lydia who go above and beyond to ensure a seamless and memorable experience. Guests rave about the delicious food, picturesque grounds, and the well-organized, stress-free planning process. The Thompson Inn is highly recommended for couples looking for a dreamy and unforgettable wedding venue with top-notch service and personal touches.Review photos
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Katie C
5.0
10/17/2025
We had our wedding here mid October 2025, and it was AMAZING! The food was perfect, the space was gorgeous, and the staff was so much fun to work with. I would get married here aga...
in 100 times over :)!!!!
Rose M
5.0
10/11/2025
I truly cannot recommend the Thompson Inn enough! I had the pleasure of having my wedding their last weekend and it was the most magical weekend of my life. The venue can accommoda...
te so much and truly has the most delicious food. The team there is a well oiled machine and knows exactly what has to be done to execute the dreamiest of weddings (Shoutout Erin and Lydia). I will forever look back on my weekend at the Thompson Inn with the most joy and eternal gratitude.
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Beth O
5.0
10/11/2025
There are not enough superlatives to describe the beautiful wedding weekend the staff of The Thompson Inn hosted for our daughter and son-in-law's wedding celebration on 10/4/25. F...
rom start to finish, Erin, Lydia, and Steve ensured that every expectation we had for this event was exceeded. The venue is magical -- the ceremony under the gorgeous canopy of trees on the grounds felt sacred, and in the evening, the twinkling lights on the trees and buildings matched the stars to make the fairy-tale feeling complete. Erin and Lydia were amazing, attending to our every question and concern with patience, humor, and expertise. Steve's culinary skills, from the breakfasts at the Inn to each course of the wedding dinner at the Cyderhouse, were absolute perfection. The wedding guests raved about this venue -- its grounds, the incredibly kind, fun, helpful staff, the food, the feeling in the air. We are beyond grateful to The Thompson Inn for making our daughter and son-in-law's wedding so meaningful and memorable. Our hearts are full of gratitude for you!
Sarah S
5.0
5/09/2025
The Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse is an incredibly special place. We are so grateful to have been married at the venue on January 4, 2025 supported by the fantastic team at the venue. ...
The Cyderhouse is breathtaking and was the absolute perfect space for our ~110 person winter wedding. I could go on and on about the beauty of the place but this venue truly has the trifecta of perfection: the venue is gorgeous, the staff are some of the most kind and helpful people I've ever met, and the food is quite literally some of the best food I've ever had. I couldn't have planned this wedding without the amazing support of Lauren. Lauren always put our minds at ease and everything went seamlessly largely due to her. Top stories and comments from our guests - the food was OUT OF THIS WORLD and the venue was stunning. Highly recommend this venue and team!!!
Rachel S
5.0
1/19/2025
We cannot say enough wonderful things about The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse! From the moment we toured the venue, we knew it was the perfect place for our wedding. The entire prope...
rty is absolutely stunning, and we were really blown away by how tasteful and beautiful the Cyderhouse and Inn both were. This place has all the charm of a classic New England setting, with updated and thoughtful touches throughout. We couldn’t have imagined a more ideal place for our wedding. All of our guests were blown away by the venue as well, and kept telling us how beautiful it was and how much they loved it.
The staff at the Thompson Inn was incredibly professional, friendly, and beyond attentive to every detail. Lauren - our contact throughout the planning process and day-of coordinator - went above and beyond to ensure everything ran smoothly on our big day. She was always available to answer questions, offer suggestions if we felt stuck, and make sure we were comfortable and confident throughout the planning process. She ensured everything ran smoothly the day of the wedding, and we felt totally at ease in her hands. She is excellent at her job and was such a joy to be around.
One of the highlights was how flexible and accommodating the venue was with what we imagined for our wedding weekend. The space was versatile enough to accommodate our ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception all in one place without feeling cramped or disjointed. It was also so special to get to stay on the property at the Inn with our closest friends. The rooms at the Inn are gorgeous, and our friends kept commenting how much they loved staying there and how comfortable they felt.
The food is absolutely amazing. I still dream about the short rib, fish, and ravioli! Our guests are still talking about how incredible all of the food was - from the appetizers to the entrees to the desserts. The bar staff was fantastic, and the drink selection had something for everyone (the cocktails were so tasty!). They are also extremely accommodating to allergies - as we had one significant one - and they handled that flawlessly.
Overall, our wedding at the Thompson Inn was everything we dreamed of and more. If you're looking for a beautiful, well-managed venue with a team that truly cares about making your day special, we cannot recommend the Thompson Inn enough. Our experience was flawless, and we are so grateful for the memories created here. It is almost difficult to put into words how special they made our entire wedding weekend - it was just perfection.
Thank you to Lauren and everyone at The Thompson Inn for making our wedding day unforgettable!
Margaret B
5.0
1/04/2025
Lauren and the entire team at The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse are exceptional. The venue itself is beautiful and so well taken care of, the food has been described by many of our g...
uests as some of the "best food they've ever had," and our other vendors were thrilled to hear that we were getting married at The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse because they're organized and meticulous in a very supportive way. The thought and proactive attention to detail the team displays is incredible – Lauren and her team were helping me with things, like the bustle of my train or an accidental spilled drink, before I even knew I should consider it. Above all else, everyone on the team is kind and determined to make sure your biggest celebrations are as stress free and fun as possible. We are so grateful to have gotten married here.
Adam P
5.0
12/13/2024
This place would get 6 stars from me if it were an option. Me and my Husband got married at the Thompson Inn in late October. Everything about this place is top-notch. The food, in...
gredients, and the way it is prepared and catered are fantastic (the chef is incredibly talented and will go above and beyond to meet special requests). The venue and grounds are breathtaking. Having the inn for a 2-day wedding with your loved ones can elevate the wedding experience and extend the timeline, which is an absolute must! The grounds are so fun, and there's a lot you can do with your guests. We had a big night out by the fire pit, which was so much fun!
