Whitby Castle at Rye Golf Club

My husband and I got married on July 26, 2025, and we couldn’t have imagined the day going any better! From the moment we took the first tour, up until our special day - Whitby Castle impressed us during our entire experience. The venue made our planning incredibly easy - we were basically done with it right after booking our wedding. The Whitby Castle offered us a vendor package, which included their top florist, DJ, photographer, and bakery (for the wedding cake). This made it incredibly easy for us, since we didn’t have to interview any of the vendors (the vendors had great reviews, so we were comfortable with choosing them). Side note - we were very happy with our vendors on the day of the wedding, so the vendor package was a really great value-add from the Whitby Castle. We mainly communicated with Niki from the very beginning of our experience. She was incredibly responsive and helpful. About a month before the wedding, we met our maitre d’, Ralph, who planned the schedule for our wedding day. He was also incredibly responsive, and fulfilled every request that we had. He made the day run by so smoothly - all of our guests were very impressed. The best part of the wedding was that Ralph and our bridal attendant made sure that my husband and I had a few moments alone, and we were well-fed. I always heard about how the bride and groom are always too busy to eat on their wedding day - well, that’s not the case at the Whitby Castle. We had time to eat and try every dish that was served (which, by the way, the food at the venue is INCREDIBLE!). Overall, our experience was perfect, and we wouldn’t change anything about it. Thank you, Ralph, Niki, and the rest of the Whitby Castle team. We will be forever grateful for your hard work and for making our day so special.

We can't recommend the Whitby Castle enough! From the moment we sent our first email requesting a walk through to the moment we left the night of our wedding the communication was incredible! Niki was so responsive to our emails, answered all of our questions in such a friendly and supportive manner, Ralph was so clear and funny during our final walk through, and the entire day of staff were so kind and organized! The willow tree is so dreamy, the food is incredible, the space is just so perfect! Thank you sooo much for making our dream day come true!! We wish we could give you 1000 stars!

We recently had our wedding reception on 4/25/25, and it truly exceeded every expectation. From the very first planning meeting to the last dance of the night, the entire experience was seamless, joyful, and absolutely unforgettable. The staff were phenomenal—professional, attentive, and genuinely invested in making our day perfect. Our coordinator guided us with care and confidence, always quick to respond to questions and eager to help with even the smallest detail. On the day of the wedding, every team member was calm, gracious, and incredibly well-organized, which allowed us to fully enjoy the moment without stress. The food was exceptional. Our guests are still raving about the cocktail hour and dinner—everything was beautifully presented and delicious. Even guests with dietary restrictions were catered to with care and creativity. What really stood out was the professionalism and communication throughout the entire planning process. The Whitby Castle team was responsive, clear, and genuinely enthusiastic. We always felt like we were in great hands, and that gave us the peace of mind to enjoy every step leading up to the big day. And of course, the venue itself is magical—a storybook setting with breathtaking views and old-world charm. It made for stunning photos and a romantic atmosphere that our guests will never forget. If you're looking for a venue that combines timeless beauty with exceptional service and top-notch cuisine, Whitby Castle is it. We are endlessly grateful to the entire team for making our wedding reception an absolute dream.

Very professional. Super accommodating, we had to make so many changes and they were so open and willing to do all of the changes. Such a beautiful and amazing venue to host a wedding. I highly recommend checking them out as well as visiting their wedding showcases in the winter and fall!

Our wedding was absolutely incredible at the Whitby. Ralph is SO nice and everything went smoothly for our big day! The food was amazing and our guests raved about it. Getting ready at the castle with the entire wedding party was super easy and we had plenty of space! I cannot recommend Whitby and the staff enough to anyone looking for a venue!!

We first looked at the Whitby Castle because of their excellent reviews and after having our wedding here, we understood why they had so many five stars. From the moment we looked at the venue until the big day, we were met with professionalism and expertise. Our wedding was a month ago and we are still getting compliments. The food was superb, the space truly is beautiful, and the staff is experienced. Niki, Ralph, and Roxy were an excellent team and supported us every step of the way. We couldn't have asked for more. We highly highly recommend this venue. The price was great too! One of the best things for us was that nobody was pushy and we found them to be very flexible. That's super important to us! Thank you all for making our day so special.

