A Fairy Tale Setting for Magical Events
Holds ceremonies and receptions
AWARD WINNER (10X)
Thanks to recommendations from couples on The Knot
Whitby Castle is a timeless wedding venue based in Westchester County in Rye, NY. This turn-of-the-century castle sits magnificently on 126 acres and boasts a striking resemblance to the original Whitby Abbey monastery in England. Thanks to its sensational views of Long Island Sound, perfectly manicured lawns, and golf course, the venue is the perfect backdrop for your wedding day photos.
Built in 1852, the castle exhibits gothic and renaissance architectural design fused with a bright and contemporary indoor decor. The venue can hold up to 250 guests and have several options to choose from depending on the size of your party. Outside the castle, you may wed beneath the archway and continue your celebrations on the outdoor patio facing Milton Harbour. Inside, the venue holds a grand ballroom for receptions that is suitable for large groups. For more intimate gatherings, you can choose between two private reception rooms.
The team at Whitby Castle goes above and beyond to ensure that you and your guests are celebrated. They will be by your side every step of the way, making sure that everything runs seamlessly. The venue has a list of preferred vendors that you may choose from that can also simplify the decision-making process. There is an on-site restaurant available that offers catering options and full bar services. Further services available to you include event rentals like glassware, flatware, and linens, as well as valet and parking. When it comes to cuisine, you are in for a treat as there are multiple options available. Some of these include a champagne and bellini greeting, a cocktail hour, hors d’oeuvres, and a reception table with an exotic fruit, cheese, and fresh vegetable display. Some sample entrées also include free-range chicken breast, miso-glazed mahi-mahi, and New York strip steak with bordelaise sauce.
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174+ years in business
Speaks English
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Amenities + details
Amenities
Ceremony Area
Covered Outdoors Space
Dressing Room
Handicap Accessible
Indoor Event Space
Liability Insurance
Outdoor Event Space
Reception Area
Wireless Internet
Ceremony Types
Civil Union
Commitment Ceremony
Elopement
Interfaith Ceremony
Non-Religious Ceremony
Religious Ceremony
Second Wedding
Vow Renewal Ceremony
Settings
Ballroom
Beach
Waterfront
Castle
Country Club
Estate
Historic Venue
Venue Service Offerings
Bar & Drinks
Cakes & Desserts
Food & Catering
Planning
Service Staff
Awards and Affiliations
10-Time 'Best of Weddings'
2026.2025.2024.+7 more.
Best of Weddings
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Reviews
4.9
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Whitby Castle is a stunning, romantic venue with beautiful photo opportunities and fair pricing. The staff are highly professional, responsive, and ran events flawlessly, smoothly pivoting when needed and handling every detail so couples could enjoy the day. The food earned rave reviews and guests loved the overall experience.Review photos
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James H
5.0
7/13/2026
Hi! I’m unable to send messages through the app, I’m reaching out here instead.
Our wedding date is currently set for July 20, but every time I select it in the app, it changes au...
tomatically. We’re considering changing the date, but we’d like to hear back from you first.
I’m not very active here, so please feel free to text me at 9012054601.
Thank you! We look forward to hearing from you.
Christina G
5.0
6/12/2026
Having our wedding at Whitby Castle was absolutely the right choice! Ralph was excellent at coordinating all the venue details with us before the wedding, and Niki was always avail...
able to answer my questions. The set up of the reception turned out beautiful, and it was everything I could have wanted. It poured for most of the day, and they were easily able to pivot cocktail hour indoors without any stress. We truly had the best night ever and would choose Whitby all over again!
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Jennifer A
5.0
6/08/2026
The perfect venue!!! The staff, professionalism, food, everything was amazing. For such a beautiful event place, the prices were fair. I cannot recommend this place enough. Bridal ...
attendant, Maitre’d (shoutout to Ralph), and wedding coordinator (shoutout to Niki), were all so excellent and accommodating. Whitby has special place in my heart.
Kathy L
5.0
5/28/2026
I can’t say enough about Whitby Castle and its staff. It was the perfect venue for my only daughter’s wedding on March 22, 2026. I still cannot think of another place that would ...
have impressed us all so much.
From the staff that worked with my daughter and her fiancé in the planning of their event, to the waiters, the maître d, the golf cart drivers, the array of first-class vendors for DJ, flowers, strings, photo booth, photographers, and the serving staff – where several would appear at a table at once with a coordinated placement of dishes to guests without missing a beat. It was very impressive. And can’t forget about the food. I have a very picky relative who never raves about anything; but this night, he couldn’t stop talking about how delicious and wonderful the food was – this was repeated throughout the night by many of our guests.
And, I must give a big shout out to Gabriel, who kept it all running so smoothly, with a smile on his face all day, and a willingness to go the extra mile. We didn’t have to worry about a thing. We knew we were in good hands.
We will be back to Whitby Castle and highly recommend it for any event. It won’t disappoint.
Hannah G
5.0
5/25/2026
We just had our wedding here and It was an amazing day. Niki and Ralph were great to work with and everything ran so smoothly. The venue is beautiful, the food and drinks were grea...
t, and the energy was high. 10/10
F H
5.0
5/12/2026
We had a dream wedding at Whitby Castle, and it truly exceeded every expectation. From the very first planning meeting with Niki, to the final dance, - every detail was executed wi...
th elegance and care.