Above all, Lauren will take amazing care of you. I've read this about her on so many reviews, but still, I was extremely happy and Impressed by how attentive and helpful she is. She adjusted everything to meet our vision and came up with many awesome ideas and ways to make it happen the way we wanted it. You will be very impressed, I have no doubt about it.
All of our guests were extremely impressed by how magical the place is. It truly is one of a kind.
The only feedback is that the rooms at the inn were a bit warm, but this might be because we had 75-degree weather in late October for our event days.
Bottom line: go book! And if you end up using the awesome candle hurricanes we left behind, you're welcome!
Kayla T
5.0
12/12/2024
I can not put into words how wonderful the Thompson Inn and staff are. My husband and I would not have had the perfect day without them. I honestly do not have a single thing to sa...
y that is negative. I have to specifically say that Lauren is the most amazing coordinator and I do not think I could have planned my dream wedding without her. She was there every step of the way and open to answer all of my questions during our very long planning process and our wedding weekend. My husband and I were engaged for two years, and Lauren was there to help us that entire time. I am forever grateful to her and the entire staff. Everything was above and beyond, 10000/10. Could not have imagined anything better.
Erin G
5.0
11/19/2024
If you are looking for a venue to have your wedding, please, do yourself a favor and book The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse. My now husband and I had our wedding here on October 19, ...
2024. We booked The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse two years ago and we knew right away that it was our perfect venue. Throughout the past two years, the staff had consistently blew us away with their knowledge, their professionalism and kindness. All of the staff, but especially Lauren, Bear, Haley and Alex made the entire wedding planning process up until the day so easy. People always say that wedding planning is one of the most stressful events but I can honestly say that working with this venue was completely stress-free. All of my questions were answered within 24 hours and they were so accommodating. The weekend of our wedding was so fun and magical. The actual day of the wedding went by so smoothly and it was an absolute dream. So many of our guests told us that it was the best wedding they ever went to and we owe that to The Thompson Inn. The day was honestly better than anything we could have ever imagined. Thank you to all of the staff at the Thompson Inn for making our day truly the best of our lives and I urge anyone still looking for a wedding venue to please look into the Thompson Inn; you will not regret it!
Miranda W
5.0
11/14/2024
We got married on 9/28/2024 at The Thompson Inn and my husband and I could not have imagined a more perfect day! Lauren and Haley were incredible, extremely organized, and able to ...
help at a moments notice. The venue is beautiful and landscaping is stunning. Our guests could not stop raving about the food,(future couples you NEED to order the short rib, you'll thank me later) and cocktails were bartended to perfection. I truly cannot thank the entire staff enough. You made the best day of our lives even better! A special shoutout to Lauren. She was there every step of the way. From booking to wedding, she kept us on track, answered hundreds of questions, and made sure we had everything we needed to make the day a success. She makes magic happen. I cannot recommend The Thompson Inn more. If I had to do it all again, I'd choose them in a heartbeat!
Leah B
5.0
11/04/2024
Lauren and the Thompson Inn completely exceeded all of our expectations! Everything was above and beyond from start to finish. From the ambience, to the food, to the grounds; us, a...
nd our guests cannot decide what aspect we loved most! If you’re looking for an all inclusive wedding venue, look no further. From rehearsal dinner, to wedding day, to next day breakfast, everything was perfect. And let’s be honest, catering hall food does not hold a candle to farm a table. This is THE place you want!
Lydia G
5.0
10/12/2024
When we were hunting for wedding venues, we knew that we wanted somewhere that had a rustic country vibe, but that could still provide all of the amenities needed for an elegant af...
fair. The Thompson Inn absolutely fit the bill!!! The venue itself is absolutely gorgeous through all seasons (especially early October when we got married) and has the perfect New England country charm we were looking for.
Many of the other barn-style venues we looked at required us to rent everything-tables, chairs, tableware, linens, lights, even bathrooms!! With the Thompson Inn, everything was already provided for which took a huge chunk of planning stress off of our plates.
And not to be left out is the food-not only is the food better than any wedding food I've ever had, but better than many restaurants as well (which is no small feat in the catering word). So many of our guests kept complimenting the food at the wedding and they are still talking about it!! Plus the head chef tries to get as much of his ingredients locally which is amazing.
We hosted our wedding on a Sunday to take advantage of the discounted price and it was the best decision!! Lauren, the event manager, and her team were so helpful throughout the whole process and we felt we were in good hands right from the get go. Lauren was readily available throughout the whole planning process and helped make everything go so smoothly.
I can't recommend this venue enough, I wouldn't have changed anything about it, it was perfect!
Jessica B
5.0
9/20/2024
Our wedding at the Thompson Inn this August was nothing short of a dream come true! The venue itself is stunning, impeccably maintained, and provided the perfect backdrop for our s...
pecial day. One of the highlights was having our entire bridal party stay at the Inn for the weekend, making the experience even more intimate and memorable. The staff and coordination team went above and beyond to make the day seamless and stress-free. They embraced every idea we had and helped bring our vision to life flawlessly. Our guests were raving about the food, with many saying it was the best wedding meal they’d ever had! We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect place to celebrate such a significant milestone in our lives.
