I don't even know where to begin. Charity and her boyfriend worked my daughter's wedding October 20, 2018. Within the first hour he had left to get more cider. She told me they had bought 8 and we were already out. Cider was part of the sig...nature drink and the non-alcoholic option so poor planning would be the first problem. This meant there was one bartender for 185 people. Then it was time for the toasts and she did not have the champagne ready. She had two guests help her pour the champagne. Then she approached my daughter and I to tell us that there were three hours left and we had gone through over half the alcohol and did we want them to go buy more. She said we had heavy drinkers. We said no and the rest of the night I heard from guests how she was "generous" and "heavy handed" with her pouring of the alcohol. I also had five people witness her taking shots herself. I was then told by several guests that she offered to make them a double if they wrote her a good review and she gave them her card.
If this wasn't all bad enough, she approached my daughter again and asked if we wanted to see any of our stuff...the decorations. Again my daughter said no. Later she asked my daughter if she could have two of the table flower arrangements. My daughter said she could have two. Later my daughter and I were outside and Charity came out the barn door with the flower arrangements. She acted drunk and got in my daughter's face slurring her words and going on and on about not getting flowers from her boyfriend for her birthday. When she went inside I discussed with my daughter that Charity was drunk and my daughter said that they had been making out behind the bar too. i told my daughter I would take care of it and to just enjoy the wedding. The boyfriend came out and I told him that i didn't pay them to drink our liquor and that she was drunk and he needed to do something about it. He said he would take care of it.
As the night was winding down we were starting to clean tables where guests had left. Charity said it was her job and grabbed the box from me. I told her it wasn't. The contract was for her to remove liquor and bottles from tables. I saw her start taking the mason jars that we had bought for each guest to use as their glass for the night. I approached her and said not to take the mason jars as these were for the guests to keep. She said they were behind the bar if people wanted them and walked away. It was about this time that my sister approached me to tell me the boyfriend had just taken a box of mason jars to their car and put them inside. I went outside and approached him and asked what he was doing taking our things. He said he didn't know, she had just hired him for this job and he was bringing out what she told him. He open the car door to let me get what was ours. SHE HAD STOLEN DECORATIONS, EXTRA DINNER AND DESSERT PLATES, EXTRA MASON JARS, GUESTS' MASON JARS, ABOUT FIVE TABLE FLOWER ARRANGEMENTS, AND EXTRA PACK OF 160 PIECE SILVERWARE, A BOX OF EXTRAS LIKE NAPKINS AND LIGHTS AND TAPE, AND THE BRIDAL THROW BOUQUET!!! When I took the bridal throw bouquet to the girl that had caught it, she said that she had been looking all over for it and the bartender told her a little girl took it. Unbelievable that we had to call the police on our bartender!
BEWARE! SHE TRIES TO GET EVERYONE DRUNK SO SHE CAN STEAL YOUR THINGS!!!!