Our Maitre d’, Ralph, was simply outstanding. He went above and beyond, treating our wedding as if it were his own. His responsiveness throughout the planning process and his calm, attentive presence on the day itself made all the difference. He anticipated our needs before we even voiced them and ensured everything ran seamlessly.
The food was delicious, and the flow between the ceremony and reception spaces felt natural and beautifully orchestrated. The entire team was incredibly accommodating—happily allowing us early access to set up personal touches and handling every request with a smile.
Both Ralph and Niki are true gems and made our experience unforgettable.
If you’re looking for a stunning, well-run wedding venue with a team that genuinely cares, I cannot recommend Whitby Castle highly enough. It was the perfect setting for the most important day of our lives.
Daniella A
5.0
4/16/2026
I am so happy my husband and I chose to have our wedding at Whitby Castle. Not only is the venue stunning, but the food was absolutely delicious. Ralph, the maître d’, helped our w...
edding day go smoothly with the help of his kind and attentive staff. Everyone we worked with was helpful and made the entire process so easy. Thank you to everyone at Whitby for helping my fairytale wedding dreams come true!!
Amanda M
5.0
1/04/2026
Whitby Castle was a fantastic wedding reception venue!
From the very first time we connected with Niki after visiting Whitby Castle she was incredibly helpful. Throughout the enti...
re planning process, her responsiveness, guidance, and support made everything feel seamless.
Ralph, and the amazing team had flawless execution on the day itself. From the moment we arrived on property, we felt completely taken care of. Every detail was handled exactly as we had envisioned, and the venue looked stunning.
Our guests have not stopped raving about the breathtaking setting and the incredible food. We are so grateful to Niki, Ralph and the entire Whitby staff for helping create memories we will cherish forever! Highly recommend Whitby Castle!
Janice C
5.0
12/20/2025
We had a great experience hosting our wedding at Whitby Castle. From the initial planning stages to the day itself, everything was handled with a high level of professionalism.
Bo...
oking was straightforward and easy thanks to Ralph and Niki. On the day of the wedding, Roxy and Rosa kept everything moving exactly on schedule. Their coordination ensured that we didn't have to worry about the timeline, and the entire event ran smoothly from start to finish.
The food was a major highlight. The chef did an excellent job, and the quality was consistent across every course. He personally talked to each of our guests as well. Our guests were genuinely impressed—we’re still getting compliments about the meal months later, which speaks for itself.
We chose to use their vendor package and were very happy with that decision. It significantly simplified the planning process, and the results were exactly what we had hoped for.
Overall, Whitby Castle delivered a fantastic day. It’s a beautiful spot, but the service and the kitchen are what really set it apart. Highly recommended.
Rocco B
5.0
12/13/2025
The most incredible venue top to bottom. My husband and I got married there in November and the entire process/day was a dream. The team there, Niki, Ralph and Roxy, are simply ama...
zing. Niki helped us throughout the planning process and was so easy to work. Ralph, our Maitre D , was on top of everything and really made for a seamless beautiful day.
We were expecting an indoor ceremony due to the weather but that morning as I was getting ready, Ralph suggested that the weather was looking good for an outdoor ceremony and asked if we should go for it, in which we did and it was PERFECT!!!!!
We couldn’t have dreamed of a better wedding, thank you to everyone at the Whitby Castle
Elizabeth C
5.0
11/25/2025
Where to begin? My wedding was approx 240 people. We were nervous about fitting and flow of the reception and cocktail hour for over a year. It all worked out perfectly. Let me fir...
st start by saying that Nikki is professional, patient and responsive. She was constantly on top of everything. Ralph exceeded our expectations. He was attentive to every single detail. He worked tirelessly to make sure our every need was met. The food was insane, the amount and the quality. The day after my wedding I had over 200 text messages raving about the venue and food. Being from a large Italian family, the food is very important for all of us. The castles food was delicious. Ralph added to the entire night, he was SO much fun and our entire bridal party loved working with him. I have 3 more sisters to get married and will say with confidence that my parents will be hosting 3 more weddings at the whitby castle. We are so thankful for Ralph, Nikki and the wait staff that worked tirelessly all night to make sure we had the best day. My suggestion to anyone considering the whitby castle is to book immediately, you will not regret it.
Catherine S
5.0
11/10/2025
I cannot say enough amazing things about Whitby Castle! From start to finish, the entire team was absolutely incredible. They were so accommodating, organized, and made the entire ...
process feel effortless — they truly have this down to a science.
Every single detail was handled with care and precision. The staff was attentive, professional, and genuinely kind, making sure everything ran smoothly so we could just enjoy the day. I never once felt stressed — they made my life so easy!
The venue itself was stunning, the food was outstanding, and the service was flawless. Every guest raved about how beautiful everything was and how seamless the day felt.
If you’re looking for a venue that goes above and beyond in every way, this is it. I wish I could relive the day all over again — it was absolute perfection thanks to this incredible team!
Laura M
5.0
11/05/2025
We got married at Whitby on 10/3 and it was amazing! From the start, Niki was fantastic. She’s actually a big reason we chose Whitby. She was friendly, organized, and answered all ...
our questions throughout this whole process. I don’t think I waited more than a day for a response from her! Then as we got closer to the actual day, Ralph (operations director) was a rockstar. We met with him a few weeks before to go through everything and he made it so easy. Like Niki, he answered all our questions and had a “back up” plan for everything. The day of went so smoothy. Not only did we have amazing weather, really nothing “went wrong”. The guests kept raving about the venue and the food! We are so happy we chose Whitby for our wedding and are dying to go to a wedding there as a guest ourselves :)
Brendan M
5.0
10/20/2025
We got married at Whitby Castle in Rye, NY in October, and we truly couldn’t have asked for a more perfect venue. From the moment we arrived, we were blown away by the stunning vie...
ws, the historic charm of the castle, and the endless opportunities for beautiful photos — both inside and outside the grounds. We knew this was our venue from the moment we got there.