Rachel G
5.0
9/19/2024
11/10 experience at The Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse!! From our first visit to the final drive out, we had nothing but a positive experience. The grounds are stunning - incredibly wel...
l-maintained, classic New England Inn. Chef Alex created seasonal, locally sourced, AND delicious food -- our guests are still talking about it! Being able to stay onsite for TWO nights made it a true weekend to remember for our families and wedding party. It took the day-of stress away and really let us savor the moment for 48+ hours. Finally, Lauren and Hailey are the absolute BEST! They answered all our questions, they anticipated our needs all weekend long, and truly made the weekend as stress-free as possible (and they're just amazing people to be around!!). If I had to do it all over again, I would pick The Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse every single time. Thank you for the best weekend of our lives! - Rachel & Zach
Hannah G
5.0
9/19/2024
We could not have picked a better venue in every way! Lauren was helpful, knowledgeable, and our biggest hype woman from day one. The organization of all the planning was well thou...
ght out and easy to do. They had thought of truly everything. The weekend of was easy going, every step was thought out, and the most fun I've ever had. Lauren also asked us all the best questions as the weekend went on, while saving things that the wedding party could deal with for them. She gave us the space we needed to enjoy the weekend as much as possible. The coordinators were an absolute blast and made everything we needed come true. They felt like your best friends planning your big day. The food was the best I've ever had, the space was gorgeous and didn't require much extra decorating, but allowed for all the special pieces we wanted, and the Inn was the perfect space for our party and family to be for the whole weekend. I cannot recommend this venue enough!
Kaylee C
5.0
9/18/2024
We just got married at The Thompson Inn this past August and to stay that it was the most incredible day/experience of our lives would be a complete understatement. From the very b...
eginning, Lauren, the coordinator and one of the owners had every single thing handled and under control. She made the entire process simple, easy, and exciting. Every time we would leave a meeting or conversation with her we felt so comfortable and taken care of and knew that Lauren and all of the staff at The Thompson Inn would make our day seamless - and they did. From the ceremony space to the phenomenal (5 star worthy) food, we couldn’t have asked for anything better. It is not an exaggeration when I say that the food tasting was easily the best food my husband, myself, or our family has ever eaten.
Having the Inn right on the property for our entire bridal party, parents, etc. to be able to stay at the night of the wedding made everything that much more perfect. If you are debating whether or not you should get married at The Thompson Inn, my recommendation as a recent bride would be an astounding, one million percent yes - you won’t regret it!
Tarah L
5.0
9/17/2024
I can’t speak highly enough of Lauren and her team. We toured 12 venues in person after researching hundreds over a year, but the second we pulled into the Thompson Inn & Cyderhous...
e we knew we had finally found the place. From day one Lauren made us feel comfortable and confident, we had the most unreal incredible wedding weekend and I genuinely cannot speak highly enough of our experience!
Kim E
5.0
8/07/2024
A beautiful venue with wonderful staff and the best food you will ever eat! My guests and I can't stop recommending the Thompson inn to anyone that will listen.
Katie H
5.0
7/18/2024
It is hard to put into words how perfect our May 11th wedding was, all thanks to the Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse.
When we first visited the Thompson Inn, we were blown away by th...
e stunning grounds and atmosphere. Lush gardens, quaint pathways, and rusting/historic buildings create a backdrop straight out of a fairy tale.
The wedding coordinator, Lauren was exceptional. Lauren's attention to detail and passion for creating unforgettable moments shone through in every aspect of our wedding planning journey. Her warmth and professionalism instantly put us at ease, allowing us to fully immerse ourselves in the joy of our special day.
One of the highlights of our wedding was undoubtedly the exquisite food. The culinary team surpassed all expectations with their delectable offerings, blending local flavors with innovative twists. Our guests still rave about the food, many of whom said it was the best meal they’ve ever had a wedding.
The Thompson Inn offered not only a stunning wedding venue but also comfortable and inviting accommodations for us and our wedding party. The rooms were elegantly appointed with a blend of modern amenities and charming rustic touches, ensuring a cozy retreat after a day filled with festivities.
What truly set The Thompson Inn apart was its remarkable staff, who went above and beyond to ensure our comfort and satisfaction. Every member of the team contributed to making our stay seamless and enjoyable. Their genuine warmth and dedication made us feel like cherished guests throughout our entire visit.
The Thompson Inn is more than just a venue; it's a destination where luxury meets the quintessential New England rustic charm. With its stunning grounds, impeccable service, and unforgettable culinary experience, this venue exceeded our every expectation. Lauren and the entire team went above and beyond to ensure that our wedding weekend was nothing short of magical. If you're looking for a wedding venue that combines natural beauty with unparalleled hospitality, look no further than The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse. It's a decision you won't regret, and a memory you'll cherish forever.
Kevin D
5.0
7/10/2024
My name is Kevin Dwyer, I am the owner of Dwyer's Pub and The Press Room in Portsmouth. I attended a wedding this past weekend at this venue and was blown away with their performa...
nce as a fellow hospitality operator. The staff was extremely hospitable, and the venue could not have been more beautiful. Without a doubt this is the nicest wedding venue I've attended in the Seacoast!
Amanda P
5.0
4/27/2024
We cannot say enough positive things about the Thompson Inn! Living in North Carolina but planning our wedding in New Hampshire (due to most of our family still living up north) we...
had both sets of parents tour the venue and have us on FaceTime so we could take a tour with them and we knew immediately that this was the perfect venue for us! They have made the entire planning process so easy! Since we booked with the Thompson inn we didn’t have to worry about finding a place to stay, transportation for the wedding party, catering, a day of coordinator, and access to a closet full of décor that has been left behind from other weddings! We only had to worry about hair/makeup, DJ, and photographer, florist, which Lauren (day of coordinator and point of contact) had incredible suggestions for people she has worked with in the past. It made everything so stress free and well organized. She was so responsive to any questions we might have had and it was so wonderful working with her! Having the inn so close to the cyderhouse made the day so much easier for getting ready and having our wedding party all in one place and having access to the entire property for the whole weekend was amazing. It was also very nice having breakfast provided each morning to have one less thing to worry about! The food all around was absolutely incredible all weekend, our guests are still raving about how delicious everything was! I would 10000% recommend The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse to anyone who is looking for a venue!
Leigh S
5.0
3/03/2024
We could not have been more pleased with our choice in the Thompson Inn. It was absolutely everything we wanted and more for our wedding weekend. It was so relaxing to have the ent...
ire property for our celebration. Every person we worked with from the owner to day-of-coordinator was kind, efficient, responsive, generous, and went above and beyond for us. Second to the staff, the food was top of our list! Their in-house chef is absolutely phenomenal; the menu tasting day was the best day of the entire planning process. Our guests would not stop praising the food afterwards! The Thompson Inn is beautiful, elegant, modern, cozy, charming, and so much more!