The Whitby Castle was the first and last wedding venue that we looked at when planning our wedding. While this may not be the case for all, we felt that we saw everything we had hoped for in just one night. We attended their Lobster night over the summer and the views, food and staff were just fantastic. Working with Niki to plan our wedding and answer our many questions, could not have been easier or better. She is a sweetheart and very professional. We met with Ralph, the maitre de, a few weeks before our wedding to go over all of the details, and there was not one thing we left that meeting wondering about. He covered everything, down to the minute, and it made us feel so at ease with our planning. Anything that we wanted to change or adjust, he did so easily! Our big day was Sunday, August 11th. My husband had asked to arrive at the castle at 1:00pm so that he can get ready, and Niki and Ralph allowed that to happen. He was given all the space he needed, and the bridal suite where he got ready was beautiful, overlooking the golf course. The staff were helpful and friendly in making sure things were running smoothly. When I arrived, the staff made me feel like royalty and I was escorted to the bridal suite once the guys were out. Ralph made sure to keep me hidden until my husband was downstairs where he wouldn’t see me. We decided to do a first look to be able to maximize and enjoy as much of the day as possible. The views on property are hard to beat and even though it was a busy summer day at the pool and the golf course, we felt like we were the only ones there that day. Rosa, my bridal attendant, followed me around the entire time and made sure I had everything I needed. When it was time for the ceremony, she drove me around the back on a golf cart so that none of my guests would see me, and I came out of the willow tree next to the lawn. This is something that my guests are still talking about. It was really magical! The night was also as perfect as we could have imagined. We decided to upgrade to the surf and turf for an entree, and it did not disappoint. Many of our guests ordered it and we received a ton of good feedback about the quality and taste of the steak and the lobster. The bartenders (Leo & Alana) were fun, friendly and poured quickly to allow our guests to get their drinks with minimal wait time. The room looked beautiful before the sun set with all of the natural light and big windows. The pictures that we took toward the end of the night, outside in front of the castle, came out beautifully. It really was a picture perfect setting! Choosing to have our wedding at the Whitby Castle was the best decision we could have made. It truly was the most beautiful day and night, and our wedding was like a real life fairytale. We cannot thank Niki, Ralph and the rest of the staff enough for making our special day so perfect!

We cannot thank Whitby enough for helping plan and executing our dream wedding. My husband and I planned our wedding from LA, but the amazing and meticulous staff at Whitby made it so easy to plan a wedding from the other side of the country. From day 1, Niki made our vision feel heard and worked with our budget to make our dream happen. Along the way, everyone who heard we were getting married at Whitby had nothing but amazing things to say about the food. Even the staff during our tasting was so extremely friendly and won my parents over with their service and AMAZING food and portions. Everyone at the wedding raved about the food and the cake! From the second we spoke with Ralph on the phone we knew we were in the best of hands and were so happy when he was able to be our Maitre’D for the day of. He was extremely flexible, kept everything running smoothly (even when photo was behind schedule) and was just what we needed so that we didn’t have to worry about any finer details the day of. Our bridal attendant was also an angel and kept us fed and hydrated the day of - I seriously ate too much food which is the opposite of what everyone says. Whitby will always have a special place in our heart and for the price and service I seriously couldn’t recommend anywhere else ❤️

My husband and I tied the knot at Whitby Castle in July 2024, and it was the best decision we could have made! We had been to a wedding there before, which was absolutely beautiful and put the venue on our radar. We checked out several other strong contenders in the area, but Whitby Castle stole our hearts. Our first meeting with Niki on a chilly January day sealed the deal. Her genuine and caring nature shone through, and it was clear she was dedicated to making our day perfect. Niki was incredibly responsive to all of our many questions leading up to the big day, which was a lifesaver given the short six months we had to plan. As the bride, I felt an instant connection with Niki, especially when she shared that she also got married at Whitby. Her warmth and sincerity played a huge role in our decision and made planning as stress-free as possible. Then there was Ralph, our amazing maître d’. He was fantastic to work with in the months leading up to the wedding and on the big day itself. Ralph’s professionalism and dedication were evident in every conversation, and he went above and beyond to bring our vision for the big day to life. Rosa, the bridal attendant, was an absolute gem. Detail-oriented, warm, and friendly, she helped keep everything on track and made sure we stayed on schedule. Together with Ralph, Rosa ensured everything ran smoothly on the big day. Our wedding ceremony was beautifully set up outside in front of the Castle on a hot July day. The stunning outdoor space, complete with a picturesque willow tree where we had our first look photos, added to the magic of the day. Despite the heat, the venue's reliable indoor AC ensured our reception was comfortable, and we are happy to report it worked perfectly. We couldn't have asked for a better team or a more perfect venue. Thank you, Whitby Castle, for making our day so magical!