The cocktail hour was incredible — our guests are still talking about the food and how elegant everything felt. Dinner was just as fantastic. Every dish was delicious, beautifully presented, and served with care.
But what really made the day exceptional was the staff, especially Ralph, the operations director. Ralph went above and beyond to make sure the entire event flowed seamlessly. He was professional, attentive, calm under pressure, and clearly takes so much pride in what he does. Thanks to him and his team, everything ran perfectly on time, and we felt completely at ease throughout the day.
If you’re looking for a venue that combines historic beauty, amazing food, stunning photo ops, and top-tier service, Whitby Castle is it. We’re beyond grateful for our experience and would choose it again in a heartbeat.
Mark K
5.0
10/03/2025
Ralph: I wanted to extend Carolyn and my thanks to you and your staff for a wonderful wedding on Sunday for Jackie and Philip. We are Philip’s parents and cannot say enough about ...
how great you and your staff were on Sunday. Your excellent work helped make it a very special evening. Great venue, great food, great service and a whole lot of fun!
Keep up the good work and maybe we will see you again at another Whitby Castle event!
Gigi E
5.0
10/03/2025
The venue is beautiful. A romantic castle in the front where you can have your ceremony. The deck out back facing the golf course and Long Island sound for cocktails, and a fairly ...
spacious room for reception. The staff is top notch. Ralph and Niki know how to help you plan an event that will run smoothly and are incredibly detail oriented. The price was fair too. I highly recommend this venue for your event.
Ashley R
5.0
9/03/2025
My Husband and I had our wedding here on August 23rd, 2025 and it was absolutely magical. I could not have asked for anything more amazing. I would like to specifically thank Ral...
ph and Rosa. Ralph was our Maitre D that evening and he was FANTASTIC. I cannot say enough about him. He kept everyone organized and everything flowing smoothly. We were so lucky to have met him two weeks before to discuss all the details and events at the Castle and that was a huge advantage! Rosa was my bridal attendant, and she was fantastic, making sure we ate, stayed hydrated and had all of our needs taken care of. She also did a fantastic job decorating the room way better than I could have imagined. Thank you Ralph and Rosa so much for making our day Magical!
Roksolana D
5.0
8/25/2025
My husband and I got married on July 26, 2025, and we couldn’t have imagined the day going any better! From the moment we took the first tour, up until our special day - Whitby Cas...
tle impressed us during our entire experience. The venue made our planning incredibly easy - we were basically done with it right after booking our wedding. The Whitby Castle offered us a vendor package, which included their top florist, DJ, photographer, and bakery (for the wedding cake). This made it incredibly easy for us, since we didn’t have to interview any of the vendors (the vendors had great reviews, so we were comfortable with choosing them). Side note - we were very happy with our vendors on the day of the wedding, so the vendor package was a really great value-add from the Whitby Castle.
We mainly communicated with Niki from the very beginning of our experience. She was incredibly responsive and helpful. About a month before the wedding, we met our maitre d’, Ralph, who planned the schedule for our wedding day. He was also incredibly responsive, and fulfilled every request that we had. He made the day run by so smoothly - all of our guests were very impressed. The best part of the wedding was that Ralph and our bridal attendant made sure that my husband and I had a few moments alone, and we were well-fed. I always heard about how the bride and groom are always too busy to eat on their wedding day - well, that’s not the case at the Whitby Castle. We had time to eat and try every dish that was served (which, by the way, the food at the venue is INCREDIBLE!). Overall, our experience was perfect, and we wouldn’t change anything about it. Thank you, Ralph, Niki, and the rest of the Whitby Castle team. We will be forever grateful for your hard work and for making our day so special.
Gretchen H
5.0
7/29/2025
We had our daytime wedding at Whitby Castle on 7/26/25 and could not be happier with the day. From touring, to booking, to the tasting, to coordinating details, and making it all h...
appen the day-of, the team at Whitby was nothing short of spectacular. Their professionalism, patience, and care shines through every step. Every staff member understands this is a special day for each couple and their attentiveness and commitment never waver.
Niki was patient, kind, and responsive during the booking process and made everything easy to understand. Ralph walked us through what the day would look like and was thorough and accommodating. On the day of, the staff was incredible. Rosa, the Maitre'D, and Roxy, the bridal attendant, were superheroes. They calmed our nerves and made sure our day went smoothly. If we needed something, they were right there to support. They are truly kind and wonderful people who made our day better!
We also got so many compliments on the food--which was delicious and plentiful!! Our guests also loved how beautiful the castle itself was. The natural lighting in the ballroom had everyone glowing!
Thank you to the whole team at Whitby!! You helped us have our perfect day that we will treasure always!
George L
5.0
6/26/2025
We just had our daughter’s wedding at the Whitby Castle and it was fabulous. From the Booking to the showcase to the tasting and then the actual event, the staff was so professiona...
l and efficient. Shout outs to Niki and Ralph. Niki was very patient and professional with all the questions, additions and changes my wife and I made even up to the actual event.