Jocelyn K
5.0
2/18/2024
We hosted our wedding at the Thompson Inn in October 2023. They are the real deal - our wedding was everything we dreamed of and then some. Lauren Ingle was great to work with! The...
food you recieve is truly the food that is served the day of your event. Chef was super flexible and came up with the most delicious seasonal menu for our special day. The waitstaff, bartenders, and other staff who were working the day of our event were also great to work with. We highly recommend the Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse for all your hosting needs for every occasion!!
Kinsey H
5.0
1/26/2024
We couldn’t be more thrilled with our choice to have our wedding at Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse. This venue goes above and beyond and is absolutely turn key requiring little to no pr...
ep work from the couples! It was such a stress free process and our wedding weekend was so epic and amazing. The ability to stay on site at the Inn makes an unforgettable experience for your bridal party and makes it more of an experiential weekend rather than just one big day. The food by Chef Alex is top notch and incredibly impressive while being delicious and fresh. We received so many compliments on the food- not your average bland wedding food!! Lauren and Hailey were incredibly helpful in making sure the whole weekend went off without a hitch and made sure to facilitate fun while also having a handle on the structure of it all. I would absolutely recommend this venue, book here!!!
Ryan W
5.0
1/21/2024
What a venue! We discovered the Thompson Inn canoeing the Lamprey River and instantly fell in love with its charms and beauty. It was our obvious first choice when we got engaged...
. We looked at other venues in the area, but the Thompson Inn won us over with their professionalism and flexibility. We were able to work with the planners to create our perfect timeline which included a short ceremony, a two hour cocktail hour, and extended reception. The planners were very easy to talk to and brainstorm with, any ideas we brought up or unconventional requests we asked for were accommodated with ease. They made the entire process enjoyable and stress-free! The venue, from the Inn, to the grounds, to the Cyderhouse are just stunning and the food was to die for! We thoroughly enjoyed our stay at the inn with our wedding party and being able to remain on-site for the ceremony and reception made everything comfortable and convenient.
Emily J
5.0
1/03/2024
This was the only venue we even considered looking at and it was absolutely perfect. I first drove by the Thompson Inn ~5 years ago and saw a beautiful wedding happening and I imme...
diately knew that I wanted to get married there someday too.
In the fall of 2021, we booked the Thompson Inn without touring any other venue. Lori and Stephen were so welcoming and kind on our initial tour of the inn & cyderhouse. After we booked, Lauren, our coordinator, was so communicative and responsive to all our questions throughout the 2 year planning process (we got married in September 2023). She always got back to us so quickly with an answer and was so helpful at every step of the way!
At our final venue walkthrough, we met with Lauren and Arielle to go over our options in case of rain. I really wanted to hold the ceremony outside and we determined that with our guest count, we’d be able to hold our ceremony under the back patio awning if it rained and wasn’t too windy. This was the perfect solution and I felt much more at ease with our backup plan!
We held our rehearsal dinner at the Inn too! We were able to pick and choose dishes we wanted from our tasting and from the menus provided to create a truly customized experience. The Inn & Chef Alex were so flexible and accommodating to our vision.
The morning of our wedding, we had a delicious breakfast at the inn of fruits, pastries, coffee, eggs, etc. all prepared by the inn staff. The breakfast was a delicious and perfect way to start the day. The bridal party opted to get ready in the cyderhouse and the groomsmen got ready in the main suite of the inn. The bridal party had plenty of room to spread out while getting ready at the cyderhouse & we opted for the mimosa bar to kick off the morning which was an excellent choice. Throughout the day, Arielle was so helpful with everything! From helping me with my veil, to making sure my bustle was in place, she helped with it all!
We were lucky enough that the rain held off and we were able to have the ceremony outside under the oak trees. Everything was absolutely perfect. Our vendors kept commenting about how smoothly everything went throughout the entire day!
For our reception, we created a custom floor plan because we really wanted to have a large dance floor. The setup of the reception was just what we’d envisioned too! The DJ even commented on how packed the dance floor had been at the end of the night. The food was amazing and we had so many guests tell us it was the best wedding food they’d ever eaten (two relatives even told me it was better than the meal they’d had at the Black Trumpet the night before)!
Overall, the day was an absolute dream and was so stress free! The inn staff did an amazing job coordinating with all our vendors and making sure everything ran on time and without any hiccups. I’d highly recommend this venue in a heartbeat!
Jenna L
5.0
12/29/2023
The Thompson Inn is the BEST of the best. We had the most amazing experience with our wedding here back in November 2023, heck our guests still rave about how much fun they had and...
how seamless everything went (don’t even get me started about how amazing the food was).
From the moment we walked on to the property and were greeted by the warm smiles of Lori, Stephen, and Stephanie we knew we made the right choice. Each and every staff member worked tirelessly to make the experience so special especially Lauren the day of coordinator who eased all of my anxieties with her organized spreadsheets and check ins.
If you are looking for not only a wedding venue but the best wedding weekend of your life look no further.
Sarah S
5.0
12/19/2023
From the moment we booked a tour at Thompson Inn we were made to feel welcome. Lauren was wonderful from the initial meeting all the way through our wedding day. Throughout the pro...
cess Lauren answered our questions, minimized our stress, manifested our vision, and she did it all seamlessly with close attention to details at every corner. On the day of our December wedding, Hayley was just as organized and helpful, making sure our decorations fit in the space, and setting things up in a timely manner, allowing us to soak in every moment. Let's not forget Chef Alex, who's culinary creations were not only beautiful, but delicious. Chef Alex and his staff were accommodating to our needs, and executed our menu to perfection. Our guests are still raving about each course, and we can't wait to visit again for a wine dinner. The whole team at the Thompson Inn was fabulous to work with-warm, organized, creative, meticulous, and just lovely. We appreciated their expertise, and know that it wouldn't have been the same without them. We were looking for a rustic and elegant venue that had elements of natural and modern beauty and The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse truly encompasses that vibe. The space speaks for itself. It is so special to have had the grounds for the entire wedding weekend, with the sound of the river flowing in the background. We already want to go back!