Whitby Castle in Rye, NY is the absolute best & most perfect place for a wedding & we very highly recommend it as your wedding venue! We got married in March 2024 on a Saturday afternoon at Whitby & it was better than we ever could have imagined thanks to the breathtaking venue & all the amazing managers & staff. We looked at 10 wedding venues in Tri-state area before finding Whitby, & we knew we had to get married there the minute we saw it. First was the gorgeous castle & grounds (flawlessly manicured lawns on Rye Golf club & striking views of LI Sound), & how the venue provided accommodations for all weather types. Next was the wedding package, which included everything needed & was the best price for all options; we couldn’t find a better price anywhere. From our first meeting w/ Niki, the Catering Sales Manager at Whitby, we knew we made the right choice. Niki handled everything w/ the venue throughout the process, including catering, vendors, amenities & all options available through Whitby. Niki took the time to get to know us & thoroughly explained the numerous elements to consider when planning our wedding. She made us feel as if she genuinely cared about us & our wedding (because she did). We later met w/ the Ops Manager, Ralph, about 3 weeks before the wedding & he was just as awesome. Ralph had all the particulars laid out for every aspect of our wedding & provided a comprehensive timeline & wedding plan. Niki & Ralph were incredibly professional & knowledgeable, & also exceedingly responsive & accommodating. Weather was no concern on our wedding day because of how Whitby operates. They have complete & functional outdoor heating throughout the wraparound patio that hosted much of cocktail hour, despite it being high 50°. We had wonderful sun on morning of our wedding, but it was windy & our ceremony would be on colder side in afternoon. We did not want our guests to sit in the cold, so we had an indoor wedding, & it was beyond stunning. The magnificent arch windows in the reception hall gave us astonishing light & scenic views for the ceremony. Regardless of weather, they set up for both options, to have our wedding inside or outside. We thought this was amazing considering how unpredictable weather can be. Some venues tend to have multiple weddings to maximize space, but we appreciated that Whitby treated us as the main event. In addition to astounding views & spectacular customer service, the entrées & various food courses were outstanding. I am not sure which our guests raved about more, the delectable food or marvelous views. We also have nothing but phenomenal things to say about Rosa, the bridal attendant at Whitby. Rosa was exceptionally attentive & helpful throughout the day. Niki, Ralph, Rosa, & our maître d', Gabriel, were all extremely organized & prepared for every scenario. There were so many moving parts & minute details involved in our wedding, but Gabriel was so on top of everything & made it a day to remember. The service was impeccable & all Whitby staff were tremendously kind & helpful. Nearly all our guests told us how it was not only the most beautiful & fun wedding they have ever been to, but the best party. Whitby gave us a wedding beyond our dreams. We couldn’t be happier w/ our wedding & we know it was all because of the venue & their fantastic team. We very highly recommend Whitby Castle as your wedding venue! Sincerely, Mr. & Mrs. David & Elissa Figueroa

This place made our wedding day so special! We were so happy to get married in a castle. It fit exactly with what we were going for and the staff really did an amazing job! The staff were so amazing and really put us at ease the day of. They were very responsive during the whole process and even reacted quickly to a certain decoration malfunction. Very professional! The maitre d and attendant were so much fun and took care of us. The Food is fantastic here! Our guests are still saying how good the food was. That really meant a lot to us. Who doesn't love a mashed potato bar during cocktail hour! It is such a beautiful venue and we were so lucky to have the day we did for some amazing photos! We had a beautiful late afternoon and so were able to have the ceremony outside in front of the castle. I can't recommend this venue enough. Having our wedding at Whitby Castle really made it a day to remember which is all you want!

We loved our experience at Whitby Castle. We were able to host the ceremony outside on the front lawn, and the castle backdrop was stunning. Niki was incredibly helpful with our questions leading up to the day, and Ralph ensured the day ran seamlessly on the actual wedding day. We did have some misunderstandings with our contract in the weeks leading up to the wedding (e.g., we were told Whitby could procure any domestic craft beers we wanted for the reception when we signed the contract, but the reality was significantly more limited), but Niki and Ralph worked with us to make sure we were happy and that they upheld their commitment to us. It is disappointing that you aren't able to guarantee access to the venue more than 2 hours prior to your event (they typically have multiple events a day), but luckily, we were able to get early access to the castle based on availability. They have a gorgeous outdoor space for the cocktail hour overlooking the golf course - we have beautiful photos from the whole night. The food was delicious (much better than we had at the tasting!) and seemingly never ending - exactly what we were hoping for! The bridal attendant was incredibly helpful as well. While the "getting ready" areas (bridal suite, groomsmen room) are smaller, our large wedding party made it feel more cramped then they are in reality. The team had appetizers and drinks set up for our group before the ceremony and during cocktail hour as well - it was great to be able to sneak upstairs to grab some food in private! Overall, it was a beautiful venue to get married. The team goes above and beyond to make sure you have a wonderful day - I would definitely recommend it to anyone looking for a venue near New York City!

Whitby Castle was beyond amazing! We were looking for a venue to host our special day. It was really hard locating a space that had not only had great service, but great food. Whitby Castle made it all happen from start to finish. They made our wedding day, memorable in so many ways. Guests are still talking about the wonderful service/kind staff, food, venue and so much more. The experience was fantastic! Special thanks Niki and Ralph for their professionalism and flexibility. The chef and his team also deserve a round applause too!

We are so in love with this venue and everyone who works here. We had an absolutely wonderful time on our wedding day and everything was set up so beautifully I have no complaints. The workers were very attentive and responsive and worked with us the whole way. Such a fantastic venue I highly recommend it!

My go-to phrase whenever anyone asked me how my wedding planning was going was that I totally lucked out with Whitby Castle. From day one, Niki & Ralph made everything so easy and seamless. Our wedding day itself was dreamy and perfect. Gabriel and Rosa made us all feel at ease and accommodated us and our needs so nicely. I really just cannot recommend Whitby enough. Our guests are still raving about how beautiful everything was and how amazing the food was. Thank you to everyone at Whitby!!

We had the perfect wedding day at Whitby Castle! Niki and Ralph helped to make our day a success. The food was great and there are SO MANY options. The staff is professional and we would recommend Whitby!