Ralph was the best. As the parents of the bride we, of course, wanted everything to be perfect and to go smoothly. Ralph saw to that that was the case. We did not worry about anything. If as father of the bride I was needed for my welcome speech , Ralph found me. I did not worry about anything. I was able to spend my time visiting with the guests, dancing and throughly enjoying the day. Oh, I forgot to mention the food. It was incredible and delicious. I cannot say enough about the professionalism of all the staff. They all made sure every detail was handled. I highly recommend the Whitby Castle.
Emily D
5.0
6/08/2025
We can't recommend the Whitby Castle enough! From the moment we sent our first email requesting a walk through to the moment we left the night of our wedding the communication was ...
incredible! Niki was so responsive to our emails, answered all of our questions in such a friendly and supportive manner, Ralph was so clear and funny during our final walk through, and the entire day of staff were so kind and organized! The willow tree is so dreamy, the food is incredible, the space is just so perfect! Thank you sooo much for making our dream day come true!! We wish we could give you 1000 stars!
Christina M
5.0
5/17/2025
We recently had our wedding reception on 4/25/25, and it truly exceeded every expectation. From the very first planning meeting to the last dance of the night, the entire experienc...
e was seamless, joyful, and absolutely unforgettable.
The staff were phenomenal—professional, attentive, and genuinely invested in making our day perfect. Our coordinator guided us with care and confidence, always quick to respond to questions and eager to help with even the smallest detail. On the day of the wedding, every team member was calm, gracious, and incredibly well-organized, which allowed us to fully enjoy the moment without stress.
The food was exceptional. Our guests are still raving about the cocktail hour and dinner—everything was beautifully presented and delicious. Even guests with dietary restrictions were catered to with care and creativity.
What really stood out was the professionalism and communication throughout the entire planning process. The Whitby Castle team was responsive, clear, and genuinely enthusiastic. We always felt like we were in great hands, and that gave us the peace of mind to enjoy every step leading up to the big day.
And of course, the venue itself is magical—a storybook setting with breathtaking views and old-world charm. It made for stunning photos and a romantic atmosphere that our guests will never forget.
If you're looking for a venue that combines timeless beauty with exceptional service and top-notch cuisine, Whitby Castle is it. We are endlessly grateful to the entire team for making our wedding reception an absolute dream.
Lisa L
5.0
5/06/2025
I have lived in the Westchester area most of my life, but I had never heard of Whitby Castle until I saw it tagged on Instagram a couple years before I started wedding planning. I’...
m a romantic person, so the “castle” aspect of it really appealed to me, and they were the first venue I looked up once we started planning, and was the only venue we toured before booking it a day after we first saw it. I just knew I wanted to get married there as soon as I saw it, and I am SO happy we made that somewhat snap decision. It felt like this venue was tailor-made for us, and at every single moment of planning, they made us feel special. Niki is warm and organized and always quick to reply to my questions over email, and our meeting with Ralph the maitre’d was a masterclass in client services. He made us laugh, he was so warm and accommodating, and just made us feel like he really loved his job, and didn’t treat us like “just another wedding.” On the day of, everything went off without a hiccup on their part, despite us running a little behind schedule. At Whitby, they do their rehearsals day of, because they’re a high-volume event space. My rehearsal was about an hour before the ceremony, and I have never known a ceremony to run smoother. Ralph was, again, just funny and warm and organized and incredibly effective. I felt like I was in such good hands. My guests were very impressed with the space, and especially the food. We come from picky, high-standard families when it comes to food, and even the pickiest guests on our guest list complimented us personally on the food, and we didn’t even have to pick the highest-price entrees or the fanciest stations or hors d’ouevres to have gotten that feedback. The room is not overly-adorned (which is what we wanted) and is elegant in its romantic simplicity. They even accommodated an earlier start time without question or extra charge, and I loved that they had Chiavari chairs as their standard, and an in-house bakery that was absolutely delicious. I really got the wedding of my dreams.
Caroline O
5.0
5/05/2025
We got married here this past week on 5/1/25, and I don't think there are enough nice things I can say about Whitby Castle. Niki and Ralph made everything so unbelievably easy for ...
us the entire time from booking to the days after our wedding. Roxy was my bridal attendant, and she made sure my husband and I were never without a drink. They brought all our cocktail-hour food upstairs for us so we could eat in peace and relax. Niki was so easy to communicate with for the entirety of the planning process. Every single question we asked of Ralph, who doubled as our maître d’, got answered and was perfect. We had so much fun at our reception, and it was so helpful to have Ralph there guiding and directing us every step of the way. It was so easy to coordinate dropping off and picking up all of our decor the week of the wedding. There were so many details, which can be overwhelming on your wedding, but with Roxy, Ralph, and Niki (and the entirety of the staff!!) everything was so seamless and like a well oiled machine. I am so unbelievably appreciative of everyone at this venue and cannot recommend Whitby Castle enough!!!
Lauren Y
5.0
4/30/2025
We couldn’t be happier with our decision to choose Whitby Castle as our wedding venue! From the very beginning, the planning process was an absolute breeze thanks to Niki, who was ...
incredibly easy to communicate with. Her quick and clear responses made us feel confident every step of the way.
As the big day approached, we had the pleasure of working with Ralph, our maître d’, and he was simply amazing. He made everything feel so effortless, taking the stress off our shoulders and ensuring we could focus on enjoying the moment. The wedding package we selected truly made the entire experience as stress-free as possible.