Thank you to the Thompson Inn Team!
-Sarah and Chris
Kevin T
5.0
12/18/2023
My wife and I got married at The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse in November of 2023. From the moment we stepped onto the ground, we knew we had found the perfect place to celebrate ou...
r special day. The venue's picturesque barn setting is a dream come true for any couple seeking a romantic and rustic atmosphere.
The attention to detail and outstanding service we received from the staff was truly outstanding. The dedicated team went above and beyond to ensure every aspect of our wedding was flawless. From helping us plan and coordinate to seamlessly executing the day-of logistics, their professionalism and commitment to excellence were evident at every turn.
The culinary experience was one of the best we have had at a wedding. The catering team crafted a menu that delighted the senses, offering a delectable array of dishes that satisfied even the most discerning palates. Our guests are still raving about the exquisite flavors and the presentation of the food.
The venue's commitment to excellence, coupled with its breathtaking beauty and attentive staff, made our wedding day an unforgettable experience. We wholeheartedly recommend The Thompson Inn to couples seeking a magical, romantic, and flawlessly executed wedding celebration. Our heartfelt thanks to everyone at The Thompson Inn for making our day truly extraordinary.
Natalie C
5.0
11/20/2023
Had my wedding here and wouldn’t have changed a thing! The staff is so professional and takes care of every detail. Food is excellent as well. Having the inn onsite makes for a rea...
lly fun weekend with your bridal party, and a great after party location as well. All of our guests were so complimentary of everything about the venue.
Kaitlyn F
5.0
11/17/2023
My husband and I got married at the Thompson Inn in October 2023 and cannot say enough about the venue. From the wedding planning to the chef to all the staff, everything was perfe...
ct!! We stayed at the Inn with our family during the wedding weekend and it was clean and felt like we were at home. It was the perfect space to host our welcome drinks and gather with all our family and friends before the wedding day. The breakfast they served in the morning was our favorite part! They provided so many options and the food was just delicious. The wedding planner Lauren was amazing to work with. Leading up to the wedding she answered every single question we had and was very quick with responses. Lauren made our weekend and wedding day go so smoothly, we were so grateful to have her there. Every single staff member at the Thompson Inn truly made you feel a part of their family and were right there when you needed them. The other best part of this venue is the food. The food was truly the best food we have ever had at any wedding we have been too. They are also AMAZING with food allergies. We had guests who had pretty severe allergies (one being gluten soy and dairy) and they were able to eat so much, some of which they haven’t been able to eat in a while (get the chicken tender bar!!!) Chef Alex you are such an incredible chef! Our family and friends won’t stop gushing over how delicious the food was and how amazing the venue was! We are so glad we picked Thompson Inn to have our wedding! We cannot wait to go visit the venue for any events they host!!
Shaun W
5.0
10/30/2023
Exceptional people running an exceptional place! From the coordination, to the chef, every service person, and ownership, they genuinely care about your day!
Hayley R
5.0
10/28/2023
You might as well stop looking because this venue has it all. The Thompson Inn was absolutely perfect and my husband and I couldn’t be happier we found them. The inn, the food, the...
staff, and the location were all incredible.
Starting with the food - chef Alex is a genius. The food was emphasized by all of our guests as the best wedding food they’d ever had. The passed apps were all delicious, fresh, and made with local ingredients. The attention paid to guest dietary restrictions was also worth noting as Alex was incredibly flexible and creative. The only downside is that Alex doesn’t have his own restaurant that’s able to visit after the big day!
The inn on site was the perfect place for family and wedding party to stay and eliminated the stress associated with having to travel between destinations. Everything was clean and so welcoming. The inn keeper, Stephanie, was readily available and knowledgeable about anything that guests might need.
The staff overall were incredible, but special note has to be made of Lauren - the on site coordinator. She was always accessible via email during our planning process and the weekend of it felt like she had multiple body doubles with how much she was able to accomplish. Every little thing was thought of, even before we had a chance to ask a question. For example, after our ceremony my husband and I were directed by Lauren to have a private 5 minutes with our signature drinks and a tray of appetizers. She ensured we ate, kept everything on schedule, and was an absolute dream to work with. Her leadership sets the tone for everyone working on site and we couldn’t have been happier with everyone’s professionalism and attention to detail.
The location itself is stunning right on the Lamprey river and the flexibility to move inside easily if there is rain was great. It did end up raining on our date and it was a total non-issue with how accommodating the Thompson Inn was.
Overall we were thrilled with our experience and give the highest recommendation to use them as your venue. My husband and I couldn’t be more grateful we found them.
Sara D
5.0
10/27/2023
The whole staff was absolutely amazing. All of our guests couldn't stop talking about how beautiful the venue was or how friendly and professional all the staff was! We worked most...
frequently with Lauren (day of coordinator) and can't say enough nice things about her!!! The food was fantastic as well, and comes from an extremely talented chef. We would highly recommend this venue to anyone - we had the most perfect day thanks to all their hard work and expertise!
Shanley R
5.0
10/22/2023
We couldn’t have asked for a better team or a better venue than the Thompson inn. Every detail and every hiccup was taken care of without us having to even start to stress about it...
. It was our absolute dream wedding and venue. And I would be remiss if I didn’t mention Lauren. Lauren was just incredible. She answered every question we had (even in the middle of the night) and took care of everything. That girl was nonstop all day for us and wore so many hats, I don’t know how she does it, She even snuggled our 5 month old daughter multiple times throughout the day/night so we didn’t have to miss a single moment of our wedding. I will forever be grateful to her. I would pick the Thompson Inn again and again.
