Baywood is a beautiful venue. The golf course and clubhouse are gorgeous settings for pictures, first look, the ceremony, and reception. My husband and I had a great time and many of our guests said this was the most fun they had ever had at a ...wedding. We had a live band, Gatsby-themed decor and photo booth, and local wine on the bar. With this being said, there are a few things we’d like other couples to know before picking Baywood:
There will be empty promises. They have a very small staff that works every single event, which means people get burned out quickly and they can’t remember what they’ve told which bride and couple. We were told the ceremony music would be live piano, it was not and they played music from an iPod. We were told the floral arrangement from the arbor would be brought in for the reception and it was not. They offered to replace the ceiling tiles the day before the wedding which were very stained from leaks and they were not replaced. We confirmed that the beer on the bar would include Dogfish 60 minute and when guests requested it, they claimed it was only for the groom. Most importantly, they did not serve our cupcakes after the cake cutting. They took all of the forks off off the tables and told us, “We figured it was a misprint that you wanted to cupcakes served.” During the reception I had to find the kitchen staff and ask them to serve the cupcakes to our guests who were all seated and patiently waiting.
The communication is not great throughout the planning, and on the day-of. For organized brides or wedding planners, you are going to need to double check and follow-up on every detail to ensure things are what you want. I had to follow up with them when we had payments due, when our tastings were booked for, etc. Had I not asked about the payments I’m positive we would have been penalized for tardiness. The night of our wedding the coordinators were nowhere to be found, which was challenging to solve any issues that came up, such as the cupcakes not being served.
It is likely that your wedding coordinator at Baywood will change. We went through 2 wedding coordinators before our big day, and we booked 18 months in advance. When there was a change in staff, no one notified us so there were unanswered emails and phone calls, and some of our requests did not carry over from one coordinator to the next. This was really frustrating.
All in all, the day was beautiful and everything came together. However, if you do plan on choosing Baywood just be aware that there is a lot of work on your part to make sure you have the wedding you envisioned.
P.S. Additionally, we do not recommend renting properties from them. We stayed in a few of their vacation rental homes for the wedding and it is clear they have management issues. The communication from the vacation rental office was non-existent, and there were empty beer bottles in the house we rented when we first arrived. The towels and linens are shrink wrapped and you are responsible for making and stripping the beds. We loved being so close to the venue for getting ready and first look, but the process of getting the house was a mess.