On the wedding day, everything ran flawlessly. My bridal attendant was an absolute gem—she ensured everything stayed on track and even managed to do my bustle in record time! Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the venue and the delicious food. The castle is breathtaking, both inside and out, and created the perfect fairytale backdrop for our celebration.
The bridal suite upstairs was ideal for getting ready, setting the tone for the magical day ahead. Even the process of picking up our belongings the following day was seamless. The staff had everything neatly packed and ready for us, which was such a thoughtful touch.
From start to finish, Whitby Castle exceeded our expectations in every way. We genuinely don’t have a single complaint—just endless gratitude for making our wedding day unforgettable!
Jacoby
5.0
4/07/2025
I had my daughter's bridal shower at Whitby Castle. It was wonderful. The venue is gorgeous. The food is delicious. We got many compliments about both throughout the event. The sta...
ff is very friendly and professional. I booked the event with Yasmin. She was a pleasure to work with. Niki was also helpful. The day of the event ran smoothly thanks to the amazing staff. Rosa was our maitre d and she was incredible. She helped out from start to finish. She was very friendly and made me feel comfortable right away. She was available to help with whatever we needed, and she kept the party running smoothly. I really appreciated her expertise. My daughter was so happy and described the day as "perfect." I would recommend Whitby Castle for any special event. We couldn't be happier with our experience.
Celeste H
5.0
4/03/2025
We had our wedding at Whitby Castle on 3/21/25 and it lived up to all the amazing reviews. From the first time we stepped foot onto the property, we were blown away by the grounds,...
the big reception room with tons of windows and natural light, as well as the professionalism and friendliness of all the staff. After the first visit, we canceled our other venue visits because we knew this was it.
Throughout the planning process, Niki was extremely responsive to all emails and questions (which was extremely important to me as I did not work with a planner) and they worked directly with my other vendors to hash out logistics and details, minimizing stress on my part. We worked with Ralph closer to the wedding and day-of and he knocked it out of the park - efficient, friendly and flexible to our needs. Liana, my bridal attendant, also made sure to take care of all my needs day-of. Everything was set up to perfection by the staff without me having to follow up on anything, and they even packed everything for us at the end of the night.
Our guests raved about the beautiful venue and how much food there was at cocktail hour. Honestly, couldn't be happier with how smoothly everything went thanks to the amazing team! The Whitby Castle team really made sure the planning process and day-of was as stress free as possible. It really was a dream come true and I can't recommend it enough to other couples looking to get married there!
Mariah V
5.0
3/20/2025
Whitby Castle is an absolutely charming, timeless and beautiful place where we held our reception. The whole team is so professional and responsive. From the start, Niki was highly...
communicative and very kind. She answered all of my (millions of) questions with patience and grace. Ralph the operations director was absolutely stellar and worked with his team to bring all my visions to life. Roxy, my BFF, is the best bridal attendant I could have dreamed of. Every single staff member did not stop smiling all night, they all made us and all of our guests feel so welcome and at home at the castle. The food was amazing and we got so many compliments from guests about the vast spread during the cocktail hour. We would recommend Whitby Castle again and again. Go check it out you won’t regret it!!!
Nicole K
5.0
3/13/2025
Very professional. Super accommodating, we had to make so many changes and they were so open and willing to do all of the changes. Such a beautiful and amazing venue to host a wedd...
ing. I highly recommend checking them out as well as visiting their wedding showcases in the winter and fall!
Ashley B
5.0
3/12/2025
My husband and I got married at Whitby Castle on 2/15/25. From the moment I went to tour the venue the end of July was 2024, I fell in love with it and don’t know why I even entert...
ained looking at other venues. Special appreciation to Niki and Ralph! For making sure I understood everything and answering tons of my anxiety fueled emails as the day got closer. Whitby was very accommodating and collaborative when it came to the food and drinks! Extra credit to Niki for procuring the wine I wanted 24 hours before the reception when I thought of it last minute. The food was phenomenal and guests continue to tell me there was so much of it and that it was excellent. All of the vendors we worked with as a part of their all inclusive package were great and also kind and easy to work with. Our wedding day was something I will never forgot and I’m so happy it was At Whitby!
Lori B
5.0
12/05/2024
My husband and I got married at Whitby on 11.8.2024 and it was a better day than I could have ever dreamed of! Whitby was the venue I had always dreamed of. It is absolutely stunni...
ng to begin with. The food was incredible across the board (highly recommend upgrading to the sushi chef for cocktail hour - my guests couldn't stop talking about it!) The entire staff was amazing to work with. Niki was so responsive to me while planning and always helped with every detail and Ralph made sure the entire day went off without a hitch. I could not recommend more. Multiple of our friends and family still keep telling us it was one of the best weddings they have ever been to, and that is definitely because of Whitby!
Coleen L
5.0
11/07/2024
Had the best wedding I could ever imagine thanks to everyone at Whitby Castle. Everything ran so smoothly and on time. The food was amazing and the venue is beautiful. Maitre D, br...
idal attendant, chef, valet, servers, bartenders. Everyone was amazing!
Michelle T
5.0
10/08/2024
We had our wedding at Whitby Castle on 9/14/24 and had the most amazing experience! From the very first visit we knew we wanted this to be our venue. The staff was extremely kind a...
nd professional and the food was amazing! Our friends and family are still raving about how delicious the cake was! The beautiful grounds were perfect for our outdoor ceremony with the castle in the background of all the photos but the willow tree in the front was also a gorgeous spot we took a lot of our professional portraits. Leading up to the wedding the staff was extremely responsive and easy to work with and the say of the wedding everything went smoothly! We are so extremely pleased with our time working with Whitby Castle and would recommend to any family and friends! :)
Brittney M
5.0
9/24/2024
Our wedding was absolutely incredible at the Whitby. Ralph is SO nice and everything went smoothly for our big day! The food was amazing and our guests raved about it. Getting read...
y at the castle with the entire wedding party was super easy and we had plenty of space! I cannot recommend Whitby and the staff enough to anyone looking for a venue!!