Elizabeth H
5.0
10/10/2023
We had a Sunday wedding at the Thompson inn and cyderhouse and it couldn’t have been more perfect. There was a wedding the previous night and the housekeepers had the venue cleaned...
and ready for us.. I don’t know how they did it!! Our guests raved about the food (Chef Alex is a wizard) and Lauren was fantastic. The whole event was so easy and beautiful, it rained and the wonderful staff were able to switch up our event plan on the fly. I love every single staff member at this venue, everyone is friendly, kind, helpful, and genuinely dedicated to making your wedding dreams come true.
Carina S
5.0
10/09/2023
I would describe The Thompson Inn as more of a wedding experience than a venue. The Thompson Inn was the second place we saw, and we knew instantly that it was the venue for us. Th...
ey offer several elements that most other venues simply can’t compete with, such as a dedicated on-site chef that handles every meal for the weekend, a talented coordinator, lodging for ~20 people in a space that blends past and present, and an all-around amazing team. The property itself is less than 10 minutes from downtown Durham, so nearby lodging and transportation was super easy to coordinate.
A few of our favorite things from the weekend:
The Inn: Thoughtfully renovated, beautiful, and so comfortable. Having the flexibility to stay here with our wedding party felt like a mini vacation with our closest friends. The convenience of having everything we needed on-site all weekend was great. Being the only event on the property, you get the true VIP treatment and don’t feel like you have to be in an out.
The Food: My sister is still raving about Chef Alex’s chicken from our reception, and I am still dreaming about the pastries from breakfast that weekend. I was told by at least 10 guests during the reception that ours was the best wedding food they had ever had. Chef Alex is also super flexible and accommodating, ensuring a nut-free kitchen as my husband has a severe allergy. He catered to guests with all sorts of dietary restrictions while still bringing creativity to every dish.
The Team: We felt taken care of at every turn from the moment we set foot on the property. Everyone was gracious and helpful. Our coordinator, Lauren, is the definition of professional. She made it easy to collect all of the details for the weekend and went above and beyond to make sure that things looked perfect. The big things went perfectly, but it was the little things that really made us smile, like ensuring that we had a private moment to enjoy drinks and appetizers at the onset of cocktail hour. Kat is a jack of all trades who kept the inn well-stocked for us all weekend and ensured that I always had a mimosa or anything that I needed all day Saturday. Chef Alex and the front of house staff are the best of the best at what they do. We had to deal with a potential hurricane impacting the area on the day of our wedding. Lauren walked us through several options and recommended an area of the lawn that was even better than our Plan A.
The Property: Meticulously maintained and speaks for itself. You could do very minimal décor here, as every area of the Cyderhouse is fresh and has its own personality. The stone fireplace, wine cellar, and chandeliers. Everything is just gorgeous.
Working with The Thompson Inn was a truly all-in-one experience. We didn’t have to bring in much (ex: you can rent candles directly from them, they have lots of tables and easels) and you can have several events throughout a weekend as there are multiple spaces (cocktail hours, rehearsal dinner, farewell brunch). Not having to worry about more logistics made it even easier to relax and enjoy ourselves.
I wish there wasn’t a text limit because I could go on and on. The Thompson Inn is so much more than a wedding venue – it’s a group of people who love what they do, and it is apparent in the way they care for their couples. I wish I could relive the weekend again and again. If you’re looking for a truly one-of-a-kind wedding weekend, then book The Thompson Inn!
Taylor E
5.0
10/09/2023
If you are thinking about booking Thompson Inn, DO IT. We got married there 2 weeks ago and our guests are still raving about it. From start to finish we couldn’t have asked for a ...
better experience. The inn on property is gorgeous and makes for such a relaxing setting the whole weekend, bring able to stay on property the whole weekend is such a relaxing feeling. The food is delicious and our guest said it was the best wedding food they had! Everyone that works there truly cares about you and your wedding and works to make sure your day is perfect!
Jocelyn C
5.0
9/27/2023
This venue was everything we were looking for from the start. We had multiple tours set up and this was our first, we choose it and cancelled all other tours. A weekend location wi...
th everything in one spot! No worrying about travel from the venue to hotel after the wedding, no rush in setting up décor or handing off to someone else and no concerns about what we are going to do after with guests who want to continue the party longer with us. Having the weekend venue really helped not make it feel like we blinked and our wedding was over which I was worried about with a typical 4-5 hour venue. Friday I was able to set almost everything up for our wedding and know everything was how I envisioned it which put my mind at ease. We then got to enjoy an amazing dinner rehearsal in the wine cellar and spend the night celebrating and relaxing with our family and wedding party. The venue is gorgeous, the grounds, the cyderhouse and the inn. The outdoor ceremony under the oak trees was gorgeous and just the setting I wanted. I can not say enough about the venue coordinator Lauren, she helped everything go smoothly the entire weekend, and went above and beyond to make our weekend amazing, she felt like family that truly cared. The staff at the Inn were so kind to us and our wedding parties, Isabel in particular who we saw everyday and made sure we had everything we needed! The food is amazing, both presentation wise and taste, it all blew us away at our tasting, Chef Alex was great. We had nothing but compliments after our wedding about the venue and the food! I will forever be happy for finding this amazing venue that definitely made our wedding the great memory it is! Highly, highly recommend!
Hannah F
5.0
9/19/2023
Booking the Thompson Inn was hands-down the best decision we could have made for our wedding weekend. From the minute we stepped on the property to tour The Thompson Inn and Cyderh...
ouse, we knew this was the perfect fit. The grounds, cyderhouse, and inn are each as stunning as the next. We wanted a “destination” wedding feel, having all of our family and friends in one place for the whole weekend, without having to travel far. The Thompson Inn let us do just that. It wasn’t just a venue, it truly felt like our home for the weekend. Every single member of the team was an absolute pleasure to encounter at every point in our planning process and throughout our weekend. Lori and Steve welcomed us with pure kindness and open arms from Day 1 of our planning. Lauren, the day of coordinator, made sure the entire weekend went off without a hitch. From the start she made us feel so at ease, being our go-to for any and everything, and was such an incredible person to have by our side every step of the way. The kindness exhibited by ALL of the Cyderhouse and Inn staff, was such a blessing. Haley (the front of house manager), Stephanie (the innkeeper), and Kyle (the groundskeeper) were all ready to jump in and lend a hand with anything at a moment’s notice. The chef was over the top accommodating to my food sensitivity, and just did an INCREDIBLE job on every meal (our guests have still not stopped raving about the food and the portions)! And the waitstaff even joined us for a song on the dancefloor…it was THE BEST. The whole weekend the Thompson Inn team was all hands on deck, and everyone was always willing to lend a hand wherever possible! I cannot emphasize enough the importance of this DREAM TEAM on our wedding weekend…because of them, our wedding vision was brought to life. As our weekend came to a close we realized how bittersweet it was…not only was our wedding weekend over, but we truly felt like we were leaving such wonderful friends we had made in such a short time here. So thank you, Lori, Steve, and all of the Thompson Inn staff, for truly making this wedding weekend better than we could have ever imagined.
Megan E
5.0
9/15/2023
Having our wedding at The Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse was an absolute dream come true. From the time leading up, to the day of our wedding was perfect. The property is absolutely bre...
athtaking, the grounds, the Inn, and cyderhouse, ALL OF IT. The venue was everything we wanted and more. The staff are so friendly and beyond helpful. Lauren, who is the wedding coordinator at the venue is amazing. Lauren made sure everything was seamlessly done and was a major part of our wedding day being perfection. When it came to the food, our guests were speechless. Rehearsal dinner, cocktail hour bites, and reception dinner were delicious. I could go on and on about how lucky we were to have our special day/weekend take place at the Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse.
Taylor A
5.0
8/24/2023
We got married at The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse on 6/24/23 and it was everything I could have hoped for and more! This was the first venue we looked at and put a deposit down imm...
ediately. I really wanted a venue that we could make ours for the whole weekend and The Thompson Inn was perfect. The ease of not having to leave the property from Friday morning through Sunday afternoon took so much stress off of us. We had rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception and after party right there and Lauren (the day-of coordinator) ran everything from the rehearsal straight through to the end of the ceremony. From the beginning everyone at The Thompson Inn made the process so easy and foolproof. Lauren, Stephanie and Lori were the most accommodating, helpful and easy to work with. They have clearly done this hundreds of times and it shows! Everything went to plan the entire weekend, any questions I had leading up to the day were answered immediately and we had super organized meetings, questionnaires and check-points along the way. The weather was constantly changing up until 20 minutes before our ceremony and Lauren and the staff moved our ceremony inside and out multiple times without stressing us- and I can confirm inside or out is beautiful there! They knew what to do in every situation and we truly had free rein of the property all weekend. The Inn was perfect for hosting our bridal party and family, everyone raved about how comfortable the beds were, we had trivia games on the front porch and were even able to host our after party right there and stock the full fridge with our own food and drinks. The food was INCREDIBLE. Our guests are still talking about it. Alex is such a talented chef and we really loved the private tasting we had in January where we got to meet Alex and talk through the menu with him. The venue itself is stunning and there is so much space. The getting ready room and balcony in the Cyderhouse was such a nice spot to spend the morning with my bridesmaids and family and the lawn and fire-pit outside were also a huge draw for us. Our main goal was for the day and the entire weekend to feel like a fun getaway for us and all our friends and it truly did. We would book it again in a heartbeat!
Katherine R
5.0
8/02/2023
(Review part 1 of 2)
Where do we even begin?
From the moment we pulled up to the Thompson Inn back in October of 2021, we knew it was the perfect venue. Charming, cozy and beautif...
ul. Each staff member we met greeted us with such kindness. Being able to book the venue for the entire weekend was the best! Knowing that we would be the only wedding of the weekend made the whole process seem less “wedding factory” and more focused on us and OUR wedding. We loved being able to get there Friday mid morning and set up the decor, and talk more with Lauren and the other staff regarding our “vision”.
The planning process: We booked the venue in October of 2021, for a July 2023 wedding. Throughout the entire 1.5 year planning process, the Thompson Inn was extremely responsive with all of my questions. Lauren (day of coordinator) was extremely knowledgeable and organized. Each time we visited the Inn during the planning process each staff member always had a smile.
The inn + rooms: The inn has 10 rooms. It has just the right amount of old charm while still being new. Stephanie (the inn keeper) is so sweet, and showed us where everything we could possibly need was. Each room was extremely clean. The beds were SO COMFORTABLE. Having use of the entire inn, including full size refrigerator was super helpful. The inn porch was one of our personal favorites about the inn.
The rehearsal + rehearsal dinner: Lauren led the rehearsal. She was organized and gave clear instructions to everyone in our wedding party. We left the rehearsal feeling confident that the ceremony would go smoothly. We chose to have our rehearsal dinner at the Thompson Inn on Friday night (not required). We had it in the porch at the cyderhouse, which was perfect for a summer night. They set up for the rehearsal dinner. We chose the BBQ dinner option and it was DELICIOUS. Everyone RAVED about the food, and there was plenty of it.
The welcome party: After our rehearsal + dinner, we chose to invite out of town guests to the inn + grounds for a “welcome party”. We had use of the entire grounds, fire pit and inside the inn. It was a great way to have a low key night welcoming guests.
Please see my second review for the rest!