Sarah Z
5.0
9/18/2024
Words cannot express the gratitude we have for Whitby! From the very beginning, Niki was incredibly professional and went above and beyond for our big day. Planning was seamless, t...
heir communication skills are UNMATCHED! Ralph came along as we got closer to the day, he too was incredible and made sure our day ran so smoothly. Rosa the bridal attendant was also incredibly quick and professional, making sure I had everything I needed and the guests were happy. The food was phenomenal and the fun was everlasting. 1000/10 the best decision we made for our big day!
Samantha G
5.0
9/17/2024
Our wedding at Whitby Castle was perfect. From our very first meeting with Niki, we knew we were in good hands. She is very knowledgable, easy to work with, and super communicative...
- throughout the planning process, she responded to our countless messages within minutes (which, when you’re working with multiple vendors and timeframes, is extremely helpful!). Ralph, the maitre d’, was also fantastic to work with. After our first meeting with him a month before the wedding, we were completely confident that he’d run a successful and smooth event. He was very organized and took us through the full timeline of the event, answered all of our questions, and made any changes that we wanted. Aside from his professionalism, he also has a great personality and had us laughing the entire meeting. On the day of the wedding, he was there to coordinate with the vendors, make sure everything was set up, and run the entire event. He handled everything perfectly and made sure we were at ease the entire time. We are so grateful to Niki and Ralph, and the rest of the team at the Whitby, for making our wedding day so special!
R and M S
5.0
9/17/2024
We first looked at the Whitby Castle because of their excellent reviews and after having our wedding here, we understood why they had so many five stars. From the moment we looked ...
at the venue until the big day, we were met with professionalism and expertise. Our wedding was a month ago and we are still getting compliments. The food was superb, the space truly is beautiful, and the staff is experienced. Niki, Ralph, and Roxy were an excellent team and supported us every step of the way. We couldn't have asked for more. We highly highly recommend this venue. The price was great too! One of the best things for us was that nobody was pushy and we found them to be very flexible. That's super important to us! Thank you all for making our day so special.
Nicole T
5.0
9/10/2024
The Whitby Castle was the first and last wedding venue that we looked at when planning our wedding. While this may not be the case for all, we felt that we saw everything we had ho...
ped for in just one night. We attended their Lobster night over the summer and the views, food and staff were just fantastic. Working with Niki to plan our wedding and answer our many questions, could not have been easier or better. She is a sweetheart and very professional. We met with Ralph, the maitre de, a few weeks before our wedding to go over all of the details, and there was not one thing we left that meeting wondering about. He covered everything, down to the minute, and it made us feel so at ease with our planning. Anything that we wanted to change or adjust, he did so easily!
Our big day was Sunday, August 11th. My husband had asked to arrive at the castle at 1:00pm so that he can get ready, and Niki and Ralph allowed that to happen. He was given all the space he needed, and the bridal suite where he got ready was beautiful, overlooking the golf course. The staff were helpful and friendly in making sure things were running smoothly.
When I arrived, the staff made me feel like royalty and I was escorted to the bridal suite once the guys were out. Ralph made sure to keep me hidden until my husband was downstairs where he wouldn’t see me. We decided to do a first look to be able to maximize and enjoy as much of the day as possible. The views on property are hard to beat and even though it was a busy summer day at the pool and the golf course, we felt like we were the only ones there that day. Rosa, my bridal attendant, followed me around the entire time and made sure I had everything I needed. When it was time for the ceremony, she drove me around the back on a golf cart so that none of my guests would see me, and I came out of the willow tree next to the lawn. This is something that my guests are still talking about. It was really magical!
The night was also as perfect as we could have imagined. We decided to upgrade to the surf and turf for an entree, and it did not disappoint. Many of our guests ordered it and we received a ton of good feedback about the quality and taste of the steak and the lobster. The bartenders (Leo & Alana) were fun, friendly and poured quickly to allow our guests to get their drinks with minimal wait time. The room looked beautiful before the sun set with all of the natural light and big windows. The pictures that we took toward the end of the night, outside in front of the castle, came out beautifully. It really was a picture perfect setting!
Choosing to have our wedding at the Whitby Castle was the best decision we could have made. It truly was the most beautiful day and night, and our wedding was like a real life fairytale. We cannot thank Niki, Ralph and the rest of the staff enough for making our special day so perfect!