ERIN S
5.0
7/03/2023
I had my wedding weekend here May 2023. I cannot stress how absolutely amazing this place is. The staff are awesome, the chef is extremely talented, and the property is stunning. I...
had the best weekend ever, my guests cannot stop talking about their experience- food, venue,... etc. If i could go back and do something differently that weekend, i honestly wouldnt changed one-single- thing. AND it rained on my wedding day. With the rain we had to make a quick change to have the ceremony inside which originally i was bummed since my vision was outside but it was even more beautiful inside and so romantic with the weather. I wouldnt have had it any other way looking back. BEST place, BEST day. Please conside this venue :)
- Erin Smith (Guay)
Philip G
5.0
7/02/2023
The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse was literally the first place we visited when looking for our wedding venues. Keep in mind, my wife and I are super indecisive and take a long time ...
to make a decision. However, we knew the Thompson Inn was our place immediately. Lori (the owner), along with Lauren and Stephanie (planners and organizers) made us feel valued, communicated frequently, and informed us throughout the entire wedding prep process. The venue itself is all inclusive, meaning between the Cyderhouse and the Inn they have everything you need. The Cyderhouse has a beautiful reception hall, a full cooking staff, and a beautiful wine cellar for the rehearsal dinner. The reception hall was the perfect size for our wedding of about 125 people complete with a full bar. The Inn is about 50 yards away which we rented for the entire weekend and it housed the complete wedding party. The inn has a full kitchen, dining area, and bar. Each guest room has a full bathroom and is very clean. Between the inn and the Cyderhouse are two huge beautiful trees which we got married beneath and a fire pit is just adjacent. We had access to this whole area all weekend and it was truly an incredible experience. Highly recommend considering this venue for your wedding or next event!
Alice W
5.0
6/13/2023
My husband and I got married at The Thompson Inn on 4/8/23 and our day was beyond perfect. From start to finish the process truly was so smooth.
Being able to stay with your favo...
rite people for the whole weekend without any bother really was what won us over! The Inn is absolutely stunning, from all the rooms being unique and clean to the breakfast ready for you in the am, to the fire pits outside it was perfect!
The Cyderhouse? JUST as amazing. All of the staff was helpful and kind during both rehearsal and wedding night.
Our guest are still talking about the food from both events. Chef Alex really puts so much work into his work and it really shows!
Lauren really was a blessing during this process. She made it SO stress free and truly brought everything I wanted to life. Our weekend would not have been the same without her there!
Overall The Thompson Inn was more than we could have asked for. A 10/10 for sure!
Kate M
5.0
6/05/2023
The Thompson Inn & Cyderhouse is the perfect venue for your weekend wedding. We knew it was going to be our venue as soon as we pulled up the drive and were greeted like old friend...
s. Why? The Thompson Inn feels like HOME. Not only is the inn spacious, clean, and provides space for your nearest-and-dearest to be with you, but it was the PERFECT spot to host our welcome reception and Sunday brunch. And the Cyderhouse? You guys. We were able to have a HUGE dance floor while still having some of our favorite humans within arm's reach. Our guests are still talking about Chef Alex's dishes weeks later. Everything about our experience here was perfect. From the staff, to the accommodations, to the venue, to the frantic scramble the team did to find me eyelash glue when one of my eyelashes started to fall off (OF COURSE they had it). We hosted our after-party at the inn and it was incredible to have our guests safely walk across the way. And with an incredible hotel just down the road, you can make sure there's room for everyone at your event. I hope you'll consider this incredible venue. I would get married here again, and again, and again. Thank you to Lauren for making our weekend SO very special!!!
Elizabeth W
5.0
5/27/2023
Look no further than The Thompson Inn and Cyderhouse for your wedding. My husband and I are originally from NH, but currently live in St. Louis. We booked The Thompson Inn from a F...
aceTime call with owner, Lori; through the screen we could tell that this place and its people are something magical and we were right! From the initial booking to wedding weekend, the team at The Thompson Inn were kind and immensely helpful. The weekend itself was like it was out of a dream. We had the entire property all weekend long, giving us ample time to decorate, celebrate, and spend time with our family and friends. Post-wedding many of guests reached out to let us know that it was one of the absolute best weddings they had attended, and that the food was amazing. An exact quote from my (now) brother-in-law, who stayed onsite over the weekend, while eating breakfast Sunday morning: "I'm really sad this is my last meal here, so I am savoring every bite". Yes, the food is THAT good - thanks Chef Alex!
It was truly the best day ever, and I honestly do not think it would have been as great as it was if it were not for the venue and its amazing staff. Special shout out to Lauren and Stephanie for being so organized and so genuinely kind - thank you for helping to make our day extra special.
If we had to do it again, we would book The Thompson Inn over and over. It is a beautiful oasis that is all yours for the entire weekend.
Hannah & Alec D
5.0
5/21/2023
When we first visited the Thompson Inn, we knew we'd be picking it for our wedding - and we are so glad we did. It is a truly gorgeous venue with amazing grounds, a spacious and we...
lcoming inn with large guest rooms and a generous sweethearts room, and a stunning reception hall in the Cyderhouse. Everyone who works at Thompson is so kind and goes out of their way to make the lead-up to the wedding easy on the couple. Once we had figured out all of the details and made our decisions, they took care of everything, and the day itself ran as smoothly as we could have hoped for. Our wedding went as well as we could have possible hoped, and most of that is due to the folks at the Thompson Inn.
A special shoutout to the coordinator, Lauren, who is totally awesome. She is both no-nonsense and detail oriented while also incredibly easy-going and willing to accommodate any and all requests, usually responding to our email questions within an hour or two. My wife had lost her dancing shoes prior to the reception, but at some point between the ceremony and reception Lauren tracked them down and brought them to her without anyone asking. She is incredibly supportive and helpful; you will be in excellent hands if you work with her.
Alan B
5.0
4/06/2023
Lauren and the team did a wonderful job hosting our family and friends for an April wedding. Every detail was thought out, and they were an absolute pleasure to work with. The food...
was amazing, too - everyone loved it! Their chef is top notch and even breakfasts at the Inn were stellar.
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