Claudia T
5.0
9/08/2024
We cannot thank Whitby enough for helping plan and executing our dream wedding. My husband and I planned our wedding from LA, but the amazing and meticulous staff at Whitby made it...
so easy to plan a wedding from the other side of the country. From day 1, Niki made our vision feel heard and worked with our budget to make our dream happen. Along the way, everyone who heard we were getting married at Whitby had nothing but amazing things to say about the food. Even the staff during our tasting was so extremely friendly and won my parents over with their service and AMAZING food and portions. Everyone at the wedding raved about the food and the cake! From the second we spoke with Ralph on the phone we knew we were in the best of hands and were so happy when he was able to be our Maitre’D for the day of. He was extremely flexible, kept everything running smoothly (even when photo was behind schedule) and was just what we needed so that we didn’t have to worry about any finer details the day of. Our bridal attendant was also an angel and kept us fed and hydrated the day of - I seriously ate too much food which is the opposite of what everyone says. Whitby will always have a special place in our heart and for the price and service I seriously couldn’t recommend anywhere else ❤️
Sarah F
5.0
8/25/2024
My husband and I tied the knot at Whitby Castle in July 2024, and it was the best decision we could have made! We had been to a wedding there before, which was absolutely beautiful...
and put the venue on our radar. We checked out several other strong contenders in the area, but Whitby Castle stole our hearts.
Our first meeting with Niki on a chilly January day sealed the deal. Her genuine and caring nature shone through, and it was clear she was dedicated to making our day perfect. Niki was incredibly responsive to all of our many questions leading up to the big day, which was a lifesaver given the short six months we had to plan. As the bride, I felt an instant connection with Niki, especially when she shared that she also got married at Whitby. Her warmth and sincerity played a huge role in our decision and made planning as stress-free as possible.
Then there was Ralph, our amazing maître d’. He was fantastic to work with in the months leading up to the wedding and on the big day itself. Ralph’s professionalism and dedication were evident in every conversation, and he went above and beyond to bring our vision for the big day to life.
Rosa, the bridal attendant, was an absolute gem. Detail-oriented, warm, and friendly, she helped keep everything on track and made sure we stayed on schedule. Together with Ralph, Rosa ensured everything ran smoothly on the big day.
Our wedding ceremony was beautifully set up outside in front of the Castle on a hot July day. The stunning outdoor space, complete with a picturesque willow tree where we had our first look photos, added to the magic of the day. Despite the heat, the venue's reliable indoor AC ensured our reception was comfortable, and we are happy to report it worked perfectly.
We couldn't have asked for a better team or a more perfect venue. Thank you, Whitby Castle, for making our day so magical!
Alyssa C
5.0
8/19/2024
Absolutely phenomenal crew at Whitby Castle. They created the perfect wedding day from start to finish with pure professionalism, punctuality and generosity. We'd consider our wedd...
ing a 10/10 and largely owe that to Whitby Team.
Hannah T
5.0
6/28/2024
We could not have been happier with our wedding at the Whitby Castle. Through most of the planning process, we worked with Niki, who was wonderful! She answered countless questions...
, got back to us quickly, and was overall extremely helpful and kind. Ralph was our maître d' and is extremely organized, professional, and attentive to detail. The venue itself is beautiful, the food is amazing, and all the staff are welcoming. Our day went off without a hitch and we highly recommend this venue!
Melissa L
5.0
5/22/2024
Whitby Castle was 1000000% perfect in every way. My dream venue was a castle on the beach, and Whitby is a castle overlooking the water (in the distance, close enough). It has all ...
the charm and character of an historic castle, but it also has a modern ballroom and amenities. The location was central to us in Connecticut and our friends and family in NYC, New Jersey, and Massachusetts. We rented the bridal suite, and it was so convenient to get ready and have the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception all in the same place.
From Niki the catering sales manager to Ralph the operations manager/our maitre d' to Roxie our bridal attendant, the staff was incredible. Niki and Ralph went through every detail with us, answered our millions of questions, and accommodated last-minute changes flawlessly. Roxie was so helpful and knowledgeable, from offering my mom heel protectors to assisting with my dress.
The in-house catering was delicious and plentiful, too. We were allowed to customize the menu by mixing and matching ingredients from different dishes.
As if getting married in front of a castle isn't amazing enough, they really level up the outdoor ceremony experience by having the bride make a surprise entrance from the willow tree on the opposite side of the lawn. All of the guests were blown away. We also used this tree for our first look and couple portraits.
I felt that Whitby was reasonably priced for an all-inclusive venue with such amazing service and food. I would recommend it a million times over.
David & Elissa F
5.0
4/21/2024
Whitby Castle in Rye, NY is the absolute best & most perfect place for a wedding & we very highly recommend it as your wedding venue! We got married in March 2024 on a Saturday aft...
ernoon at Whitby & it was better than we ever could have imagined thanks to the breathtaking venue & all the amazing managers & staff. We looked at 10 wedding venues in Tri-state area before finding Whitby, & we knew we had to get married there the minute we saw it. First was the gorgeous castle & grounds (flawlessly manicured lawns on Rye Golf club & striking views of LI Sound), & how the venue provided accommodations for all weather types. Next was the wedding package, which included everything needed & was the best price for all options; we couldn’t find a better price anywhere.
From our first meeting w/ Niki, the Catering Sales Manager at Whitby, we knew we made the right choice. Niki handled everything w/ the venue throughout the process, including catering, vendors, amenities & all options available through Whitby. Niki took the time to get to know us & thoroughly explained the numerous elements to consider when planning our wedding. She made us feel as if she genuinely cared about us & our wedding (because she did). We later met w/ the Ops Manager, Ralph, about 3 weeks before the wedding & he was just as awesome. Ralph had all the particulars laid out for every aspect of our wedding & provided a comprehensive timeline & wedding plan. Niki & Ralph were incredibly professional & knowledgeable, & also exceedingly responsive & accommodating.
Weather was no concern on our wedding day because of how Whitby operates. They have complete & functional outdoor heating throughout the wraparound patio that hosted much of cocktail hour, despite it being high 50°. We had wonderful sun on morning of our wedding, but it was windy & our ceremony would be on colder side in afternoon. We did not want our guests to sit in the cold, so we had an indoor wedding, & it was beyond stunning. The magnificent arch windows in the reception hall gave us astonishing light & scenic views for the ceremony. Regardless of weather, they set up for both options, to have our wedding inside or outside. We thought this was amazing considering how unpredictable weather can be. Some venues tend to have multiple weddings to maximize space, but we appreciated that Whitby treated us as the main event.
In addition to astounding views & spectacular customer service, the entrées & various food courses were outstanding. I am not sure which our guests raved about more, the delectable food or marvelous views. We also have nothing but phenomenal things to say about Rosa, the bridal attendant at Whitby. Rosa was exceptionally attentive & helpful throughout the day. Niki, Ralph, Rosa, & our maître d', Gabriel, were all extremely organized & prepared for every scenario. There were so many moving parts & minute details involved in our wedding, but Gabriel was so on top of everything & made it a day to remember. The service was impeccable & all Whitby staff were tremendously kind & helpful. Nearly all our guests told us how it was not only the most beautiful & fun wedding they have ever been to, but the best party. Whitby gave us a wedding beyond our dreams. We couldn’t be happier w/ our wedding & we know it was all because of the venue & their fantastic team. We very highly recommend Whitby Castle as your wedding venue!
Sincerely, Mr. & Mrs. David & Elissa Figueroa
Matt H
5.0
3/11/2024
This place made our wedding day so special! We were so happy to get married in a castle. It fit exactly with what we were going for and the staff really did an amazing job!
The st...
aff were so amazing and really put us at ease the day of. They were very responsive during the whole process and even reacted quickly to a certain decoration malfunction. Very professional! The maitre d and attendant were so much fun and took care of us.
The Food is fantastic here! Our guests are still saying how good the food was. That really meant a lot to us. Who doesn't love a mashed potato bar during cocktail hour!
It is such a beautiful venue and we were so lucky to have the day we did for some amazing photos! We had a beautiful late afternoon and so were able to have the ceremony outside in front of the castle.
I can't recommend this venue enough. Having our wedding at Whitby Castle really made it a day to remember which is all you want!
Lauren L
5.0
3/04/2024
Niki, Gabriel, Ralph, Roxy and everybody else were amazing. Highly suggest considering the Whitby Castle for your wedding venue. The staff was so consideration, patient and accommo...
dating. The main reception hall is beautiful and offers and gorgeous water view. I will be recommending this location to all of my future engaged friends in New York!
Jessica A
5.0
1/27/2024
Whitby Castle is an absolute unicorn of a venue! We looked all over the New York area for a venue and Whitby Castle blew every other venue out of the water in terms of value, servi...
ce, and scenery. Throughout the planning process, we were continually impressed by and incredibly grateful for Niki and Ralph's responsiveness and kindness. They were both such a pleasure to work with! Our guests were also incredibly impressed by the venue. While Whitby Castle is, of course, stunning, what most impressed them was the food, service, and decor. They have not stopped raving about it! We truly could not imagine a better experience and are so thankful to have chosen Whitby Castle to celebrate our special day :)
Rebecca C
4.0
1/02/2024
We loved our experience at Whitby Castle. We were able to host the ceremony outside on the front lawn, and the castle backdrop was stunning.
Niki was incredibly helpful with our q...
uestions leading up to the day, and Ralph ensured the day ran seamlessly on the actual wedding day. We did have some misunderstandings with our contract in the weeks leading up to the wedding (e.g., we were told Whitby could procure any domestic craft beers we wanted for the reception when we signed the contract, but the reality was significantly more limited), but Niki and Ralph worked with us to make sure we were happy and that they upheld their commitment to us.
It is disappointing that you aren't able to guarantee access to the venue more than 2 hours prior to your event (they typically have multiple events a day), but luckily, we were able to get early access to the castle based on availability.
They have a gorgeous outdoor space for the cocktail hour overlooking the golf course - we have beautiful photos from the whole night.
The food was delicious (much better than we had at the tasting!) and seemingly never ending - exactly what we were hoping for! The bridal attendant was incredibly helpful as well.
While the "getting ready" areas (bridal suite, groomsmen room) are smaller, our large wedding party made it feel more cramped then they are in reality. The team had appetizers and drinks set up for our group before the ceremony and during cocktail hour as well - it was great to be able to sneak upstairs to grab some food in private!
Overall, it was a beautiful venue to get married. The team goes above and beyond to make sure you have a wonderful day - I would definitely recommend it to anyone looking for a venue near New York City!
Heather S
5.0
1/02/2024
Whitby Castle was beyond amazing! We were looking for a venue to host our special day. It was really hard locating a space that had not only had great service, but great food. Whi...
tby Castle made it all happen from start to finish. They made our wedding day, memorable in so many ways. Guests are still talking about the wonderful service/kind staff, food, venue and so much more. The experience was fantastic! Special thanks Niki and Ralph for their professionalism and flexibility. The chef and his team also deserve a round applause too!
Nadia B
5.0
12/09/2023
Whitby castle was the absolute best venue! Niki and Ralph were amazing to work with both on the day of and throughout the whole process. The actual day went so smooth, all of the s...
taff were attentive and accommodating. My guests spoke so highly of the service on our day! The actual venue itself is stunning and all of our pictures came out incredible! I am so happy we had our wedding here, it was truly an unforgettable day!
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